First Story: Give Gordon Ramsay 5 minutes alone with OP’s husband and he’d have a whole new outlook on life.💀💯

@vaseline69

11 күн бұрын

or Marco Pierre white, the man who scares Gordon

For story one, a lot of women actually like a man who can cook.

@southernflight5078

3 ай бұрын

Even more these days, where both spouses need to work to be able to have a stable income. Share the stress and responsibilities of life, and your relationship will prosper. The good and the bad need to be worked through together.

@sushobhanbanerjee9238

3 ай бұрын

My partner rather finds my cooking skills masculine. Also I'm from a third world country and was brought up where relatives found cooking a feminine skill. But I can single handedly prepare a meal for over 100 people and do it on multiple occasions. My SO is really attracted to the same. A couple cooking together is really a nice gesture.

@dragonslayernightcore1852

3 ай бұрын

I once posted the pics of cookies that I made on discord, in next 5 mins I received like 3 wedding proposals That was fun.

@FroggyGirlDreams

3 ай бұрын

My man cooks. It's super attractive.

@katyngah-ere4942

3 ай бұрын

In my culture men learn how to cook at a young age and take the role of cooking for big events like birthdays etc, they’re usually the ones cooking outside the kitchen on outside stoves, bbq, spits etc while the woman prep and prepare food in the kitchen

Props to the FIL! "You can't boil water" made me spit out my drink hahaha

OH GOOD WORK DAD so you're afraid that your son will get bullied like you did so you BULLY HIM? what an unprocessed ham.

@evanyaboi108

Ай бұрын

UNPROCESSED HAM AS AN INSULT IS THE BEST THING IVE EVER HEARD

People like the father need to have it drilled into their head that BASIC HUMAN ABILITIES does NOT make someone lesser. Also, its always so funny when I hear stories like this, because I think about how many professional chefs are men compared to women. Yeah cooking is totally a feminine thing guys.

Being able to cook is huge step to become independent. Knowing a few simple meals is life changing from eat junk food, fast food, or ready made meals.

because its so Alpha to only be able to cook hot pockets

Nowadays, cooking is one of the manliest and most valuable thing a guy can do. Girls love it! Also, cooking is just awesome. Anyone who looks down on people who can cook is just a bitter AH!

Story One: Ahhhh, projection at its finest! I'm glad it ended well, but husband has a lot of favoritism and mistreatment to make up for. Hope he, Matt, and the rest of the boys can potentially bond over these activities.

@lindah3803

3 ай бұрын

Yep,this story turned out to have a whole lot more to it than just the basic story. Now that things are in the open OP,hubby and the boys can work on it. This is a perfect example that everyone has a past/skeletons. Everything isn't an intentional devilish cruel action. The past projects in everyone. Sometimes it's sneaky about it.

Being able to cook, regardless of being male or female, is a culinary necessity for today's economy. I'm just imagining Charlie being alone in the house, waiting for someone to cook for him because (he doesn't know how to) "no man shall cook." 😂 Edit: so glad FIL put him in his place. Getting emasculated like that was probably cathartic for Matt. Here's hoping Charlie learns from this.

FIL is a real man. Not sure where things went so sideways for the husband. Edit: Ahh, bullied for the same stuff as a kid.

The father is a complete fool he must not understand that there are male that have great careers as a chef, author and artist plus knowing how to do that will help not be dependent on other people

Most of the culinary industry is male dominated though.

You know, watching these stories, I appreciate my mom and dad so much for not pushing me or bullying me

Story 2: My mom happened to listen to this with me, and after that update my mom said if anyone said that to her about any of US, not only would no wedding be held, they likely wouldn't have a fiance anymore and she'd be sitting in the county jail.

I immediately knew calling the veteran to "teach the kid some lessons" was gonna backfire on the dad. Dude forgets that the military teaches self-sufficiency, which means every single one of us knows the basics of cooking, cleaning, laundry, and sewing. Or at least can fake it well enough to fool an NCO, which isn't often super easy.

It's crazy because being a man no being a human iis doing whay brings you joy and not caring what others think

How on earth do you end up marrying and having kids with someone so insecure? How did this not come up previously? Those poor children have to grow up with a complete moron for a dad.

@lindah3803

3 ай бұрын

You can be with someone for 30/40/50 years and not know/hear about many things in their past. The more painful the event,the more likely you won't be told.

i don't care if the OP becomes the asshole in the second story. they have the leverage, so if FSIL wants to play this game, OP should play it by their rules

Story 1: Can be worked out or else get divorced Story 2: ain't no "on hold" call off that whole wedding and relationship, OP is far from being the AH here

Also women who have or still do this, stop calling things men do that you don't like, gay, that is not how that works.

First story: this man has forgotten gordan ramsay exists, since when is it not manly to cook. Which is ironic cause op mentioned gordan ramsay

@FroggyGirlDreams

3 ай бұрын

Not to mention Gordon runs marathons and hunts and does "manly" activities

@PungiFungi

2 ай бұрын

Probably thinking those men are gay or something.

My mom told me that when she and my dad were planning to get married, my dad asked if he could be the one to handle the majority of the cooking. This arrangement has worked perfectly for them through 23 years and 3 kids. Cooking is girly, my ass!

Funny, how convenient the dad was bullied just when he was proven wrong a scolded like a brat. Hes Making it up to save face.

The challenge the Dad in the first story to go and call Gordon Ramsey or Marco Pierre White that for cooking and see how it goes for him.

i would have just told the family what sil was saying send screen shots and then cancel the wedding i have zero pacients for rude shit like that if she wants a fancy ass wedding the sil can pay for it her self with that attitude

Arent the majority top rated chefs, men?

Story 1: This story reminds me of how when I showed an interest in cooking my stepdad was constantly against it and admitted that he thought it'd turn him gay. Then he told somewhat graphic stories about gay pizza and spaghetti chefs. (He's done way worse stuff than this but I'm just mentioning what the episode reminded me of, also I'm away from my stepdad for anyone curious)

Son has a terrible example for a dad. Get your son and leave

@KDawg92801

3 ай бұрын

He was given a second chance. Let’s hope he decides to not take it for granted.

Husband constantly pressures son and bullies him. Has backwards views. Tries to intimate his son and sulks because it backfired. Op: "he is a good guy and caring" What? If he were a good person and caring he would not bully his son and call him a sissy. OP, please. Your husband needs therapy. He bullied your son because his internalised toxicity. Do not tolerate that behaviour and that toxic part of you husbands "masculinity".

when was cooking ever feminine, cant i make a meal y'all 😒

Story: is about anything Reddit: spergs out about housing markets and cant think about anything else

Kanji tatsumi, while a video game character, likes to see cute stuff animals AND can chase a biker gang and beat them ALL down. I guess hes girly though....eff that "dad" jeez i don't even have children and i know this is awful. The so called dad is the AH not you. (Edit) so bullying your youngest? Literally calling his own son names and forcing him to do things he is not interested in isnt grounds for divorce? Especially when he was literally backdowned like a little brat because his own father got involved? Sorry but eff him. Anyone who is willingly bullying there own child, isn't fit to be a parent, let alone be a husband

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First story. Divorce.

@TheReal_Antrey

3 ай бұрын

Did you... Stoped listening? I mean I know reading is a difficult skill, but all yoy have to do is listen here

@MacerXGP

3 ай бұрын

​@@TheReal_AntreySome people are just immature and would rather punish than grow together.

@_junedays_1614

3 ай бұрын

@@TheReal_Antreyit’s called righteous fury, instead of allowing someone to take responsibility and change, People want an immediate response (usually drastic) for this situation divorce.

@TheReal_Antrey

3 ай бұрын

@@_junedays_1614 i mean yeah there are a fair number of cases when this is warranted but the husband here is actively changing

@lindah3803

3 ай бұрын

Nope,way to over the top.

Story 1: your husband is a proud father of 2 boys, not 3

@Finn_Smith44

3 ай бұрын

Matt is their son. Liking traditionally feminine things doesn't mean he isn't a son.

@ingasparrow

3 ай бұрын

​@@Finn_Smith44They're saying Dad is only proud of two of his sons.

@ChrissaTodd

3 ай бұрын

​@@Finn_Smith44can we stop saying cooking is feminine, since gordan ramsay has existed for a long ass time

@jeremywhite7463

3 ай бұрын

@@Finn_Smith44 Who said the slightly feminine son wasn’t a son? I said the father is only proud of the 2 masculine sons…

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@SecretVoices25

3 ай бұрын

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