My husband cheated with another man, then I married the man who... | I've Been Through the Most

centTWINZ Innocent Sadiki and Millicent Mashile are the producers of their second online show 'I have been through the most'. It's a documentary series that profiles victims who have been through the most in their life's and are now sharing it with the rest of the world to encourage and to hopeful inspire for the better.
This week on the show, we profile centTWINZ Innocent Sadiki and Millicent Mashile are the producers of their second online show 'I have been through the most'. It's a documentary series that profiles victims who have been through the most in their life's and are now sharing it with the rest of the world to encourage and to hopeful inspire for the better.
This week on the show, we profile Alama who has had the worst relationship experiences.
Follow: @ivebeenthroughthemost on instagram and facebook I've Been through the most who has had endless life challenges.

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  • @fhulufhelowendy
    @fhulufhelowendy4 жыл бұрын

    Let’s teach our girl children that coming back from a failed marriage is not a shame.

  • @nontobekomakhaye8369

    @nontobekomakhaye8369

    4 жыл бұрын

    WendyM seconded

  • @mynameisgift

    @mynameisgift

    4 жыл бұрын

    Huuuu💔

  • @kettyhleza575

    @kettyhleza575

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes yes and yes

  • @mulangakhorommbi9673

    @mulangakhorommbi9673

    4 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @sewelarangata654

    @sewelarangata654

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly n they will not judge you

  • @dr.busisiwekhambula8429
    @dr.busisiwekhambula84294 жыл бұрын

    guys when a marriage doesnt work and you cant afford to get yourelf a place, PLEASE GO BACK HOME, ITS OKAY GUYS,

  • @beautifulsurprise9424

    @beautifulsurprise9424

    4 жыл бұрын

    Red Carded It seems to me like her parents didn't present the kind of environment that was welcoming for her go home since she kept saying that going home would mean she was bringing shame upon her family. I'm American so there's some cultural differences that I know I do not quite understand but she seems like she's saying that if she went home it would be difficult for her there as well. She never said she couldn't go home but she was willing to marry the man who raped her in order to avoid going home. That sounds to me like going home, while not impossible, would be at least worse in her opinion than marrying someone who raped her. I think it's much more difficult than no longer being able to live in a mansion. That's what I got from it. I admit I could be wrong, but I'm trying to see it from her perspective. There are a lot of women who'd put up with a lot just to keep a man around, especially if he's providing a certain lifestyle that they won't have without him but her story seems different like going back home would be much worse than that.

  • @nondumisodipone5770

    @nondumisodipone5770

    3 жыл бұрын

    some hv no way to go to... no home

  • @goldakameho7020

    @goldakameho7020

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@beautifulsurprise9424 you are totally right bad situation at home made her make bad choices. So many women out there making the same mistakes.

  • @goldakameho7020

    @goldakameho7020

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Red Carded it's easy to say that when you never walked into her foot steps.

  • @therisoseroke353

    @therisoseroke353

    3 жыл бұрын

    I don’t have a home to go to, a job or anyone to help get me on my feet ... what about us? What happens to us ?? 😭

  • @eleanorayebare2823
    @eleanorayebare28234 жыл бұрын

    I made a choice not to entertain a man who is against my financial independence. I pray all women attain financial independence. It gives you the power to choose.....the life you want & the partner you want.

  • @BlackGirlLovesAnime6

    @BlackGirlLovesAnime6

    4 жыл бұрын

    if a man wants to pay for you let him pay but just make sure you always have your own on the side.

  • @jacquelinendlovu1107

    @jacquelinendlovu1107

    4 жыл бұрын

    Advice taken

  • @lunaoyashii

    @lunaoyashii

    4 жыл бұрын

    🎯 My grandmother _always_ told me to have my own money, and don't let my partner know. She called it "vexed" money. She also said when dating, even if the man pays for everything, always, ALWAYS have your own money in case anything happens. She told me to "pin 100 dollars to my bra." I kid you not, that woman was wise. I miss her and my mother dearly. I'm grateful for the things they taught me.

  • @cleombangi3081

    @cleombangi3081

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @tshepisoprettyaphane6879

    @tshepisoprettyaphane6879

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hear you

  • @conniemorapi9891
    @conniemorapi98914 жыл бұрын

    Guys lets not judge her this is the painful story.......some tyms they say, ''you will never understand until it happens to you.Now she is working thts good for you cc nd yo gals.

  • @ritap5053
    @ritap50534 жыл бұрын

    The day I got slapped round my face so hard my head spun, simply because I would not allow him to drive my car under the influence of alcohol and drugs was the day I started martial arts classes and boxing. His arse was kicked out of my house with a broken jaw.

  • @kitikadzo4980

    @kitikadzo4980

    4 жыл бұрын

    Way to go girl!!!

  • @LethoHali

    @LethoHali

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @modjadjimohale8304

    @modjadjimohale8304

    4 жыл бұрын

    Big up to you sister

  • @triston9618

    @triston9618

    4 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙏

  • @bfinancialwisdom2731

    @bfinancialwisdom2731

    4 жыл бұрын

    Imbokodo👏👏👏

  • @fukutwatable
    @fukutwatable4 жыл бұрын

    PARENTS PLEASE TEACH YOUR DAUGHTERS THAT IT IS BETTER TO COME BACK HOME FROM A FAILED MARRIAGE THAN COMING HOME IN A COFFIN ✍🏽🧖🏽‍♀️

  • @ritareeves3929

    @ritareeves3929

    4 жыл бұрын

    She's telling her story, what is yours? We need to encourage each other and not put Women down when they have the courage to tell their story of struggle and abuse for other Women to learned from.

  • @modjadjimohale8304

    @modjadjimohale8304

    4 жыл бұрын

    You will be surprised how other mothers treat their children after failed marriages. Its heart breaking.

  • @shyleentracy5664

    @shyleentracy5664

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@modjadjimohale8304 it's tough n that's why l cnt bring myself back home after afailed marriage

  • @BB-dk3fd

    @BB-dk3fd

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@modjadjimohale8304 you are so right 😢

  • @elizabethwilmer1531

    @elizabethwilmer1531

    7 ай бұрын

    AMEN.🙏 YOU SAID IT ALL . GOOD ADVICE

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams47584 жыл бұрын

    I love the ending of the story no experience is ever wasted. Hold on to God my sister. Receive digital hugs from Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @elizabethletsoso2558

    @elizabethletsoso2558

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen 🙏

  • @keshebileonekbmorwe3163
    @keshebileonekbmorwe31634 жыл бұрын

    We are part of the society that shame women who goes back home when marriage fails. We are failing one another, this beautiful woman's story is a reflection of a failed society, we are a failed generation, look at the bullying on social media,at least our ancestors will say they didn't know better, yet we claim to be free. We are mentally enslaved.lets liberate ourselves mentally,Lets change our mindset. I am glad our Queen came out alive❤, Glory to Elohim.

  • @lifeincanadawithlivi607

    @lifeincanadawithlivi607

    4 жыл бұрын

    We are not a failed generation. We are a failed society, because our parents and grandparents and great grandparents were the same thing and the behaviour/response is learnt.

  • @mpoimakhetha9345
    @mpoimakhetha93454 жыл бұрын

    We women need to stop having babies "for men", we must have babies because we want them, because we can love them. They deserve that

  • @yayandlovu4750

    @yayandlovu4750

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's I always tell people who like to say "I gave him a child", no you mustn't have a child for the next person but yourself

  • @mpoimakhetha9345

    @mpoimakhetha9345

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@yayandlovu4750 especially because that man can opt-out but you can't, you are stuck with that child forever

  • @gazathugrashad59

    @gazathugrashad59

    4 жыл бұрын

    nobody makes babies for men, these babies are made becoz of intercourse. these are unplanned babies for the record

  • @BlackGirlLovesAnime6

    @BlackGirlLovesAnime6

    4 жыл бұрын

    it should be a mutual agreement not just because one person wants a child unless the woman wants a sperm donor

  • @bridgetjones6819

    @bridgetjones6819

    4 жыл бұрын

    🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 🙌🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽

  • @moolabeats9572
    @moolabeats95722 жыл бұрын

    As a men I feel ashamed.. We as men especially south African black men we need to do better... This is so heartbreaking 💔💔💔

  • @achatwithgoitse

    @achatwithgoitse

    Жыл бұрын

    I always feel bad for African women. No care from the men. Just abuse.

  • @millymashile
    @millymashile4 жыл бұрын

    I admire your strength to walk away from toxic relationships. It's not easy, but you saved your life. You deserve better. Wishing you all the best for the future.

  • @millicentndhlovu9356

    @millicentndhlovu9356

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bitso o bafele

  • @karenmcgee1869

    @karenmcgee1869

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen! I'm praying for her.

  • @elizabethletsoso2558

    @elizabethletsoso2558

    4 жыл бұрын

    Millicent Mashile well said and Amen

  • @FungilesOffbeatAdvice

    @FungilesOffbeatAdvice

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wishing people the same strength❤️

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams47584 жыл бұрын

    The first man was a gay and the second was a narcissist. I better have children out of wedlock and at peace than living with this kind of men

  • @jacquamine

    @jacquamine

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same here, the minute a person realises something is off, its best to leave.

  • @filipamodiselle9976

    @filipamodiselle9976

    3 жыл бұрын

    And he ia still a narcissist- consistently so.

  • @mayamadikwane9866
    @mayamadikwane98664 жыл бұрын

    Parents should build a home that is safe for their children to run to them in times of trouble/need.... A safe Haven.

  • @childofthemighty1341
    @childofthemighty13414 жыл бұрын

    My mum a Single mum taught us education is the key to women freedom. So all of her four girls are educated. None of us depend on our men.

  • @sylviemorgan9770

    @sylviemorgan9770

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good one..

  • @sesethuntaphane3933

    @sesethuntaphane3933

    3 жыл бұрын

    Proud😏😏... Situations are not the same.. We must normalise not making everything about us

  • @kamomagaret5169

    @kamomagaret5169

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sesethuntaphane3933 thank you.

  • @kgadiaphane177

    @kgadiaphane177

    3 жыл бұрын

    They kill u with your education darling

  • @anng7514

    @anng7514

    3 жыл бұрын

    Your mother is a wise woman. Education gives opportunities and options. At least an educated woman is in a better situation to leave an abusive situation and sustain herself and children. Thank you for this wise contribution/comment. We need to empower our girls to give them a fighting chance in life.

  • @asianspice0940
    @asianspice09404 жыл бұрын

    My ex tried, the hitting. But I looked him dead in his eyes and told him, "you and me will go one on one. You may win, but I'm not backing down! Your ass gotta sleep sometimes. It don't mean you'll wake up!" He never tried me after that.

  • @faraiheart9561

    @faraiheart9561

    3 жыл бұрын

    Did the same almost the same words also.got the same results

  • @sylviemorgan9770

    @sylviemorgan9770

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good one...

  • @zandibuckland1652

    @zandibuckland1652

    3 жыл бұрын

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 perfect

  • @annagoba9755

    @annagoba9755

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂 way to go lady.

  • @monday884

    @monday884

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are strong dear

  • @ruvimboangelinemujere6786
    @ruvimboangelinemujere67864 жыл бұрын

    she is strikingly beautiful

  • @itumelengkhoza5802

    @itumelengkhoza5802

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes she is very beautiful..

  • @roseeze166

    @roseeze166

    3 жыл бұрын

    Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder

  • @abigailvilane

    @abigailvilane

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yhoooo can't stop saying that

  • @no_prisoners6474
    @no_prisoners64744 жыл бұрын

    What a gorgeous lady! Skin to die for. And I am giving praise to God for healing you and blessing you. Continue to grow from strength to strength and be a testimony to God's glory and His many graces. Admin, I hope the popularity of this page doesn't get to your head. The background sounds are unnecessary and so is the title. The title is worse cause it doesn't even capture any part of the title. Pasop

  • @vestinemusanabera5327
    @vestinemusanabera5327 Жыл бұрын

    My mother was a single mom and she always taught us to be educated and independent...she always said marriage is not an achievement..

  • @achatwithgoitse

    @achatwithgoitse

    Жыл бұрын

    I think this is important. I definitely value love over marriage

  • @Locamabz
    @Locamabz4 жыл бұрын

    Can we take a moment to talk about how parents create an environment where their children can't go to them when in need because they're afraid of bringing shame to them. This lady has parents, but she chose to struggle with her child because of the fear of bringing shame to her parents! We need to create a safe space for our children

  • @ezerbia

    @ezerbia

    4 жыл бұрын

    Most parents have created toxic situations for their adult children who in turn create toxic environments for their young children. It then becomes a vicious circle. But those who have had enough have cut the toxic parents out and carved healthier paths for the good of their children. The truth is sometimes blood is not the only thing that makes a family in all situations. To stop the continuos torture on one's soul and spirit and body, 'divorcing' family is the best thing.

  • @slungilemakhathini2437

    @slungilemakhathini2437

    4 жыл бұрын

    Especially African parents 💔

  • @pamelakubeka5424

    @pamelakubeka5424

    4 жыл бұрын

    Louder!

  • @liehash

    @liehash

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's so heartbreaking. Parents need to do better.

  • 4 жыл бұрын

    Women too should be financially independent so as to rule out the possibility of going back to parents when things get thick in marriage

  • @TM-mi3wi
    @TM-mi3wi4 жыл бұрын

    *DO LESS FOR MEN, AND WHEN YOU THINK IT'S TOO LITTLE, DO EVEN MORE LESS*

  • @sandria22

    @sandria22

    3 жыл бұрын

    Can you explain alittle, please?

  • @TM-mi3wi

    @TM-mi3wi

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sandria22 in simple words: never please a men. In anything you do for a man, do below the bare minimum

  • @sesethuntaphane3933

    @sesethuntaphane3933

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yabona this message is power!!! Say it louder🔊

  • @folabomi713

    @folabomi713

    3 жыл бұрын

    A little misleading

  • @Naughtorious

    @Naughtorious

    2 жыл бұрын

    I love this🥺😭

  • @natashankosi1139
    @natashankosi11394 жыл бұрын

    I love how you've always remained firm and strong in Christ😩🙏 You are strong and courageous ❤️

  • @godschild2716
    @godschild27164 жыл бұрын

    Bathong the most important thing here is the story... Survivor... You are a very courageous and strong woman

  • @melissanqobile8175

    @melissanqobile8175

    4 жыл бұрын

    Oh yes so true... people are busy djudging

  • @elizabethletsoso2558

    @elizabethletsoso2558

    4 жыл бұрын

    God,s child yes and Amen 🙏

  • @maye7865
    @maye78654 жыл бұрын

    If praying without ceasing was a person 🙌🏾 True Woman of faith 🙏🏾👏❤️

  • @leratomamolomokabane7885
    @leratomamolomokabane78853 жыл бұрын

    You did not bring shame to your family, you came back alive and that is what is important. Modimo Ago fodishe and bless you sesi ❤️.

  • @neosjournal_
    @neosjournal_4 жыл бұрын

    I admire your strength to walk away from those failed marriages despite everything you endured. You and your girls will never lack anything, glad that you know of God's undying love

  • @mskhumalo5118
    @mskhumalo51184 жыл бұрын

    The heavy tone in her voice made me so sad. Prayers 🙏 for you sisi .

  • @thobieuiko8906
    @thobieuiko89063 жыл бұрын

    Out of everything, out of all the starving and and abuse, she still continued to praise God. Beautiful soul... Im touched by your story, and your story is not an awful experience and lesson for you, but its also guidance for us and a voice for those who went and still are going through the same. God bless you

  • @nqobilemdlovu3283
    @nqobilemdlovu32833 жыл бұрын

    Finally, South African stories from us ❤️

  • @gcinilemahlalela7141
    @gcinilemahlalela71414 жыл бұрын

    This is no laughing matter, you would think you have gone through the worse,wait until you hear other people 's experiences... But our trust are forever in the Lord, He will always accept us as we are and give us the strength we need to be back on our feet again and again...Glory the king of kings and Lord of lords.Amen.

  • @p.kkhanyile9866

    @p.kkhanyile9866

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen Gcina...

  • @rutendochinamira1312
    @rutendochinamira13124 жыл бұрын

    This man was a member of the church? My prayers to this woman, you’ve truly been through a lot - but God is God, always

  • @tandekamonki628
    @tandekamonki628 Жыл бұрын

    What a heartbreaking story but with a beautiful end. As a single mom of two I know it is difficult but I would never stay in a relationship that is toxic for my children's sake and for mine. Thank God you seeked Him in all the difficulties you faced and He has proven to be a faithful Father.

  • @alicegauteng2358
    @alicegauteng23584 жыл бұрын

    I hope this is a lesson for all young women out there. Finish your school first before you get yourself pregnant by some of these losers. And also learn that getting pregnant by a loser wont turn him into a better man or make him love and respect you. Love, cherish, and respect yourself FIRST.

  • @karabomphahlele4274
    @karabomphahlele42744 жыл бұрын

    You survived, you learned. What matters is that you made it out alive. You are a strong beautiful woman. We thank God

  • @jo-annmahaka
    @jo-annmahaka4 жыл бұрын

    God is gracious and we must remember him always. He is at work even when we don’t see it. You have no shame because you are a child of God, everything has been wiped away. You are beautiful and God loves you and your daughters. God bless you.

  • @swazi4769
    @swazi47694 жыл бұрын

    Praise the Lord, you had the strength to leave those toxic relationships. A lot of women are stuck in abusive and toxic relationships because they depend financially on the partners. God always makes a way when there seems to be no way. He gives strength and wisdom to those who seek it and you are testament to that.

  • @ThokoTwala
    @ThokoTwala4 жыл бұрын

    Omg, I’m getting so tired of this word entanglement.

  • @mandyishername

    @mandyishername

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me and you both Sis 🙄

  • @ms.binabibie6473

    @ms.binabibie6473

    4 жыл бұрын

    Were you to carry it

  • @strawberrycheesecake7912

    @strawberrycheesecake7912

    4 жыл бұрын

    Relax it hasn't even been a week

  • @nosiphodlamini6710

    @nosiphodlamini6710

    4 жыл бұрын

    has been changed now

  • @godsbeloved5169

    @godsbeloved5169

    4 жыл бұрын

    Where does it come from vele?

  • @lulekaparkies2835
    @lulekaparkies28353 жыл бұрын

    We are soo worried about what ppl will say and family, forgetting that we deserve better

  • @nardasimpson3333
    @nardasimpson33334 жыл бұрын

    I'm happy that you're strong in your faith. I'm happy that you survived. I'm happy that you had only 2 children and not 5, 6, 7. I'm happy that you put pride aside and went back home. My heart breaks for you...I cry for you...But let's acquire strength from the positive outcomes. You and your daughters are so beautiful. God bless you.

  • @seipeishole9674
    @seipeishole96744 жыл бұрын

    So inspiring, thanks for sharing and may God give you a life companion who'll see the beautiful treasure you are.

  • @bontle7609
    @bontle76094 жыл бұрын

    Praying that you go from strength to strength. Thank you for being brave enough to share your story sis.

  • @nobantukhumalo5773
    @nobantukhumalo57734 жыл бұрын

    You have been through the most.... Thank you for your courage to share your story

  • @degraciangubane480
    @degraciangubane4804 жыл бұрын

    God my God😭😭He restores.Keep your head up.Keep striving God will help you raise your kids.You have been through the most.I am glad you left your toxic relationships.

  • @elizabethletsoso2558

    @elizabethletsoso2558

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes and Amen dear so touching story

  • @alionsroarsa8875
    @alionsroarsa88754 жыл бұрын

    Oh gosh, what a strong woman you are. This is such a touching story. May God continue to elevate and shield you sister 💞 bless you.

  • @keshebileonekbmorwe3163

    @keshebileonekbmorwe3163

    4 жыл бұрын

    God bless you, I see how insensitive people are on the comment section. May he bless everything you touch, may he fulfill all your heart desires, may he hear your prayers all the time

  • @queenm7042
    @queenm70424 жыл бұрын

    FAM, SO SORRY FOR WHAT YOU AND YOURS HAD TO ENDURE. THANKS FOR SHARING. AM SOO PROUD OF YOU AND YOU HAVE A BEAUTIFUL FAMILY. MAY THE ALMIGHTY CREATOR CONTINUE TO BLESS AND UPLIFT YOU AND YOURS.

  • @Naughtorious
    @Naughtorious2 жыл бұрын

    “I’m just doing everything in my power to raise my kids and it’s all glory to God” ~Superwoman 😭

  • @thendlandlas8376
    @thendlandlas83764 жыл бұрын

    You are such a strong woman ❤️ I wish African parents could stop shaming their children for coming home after failed marriages 🤧

  • @nurugizani3075

    @nurugizani3075

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hope they are listening

  • @sibonisondlovu9046
    @sibonisondlovu90464 жыл бұрын

    My mother told me straight if a man hits you once he will ALWAYS hit you. She had the experience and I did not want it so I got out before I killed someone's son. I salute this woman she is a woman of strength.

  • @SimplyThobi
    @SimplyThobi4 жыл бұрын

    Proud of you girl! Well done for keeping strong and carrying on.

  • @Nikiwe_mostlybooks
    @Nikiwe_mostlybooks4 жыл бұрын

    A lesson I learnt here is : to be an independent woman let's normalize getting into relationships not because what men can do for us but simply because the foundation is love between two people who are willing to build together, not allow men to entice us in thinking they can provide us the world on a silver platter, 2. when the mother in law starts to misuse her authority and your partner allows it that's your cue to leave (don't nyamezel), 3. normalize breaking the idea of society that perpetuates a ride-or-die mindset.,better a divorced daughter than a dead daughter, 4. Never stay in a relationship in which you count on someone to change their behavior for the better, 5. let's break this cycle of fear of how others will react. ..when life puts you in the fire then God rescues you hey the fire is not meant to burn but bless you!!!

  • @Nikiwe_mostlybooks

    @Nikiwe_mostlybooks

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@CbosEasyRecipes7 I love what you say sis "WE ARE NOT SKEPSELS TO MEN"!!!!

  • @zainabinti5170

    @zainabinti5170

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well spoken sister👏👏👏

  • @_molebogeng6281

    @_molebogeng6281

    4 жыл бұрын

    👏👏👏

  • @realest_Tate

    @realest_Tate

    4 жыл бұрын

    ✅✅

  • @eleanorayebare2823

    @eleanorayebare2823

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you. Women money gives you power of choice. Let's be independent. Lets teach our sons & daughters and mostly our sons that it is okay for women to be independent.

  • @happyhappiness7858
    @happyhappiness78584 жыл бұрын

    You are a strong and very beautiful woman. Glory to the living God. May the love of God be over you and your children in Jesus name!

  • @mybubathegenius8524

    @mybubathegenius8524

    4 жыл бұрын

    She is indeed beautiful 'Thanks'

  • @leratotanya1123
    @leratotanya11234 жыл бұрын

    This should be a lesson to women, you all need to stand your grounds. Know when to leave ans when to stay...God gave you a voice, use it. IT'S OKAY TO GO BACK HOME

  • @thandokuhlenkonyeni6099
    @thandokuhlenkonyeni60994 жыл бұрын

    Clickbait is unnecessary for this testimony

  • @abigailtuffour5928
    @abigailtuffour59284 жыл бұрын

    You are a beautiful strong woman. Thanks for sharing your story🌻

  • @Sirchingsince
    @Sirchingsince3 жыл бұрын

    The poor woman had almost no street smarts or critical thinking skills. It seems that she grew up in a repressive household. I'm happy for her recent progress.

  • @adlamini8539
    @adlamini85394 жыл бұрын

    May the grace of God continue to sustain and His mighty hand protect Alama and her daughters. So much strength!!! Praying for the protection of every female, especially during this upsurge of GBV.

  • @andiswanjabuliso6728
    @andiswanjabuliso67284 жыл бұрын

    Entanglement had me clicking faster than usual 😂 She's so strong 😭

  • @mutttsz
    @mutttsz3 жыл бұрын

    Sis Thank you so much for sharing, for being so brave. You and you children are beautiful and i am glad the life is going well for you. And i trust that by you sharing someone or some people have been saved from similar situations. Thank you to the channel for hosting and being a positive platform.

  • @lucym768
    @lucym7684 жыл бұрын

    Look at the things you've managed to achieve all by yourself, as hard as it may be keep moving forward trying to better your life so that tomorrow no man will have power of your life or your children's lives

  • @ntokozosizwile8876
    @ntokozosizwile88764 жыл бұрын

    I love love you guys!! I do however think you were so insensitive with the title! Be it click bait or humour, this isn't OK ladies 😒

  • @bridgetjones6819
    @bridgetjones68194 жыл бұрын

    Such a beautiful strong woman, May God continue to bless you. You are such an inspiration🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @marlenesworld391
    @marlenesworld3914 жыл бұрын

    Am so sorry for the pain and suffering you went through. I wish you peace, love and happiness

  • @sadikirotakala6827
    @sadikirotakala68274 жыл бұрын

    God is merciful at all times.

  • @lindaasongayi2662
    @lindaasongayi26624 жыл бұрын

    OmG!!! I thank God for giving you the strength to walk away from such toxic relationship

  • @kholiswaluthuli1314
    @kholiswaluthuli13144 жыл бұрын

    I was so disappointed by that "entanglement" clickbait 💔 it was just not needed for this lady's testimony of her painful life experience. It had some people deviating from her story. You're a strong woman, you and your daughters are beautiful and are destined for great things. Peace and Love to you ❤

  • @auditingtaxmadeeasy5414
    @auditingtaxmadeeasy54144 жыл бұрын

    We thank God for your testimony!! May God continue to bless you and your beautiful daughters!

  • @shishmurage9519
    @shishmurage95194 жыл бұрын

    She has been through alot. She need counselling and therapy. May God be with her.

  • @silindiwetshumasilindiwe7811

    @silindiwetshumasilindiwe7811

    4 жыл бұрын

    3 babies in a row mmmmm people must use prevention methods

  • @elizabethletsoso2558

    @elizabethletsoso2558

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree 💯 Susan

  • @temitopeakinola5996
    @temitopeakinola59963 жыл бұрын

    That was very inspiring. Thank you for telling us your story.

  • @chel-c1904
    @chel-c19044 жыл бұрын

    Your story sis is emotionally excruciating but carries a significant lesson that every woman needs to here. It's so inspiring just how u mention the hand of God in your life's turning point. I wish u the best and thank u so much for sharing. Stay blessed 🤗

  • @kholomokolo
    @kholomokolo4 жыл бұрын

    Lose the sound effects...You're better than that guys

  • @booairmow

    @booairmow

    4 жыл бұрын

    Please 💀💀🙇🏾‍♀️🙇🏾‍♀️🙇🏾‍♀️

  • @BlackRose-rk7zs

    @BlackRose-rk7zs

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah. Even just the edits...it was much better without all that.

  • @wanjikumburu602

    @wanjikumburu602

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @shalatimhangwani8465

    @shalatimhangwani8465

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah it even makes the story more creepy than it actually is..

  • @LadyT06

    @LadyT06

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree as I find them disturbing😬!

  • @nyambi_m
    @nyambi_m4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for changing the title, her testimony is too powerful for that word. We watch because we love the channel and testimonials here are life changing no need to bait us like that💕💕💕💕💕

  • @noaomime
    @noaomime4 жыл бұрын

    The newest word in my vocabulary: entanglement 💢 What a powerful example of the power and mercy of God 🙏 Thank you for sharing, may God continue to lift you and your children higher and higher!!

  • @itumelengsebolao

    @itumelengsebolao

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sorry dear is very painful God is good all the time botswana

  • @LadyT06
    @LadyT064 жыл бұрын

    Alama pain made her to soar like an eagle.I thank God for being her Pillar and she's not a survivor BUT a *WARRIOR* !

  • @danojj700
    @danojj7003 жыл бұрын

    parents/sisters/brothers take your children back especially girls who get pregnant in school...do not send them to the guys parents.

  • @paulynemutua2829
    @paulynemutua28294 жыл бұрын

    God always gives tuff trials to His strong people. You are a tuff lady and God will always be with you

  • @nosiphodlamini6710
    @nosiphodlamini67104 жыл бұрын

    thank you for fixing your mistake, with the title

  • @nbeatricetlhoka1142
    @nbeatricetlhoka11424 жыл бұрын

    This is soo sad. The things women go through😭But God always pull through for us

  • @tannekabrown
    @tannekabrown4 жыл бұрын

    I’m proud of you I pray you’ve learnt from all you’ve subjected yourself too❤️You’re beautiful, intelligent and a go getter I pray the Lord continues to bless you and your daughters

  • @fanisausiba5728
    @fanisausiba57284 жыл бұрын

    You're beautiful ,you're strong and you deserve all the good in your life right now!!!! 😍😍😍😍

  • @mutttsz
    @mutttsz3 жыл бұрын

    It is so sad that things like these happen to others in this world.

  • @pheladinare2876
    @pheladinare2876 Жыл бұрын

    I believe I watched Tshidi's story on all platform but I am still hooked each time I watch from beginning to end. She is such a good story teller I really wish to buy her book

  • @motlatsokholofelo1120
    @motlatsokholofelo11202 жыл бұрын

    Thank God you managed to come out alive... I also came out of a toxic marriage. It was bad but by the grace of God I'm out and alive.. May God gives you strength in this journey 🙏

  • @deultimate4real
    @deultimate4real4 жыл бұрын

    This lady is so beautiful

  • @annieluhanga1229
    @annieluhanga12294 жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry for everything you've been through. God bless

  • @nombinintlahla8325
    @nombinintlahla83254 жыл бұрын

    You're a wonderful woman.... I bless God for your life.... some men are walking devils true story😪 .... once he separates you from your family, run no matter how much you think he loves you

  • @nandisilemphahlaza9562
    @nandisilemphahlaza95623 жыл бұрын

    Bona! God at work finally your breakthrough may God continue pouring out his love on you may he protect you and your kids sending love💖💖💖

  • @natalienyatsanga8004
    @natalienyatsanga80044 жыл бұрын

    l just don't understand why parents force us(girl child) to stay in these toxic relationship....so proud of you that you had the guts to walk away ❤️❤️ was really touched by your story

  • @favouralejandrofikilekekan6629
    @favouralejandrofikilekekan66294 жыл бұрын

    Wish I could give you a hug, so sorry you went through that but we are glad you are alive and have learned from your experience... Be strong God loves you

  • @mashoto__m
    @mashoto__m4 жыл бұрын

    She is gorgeous 🥺🥺 this is sad 💔💔

  • @lesh1986
    @lesh19864 жыл бұрын

    Power to you Lady,u a indeed singing a song of victory now,God changed your story.forget about the past,concentrate on the present nd future.we thank God for your new life

  • @lotustaixtyson2464
    @lotustaixtyson24644 жыл бұрын

    Watching from Namibia 🇳🇦 Much love

  • @silvendumbu8356

    @silvendumbu8356

    4 жыл бұрын

    That makes the two of us....😊

  • @lotustaixtyson2464

    @lotustaixtyson2464

    4 жыл бұрын

    Silve Ndumbu On God

  • @filipamodiselle9976

    @filipamodiselle9976

    3 жыл бұрын

    And she has origins from Nambian. Her parents are Namibian and Angolan.

  • @cardscan_za
    @cardscan_za4 жыл бұрын

    Yoh, the sadness of your life story sisi, I can't deal. This is painful, hope you heal, God bless you.

  • @labushow
    @labushow4 жыл бұрын

    Churches should be able to help their Christians, there are a lot of vulnerable people in the church but it's surprising that so many people go through though times without the church's help. I commend your faith sister. If you must open a church, then be ready not only to preach but to help your members financially, morally etc, we can see how Jesus Christ provided not only spiritual but warefare to his people.

  • @mrs.masilo765

    @mrs.masilo765

    2 жыл бұрын

    My thoughts exactly wen she said her and her daughter used to sleep with fried sugar yet she was a church member.

  • @zinesiwayi3615
    @zinesiwayi36154 жыл бұрын

    God bless you my sister thank you for sharing. You're strong through Christ. All glory to God.

  • @gloriamokoena6803
    @gloriamokoena68034 жыл бұрын

    Wow what a WONDERFUL GOD Your story is so positive ,painful but give us hope and strength to stay and be with God in all time in every situation 😇

  • @NaturalSuee

    @NaturalSuee

    4 жыл бұрын

    Gloria Mokoena Amen Amen 😭😭🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @vinineblake5785

    @vinineblake5785

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @maryallen2317
    @maryallen23173 жыл бұрын

    What a testimony 🙌 👏!!! The wonderful blessing of God's saving grace 🙏. 💞🌞🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺

  • @ninabrenda8957
    @ninabrenda89574 жыл бұрын

    This is exactly what happened to me. But let me tell you, when I realized I was pregnant. I REFUSED TO COMPROMISE TO THE MAN, EVEN IF HE WANTED ME TO GET MARRIED TO ME. Because I know , its only GOD who has the power to change him and not me. My close people were disappointed at me. But let me tell you, since then I have strived and GOD is taking me form glory to glory with my baby. PS: Im just 22, but my heart refused to settle for less. All Glory be to the Lord. Therefore women, don't settle for safe , otherwise the pain will still come 10 times back. Thanks beautiful for sharing ure testimony to us❤️

  • @bobbiwilliam6811

    @bobbiwilliam6811

    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @teimaalakubyela2954
    @teimaalakubyela29544 жыл бұрын

    We thank God for his mercy. I've learned that when the stove is hot to keep my hands better take it out

  • @leratonthoba1555
    @leratonthoba15554 жыл бұрын

    Strength to you sis. I'm so proud of you 💛💛💛

  • @TheRealZeeNkosi
    @TheRealZeeNkosi3 жыл бұрын

    Very Inspirational!!! So happy for her!!

  • @mathapelongwenya864
    @mathapelongwenya8644 жыл бұрын

    I can relate..... Indeed God is always a way maker

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