The fact that she knew to start clinging to him for her safety at 3 means that his violent streaks and their arguments must be terrible. Way worse than what they are saying. Poor kid...

@jazzyjezzy3016

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah... she grew up too fast...

@maymayy1208

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly.thats what made me cry, cause she's sideing with him causes she's terrified of him. She rather be with him than against

@anushka1223

3 жыл бұрын

ikr toxic male toxic masculinity is never good ik there r men who hv this male ego but i hope they dont use it in a bad way to dominate themselves on the weaker ones . ( n ofc this doesnt go for all men )

@kathybear5818

3 жыл бұрын

I find it odd though how she wouldn’t want him to leave why? She should be happy that the person she fears most is out of sight.

@KaotikBOOO

2 жыл бұрын

@@kathybear5818 she fears him when he's angry so she tries to do thing that won't make him angry, that makes sense She's not "terrified" or anything like this, that's just the comments over reading things that haven't been said like usual Parents fight, they yell, the kid is scared of both but chose to side with the strongest because he's scarier

I cried when it is revealed that the girl is actually scared of her dad.

@bekahrogers4831

5 жыл бұрын

Berna Aksoz me too! Bawled my eyes out.

@127inch

5 жыл бұрын

Same, this hit me hard

@fadilahmohdnor3188

5 жыл бұрын

Me tooo... 😭😭😭😭

@Jakikikan

5 жыл бұрын

Who cuts the onion?!

@BirdsofParis

5 жыл бұрын

I think it's just to emphasize​ how much they're crying involuntarily

The husband has a dark side that the children see thats why theyre nicer to him so he wouldnt turn on them

@APerson-ui5zq

5 жыл бұрын

or simply they assume that the mum deserves to be treated like this and thus they are not nice to her like the father they follow his example, if he was nice to his wife the children would follow too

@Ssookawai

5 жыл бұрын

Every single person on this planet has a dark side. The kids suffered because he wasn't aware of it, he doesn't seem to do it on purpose.

@rachelnepumoceno5953

5 жыл бұрын

@@APerson-ui5zq they did not assume that mom deserves to be treated like this it is just that they are scared that the dad might turn on them that is why they show their love to their father.......wait......did you even finish the video? or atleast get to 22:00 ?

@ghxsty_

5 жыл бұрын

A Person did you not watch the video? The little girl confirmed she was afraid of her dad

@maymayy1208

4 жыл бұрын

@@APerson-ui5zq bruh. Watch the whole thing 😑

The way the little girl reacted to her dad is the same way most women that are in abusive relationships act. They do what ever they can to please their man and make him happy so that he wont get angry and hurt them. It's sad that she had to learn to adapt like that at a young age. No little girl or women should ever fell this way. I hope hey really fix their relationship or get a divorce.

@Matagu1

5 жыл бұрын

You forgot Abused man. Many many man are abused, bullied, manipulated and raped by their girlfriend or wife.

@abigails.9841

5 жыл бұрын

GhiraLink Men are biologically stronger than women and culturally the 'head of the household' because of it; far more women end up being the ones heavily abused in the relationship when it goes wrong. There are cases where men are abused by their wives/girlfriends, but they are not 'many many'. It's much less common, but it isn't any less depressing. Abusive relationships like these rarely get better; the best way is to walk out when you get the chance. Children are a strong reason to be tied down, find yourself trapped. I hope this one finds its way. The children here are my greatest concern, as they are likely to struggle from this experience. The toll of being raised from broken homes takes on children is never a good one.

@abigails.9841

5 жыл бұрын

Peachypink짜니 I'm sorry you had to go through that. You and your mother must've gone through hell because of it. I had a good father, he never abused me in any way, shape or form. I feel very lucky because it. Having a loving relationship with your parents throughout childhood and adulthood is such an important bond, it saddens me seeing the people in the comment section, like you, talking about their own experiences with abuse in their own homes. Best wishes to you and your family.

@twiceboo5601

5 жыл бұрын

Peachypink짜니 I can lowkey relate to that ;( just about a month ago I was in a very bad mood so I went outside my house and I just wanted a walk so my parents especially my dad, he pulled me in took me upstairs my mother came running in I tried to espcape but they were pulled me my mother pulled me by my hair and she was trying to choke me, I screamed for help so my family helped me get out and also my dad broke the door when I tried to keep it shut. After all that happen my family blamed everything on me, they said I was possessed by the devil and they kept insulting me. The next day I was forced to hug my parents when I really didn’t want to. they called me weird because I wouldn’t hug my parents, if only they understood how people who’ve gone through this felt. I’m really sorry for what happened to you I really hope your relationship with your dad he’s better.

@rayychill1306

5 жыл бұрын

chaeyoung myoui I’m so sorry for you to go through this..

Me: marriage is a blessing Hello counselor: Aha so is divorce 😂😂😂😂

@sea20906

5 жыл бұрын

@Ri'AikaCröw most of the time on this show, these kid&adult marriges are hopeless 😂

@iskotayo1

5 жыл бұрын

when there is too much stress, and couple fights alot especially in front of their kids. Divorce indeed a blessing...

@tacha363

5 жыл бұрын

I have literally never heard them suggest a divorce even when they really really need to.

@jaywalker6728

5 жыл бұрын

1001th like!

@adventuresociety588

4 жыл бұрын

omfg

Probably one of the most heartbreaking concerns I've watched in a while. Imagine she was doing that out of fear. It colours the whole concern differently.

@murendenin4697

5 жыл бұрын

What I like about this comment is how you spelled colour because I haven't seen anyone else spell it that way so thank you

@AmethystKaianna

5 жыл бұрын

:D You're welcome! I refuse to spell it any other way

@miri4963

5 жыл бұрын

@@murendenin4697 I'm on your side😂

@illegalhunter7

5 жыл бұрын

wait, Doesn't everyone outside of the US spell it as colour? I learnt to spell it as colour and not color...

@AmethystKaianna

5 жыл бұрын

illegalhunter7 I thought it was just the UK

That twist was heartbreaking :(

@yoojihoon97

5 жыл бұрын

Baako Jernigan yeah I cried the moment she say she act cute so that her dad won’t get angry

@BriChuhime-sama

5 жыл бұрын

I know, I almost bawled like I got hit

@DedexxxArthur

5 жыл бұрын

i cried

@armym.c3031

5 жыл бұрын

Baako Jernigan ikr! That was painful to hear! Never cried so hard.

@music.chatte2573

5 жыл бұрын

@@yoojihoon97 Same!!! I really felt that because it reminded me of my past :((

i thought it was "interesting" when they figured out she was actually scared of her dad and that's why she acts like this. i wouldn't have guessed tbh and i think it's a huge concern, i hope everything works out for their family

@KnotApps

5 жыл бұрын

I'm not really sure about this though. She is just a small six year old and those particular questions in that order were probably leading her on tbh. Kids generally try to hide from people they are scared off not wait up all night for them so I'm still a little skeptical about this.

@Nik-pr7ox

5 жыл бұрын

@@KnotApps I was really scared of my mother when i was about her age and would do anything to keep her "my friend". Even if that meant staying up late to greet her, since i was scared something would happen if i ignored her. I get your opinion though, I'm just less skeptical about it since I've had something similar happen to me

@KnotApps

5 жыл бұрын

@@Nik-pr7ox ah no I don't mean in all cases. I'm sorry it happened to you, but looking at this kid and the way she throws really loud tantrums when her father leaves for work, that's not what you'd do if you were scared of someone right, especially since that could get them mad.

@Nik-pr7ox

5 жыл бұрын

@@KnotApps True, and im not saying I completely believe everything that was going on but i think the kid knows that her dad likes it when she shows she "cares" (even if that means throwing tantrums apparently) because he didn't think it was a problem, which could be a reason why she's doing it. It's just that from my experience I know you kinda learn what that person likes and dislikes, even though you're very young

@KnotApps

5 жыл бұрын

@@Nik-pr7ox could be, yeah that makes sense. I Hope they sort it out too.

Wtf just happened?! The biggest plot twist in history

@captainlevi7188

5 жыл бұрын

after k.will mv

@anushasan9452

4 жыл бұрын

@@captainlevi7188 Yes. That will always be on the 1st position 😂

@bottlegod4995

4 жыл бұрын

I honestly thought this one was just an act

@k-lovers8400

3 жыл бұрын

When children see parents fighting they some time chose strong to survive with .. this is the thing which even I do cause my parents don't live together..

@harunakdczy7376

2 жыл бұрын

That's just a kid .she don't know what is she sayin

....i am never getting married.

@unikitty2199

5 жыл бұрын

You're the first to comment!

@lunyx8147

5 жыл бұрын

ho yay? :D

@dreamerlady1633

5 жыл бұрын

l u n y x ,if you are not ready to commit and sacrifice better not get married like me too😂😂

@lunyx8147

5 жыл бұрын

@@dreamerlady1633 i'll probably never be ready. :/

@madrinsx8770

5 жыл бұрын

Thinking the same too😂😉😂

Their daughter saying that she does all those things because she was scared of her own dad.... I died. I literally cried so much my mom stared at me. That would be really heartbreaking for both the mom and dad. I hope they can work things out. Its never okay to fight in front of the kids, that could really be traumatic depending on how they fight. That’ll leave a scar on their kids heart. :(

Am I the only one who literally cried when they revealed the reason why she’s so attached to his dad?

@ansrutachatterjee37

5 жыл бұрын

Nope

@yoojihoon97

5 жыл бұрын

Syuhadah Anuar I cried heaps too

@bangtanssecretcatboy5128

5 жыл бұрын

No :(

I would rather be lonely than be miserable...

@jiminsgotjams5891

5 жыл бұрын

Black Widow i think this too

@mybtsarmyculture9623

5 жыл бұрын

Same thoughts here

@Matagu1

5 жыл бұрын

MGTOW exist not for no reason.

@teresc3181

5 жыл бұрын

Rather than lonely, I think "alone" is a better word to use for your statement. Afterall, one could be "alone but not lonely" ;) Eitherway, I hope that you're neither lonely nor miserable :D

@lilypad6092

5 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately it’s not that easy when u r a kid

When there's an issue with a child, I never blame them. I believe no one should. People are the way they are because of their environment. Kids mostly learn from what they see rather than what they are told, so I'm not surprised the mom is getting disrespected since their dad doesn't show her respect. I hope they learned from this and provide a healthier environment for their children to grow up in.

HOLY SHIT. I read the comments before watching the video, so I knew what the true concern was but WOW.... I still burst into tears and my heart broke from the way they phrased it - that her daughter chose the "strongest to survive" my goddddd...

@rapmongodofdestruction6089

5 жыл бұрын

michelle p same here and it hits to close to home my parents just got a divorce from a abusive relationship

@ellenphilpotts-troy2098

5 жыл бұрын

I dont understand that part where you say she choose the strongest to survive.

@sierramobley8962

5 жыл бұрын

@@ellenphilpotts-troy2098 the daughter chose to be close to her dad because he's the strong, scary one. If she's on his good side, she doesn't have to be scared. That's what that means

@madyhurd7215

5 жыл бұрын

So you're saying this little girl does not love her mom?

@mxeyachae

5 жыл бұрын

@@madyhurd7215 michlle p doesn't mean the girl doesn't love her mother.She said,she always see her parents fight. And her father abusive to her mother so she chose her father because she afraid she will be hit or yelled by her father.

The plot twist is just too heartbreaking... He pushed his pregnant wife in the stomach, I don't think anyone can ever forget that. Hope she get treated better after this.

I remember when i was a kid i always talk nonsense to my father to avoid him getting into fight with my mom and when i can sense that there argument will lead in that way i will do stupid things. I prefer to get disciplined by my father instead of seeing them fight.

@exoticme4760

4 жыл бұрын

I used to do that too... But this one time I caused such a big chaos that they talk nicely infront of me but there on extremely bad terms... it makes me so sad that our family is nowhere near happy :'(

Hello counsellor has changed my views about so many things lmao

@soulsearcher7077

4 жыл бұрын

Like what? Just curious

@melissaivy8860

3 жыл бұрын

@@soulsearcher7077 Yeah no shit. Lol. I wanna too.

the problem with hello conselor is that alot of couples come here with really bad problems and then they get the just communicate and everything will be fine when a lot of these couples should go to counseling and some should leave their partner. I think when people write letters they forget that none of these people are liscensed therapist and really cant' help you mend a bad relationship. This is so sad. Who knows what the hell happens in that house and what kind of stress the child has to live under.

@sasuneuzumaki2186

4 жыл бұрын

You can't judge a shoot that lasts for six hours that is cut short to an hour . I know a person who has been there as audience . Apparently they have professionals behind the scenes and the often send them there and they only air the interesting part of the whole thing . So it's kinda not nice to judge what you see here .

@letswinwin9950

4 жыл бұрын

sadly mental health is sort of a taboo in korea :((

@divikaramie5176

4 жыл бұрын

@@sasuneuzumaki2186 seriously? :o and wow i did not know that the show was this longer :o

@tingle2323

3 жыл бұрын

Well just bcoz u r looking it as bad relationship.. How can u say if it isnt going to be managed or not.. Many ppl dont realize their mistakes but when they do.. There r chances to change it or try to manage relationship.. I know as a modern.. we only see divorce or break up as options.. But relationship dont manage like that.. If mother really wanted to end relation.. she would have already. But she wanted to manage it.. So there's nothing wrong to try.. And this show is good.. At least their wrong side comes.. So they cant take wrong steps and try to be good.. As many already saw them o show

@florentinag1712

2 жыл бұрын

@@letswinwin9950 really? 🥺

She love him...because she's afraid of him :o No I'm not cryiiiing ToT

@Matagu1

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah. Seeing his broken face and hiding the tears was very heartbroken. There he realised, he messed up. Aaaaah, why it is so hard, seeing a crying man? T___T

@hsnrb9959

5 жыл бұрын

@@Matagu1 It took him being on camera from him to realise. He lacks common sense. How did he find a wife.

I’m 22 now, and I still remember my parents fighting a lot when I was a kid. My dad was really verbally abusive, and when he was angry, he yelled and screamed at my mom. My dad was the nicest guy until you pissed him off. My mom tried so hard to hide that from us as kids, but there are a few instances when we would see stuff. I have younger sisters and a brother, and there were occasions where I would take care of them and send them to play outside or on the other side of the house because of the arguments. I was only 10 or 11, but I was seriously protective of them, to the point where my mom started to get worried about me. When I was 15, she told my dad to fix himself or never come back home. And I swear, he did a complete 180. I have never seen him argue with my mom since then, and he spends every day trying to make up for all the stuff he did before. I also feel bad that he feels like he needs to spend every day repenting, but it’s just how he feels he needs to be. I’ve never seen my parents happier than they are now. It takes confrontation and realizing that there are consequences to your actions, but change is possible for this dad. He realized it early on, at least.

@ninii711

2 жыл бұрын

i have the same story as you but my dad hasn't changed yet :(

15:03 can we just appreciate how this audience member was already pushing the button, even though it wasn’t time yet?

@mikeybeanie9775

3 жыл бұрын

Mhm

When it was revealed how the little girl truly felt that was the punch in the face he needed to hear. He thought it was all fun and games till he won his dumb prize. We don’t need to do anything y’all this moment will forever haunt him till the day he dies. The fact she even admitted that next to her dad meant she knew in that environment (the set not at home) she wouldn’t be yelled at is really sad because she knows when to say certain things.

I was the same as I child because when you witness violence from your parent early on especially as a toddler you tend to split them into two different people the good one and the bad one as you grow you'll realize they're the same person but you also learn what to do and how to act to not let that bad person emerge. I grew up with my first words being "dada" I was called a daddies girl I got spoiled everyone in surface know my dad loves me but my first memories were of my dads violence towards my mother and him being drunk. At first I was such a good child but then when the violence did not stop I became violent as well as a coping mechanism. At 16 I was diagnosed with Clinical depression and PTSD I was in treatment when the strongest of drugs used to treat adults because I also had really bad sleeping problems such as night terrors and insomnia and at 18 was diagnosed with Boderline Personality Disorder and Bipolar 2. Children soak up experiences and childhood trauma like a sponge and it's those that shape them as a person but they'd end up blaming themselves anyways.

@itzroseswifeu3421

5 жыл бұрын

Sometimes I feel so scared when my parents fought in front of me, and Everytime they fight I just don't know what to do so I just put on my earphones and pretend to look at my phone reading while I'm tearing up. I really want to say stop to them but I'm scared

@sunillarahmudin8108

5 жыл бұрын

Kim jennie nah...u can step up and stop them...its not bad...I used to do the same thing as u...and now I regret and blame myself for not stepping up as a member of family and let my dad abuse my mom...therefore do what u can do now, so u don't regret later on.

@sunillarahmudin8108

5 жыл бұрын

@@itzroseswifeu3421 ...just try and make them talk and listen to both..so they can tell what they want...talking and listening is the only way to solve the problem

@belstar4455

5 жыл бұрын

kim jennie don't worry everything gets better trust me I went through it and I want to say one thing try to talk to them and tell them how you feel about what's happening because that may help them see the damage that is making on you I wish I would of done that when I was younger but I can't change the past and now I just move on one day at a time

@AyAReI00

5 жыл бұрын

Guys sometimes are so scary, why on Earth they think they are better than woman that treat them like shit.... Why marry if you hate woman, you only want a free maid

Man I started to cry when she told her true feelings on why she’s scared of her dad, it breaks my heart because I can relate to her problem. No parent should ever hear their child say this 💔

@Ahonya666

5 жыл бұрын

Me too...I can relate but I ended hating my father because of his behaviour to my mother, my brother and me

Shin Dongyeob always knows just the right questions to ask... That plot twist was so devastating!

@whitemusk7411

3 жыл бұрын

Shin Dongyeob very clever

Ah, this made me cry like a baby. As someone who comes from a household with an abusive father, this absolutely broke my heart. The little girl really was just trying to survive, even though children should never have to “survive” anything. Nothing like this should ever happen to anybody and the fact that it does, all the time in fact, hurts me so fucking much. I hope the mother and her children are able to get away from that clearly abusive man and that they are able to heal. The effects abuse has on a person, especially a child, will never truly go away, but I pray with everything in me that it at least gets a little bit better for them. God bless them.

I remember being young and my parents always fighting. I remember putting my money in my moms purse and saying dad gave it to her so she’d be happy with him. Kids shouldn’t have to witness their parents fighting all the time. It really changes you.

As soon as he said “if she doesn’t mess with me first...” I literally wanted to scream. Even if she does stress him out, he shouldn’t be intimidating her or the kids because the kids will be scared of him for the rest of their life.

I don’t understand why they want the wife to be the one to say “Good job” first instead of him. I’m glad she asked when should she say it first and not him.

@gemini1225

4 жыл бұрын

why couldn't she? I mean yes, the husband is a the wrong here but communication is what they need. They need to communicate. No matter who start it first.

I hope they'll change so that all will be loved equally.. She scared to get on her father bad side so she act cute, spoilt just because to ease the tension & his nerve & let him have her attention... Its just plain heart breaking to see kid medled with parents relationship..

The fact that she's doing good towards her dad bcs of fear hurts the most. She must be traumatized

... Tbh something about the dad still throws me way off... I hope I'm wrong

@leialim3437

5 жыл бұрын

Tee Jay exactly he seems strange

@Kandgoods

5 жыл бұрын

I definitely feel there's some sexual abuse going on...

@fuki_slam

5 жыл бұрын

Kandgoods Yeah, the whole naked part didn't help

@saori5808

5 жыл бұрын

When he said all those things to the wife about not being able to take care of children in front of everyone and he didn't even think it was wrong , that's when I knew he was more fucked up than he seemed

@jellybean8622

5 жыл бұрын

Omg I thought it was just me He's just really strange. And I agree, the fact that the kid ran up to him naked... Idk he just has a bad aura

I feel sorry for the kid. I grew up seeing my parents fighting in front of me and my siblings and it is not good. I had a trauma and I'm scared of people fighting in front of me. I used to keep our knives in our house bc i thought if i will not keep that thing my mom or my dad will kill each other. P. S *the dad should really respect her wife and be a good example to his kids.*

@Fabiejin

5 жыл бұрын

I am sorry you had to go through that and that it left a trauma:( No child should witness their parents fighting to such an extend.. I really hope you are doing well now!

@triciamercadejas7184

5 жыл бұрын

@@Fabiejin Thank you so much. I am fine now tho I am still scared of people fighting but I always pretend that I am not because people around me would tease me. And now I am not keeping our knives anymore bc i feel embarrassed whenever our knife get lost and they would ask me and tease me. Thank you so much

@triciamercadejas7184

5 жыл бұрын

@@Fabiejin yes. i agree!! parents should be a good example to their children.

@natbebe

5 жыл бұрын

This happened to me too, I had depression (I think I still have, but anyways) because of that. Even tho my parents were divorced, my mom would always fight with her boyfriends, and try to hurt them. Bi the thing is that she would scream even if no one was touching her, so I would panic and get myself inside the fight, because I fought her boyfriend was beating her. My mom has psychological problems, since her mother always hated her, so she never really had a person who she could rely on, only my grandpa. She never listened to me when I suggested to her to see a psychologist, since our family have people that had schizophrenia(it can be genetic) and she has exactly the same characteristics. She said "No, I'm not going, you're the crazy here, not me.". So we would fight, and she would try to beat me, but my dad would enter in my front and get aggressive. Until this day I can't see man screaming, I just can't. Women either, it freaks me out. I start to cry, and I can't breath properly, I feel like dying. I know how you feel, I hope you are okay. All the love ❤

@triciamercadejas7184

5 жыл бұрын

@@natbebe ohmygosh that was so sad. i hope you're fine now, keep on fighting! all the looooove!!! 💚

You're a strong woman, but kinda don't like the way your husband acts as a partner to you. It should be like - both of you vs whatever problems you have not like somehow seeing you as a rival.

My dad cheated on my mom had kids on the side and I always defended him which broke my mom heart to this day she still talks about how I defended him and in the end he choose his other family over us and I haven't spoken to him or seen him in 3 years , I will always regret defending him! This just made me think about how sick some dad's are.

@leialim3437

5 жыл бұрын

I Am The Boss my Gosh why did you defend him in the first place :/

@taehyungsreflections4804

5 жыл бұрын

I hope you're not blaming yourself, because it's not always easy to know who's in your corner and even if it is, sometimes you just grab onto something in fear of losing it. We all do things we regret, but in order to move on we need to forgive ourselves and remember that you aren't the one who should feel bad, your "dad" should. This probably didn't do much for you, but regardless of that I still wish you the best of luck in the future♡

@sunnydays6144

5 жыл бұрын

No offence, but if he literally cheated on her you should have known it was wrong? Cheating is wrong? Why would you defend him for cheating?

@saori5808

5 жыл бұрын

Watch superman grief. It's a rally sweet episode with really sweet dad. It'll make u feel better after watching this

@saori5808

5 жыл бұрын

@@leialim3437 why did the girl in the video defend the dad in the first place? She did it for a reason

From this episode i realize that my father is the best father

“The most precious inheritance that parents can give their children is their own happiness. Our parents may be able to leave us money, houses, and land, but they may not be happy people. If we have happy parents, we have received the richest inheritance of all.” Couldn’t be more true.

i want to have my family...but in reality I'm scared... coming from a broken family and a society when violence is somehow a norm it really is scary having a family...

@ayshas288

5 жыл бұрын

Marriage is really a gamble, and it's unfortunate that it is that way.

@sassyNot4u

5 жыл бұрын

Date longer than 6 months; these people were not very smart there. I think two years is a good time frame to shoot for. Have ACTUAL long conversations about the tough things, like finances, how to handle disagreements, and how to raise kids. You'll do fine, as long as you find someone equally dedicated and willing to work at it. Marriage is not easy. I tell my daughter be willing to walk away before or during an engagement period if you find someone is not compatible with your beliefs. Even if you think you love them. There are others you can find that you'll love that will be a better match for marriage and raising children. To be honest, I think the more respect you have for other people; the better marriage material you are, and the same is true in your potential spouse.

@tijanamarkovic2495

5 жыл бұрын

Same i'm scared that when i get married that my husband will get abusive and if we would get divorced my family would hate me bc it's a no go for them

I always love when there are adult mom guests on the show sitting next to the guest since they understand and voice out their opinions naturally for the guests 💕💕💕

Dongyoeb is practically the same as a certified psychologist. He literally pinpointed the family's whole problem with all that vague information that he only heard about in that small 20 minutes. He may be funny and a pervert, but you can't deny he's a great guy with a great sense of wisdom.

@sasuneuzumaki2186

4 жыл бұрын

Umm the shoot is like 6 hours . Each concern is at least 2 .5 hours . They just air the interesting parts. So I'm sure he figured out later on. But he still great.

From what I saw in korean shows, drama, etc. The parents always asking their child in a young age to pick who's the best "mom" or "dad" maybe that's why a lot of Koreans kids prefer one of the parents that loving both.

@madyhurd7215

5 жыл бұрын

I watch that a lot in Superman Shows and i always wondered why these parents are asking that of a child. I thought it was a cute thing they would do just to see.

@CK-dz8vt

5 жыл бұрын

Whenever my mom see me become even closer to her, she tried her best to make me spend more time with my dad and communicate more with him... That is why i really hate the question that makes me choose between them... I love them both and thats the truth...

@EloiseInParis

5 жыл бұрын

My parents never did that (probably partially because it was no question I was a huge momma's girl, lol), but my aunts used to do it all the time. They would ask me who I liked best, and I would panic and cry.

@CK-dz8vt

5 жыл бұрын

Instead of asking children to choose between mom or dad... I think it is better for them to ask 'Do you love us???' because parents complete each other in order to raise us and care for us....

The mom's face when she realizes her daughter's bias was a form of self protection is really heartbreaking.

That twist actually shocked me. Poor baby! But at the end it seems like things will turn around. Because Dad loves his daughter a lot and he sees (hopefully) the error of his ways, I think they will work towards being more communicative towards each other. Also, Jo Ahye is literally the best name ever, so pretty.

Divorce is also an option IF A GUY PUSH YOU WHILE PREGNANT un sure he hits her or throw things at her in "fights" ... Plus abusive guys ARE NICE TO EVERYONE ELSE so that when woman look for help people dont believe them

brave girl..i hope she never changes...be this brave forever..the father seems genuinely shocked...i hope he will learn from this and not take revenge...

27:42 what a great man👏🏻 Throughout the vedio he was just very wise.... i see no one appreciating him. He knew that they shouldn't let the kid think that her parents aren't good parents or uncool so he appreciated both the parents infront of her so that she could see them as equal👍🏻

21:03 Im so shockedd and got goosebumpssss 😱😱😱

I thought that this would be a regular concern, but it sure took a hard turn. The husband is obviously more than verbally abusive.....

Am I the only one who wishes there was a show like Hello Counselor in America? Something where you can resolve some issues with the family all while not having it be as heavy as Dr. Phil, so that way people don't feel as pressured?

@Dingo7423

5 жыл бұрын

"Jerry Springer" LOL

Im never marrying a man like him.

@decalcomani1169

4 жыл бұрын

You won't know.

That's true. Parents's fight will never be forgotten

Wow, if I’m the wife, I might cry every day in my sleep huhu

Poor kid I know how that feels I also grew up seeing my parents fighing I would cry every time they fought, I became a really shy person that had hard time in making friends and one thing I wish I would of done was talk to my parents about how I felt maybe they would of saw the damage they made on me and my siblings I will not lie it affected us a lot

@rapmongodofdestruction6089

5 жыл бұрын

Isabel Star same this episode just hit to close to home

@chuuyasan28

5 жыл бұрын

Same..

@TweSunshine

5 жыл бұрын

I can relate

"...it makes me happier seeing my parents love each other, rather than being good to me." Wow, I felt that.

I could not help crying when she talked about her husband who hit her stomach when she was pregnant, and when her child said she preferred her father because she was afraid ... like someone pressing my chest felt very tight to hear it ..

Chaewon is so brave for being so honest even though she is sitting next to her dad. If me and my dad had been put in the same situation when I was Chaewon's age I don't know if I would have been able to be so brave.

I'm crying since Chaewon said she was scared of her dad. I wish they're doing ok now and they're happy, especially the daughters

At first I thought this is a simple concern,but then..... it's more complicated than I thought it would be. The kid is really smart,she knows that she need to take advantage on her father to protect herself.

I don't think these types of stories should be aired. This video will follow the mother and the child for the rest of their life, and they don't deserve that. It's also dangerous for the mother in situations like these, as with the secret out, his abuse might escalate.

@Cyhcg5uhgb

5 жыл бұрын

I understand what you mean, but I also think that it is important that more stories like this are shown especially in Korea where abuse isnt really talked about that much.

This episode is so important. I believe it is something every parent must see so that they can truly understand their children and how severely their actions actually affect them. It is so important for a child to have a positive environment to grow in.

“Like the whole universe!” I loved that

This made me cry so hard. I could slightly relate to the little girl since I grew up seeing my grandparents argue in front of me. It's because of my grandad that I'm terrified of people, especially men, when they start yelling. No child should have to see any adults regularly arguing, it can be very traumatic.

My father and my mother. They fought alot. One day, we went to SEOUL to participate a bts fansigh event When my mother and father fought at public, i will always go somewhere far away and left them be. I cried the most so i chose my father to survive When they divorce, i had to live with my mother, we move to malaysia, and i was crying in my room. My mother will compared my brother and sister to me I will cry Im my relatives eyes, they look at my mother as an angel Im my eyes, i look at my mother as a devil

@kookiesandcream1925

5 жыл бұрын

I feel sorry for you

@aetherdemigod

5 жыл бұрын

Jimin's mochi cheeks and cute eyes Sweetheart, plz don't feel down. God will give u blessings if u persevere thru this. I pray that u can get away from ur mother and that u can live a peaceful life. Stay nice and cool oki? Have a great day sweetie.

@rubalasuresh04

4 жыл бұрын

I have been through a lot too. It causes so much pain. I wish you get peace. Do what makes you happy. And one day you will be out of their problems. Dont hold a grudge on anyone.

i'm glad all saw it as a concern. i've seen worse cases in the past that they just dodged and said it wasn't a concern and they only needed to talk

That little girl is so smart, she knew what she had to do to stay safe It broke my heart

They need to comunicate more, talk heart to heart with cold headed manner.. it’s sad to know that the daughter takes his dad side bcs she’s scared of him

@ellenphilpotts-troy2098

5 жыл бұрын

I think that is hard to talk for her, cuz husband is hot temper.

This is other thing entirely.. but kahi is still so beautiful

Note : married people must say nice words to each other..

@whitemusk7411

3 жыл бұрын

Yup n respect each other

nah but the hurt in his face when Chaewon said she did it because she was scared of him 😭

I feel bad for the mother. When you gets older, i want you to imagine how your mother did everything for you, she did take care of you inside of her womb with 9 months.

Can i just say my respect for the panel. They fragmented the situation very well and in a considerate manner. The real issue was elsewhere and would never think of it if not the hosts had pointed it out! I hope this episode opens some other's eyes that may be facing the same situation but didn't know it yet.

Am I the only one who think he looks like Yang Hyun Seok especially when he’s smiling ? 😂

I had never related so much to an episode of HC like this. I'm glad they were open to talk about this but the parents and the little girl need therapy asap, things can cool down for a moment but they aren't aiming the actual issues, misscomunication, intrafamiliar violence, anger management and other possible issues that were not spoken here.

That little angel is simply amazing 😭💖 God bless their family XX

after reading the comments I really don't want to watch this episode because I know It's going to put me in a bad mood but.... here we go :/

Wow if I married a man like this I would totally hate myself ugh

20:51 honestly i don't think she meant it she is still super young and i think seeing people talking about it made her say yes, it doesn't seem like she really meant it when she talked about how she's scared of her mum she started to cry bec she could remember it, but when talking about her dad if she was really scared of him, she would've cried idk but that's what i think

It is nice to see her daughter smiled when dad gave message to her mom.

This is just so heartbreaking to watch 💔was I the only one who break my eyes out😭

I regretted going on comment section. It's full of spoilers huhu

@tacocrunch4512

5 жыл бұрын

I know right >:[

@ellie7646

4 жыл бұрын

what else is the comments going to be? irrelevant topics?

i love kang hyungwook. that man is just so straight with literally anyone.

Out of all episodes, these were one of the most heart-breaking episode I’ve watched.

This is very common in all rich Indian families

I’m literally trying not to cry I relate to that 6 year old so much. She said she was closer to her dad because he was scary, have I been doing that also omg. My dad is the same way and he is so mean but yet I still gravitate towards him I’m so shook rn

I'm bawling my eyes, I hope they live happily now.

Glad they worked it out…this show finally did sumn lool

I usually watch my Mom and dad having an argument. they always fight each other since I'm 6 years old and know I'm 15 years can yalls imagine that? my siblings we are not close so I'm often alone at my room by myself. I also have a problem with my sch which is I'm being a victim of bully. One day I want to commit suicide but I still think abt my dream. I found bts and bts just save me from my worst life. they giving me hope they like a light in my life. and now even my parents still fight and often didn't see my siblings also still getting bully. I choose to stay I will fight them. this is my life and I'm used to protect myself. no one can handle me

@wucin9631

5 жыл бұрын

지샤전 You choosing to fight and keep going because of your dream... also gives me some strength... I’m glad I saw your comment and if you keep trying hard, I think I can too...

@jiminsgotjams5891

5 жыл бұрын

Cindy Windy there's nothing impossible let's fight for our life. thiis our life no one can handle it just ourselves

@alimatormusa7435

5 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏💖💖

@alimatormusa7435

5 жыл бұрын

I hope one day you'll meet them and get to tell them your story

@jiminsgotjams5891

5 жыл бұрын

Alima Tormusa who is.them? bts or hello counselor hahaha

They don't understand each other, that's the problem

Hello counselor never fails to make me cry😭

This twist is actually stunning..holy shit

why the dad looks like yang hyun suk for me okay what is wrong with my eyes🙃

@renalyn6007

5 жыл бұрын

I also think so

its crazy to think that the child would act cute to not enrage her dad because she's scared of him... i almost don't believe it just because she waited for him until 4am like that's immense dedication for a child to handle out of fear. in my opinion, it kind of seems like the child just said yes to each question such as "do you act cute cause youre scared of your dad?" because she didn't really know how to convey her thoughts so she just said yes to ease herself. i think we all underestimate how kids think because we think that theyre not mentally developed enough to create such thoughts but in reality they always know whats going on. idk those were just my thoughts but for all i know this could all be entirely real which is insane.

@muiton4472

5 жыл бұрын

Ellen Sea what do you mean that’s immense dedication? Fear is a strong motivator.

@val-lb3mf

5 жыл бұрын

Actually, you sound like you never been through a big family fight. Trust me I didn't even dare to go to the toilet without my parents permission. Fear is strong

@violet5224

5 жыл бұрын

I honestly think you might be right, but we'll never know for sure. Either way i'm glad it turned out like this because now the dad might finally change his ways

@rukzrk

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly what I thought how can a 6 year old stay awake everyday till 4am and play till 7am it's really unhealthy mentally and cry like that when he leaves for work, if she was really scared she wouldn't cry like that she would fear making him angry....when kids fear people or things they stay away. ... then again like you said it could real

@smilylaugh3725

5 жыл бұрын

i disagree you can see on the last question they asked her about being scared of him she strongly answered yes in a tone which makes it sound like what they asked her was spot on i also think she is a really smart kid and in the end every animal tries to survive young or not ir doesnt matter as much as its heart breaking to say this we all have a mentality of staying alive and surviving she was acting in a way she thought would "save her/keep her alive" and from what i saw im pretty sure he was way more violant then what they have told us to make his child so scared of him

I am crying when I got to know that the kid got closer to her dad not because she loves him but cause she didn't want to get hurt. ☹😢

I love the reenactment they do at the start, And sometimes kids have a favourite parent and switch from one to the other. It's just something you have to get used to.

My mom gets the belt out when I talk back anc to my dad too, but she still makes me happy

@Brit15102

5 жыл бұрын

Mine does but it's just a regular whopping

@hsnrb9959

5 жыл бұрын

It's different with mom I guess. She doesn't have testosterone so can't get as violent and scary. My mom would beat me but she knew the limits.

This is so heartbreaking😭😭 I am never getting married..

I love this show every episode feels like a whole drama series...

I think this episode was actually helpful to their family

All problem is that husband is not home all day so when he came he only play with her but her mom did all work and take care her child so didn't get time to rest or plays her kids so she must to let her daughter and husband alone at least week ,I believe daughter will hate him forever because he is idiot