Her support system is standing on business 💯

@meghanwilliams4295

2 ай бұрын

As they should...

@purple7vi0let

Ай бұрын

💯 ‼️👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

She Need To Be Alone And She Need To Focus On Herself

@nanakonadu-

2 ай бұрын

Perfect, Not jump from one horror to another

@purple7vi0let

Ай бұрын

That’s right ‼️💯👋👏👏👏👏👏👏

Life is too short to wait on somebody to act right. SO SO POWERFUL. I pray our youth realise this very soon. There will be few broken hearts.

@dantej2024

2 ай бұрын

Facts 💯

@FastReader1962

2 ай бұрын

Move on.

That man has a whole family at home😂😂😂

Red flags when you don't know the family, and he has a lot of excuses. Run

@JSee61

Ай бұрын

RUN🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

"We're both very busy," But she made time to be on the show, and he didn't 🙄

lets be honest there was no family emergency that stopped him from coming to steve show

@meseretmehari6139

Ай бұрын

Not everyone are dumb enough to bring their life to public. This girl is a whole mess from her own story. And her family are the worst ppl to deal with. As a man I do not wanna deal with anyone girls family about my relationship with a women. Now I’m not saying he is good or bad guy. But her family nor Steve don’t even know about this guy and making so much assumptions as always. If I was the guys and good guy, I would run away as fast as possible!

@brianrobinson1412

Ай бұрын

hell yeah! LOL. I huge national TV show like this and bail? Please

@okeibomo6028

Ай бұрын

​@@meseretmehari6139 Tell that to your daughters when it's time for them to date. Apart from bringing her family business to Steve, who made her see the light, the guy's been doing other stuffs beneath that doesn't make him a suitable partner. Sometimes we need people around that genuinely cares about us to help us remove the scales from our eyes. I'm sorry if you don't get this

We all need Tomas in our life

@debbieechiribel1860

2 ай бұрын

Her 2 friends has the love for her to watch her back & all the moral support

@Rashaadthegr8

2 ай бұрын

Most people can't take a Tomas trust me.

@debbieechiribel1860

2 ай бұрын

For Tomas her bff is watching out for her best interest

@timothybanks2927

2 ай бұрын

But Steve has always said "men can't be friends with women". The man is just waiting for his opportunity. So I guess he either forgot he said it or he's wrong. I've gotten into many debates about this and been chewed up. As long as it's no agenda then men and women can be friends.

@ellistonmclean939

Ай бұрын

​@@timothybanks2927i have had friends i wanted to sleep with but it never happened and after a while i lost that interest and became best of friends

She has a whole gang of people who love her around her. She is blessed and highly favored. Listen to those who love you...

Tomas is the real pick. He knows her, protects her and shows how much he cares.

@regalchic

Ай бұрын

i thought that too

Steve please come to South Africa with this show. Our daughters need this.

Her family is right. Been there, done that. If he is not interested in her meeting his family and friends AFTER A YEAR, not a good sign. Don’t waste any more time. Run!

Her not standing up to greet him is a red flag 🚩

@GreatLee05

Ай бұрын

I agree. I don’t think she’s feeling him.

@user-dc3ms3dc7f

Ай бұрын

I've been looking for this comment

@luwamalem9537

Ай бұрын

​@@GreatLee05 I think she's finally seeing him for what he's ! 🤷🏽‍♀️

@GreatLee05

Ай бұрын

@@luwamalem9537 Quite possibly.

@nflglo

Ай бұрын

She has some growing to do...she want a thug😝🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

What a wonderful support system she has.

The most awkward greeting

It's funny that she wants to give him a second chance without him even asking for a second chance. She just giving out them second chances for free

Nope… he’s married reason why he couldn’t come on the show (he’ll be exposed) and the reason why after a year of dating neither one of them have met each other’s parents!

This is what "i just want a relationship, no matter what" looks like.

Watching this makes me SO grateful for my boyfriend of the past one year! He was ready to meet my parents after not even 6 months and he IMMEDIATELY hit it off with them and now he ALWAYS wants them to come along on our weekend getaways with us! Every week he asks me, “Are your parents coming?! We need to get them out more!” He even just spent hundreds of dollars on orchestra tickets for us and my parents to surprise my dad for his birthday in just under 2 months and made arrangements for my dad (a retired professional trumpet player) to play on stage with said orchestra through connections he has via his brother and arranged for them to play happy birthday for him! He also has met most of my friends and he loves them as well and vice versa! Ladies, if your man won’t meet your family and friends, that’s a HUGE red flag!!!!

@sammie8854

Ай бұрын

Love this for you!!! Hope y’all last forever!!

@jrwheeler81

Ай бұрын

@@sammie8854 I'm pretty sure we're a forever kind of thing! He's 17 years older than me, but that doesn't matter to either of us! We just click so amazingly well and have the exact same sense of humor! I've never laughed as hard or as much as I have in the past year with him! I was widowed in June of 2022 and had a very toxic and abusive marriage for many years, so he's been a breath of fresh air! Sometimes I joke that it seems like he's dating my parents!

@champagnes5898

Ай бұрын

Love this you definitely hit the jackpot..many blessings💯

That greeting was sooooo cold. Eish. I feel so bad. She did not love the guy at all.

@liona1657

2 ай бұрын

Agreed. She was cold.

@purple7vi0let

Ай бұрын

Yeah I feel like that was rude!

Her face when he walked out said it all 🥴 but I must say that post break up glow up looked very good on her!

@dejonbooker2450

Ай бұрын

Exactly. She didn't even stand up to say hello. She still wants her ex.

He's playing you girl

@YourHighness8888

2 ай бұрын

It's her choice to be played.

@iremiawolumate6735

2 ай бұрын

Hell to the yeah 💯

@ousmansallah5286

2 ай бұрын

U right 😢an I hate it when I see things like this omg

@thankfulaB

2 ай бұрын

Yes it seems😊

@chillfluencer

2 ай бұрын

Wrong. Her former family is playing her. Worst women: those who rely on what "mommy said".

Steve, you always say that a male friend is only a friend because he's waiting for the perfect time to swoop in and become more. Is Tomas single? He's been there for her through thick and thin. If he's single, she should take a different look at him.

@jules3048

2 ай бұрын

That’s what I was thinking. I mean maybe there just isn’t a spark there but that was my thinking too

@NBaBall3r26

2 ай бұрын

Tomas had his chance tho and picked a guy for her

@jonscott234

2 ай бұрын

Lots of ladies rarely like what's truly good for them, sad but true

@isowiesow9035

2 ай бұрын

​@@jonscott234 yes and afterwords we got regrets because we didn't realised it first but after.. ladies be happy with what you got! Look at the future what you want to see in your husband later..

@neededtobesaid4275

2 ай бұрын

He's probably interested but she friend-zoned him.Now, she's getting his attention & blocking him from moving on to someone who wants him.

She in love ❤. She can’t see what is coming, no one can convince her

You've wasted a year in your relationship, how many more years are you going to waste?

Oh Tomas is cute...she shld be with him. Think he likes her😊

@NatureForce37

2 ай бұрын

I thought that too, but I think he may be ... how do I say it 🤔.... undercover light in the loafers ... or a little too much sugar in the tank?? 🤣 idk idk idk

Also, always trust yo mama, they never wrong, moms intuition is scary how correct it is

Naive !! That man is married with a whole other family

First of all, i appreciate her for she concerned about her family too for choosing a man for her life. Nowadays it rare, especially from western countries.its a good thing. Second,when a man want a woman to be his wife, he can put a war against anybody for her. 🙏

What a delusional lady. Steve should have put a pic of her bf up so the wife could find out.

@mandlakazincwama4056

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

Why didn't she stand up to greet him. That was disrespectful

@NH-tb2sm

Ай бұрын

That bothered me too and I wish Steve had called her out on that.

@CHopeBerlin

Ай бұрын

@NH-tb2sm he called her out on that actually..that's why she put her hand on the man's knees. But honestly, I rather have her greet him like a decent human being than be flirtatious with him after she treated him so coldly

@NH-tb2sm

Ай бұрын

@@CHopeBerlin it says a lot about a person when they don't have the decency to stand up when meeting and greeting someone.

Very powerful Steve thank you

There's not enough trust in her relationship, only doubt.

Love is blind but our neighbors ain’t.

Tomas seems like such a gentleman, I kinda hoped he would date her.

@NatureForce37

2 ай бұрын

I thought that too, but I think he may be ... how do I say it 🤔.... undercover light in the loafers ... or a little too much sugar in the tank?? 🤣 idk idk idk

@rainiceskates185

2 ай бұрын

I like him too...

@oumysougou3502

2 ай бұрын

@@NatureForce37lol😂

@ubongidip2999

2 ай бұрын

I had the same thought, hoped he was the surprise man 😂

@markowen07

Ай бұрын

Tomas deserves a smarter one

So she couldn't stand to greet the guy? 😂

@nanakonadu-

2 ай бұрын

She didn't ask for this one, I even thought it was a joke, they don't match

@antwinetteluke8372

Ай бұрын

He does not catch her attention! That’s why she did not stand. But it’s not always about the outside. I guess we will see

@shannilove2801

Ай бұрын

girl it's common courtesy whether he catches her attention or not , it's expected@@antwinetteluke8372

@purple7vi0let

Ай бұрын

But it’s still rude! She should have been courteous and stood up and be more humble… ‼️

@tonye.5410

Ай бұрын

​@@antwinetteluke8372it's rude. Just stand, women are too entitled.

It’s a dream to have the support system she has.

Have not met their family it's been one year, a Red flag

@debbieechiribel1860

2 ай бұрын

See, I had a feeling he was dating someone else

I wanna sit next to my new opportunity too 😂😂😂🎉❤

Girl you better run 🏃‍♀️ while you can!

Life is too short to have to wait on somebody to act right. Word!

The friends..😂😂😂😂😂 too cool!!

I really wish i would have had that opportunity of talking to Mr Steeve as my biggest birthday present 🇹🇿

@trillionairetv7666

2 ай бұрын

I'm gonna help you that. When is your birthday?

@angelurima3595

2 ай бұрын

10th march

Listen to your family, they have your best interest at heart!

I swear I need friends like Tomas and Barbara, just went through a divorce because I picked the wrong man, and kept giving him too many chances when I shouldn't have, if I had friends like Barb and Tomas they could help me weed out the bad guys😂

@thatschristinfarmer

2 ай бұрын

Truth. My family tried to warn me about my ex husband. Married him, divorced 2 years later. Lesson learned.

He has a wife and kids at home.... lol

@kimross8831

2 ай бұрын

Exactly what I said! Married man!

Baby girl run he's not serious take it from me hun🇹🇹 listen to your family and friends they love you more than him they are there. Don't get caught up on love get caught up in your worth as a human and a beautiful woman at that❤💯

Mom said "So What's Good?", That Boy had to sweat buuullets at this moment 😂

Razorblades and lemon juice 😂😂😂

@lizkim1546

28 күн бұрын

I replayed this

She have blinders on Girl you too cute for a no show. Your friends are right

I would love to know what happened with her and the guy that her friend tried to hook her up with; he was a tall glass of Chocolate milk goodness and seemed very polite, respectful and very interested in her but she didn't seem interested in him in the very least. I wish I had a whole network of caring people concerned about my happiness enough to try and hook me up with a few men that they believe would treat me right and that I might be attracted to; I would have at least stood up to greet the man with a hug and look like I was optimistic about the date; the look on her face was like, "Throw him back in the ocean!". Smh!

@thesecretaryofcommonsense3851

Ай бұрын

She's not attracted to him... Not now just like she wasn't when he wanted her # before 🤷

I hope she stop and search his heart and not jus his appearance. As my mother always used to say, love who love you never who you love

This was a very good family show Mr. Steve Harvey.... Your presentation is marvelous, your caring for other people is a heart warming one. From this great video, i got something about how the current generation should choose the family in the right manner. Thank you so much for your concerns and socialisms...🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

How does she not see he's NOT for her

@stellamundam6104

2 ай бұрын

Wishfull thinking. She knows he doesn't love her but she wants to keep him around hoping that he will change. He already knows that she loves him so he doesn't care. Good thing she never tried to defend him. She was honest with her "no" answers about him. She's going to have a good man because she opened up and was willing to take advice.

@jules3048

2 ай бұрын

⁠@@stellamundam6104yep. And I think she just wanted to hear it Fr someone else outside her fam

@NBaBall3r26

2 ай бұрын

Maybe the sex was good? That’s why she doesn’t see it.

@NatureForce37

2 ай бұрын

Did you watch the full video? She ended up seeing it and she dropped him! He was also cheating!

Yes its odd steve

Is there a follow-up? Would love to know what happens next! I'm glad they set her up but I feel she's still hung up on the time-waster!

Bestfrnds always laugh😂😂

He has a whole family

Sometimes families could be wrong and other times they're right! Sometimes we often lose a good person for listing to a miserable family member or a friend, but her case is different I think she's just a desperate person.

@milyoh

2 ай бұрын

usually they're right, if a girl is not stubborn and blind folded she will consider

Tomas is handsome. Well, it is unfortunate that he doesn't seem to be the one. This sounds like the 50th chance. I understand. I have been there myself more than once. I had to realize that God truly does love me and that HE REAKLY is my everything. I have to let God prune me and heal me from low self-esteem and others I struggled with and still struggle with as a person. Prayerfully she decided to move on in Jesus' name. He was probably seeing other people as well. It isn't worth taking yourself through unnecessary pain, heartache, heartbreak, and confusion. I pray EVERYONE'S strength in the Lord IN JESUS' NAME. THE NAME ABOVE ALL NAMES. AMEN.

The only thing I could think about is that she didn't stand up to greey him.... You always stand up to greet somone

Girl get out of that relationship please

@YourHighness8888

2 ай бұрын

It's her choice not yours.

The hat is cool, but ...if you're truly from the south, gentlemen always remove their hats when they come indoors. Good luck to both

@thesecretaryofcommonsense3851

Ай бұрын

Hat removal is now OBSOLETE, just like petticoats and tophats are unless they're apart of a costume 🥴🎭

She should of stood up to hug 🤗him

😂😂3 guys. I hope creepy boy is watching this episode.

Baby girl you deserve so much better. All the best.

Gurl you better listen to them. I fought with my family over a guy and its not going well

My beautiful Sister: It is God's role to create man. It is his parent's role to procreate man. It is his mother's role to birth a man. It is his parent's role to raise a man. It is a man's role and choice to mature and become a whole, complete, and ready to commit man. It's our choice and role to partner with a man who wants and is ready to partner with us!

@707tich

2 ай бұрын

Woooooooo Amen. I’m keeping this writing out on my whiteboard at home ❤️💕👏🏾

I thought the man was going to be Tomas

14:49 brilliant episode.. Thomas got the best role award

Her dupport systems is awesome...Thomas js a greet friend and very outspoken too

She didnt even get up to greet him

@323azteca

2 ай бұрын

I like Toma!!!! ❤

@maydate86

2 ай бұрын

He's new to her give them time

@agdcomms9058

2 ай бұрын

He sat too close to her at once.... Red flag... That stunt are for the birds... Relationships fixers are as risky... is that what this TVshow is about 😮😮? -Really 😮😮????

@323azteca

2 ай бұрын

@@agdcomms9058 she don't like him.

Deserve what kind of second chance?! Bail girl!

That’s was so beautiful Mr Steve ❤

He got another woman . Lots of red flags, girl ruunnn.

Profound words Steve's

Steve is a diplomat

When Mom meets him or her she can recognize if they're Good or Bad for you, Mother's know this because they're Never wrong

13:56 so she not gonna stand to meet him? Lol

Every successful man I know who also love and adore their partners always makes time for them! and women too for that matter! if somebody is consistently putting things off or doesn't show up for you, I don't care how busy they are, they are most definitely hiding something!

She's in DENIAL....

Maaan, she’s beautiful

If the family doesn't like him, it's a no.

Always Trust your parents' judgment, if you do have good parents!!

Steve Harvey. That's good 👍👍

Love her family and friends. That she did well! Let go the bozo!

Reesa Teesa watching this and getting PTSD 😂

This breaks my heart...she's such a good girl. And, she's being treated like trash...😮

@viniciuslima9430

Ай бұрын

Just a correction: She is letting herself been treated like that. If she was someone without a family and friends I would even understand but she has a very supportive people behind her. I hope she humble and listen

This seem to have been a good a segment. ❤❤❤

Yeh, the guy wasnt worth it...he was just playing you. However, sometimes when friends hook you up with someone, it never works. But if its someone out of your circle it does the magic, like our C. L. O over there.

Within 1:45 seconds I knew this relationship isn’t stable. Her self talk “I’m too goofy for someone to just notice me from across the room” makes her vulnerable to appreciate any crumb of attention. When Steve asked why she wants him to convince her family her man is decent one of her reasons is “we look good together”. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Really good Steve.

HE IS MARRIED😂😂😂😂😂😂 SORRY LADY

I love the way her friends love at the foolishness of not only their friend but her supposed boyfriend. They are ride or die!

Not the "family emergency" excuse.🤦🏾‍♀️ I mean, the fact that all she can say is "we look good together," is the reason she's trying to hold on to him. Why is it that the whole family AND the best friends see the red flags but she can't.

Thank you Jesus!!! The only thing that he would have done would have been to separate her from those that love her. Thank you Uncle Steve!!!

Family emergency is the greatest excuse but not good to play with the universe.

"Life is too short to wait on anyone to act right"🎉

Put your tennis shoes on and run 👟👟

Dude has a whole family elsewhere, he's probably good looking so she wants it to be true so badly despite the red flags. She should cut the delusion & be accountable to herself.