The main key solution to all of your problems is to focus on your goals, and walk away. They will always come back. And when they do. It's your decision on whether u wanna stay with her or not. Always remember. Us men are the prize. When we stay strong and we don't chase women. Thsy will wonder why isn't he chasing me? And she will be curious and will want to know what your doing. And they'll soon reach out to u.

@ThatGuyFerny

5 жыл бұрын

Dream Big Squad what sparks their curiosity though?? Why do they start to wonder what you’re doing when they’re the ones that pulled away in the first place??

@D0N_KATO

3 жыл бұрын

​@@ThatGuyFerny Because pulling away is a instinctive test by woman, they test if you are emotional strong. Woman always randomly pull away some affection and love, to see if you start chasing her. Dont chase her in that case, just ignore her and just wait till she comes back. If you pass this test, she will come back with increased Attraction and Respect. It needs to be a 80/20 ratio, she needs to reach out to you in 80% of the time and you in 20% of the time. Another known instinctive test of woman is the "Push-button-insecurity-test" If they find a weakpoint of you, as example you are getting bold: She will start to make fun of you or she will say something rude about it, if you become insecure in that moment and start to become aggressive or become sad, you failed her test and she will lose some respect. BUT if you DONT become insecure, and stay confident in that moment, and start to laugh about it or make fun of yourself or something like that, she will see you are not insecure about it and your reaction is confident, her respect and attraction for you will become hardcore increased. If you often fail womans test like her "Pull away test", "Push-button-insecurity-test" or her "Boundaries-Test" (Basically if you become her servant and do everything for her, NEVER BECOME A WOMANS SERVANT!!!) She 100% will lose respect and attraction for you and probably will leave you. Passing her tests and learning to build attraction in her is the secret key to a lifelong and happy relationship with a woman. Make your woman invest in you, ask her every once in a while to make something good for you, and if she do it, you make her happy in some sort of way (Make her laugh or kiss her or something that will trigger a dopamine realease. After a while her brain will connect that doing something good for you will make her happy. Always remember "YOUR PARTNER WILL TREAT YOU LIKE YOU TEACH HER TO TREAT YOU". Be a challenge for her! Be emotional strong, confident, funny, charming and always remember that she will test you for your whole life, always stay confident, if you lose your confidence, you will lose her over time. Love is complex but you can break it down to respect + attraction = love. I wish you a great life and much much success with woman!

@Studyismypride

3 жыл бұрын

@@D0N_KATO perfect

@paulmusa971

2 жыл бұрын

@@D0N_KATO you are right

@matahari8673

2 жыл бұрын

@@D0N_KATO yesss👍

" mirror her emotions", love to hear that. thanks, Chris!

Just ignore them , they always come back , they want what they can't have

@zookablade4349

7 жыл бұрын

i want answer too pls always?

@7xC5

7 жыл бұрын

soo true...

@bongkoymil6199

7 жыл бұрын

agree!

@MM-oh3uq

6 жыл бұрын

True

@mirotafra7165

6 жыл бұрын

not always, but there is big probability to it ..

From watching all of these videos, basically as a man you always have to remain calm, cool and show few emotions

@triplex2912

5 жыл бұрын

Often difficult Jordan but very true.

@triplex2912

5 жыл бұрын

Alex P. No need. That's what they do. 😊

@mayorofthenonsense

4 жыл бұрын

Well said. Another way of looking at it is like this: you simply have to be 'better' than her, or at least she has to perceive you as being better than her. The less you are affected by her emotions, and the less value you put on her, the more she sees you as being better than her. You don't have to be distant, cold, or uncaring, but rather simply demonstrate that your sense of self is unaffected by her shifting emotions. Whatever else you do, or don't have going for you, this will be your greatest ally in maintaining attraction.

@AlexHernandezGrupoMacao

4 жыл бұрын

@@mayorofthenonsense question, I'm not being distant or cold right now, my girl is acting like this. I barely call or text I just let her be. When she calls I act cool and nice like if nothing's bothering me. Is that ok?

@Studyismypride

3 жыл бұрын

@@AlexHernandezGrupoMacao till now good. Meanwhile keep improving ur self physically and place ur self better than her. It's ur next task,go do it. Don't go no contact now,b active in social media,post some pics of ur new version. Many things yaar,first start workout. Go now,enough talking,now start ur action. Good luck mate.

you only lose what you cling too .buddha ,just remember this very simple quote

@dawitabel8098

5 жыл бұрын

"You only lose what you cling on to, set it free and it will be yours forever."

@caucasianafrican1435

4 жыл бұрын

Meow. This makes sense.

I love this guy . He's the bro

@darshansubba6475

5 жыл бұрын

He is a man. You are bro

@NoDramaAllowed

5 жыл бұрын

We all brozzz

@lolbro1765

4 жыл бұрын

Broda

@benhartart9487

3 жыл бұрын

bromance

Or an even better way to put it: when you respond to her tests with indifference and slight amusement, you are basically signalling that you are prepared to walk away from her. If she is a relatively attractive woman, she will expect you to try to and win back her approval, because that's what most guys do - so by not doing so, you're sending the clear message that you can walk away at any time because you don't need her approval. And being able to walk away creates attraction.

Man u r awesome. It's like he knows everything. Every time I see ur video it makes me a different person.

omg this guy gives me positive vibes man i was upset u are legend man.

This guy is so right! I’ve use his advice and it works!

My girl was backing off from me So did I and now She's back They always come back;d Thank you man ;3

@ugniusjankauskas5393

4 жыл бұрын

@LiLReezy She messaged me like in 2 days after I started to ignore her

@ugniusjankauskas5393

4 жыл бұрын

@LiLReezy good luck bro

@ugniusjankauskas5393

4 жыл бұрын

@LiLReezy I will be happy to hear how this will come out ;3

@ugniusjankauskas5393

4 жыл бұрын

@LiLReezy just going to say that girls are fcking cruel, they spread lies, think of sh!t you never did, my "girl" was drunk af last night, I went to bring her home, but She didn't wanna go home so I spent a couple hours outside with her, She was playful and I truly felt in love with her (but She acted that way bcs She was drunk) She doesn't respond to me today idk what to do, feeling so sad and mad at her. I didn't do nothin wrong, but She thinks I did. Sorry just had to tell someone this, It's Hard for every one :(

@ugniusjankauskas5393

4 жыл бұрын

@LiLReezy wish you your best, don't get your Hopes up, you will move on and find somebody who will care for you ❤️

your videos are honestly the best, always something useful!

Golden words of him - "Just back away" 💞

I love your videos Chris ,they help me a lot

It's difficult to not be emotionally invested.. My girl told me, that I never gave her the feeling of really being into her. I also let myself go and now it's over. It's really eyeopening to watch these videos and see where I did mess things up.

Man you have great videos dude. Straight forward. And legit.

Good stuff. Thanks for sharing.

U are magic! U explain it so easy and simple

I enjoy every video of this man Really appreciated 💐

You r the best advisor ❤️ love it

Simple short vidz On Whats important is The the right way You Good homie Rs!

Run and don't stop!

Damm Man I subscribed your channal With My 12 account You are real awsome now i understand why i lose my ex...i am too needy

i like your vedeos thnk you so much i have more expreince now after watching your clips 👉👍

I understand all of this, and you're right about a lot of things.. but.. what about us, our tests to them? Why we should care "what they want from us"? What about what we really want?

This is why you should always be working on, and dating other women. That way when your main girl pulls away, it has little to no effect to your day to day operations. That way when she SOFT NEXTS you (pulls away for days or weeks at a time), fantastic, on you go with your mission, purpose, and going on your next date(s) 🙂 and during this time, DO NOT text the girl that pulled away, unless she texts you first. THEN, respond in a casual, non-needy way and assess what she wants.

nice video buddy

TBH, I can't be arsed anymore. I'm putting my money into a hareem of motorbikes now, all with solo seats. Already have my own mancave and land paid for. No more emotional blackmail. plagueing me.....freedom!

When I text or call she responde but she not keeping the conversation going she pull away from our conversation what should I do

She's an extension of my inner critic. Why would I want that back lol

Thnku sir

Perfect

Right bro...

Thats why she broke up with me im using The NC rule and if its stressful then i will do this on her

Hey chris, i need help. My gf don’t respond to my texts n calls like bfr. I asked her several times what’s up. Bt she always pissed me off with short replies. We talked about it n she said things will be cool, bt nothing has changed. What should i do ?

@j249

3 жыл бұрын

She is showing low interest and is losing attraction for you because you are showing weakness and acting needy. As a strong, high value man you should only ask your gf whats up once and then if she doesn't tell you, you leave her to come to you if she is having a problem. However, i can tell you now that she doesn't really know why she is feeling the way she is, but it is because of the way your acting. To fix this situation you need to pull away and let her come to you when she is ready, you need to show strength and indifference to her tests and actions. Watch more of Chris's videos to understand fully how to re attract you gf

Everything should be natural, the conversations, the efforts that are put in as everything requires trust and communication. If you see yourself putting more effort in a way where it isn't natural, there is clearly something wrong

With me it's either you want me or you dont I sense an issue I ask what's wrong and tell me .. if she says I'm leaving be ok cool I respect your choice and keep it moving and go no contact trust me they will come back .. they will go home maybe I was wrong about this guy.. that's when you turn em into friends with benefits but never ever go back to being committed or won't work

@jimbeamjimbean2809

2 жыл бұрын

Same issue

Chris I think I begged too much and was too available.

Can’t stop laughing 😂😂

My ex had another dude call and she wouldn’t answer her phone in front of me. What’s ya thoughts ? Real thoughts , only claiming they just friends tho but went out to eat and I guess he continues to treat her and pay on her

@jimdaniel4412

2 жыл бұрын

she is intentionally trying to make you jealous with potential replacement if not you are already replaced

Does this works with single moms? She has a lot in her plate. At first like always it was nice back and forth texting calls and everything. Now 2 weeks before she started acting like this. I stop texting that much same with calls. She calls and I answer cool and calm or if I call she answers or if I text, the same, she answers, short but she replies. I haven't ask what's wrong and thinking of not doing it. I'll wait till she says something. Deep inside dough it hurts but I'm trying to remain calm. Someone please tell me if I'm doing the right thing. Thanks

@raulyaeger

2 жыл бұрын

What happened at the end? And yeah, single moms are trouble.

@AlexHernandezGrupoMacao

2 жыл бұрын

@@raulyaeger we just left it as friends. Later found out some guy was on the way but nothing didnt happen with him also. I just decided to leave it alone and learn that the person who really cares for you will show it to you with her actions, guess what I have found somebody like that and amazing woman, beautiful, I'm a bless guy.

Ok guys I need help if she pulls back and I pull back and she hits me up when do I reply ?

@adrianshaw4639

5 жыл бұрын

igpxmaster The day after she hit you up and act like it's nothing. She's going to see what you been up to and let her know you been busy focusing on yourself. If she ask questions change the subject and don't give a fuck what she been doing you don't care that will make her mind wonder.

She blocked me , but after while she is posting on her facebook that she wants me back, what to do ? And why she did that?

@adrianshaw4639

5 жыл бұрын

Randy Or She's testing you to see how much she has you wrapped around her fingers. Make Her earn her way back. If you let her back so easily she will do it again trust me because you gave in so easily. You have to put your foot down right away and show her you don't need her.

@lukeArmstrong524

Жыл бұрын

Wait for her to come to you...

@jackmariner

Жыл бұрын

Invade Kuwait

We need to test women as well.

Sometimes we think they're testing us but they're not 😂

@cryptomillionnaire135

3 жыл бұрын

sometimes they just find someone better lol

@mattdidley9144

3 жыл бұрын

A woman will look in the rear view mirror when she leaves...if she sees a lion she'll come back sooner...if you're fragile you better get a plan in place and watch or subscribe to these coaches and ffs don't do the 30 day no contact...it works in your teens. As my wife of 20 years was handing me divorce papers, I signed them and told her " you'll be back" , it took two days, but I was right and she called off the divorce and hasn't tested me again. There is a lot of power in being a man, use it.

@Rawyalty220

2 жыл бұрын

@@mattdidley9144 facts!

If I had a girl friend who kept bugging me about going bald, i'd take her on a camping trip far far into the woods and leave her ass there.

She blocks me every where now what to do??? Should I leave her?

@crazymike1706

4 жыл бұрын

You're at the point of no return

What do you do when you make the mistake of chasing her?

@carloscabrera5311

5 жыл бұрын

You stop..lol

@alex-p

5 жыл бұрын

#1 you slap yourself in the face 5 times #2 you go no contact #3 repeat #1 every time you feel reaching out to her #4 bang new chicks

@acrididi

5 жыл бұрын

@@alex-p Ahahah made my day

I wish u had met me five years ago

what is youre email address??

She pull away and I unfollowed her and she send me a message why I did unfollowed her..I

They want a player

@josecunsako31

5 жыл бұрын

aaronrobinson48 yes they do!!! Lol they love fuck boys

@gthrusterg2858

5 жыл бұрын

You all need Jesus, all crumble until they meet Him.

What if she's jealous and not text you back, what should I do?

@donkndave7811

6 жыл бұрын

Bnoi De Erio Obre nothing.

Basically just stop giving a f and do you

Tests ha. Just move on.

It's sad what you say. We are not robots :(. It's like we are robots.

@DevelopAttraction

5 жыл бұрын

James Evun I thought this was a woman’s comment, until I saw your name...

@Exigoo

5 жыл бұрын

@@DevelopAttraction and why you think that? Man and woman it's supposed to talk e care easy h other. I mean I fall in love with a girl it's hard. Because she make me fell so energetic. But she go away. I. Continue to meet another girls. But it's hard to forget her. :(

@dreamcore

5 жыл бұрын

@@Exigoo Hey, we make some nice ones here, respect robots fembotwiki.com/images/d/dc/DaHSCVsU8AAwki7.jpg

Women... really... imagine if guys kept putting them down, telling your gf she's fat,a looser for no reason..

what dose a man get when he gets a women what dose she bring to the table? is it only sex and she can have kids

@JohnDoe-tu8jt

3 жыл бұрын

It's not worth the actual results

What if I reacted angrily sometimes and didn’t talk to her and seen her few days?

@louisgillet5178

3 жыл бұрын

If you react with anger, she will know she matters that much to you. Remain calm and resilient, it’s far more effective and less destructive of your quality of life. Courage brother

Sir my wife left me, its about 3months no contact no reply from herside. What to do to get her back

@hernstv

5 жыл бұрын

Find another wife.

@landonic81

4 жыл бұрын

Fuck all of her friends

@princes6691

4 жыл бұрын

Now what's happened bro?

@sammysainz5

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah what happened

@imranblogs2225

2 жыл бұрын

@@sammysainz5 She started liking a other guy, argue with me daily and gone,

Somehow, even though I know all the solutions, I don't feel like me becoming an ice cold asshole is a solution. Not one that I personally like, at least.

Does this work with the same sex

@NoDramaAllowed

5 жыл бұрын

Not really

After 9 months of no contact, somehow we started talking again. Now she is nice and if i invite her, she said she would come to my place. I bet i can get her back with a little effort. But i have a feeling like i can never forgive her. I can never forget the fact that she left me miserable and bleeding. Now how can i forgive her? Does anynody have this feeling? Or any suggestion for what to do?

@karankansara6947

3 жыл бұрын

Once a cheater always a cheater focus on yourself bro make yourself a great person👍

@j249

3 жыл бұрын

You have to understand the psychology of women and that they are not like men. There inner subconscious primal purpose is to find a high value strong man and have strong offspring. As a man if you show weakness, neediness and low value then a woman subconsciously gets turned off, which then causes there feelings to change towards there male partner. As a result a woman will then leave the relationship and go in search of a man that shows strength and high value. Just because a woman does this, it does not mean that she never loved you or was never in love with you or that she didn't enjoy the time she spent with you, it just means she no longer felt you where strong enough to give her the offspring she desires. As men we often look at how much time we've invested in to a relationship and all the memories we have and that makes us not want to give up on a relationship. However women do not think like that, they will appreciate all the memories and treasure them but will know when its right for them to move on. All you have to do is know that as long as you act as a strong high value man, a woman will never leave you. She left you as you showed too much weakness over time, but since then has forgot about that and has come back because you have shown strength. Once you understand this, it no longer really becomes about forgiveness, as an apology is about regretting a decision or action you made, but understanding women you realise that they will never regret leaving a man who shows weakness, as this is a primitive subconscious urge that they can not fight. Work on yourself and learn how to show strength when interacting with women and you will never have this issue again

@JohnDoe-tu8jt

3 жыл бұрын

Yup. They not real. She was prolly out riding around on the cook carousel

@kadamprashant3422

Жыл бұрын

@@j249 very true, excellent question and excellent ans too👍

I don't know how a girl will lose interest in relationship. It sud be boy who will lose interest in relationship .

@hunny333

4 жыл бұрын

When she finds someone like the same person who she is speaking

"Pass her tests"? You're kidding, right?

@dreamcore

5 жыл бұрын

Pass the tests of the jungle, if you prefer.

Bollocks to their tests. Move on.

@TheLukas135

4 жыл бұрын

Thats what let you pass. Dont try

just lose 30lbs and buy a new porsche. i guarantee she will be crawling back.

@seraphosei7402

5 жыл бұрын

Noseefood yeah

@alex-p

5 жыл бұрын

Done! What next?

@sammysainz5

2 жыл бұрын

I need to gain weight man

Neurosis,selfishness this is what is promoted

@gthrusterg2858

5 жыл бұрын

In short, satan.

Bottom line...women are like me, Meow.

Oh my God, this is complete bullcrap. My boyfriend found this and thank God he is smart enough to notice that and not try these manipulating techniques. Please, just man up and talk to your girlfriend about problems and if the relationship is not meant to be, then let each other go before it gets ugly. No need to try to control her feeling with "tricks". It's not some kind of animal behavioral training.

@austinmitchell2544

3 жыл бұрын

If you think humans aren't animals, I'm not sure how you're perceiving reality. Lol

@jimdaniel4412

2 жыл бұрын

Man up? I would leave your ass right there with that statement

@stevenkrupka3670

Жыл бұрын

Shut your trap, go make me a sammich!

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