My Inaction & Walking Away Brought Her Back. What’s Next?

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What you should do when you walked away for good after rejection but your inaction brought her back & you hooked up.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email update to the video newsletter from November 2020 titled, “Is She Playing Mind Games?” He tried dating her during the lockdowns, but she wouldn’t kiss him or allow things to advance physically. He walked away and eventually moved to another city. After about a year she started messaging him again. He told her if she was ever in his city to get in touch. She recently came to visit him for a week and said she wanted to use his body. They had non-stop sex during her visit. Now that she has gone home he is developing feelings for her and wants to start chasing her. He asks my opinion.
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  • @kvs7876
    @kvs7876 Жыл бұрын

    No matter how much you want to don’t burn that bridge! Be charming and wish them well.

  • @M1KE100

    @M1KE100

    8 ай бұрын

    @@countdowntorevolution9986your not the only one 😂

  • @frankisin
    @frankisin Жыл бұрын

    This happened to me recently. By the time she came back I had already moved on & wasn’t interested, which skyrocketed her attraction even more. Life is strange.

  • @rgy5820

    @rgy5820

    Жыл бұрын

    Same. Girl came back after 2.5 years after I left the door open but I have moved on to a younger, hotter girl. Their loss.

  • @illahee24

    @illahee24

    Жыл бұрын

    People usually don't appreciate what they have until it's gone. Goes with everything in life.

  • @droidgunner3840

    @droidgunner3840

    Жыл бұрын

    No life sucks

  • @rgy5820

    @rgy5820

    11 ай бұрын

    A little update: same girl hit me with a good morning text after no contact for 6+ months. Be indifferent and leave the door open, they'll always come back.

  • @frankisin

    @frankisin

    11 ай бұрын

    @@rgy5820 that put a smile on my face, good on you partner ;)

  • @jroll5858
    @jroll5858 Жыл бұрын

    He was just a fling for her during those 9 days. Once she went back to her town it's over. He needs forget about her & go back to no contact & look for other women

  • @evanhiggins7298
    @evanhiggins7298 Жыл бұрын

    If she remembered you from 2 plus years ago, she remembers you. Battling illusion of action can be challenging

  • @PussInBoot414

    @PussInBoot414

    Жыл бұрын

    but you can sill over pursue and end up chasing them away again, you have to play it cool and let them get things going. It is so obvious when they want to.

  • @evanhiggins7298

    @evanhiggins7298

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@PussInBoot414 it's obvious if you aren't emotionally invested in the situation.

  • @MFS6793

    @MFS6793

    Жыл бұрын

    Well said

  • @jonmatrix3153
    @jonmatrix3153 Жыл бұрын

    10-15 times may not be enough to fight those dopey Heat of the moment urges.

  • @craig8304

    @craig8304

    9 ай бұрын

    10-15 times, so you know how to show up while fighting those urges. Then, apply it over and over again to get rid of the bad habits and embody the principles in the book so you do it without thinking.

  • @BabeeBlue0x
    @BabeeBlue0x Жыл бұрын

    My fav part of the day - your videos come out on my drive home from work 🇬🇧😀

  • @BabeeBlue0x

    @BabeeBlue0x

    Жыл бұрын

    Correct!

  • @nongpaul3795
    @nongpaul3795 Жыл бұрын

    Scarcity creates values indeed

  • @oscargonza2748
    @oscargonza2748 Жыл бұрын

    Less is more with women, if the woman is highly attracted to you she'll invest more in the relationship while you give her the bare-minimum, thats why it's highly important to give each other space so that the relationship could flourish and there is no neediness and clingyness on both sides and push each other away

  • @illahee24

    @illahee24

    Жыл бұрын

    If anything, you want the woman to be the clingy one. In my experience, even when the hot women were clingy it turned me off. But it means they really REALLY like you

  • @oscargonza2748

    @oscargonza2748

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes you're right, thanks for pointing that out, bruh

  • @mangoelvis1032
    @mangoelvis1032 Жыл бұрын

    Sounds like she has a boyfriend and he was the side dude. Appreciate the fun times and date women from your city

  • @mahdman3

    @mahdman3

    Жыл бұрын

    Yup. On and off again with the boyfriend most likely.

  • @justynfogarty6209

    @justynfogarty6209

    Жыл бұрын

    Thats why u dont let ur girlfriend go on "vacation" by herself 😂

  • @mahdman3

    @mahdman3

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Jaguaist True true

  • @Lewis-me7jr
    @Lewis-me7jr11 ай бұрын

    This was a situation where she wanted no strings attached sex to get over a breakup of some sort. The fact he lives in another town made it extremely convenient because she doesn’t have to worry about him getting in the way when/if she decides to get back together with her ex (which has likely already happened). Congratulations on getting a week of non- stop sex and store it away in your mind as a fond memory . That’s all it was. Don’t burn that bridge, though, because long distance F buddies make great F buddies.

  • @bruhbruhh5103
    @bruhbruhh510315 күн бұрын

    😭 she left her cup in my room. I threw it away thinking she’ll never be back

  • @tjjordan4207
    @tjjordan4207 Жыл бұрын

    Main rule for men is that once you and a woman have broken up, no matter who initiated the breakup, do not go back to the same woman, especially if she is the one to come back.

  • @tjjordan4207

    @tjjordan4207

    10 ай бұрын

    @@countdowntorevolution9986 Golden rule is that there is a main reason for the breakup, and it is far better to move on. It would take huge paragraph to explain why, so I'll shorten it to just being that it's safer that way. Granted, there are exceptions to the rule, but those are rare and it depends on if the two people have changed in the right ways to make it work.

  • @craig8304

    @craig8304

    9 ай бұрын

    A lot of the time, a breakup is the result of the man not dating his woman or making her feel heard and understood. If those are the reasons she she left him, and he's recently found Corey, why wouldn't he want another shot at doing things right? I would. However, if the breakup is due to her cheating because she has no integrity or she is a bad communicator or just a horrible person to be around, then yeah, never take her back.

  • @johnnycalderon9951

    @johnnycalderon9951

    7 ай бұрын

    Lmfooo smh these red pill ppl

  • @FrenzyofFury

    @FrenzyofFury

    6 ай бұрын

    yup fuck'em not interested anymore. plus, i go forward in life not backwards

  • @popoffcity1989
    @popoffcity198911 ай бұрын

    I put myself in a bad position again. 2 years ago I met a girl at work, an nurse, also an LPN in the army reserves. We exchanged numbers but I did no pursuing because I had a gf. I was in a sexless relationship for four years. Finally my ex and I break up and the nurse and I start chatting and hanging out in June. In July we kissed and then hooked up 3 weeks ago. After we hooked up she went to her 3 week annual training in FT Knox. During that time we spoke every day (I feel like I ruined the excitement by talking to her so much). I’m head over absolute effing heels for this woman - she’s Army, I’m former Marine and former Army. We’re both in the medical field. We’re both ambitious. She told me how much she liked me and couldn’t wait to see me again, how she never met a man like me before, how she loves talking to me, etc etc. she flew back into Tampa on Friday and I picked her up and we just spent the whole weekend together hanging out hooking up and having fun. This morning I drove her back home. We made plans to hang out next Friday as her nursing graduation ceremony is finally happening. She told me she’s going to miss me and we kissed and said goodbye. We spoke earlier briefly but there was no real spark like there has been the last 3 weeks. I feel like I need to back off and make myself busy with other things. I’m from New York and have lived in Florida the last 4 years and I don’t really have much to do other than work, take care of my animals, and take care of my house. This is driving me crazy. I hate feeling this way. Sorry for bothering you guys just needed to get this off my chest.

  • @barksnbo3625
    @barksnbo3625 Жыл бұрын

    If she doesn’t call within the next couple of weeks, date another girl and hint at it on social media…. If she sees value in you, she’ll get in touch, if not… move on.

  • @TheColtonStreeter
    @TheColtonStreeter Жыл бұрын

    Stuff like this makes no sense to me, like yall already has sex, why is it such a big deal to do it again?

  • @ronj6038
    @ronj6038 Жыл бұрын

    OP, follow the book if you want this to happen on her next vacation A buddy lives in a convention town He has a regular rotation, based on the convention schedule

  • @DwyaneWadeCounty
    @DwyaneWadeCounty11 ай бұрын

    This is a clear case of a booty call for the female but the male is in his feelings.

  • @bodyemcal
    @bodyemcal10 ай бұрын

    3 years! I wouldn't have even bothered

  • @charlesthomas3367
    @charlesthomas3367 Жыл бұрын

    Put out my cigarette, turned and walked away. She said, I found someone new to take your place, I said, dont feel so all alone...I found somone of my own. From a song that I cant recall the title.

  • @billlohan5079

    @billlohan5079

    5 ай бұрын

    I’ve found someone of my own. By The Free Movement ,great song !!

  • @charlesthomas3367

    @charlesthomas3367

    5 ай бұрын

    @@billlohan5079 Thanks! Now I know.

  • @matteopace5880
    @matteopace5880 Жыл бұрын

    She must start some kind of interaction with me, even if she shows some attraction signals (one day she touched my hand various times, bump in to me, laugh of every joke, look to me enchanted)? She dumped me twice (she go out with me, dumped me, go out with me, and dumped me... because of unattractive behaviour), and in the last time gave "lets just be friends speech"... i said that i does not wanted, and if she changes of the ideia for she reaches out.

  • @DavidCunningham-dj5ck
    @DavidCunningham-dj5ck Жыл бұрын

    I hope that during the time between him walking away and her coming back that he's applied your principles, Coach, and has a rotation of women. Now that she's back, she would be another one in the squad. Personally, I wouldn't have anything to do with her.

  • @jabbawockeez4103
    @jabbawockeez4103 Жыл бұрын

    Hii I’m from Dubai …I have trying to find your book kindle version or I book version using the link u gave but it’s not working …can u pls help me out

  • @bodazaphfa
    @bodazaphfa Жыл бұрын

    Dude gets a sniff and is goo-goo-ga-ga.🤣

  • @Jayboogie31
    @Jayboogie31 Жыл бұрын

    Saw one of my high school crushes works at the same hospital as i do. Spoke to her got her number. Contacted her a few days later through text to and asked her to meet up. She bluntly told me that she doesn't want to meet up. I see her at my job sometimes, I'm i wrong for not saying hi to her because from her body language it looks like she would just pass me straight if i don't say hi to her which i dont

  • @oscargonza2748

    @oscargonza2748

    Жыл бұрын

    If she doesn't want a meet up then just occasionally acknowlege her presence and keep it moving, she's not worth your time, energy and resources, bruh

  • @Jayboogie31

    @Jayboogie31

    Жыл бұрын

    @oscargonza2748 thanks just thought that her bluntly saying i don't want to meet up came across as her saying f u to me because we used hang out alot in high school but i didn't know better at the time

  • @Jayboogie31

    @Jayboogie31

    Жыл бұрын

    Or mabye im just being butt hurt about and i shouldn't take it personal

  • @Justin11897

    @Justin11897

    Жыл бұрын

    What would James Bond do? 😂

  • @craig8304

    @craig8304

    9 ай бұрын

    Lol. Never date women from work. The risk of losing your job isn't worth it. However, you got her number and asked her out over text, which is the weak way to go about it. Should have just asked her out in person and arranged a definite date, then got her number in case something came up. You would have come across as more confident that way. I wouldn't ask her out again, but I wouldn't ignore her. I would be charming and just go about my work. When she sees that you're not bothered by the rejection and there is some interest there, you will gain interest points, and she may even ask you out. But if she has no interest, nothing will happen.

  • @CreatingExcellence
    @CreatingExcellence Жыл бұрын

    Big deal, four days of not hearing from her. I bet she’s on a couple dating apps. Jump on a couple dating apps and use her town as your location. I bet she’s on Bumble and Hinge. You can’t use another location from where you are located on Bumble though. Use CW’s setting up the ultimate dating profile language and let her see you on there. This changes their tune pretty quickly. Plus you get the benefit of conversing and meeting with some other horses to add to the stable…you might even come across a thoroughbred. No contact, no reaching out for birthday, do nothing except work on yourself.

  • @Wheelsandjourneys
    @Wheelsandjourneys Жыл бұрын

    Can’t he send atleast a birthday message? 😂

  • @herhe1864
    @herhe18649 ай бұрын

    You want a woman that is totally into you which is not the case here

  • @striveprime5993
    @striveprime5993 Жыл бұрын

    💪🏾💪🏾👑👑🔥🔥

  • @joeb5578
    @joeb55784 ай бұрын

    Yeah, I know. Covid was crap.

  • @benhood4248
    @benhood42486 ай бұрын

    We could use someone like Corey Wayne as Trump’s Vice President next year to help put some masculinity back into our American Culture 🫡 🇺🇸

  • @fredflinstone9774
    @fredflinstone97749 ай бұрын

    I have to add something to the video. Some women have sex with you to see if they feel something for you. I dated A Mexican woman. We had sex 4 times a day 7 days a week for two weeks. At the end of the second week she told someone she wanted to feel something for me but she couldn't so she left me and was with another guy the next day. Her friends were telling her you cant have feelings for a man so soon. It takes time. Not two weeks.

  • @jhin614
    @jhin6146 ай бұрын

    You didn't even make it to social media>))))))))

  • @CoachSteveJandS
    @CoachSteveJandS Жыл бұрын

    Of cooties and bootys

  • @rajeshpatel6593
    @rajeshpatel6593 Жыл бұрын

    1St comment

  • @staffaura660

    @staffaura660

    Жыл бұрын

    WGAF!

  • @TheInnerCosmos
    @TheInnerCosmos Жыл бұрын

    But coach, how do I keep her away? I don't want her back, she's crazy and jumps on the hood of my car when I break up

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