Sounds like he doesn’t want her to leave work so if/when they divorce, she cannot claim she was dependent on him. Guarantee you that is the reason.

@justabill5780

3 жыл бұрын

And that would be a very good reason. First things first, he should have NEVER married her. She wants an easy ride and married into it. She wants to be a "stay at home mom". Okay. But I guarantee that with his income, she will be spending HIS money on things like maids or housekeepers and having food delivered while she sits on the couch watching talk shows and whines about how her life just isn't complete. I REALLY hope there was a pre-nup. Because he's gonna need it.

@GMNGChristian

3 жыл бұрын

@@justabill5780 I think they're in Canada. I just read an article the other day about how their tribunal court (or whatever they have up there) ruled that an *unmarried* man had to essentially pay his ex _girlfriend_ alimony, because regarddless that they didn't live together, they didn't own a house together, etc., the council still decided they were married because they were acting as a married couple - paperwork or not. Yeah...

@justabill5780

3 жыл бұрын

@@GMNGChristian : Yup. I read about that too. Complete insanity that proves the cards are stacked against men.

@neetrab

3 жыл бұрын

@@justabill5780 😂 okay, but after they married, that was no longer just "HIS" money. And they should've had a conversation before they married, obviously.

@justabill5780

3 жыл бұрын

@@neetrab which returns us to MY point. Men should NOT get married. It's a losing game.

I feel like Dave Ramsey is dealing more with relationship counseling issues than actual financial issues with a lot of his callers

@wwbaker3

3 жыл бұрын

He's literally not qualified to provide counseling, that's why his suggestions are often loaded with gender biases.

@TheEdward1953

3 жыл бұрын

Agree they act like he should be a marriage counselor

@angelab.3245

3 жыл бұрын

Well, he has probably been the best thing that happened to my marriage! I'm glad he doesn't turn away callers who have relationship problems mixed into the financial!

@robn314

3 жыл бұрын

Some ppl don’t seem to know the difference

@jorgesolis7897

3 жыл бұрын

Well, PERSONAL finance... Is precisely that... PERSONAL. It deals more with your personal behaviors than with financial formulas.

I do love that Dave Ramsey obviously loves his wife very much. You don’t hear men often speak of their wives so fondly.

@sellmav

3 күн бұрын

So much that it clouds his judgement

That brotha has the perfect voice for radio. Like Morgan freeman, James earl jones level.

@Mimisams6

3 жыл бұрын

He’s no longer on the show though & I wonder why....really liked him

@tyson1357

3 жыл бұрын

@@Mimisams6 he cheated on his wife with a coworker and was fired

@regularity2556

3 жыл бұрын

@@tyson1357 Oh no 😢

@CLINT-THE-GREAT

2 жыл бұрын

@@tyson1357 is that true?

@tyson1357

2 жыл бұрын

@@CLINT-THE-GREAT yea I read it somewhere but he also spoke on it in an interview, you would have to look it up tho

This woman is leaving a lot of details I'm 1000% sure there are more to it

@leslie3566

3 жыл бұрын

Agree

@22SPORTSLIVE_10

3 жыл бұрын

Of course, she is not going to say why he doesn’t want to do that. 🤔they never ask her about his opinion

@luzg5221

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed. They only been marry for a year and in a relationship for 7 years. Sounds like he is the boss.

@bookcollection2883

3 жыл бұрын

Yes she is probably a cry baby who creates a lot of nonsense when she stays at home. This is not about money. She needs to work because she will probably be a bad stay at home mom.

@MrSF247

3 жыл бұрын

@@bookcollection2883 I think you're going off of too little information to accurately use the term "probably." It's possible, but no way to say probable with any certainty. It could possibly be that since he grew up with a mother who worked in the workforce, his view of the mother's role is to do the same. Maybe he feels he'd be taken advantage of if he's the only one earning money. And that could be trust issues on his part or a skewed view of healthy roles in marriage and parenthood. Again, no way to be certain or say what is probable in this case. Many possibilities.

Husband doesn’t want to pay alimony if they divorce

@legalman07

3 жыл бұрын

Does he avoid paying alimony if she is consistently working ?

@mirlov

3 жыл бұрын

@@legalman07 yes

@susanfudge1737

3 жыл бұрын

@@legalman07 No.

@rickyaz8640

3 жыл бұрын

He makes 10x her income. He’s paying.

@quxantipe

3 жыл бұрын

@@legalman07 no, but he will have to pay significantly less.

Plot twist: he’s secretly having relations with a girl named Porsche.

@melindaunknown6411

2 жыл бұрын

Very well could be true.

@twincherry4958

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@davidsteckley8846

2 жыл бұрын

Lol

@suzum.9713

2 жыл бұрын

I'd get out the Punch-buggie...

@nathanheath1328

2 жыл бұрын

😂

This sounds like they need therapy not financial advise lol

@neutralnovelist

3 жыл бұрын

Right

@Songbird36able

Ай бұрын

They don't need therapy for him to say "sure you can come home."

Something tells me we aren't getting the entire story here.

@socialdistancingpolice6403

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. Things just aren't adding up.🤔

@dakotalisa3893

3 жыл бұрын

Not necessarily. But the question is: is there something wrong with her staying home with a young child?

@dakotalisa3893

3 жыл бұрын

@Intelligent Thanos Obviously you've never taken care of children. You must be single or you don't have any or don't care how your children are raised. I think she made a mistake in marrying this man.

@swiftmediaproductions5281

3 жыл бұрын

He thinks she will have a chad in the house taking his wife to pound town.

@Jebusmike3

3 жыл бұрын

@@dakotalisa3893 That's the thing. There is nothing wrong with that. That is why there is probably something else. If one thing is not a problem, then something else must be.

Conversation should have been had prior to having a kid. But oh well.

@bigteeist

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@Chris-tg3qy

3 жыл бұрын

I agree, but they didn’t have the conversation, so have the conversation now. It is not too late. Maybe she didn’t know she would feel this way until now.

@myrtlebeachsara

3 жыл бұрын

@@Chris-tg3qy yup, you don't really know how it will be and how you feel about your kids until you have them.

@corasbloom

3 жыл бұрын

It's so different after you have children.

@pneron2032

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe they did have it, but she's back whining about it. She's a princess. AVOID.

"If you leave, I'm coming with you."🤣

@fire12731

13 күн бұрын

Lmao that was gold

This sounds like a lie. Her name is Mercedes, and her husband makes $975k.

@Emma_madison

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@ThePerpetualStudent

3 жыл бұрын

This sounds like truth to me. I live in Orange County. Porsche and Mercedes usually come from money.

@TheTyphoon365

3 жыл бұрын

That's because it is

@NM-mc4rj

2 ай бұрын

It’s a Latin name. She might be Hispanic.

@McSquirts

2 ай бұрын

fact is stranger than fiction. an age old saying.

Growing up my Dads friend made over $300k back then it was a lot of money. His wife worked full time at a restaurant because she wanted to have her own income. Their daughter went to private school, and at 17 got a job in fast food. The father passed away when the daughter was in her 20’s she started partying and flying to night clubs on helicopters with the money she inherited. The mom still worked as a waitress because she liked people. They lived in a multi-million dollar home. The mom was always level headed. The daughter squandered her inheritance but found rich guys to bail her out. Now she’s 50 and no guys are coming to the rescue and she is completely broke. Humility goes a long way

@Jonathan01233

3 жыл бұрын

she was setup to fail.

@coleautoclark4126

3 жыл бұрын

Jonathan Brandon how do you figure? They still made her work. None of it started until the father passed...

@Itsalyssaaa13

3 жыл бұрын

Wouldn’t she get another inheritance once the mother passes as well? But yes she was set up to fail.

@coleautoclark4126

3 жыл бұрын

Blaine Alanis how was she set up to fail? Doesn’t sound like she was given everything and they made her get a job. Sounds like notes to the story

@Jonathan01233

3 жыл бұрын

@@coleautoclark4126 she did this after her father died. father probably made a deal and made her work and once she seen he die and got all the money. quit her job and party.

She needs to keep that job because it seems she's going to be a single parent.

@TartarianTopG

3 жыл бұрын

Why do you say that lol If she gets divorced she’d get child support and alimony

@LegendaryWoke

3 жыл бұрын

If she divorces she'll be FINE$$$$$

@yasminaderid683

3 жыл бұрын

So true

@Kamone111

3 жыл бұрын

Not trying to be negative but I agree!

@kiki11974

3 жыл бұрын

Well said

As a stay at home mom I would like to thank you Dave I really didn't like the idea of staying home with my kids when my husband suggested it I always worked and my parents always made it clear never to dependent on another person but now I can't thank him enough I'm so greatful of having a hardworking husband who not only works for the family but also makes time to play and actually be a part of our lives not just a workaholic!

@jamaelbaskerville4547

Жыл бұрын

Rejecting feminism

@miseendriste6337

3 ай бұрын

@@jamaelbaskerville4547 This has nothing to do with feminism. Fenimism has always been about protecting women and eliminating situations that could harm women or make them vulnerable. It's when males and scrotes such as yourself, but of a different flavour whom we call "male feminists" co-opted the feminist movement to find new ways to exploit women, have we ended up in situations like this.

@bryanbryan5214

Ай бұрын

Don’t work you shouldn’t eat! Work work work

@potato1084

Ай бұрын

⁠@@jamaelbaskerville4547This makes no sense. Feminism = allowing women to pick the path they’re most happy with. Feminists support stay at home mums because they’re women.

@potato1084

Ай бұрын

@@jamaelbaskerville4547​​⁠This makes no sense. Feminism = allowing women to pick the path they’re most happy with. They support stay at home mums.

How sad! My husband has never made more than 40-ish- thousand a year, we had nine kids, but he ALWAYS allowed me to stay home. Now he makes even less. My teens and I have been able to provide childcare for another family, so I am now bringing in some income, but that was an opportunity that came to ME. We did not pursue it. We've lived paycheck to paycheck, but have no debt. I am now using the money for home repairs, and just started a bank account for saving for the future. I'm going to have to scramble, but I do NOT regret staying home. (And, yes- it was hard making ends meet, but my being home was important to us.)

@thecramptons

Жыл бұрын

❤wonderful

@BlueDauntless

18 күн бұрын

Children are that important.

I feel like this is something they should have discussed BEFORE getting married and having children.

@IglooGirl1

3 жыл бұрын

it's not always cut & dry like that. I never thought i'd want to be a stay at home mom...until I had my child. even being pregnant, I had career goals & aspirations etc. Baby joins us & bam...all out the window. I would LOVE to be a SAHM with all my heart & would have TOTALLY planned differently to set that up had i known i'd feel this way.

@cortezbaylor1054

3 жыл бұрын

I'm sure they did, but that never matters

@hsjdkebrk

3 жыл бұрын

I'd wager money there was a discussion and that he was clear how he felt about it before they got married. She was okay with it at the time but now she's changed her mind.

@michellerichardson3090

3 жыл бұрын

Ive met a few women who have said they would go back to work when they had kids and then quit their jobs after coming back from maternity leave

@justinfrancism3208

3 жыл бұрын

This caller's husband sounds very calculated. He was with her for 7 years prior to marrying her and still wants her to work. I am of the belief that he is concerned that in the event of a divorce he would be required to pay her spousal support/alimony which is usually calculated based on income; and it would be a significant amount given his. She would be a dependent if she does not continue to work so in order to mitigate that risk he is insisting she continues to remain employed. Smart man !!!

If she wanted to be a stay at home wife, shouldn't that discussion be held before they got married?

@chiaraippoliti

3 жыл бұрын

Some people change their minds after the child is born. That happened with my asst boss. She never came back to the company but originally had every plan to do so.

@michellerichardson3090

3 жыл бұрын

I think she probably didnt and now that she's had a child she doesn't want to miss out. When I had my first child I didnt work for 6 months. Only reason I went back is because I was a single mom. I really hated putting my daughter in daycare and missed time with her

@ElmoTinker

3 жыл бұрын

@@chiaraippoliti you're right. circumstances can change

@ElmoTinker

3 жыл бұрын

@@michellerichardson3090 oh wow how are you doing now?

@michellerichardson3090

3 жыл бұрын

@@ElmoTinker im great now. At that time I moved to FL and was staying with family until I got a job. Moved in with a roommate for a year and then got my own place. Wanted more money so I moved back home to NJ. I co owned a home with family in NJ so I moved back into the house and got a job with the PO 7 months after moving back. Its been almost 7 years, have a second child but making enough to live comfortably and for my kids to have savings

I couldn't let my kid be raised by a nanny. My wife is a full time mom and I wouldn't want it any other way

@tkdevlop

2 жыл бұрын

It's not what you want it's what *she* want.

@okieking8503

2 жыл бұрын

@@tkdevlop same with her obviously

I grew up in the 60’s and 70’s and was raised by a single father that worked full time (he had no choice) and was also a college student when I was in high school. I am one year older than my sister and had to take care of her all the time. I saw what other kids had with having a mother that stayed home (the norm back then) and was acutely aware of how different my situation was and how much more responsibilities and chores I had than my friends. For these reasons, I made sure I was in a stable MARRIAGE first and I stayed home to raise our son. Sometimes it pinched a bit living on one salary, but it made my husband into a great businessman and our son grew up with a mother at home. I am a widow now, but I had 40 great years with my husband and he was very responsible and a hard worker. Because of that, he left me not owing a penny to anyone and in good financial shape. I am thankful to him and especially to God.

Let the husband call in and give his side.

@christian-gu5oq

3 жыл бұрын

Not a side dude earns 10x her income he needs to have some sense your wife spending time with your kids is key

@neetrab

3 жыл бұрын

He probably don't want to call in.

@andrewmattox1233

3 жыл бұрын

@@christian-gu5oq, Simps gonna Simp... They only have 1 kid. So she really won't be that busy.... If they had 4 or more kids, then sure, that would be a full time job. 1 kid, after getting out of diapers doesn't take that much time to care for.

@christian-gu5oq

3 жыл бұрын

Andrew Mattox What I said has nothing to do with being a simp. I’m simply looking at it financially and sensibly there is no reason for her to work. Your child’s first few years are the most important. Also, why pay a nanny that really makes her income minimal the guy in this situation isn’t using his brain.

@christian-gu5oq

3 жыл бұрын

Rod Thompson Plenty of stupid people earn millions. I don’t think he’s stupid he’s not making a financial decision. He just what he wants and some men want that just like some women refuse to not work.

That husband got dragged through the mud without getting the full story.

@allisonavery7273

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah

@renenetatm8222

3 жыл бұрын

I mean it's a show, not a courtroom and these people remain confidential. Dave is supposed to give advice on the information that he is given if he can't do that, when what's the point.

@bighands69

3 жыл бұрын

She would not be complaining about going out to work if it were not true. She clearly is having to go out to work. What sort of a husband is that?

@thesavantart8480

3 жыл бұрын

@@bighands69 one that makes 975 thousand dollars a year which means his children's futures are secure. She does not need to stay home and if he is out there doing the best he can to provide for his children then why shouldn't she? And don't worry about the children needing someone at home because the guy is probably a millionaire which means he can afford taking a few weeks to probably years off to spend time with his kids and the woman is not poor so she can afford it too. The children are fine. She just wants to exploit the husband.

@smartcookie3500

3 жыл бұрын

She's a shopaholic and probably drinks too much. If she worked before, she should work again. Nothing's wrong with earning your own money.

He's worried I'll never go back to work....So? Yes that's a man right there! A real husband who has no chance of leaving his wife for all she has and continues to give him. Love that answer.

To me, it sounds like he just doesn't trust her. Nothing else makes sense.

@SK-mr6ov

3 жыл бұрын

Lori or he wants to protect himself... divorce is inevitable these days

@tamaraderouselle7133

2 жыл бұрын

Or he's controlling.

@hustlehardermommy9675

2 жыл бұрын

Or he's selfish

There's more to this story she probably spends 300k a year that's why

@smartcookie3500

3 жыл бұрын

Definitely the case.

@ace50105010

3 жыл бұрын

😂 Savage

@goalie2998

3 жыл бұрын

Probably not his kid

@ace50105010

3 жыл бұрын

@@goalie2998 could be the case. Good point

@MrJimmy3459

3 жыл бұрын

Dave kind of dropped the ball on this one, sure he makes close to 1 million a year but they probably live like they make 2 million a year.........

Something is off about this call

Love their answers! Full time motherhood certainly is a worthy job, and possibly the most important investment in another human's life! Mothers are not lower or less than their partners who get a physical paycheck for their life's work. There is great value in being a mother.

@pamelalima5401

Жыл бұрын

Yes, it’s the hardest job I ever had in my whole life… and no money, no carrier, no vacations or day off … 24/7

@elizabethheiland5632

Жыл бұрын

Not to mention the wife's time spent at home can save money and is worth something. The husband not having to do so much housework he can work harder, do better at his job. Not paying for childcare, knowing your child is with someone you trust. These things are worth something where the money should be shared

@garyhost1830

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. But this woman is getting ready to take it all

If he saw the costs involved in daycare, not just finances, but actually losing input on how their child is raised, perhaps that might help.

@thepianist7084

3 жыл бұрын

Spot on. The costs are so much more than financial. I am grateful that my wife wanted to raise our children (even though I made about $920k less than this guy) when raising our little ones. It meant that we didn't get new furniture or travel to Europe etc. but the benefits of knowing we raised them and the relationship we have with them is beyond anything money could ever buy.

@eowyneadig7879

3 жыл бұрын

@Rikki Jo the point is her working wouldn’t be helping him financially all that much. It was a comparison of the scenarios.

@Dhuxul9

5 ай бұрын

He is worried about divorce! If she divorces while staying at home he will be on the hook for alimony spousal support for a long time

@BlueDauntless

18 күн бұрын

@@Dhuxul9She makes $90k…. She can support herself if they divorce. And he should pay child support because that’s HIS child.

@Dhuxul9

17 күн бұрын

@@BlueDauntless She won't be making 90k anymore if she stays at home plus even if she was making 90k it is still risky once a judge hears stay at home and looks at his 975k salary he is screwed

Her: “he makes 975” Ramsey: *confused look* “... what’s that mean?” Lol I felt the same

@AlexGray

3 жыл бұрын

Had I not seen the title I would’ve thought 9.75 an hour lol

@kay22100

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@_shubham_s

2 жыл бұрын

@@AlexGray minimum wage in Toronto is 14.25, but ya 9.75 wouldn’t be a livable wage here in Toronto

@kahea2018

2 жыл бұрын

😂

@cm01

2 жыл бұрын

@@_shubham_s $975 a week would have been the next guess

There has to be MUCH MORE to this story then what she is telling. We need to hear her husband’s side of the story. This makes absolutely no sense. 🤔

@airthrowDBT

3 жыл бұрын

I bet she can't cook lol

@Yawn54

3 жыл бұрын

@@airthrowDBT But even if she can’t cook, they have enough money to hire a chef and a maid if they wanted to.

@airthrowDBT

3 жыл бұрын

@@Yawn54 then why wouldn't the husband marry the maid?

@jovon7802

3 жыл бұрын

Sounds like she pinned a baby on him.

@whisperingsage

3 жыл бұрын

Could be he is a narcissitic abusive poo head and just is controlling.

My wife stays home, but she doesn't feel like she's not doing anything; she thinks she's overworked! She's not totally wrong, she has six kids to raise and homeschool plus a huge house to keep up. But she does a really good job!

@deborahblackvideoediting8697

8 ай бұрын

Homeschooling 6 children and taking care of meals, the house, etc? That job begins at 6:00am and ends at 10pm, with no vacation or sick leave!! Lol, good for her!!

@helenellsworth9556

3 ай бұрын

Hope you're fuc helping, they're your kids to and she's not your mum

@user-mf9yl2pf3v

3 ай бұрын

That sounds more taxing and demanding than most jobs, but she sounds incredible. I couldn't do that by myself, I'd need an aunt or grandma or live-in nanny to help me.

@potato1084

Ай бұрын

Wth. She is overworked. I’d much rather work a simple predictable 9-5. Hire her a maid or a helper. Also why not send the kids to normal school? If you don’t let her rest she’s gonna leave.

@dzl4546

29 күн бұрын

“Not totally wrong” 💀 this lady has 6 full time jobs bruv

These people who call in with these outrageous incomes are so ANNOYING.

@sarahmc8309

3 жыл бұрын

Right 🙈🤣 in Ireland €52 k a year is a dream !!!! And have to do degree to get that !

@sdprz7893

3 жыл бұрын

@@sarahmc8309 Yeah I had to move to England to make decent money, these guys are crazy

@mrcool76789

3 жыл бұрын

naw, more money more problems

When Mercedes realizes she is just a Buick, LOL

@spartan114m

3 жыл бұрын

Ha ha ha! Clever.

@justabill5780

3 жыл бұрын

Probably a Yugo.

@amrita3000

3 жыл бұрын

LOL

@Campers_Anonymous

3 жыл бұрын

1970 Buick at that

@romariosmith422

3 жыл бұрын

😅😅😅🤣🤣

The problem is not financial. I have seen this before. Some men are like “if I have to work, so do you”. I dint care which one works and which one stays home, but if there is ANY way one parent can stay home, and raise your children. They should and they must. No ONE will love or care for your children the way a parent will.

@EpicStays

3 жыл бұрын

As a man, I don't understand this whatsoever. I would gladly work enough so that my wife, whom I love, can stay home and raise our children. If I don't make enough and am struggling to make ends meet, then that's a different story.

@justabill5780

3 жыл бұрын

Fine. Then he should stay at home and take care of the house and kid.

@Kevinschart

3 жыл бұрын

how long do you need to stay home to raise the children? Also if she's just going to be hanging out with a kids all day with no ambition the guy is going to eventually fall out of love with her. Ramsay's wife was a pillar in the community. she stayed active.

@haroldgarling1063

2 ай бұрын

They could BOTH stay home and raise their kids if they had any sense

In other words, he thinks she was using him for his money and is now calling her bluff. Why shouldn't she work? Why shouldn't she contribute?

@theresajohnston9676

3 жыл бұрын

Raising a child isn’t work? There’s more to life than finances, and they have plenty of that. It’s not about the money. There’s an image in his mind that they have to live up to. Unfortunately, they should have talked about this before they got marrried.

@strangeaslife

3 жыл бұрын

She's contributing to society by staying hometown dedicate her time and soul to raising a good human being, plus whatever other activities she gets involved in in her community. How can people not get this through their heads.

@boxesbinslidsllc

2 жыл бұрын

She does contribute, in a job that's 24/7 365 days a year. So you'd rather pay someone to watch your child, then investing in that's child's first five years?

@nightowls7324

2 жыл бұрын

@@boxesbinslidsllc Not really. I have a cat. She is a self important princess and might scratch someone's eyes out if I leave her with a babysitter.

You are so right! I had so much guilt working outside the house and I had my kids attend the daycare; it’s nice she has the choice she should follow her heart. 💕🥰

Caller: He makes 975? Dave: what does that mean? Caller: $9.75 an hour!

@amimrie

3 жыл бұрын

That's nothing I make £13.75 lol

@lesliepressley8452

3 жыл бұрын

😅😅😅😅

@bomorgan138

3 жыл бұрын

$975 a week

@ultimaetsolder

3 жыл бұрын

Lololollol

@timothycurnock9162

3 жыл бұрын

It's more honest. I don't believe this show at all.

Had she told Dave that in addition to the $975K income that they had $10K in debt, Dave would have her continue working, picking up a second job, no more kids and living on rice & beans for a week until that debt was gone.

@FOBBIE2008

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@MzEllaful

3 жыл бұрын

Actually he's very pro family and finance is second to children.

@tomm8025

3 жыл бұрын

@@MzEllaful - And he likes to mix his religious beliefs in with finances as well. 👿👿 It's not your money, but gods money, you're just the manager of it. Nonsense!

@schues317

3 жыл бұрын

@@tomm8025 If you think it's nonsense then why are you watching him??

@joshuapmorse4780

3 жыл бұрын

@@schues317 Because sometimes nonsense is also entertaining to watch.

I remember my economics/finance teacher in high school showing my class some Ramsey presentations

I love the Ramsey Show for all the help provided to families and help to keep them together.

Shoot, my wife stays home and I make about $80K. (EDIT for the cheap seats, this is what I prefer - she's raising the kiddos and we live in a low cost of living area, we do really well with $80.)

@Kamone111

3 жыл бұрын

😭😭😭

@justabill5780

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. HE should be the one to stay home and raise the kid and she should be the one working to support them.

@missphilosophie

3 жыл бұрын

🙌

@firesign4297

3 жыл бұрын

😂 That's Just...NORMAL!😁

@christian-gu5oq

3 жыл бұрын

Good man you’re kids will benefit from it

I want to Hear the Husbands side First!!!

@TabithaDavis

3 жыл бұрын

As a woman, I agree. There's more to it.

I love Dave's responses!

Maybe his business make 975K and he brings home 50K...

@ap3055

3 жыл бұрын

facts then if she be a stay at home mom she gonna start using 150k - 200k like she worked for it or was using that much before. I don’t care if he makes a million a second, you’re still gonna work there’s no free ride and stress free life just cause I’m making a lot of money . You gonna have a job too making your own money and not draining mine.

@sourishsaha8067

3 жыл бұрын

now that makes more sense. This woman probably is a trash

@chris1z142

3 жыл бұрын

He’s an investment banker, doubt he has a lot of debt.

This makes no sense and there is stuff she didn’t say. Either he is insane or she is omitting something major. For example my sister in-law had the same problem with her husband. He makes 250k and she was complaining about him making her keep her job. When I asked he told me this. She has a house maid that comes and cleans the house 3 times per week. And she has a nanny that takes care of the baby. When I come home from work I help with the baby so what is she doing during the time am working. The maid cleans the house and the nanny leaves after I come home from work.

@random-nz7dy

3 жыл бұрын

There's definitely a lot being left out on this call. As much as I love this show it always annoys me when people call in and presented an obviously biased picture

@caseyj5597

3 жыл бұрын

What was your sister in law's response? Lol

@lvluptoaverage52

3 жыл бұрын

Casey J she tried to get my wife to help her with the baby when the husband stoped paying for the nanny and later on went back to her actuary job to pay for the nanny. They come from a very rich family and her mom never took care of them. It was the nannies that raised them.

@caseyj5597

3 жыл бұрын

@@lvluptoaverage52 But what was she doing when everyone else was cleaning the house and looking after the children? That's what the husband was complaining about and that's what I want to know now? 🤔

@lvluptoaverage52

3 жыл бұрын

Casey J lol she has a somewhat famous blog. Takes pictures of clothes she models etc

As a married man here is what I would do if I had his income. I would let her stay at home with the kids and 5 years from now I would retire and be at home with her and the kids. With my standard of living I could easily reach FIRE in 5 years making $975,000 a year and that's after taxes.

@jackiem9460

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!! I have no kids living at home and I work part-time so I can be the 'betty crocker' I want to be for my husband.

@cee1970

3 жыл бұрын

Man no kidding! Some of us work for 20 years just to make the money he makes in 1 😂😂 that would be my game plan too.

@TheTruthHurts6666

3 жыл бұрын

Heck I can retire after working one year on that income.

@lindawer

3 жыл бұрын

I wonder if he really doesn’t like his job or feels very vulnerable because of the nature of the work. The money could be here today and gone tomorrow and he’s probably seen it happen.

@Dance1617

3 жыл бұрын

Everyone thinks that they want to retire until they can. Then they find out how boring it is. It's really about being able to retire not necessarily actually doing it.

Boy-child ?? Tf… cause he doesn’t want his woman to stay home. Sounds like the man is handling business and we have only heard one side of it.

I love what Ramsey says about motherhood.

I smell a divorce coming, and she'll get her wish and won't be working after that.

@godspeed2u

3 жыл бұрын

I smell 600k in supousal support and child maintenance fee. Lol

@SledgeHammer99

3 жыл бұрын

And Dave will justify her laziness lol

@Last_one_before_I_go

3 жыл бұрын

@@SledgeHammer99 yeah he's a simp.

@SledgeHammer99

3 жыл бұрын

Scottish Clansman he called her staying home a “career” 🤦🏻‍♂️

@HammadKhan-qq7fz

3 жыл бұрын

HE SMART BRO PRENUP IS ALREADY THERE

A wife at home does more than just raise a child. She transfers values and culture, along with the father. This is desperately needed in today’s world.

@michaelhaidee

3 жыл бұрын

Amen.

@hymnodyhands

3 жыл бұрын

This is what people CONTINUALLY overlook... one of the pillars of generational wealth is that wife and mother teaching those children the respect of the man and his values that have created the bulk of said wealth, and how to walk in said values. If someone is not home to do that, it does not, and generational wealth TENDS to be destroyed.

@michaelhaidee

3 жыл бұрын

@@hymnodyhandsHow True. We need more ladies like this. And we need men who value the women who want to stay home. Restoring the family unit can transform a nation.

@michelel965

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely right!! Bring mothers home and the world will change for the better.

@Mexicobeanpole

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely.

I'm a full time stay at home mom and I must tell you it feels like a vacation... said no stay at home mom ever 🙄🙄🙄

@oshkoshbegone

Жыл бұрын

What do you do after the kid is in school? If there are no more kids... a whole lot of nothing. That's when the vacation starts

@SarahR2D2

Жыл бұрын

@@oshkoshbegone I am the school. I am a certified teacher, so my children will have the luxury of having a private teacher/ tutor. I also garden and preserve food.

@oshkoshbegone

Жыл бұрын

@@SarahR2D2 I'm not saying it's bad. But once they are in school there really isn't much for a stay at home mom to do. In your case you are homeschooling which is completely different. I honestly don't really think gardening and preserving food is anything other than a hobby. But I could be wrong.

@SarahR2D2

Жыл бұрын

@@oshkoshbegone You are wrong. Look up prepping

@oshkoshbegone

Жыл бұрын

@@SarahR2D2 end of the world prepping??

working keeps your mind sharp. nothing's wrong with that

I stayed home with my kids. And my husband's friend said that I was dragging him down and members of his family said the same. But my husband said he wanted me to stay home and raise our children. And I believed our children deserve to be raised by me not a babysitter.

@idharudhar5985

3 жыл бұрын

Was it your choice to stay at home with your kids and your husband agreed to it?

@twincherry4958

3 жыл бұрын

Such love for his family - his wife and children

@bev7236

3 жыл бұрын

Funny how people ridicule women at home raising their children but don't ridicule someone having a stranger raising their kids. I would never be ok with other people raising my children or even teaching them. What a shame that other people have to do what women have neglected and abandoned to do!

@Extremaduur

3 жыл бұрын

Did you tell your husband's friend and his family to take a hike? This is nobody's business except yours and your husband's.

@drdabdo2763

3 жыл бұрын

I had a baby sitter for five hours of the day, but my mom and or dad was with me the rest of the day, and she was like a grand mother to me and I'm still friends with her grandkids. But my parents worked together, and both really loved their jobs. Babysitters can work for some, but in this case there's seriously no need for the mom to work! Why hire a babysitter when you can easily afford to have the mother stay home?

There is more to the story.

@kingcap9928

3 жыл бұрын

Haha right Kalsi

@IamtheGL

3 жыл бұрын

What other questions do you think need to be asked?

@ericanderson7656

3 жыл бұрын

She is probably the spender in the relationship. And so he is worried she will get bored and spend a bunch of money

@godspeed2u

3 жыл бұрын

@@kingcap9928 Dave is doing great work. It will better, if we get both side of stories.

@Rileysuniques

3 жыл бұрын

Prob doesn't want to be paying alimony later. 😆 I mean its also about what he wants too, maybe he thinks she should work and sacrifice like he does? Such as not getting time with the child as she does? Who knows?

There’s a spending problem in this relationship , someone is trying to keep it under control.

@noellebatista3896

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

No way I would make my wife work if she didnt want to with that income. Im so thankful my mom was able to raise me! Its priceless

Dave is so right - motherhood is absolutely a HIGH CALLING. I loved how he emphasised the value and utmost worth regarding the role of a mother

@truebengalsfan

9 ай бұрын

Tell feminism that

@miseendriste6337

3 ай бұрын

@@truebengalsfan This has nothing to do with feminism. Fenimism has always been about protecting women and eliminating situations that could harm women or make them vulnerable. It's when males and scrotes such as yourself, but of a different flavour whom we call "male feminists" co-opted the feminist movement to find new ways to exploit women, have we ended up in situations like this.

I like what Dave Ramsey tells his wife about leaving. Just about the best dam thing a man could ever say to his wife!

@BonnieHalfElven

3 жыл бұрын

Jon Bon Jovi has been quoted as saying the same thing!

Amazing video, A friend of mine referred me to a financial adviser sometime ago and we got to talking about investment and money. I started investing with $150k and in the first 2 months, my portfolio was reading $274,800. Crazy right!, I decided to reinvest my profit and get more interesting. For over a year we have been working together making consistent profit just bought my second home 2 weeks ago and care for my family.

@TimMcGraw-et7nq

Ай бұрын

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@TimMcGraw-et7nq

Ай бұрын

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@TimMcGraw-et7nq

Ай бұрын

Lookup with her name on the webpage.

@TimMcGraw-et7nq

Ай бұрын

@JudeSouthgate You are welcome

Being a stay at home mom is the most important and best thing I have ever done!

I have been married for 25 years and my wife has not had any job for 17 years and we’re happy it’s not my money it’s Our money. Two children 19 and 17.

@katrina3560

3 жыл бұрын

A true partnership, right? 🙌 I can't wrap my head around these men and women saying "give the kid to daycare...she will become lazy and obese if she stays home....she will cheat and take your money " our society is falling apart and I don't wonder why.

@Sombra_Azul_

3 жыл бұрын

Are they yours?

@greenluxi

3 жыл бұрын

@@katrina3560 Truly. We're doomed if a woman staying home to raise her children and keep her home is controversial. But the silver lining is that most of these terrible comments are from bitter men, who statically don't make nearly enough money for them to be concerned with this decision. Many are living vicariously through this man's salary to exert their beliefs that the role of a mother is to be devalued and disrespected.

@biellaspointofview2054

3 жыл бұрын

Nothing wrong with that as long as it's a "till death do us apart" type of marriage. I hope you make a lot cause if something happens to you, she'll need some money otherwise the lack of job experience on her part won't look good to employers.

@darianmagness8217

3 жыл бұрын

@@katrina3560 Trust me when I tell you that a lot of the women in my generation are the kind of people to expect the man to literally do all the work. I’m talking about expecting the man to pamper her and treat her like a “queen” while she sits back with her only redeeming quality being her looks. Let’s be honest it’s partially because of the way they were raised. You guys are talking about old fashioned values where it’s expected to trust your spouse. It’s difficult to find someone you actually can nowadays. Y’all need to switch up your mindset to account for the now very high divorce rate which has been consistently on the rise since the 80s. I love some old fashioned values, but I think marriage should be a team effort. My generation doesn’t think like yours. My generation barely know what morals are honestly because they were never taught that it was even a factor they should take into account. This creates people who are entitled, lazy, and opportunistic at the expense of others. I just don’t understand why the older generations scrutinize us for how reality sadly is now when y’all are the ones that raised them to be this way. I’m all for accountability, but let’s be honest, how a child is raised greatly impacts how they turn out. Environmental factors do play a role for sure.

For all the people saying "Her husband just doesn't want her to be a lazy trophy wife" has clearly never raised/taken care of children that much...the full time job that never ends, either you pay someone to take care of your kids or you do it yourself...there is no other options

@nicholasselke5214

8 ай бұрын

Or could’ve not had kids in the first place. That’s what I did. I absolutely refuse to pay for someone else’s life And that’s also why I won’t ever get married

@Gamebreaker08

4 ай бұрын

That's fair, but then a lot of women want the husband to take on their duties when they get off work. It doesn't work like that.

@fauxbro1983

4 ай бұрын

It ends when they start school. Why you think "wine moms" is a thing?

@jennys999

3 ай бұрын

@@Gamebreaker08 Why not? The husband works 40 hours a week for a salary. The wife works 40 hours a week looking after the kids, saving the money otherwise used to pay for child care (which could easily add up to the 10s of thousands depending on number of kids). Then when each couple has finished their 40 hours of work, they split household and childcare duties. The children get the best care possible, neither parent is overstressed, win-win for everyone.

This is the kind subject that Ramsey can only comment but can’t make a call. It’s up to every couple. And the person we need to convince is not even in the room. This lady should have a good conversation with her husband. There are tones of reasons he may not welling to have a stay at home wife, and it’s not necessarily he is planning for a divorce.

And leading with the Heart is the best advice.

I see alimony and child support in their future.

@angelhighlight5154

3 жыл бұрын

The man sees it to that’s why he wants her to have her own source of income so she wouldn’t tell the judge she doesn’t have income and make the man pay spousal support or more than needed

@SA-yp3xh

3 жыл бұрын

He would pay child support and spousal maintenance regardless of her income.

@TaureanDreams

3 жыл бұрын

It’s more beneficial for her to stay than to leave

@dr.aviator

3 жыл бұрын

JenniferPerry1988 says the woman.

@TaureanDreams

3 жыл бұрын

Dr. Taurean Walker ????

0:20 she says "KINDA be a stay at home mom". Yeah, there's something she's not saying.

@chancequick7356

3 жыл бұрын

Yea I think it’s a marriage for money

@achavez78

3 жыл бұрын

She "KINDA" wants to receive a $500K annual salary for child support and alimony

Please note: Dave took his wife through Bankruptcy before he had major success, so Sharon is “vested” and proven her loyalty to the family. If the caller wants to stay home, find a man that will pay for it…….🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

She must have a spending problem because this makes no sense.

Her name is Mercedes that's a red flag in itself...

@hymnodyhands

3 жыл бұрын

Not in Canada with its stronger French influence...

@runningdebate2670

3 жыл бұрын

@@hymnodyhands She's in Toronto, not Quebec.... Have you ever been to Toronto?

@81MHT

3 жыл бұрын

Mercedes used as a name is more Latin/Spanish. French don’t use it.

@madambillie863

3 жыл бұрын

😂

@TheCatD

3 жыл бұрын

lol

This woman is up to something it’s too fishy, I don’t trust this lady.

@simeoda

3 жыл бұрын

Because she wants to raise her child??

@JoeOf91

3 жыл бұрын

@@simeoda no because she never explained the full story. there's a reason to it. maybe his income isn't always going to be 950k. maybe if something happens to him and the wife has been out of work for a while, he doesn't want their lifestyle to be affected down the line. if they both can hire a nanny for 50K, they can save a lot for their future. it should be discussed internally and not like this. she seems like she's going behind his back for someone to take her side. i wouldn't be surprised if they end up breaking up lol

@JoeOf91

3 жыл бұрын

@Danbu Hsma full story means she never explained his side fully to why he doesn't want her to stay home because there's a reason to it. oh please i grew up in a 3rd world country, and most people hire house maids to raise their kids. people in the west don't actually hire someone unless they're wealthy. so idk why you say it western society lost its morals. this is a finance show. obviously they're good with money. she should be talking with someone else who can help.

@lil8579

3 жыл бұрын

@@JoeOf91 I agree with you, you can hire a house maid to do all the work. I think he doesnt see the value to keep her at home, since he can get any meal he wants at any time, most likely he doesnt want to eat pasta every day or frozen meals. Alos he can pay someone to wash his cloths, So really he doesnt see the benefit on her been at howuse wife because he can afford everything.

Great job guys! Stay home sister!

Thank you Mr. Ramsey for acknowledging a woman's incredible career. Sounds like this dear woman's husband needs to go to the Scriture and find out his duty as provider and protector and acknowledge her place in the marriage as helpmate and teacher of her children.

@dougsmith3821

Жыл бұрын

Yea until yall are crying for equality, and if they divorce he has to pay her a fortune bc that's fair right???

Dave would have a different opinion if she made 900,000 a year and he wanted to stay home.... he would say dump him and get a real man.

@gideon9849

3 жыл бұрын

someone should make that call

@murraybeachtel8585

3 жыл бұрын

Seen Dave several times supportive of stay at home dads. He doesn’t care as long as both sides are putting the work in.

@songriver1232

3 жыл бұрын

No he wouldn't

@kindnesscounts6894

3 жыл бұрын

I've heard him be supportive of dads over the years.

@cdx451

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

I LOVE that Dave acknowledged moms can’t win - they’re guilty if they work in the workplace and they’re guilty if they stay at home. So true, and nice to see a man acknowledging that. Now how do we fix it?!

@shurlongloudon3759

3 жыл бұрын

Who's fault is that?

@ranger34ab

2 жыл бұрын

And men get blamed for missing sports, unaware of their children's doctors, teachers, etc. Both sides give something up and make sacrifices

@secrets.295

2 жыл бұрын

Stop feeling guilty and go to work and shut your mouth. My mom work for 43 years and still working. She said she never felt guilty leaving her kids to go to work. Not that she doesnt love her kids, her kids mean the world to her and her kids turned out to be just fine. Be professional and stop complaining. The less you complain, the more you work hard. The more productive you will be in your work and family life.

@Carolinagirl1028

2 жыл бұрын

@@secrets.295 This isn't about complaining about working. It is about the no win guilt that comes either way. If we work then we are guilted that we don't spend enough time with our kids, that we chose a job over our kids, that the babysitter and not us raised our kids, etc. However if we don't work we are called lazy and entitled women that sit at home all day, we are stereotyped as not having a life, looked down upon because we don't have a place in the secular world, talked about because we aren't supporting our family (especially if the family is making sacrifices so the mom can stay at home), etc. We are guilted and stereotyped either way. This isn't about working vs not working, it's about the fact that everyone should support whatever the mother's choice is, to work outside the home or be a stay at home mom, because they are equally important.

@mrgaudy1954

Жыл бұрын

You don't need to fix it, just live the way you want to and stop griping about how people you don't even know (maybe) perceive you.

Just because someone is making that kind of money doesn’t mean they are financially secure,He probably want her to continue to work because of the debt their in

If she divorced him she could probably live off the child support he would have to pay under the guidelines in Canada.

@nfwarrior3000

2 жыл бұрын

Most countries have those laws

It seems like people call in just to brag about how much they make. None of this makes sense.

@Welcometothenow

3 жыл бұрын

I agree. I literally said the same thing.

@ap3055

3 жыл бұрын

not how much they make it’s how much he makes.

@claudiacanales2662

3 жыл бұрын

Totally agree! She feels like she needs to call Dave to figure this out? Give me a freakin break! Complete show off!

He's probably worried she'll get bored and cheat.

@edgehodl4832

3 жыл бұрын

Thats what happened to my friends, tinder makes it super easy

@KB-sg7tv

3 жыл бұрын

@Dr. Johnny Sins That's f**ed up to assume that. People don't cheat as a result of having spare time, they cheat as a result of being an immoral person.

@c.w.1925

3 жыл бұрын

No he’s worried she’ll have too much time on her hands bc he is cheating.

@Smartguy561

3 жыл бұрын

I know he didn't ask, but she's probably very attractive physically. More than likely he's afraid that if she stays home, she will let herself go and grow obese like so many other women do when they choose to stay home. He is not unreasonable in his thinking.

@someguynamedvictor

3 жыл бұрын

Statistically she probably already is.

A proof that money does not buy happiness.

@vs0063

2 жыл бұрын

You preachin sis! Facts.

All imma say is….I know better than to just take the woman’s word an undisputed truth. I would love to hear the man’s side of the story

We really. Really. Need to hear his side. Married for a year? My guess he thinks she will then divorce him and claim she has a zero income and take him for all he is worth. Or he feels like she married him just so she could live off him and he feels like he was used. The reality is: they should have addressed kids and how they will he raised (especially with his income) in pre marriage counseling. My guess is they didn't. And now it comes up a year in and, well the guy makes 1 mil a year how would he not be wondering about this?

@marquestanderson1388

3 жыл бұрын

@@MicheleNichols2 I know he trusts her now, but people change. The same spouse you talk to before you have kids transforms( especially your wife) after having kids. You're honestly not dealing with the same person spiritually, mentally, and biologically. Marriages are made because you trust the person they are. prenups/ doubts are created for the different person they'll become. If that makes sense

@barrymall156

3 жыл бұрын

C Cc

@random-nz7dy

3 жыл бұрын

@@MicheleNichols2 true but people change. Again we don't know his side. Considering his income I think fair to say we can't assume she is a complete victim.

@mandysimmons2769

3 жыл бұрын

I like your name Cornsnake!

@random-nz7dy

3 жыл бұрын

@@mandysimmons2769 haha thanks

She knew all along that she would forever not have to work a job once they had kids 😂😂

@smartcookie3500

3 жыл бұрын

She was patient, like a spider. She played the long game.

@essenceaquarius9958

3 жыл бұрын

@@smartcookie3500 lol

@97I30T

3 жыл бұрын

Oh man, my coworker and his wife made a deal back when they had their kids that she would go back to work after a certain period of time when their sons were old enough. Well, she never went to back to work and you can hear the resentment in his voice whenever he talks about it because she didn't hold up her end of the deal.

She's investing a tremendous trust in her husband. 20 years from now if he decides to go for a younger woman, and she has no career , she's going to struggle. She's trusting that he will always be there. He should appreciate that she trusts him so much.

@BooRayWisco

3 жыл бұрын

No, standard of living would cover her. Any man of money is awfully trusting to ever get married. Courts don’t favor men when things fall apart. FACT

@ap3055

3 жыл бұрын

she not gonna struggle at all the courts gonna do what they always do and give the woman a bunch of money in child support and alimony and even more if she ain’t working so my mans isn’t dumb at all for not wanting her to stay at home not worming

@Dhuxul9

5 ай бұрын

He is the one that will struggle because there is something called alimony and child support! Stay at home wives are also dangerous for men

“If you leave, I’m coming with you!” 😂😂

Sounds like maybe he doesn't trust her 100% and that he feels she wants him for the money. That would explain why they waited so long to get married. My wife took off work until our kids were old enough to go to school. I dont see an issue with it since he makes so much money compared to her.

@ebonyburnette4211

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly and he has already made the decision to marry her. Therefore, if that is his worry then he has already made a mistake.

@pheenobarbidoll2016

3 жыл бұрын

But he trusts total strangers to raise his infant? pfftt. Money over his childs safety. He's not some noble victim.

@ebonyburnette4211

3 жыл бұрын

@Brendan unfortunately, marriage can be a lose or a win for anyone depending on who you marry. Many who think as you have just chosen the wrong person or are involved with ppl that don't want to put in the work for a successful marriage. We didn't get enough info, in my opinion, to determine that for this caller.

@noname-oe9jy

3 жыл бұрын

@Brendan Yep, its ESPECIALLY bad in Canada. She's gonna take him for 600K+ a year by the time this is all over.

@glorymanheretosleep

3 жыл бұрын

I feel like he is telling her that she isn't attractive enough for him....

I noticed he never once asked about how much debt they have lol. He just assumed they were debt free.

@chiaraippoliti

3 жыл бұрын

@Your President How do you know who’s paying or paid off the debt? She makes 90K/year. That’s good, too!

@ungarischfsikurs743

3 жыл бұрын

@@chiaraippoliti Good point. 90 k a year is pretty good. That's a lot.

@hsjdkebrk

3 жыл бұрын

I also thought about how much debt each one of them brought into the marriage. I.e. is she sitting on six figures worth of student loans.

@puppy3908

3 жыл бұрын

@@chiaraippoliti Watch kevin samuels he regularly has women on who make 100,000 - 200,000 They ALL want a man to make 350k+ BECAUSE they want to stop working

@jmr9735

3 жыл бұрын

I feel like he left a lot of questions dangling out there in the wind.

Yea shes not dumb. She doesnt want to work bc shes hedging her bet in case they ever get divorced. He is 100% correct for telling her to keep working.

@Come8In8Peace

3 жыл бұрын

He married the wrong one for sure

I left my career as an RN after 13 years to be home with my babies. Being a nurse was a cake-walk in comparison.

@liveyourbestlife143

3 жыл бұрын

So true. Being a stay at home mom is the hardest job. I have days where i beg my husband to tell me to go back to work. Lol

@lavonnealexander6936

3 жыл бұрын

😂🤣I love work , especially if you love people.

@katiejon17

3 жыл бұрын

@@lavonnealexander6936 ...because people who stay home to raise their kids neither love work, nor people? Ok.

@nicolevolcy3511

2 жыл бұрын

Right her! Guess who is going back 😬. Hubby is fighting tooth and nail to keep me home.

But they live in Canada. His after tax income is 100k.

@SummeRain783

3 жыл бұрын

Lol sad but true... 😭

@thamari8529

3 жыл бұрын

That’s so true !!!!

@SummeRain783

3 жыл бұрын

@@Meowthatsright I am also a Canadian, but you know this is true... lol

@slugoo6474

3 жыл бұрын

@@Meowthatsright Canada rules except when it doesn’t.

@cooperjackson5840

3 жыл бұрын

It's not that bad! But still pretty bad... his avg rate is around 50%.

He’s playing his cards the right way. Definitely some missing pieces to this puzzle lol

@TheNextManimal

3 жыл бұрын

@Danbu Hsma the problem is she doesn’t EVER want to go back to work fool. She’s already on leave to take care of the child. Staying home for 5 years and staying home for the rest of your life are 2 completely different things.

Being a mother is the most important job in the world! I would have loved to have been able to stay home with my babies! The rewards you reap in being with your children are immeasurable! Tell your husband how fortunate your children will be to be so blessed to have their mom home with them. You will never get that time back. I worked, but as a school psychologist, so I had summers and school vacations off, and I set boundaries so that I was home with them as soon as they got off school unless I had a meeting. I would bring work home as needed. Thankfully, my kids feel like I WAS there for them. It also helped to have a very supportive hubby who did as much as I for our kids. We called it our ‘dance.’

@jamiewilliams3179

2 жыл бұрын

No it’s not

@Melissa-hd3jr

2 жыл бұрын

@@jamiewilliams3179 if all children are raised badly you have a bunch of adults that can't function in society, look at a lot of people from the new generation

@Tunechi65

2 жыл бұрын

@@Melissa-hd3jr lol I'm sure that pays the bill. You think Dad's don't wanna stay home and enjoy not working everyday?

@Melissa-hd3jr

2 жыл бұрын

@@Tunechi65 what do you want from me? I didn’t invented biology, women are the ones that get pregnant

Really wish I had guys like these two as father/man examples coming up...

He wants her to work because just in case she leaves, she can’t get his money. He think she wants him for the money.

@lesliepressley8452

3 жыл бұрын

That was my thought. And why aren't they married? Something going on behind the scenes

@ThestorytellerofKatunga

3 жыл бұрын

Or he is a miser.

@brandonreyes5883

3 жыл бұрын

Leslie Pressley idk two incomes is better than one but if he can afford it, why not.

@mecheckraise

3 жыл бұрын

She does. She had this plan all along. She calls the shots now.

@brandonreyes5883

3 жыл бұрын

Jolaade Adebayo perhaps. Can’t rule out all possibilities

"If you leave I'm coming with you." 😂😂😂

I never heard Dave laugh so hard before (at the end). 😊 😊

I had a guy at work tell me his wife doesn’t work because she stays home and looks after the kids. I asked him how old his kids were. He said 19 and 21. This full time mom thing is a scam because it’s treated like a lifetime job when it is not

Ok these humble brags are getting out of hand

@robellyosief8820

3 жыл бұрын

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@financiallift6185

3 жыл бұрын

@@robellyosief8820 I mean, I'll celebrate anything if there's cake involved 🎂

@IamtheGL

3 жыл бұрын

@@financiallift6185 bars

@xaviersfinance2664

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah you are right

@PritamDas_26

3 жыл бұрын

You're welcome to not click. I love these lol

He's just afraid he'll end up with a lazy trophy wife. But obviously the story goes deeper than that.

@lyric2439

3 жыл бұрын

Trophy’s aren’t lazy. Require a lot of maintenance.

@keith_da_chief

3 жыл бұрын

@@lyric2439 ummm I guess?

@labornurse

3 жыл бұрын

@@lyric2439 if by maintance you mean money. Also time at the medispa and plastic surgeons office. Gym, nail and hair, tanning salons, lol.

@ME-xe4sk

3 жыл бұрын

Why is a woman lazy just because she wants to stay at home & raise their child?

@keith_da_chief

3 жыл бұрын

@@ME-xe4sk I never said lazy stay at home mom. I said lazy trophy wife. I think his fear is irrational, and again we don't have all the details.

let her work and let him become a stay at home dad, I bet he would like that as well. This is the equality all women fought for, can't have it both ways. You both work and you both see about the kids and house duties.

Call was from Canada. $975,000 Canadian is about $700,000 USD . Still respectable. Putting myself in his position I can see where he wants his life partner to be in the same stage of life. A couple can grow apart if one works outside the home and the other doesn’t.