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@sweetbobbybliss

2 жыл бұрын

Love that guy, but Mikhaila you absolutely nailed it, women are not a monolith and even my MGTOW philosophy needs to recognize that. Thank You

@HoodrichShinobi

2 жыл бұрын

​@@sweetbobbybliss you women sacrifice the happiness of your own children for yourself. It's so insanely selfish and horrible. It's like your kids don't even come into the equation at all.

@nunyuh111

2 жыл бұрын

@@HoodrichShinobi So all men and all women are the same? All men deserve to be in their childrens life? All women do too? That's news to me. Last time I checked anyone can be doing shit to their children when nobody's around. It's ignorant to say such a thing. Some men don't deserve to see their children. Along with some mother's. Sometimes it is in the child's best interest to be away from one parent. My parents were happily married, I'm happily married, with a daughter and we'll always work it out together and yes for her. But that's something we both agreed to. You can't force someone else's hand in things. And I know growing up my friend who's parents would fight were always so depressing to even be around. And last time I checked, it's up to God to judge. Not us internet warriors. ☝🏻 Do you even have kids? Do you actually respect your wife? Do you watch porn while in a relationship? Glance at women's cleavage? Cause a child seeing all of that is just as bad as the child seeing the mom hoe around. Both are saying the other parent isn't good enough. All I'm saying is your grass better be the absolute Greenest if you're coming at anyone like that. ☝🏻🙄

@lastnamefirstname8843

2 жыл бұрын

@@HoodrichShinobi “imma do what’s right for me”

@charissa6648

2 жыл бұрын

@@HoodrichShinobi Wait do you know her? Does she even have children? That's just strange your making all kinds of presumptions about a commenter that have nothing to do with the comment. Women are not the same. Almost every single mother I know is now married.

‘I’m fairly attractive I don’t think I’m gonna have an issue’ she’s not wrong 😅

@chanceryan7760

2 жыл бұрын

Plenty of hotter single moms out there, and their lives are dumpster fires🔥. U marry a single mom you're connected to her previous decisions in life forever

@neenerpuss

2 жыл бұрын

Did you hear her speak? You want that harping on you for the next 40 years? She’d be making your list of chores constantly. No thanks. I’d rather die… LOL!

@holistic.health

2 жыл бұрын

@Steve D omg what's up with all the trolls on this channel...

@HisFanciness

2 жыл бұрын

@@holistic.health attractiveness is very subjective my boy

@holistic.health

2 жыл бұрын

@@HisFanciness I'm a girl actually... and are you saying she's not??? Mikhaila is beautiful inside and out...

I never trust anyone who says things like “high value, less value” in regards to people.

@yikesidfk4710

2 жыл бұрын

Undervalued comment

@jonw952

2 жыл бұрын

Why? It's the truth.. Its biology. We humans are geared to think this way biologically to procreate.. Why procreate with someone who already has kids? That's competition and a potential hit on the longevity of a connection by the woman flip flopping and a waste on energy. A woman at 30 often has around 100,000-150,000 eggs in reserve. By 35, that number is likely around 80,000. Late into the thirties, that number could be 25,000, 10,000, or fewer. Women at the time of birth have about 1 million eggs and at the time of puberty have 300,000. Only 300 to 400 will be ovulated during their lifetime. Eggs once damaged or ovulated do not grow back. In terms of survival the best option would be to procreate with 19-25 year olds which has been done since the beginning of man because it was the best chance for survival and passing genes. You dont have to like it, but it is what it is.

@adiosmiamigo

2 жыл бұрын

It’s value in the dating market. Something you clearly don’t understand

@mc-fu6wo

2 жыл бұрын

So in a zombie apocalypse if you had to choose between an able bodied man or a teenage girl to be in your survival group, who would you choose. Obviously, the man because he has more overall value to your success. Stop being triggered by words and listen to the message.

@violet18

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you kind person 👍

He’s 100% correct. A man’s first preference is not to look after another man’s kids.

@carrieanne712

Ай бұрын

Yes, some barely want to look after their own!

@Stealthbwoy

Ай бұрын

People are in love with the notion of a perfect family but in reality unless you’re mature enough and financially stable a child often breaks couples up. I have previously been pursued by a single mum but I’ll be honest I didn’t really want to be anyone’s stepdad when I didn’t have kids myself and you go straight into the relationship having to be a father as the kids biological dad did the bare minimum and was always with its mother. But I did the right thing and didn’t mess with her knowing I had no intention of taking it further than fun. There’s loads of guys that do take advantage by dangling the relationship carrot.

@ZackSuru

Ай бұрын

Fact. It's like cleaning fluids after a party you weren't invited to and being expected to pay anyway.. Gross.

@delcarmen1377

Ай бұрын

And your choice for not wanting a woman with a child is valid. That doesn’t mean another man even without children thinks the same. Ive known various women with multiple children marry men without children and they even take care of them like their own and are very happy. Life is full of surprises and you can’t box anyone in.

@ZackSuru

Ай бұрын

@@delcarmen1377 You re confusing possibility and probability. It's possible to win the lottery twice... The probability is too low to stop working because it "can happen". Just like dating sm... It ends up in disaster way too often to consider it as a viable option.

There’s a difference between being a single mom with 3 different baby daddies vs being a single mom bc your ex cheated, was abusive, you’re widowed, etc

@carrieanne712

Ай бұрын

Very true

@morpheus2072

26 күн бұрын

So what. There is no way you believe every man instantly knows what your problems are. So therefore, all things EQUAL childless women are more valuable than single moms.

@St4rTr3v1Ut10n

26 күн бұрын

​@@morpheus2072Indeed, but thats kinda the point: unless you're widowed or something like that, you're not really a "single mom." It USED to be that the phrase "single mom" DID mean something bad happened to the mother: husband died or left/abused her. Now we know that's not the case, and there really should be a distinction between a 304 and a woman who was dealt a bad hand

@johnchandler1687

25 күн бұрын

If course, you'd be a fool to take her word on that " abusive, cheating" thing. Always find out the whole story. Remember, to her the man is always in the wrong.

@Rollacoastertycoon

22 күн бұрын

No

Older women, single women, childless women and single moms ALL don’t want this guy. Does he understand that ?

@katcampbell9213

Жыл бұрын

😂 Love it ! !

@maddymaddy3441

Жыл бұрын

💯

@relaxingsounds1386

Жыл бұрын

Single women with kids are less attractive to men. Not hard to figure out.

@cryptico8631

Жыл бұрын

@@relaxingsounds1386 and that's a problem. Nobody is less than anyone. It's bullshit. Single mothers already have enough on their plate, they don't need people like YOU making them feel less than. If anything, I look up to single mothers. They work hard BY THEMSELVES to provide a good life for their kid(s) So, stop being a prick, open your eyes, and being fucking respectful.

@berylsunny7306

Жыл бұрын

Hahaha, not on the same line, not same sympathy

I hate when people say "do you understand that?" when they finished talking. So condescending.

@vynd287

2 жыл бұрын

Must just happen to woman, cause im 24 and in my last 14 years i didnt hear it once, you understand that?

@Lost-mb1gj

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah shit’s cringe.

@eclipse98100

2 жыл бұрын

@@vynd287 you’re sad

@vynd287

2 жыл бұрын

@@eclipse98100 must be hard to not understand, you get that?

@patsulek1570

2 жыл бұрын

Consider the source.

He is absolutely 100% correct. Zero men prefer a single mom to a younger woman who has no kids. It’s a harsh reality.

@fruitsarelife7073

Ай бұрын

I mean women also don’t want men with children. Single fathers are low value as well to women. Indeed it’s harsh reality.

@lorenaroma

Ай бұрын

Wrong

@djimiwreybigsby5263

Ай бұрын

I'll take a mature mom with kids and her own career and life skills over a single gym thot any day

@chiefcuningcoyote4906

Ай бұрын

@@lorenaroma😂 how would u know? You’re not a man. Men don’t dream one day to marry a woman who has kids from another man, it’s not the first preference

@Auror2k05

Ай бұрын

If I'm a young guy, in college and never been in a relationship, why would I not want a woman with a clean past as well? It's so disgusting that men are forced to marry women they find unattractive. Women are not attracted to single dads and it's perfectly fine. It's just the way it is. If you are a single mom/dad, find someone who's a single mom/dad as well.

Step fathers are the most disrespected. They're just wallets.

@xpusostomos

10 күн бұрын

Yup.... And that's one big reason to avoid this scenario

@MD-nh9kh

9 күн бұрын

Step anything is a usually a bad choice

@uhm6577

2 күн бұрын

As a stepmom, I respectfully disagree 😅

@kdmac7425

2 күн бұрын

@@uhm6577 What do you disagree about? Is it fun being a step?

This aged well lol Now she’s married to someone who looks like he came out of a fairy tale

@cephas5053

2 жыл бұрын

No it proves him right even more. She contradicted everything she said by getting married. She found someone she was Familiar with

@Serpents_and_Doves

2 жыл бұрын

Didn't she get divorced?

@AmiliaCaraMia

2 жыл бұрын

@@cephas5053 yep

@LS406

2 жыл бұрын

For real! They both look like Disney characters 💗💗

@LS406

2 жыл бұрын

@@Serpents_and_Doves she got divorced before this interview, and then she recently remarried someone else.

Yikes. That’s kinda what my ex-husband said to me after we divorced. “No one wants a woman with 4 kids.” Then I met my current husband. I didn’t hide my kids. I worked full time too. I was reluctant to invite him into my home because it was messy lol. That didn’t scare him off either. We’ve been married now for 12 yrs.

@mikitesfaye8079

Жыл бұрын

Cause he couldn't do better

@thedarkestwhite9460

Жыл бұрын

poor guy

@catcoffee7958

Жыл бұрын

Stay blessed

@catcoffee7958

Жыл бұрын

​@@mikitesfaye8079 are jelous no woman wants you..

@Madelope

Жыл бұрын

And who the fuck wants a divorced man? 😂

She let me hit it raw . Now I’m a single dad 🎶

@ENDtheFED-it4bo

14 күн бұрын

Statistically, the kids have a better chance with a single dad compared with a single mom.

@RoxxiWalker

12 күн бұрын

The tables, they turned

@masonrawls6436

2 күн бұрын

@@ENDtheFED-it4bosingle dads are on pare with two parent households

The reality is that _majority_ of single moms remain single, so what Rollo is saying is absolutely true, and single moms will end up "happier" being alone

@RagTag-N-Bobtail

23 күн бұрын

No use. The delusional comments already got pushed to the top.

@MjRadha

4 күн бұрын

sad but true

She is speaking for herself. She did not make a general statement. I don't understand why people are so pressed, and as she said, the idea that all women are the same is silly.

@billybussey

2 жыл бұрын

Every single women thinks she's different and says the same thing. Men do not care about IQ. No woman is happy by herself past 35.

@lastnamefirstname8843

2 жыл бұрын

But to cling so strongly to the fact that people are unique that it’s impossible for you to understand generalizations is counterproductive.

@marshabrown7629

2 жыл бұрын

9

@coltonweir4209

2 жыл бұрын

It's not about all women being the same, it's about standard base line of attributes that people look for in choosing a mate. There is always exceptions but exceptions are always in the minority. Anyone who travels alot, has children, is financially unstable, has severe health problems, large amount of debt, history of being unfaithful, been divorced, has many short lived relationships and so on will have more difficulty in securing a high value mate. I'm not suggesting she qualifiies for all of those, just offering some examples. Without context, these are considered red flags and typically correlate with higher probability of resulting in a failed relationship. Again, it has absolutely nothing to do with marginalizing or generalizing women, and everything to do with individuals (men and women) analyzing risk with pair bonding.

@PaperCut2UGaming

2 жыл бұрын

The idea that, that’s what he mean is silly.

When I was pregnant with our second child, my ex (after cheating on me) said, “You had better be nice to me now. What man is going to want you saddled down with 2 kids.” I told him, “We can certainly find out.” I’m remarried to someone who values me now. This rhetoric is nonsense.

@Gumpmachine1

10 ай бұрын

That’s nothing to do with this man’s argument. He never suggested that single mothers can’t attract any men.

@jenpoole7291

10 ай бұрын

@@Gumpmachine1 he suggested that they were of “less value”. That is nonsense. The whole premise of value being based on external criteria is superficial and insulting. After I was a single parent, my value did not change. The number of men interested in me was lower than it was in my 20’s, but I don’t need or want to waste my time with most of those yahoos anyway. Why should I care about men who don’t truly “see” me? I don’t want a man who only loves me because I fit a criteria of what society deems valuable.

@Gumpmachine1

10 ай бұрын

@@jenpoole7291 doesn’t matter what you think your value is because you don’t decide that, the market dictates that which is men because they’re the one’s that are going to have to date you. All men and women put value’s on each other, I absolutely guarantee you’ve got some expectations from the men you date, men that can’t met those expectations are less valuable to you for maté selection. Only attractive women get the luxury of living in a Disney fairytale, try being fat, bald, broke and a man, your opinion will change real quick. Women will often use “cope” to deal with this reality by pretending they didn’t want these types of men anyway because they can’t accept their decline in sexual value.

@jenpoole7291

10 ай бұрын

@@Gumpmachine1 Response to your now deleted comment “This is what women tell themselves to feel better….” I disagree. How one sees their own value is everything. This nonsense about what society sees as valuable is ego based and shallow. I don’t find having the attention of a lot of men to be a massive benefit. As a young attractive women I was hit on a lot. Men would shape shift to pretend to have shared interests or lie to try to impress me. That was horrible and heartbreaking. I didn’t know my value and put up with a lot of nonsense. After my, let’s call it “societal value”, went down, because I was divorced and had 2 kids at 38, I went inward. I discovered my real value. Now I have an awesome partner who sees me for the depth of my character, my insight, empathy and intelligence. Yeah. He is attracted to me too, but he doesn’t make me feel like a prize breeding mare. The men on here defending this line of thinking are buying into extremely ego based thinking. I feel sorry for the “high value” women who they might manage to persuade to be with them. People find love based on shared values and heart centered connection. Anything else is ego driven and doomed to misery.

@Gumpmachine1

10 ай бұрын

@@jenpoole7291 I’ll just be straight, your beauty gets the men to notice you. Even you admitted your partner finds you attractive. Do you honestly think he’d be hanging around for your intelligence if you weren’t attractive? Cmon now

Men don't want other men's Headaches 😮

@RagTag-N-Bobtail

23 күн бұрын

"Dudes don't wanna play another dude's saved game."

@andycampbell8622

10 күн бұрын

“I’m a virgin”

@RagTag-N-Bobtail

10 күн бұрын

@@andycampbell8622 Free virgin > Responsibility for other dude's sperm monkeys & baby momma

@Jose-ch4sq

10 күн бұрын

@@andycampbell8622 Born AGAIN VIRGIN 🤪

@XwwXr

9 сағат бұрын

​@andycampbell8622 you surely look like one

Different strokes for different folks. As a married mom with a child who was never a single mother, I’ve personally not seen this to be true in my experience. I once had a man tell me after having my son that “giving birth ruins a woman”. People are always projecting their own insecurities.

@eQuariuz

27 күн бұрын

He is absolutely correct. She's responding to a general truth with a standard female defensive tactic, "i'm not like other women".

@PerfidiousPuffin

19 күн бұрын

As a man the number of women I've discounted because they are single mothers is vast. You're looking for the best out of a hundred. Sorry to tell you but if 50 of them have kids already it's the easiest decision ever to discard them. The only men considering those women are the desperate ones that few women pay any attention to.

A single mother can find a relationship but her options are limited. That's reality.

@slconcerts3497

Жыл бұрын

Nah not really. Most people always end up with somebody

@princesskf5157

Жыл бұрын

It's not limited we have to be cautious because we can't be in relationships with just anyone or with bird brain dumb men! We have to have strong men with a back bone that treat us with respect.

@johnconnor210

Жыл бұрын

@princesskf5157 of course you have to be cautious especially with under age children in the mix, goes without saying. But never the less the options are limited especially when it comes to men with plenty of them or men of a certain caliber.

@levelup9133

Жыл бұрын

@@princesskf5157 what I find funny is you didn’t care about any of the STRONG MAN talk when you gave your womb to another man. Men are not stupid. If it was that easy then you would see more and more single mothers getting married but they aren’t. Why would a man with option settle for taking care of another man’s child. Yes SOME will do it just like SOME WIN THE lottery but I’m Not going to bank on it.

@bigdeal6852

Жыл бұрын

Yes, they are limited.... that's a fact. But she is pretty and smart. So she does have that going for her. So it doesn't mean Mikhaila can't find someone....but it is limited.

Let's be real: being a single parent will definitely lose anyone points in the dating game. It's not the end of the world though and would not stop someone from finding a decent partner.

@misskim2058

Жыл бұрын

Some men actually want children and cannot have them, and are happy to have a built-in family. Hey enjoy being a manly man and a dad. (No, I’m not a mom, but I’ve seen it happen fairly often enough). That’s because not all men are as shallow as our little friend here.

@tylergaye5457

Жыл бұрын

@@misskim2058 Sure that's true, but I think most logical people in that situation would rather just adopt, instead of having to deal with another man in the situation who also has the right to see his kids.

@NoName-sp5dp

Жыл бұрын

@@misskim2058 exactly. I've met a couple men that can't have kids. I'm literally young right now, fertile and don't want kids. Men need to stop this spreading this rhetoric. There are a lot of women like me. Half my friends do not want kids at all or want to in their 30s. They better start thinking of single mom's because they won't have any kids at all.

@Albus_Rex

Жыл бұрын

@@misskim2058 You're literally talking about a super minority of men that are infertile. That's not a great basis for an argument. @NoName Having no kids is the same as raising someone else's. It's not my blood.

@ThePossumone

Жыл бұрын

My friend met his wife when she had a five year old and a new baby - he instantly fell in love with the children and saw them as a bonus - they were happy married for over 40 years

Im a single mom two different fathers. Became a mom at 19 and got married and divorced at 34. So I thought my dating and marriage life was over. My man pursued me to no end, he has no children and though it’s rare, I did not have any issues with this concept. Real life people understand life happens, but these podcasts guys couldn’t even have pulled a 7 in their best days so idk

@Gumpmachine1

Ай бұрын

There’s always some simp who will clean up the mess but that isn’t truely who you are attracted to.

@martham6

28 күн бұрын

@@Gumpmachine1it’s not as black and white as you make it out. there’s a long list of rich, successful men that have been cheated on and divorced by their wives. and tons of young, attractive women that have been treated terribly by so called “high value men”…. the grass is greener where you water it, and not all women want or need the same things to be happy.

@St4rTr3v1Ut10n

26 күн бұрын

Poor guy. If he marries you and it ends I'm sure you won't take your cash and prizes

@RonnietheDon

22 күн бұрын

As a foreign virgin girl, what this tells me is that women always lose. Even if we do what men say to do we lose. Even if we wait til marriage and have kids with a guy (AS YALL SAY WE SHUD) if he decides one day to walk out, we are left devalued? Cuz we have a body and kids. Yeah no. This type of shii always assures that men get all the advantages and women get disadvantage possible. And then American men wonder why women there dont wanna marry and have kids.

@radonspace2098

15 күн бұрын

These are the tales you tell others. Would you stay with this one this time?

She practically did the classic female response. "Not ALL women". I expect her to be smarter..

@slchance8839

2 күн бұрын

100% I rolled my eyes. I expected more from her. I would have been impressed if she said "yes, I realize that. I'm at a disadvantage, but i am thin, rich, and famous so the odds are BETTER, even though they odds are not optinal. "

I think even a woman at 35 without kids is better than a woman at 20 with kids.

@Lightblinder

8 ай бұрын

amen

@chris-dd6uq

8 ай бұрын

I would expect a 35 year old to have kids with maybe 2 guys by time they're that age. It looks worse when they're 20 or 21 with kids by 2 or 3 guys already.

@gabrieltejada1697

8 ай бұрын

As if that is common but at the same time you are also implying the one that has 20 kids is automatically going with a bunch of different guys and couldn’t possibly be with one guy or you just assume she’s that attractive to have that many dudes lining up for her 😆

@picanha694

8 ай бұрын

Ofcourse. Who the hell wants to pay for another man's ejaculate?

@ramgladore

8 ай бұрын

@@rafewheadon1963 not simping. It could mean she's a modest woman. You would have to look for other indicators or red flags to make a full assessment. But all I'm saying is that a woman without kids is preferable to one with kids.

My dad was stoked to find a mom to marry, he wanted more kids but my mom was sick and died when we were young. He got to raise more kids, be a dad to littles again, and changed their lives for the better. Now he's got my son's, his grandkids, to deal with which he loves. Not all men hate kids.

@Jaapst

11 ай бұрын

Beta men will raise other woman’s children. Lol

@griffferguson3039

11 ай бұрын

It's not that men hate kids, it's that most men would prefer to raise their own children instead of someone elses

@cookncrook6902

11 ай бұрын

He got to play make believe. If he didn’t father those children he’s not their “dad”.

@bobbyavitia

11 ай бұрын

You said all that and then ended it with such a narrow take.

@bodyofhope

11 ай бұрын

​@cookncrook6902 so adoption doesn't make you a parent?

Now u a single mom u didnt have second thoughts 😂😂😂

@reeseriddleston4867

13 күн бұрын

You said ima have his kid, don’t care if he’s here or not! 😂

@bizor22

13 күн бұрын

@@reeseriddleston4867 now u a single mom now u a single mom 😂😂😂

@BreeLove-zx5pz

3 күн бұрын

Then she got a husband and now you are bitter bob now you are bitter bob 🎶

Every single mother is the same. They think that their the exception

@RagTag-N-Bobtail

23 күн бұрын

This comment section is hilarious... "If Jordan Peterson's daughter can do it, so can I!"..... "Sweety, do you LOOK like JP's daughter? DO you have her money or social prowess?"

@RapK-fu2sh

7 күн бұрын

It's perfectly fine for men not to want to date single mothers. It's the rudeness that's very off-putting! Firstly he's sitting there addressing single mothers like they are a group that's diseased. And he's also acting like he's so superior for choosing a woman who doesn't have kids. The funny thing is men are visual creatures. If you give them the option of dating an unattractive, chubby woman who doesn't have kids vs a slim, attractive woman with a toddler.. I can bet you my last dollar, he'll pick the woman with the kid. He'll even be telling his friends "oh she only has one kid, plus her child even has brown hair like me! He could practically pass off as my own son!" Besides like she said if the woman with no kids is an airhead or is selfish, mean and narcissistic.. would you really prefer her over a woman who might have kids but is a nicer, kinder person. I personally am not open to dating single dads. But I don't go around laughing at men who are single dads, scoff at them and tell them that no woman wants them! You can have preferences without being a jerk!

As a 39 year old man, never married, no kids. Most women I have dated have had children. Definitely hard to find a woman close to my age that doesn’t have children already. I have never minded dating women with children. As long as the lady is the kind of mother I would want for my own children, I absolutely don’t mind. And if there a shit mom, it makes it pretty easy to see them for what they are, and keeps me from wasting her, or my time. I can see what this guy is “trying” to say, I think, but it comes off harsh. Things that are negatives for some, are positives for others. It’s hard to generalize all the context and content that makes ppl attractive to some and unattractive to others.

@vladimirmomperousse4340

2 жыл бұрын

Find one with no kids and go younger.

@RogueNation.

2 жыл бұрын

What is causing you to date single mothers? Are you not wanting your own children?

@hearty1240

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you'd find the one, kids or no kids.

@flower8301

2 жыл бұрын

these answers are very weird. Not every young woman also wants a very old guy. There is a maturity issue. Smart person usually looks for someone similar in intelligence/wise level.

@WooBunny

2 жыл бұрын

Keep on trying for younger and no kids, buddy. Hopefully you got the muscles, money and masculinity to see it through. Its much better than 'settling' as it shows a lack of respect on both sides. Also, consider getting some bloodwork done, I had this "wishy washy" attitude for a long time til it got fixed.

I remember this interview and "..do you understand that?" condescendant af.

@MsAponte69

2 жыл бұрын

Very condescending indeed. Seems like he may not know who she is and who her father is and how grounded this young lady is.

@paolah1828

2 жыл бұрын

That guy sounds like such a POS - poor woman whoever dated or married him

@izabeera166

2 жыл бұрын

@@MsAponte69 So her father adds a bigger value. Problem she is not like most women who are watching her and perhaps listening to her advice. Most normal women who are single moms are not rich, good looking and do not have a famous father. She is exception not a rule.

@christopheryouhanna9005

2 жыл бұрын

Missed the point. A man who wants to start his own family and not take on yours is looking for a younger woman without kids. Not a woman whose older with kids. Simple simple. It's a general point and simple to get

@jacobsl3499

2 жыл бұрын

Rollo is an interesting guy with interesting ideas, but he can be fantastically condescending at times.

“You let him hit it raw, you didn’t have 2nd thoughts”

A truly virtuous man views kids as a blessing and would willingly adopt children with the right kind of wife. Joseph, the father of Christ did not turn down Mary or Christ, who was not his blood. Joseph is humanity’s model of masculinity next to Christ. A true high value man feels generous with his wealth and resources and doesn’t stingily dole them out to only a select few. A true high value man understands that he is a role model to all children and it is a blessing to serve and guide them. A true high value man embodies the benevolent king, willing to give freely to those around him and share in his goodness. He embodies the qualities of Christ, he feeds the multitudes. Mikhaila seems to have found a true high value man in her new husband, but whoever this guy is, he’s dead wrong on what the qualities of good character are.

@DestructoDisk

Ай бұрын

The bible commands us men to marry non-virgins. Thank you for saying it.

@Zilharr

Ай бұрын

Christ was the Son of God, not the Son of Bob 😂

@MichealSanders-xb8ns

Ай бұрын

You spelled virtuous wrong. I think you meant to say gullible.

@PROVOCATEURSK

Ай бұрын

So god created 100 billion blessings for humans? Then it can´t be a blessing if everyone can have 10 of them.

@Gumpmachine1

Ай бұрын

That’s a great narrative for women to spin, reality is that’s a really terrible deal for men

If a single mom is less “valuable” then how much is the value of a single dad? How much is the value of a man who abandoned his kid/s? In comparison to his single peers who are more mature, attractive, responsible and and affectionate he’d be also pretty less “valuable”

@ajjohn8729

Жыл бұрын

Single dads are looked upon ever worse most times because it puts out the idea that hes a bad mate. Men dont care as much about mste status as women do.

@homiixide

Жыл бұрын

I’d say his value drops aswell although not as much as the woman because of multiple reasons. But women in general are more likely to take single fathers then men would take single mothers. Most men don’t want a single mother and for a good reason too. Cope more

@ajjohn8729

Жыл бұрын

@@homiixide the data shows men are far more likely to date single mothers then the inverse.

@homiixide

Жыл бұрын

@@ajjohn8729 if by date you mean smash or have a temporary relationship to smash then yeah but to wife them up or marry no

@yilmazsertbolat4324

Жыл бұрын

Why so emotional? He just said LESS valuable.

When she goes on about her positivities “I don’t have an IQ of 100, I’m not a moron, I’m fairly attractive so I don’t think I’m gonna have an issue .”…I heard her dad’s voice all day!

@madzerincognito9732

Жыл бұрын

But u can hear bigger ego than her dads

@richardpatterson4312

Жыл бұрын

​@@madzerincognito9732 no, I disagree. she was just stating facts.

@michaelb6510

Жыл бұрын

An it kinda sounds like dr evil

@edwardlenovo3240

Жыл бұрын

Although the irony is her dad would probably agree this other guy isn't completely wrong.

@yallawallahalla

Жыл бұрын

@@richardpatterson4312 Not at all. She says she’s not a moron implying people with around 100 IQ or less (the overwhelming majority of the world) are morons compared to her. She then says she’s fairly attractive even though everything about her that is attractive (physically) seems fake (make up, died hair, lip fillers, eyelashes, fake tan, fake boobs ect ect). Would you still say that’s just a statement of fact with no ego involved?

Classic: "im not like other girls" At least youve made progress realizing youre better off alone

@yhiontop

Ай бұрын

she is married now

@therealmohammad

Ай бұрын

@@yhiontopshe’s fortunate, not every girl gets that opportunity again. Now other girls are going to think she pulled it off so can I.

@russeanfolts4820

29 күн бұрын

As if a womans money or being "like super smart" is what actual men seek.

@martham6

28 күн бұрын

@@russeanfolts4820she’s saying that to make the point that she doesn’t need a guy with tons of money as she has her own. not every woman needs a gucci bag and massive house from a guy to wake up happy every day. the grass is greener where you water it.

How many of these single moms end up getting married ? This is rare.

@lorenaroma

Ай бұрын

No you are uneducated most remarry

@meshleesimpsoncool

Ай бұрын

i notice the skinny single moms have no problem remarrying. the overweight ones do

@alejandrafournier8384

29 күн бұрын

I did. To a man who's madly in love with me. :D

@user-in2qx7cv3s

28 күн бұрын

@@alejandrafournier8384 statistically speaking, you are an anomaly. the amount of 40+ year old single women with kids i have noticed is skyrocketing. for every one that was able to remarry there are 10 that have pretty much already accepted the fact that they are going to be alone indefinitely. they will have this vague notion of "if the right man comes along" then describe a guy that frankly doesn't exist, and the caliber of men they are able to attract they are disgusted by.

@RagTag-N-Bobtail

23 күн бұрын

​@@user-in2qx7cv3s Women in these echo chambers, living in the delusion of EXCEPTION rather than the general reality... If she LOOKED like Jordan Peterson's daughter- and had her status and money to boot- YES, her chances are _JUST A BIT_ higher than some emotionally-strained single mom with baby weight, day job at Starbucks, tattoo on her calf, and haughty ex-baby daddy lurking around.

My dad married my mom even though she was divorced and had a child from that marriage. He even adopted my brother when they got married :) been together for 26 years ❤️.

@davidomeara4704

Жыл бұрын

Your dad's a bitch

@yaboyflux3970

Жыл бұрын

Oh god that must’ve been hell on your father I pray he grows up and realizes his wife isn’t the one if she got divorced she’ll get divorced again well thank god I don’t got a kid like you I would’ve blown my brains out if I got married to a woman with no value

@hmmmjamz9348

Жыл бұрын

She was very lucky. Specially this day and age. Where life is just so expensive. Its hard for you to marry someone who already has a child and you will have to support. Even in the animal kingdom they kill of the offsprings when a new alpha is in charge.

@milflover6969

Жыл бұрын

@@hmmmjamz9348 incel

@cowoverthemoo

Жыл бұрын

@@hmmmjamz9348 thank God we ain't animals. Phew.

Her dad is Jordan Peterson..she will have men lining up for her 😂

@213jugg8

Жыл бұрын

Lining up for her for her dad, you sound rlly weird lmao. Make sense pls

@jc4388

Жыл бұрын

She's the biggest reason to question everything he says.

@shaebrown2872

Жыл бұрын

@@213jugg8 It’s because a lot of men want women with more traditional values

@denisedecker7330

Жыл бұрын

@@jc4388 Cain and Abel have the same parents.... I have three children they've all turned out differently. What exactly is your point?

@WaCzup

Жыл бұрын

@@denisedecker7330 You understand that Cain and Abel is just a story/myth, right? 🤣

Even if she did find the man of her dreams, it a man that no other woman wants and she’ll probably divorce him.

Best bet for single mothers is to find a single father. They then have something in common.

Glad I found a man who saw my value and we married had four more kids and spent 20 years making a happy life before he passed away.

@jamespratt7627

Жыл бұрын

Lol

@anthonybaransky137

Жыл бұрын

My most sincerest condolences for your loss and may God bless you another best friend🙂❤️❤️❤️🙂

@johnjames5842

Жыл бұрын

Women are far worse nowadays, marriage is a bad deal for men

@christopherjongte865

Жыл бұрын

​@@jamespratt7627 wtf bro 😂😂😂😂

@jjill5894

Жыл бұрын

I am So sorry Jill. My fiancé just passed away on Valentines Day too. And my daughters and I are devastated. He was/is our Rock. I’m crying for You. 💔💜💜💜

I'm married to a single Mother met her 10 years ago with a 5 year old girl at the time, she's the most determined strong caring woman i've ever met. Brought her child up on her own while having a full time job no help from the girls father although they were once married, he basically doesnt exist. She got her through school with good grades and now onto college. Literally leagues above any girl ive had relationships with in the past so due to some idiotic statements going around she has no value. No man wants a single mother... what a load of shit

@stevehamman4465

6 ай бұрын

You didn't listen! No one is saying , no man wants a single mother! What there saying is that men prefer a woman without children . Women who have children USUALLY have to settle for simps. Simps cant get tens , so they take what they can get! I figure you and your misses are on the scale from 1 to ten,,,,, a 4. But as long as your happy , that's all that matters!

@Billy-bc8pk

6 ай бұрын

You haven't met many women then.

@Mottyz

6 ай бұрын

@@Billy-bc8pk thank you hope you put your super powers of knowing fuck all to good use

@bateseanderson2667

6 ай бұрын

It's an automatic no if the girls been married before and has kids by that said marriage iam happy this dude found someone but some guys are not willing to accept just anything

@Mottyz

6 ай бұрын

@@bateseanderson2667 thanks for holding my wife with such distain but totally agree guys are not willing to except just anything thats why I married this women thought that was obvious

I feel sorry for people who place others at a lesser value simply cause they don’t meet society standards. They don’t have a clue! And that’s definitely not how God views us.

When you become a mother, your own needs take a back seat to the needs of your children.

@xpusostomos

10 күн бұрын

Ice seen too many women abandon their kids to believe that

Didn’t she just get married. Her father and mother are amazing people and a great example.

@philliprackow7153

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, that was what confused me as well... This clip feels kinda out of place if that were true.

@cristybello

2 жыл бұрын

Guys that is an interview from before she married. It is an example for Single moms to let them know they shouldnt be looking for anything but instead value themselves and be hapoy by themselves and the eventually the man who will value both her and her child will cross your path. Just live your life and do your thing and the right person will appear

@cryptohican4509

2 жыл бұрын

Did you see the husband. Looked like her younger brother.

@sukikahlon1

2 жыл бұрын

@@LanaK7777 what, already 😳, so was the kid from a previous relationship

@LegacyLife_555

2 жыл бұрын

@@cristybello that’s my life right now as a single father with full custody

He seems to be thinking every guy is looking for a woman they can have their own children with as well. Me as a recently single man who can't have children, would much perfer a woman with children that's stable and forward thinking. Guys like me exist... not every man just sees a potential for child bearing.

@pekoml3999

2 жыл бұрын

He takes away the complexity of life which is kind of dehumanizing

@christopheryouhanna9005

2 жыл бұрын

Thank God for simps like this. There's no man sitting around thinking can't wait to meet a woman who has kids already. None

@christopheryouhanna9005

2 жыл бұрын

@@pekoml3999 no it's very simple Missed the point. A man who wants to start his own family and not take on yours is looking for a younger woman without kids. Not a woman whose older with kids. Simple simple. It's a general point and simple to get

@pekoml3999

2 жыл бұрын

@@christopheryouhanna9005 I completely understand this point but let's not reduce ourselves to statistics, being a 30 yo single mother didnt prevent Mikhaila from marrying again recently, with a rich good looking man. It's more complicated than being young and childless. Looks, connection, life story etc matter too in the modern world. That's why it's so difficult to date these days, and may be why many people marry several times. When you feel good with someone you dont want to look else where. But yeah the safest option is always to date someone with no kids, I am 24, I wouldnt want to be with a much older man that already has kids and a past etc.

@leivaandre

2 жыл бұрын

@@manniefresh3425 the only time you would do that is if your desperate, OR if the single mom is rich and famous and attractive like Mikaela

Men need to stop acting like they have options 😂

"You said you gonna have his kids, don't care if he's there or not. Now you a single mom. Now you a single mom..."

As a PERSON you are valuable no matter what.

@markwilding3828

10 ай бұрын

He's not talking about intrinsic value, He's talking about value as a potential mate. From a man's point of view, considering long term involvement with a woman and pouring all your future resources into raising another man's child is not to be taken lightly.

@ExperimentalHero

10 ай бұрын

Value needs to be proven, respect needs to be earned, and no one really cares about your feelings, that's life

@susansmith493

10 ай бұрын

That wreaks of feminine energy. Fact is, men have preferences, just like you do, when looking for a partner. And single mommies are not high on their preference list. They're telling you this and then you "womansplain" their preferences away by using emotional non sequiturs. No one is saying you can't value yourself. Men are saying single mommies are not high on their preference scale.

@ethansnyder3401

10 ай бұрын

No, a PERSON really is not. Deluded Western people operate under the fantasy that all life is valuable simply for existing but this is only a perspective cultivated through a dissociation from nature which is brutal and amoral. Everything our culture cultivates is sweet little lies from santa to every woman believing she's a princess. You think you're intrinsically special and have to bring nothing to the table until any and all biological worth is used up and you're faced with the brick wall of reality that you're not special at all.

@VashtiPerry

10 ай бұрын

❤

As a former single mother (divorced) if I had it to do over I would have remained single/divorced until my kids grew up. The stepdad thing was horrible. Be very careful who you choose to reparent your children. It's MUCH better to be alone than with the wrong person.

@Missbayka

9 ай бұрын

I COMPLETELY AGREE.

@panda1412.

9 ай бұрын

Point proven...... 😂

@marinamiramontes7240

9 ай бұрын

Thanks for the heads up I will stay single 😊

@natevic1867

9 ай бұрын

A lot of male pedophiles will marry single moms just to get closer to the kids too.

@paganbornspiritbear8249

9 ай бұрын

As someone who as a child was in a parent/step-parent situation….why not allow the child’s parent to actually parent?? I get it, anger and hatred are strong emotions, but the child shouldn’t have to pay the price of two parents that can’t set their personal feelings aside for the benefit of the children they created together.

Those in the comment section has failed to see the implication of dating and marrying a single mother 1. The woman has control over the child when divorce happens. If the man is emotionally attached to the child, he becomes damaged. 2. Toxicity of the biological father and sometimes the women going back to their baby dadies. Women tend to prefer the type of man he choose to have a child with in the place. You are a replacement and she can sometimes choose to go back or cheat with the baby daddy. All these are facts, not hating on single women

@LiberPater777

Ай бұрын

Trying to snap them out of their collective delusion is next to impossible. Reality is not where they choose to reside.

@colleenackert5022

Ай бұрын

#1 That's why men adopt children when they want to maintain a relationship with them #2 When a women leaves a man because she is unhappy she rarely goes back, being alone is easier than being unhappy

@RagTag-N-Bobtail

23 күн бұрын

Always going to be that "You can't say/do that to MY child!" on tap, as a last resort... And as the kid grows up, of course, "You're not my real dad, so...x, y, z".

She don’t understand baggage and someone else’s baby is mad baggage

@RagTag-N-Bobtail

23 күн бұрын

If we were JP's daughter (and looked that good) we wouldn't have to either.

I think we need to start saying "dating value" instead of "value", I see a lot of comments on this topic where people are getting confused.

@youngvisionaryent.2759

Жыл бұрын

that is kind of implied in the context of the conversation. Women have an issue with men having standards or value markers.

@Slohrable

Жыл бұрын

That is what he is talking about but she is using clips to pander to her audience rather than get at the deeper meaning behind what he is saying.

@heartsquaremusic2953

Жыл бұрын

smv is not the same as “human” value.

@scottcantdance804

Жыл бұрын

Usually when I see people say "value" in this context, they also use the words "sexual marketplace" in the same thought or sentence, so that it's obvious what they are referring to. Not your value as a human, or a person, or as a member of society or whatever, but your reproductive value to the opposite sex.

@scottcantdance804

Жыл бұрын

@@Slohrable Yeah, it's a little irritating what she is doing in this video clip. I mean, haven't we seen the same thing done to her father more than enough times by journalists and TV stations?

Men and women "of value" don't have these conversations- they're busy doing their thing and living life.

@dragonmartijn

8 ай бұрын

There are social problems, some of us aren’t bothered with, but western society as a whole is going down the drain.

@coolbreeze5683

8 ай бұрын

Bingo

@Machihekamake

8 ай бұрын

This trend of “high value” status will fade away along with other trends. But sure I get it.

@speteydog2260

8 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@CJ-ft9yo

8 ай бұрын

Abso bloody lutey - finally - Thank you

As a single mother your value as a human, is more than any single hohoho jumping the streets.

He's not saying women are the same. He's saying men are the same. And we all basically agree on this. You eliminated a lot of the dating pool by already having a child

@RonnietheDon

22 күн бұрын

As a foreign virgin girl, what this tells me is that women always lose. Even if we do what men say to do we lose. Even if we wait til marriage and have kids with a guy (AS YALL SAY WE SHUD) if he decides one day to walk out, we are left devalued? Cuz we have a body and kids. Yeah no. This type of shii always assures that men get all the advantages and women get disadvantage possible. And then American men wonder why women there dont wanna marry and have kids..

What he’s really saying is “I don’t value single mothers as much as I value women who don’t have kids. I prefer younger women who don’t have kids regardless of whether I have kids or not”. There’s nothing wrong with not wanting to date a woman (or man) who has children. You can say you don’t want to date a woman with children WITH OUT needing to degrade and devalue women who are single mothers in the process.

@independentaquaman7424

Жыл бұрын

Unless they're widows, single mothers are automatically degraded. Same for single dads, but not as severe.

@user-nj1zu2nf1x

Жыл бұрын

What's wrong with preferring women without children? If you ask men 99% would prefer the woman that doesn't already have all the baggage. Nothing wrong with preferences

@user-nj1zu2nf1x

Жыл бұрын

He simply explaining why a large majority of men DONT want women with kids and wild expectations on top of that and if they aren't meant the woman is happy to die alone lol

@DestroAzureDx

Жыл бұрын

You're taking on kids that arent yours for her to leave you in a few years

@lizard8694

Жыл бұрын

@@user-nj1zu2nf1x did you read the comment? They quite literally explained preference and said it was okay.

the way he asked “do you understand that?” 💀💀💀💀💀 and congrats on getting married girl 😜

@themasterspiece5669

Жыл бұрын

@Joe Sar PATHETIC

@alexanderplatz517

Жыл бұрын

​@Joe Sar LOL he's a younger simp, probably had little no experience before wifing her up. I give it 5 years tops.

@mynotificationsareoff..goc358

Жыл бұрын

​@Joe Sar I feel sorry for the man who married ur mom. She's gotta deal with two idiots 😂

@jambonjawrattle6126

Жыл бұрын

Married for the second time 🤟 yep congrats

@mamabear4432

Жыл бұрын

@@jambonjawrattle6126 a lot of people can be in really bad situations, divorce and get married a second time to a different person with a much healthier atmosphere, that’s not uncommon at all.

I don’t know the full context of this conversation but I would agree with both of them.

She got married pretty quick after this. Good to see her in a happy relationship

I can’t count how many single mothers I know that have had more than one child and married good men who have never been married or had children and who not only love and value their wives, but also love their children and take care of them as their own. And these women are loved, respected, and valued and are all good women.

@Joshpower57

9 ай бұрын

I dont have any of those in my friend group. Theres a bunch of women with baby daddys that i knew from high school who are still single at 30.

@em77775

9 ай бұрын

Guys like this old, boring, unattractive man in the video act like this cant possibly happen

@solomonneville2626

9 ай бұрын

Those men are called fools

@kathleenfinneganharp

9 ай бұрын

I'm one of them. I was divorced with 4 kids. My husband now was divorced, no kids, my age. He married us. Like all humans, we all have had things to learn about getting along with each other, which takes time and patience, but he loves us and we love him, and we have a child together whom the older ones adore. It's true, even if it took work. Look for people with quality regardless of their situation. Then work together.

@d.a.455

9 ай бұрын

Imagine raising another man’s kids… Biggest cuck move possible

I think he must have been rejected by a lot of attractive single mothers who just didn’t think he was good enough for them

@organic.lifestyle.creator

11 ай бұрын

Right on

@reftrout75

10 ай бұрын

Rolo Tomosi is a married man. Has been in the game as well. Has entire male blog and books made for men by men.

@cameronhubbard7158

10 ай бұрын

Men and women’s quest for superiority has just gone next level. I don’t know what the fuck you all are talking about, no one is inferior for any reason, I personally would look to a the way a single mother is with her child as a form of compatibility for me. A kind loving smother is something I look for,just as much a a kind loving single women. Your predetermined out come for me, based of your experience, as much as it is, is determined by your own trauma, that ended your relationships, and is now seeking to dictate the outcome of mine. So warped.

@AmoreG94

10 ай бұрын

I mean yea but he’s right tho lol

@NewYorkCityGritty5

10 ай бұрын

I think these type of men "get off" on rejecting single mothers. It makes him feel like a 5 instead of a 2. To say that to her, of all people, shows his emotional intelligence is not something to be proud of. 😂😂😂

I wonder what VALUE this guy has? Talking like people are either a new car or an old beat up car. What makes people think they are the Authority on anything in this world? Things can change in an instant. I love this girls attitude and personality, she is not arrogant, doesn't seem narcissistic, and seems to be very down to Earth and I have to say that she is more than fairly attractive

He's demonic, god loves her

I love how much she talks just like her dad, it's pretty cool to hear!

@matthewpennington7387

Жыл бұрын

She sounds just like Jordan. Mannerisms and all.

@Brian-vk6tz

Жыл бұрын

Shell NEVER be Jordan

@vkkoyna7776

Жыл бұрын

@@Brian-vk6tz nobody said she was trying to be??

@bmanrrrrr

Жыл бұрын

@@vkkoyna7776 a lot of people think this average chick sounds like the great Jordan Peterson

@bmanrrrrr

Жыл бұрын

@@Brian-vk6tz 💯

Dude forgot he was talking to mini Peterson for a second 😭 she knows her worth and aint gonna let some middle aged commentator convince her otherwise 🙏🏿 more power to her

@johncrow5552

Жыл бұрын

Sorry, He is right. Why would any man want to raise someone elses kids? MOST men want to raise their own kids.

@venuztrvp

Жыл бұрын

@@johncrow5552 I mean pretty privilege is a whole other can of worms But she definitely has it

@SC-sn3xs

Жыл бұрын

@@johncrow5552 men have absolutely no problem raising other men's kids if the mom is a baddie. Your feelings does not equate to reality. Good try tho lol and this is coming from someone who doesn't have kids. Single moms don't have a problem getting men. Lol 🌈💃✨

@omanicc9854

Жыл бұрын

@@johncrow5552 because men are still simps after all and a sucker for good looks or good sex. you say that like no single mother has ever gotten remarried. it happens everyday.

@Kristain473

Жыл бұрын

🙌👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

“A message to all single moms “ - proceeds to go on personal rant

Shit the way you answered yes the fuck y'all is the same 😂

"Do you understand that" looks at her like she's 3. Edit : one year ago I made a comment about how I observed a gentleman trying to convey his message. It's funny how much I've grown since this. I understand now. Lol thanks for the 1 k and you guys are all wonderful men, and for any man that commented on this thread ; my heart will go on ❤ lol all good things, all good things 🎉😊 basically I don't really care, but nice to meet you.

@rickrossi7426

Жыл бұрын

She is like a 4

@Chunchunmaru18

Жыл бұрын

@@rickrossi7426 🤣🤣

@thesarasohrabi

Жыл бұрын

These things work or not depending on you are a facer of realities or a whiner about it... Guess which one Mikhaila is .. and which one you are.

@rickrossi7426

Жыл бұрын

@@thesarasohrabi the whiner one?

@alltheworldsastage4785

Жыл бұрын

What's your point?

‘Your value is less’ *She promptly marries an handsome, intelligent, successful man

@fka_the_body1542

Жыл бұрын

Every rule has an exception 😢

@Livhappy25

Жыл бұрын

Imagine the guy she would haven gotten if she was t a single mother divorced

@PlaceboEllie

Жыл бұрын

cos noone in real life cares about this stuff, people don't go around with their calculators adding up points

@rickcarson591

Жыл бұрын

No, this is after she married a handsome, intelligent successful man, had a kid (kids?) with him ... and then divorced him and went and hung out with a bunch of balloon-animal guys from the gym. (Apologies if I got that wrong - google says she had a kid with her (now) ex-husband in 2017) Sources: just google "Mikhaila Peterson gym" and "Mikhaila Peterson children" and you'll see. That's not to say she's wrong and the guy in the video is right, just that this isn't a hypothetical discussion - at least not for her. The guy in the video is making an 'all else being equal' comparison between two theoretical women in the dating pool, who are both valuable human beings - but one has kids and the other doesn't. And the guy is saying that the one without kids is going to have an easier time of it finding a high value guy (whatever TF that might mean) because those kind of guys will prefer the woman without kids. I think the argument can be made without reference to 'value' - simply by saying that (again - all else being equal) dating a woman without kids is fundamentally less complicated than dating a woman with kids. It's not that the woman or the kids are bad, it just (self-evidently) makes the scenario a lot more complicated. The problem is that in these discussions a lot of these internet pundits talk at cross purposes. The guys talk about women's 'dating-value', and the women they're talking to don't hear that, they hear 'value-as-a-person'. And _of course_ everyone has equal value as a person, so to them the stuff the guys is saying is clearly non-sensical. Here Mikhaila is taking that typical confusion and compounding it by being unable to understand the form of an 'all else being equal' argument -> which given who her father is is an astonishing comprehension failure on her part. I think though if you understand that the topic is a lot more personal for her than for the guy she's talking to, then it makes sense that she would indeed filter the message through a morass of emotional stuff and it gets twisted like that. As for her split with ex-hubby, as far as I'm aware she hasn't really talked about it (except in this clip), and that (AFAICT) the ex didn't want to divorce, she was the one that was driving it. The problem is when she says she was unhappy and decided to end it ... that could cover everything from she was subject to horrific abuse to she was bored and/or thought she could do better. So she could be upset because she (as the vulgar saying goes) 'fucked around and found out' (perhaps even literally), and thus she's upset that her decision has consequences. Or at the other extreme she could be upset that something horrible happened to her, she got out of it, and now that she's out she doesn't like that (through no fault of her own) she's now locked out of a certain portion of the dating spectrum and thus unfairly denied.

@THX5000

Жыл бұрын

She got banged out by Andrew Tate.

Papa Jordan gonna need to havva talk with his daughter. "I'm not like other wimmen, I'm special."

No one will ever be happier by themself...your kid will gro and have their own life while you stay single and lonely

In general a single mom will have it harder to get into a relationship than a woman with no kids. Its amazing that this statement is so hard for women to accept.

@chrisbrake622

8 ай бұрын

Regardless of attractiveness too. Lol this isn’t rocket science

@MrBezigebij

8 ай бұрын

Same goes for guys with kids from a previous relationship. Good thing society is set up that we all don’t need to settle and can choose to either be single or choose someone’s whose unique qualities make us want to be with them whatever the package. Yay for autonomy and society where women can be independent, earn what they need for their families and not have to choose men who think like it’s a meat market.

@kaylee7518

8 ай бұрын

That’s true, but it is always used as a means of talking down on women. That’s the issue.

@RealSigmaQueen

8 ай бұрын

Harder not impossible. And it all depends. I’m an average looking woman in her mid-40’s. Single Mom. Financially stable. I have oodles of men, mostly single Dads, pursuing me. It’s all about phases of life. A 50 year old single Dad isn’t chasing 25 year old woman who wants kids some day. He’s built his family. He wants sex and companionship. And like Mikhaila, I’m comfortable alone in the event I don’t find the right person.

@mindstein2823

8 ай бұрын

​@@kaylee7518cap af 🧢

Lol when I was growing up men would literally throw themselves at my mom trying to take her out and buy her shit. Men are not in short supply, decent ones are though, which is why they are worth waiting for. Edit: stop it with the mansplaining comments, I don't need you to rephrase his argument. It's condescending as hell. If you get offended at the thought of women leaving a man who is abusive to her so much that you feel personally attacked and try to tell her that she won't find love, guess what? -you're not one of the good men those women are waiting for. By agreeing with him you're basically putting a big neon sign above your head saying "I'm not a man of quality" . My mom has found happiness, been in a committed relationship for 8 years, and she's been proposed to multiple times along the way but waited for the right person and it paid off. Stop assuming shit. Women are allowed to have standards for how they'd like to be treated in a relationship.

@MH-yj5ed

Жыл бұрын

The white Kevin Samuels

@kyleg2756

Жыл бұрын

Just because they were willing to date your mom or sleep with her doesn’t mean they were willing to marry her and support her kids.

@manlikedave1

Жыл бұрын

That's because they are simps

@lukeo2982

Жыл бұрын

but be honest, were the men who were throwing themselves at your mom attractive and worth dating?

@clutchboi4038

Жыл бұрын

Yes we know. There are lot of Neanderthal men that want another man's used up roast beef sandwich. It's gross tbh.

Guess what? I’m a single mom because my kids dad was abusive. Point blank. There are reasons why moms end up single. I don’t care if another men over look,s me. I wasn’t thinking that when I got divorced. I was thinking I need to get out of this abusive relationship. Men are so disgusting on all levels.

Absolutely. I’m 42. My own apartment and car. I don’t date men with kids and men feel the same exact way tbh

single mother’s are some of the most hardworking people on their planet and you’re trying to tell me their value is less…

@imperialdebauchery5988

Жыл бұрын

Yes.

@AC-vu3mq

Жыл бұрын

@@imperialdebauchery5988 welp same goes for single fathers then

@ConservativeHippie001

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!!! 👏👏👏

@trunky37

Жыл бұрын

Doesn't matters. You'll still have to deal with a kid that is not YOURS, both biogically and legally. You'll pay for him, you'll give your time for him, your wife will giver her time to him but it still won't be your place to discipline him or to tell him what to do or not do. And if you end up having a good relationship with kid, bonding with him, and then the relationship with the mom isn't working out anymore, well say good bye to the kid cause you ain't his dad and you'll never get the rights to see him. It's beyond me why you would take that much risk, i'd rather be alone than to deal with this BS.

@AC-vu3mq

Жыл бұрын

@@trunky37 I agree with you, there is a lot of risk and I would be extremely hesitant to take on that responsibility for a single father as well. I just think it’s unfair to categorize someone as “low value” because of their situation.

My friends mom had 3 kids and she landed a multimillionaire 😭 life ain’t fair

@cheesytoenails9744

Жыл бұрын

Well she probably got cheated on a couple times.

@kitanajadefrost4663

Жыл бұрын

@@cheesytoenails9744 what makes people like you hate the idea that people can still find love with or without kids? It's so pathetic and just miserable.

@user-rx7uh9mg4f

Жыл бұрын

​@@cheesytoenails9744 Envious much? I know many single mothers that married UP. Men will cheat if they WANT to whether you're a fresh virgin or a single mom. My mom married my father as a virgin and still got set aside.

@sailorashy3847

Жыл бұрын

@@cheesytoenails9744 Just because someone's a Millionaire doesn't mean he's definitely gonna be a cheater. Also even if he cheats on her in future. She'll still be the woman who married him compared to us single young women who are still students

@IDCThrowAway

Жыл бұрын

She’s the exception but not the rule but many women will use the exception to justify them not being on point. Most women would rather have fun & take a chance on the small percentage that they’ll be one of the lucky ones

Really like how she knows her value

She ain’t listening, why is this guy even bothering.

He insulted her for no reason, but she is still calm and explains her feelings and her reasoning. She is smart.

@user-fi2mu5yx6z

9 ай бұрын

Giving facts is not insulting someone

@Gumpmachine1

9 ай бұрын

It wasn’t for no reason, she was conducting a interview and asked for his input on this subject because he’s well known for talking about this stuff

@JohnDoe-jt5lb

9 ай бұрын

She had to insult (childless) normal women with an average iq's. The aggression had to go somewhere and she knew directing it towards Rollo would have made her look weak.

@lawlessfarming9878

9 ай бұрын

Well he was telling her the truth

@sarahbouckhuyt538

9 ай бұрын

@@user-fi2mu5yx6zit is an opinion. Not a fact 😂

He’s right. As a single male with no kids, I will not even consider getting into a relationship with a single mother no matter how intelligent she is. Not saying it couldn’t work, there just are more disadvantages and baggage that come with the whole situation as opposed to starting with someone fresh.

@Mystika777

8 ай бұрын

It’s okay, we feel the same about single fathers.

@konsyansnou8623

8 ай бұрын

@greene362 As a man with no kids, having experienced relationships with few single mothers with an open mind, I can honestly say I've seen more disadvantages than advantages and baggage as little as they may be and they are always come into play. Starting fresh is always better

@karlepaul6632

8 ай бұрын

In the end, it's really simple: Nobody's putting a gun to anyone's head to make them go out with them. And I have no issue with a guy not wanting to date a woman with a kid, nor a woman not wanting to date a guy with a kid. It's a preference. Like some people aren't attracted to people who are too heavy, too thin, too short, too tall. It's just preferences. It doesn't mean that person you don't wish to be with is necessarily a terrible person or "not worthy". Just "isn't for me".

@karlepaul6632

8 ай бұрын

​@@Mystika777😆

@jonlucchargo8867

8 ай бұрын

Yeah then you have to see the kids father all the time too and the potential drama lol

Most single mothers aren't looking to date

@tigerstripey4885

Ай бұрын

No, they just get smashed by random men when they feel like it and say "I've been single for this amount of time" 😂😂😂😂

@Kelly-nt2rq

Ай бұрын

@@tigerstripey4885 yeah maybe some do. They are allowed to

I dated a single mother and it was pretty clear why she was single, many such cases.

@kanizfatima3447

2 ай бұрын

yet u dated her.. sick

@Bimbo-Balls

Ай бұрын

@@kanizfatima3447 He gave it a try and learned a big lesson.

I think people forget the power of connection. She has made a connection with someone and is now married again. So yes it is possible to find happiness but also possible to never find the one even if you have no kids. It is just life.

@ghayazali660

Жыл бұрын

Her husband might be simp 😂😂😂 no high value men marry single mom hahaha

@deejay1040

Жыл бұрын

Also true 👍

@_Death2islam360

Жыл бұрын

Connection? Hell na 😂 yall just be making shit up bruh she has a whole kid with another man tht basically saved her father mikala is just insane thts why she got plastic surgery n took over Dr. Peterson n his work

@beneficent2557

Жыл бұрын

I would withold the applause if I were you. Marriage is a marathon and not a sprint. Do you really think Simp 2 will be able to wash out the rebound's taste out of her mouth? Lol. There is often a correlation between the number of pictures on social media and the amount of insecurity a woman has.

@beneficent2557

Жыл бұрын

You seriously still think marriage is about "finding happiness?" It is closer to War than a Scavenger Hunt. You choose to make it work, especially when it all is going wrong.

Maybe no one is gonna go out of there way looking for a single mother but if he runs along and finds HER as the single mother the man might make some exceptions lmfao. Some people it’s a deal breaker, but then those people aren’t meant for you. Like she said, better to be alone when you know you’ll be happy.

@renitabentick7869

Жыл бұрын

True everyone’s opinions are different so anyone who says that you can’t find love as a single mom needs to only speak for themselves because they’re some single moms who are happily married now.

@user-rx7uh9mg4f

Жыл бұрын

E x a c t l y. I don't know why this flies over people's head. Plus, you don't need to be special for a billion people in order to be attractive. You just need to be special enough for that ONE person you want to marry. I don't care if a billion men think I'm lame. As long as my man sees me as the one and only, that's ENOUGH for me.

@bmanrrrrr

Жыл бұрын

Notice that she did not think of what was best for her child or her ex-husband. She solely thought about her own happiness. Now, her daughter does not get to hold her parents in her arms and feels that security and love. Now, her daughter lives in a broken home with all the chances of a destroyed life increased. Look up the percentage rate for step dads that abuse their step daughters. I guess Mikhailas feelings are more important than everybody else.

@Hunterbenx

Жыл бұрын

@@bmanrrrrr stop projecting

@neverabsolutelynever

Жыл бұрын

Came to type this but you said it so Ill just co-sign lol. My fiancé never saw himself dating someone with kids. I got divorced at 23 and had my son shortly after at 24. I just turned 28 and have been engage for just over a year 🙂. My fiancé slowly went from bachelor lifestyle to telling ME that HE was ready to meet my son and watching my dog while I went out of town and realizing he is ready to adopt a dog and get some responsibility 🤣. One thing lead to another and now we have two dogs, live together, and my son calls him dad. Plan to move across the country so I can go to medical school in 2024- a year from now! He is the man of my dreams and it's amazing to see what the right person can become when they want to! Wish I could attach a screenshot of our text thread lol- this man is on amazon looking for birthday presents for my son (his bday is next month) and we are deciding what couch we should get that can endure us, the dogs, and our child/our future children. 🤣 The right one always picks you.... The rest don't need to because they're not your match!

Now you a single mom! Now you a single mom!!

Every single mom I know got married with relative ease. Including myself when I was one. Ladies, don’t worry. If a man judges you for being the parent who took responsibility and stayed, that’s not a man you’d want to be with anyway! ❤️

@AK-fd1tb

2 жыл бұрын

Majority won't do that. This is frankly speaking from a man who thinks like majority of men do.

@hym3323

2 жыл бұрын

That's beautiful ❤️✨

@greenghost6416

2 жыл бұрын

Being a single mother almost never means you "took responsibility and stayed" it almost always means the opposite.

@theforcedmemefilthypapist2892

2 жыл бұрын

They're the exception and not the rule

@HoodrichShinobi

2 жыл бұрын

yes because you don't actually care about your children at all. It's all about you. Maybe your children would like to have a Mother and Father who love each other? But nope. It's all about hot girl summer and living your best life ain't it

Bro most men don’t wanna deal with single mothers on a serious level

@bathingsuitsandrainboots

9 ай бұрын

😂😂😂 MOST men aren’t worth dating bro! Good way to weed em out I say!

@sxwrtr918

9 ай бұрын

Mom divorced w 2 small kids waay back had no prob remarrying a good guy st 40. Still rockin after 45 yrs. Sister, divorced w 2 kids, remarried great guy at 39. Together 10 yrs. Cousin, widowed w 3 older kids. Remarried in her 40s. Together at least 20 yrs.

@caitm8209

9 ай бұрын

And I'm a single mom who doesn't deal with men. Lol. So no hard feelings there.

@kingkufu3122

9 ай бұрын

@@sxwrtr918 exceptions, do not make the rules

@sxwrtr918

9 ай бұрын

@@kingkufu3122 Of course they don't. But these convenient pop assumptions are not hard and fast 'rules.' They are prevailing beliefs by certain types of people that sometimes prove untrue.

She seems the exact same as 98 percent of women in america 😂

Single mom are pretty much extra baggage

Her attitude is great. "I'm going to do my thing and be happy and if a guy finds that attractive then great" if not I'm better off alone. Edit: the guy interviewing her is a condescending tool and is "in way over his head". She clearly does not have "daddy issues" she has a great dad and mom

@benevolent2077

2 жыл бұрын

Most females with normal dads and moms have daddy issues in america/Canada.

@philmehrart

2 жыл бұрын

💯 Agreed

@donnadizucchero

2 жыл бұрын

I thought he was just asking for the perspective, wish I could watch the whole piece. Like not her specifically,but "what's a girl who is in your position to do" and her message being "don't settle for less, ladies, but BE PREPARED TO WORK HARD AND BE HAPPY ABOUT IT". There are plenty of (at least at my part of the world) divorced single mothers, who are highly attractive and smart, two thirds of which are looking for a chance to get remarried(= actively participating in the market), but it's them who are condescending towards men, married women and the society in general - like "I'm carrying the heavy cross here, bow down everyone"))) wonder what their answer to that guy will be)))

@LukeWalstead

2 жыл бұрын

And to hell with what's best for the kid. As long as she didn't have to compromise with a man she thought was good enough to sleep with at the time, that's the only thing that truly matters. It's not virtuous, is shameful. You made your bed and got pregnant - lay in it. And maybe give a damn about your child's well-being over your selfish self-fulfillment.

@sageoldmann5157

2 жыл бұрын

You missed his point, just like most single moms. His point is if a man has a choice between a single mom with kids and just a single woman guess what the average man’s gonna pick the single woman without kids.

She's famous, so she doesn't play by the same rules as the rest of us.

@christopheredwards452

Жыл бұрын

But she's not famous. She's riding on her father's coat tails.

@michaeldominick8394

Жыл бұрын

Men don’t care about famous Woman care about famous

@shawncrawford8186

Жыл бұрын

Who is she?🤣🤣🤣🤣

@cheripitout3273

Жыл бұрын

What? are you even female? speak for yourself.

@cheripitout3273

Жыл бұрын

​​@@christopheredwards452 who said she has a father?

man, that was alot of words for "nobody will fuck me" edit: i'm talking about the guy

I would not consider my “value” to be less because I have children. The individuals who aren’t looking for me aren’t even on my list to begin with. Having children and being single has opened up my eyes on how I view dating. I am looking for a man who is a role model for my children. How he treats me is how he is teaching my children to treat their future partners and people in general. What I’m blessed enough to see is how this man will treat me and once I am a mother and how he will treat my children. I feel like a lot of relationships fail because they “say” how they will be as a partner or a parent and when that comes to fruition it’s no where near who they actually are. Everyone is riding the wave of hope and delusion. As a single mother, I get to see how they are after these life changes and I get to pick the right individual for my life. So in a way it’s a blessing! Unfortunately my 12 year marriage didn’t cut it. I chose to walk away regardless of what others thought of my choices because I only have one life and I don’t plan to waste it on someone who doesn’t deserve my energy and love. Everyone live your best life and follow your heart and happiness. Life is too short to care about how others view you as.

@MarkyV-oe5pn

Ай бұрын

Why didn't you stay with your baby daddy? Ehy are you trying to put the burden on a man to provide for you and your kids who are notl his? 🤔

@LeroygMusic22

Ай бұрын

So he didnt deserved your energy and love but yet you stayed there 12 years and have a kid with him, isnt that delusional? How probably you think thats supposed to make history repeat itself 🔁

*Laughs in engaged* being a single mom didn't stop me from extra happiness. This male speaking is not high value like my fiancé. My fiancé is high value he doesn't mention that he is. He is a caring man provides and protects. This dude here is a dust muppet.

@matthewpetto8942

2 жыл бұрын

Rollo is correct, she is experiencing an episode of cognitive dissonance. He wasn't comparing her to other women. He was talking in the sense of psycho-social dynamics

@raechanel3769

Жыл бұрын

I love your name! Means African Queen right?

@mimia.4810

Жыл бұрын

@QUAN TRAN and if she's was ugly or obese he'd wouldn't be with/ leave her too. What's your point?

@yaboyflux3970

Жыл бұрын

@QUAN TRAN you spitting facts

@yaboyflux3970

Жыл бұрын

Once he loses money you’ll leave him so damn fast your head will spin

She knows her value

@majorastorm

10 ай бұрын

Her value as soon as she has a kid 📉📉📉

@erxfav3197

10 ай бұрын

No she assumes it

@Anonymous-uw4sr

10 ай бұрын

wtf@@majorastorm

@brianjohnson6053

10 ай бұрын

With age and baggage the depreciation stacks up fast.

@stephsteph4503

10 ай бұрын

​@@brianjohnson6053I still think she has more value than other single moms her age.

He comes across as harsh, but I think his message is true. GENERALLY speaking, men prefer to date a woman that has no kids as opposed to having kids. It's just a fact, single moms can get mad all they want but it's the truth. Men usually want their OWN kids, not someone else's kids. It's that simple.

“I’m different” - his argument prevails

I just can’t with social media. As a nurse I see SO many women dealing with depression and suicidal ideation because this world is a MESS. No kindness. No sympathy. Just a bunch of people sitting behind phone screens with nothing better to do than project their insecurities onto others. There is someone for EVERYONE! Your value as a human being is never LESSENED ladies!

@johannesswillery7855

6 ай бұрын

Problem is all the women want the SAME GUY.

@onceagain9617

6 ай бұрын

We all face consequences for our actions. That’s just life. Women need to smarten up and stop making unforced errors. FYI the world is a lot less kind to men. Take a quick look at the suicide rates.

@wiktoriaw321

6 ай бұрын

​@@johannesswillery7855 Im not gonna lie. Some girls out there do, but some don't. Some really don't give a fuck how u look. Or if u act more masculine or feminine. Some girls out there are open to anything. U will find someone who accepts u for who u are. (Im sorry if this doesn't make sense or comes off rude. English is my second language and I really don't mean it in a rude way. I just want to say that not all women want the same guy)

@johannesswillery7855

6 ай бұрын

@@wiktoriaw321 I fully comprehend your message, and no you aren't rude. I suppose I am rude but I am disgusted by what is happening in this dating culture. I am quite fortunate that girls like me but I am blown away by how many married or otherwise attached women will try to hook up with me. No doubt there are women who are loyal, kind and passionate and well worth investing time in. But in this world they are exceedingly rare.

@aryan-yi7nc

6 ай бұрын

well ik that you find your little fairytale that you made in your head very ideal but there isnt someone for everyone in real life and your value as a woman is lessened when you are a single mom and thats a fact like it or not. and btw most suicides are committed by men just to let you know and there are more men with mental issues itw than women difference is that we get on with it and dont sit down and just cry and complain like most women do or if men cant handle it they just, off. amd we do have sympathy, just not so much that we raise someone elses kids at our own expense cause thats just dumb

She also answers questions like her dad and it’s impossible for me to get enough of that

@gutsfiend6678

2 жыл бұрын

JP usually doesn’t sprinkle in “not to mention I’m a very attractive person and have an IQ of 130”

@erpaloinen

2 жыл бұрын

Who sprinkled in that sentence? 😂

@chrisc4824

2 жыл бұрын

I was just thinking that when I heard her respond!!! I could hear her father come through as she spoke. They are very deliberate and concise when they speak.

@clacclackerson3678

2 жыл бұрын

@@gutsfiend6678 In fact it's a very JP thing to say.

@user-sky-you-shka

2 жыл бұрын

Yes the intonation was exactly the same!

That’s the best response I’ve heard from any podcast. Don’t jump around find you and raise that kid a good man will come around eventually and you’ll have the independence and mindset needed.💯

Doesn't matter what she believes or other single moms. If you won't able to build your credit score, that means you can't be trusted, same with marriage. Women say lies to each other to protect their Barby world in the bubble world.