Why My wedding was the worst day of my life|Abigail Ruth Munyai | I've Been through the Most
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I've been through the most is a documentary series that profiles victims who have been through the most in their life's and are now sharing it with the rest of the world to encourage and to hopefully inspire for the better. Produced by the CentTwinz Innocent Sadiki and Millicent Mashile.
This week on the show, we profile: Abigail Ruth Mmabatho Munyai
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Dear world, Leave preachers kids alone Joh
I'm a young girl and I just lost my father. Don't know why I found this video at this time, but I believe God is comforting me. It's hurt a lot
I am 45, single, happy in my career,❤️never succumb to the society's expectations of having a baby or getting married....
@shikukimani4443
3 жыл бұрын
Admirable
@fillod2613
3 жыл бұрын
So inspiring. God will make it happen for you at the right time.
@Techbill247
3 жыл бұрын
@@fillod2613 the lady is happy. What do you want God to make happen?
@christinemuga9956
3 жыл бұрын
We are the same
@hopelyn9334
2 жыл бұрын
Wow , Wow, So inspiring.......God bless you Abigail...
It’s sad that there’s so much pressure placed on women to get married because their pregnant, not because they have found their soulmate.
@prophetessabigailmunyai
3 жыл бұрын
And the ones that impose the pressure do not help you carry the burden that results from that pressure
@masindicindy2281
3 жыл бұрын
@@prophetessabigailmunyai What happened to your brother?
@letlotloRamatsa
3 жыл бұрын
And That should never be the case. Pressure Is Real but we should never succumb to it at the cost of our own lives.
@johanneskapeuasha9498
3 жыл бұрын
Why would you be pregnant to a guy who is not your soulmate? Your statement say it all, that women are no longer women because if he is good enough to date, he should be good enough to merry..
@abongilesibhoko539
3 жыл бұрын
I know what you are talking about,it ruined my life also .I am here picking up the pieces😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
This is what I am currently experiencing in my life. I am emotionally and spiritually drained, having all these weird dreams that one cannot even begin to explain. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. I am now confident to say: THIS TOO SHALL PASS! Next year this time, I'll be telling a different story. 🙏
@prophetessabigailmunyai
3 жыл бұрын
May God grant you your petition in Jesus name. But I also encourage you to get those dreams translated.
@tshepisobridgettletolo4175
3 жыл бұрын
@@prophetessabigailmunyai Thank you sis! Will do.
@zunaiandre2341
3 жыл бұрын
Hmmm!!always tell someone those dreams,you then break the spirit within that dream.To understand that,you got be spiritually focused.Dont hold the dreams to yourself please.
@ashleytusha5492
3 жыл бұрын
Personally I used to have so many terrible dreams,I fasted,rebuked the devil,prayed and prayed,my house was a a spiritual mess,my children were being attacked too,I would get a win here once in awhile until I was so exhausted, so miserable but God is amazing, He led me to Bible college and being filled with the word of God,finding my true identity in Christ set me free.Stay in the word of God ,read your Bible and God will talk to you through His word I can guarantee you victory because the word of God tansferred me within one week in Bible college.I speak life into every area of defeat in your life in Jesus Christ name.
@edithwatinaye7528
3 жыл бұрын
So sorry cc,indeed it shall come to pass
Loosing both parents will never make sense to me, but it happens to the best of us. I’m so sorry for your loss
@hlengiwemasondo2858
3 жыл бұрын
Sending you a hug 🤗
@monokomashiane6540
3 жыл бұрын
That's one club that us who are members never wish on anyone...Feels like you got stripped naked!
@87Lohan
2 жыл бұрын
@@monokomashiane6540 yes, it’s a very difficult club to be in but God is faithful
@tpmash
2 жыл бұрын
Your channel is amazing 🙏🏽CENTTWINZ
Many people are going through life trying to please other people especially in marriages, rather be single and be called names by the society but as long as your happy that's all that matter. As the saying goes those who matter won't mind and those who mind don't mind
@nokuthulazulu9990
2 жыл бұрын
Some ppl get it when its too late God created men bt first jst single individuals. He made them male and females.He didnt make couples.ppl must first master who they really are before getting married
Today, I'm an Author of a book series Today, I'm a Minister of the Word of God Today, I'm a Motivational speaker Today, I'm counseling many individuals Today, I can talk to all of you All this is happening because of what she went through. This shows that whatever you are going through, no matter how hard, challenging, and troubling it is, one day it will benefit and heal an individual who is suffering.
Wow sisi so sad! Your story is teaching me one thing, looking unto Jesus Christ the author and the finisher of our faith
@prophetessabigailmunyai
3 жыл бұрын
Mmmh wow powerful
@TheOlgad
3 жыл бұрын
Truth
Coming from a religious family doesn't mean you must be , it must be a choice and no one must push you to get married if you not ready!
Lord, I can't imagine my husband dying on my birthday 😭😭,may God watch over all orphans , widows and widowers
The expectations society places on women to ‘fix’ things are so unreasonable!
U and your brother coming from school and walking into ur dad’s funeral at a young age, that was me but hey I made God my Father literally and it’s everything ❤️
@paulinelawrence5231
2 жыл бұрын
Amen Amen Amen 🙏🏾 🙌🏾💯
I remember I lost my parents at age of fourteen the younger one was 2years , schooling was hard although I managed to complete my secondary school,passed my exams but have never stepped in a university because of the responsibility of my younger brother.God remains to be God
@lsmosh30smallwood41
2 жыл бұрын
Story of my life god has been good because I’m trying to go back to school it hard to be an orphan especially when you have younger siblings.. You are strong you can do this with the help of god you’re able.
@freckles8932
2 жыл бұрын
Please do go to university once you are done helping your brother. It's important that you go if that's what you want.
Being an orphan even in adulthood is hard. Support system still misses
@namakaumulozi4766
3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you.
@JaneDoe76664
3 жыл бұрын
I agree, I'm 40 years old and there's still a gaping hole in my soul.
@shikukimani4443
3 жыл бұрын
True
@gladysnera6187
3 жыл бұрын
My current situation.. just grateful my husband tries his level best to cover that void
@JaneDoe76664
3 жыл бұрын
@@gladysnera6187 You are Blessed to have Your husband, Praise God for Him.🌺
God in the valley is the same God on the mountains.
@lilmiss_kay1026
3 жыл бұрын
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@vusumuzimoyo9495
3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@zilpajonyo4827
3 жыл бұрын
God in the valley is the same God in the mountains
@Nikki790
2 жыл бұрын
And we serve the same God worshiped in the west and He's the same God we serve in Africa 🌍 🙏
@justinamusyoka4986
2 жыл бұрын
@@Nikki790 No,its a deception,Africa is the origin of mankind,the west took our religion by force,manipulated it and returned back to us as theirs. Rome decieved the whole world.
Relatives run away when u need them most same applies to me when my mother died ...but now they call me left right n center to visit them
@mrs.masilo765
2 жыл бұрын
The calling left right and center .🤣🤣🤣
You are never defined by your past or the mistakes you made….you are such a beautiful and strong woman. Never condemn yourself to a level of an orphan….that gives the devil joy. You are a child of God, wonderfully and fearfully made❤️. Trust me, me and my siblings were called that, but God’s righteousness overcame that, it has changed for greatness 🙌🙌
@yoliswa6309
2 жыл бұрын
Very Inspirational, what a great piece of advice
The beginning was sad. The ending is beautiful. The Lord is faithful.
@prophetessabigailmunyai
3 жыл бұрын
Always
@lucykasiga6928
3 жыл бұрын
Forever God is faithful 🙏🙌✨❤
@lamenthibelang3270
2 жыл бұрын
You put it so well
I’m a pastors kid myself and I know how society will judge you, and have so many expectations and sometimes you can’t be yourself because you want to protect your parents reputation
@evezazzle5974
3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️🙏 thank you for this! Unless you've experienced it, you'll never know
@justinamusyoka4986
2 жыл бұрын
Freedom is a basic human right.Some religion is like bondage yet most doctrines are manmade.
@Blessed_for_life_2023
3 күн бұрын
Unfortunately pastor's kids get to be judged the most, because the pastors in their sermons are judgemental, so automatically the community and society are watching the kids with hawks eyes to monitor everything. Sadly. So, if pastor can refrain from judgement, their kids won't be judged. That's life, children suffer because of the sins of their parents, as their Bible says🤷🏾♀️
Oh My dear child. Where were your family and community when you all needed help. Your journey was a lesson learned in life. Praise god you have turn the corner and page and is continuing a new chapter by the grace of god. God blessings to you and family . Greetings from St. John woods London.
Yoo those people who pressurized you to get married, where were they when your mom was struggling🤦🏾♀️
I keep coming back to this story over and over again. I'm grateful that she took the time to share it
Eish, what a touching story. God is always faithful 🙏🏾
I feel your story is almost like mines. I cannot get over my life now. My husband and I are no longer together. My life is a mess now. I wish so bad I didn't get married. Single life is the best.
@guguncube2308
2 жыл бұрын
It is well you'll be okay
You just reminded me that God is indeed Faithful... Ive experienced similar issues to yours. Lost both my parents and my life changed 🙆🙆😭😭😭im alive today and I thank Jesus for his mercy
@vilmasealy6401
2 жыл бұрын
Amen, God is so good thank for sharing .may God continue to bless you .
@TeeStillStanding
2 жыл бұрын
Your parents are now your ancestors. They are protecting and fighting for u. Just talk to them.🌹
Big ups to your Boss for helping you stand up to your abuser.God bless you mntase.He is in control
@this_is_nyeleti
3 жыл бұрын
True
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for sharing your testimony 🙏🏾🙏🏾 he gives the hardest battles to his strongest soldiers. You are chosen to touch lives and your story has moved many, I being one. Stay blessed 🙏🏾
Here in Canada I ask myself - if I can get the food I like because there is money - but what about the orphanages with 30 children , it must be difficult - the money I send is as nothing ? It will spend off like quickly ? But millions of children are victims in the world today - not because there is -food shortage - but " love " shortage ?
Ohhh Nooo! This is 2 much 4 one person. I pray we may know how 2 support nd love others. May we hold each others hands as children of God, pick each up nd move forward 4 God.
I come from the same town , school and We worked together at the same bank at the time., lost contact though but Abi had always been a strong willed young lady. Even through the difficult times, we never knew how severe their situation was. God bless
Wow Abigail, you are so blessed cousy indeed. God is indeed faithful and you give me hope and strength everytime we connect as I'm going through my own battles in life.
I'm already sad, just by the title
May God look after you and your family. You're brave and strong.
O o retshepisitseng was TSHEPAGALA...OUR LIVING GOD💐
@prophetessabigailmunyai
3 жыл бұрын
Wow well said
@lilmiss_kay1026
3 жыл бұрын
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What I can say to you dear is that when God wants to use you He brings the challenges but always His grace is sufficient Now you are a testimony to many
@lilmiss_kay1026
3 жыл бұрын
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@nthabingwenya4945
3 жыл бұрын
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"I was born in the family that I was born in because of who I am". I felt that nice testimony sesi, I am happy that today God has shown the greatest mercy upon your life and you fond happiness and peace. May he keep enlarging your teritory.
@prophetessabigailmunyai
3 жыл бұрын
Amen sister, thank you
You have always been strong… even in our youth when we used to dance together and have sleepovers 😂. Life is a mystery and a painful one at that but you are right that we not alone and that our pain is not senseless. I am so happy you found your person and you have beautiful family. May God continue to bless you with so much more ♥️
Amen! Like Joseph, throughout all your hardships God was preparing you for the palace. Glory be to God! We praise God for your life sister.
God is so merciful and faithful. Such an inspiring story
That's a great story . Through all your struggles, you were never alone. You was on a journey . Congratulations you meet the finish line .
I am glad you could still see the hand of the Lord.... Gal pick yourself up and know that all the the time you thought you are alone God was with you. Living life for other people it's the most dangerous thing ever let God take control of your life fully....people go through a lot out there 🙏💯🙌 God loves you
I can relate with almost every thing I am orphan too, living with relatives, I got married early before I was ready. I remember telling God I'm done praying to him around 2015 falling to depression no one really cares. Losing a baby in 2019 no support. Strange dreams fighting with huge demons in my dreams. Its too much.
@loratomotsietsi5583
3 жыл бұрын
Hugs 'n love for you😊🤗😍 His Grace is sufficient🙏🙏
@p.mtoafrica5222
3 жыл бұрын
It shall be well ❤️God still has his hands on you
@alinahjeleni7048
3 жыл бұрын
I know all about going through a lot at a young age. May the Lord comfort you and bless you with all that he predestined for you. He surely kept you in this earth for a purpose and you are so much loved 😍😍😘😘
@nompumelelomyeza2206
3 жыл бұрын
Keep in touch with me
@Deborah-xv4bc
3 жыл бұрын
Jehovah retshepile wena
Wow, Ruth. What a story. I feel encouraged.
You are so brave,that's why god is still walking beside you.dont loose faith.
This story remaind me of everything I have been through, or even so much much more than yours.sometimes I cried myself to sleep.I wish to tell my story through this channel because this is one thing I always tell God that I want to use my story to teach the world about FAITH.I just came across this site,am so happy.
I love the ending..our God understand all and can solve all.. indeed He is faithful
Abigail I'm so blessed with your testimony God bless you more🙏🙏❤❤❤❤
I know the drowning feeling… meanwhile people think ur okay.
Amen.. Thats Our God for you.. I'm trully glad to hear that you finally found your purpose.. God bless you, your family and your ministry🙇🏽♀️🙇🏽♀️🙇🏽♀️❤❤❤
@prophetessabigailmunyai
3 жыл бұрын
Amen and thank you so much
Ahhh what a story , God is so faithful. God Bless you Sis you're such a beautiful person. ✌✌✌❤❤❤
I’m an orphan as well parts of your story are so similar to mine. We thank God for His love for you.
We support you dear Abigail, I'm so sorry you've been so alone in your trials, tribulations and suffering. Now that you've spoken your truth, your Spiritual family is making their way to you ❤️🙏✨ You've been so courageous and resilient. Wishing you a kind and gentle recovery and life 🌻👑✨
I can relate to her story, God speaks to to us in many different way let us hear his voice.
Very hard indeed Abigail, but God was allowing you to learn to fight the giants in your life by teaching your hands to war & your fingers to fight for such a time as this . You have been able to build up your spiritual core muscles through the tragedys & hardship you had to fight at such a young age for the very reason of your being able to fulfill your destiny of motivating & helping others in the same or worse positions. So happy to hear that you have found a wonderful man to share your life with. Stay in the secret place as a worshiper & your life will be joy unspeakable.
You really encouraged me. I've been through a lot since my parents passed away. Being an only and orphan child it's not easy.
@TeeStillStanding
2 жыл бұрын
Talk to them. Ask them to guide and protect u. They listen. You are not alone🌹
@sanelisiwemgoza
Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodnes
Sis,when you are destined child of God,devil fights you so much until you know this. God has set you apart for greatness,you have a destiny.Yes,sis, yoi are blessed
I am glad you find happiness at the end, to God be Glory 🙏
Wow I love your story. There's no coincidence in life, every trial serves a purpose.
Wonderful testimony! Glory to God. Thanks for sharing
I wish I could also share my testimony when I get to the other side of what I am living right now.😌🙏. You have woken me up sister. Thank you and God bless you
Halleluyah!!! God is good, what the happy ending 🙏🙏
God continue to bless you my sister 🙏🏾❤️
The way you got the news about your dad is the same way I got the news about the death of my mom. Wow! People that depart, really know that it's time. They say weird things and only after their passing their words make sense.
@lilmiss_kay1026
3 жыл бұрын
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You've been through so much, stay strong, 😭❤️
So typical of relatives. They can be so weird honestly. Where were all these people when your family was struggling now they come to pressure you to get married. Thanks for sharing your story 💞🥗
We go through to become Impactful! We don't waste our experiences, we teach others! Powerful!
what a STRONG WOMAN,... Indeed you are a living testimony. I LIVE TO TELL MY STORY AS WELL.
Lol I love the confidence at the end. 'today' Nice one my sister.
The title gives me goosebumps 🤔
@Filoe_Legold
3 жыл бұрын
Thought I was the only one, still waiting to hear the events of the wedding day,
Always looking forward to new uploads
You never know what people go through till you hear from them 😢
No matter what we are going through in.lives God is there with us Thank you Lord for being there for us, and sis he have brought you through your trails and tribulation he has come through for you. THANK GOD..
Wow what a beautiful testimony 🙌🙌🙌
Uuuuuuh the standard response of 'l am ok ' kills us all but m happy God fight for his own there's light at the end of the tunnel
Your story has touched me so much.im at a point where I really given up.nothing adds up.I believe God wanted me to see this.its been the worst ten years
Very sad 😥, you are a strong woman indeed , God bless you sisi 🙏❤💙♥💜
What an inspiration story, very motivational and encouraging. Thank you so much sis, we believe and have faith in a miraculous God. 💓🕯️🙏🏻
@lilmiss_kay1026
3 жыл бұрын
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It's hard being an orphan however God of all comforts, Father of the Fatherless is been good, still is to the end... 🌹❤️🌹
God is FAITHFUL Bafethu!!!😭
Madam your testimony is great.god blessed us. Thanks and praise God almighty.
I love the God u serve Ruth.He is faithful
Hmmm thank you so much for sharing your heart and also helping us to learn and be aware. It us unbelievable the pressure that we put ourselves under in the name of society, religion, culture and traditions💔 we don't know any better
So happy it all worked out in the end. 🙏🏼
May you find strength, peace, and joy to live.
Sorry for ur bad experience💤keep strong sister...
I am also a PK and i can so relate and i hear you completely ..even the unsaid details
The respect of this channel 👊🏿👌🏿 I don’t have to be interrupted by many adverts 🙄 I know they make money but iyoo🤦🏼♀️ but here,I get to lessen with peace🙏🏿thank you mama le mamogolo wa Clement ❤️
Oh Lord it was a very sad 😭😭💔💔story but ended very well, thank you Jesus 👏🙋♥️may God continue to bless you and your beautiful family dear 🤗♥️
What an inspiration your life is, ooh woow God is too beautiful and intentional 🙌🙌🙌
So sad my prayers go out to all the people going through painful experiences..God is still God yesterday, today n tomorrow.
😭😭😭 what touched me here,is when you and your brother stood up together....God is faithful
God was preparing you for this.To God be glory and honour.
Thank you for sharing your story.may God strengthen you more.♥♥ Forget about relatives when you are passing through hard ships.they were unable to assist you when you needed them the most,but had the audacity to tell you to get married in order to honour your parents's memory.how? They didn't even show up in their numbers at wedding that they insinuated.yaa neh! Human beings!
Everything that you go thru in life has a purpose 🙌
I have also got through the most when I discovered that my husband was sexually molesting our own biological daughter for a whole 8 yrs right under my nose.
@anitaravele8177
2 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry 😢
I feel like God saved from A relationship where i wanted marriage from, Church relationships can be the worst sometimes because there are all these things we feel like we 'need to or have to do such as getting married. I feel like this could have been me. Thank you lord!!!
God always turns our messes into messages. God always knows how to bring HIS "Prodigal Sons and Daughters " home. Glory to God.
He have plans for us.....to prosper us ..I love this God
Hope is what your story will store in people's lives