the 33 people who didn't find this as a problem....are a problem.

@murfinsmommy3649

5 жыл бұрын

Maybe they weren’t paying attention

@dddilannnn

5 жыл бұрын

No, it is impossible to get a score of 200. They said it in one episode, the maschine cant take all 200 votes in because there are too many and toi little time or something like that

@bluemoon_31

5 жыл бұрын

mm...that explains why i've never seen a full score, but I Have seen scores higher than what this got.

@cutecharms1755

5 жыл бұрын

SHOT FIRED!!!😂💀😂 this is the best COMMENT

@tiredbylife.5589

5 жыл бұрын

I saw a 197 back in the days tho.

I hate it when they use "stress" as an excuse. Who doesn't have stress?!

@sitiaulia9765

5 жыл бұрын

Abbie Terrell they like "stress" so much hh-,-

@numbersandsports4206

5 жыл бұрын

It's really not about who has it or who doesn't, the point is some humans handle it different and can take it better. Just like some people could break and arm and barley bat an eye and some people stub their toe and cry.... Different levels, different personalities and people. That's what makes humans.

@user-ss5je2pw3j

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah, you can have stress, but using it as an excuse for bad behaviour is wrong.

@leefelix6538

5 жыл бұрын

me? I don't feel stressed at all...

@aiaa677

5 жыл бұрын

That is so dumb cause guess what I am street,you are stressed,EVERYBODY IS STRESSED....LIFE IS STRESSFUL .....

I can never be on hello counsellor. my automatic response would be "leave him sis"

@indiaudina3702

5 жыл бұрын

Ikr

@reapermistress7331

5 жыл бұрын

same😂😂😂

@priscillalivan2664

5 жыл бұрын

samee. Like, I’m glad I’m not there as the audience because if I am, I would stand up and yell at those troubled jerks 😂🤣

@sherine9033

5 жыл бұрын

Woman : my husband spends money endlessly, has drinking habit, smokes, violent, doesn't care about his own family..... Me as an mc : ok stop. You two follow me. Let's get your divorce paper at the nearest courthouse.

@aetherdemigod

5 жыл бұрын

this be me with literally every family. i feel bad for the kids but it's for their mental health. having a sick in the head parent won't help them. so i would probably prepare divorce papers for any couple or family going on this program (where the parents are the troubled ones) and bitch sign that shit

I have been watching hello counselor for years and what yeongja said was true. Dongyeop has never been this frustrated, he's usually calm listening to the concerns, but in this one, he just spit it out. You can see how frustrated he is

@miriamceraman4932

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly - usually he's the one trying to calm everyone down, and this time it was the other way around

@lonewolf9246

Жыл бұрын

@@miriamceraman4932 ooo999oooo🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢

@lonewolf9246

Жыл бұрын

@@miriamceraman4932 ooo999oooo🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢

@lonewolf9246

Жыл бұрын

@@miriamceraman4932 ooo999oooo🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢

@soniaenita8012

Жыл бұрын

@@lonewolf9246 umm what

I'm happy that they actually consulted the psychiatrist and confirmed that she had depression, to make the dad understand. Hopefully the dad will change.

@kristinesharp6286

5 жыл бұрын

Finally they engage a professional.

@loridaniel1718

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah. What made me angry was he compared himself with his daughter and then said that (and I’m paraphrasing) “she’s fine. She will get over it like I am” 😤 She is a child. She doesn’t understand why she feels like that. And if things carry on like this she will be miserable later. 😡

@malu8710

4 жыл бұрын

@@loridaniel1718 plus it's never possible to just "get over it".He was clearly making an excuse again

@Dunika

4 жыл бұрын

The dad will most likely not change. In my opinion he is a sociopath.

@fifi7367

3 жыл бұрын

depressed people tend to be self-centered (im sorry i dont know how to make it more polite). but he take it the wrong way. his hobby is used as his medication which not actually work effectively but turned as obsession. he think he's fine but no, he too, need professional help. this is the worst case of depression when he's hurting a lot of people by it.

Working at a hospital, I see countless female colleagues working 18hr shifts, high stress jobs, and they still go home, cook food, do household chores, send their kids to school, etc. I have NEVER seen them neglect their family due to stress. Stress is not an excuse, and if youre burnt out, seek therapy, take time off from work, dont make people suffer.

@aiiikochann

5 жыл бұрын

that's why guys sucks

@illyGalSloth

5 жыл бұрын

@@aiiikochann Uh.. Not all guys are like that. Just because a few of them suck doesn't mean all of them are like that.

@HikariMiwa

5 жыл бұрын

Is it registred nurse?

@Gabrosoft

4 жыл бұрын

Nonayo Dambusinus OK well the ones that do that suck. Shut the hell up

@khairulazizanmohamad3247

4 жыл бұрын

100% yes the husband really bad. Do not marry if cannot take the responsibility of the marriage.really hatr this type of man.

He is not only a bad husband, he is the worst person ever. Please people if you feel like you are not ready to show love & spend time & money for your own family stay on your own.

@ray382vk

5 жыл бұрын

omg yes yes

@tysm2532

5 жыл бұрын

Okey

@sopheyy7573

5 жыл бұрын

TELL MY FATHER TOO PLEASE I CANT WAIT TO FINALLY MOVE OUT

@kkochkk

5 жыл бұрын

@@sopheyy7573 Study and work hard to leave as soon as possible! Don't give up and be strong 💪

@Depressed263

5 жыл бұрын

I think he is looking down on his wife because she is not working and staying at home ...and I feel like his parents doesn't care about her (wife)

I can't stop my tears knowing poor hanbyeol diagnosed with depression at a such young age ! I'm so heart broken :'(

@meeraeiyra597

5 жыл бұрын

same here :'(

@silvervixen007

5 жыл бұрын

Same😣😣

@Izumi70V3Naruto

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah...

@kell475

5 жыл бұрын

And yet her own dad didn't shed a tear. How can he sit there like a stone?

@fleshsock8-

5 жыл бұрын

I cried

how does he spend $200 on a shirt but get mad at her for spending $3 on hair pins?? where is the logic

@emikawaneru666

5 жыл бұрын

he is just the same as my father, he spends "his money" for himself..like buying new bikes etc. but me and my mom can't even buy $2 underwear

@sailorvenus1332

5 жыл бұрын

Valentová Magdaléna I really hope everything’s going ok in your family

@sadiaadil6423

5 жыл бұрын

My ex husband was worse.lol.i earned double than him and paid for my clothes,flights,house rent,meds,furniture and paid off his loans and then him and his family said am money minded cz i refused to give my whole salary to them.they expected me to send the entire month's salary to them whilst my ex wanted to control how much of my own money I could spend.he said he was surprised how come my salary was not his money

@ughmina

5 жыл бұрын

Sadia Adil Wow. I’m sorry you had to go through that ☹️

@yiliang9085

5 жыл бұрын

That was the worst scene

Such a little girl has to deal with depression already :(

it's not hello counselor without husband drinking or fishing issue.

@AF-mb9yl

5 жыл бұрын

I think its more like husband with drinking habbit or addicting issue/obsession

@ummmhyeahhh3090

5 жыл бұрын

eljaydl honestly or when they are obsessed with some sport and the wife is most likely pregnant

@ummmhyeahhh3090

5 жыл бұрын

Wow! I didn’t even watch the concern and I knew she was pregnant!

@janewow77

5 жыл бұрын

Or both

@jul2447

5 жыл бұрын

Why are guys salty, this is a counseling channel. They are trying to help most families that send their concerns

when the little girl said that the tree wil die end that it cant be helped i broke down crying!!!!! thats absolutely not what has to be on a childs mind!!!!!

@leavemealone2898

5 жыл бұрын

Jonne Van heijster I literally cried so much that girl was in so much pain I hope she one right now

@otaku_chan4208

4 жыл бұрын

Yeeees me too that's so sad How can a child have this ideas

@masochisticdoll

3 жыл бұрын

@RAWAN ALMADI wow

I will never understand how fishing can be so fun and addicting lol

@lizadaito3419

5 жыл бұрын

you have to marry one! My husband crazy if he can't go fishing he spend a lot of money to buy fishing gear and he has another hobby where he spending a lot of money too.

@PerryKassupo

5 жыл бұрын

Crabbing is fun though.

@lizadaito3419

5 жыл бұрын

I hate my husband during crabbing season. I worry so much if he catch under size and female 🦀 and be caught by fisheries officer.

@kean6577

5 жыл бұрын

Its not just about fishing, its about all the process into it and how the place where you fish Is calm and usually with a nice view and you just hear the sea/lake and birds while you relax and wait... You'll only understand if you're a person that stresses a lot

@kyutiekyungkai3449

5 жыл бұрын

I found its boring hobby to have

Wtf did I just watch !!!! Since 3 years I watch hello counselor and this concern is one of my top 5 the worst !!!! Poor the kids and the wife

@konnichiwa8762

5 жыл бұрын

Who doesn't worry about this concern? 😖 the poor girl even has depression. This concern is worst from the worst

@drawingangel2

5 жыл бұрын

I agree. This is by far the worst!

@emikawaneru666

5 жыл бұрын

omg, he is the same as my father, it hurt me watching this

@homebody5549

5 жыл бұрын

Yes defo up there with the one where L from Infinite was on. Sigh how can people be like this?!!

@koroyoo

5 жыл бұрын

What is the other 4 on your list??

Her drawing make me sad. So lonely ㅠㅠ

Nope no nope. I know it would be extremely difficult but she cannot freaking stay with this guy. HE KICKED HER IN THE STOMACH. She needs to leave him immediately. For her own safety

@kristinesharp6286

5 жыл бұрын

He is a jerk but it seemed like they were sleeping when they happened. The kids didn’t say he was violent. He is a selfish controlling absent drunk.

@Ash-xt1ej

5 жыл бұрын

But he still was violent toward her

@kristinesharp6286

5 жыл бұрын

“While we were asleep” she got kicked in the stomach. Being a wild sleeper isn’t violence. If the kids mentioned it I would worry. But the kids didn’t mention it. I wish the police arrested him for DUI for being asleep on the road in the car after drinking.

@kristinesharp6286

5 жыл бұрын

Less room under the blanket on the bed when you are pregnant.

@user-kt7jy1zx4c

5 жыл бұрын

kris Sharp yes being a wild sleeper is not violence but he didn’t event care about her when she went to the hospital

I’m always so scared for the people who requested help on this show because what if something happens to them once they get home and no ones there to watch what action the problem maker makes? He sounds really controlling and abusive even towards his kids.

@rosyreads

2 жыл бұрын

Literally what I was about to say, this is just a show, who knows what goes on at home, he does show signs of control and abuse in a way and I really hope they’re all well and maybe on their own, bc being with him seems worst then being by yourself with 3 and now 4 kids

@kinseylise8595

2 жыл бұрын

I've heard that if the concern is great enough, they receive some kind of after care from the show. I don't know if that's true but I hope so, and in that case this is definitely of high enough concern to receive it.

@holly6212

2 жыл бұрын

@@kinseylise8595 yah that’s what i was hoping was happening.

@mugchicken

Жыл бұрын

It's already a public concern once it's aired so I'm pretty sure this served as a warning although it can backfire and cause more harm

I've never wanted to get married or have children, but after watching "Hello Counselor" for the last four years, that feeling has increased one-hundredfold. This show is like birth control. Some of these spouses are a hot mess. If they're not alcoholic, then they're selfish; if they're not selfish, then they are (verbally)abusive; and if they're not abusive, then they're just so, so incredibly immature. 🤦‍♀️ I almost flipped the table after his remarks @18:26.

@lunyx8147

5 жыл бұрын

i feel ya.

@amiwu517

5 жыл бұрын

Try to watch superman returns( dads and kids's show) then😁 this show is kinda a problem solver show or something of course most of the families or merried couples that you saw have problems within them..it's not that bad to getting merried if you choose a right one and do it with trust and responbility respect and care for each others..it is depend on us how our marriage life will be tho😁

@BriChuhime-sama

5 жыл бұрын

Same. The senarios are my worst fear

@aishahprastowo9423

5 жыл бұрын

I still want to get married but this show does help me to recognize red flags for abuse/neglect in a relationship, and define what i don't want in my future spouse!

@yogurLAPIZ

5 жыл бұрын

@@amiwu517 the thing about superman is that they are nit like filmed 24h a day, its planned wich days they are going to film and then the dads can plan what they are gonna do that day. They spend more time with the kids, yes, but is not the same. And also realize that still have some celebrityes that have shown in the shiw but still they divorced later (not the stay casting but the vists) Anyway hello counselor touches more real life than there, here there is just facts and there is a show, planned so... But its true, after this i go there to watch a little so i dont get too scared of geting married but still i dont hace the dream of it too. XD

The tree picture was the scariest. She said the tree will die and there is nothing that can help it. That's really scary. I can't imagine what her world must look like. I'm wondering if she had suicide thoughts yet or violent thoughts :O or convinced her sisters to do weird or scary things.

@user-xv1xu9nl9k

4 жыл бұрын

I keep thinking she reflected the tree as herself- like how most artist sometimes personalize their drawing and make them more like themselves. Also the fact that she is the oldest and most of the time the younger siblings follow meaning they will probably also get affected and follow with her way of thinking

Those 33 people who don't think it's a concern are my concern

I'm refraining myself so much from writing here. It's been a long time since I left one but when it comes to kids, I can't help it. Little Hanbyeol is surrounded by her little sisters that I felt a bit relieved because they look like they get along well. As someone that used to be depressed, isn't it possible for him to empathize more of her and run to her when the result came out? Be more attentive of her actions, words or thoughts? Because once you're in a bad place, you'll be everywhere to stop any of your beloved ones to be in the same state because you yourself felt of how horrible that place is? She isn't as cheerful as the other kid, she only speaks one word at a time, being asked. She won't be able to start a conversation if no one approached her first. She's probably the one walking by herself when mom's hands were occupied with a fishing rod and her two other kids. How scary would that be because you have no one to hold, walking on the street with a lot of harmful things with her mom, could be yelling for her to walk faster or walk closer to them. And at home being the eldest, she's probably entrusted with a lot of things to do, as little as playing with her other siblings when she wasn't feeling like she want to. Hearing your parents unlimited fights and shouts, it tore a kids' heart more than anyone could imagine. When he said that it's too expensive for a $30 treatment/therapy cost, I died inside. How could you as a father is soooooo selfish?! You worked hard, yeah, props to you. But where all the money goes? $2500 a month for fishing trips and $30 therapy you called it expensive. Then you expected your kid to find her own way out of the situation, herself, an 8 years old little daughter. I could fit 80, $30 therapy sessions in that fishing cost. Which could help an innocent kid breathe a new life and have faith that life is a beautiful thing and feeling loved by the closest people in her life. Please protect her after this, Mr Dad. Then I'll give my respect to you.

@mrandom4765

5 жыл бұрын

I still won't respect him. I'd acknowledge him as a person yes but no respect for him. It's good he's noticed his problem but the type of stubborn person he is he won't last long with his promise.

When the child told the professional that the tree would die over time.... It's true, but it made me so sad that it was the first thing in her mind. An optimistic child would've said it'll grow or make fruits over time. I hope she gets help and lots of love.

I rarely type any comments but this case really really upset me. I doubt that this man will ever change. The poor wife that has to go through all of this and he keeps blaming her/ not realizing that he is wrong. It really is sad that the little girl at the age of 8 is going through depression. Depression is hell and she shouldnt be experiencing this at such a young age. He should get his shit together and finally care for his family. Help his daughter to get the necessary treatment and be there for his family. This is so sad.

@user-md9mq6do3b

3 жыл бұрын

I think all the people who came in this show will not change.

@neomumoody8428

2 жыл бұрын

not to mention he's really narcissistic

He said the kids are his future. That is WRONG. They are his PRESENT.

Their kids are so adorable! They are so cute! Protect them at all cost!

What is that stupid smile he had during the process? Shouldnt he be embarrassed for what he did?What an a****** . Keep making excuses.

My heart hurts for her, she deserves a loving husband and a loving dad for her kids. I would never wish anyone to have a spouse like him. EVER.

_"You almost failed to be a human being"_ HAHAHAHAAHHAAHAHHAAHHAAH

@flowerbox_em1102

3 жыл бұрын

He already failed to be one LMAO

The wife have seen a red flag on her first pregnancy but still have more kids. The sad part is the kids are the most affected of everything. If that was me if my husband did not help me on my first pregnancy, I would never let him touch me and get pregnant again, i dont care if he will divorce me atleast my priority then is my child...what a b....rd husband .

@mrandom4765

5 жыл бұрын

I don't think she really has a choice... divorce is a taboo topic in korea. It'll make the first child ostracized too. Either way she hasn't got a choice and her kids will suffer still

@Sparkleanium

5 жыл бұрын

Am I the only one who can see that the dad seems to have an anti-social personality dissorder? I don't have the qualifications to say so but he should undergo some evaluation because his actions are exteremly callous, he's giving lame exuses without any feeling of guilt and his regret was only obvious when his was shamed on national tv by his daughter's innocent drawing. He seems far too smug for anything. He is also obsessed with himself- the way he carries himself, spends on himself and doesn't care about his family- this natural way of treating his family like his tools is just... pathetic. I am so frustrated, angry and sad after watching this episode. I am also surprised that when the mother talked about the story when she had her first child, her parents-in-law also seem to not have reacted or helped with her. Also the people who are generalizing all Korean men to be bad, this is just one case. Yes, their families are very patriarchal and children may not have much freedom. None-the-less, they are extremely family oriented in every tradtion. But your evaluation is based on the culture you come from which is obviously non-Asian. For Asians, this is very normal. What makes this family's sitation particularly bad isn't because he's patriarchal. It's because he's totaly impersonal with his own blood. He cannot see how serous the problem is and how much suffering he is causing. This problem is far more serious than can be handled in this program, in one session. and needs more intervention by mental healthcare professionals. The entire family really have it tough and I pray their situation improves. My heart bleeds for them. Asian society is very harsh on single mothers and they blame everything on the woman very easily. Atleast with this program, it was outed how serious the problem is and might get them some help.

@rosemerry33

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly what i thought. And it leads me to one question. Is it not common for korean woman to take any birth control pil? I mean there are some cases where wife got so frustated with their husband, yet they got 3 kids or more. If i got stress from my husband since my 1st pregnancy, then i am gonna protect myself not to have more kids with him. Because the stress obviously can affect the kids as well.

@Sparkleanium

5 жыл бұрын

@@rosemerry33 I am not sure but it could be that way. But it's also possible the husband pressured the wife or she faced some other familial pressure. Having many children is seen as a good thing in Asian cultures even if it may not be essentially a good thing in the real world. 'one big happy family' idea

@ICE-vj2xz

5 жыл бұрын

@HijoPlay So she can get a job now! That excuse isnt good enough,she should have thought about that before she had 4 innocent babies that deserve better!

Their daughters are so lovely. I just hope their situation gets situated fast. They're too precious. Them _and_ their mom for having to _be_ in such a position!

when hanbyeol mentioned about the tree dying and not being able to fix it... i was so shocked.

Their kids looks so much a like i thought they're triplets 😂 they're cute!✨

I got a real goosebump when hanbyeol said her tree drawing "it'll die"

That little girl should not have depression in a very young age. She deserve better future. 😭😭😭😭

These 'hobby' obsessed people should pay for my college tuition instead of wasting their money on these things.

@sadiaadil6423

5 жыл бұрын

😂 agreed

@AsmaaPurity

5 жыл бұрын

So true

@Serraphina

4 жыл бұрын

Loreville Clitar 😂😂😂😂

Women should pay more attention to their education and have financial freedom. So they can leave, earn and live their life on their own when they end up with a jerk like him.

@syrfhnaa

5 жыл бұрын

That's basically what my Father always said to me 💗

@ranabhola

5 жыл бұрын

My respect to him. My parents were the same.

@fractionpassion

5 жыл бұрын

Or men shouldn’t be selfish jerks

@ranabhola

5 жыл бұрын

@Mon Bon...not all men are jerks but some definitely are. This one is.

@NeverClimbing

5 жыл бұрын

maybe the joke that girls only like bad boys has went too far

those kids is so precious and pretty. i hope he can change his attitude and his craziness for fishing because he actually hurting the whole family. i cant stand this guys even for a while i dnt understand how his wife cope with this for 8years already

I appreciated that a professional was consulted for this concern. After seeing the clips of his daughter's session, the dad was able to see that something has to change for his children to thrive. I hope that this family will go to counseling.

That man is a creepy person i think, with his innocent intonation explaining his bad behavior without feeling sorry doing that. Omg, so creepy. And.. Just stop having kids. Your man isn't capable being a good husband and a good dad.

Trigger warning: domestic violence situation with a child diagnosed with depression.

some people should just never get married and die alone

I hope they come back to this family later and that things have changed. The most heartbreaking part was hanbyeol’s.

i'm so heartbroken for the kids :'(

This is one of the saddest episodes I've watched this year. Watching the wife cry resonated with me because I have been there. Raising one child can be difficult but, three with one on the way is quite overwhelming especially when you don't have help and support. Also, I may be wrong but I believe the father still suffers from depression and this is why he has invested in fishing as a way to escape reality. He seems miserable and in return he is making his family miserable by his selfishness. This couple needs family counseling and I pray that they can provide a stable, loving home for their precious daughters.

I cried so much, because this is exactly how my family is. I literally hear her talking about my father and I see my mother when she talks about herself.

@minahil734

6 ай бұрын

I don't know if you get this message or not becuz it's been 4 years since you commented but I want to write this : I hope your mum get all the enjoyment with her kids and all the love from you, you can't change what's passed but you can spend some good time with her now for sure you people would be doing that ,I wish you ,yr mother all the happiness.❤❤❤❤

If he's stressed from work, why won't he destress by bonding with his wife & daughters instead? :/ I always look forward to going home to my family after a long day.

@AsmaaPurity

5 жыл бұрын

True Family is the source of joy

@musicbkim

5 жыл бұрын

because he is selfish & wants to enjoy the feeling of excitement when a fish takes his bate, regardless of how his wife & kids are feeling.

@gamblingraccoon3566

4 жыл бұрын

@@AsmaaPurity not all family are the source of joy...

@user-md9mq6do3b

3 жыл бұрын

But not all people are like you , you're rare and precious.

im really sad for hanbyeol.. Im glad her mom come here fast, this can turn into disaster.. hope she will get better soon

Their daughters are beautiful and it shocked me when Hanbyeol just said that she won't live in the house she had drawn and the tree would die. I meant, normal kids would happily draw their family members in the gouse, flowers all over the place and they would cheerfully added 'the tree will grow so big in the future!' with cute eyes drawn on the tree. I really hope Hanbyeol gets treatment and the parents to reconcile. Childhood life is very important and once you ruin it there's no coming back. I hope the husband don't waste this second chance.

He can't be call as a husband and a man if he act like that.😠

27:55 Thank you DongYeob,so glad he said this to him.... dad needs to pay the money for his daughter's treatment! Please don't have kids if you're not emotionally, financially, mentally ready

My mom have 8 kids and she clean the house wash the dishs do the lundary cook us food take care of my small brother and sisters and you know that my dad never sayed thank you he say (is that what you call work) so I started to help my mom with work even that I have homework so I really feel how she is feeling

@musicbkim

5 жыл бұрын

Men like this are so the cause of many problems in this world. Don't they realise that he will grow old and is gonna be at a mercy of their wife and children? Wish these men would think a bout how they would want their wife & children want to treat them when they are old, weak, and not earning money anymore.

When she said her daughter had depression tears started flowing, I know it feels when parents fight and it's not a great feeling at all...

What kinda husband says “you deserved it” when there wife is at the hospital in pain?! And then he had the nerves to say that it was a “joke” like pft

The little girl drawing hit me like a truck

People seems to forget that being a stay at home parent = 24/7 job without rest or vacation and without any paycheck. These people work way harder than those in the office and are more noble than most people. 😤😤😤

My heart aches for Hanbyeol. No child should ever go through that, I couldn't help but tear up when she drew the picture of the house and when she talked about the tree. I wish her and her sisters the best including their mom.

This man don't even care about himself, he needs help

@yogurLAPIZ

5 жыл бұрын

I think he plenty cares for himself, when he buys his 150$ shoes, his 150-200$ shirt. Its oretty clear the problem is he care too much for himself and not others 7-7

The wife’s actually so strong I have mad respect for her

It broke my heart to see the little girl and how she answered the questions about the drawing. She shouldn’t have to go through depression at such a young and innocent age 😔

Her husband good for nothing

this is so heartbreaking, i cried so much at everything the kid said

I started crying when the little girl was being so depressed 😭 I wanna hug her♥️

@Jenopace

5 жыл бұрын

@@abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz4645 happy?

@abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz4645

5 жыл бұрын

😁 ye

I don't wanna have kids if they were gonna just suffer like that especially if the husband is crap like this one I really feel bad for the mom and her kids this show made me hate something called fishing and drinking i swear!!😥

Im crying when their daughter diagnosed with childhood depression. She's too young 😭 ohmy..... Need to alert my self so that i wouldnt burden my child with depression 😭

my gosh, an 8 year old kid drawing a tree having the sea as a foundation and knowing it will die in the future is a sign for a very serious case of depression... I just wish the kid gets all the help and love she needs.

I really feel for Hanbyeol since I went through the same. I had childhood depression, severe social anxiety and a very low self esteem because I was also ostracised and bullied when I was 7. I also didn't have anyone to talk to about because I saw how my parents were struggling being new migrants in a country where we didn't know the language and my mum was going through post natal depression. I hope Hanbyeol gets the treatment because she needs it. I didn't and I've only recently been working through it all and I'm 27.

This made me cry too much. I have two sisters close to my age too, they reminded me so much of them. Their little matching dresses made me think maybe their mom made it, like mine did. My parents fought a lot too, and we were really hurt by it. Watching their cute precious daughters made me understand a little why my parents stayed together as well, they probably thought we were too important. They only divorced when we were almost adults, and that's why we never got to feel a safe and stable home in our childhood. I didn't even know how harmful it was, before getting out.

this brought me to tears

a kind, overly patient and low self-esteem woman with a manipulative and selfish man ...

WHEN HE GETS OLD ..SURELY HIS CHILDREN WILL NOT TAKE CARE OF HIM...BEC HE DONT CARE OF HIS FAMILY..UNLESS HE WILL CHANGE...

This woman is so beautiful and her babies omg 🥰🥰🥰 hope she's doing well tho 😫😫😫 it's just too heartbreaking to watch especially when her daughters had that psychological test and she started to cry 😢😢😢

That depression on that little Hanbyeol had me crying. 😢

The husband seems like a sociopath. The children are adorable, and I hope their situation improves.

@abhilashmehera3813

Жыл бұрын

I Don't think he is a sociopath but Rather looks like he hasn't gotten over his depression

I don't think I've ever been so upset about one of these concerns before now. Don't get me wrong, there are a lot of concerns on the show that frustrate me to no end, but this takes the cake. I honestly have no idea where to start. I would have looked this girl straight in the eyes and said, "Girl, leave him. Run for the hills because this is gonna get worse." The two things that struck me were the costs between his spending habits and the spending habits his wife had. He spends around $2,500 on fishing alone, not including extra expenses like his clothing purchases and God only knows how much on alcohol. But he gets pissed when she buys hair clips for their daughters, inexpensive clothing or anything else. He's even monitoring how much she's spending, which concerns me too. He even had the audacity to say that his child's treatments for her depression was too expensive? Like seriously? Which brings me to number two, the little girl. Hanbyeol is only 8 years old in this clip in Korean age, which would maybe be like 7 internationally if it wasn't already converted to that age on the show. She drew a house that she wouldn't want to live in, with no family inside. She drew a tree on a beach that will die and said it wouldn't be able to survive. Typically, from what I would see from other kids drawings when I was younger, even today, are full of color and life family members and friends, maybe even a sun in the corner. I would imagine that kids who drew trees would say they would make lots of fruits or would be able to thrive. She didn't. She went straight to that tree is going to die. There's no saving it. There's nothing that can be done. That broke my heart. Sorry for the rant but things like this just upsets me so much.

I want to give a big warm hug to that little girl... 😢

Sometimes, watching this show, i just wanna slap a husband.

“Before we see the results today, I’d like to say that you lost today.” 😭😂

This is not love. To everyone watching this and similar episodes: know what you deserve and don't settle for anything less.

May God bless those kids!There so pretty I hope in the future they become big and only take care of there mother and knows they don’t need a “dad”like him

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The fact that it was his day off on her first pregnancy was even more reason to go to his wife. It wasn't like he was missing anything important. IT WAS HIS DAY OFF.

I think she put up with him, hoping he'd change and that's sad.

Honestly, I got the same thing as what Hanbyeol have. I got this at the age of seven and there were so much darkness and problems that I have piled up inside of me. It's never easy to fight against depression or take this thing away from me. I got childhood depression at seven till now I still have it. Even though it's too hard for me, I just don't give up and keep going. I'm fighting harder against to my depression. Hanbyeol, fighting! Remember that you have us as the good people and some of us went through the same thing. We all love you, your sisters and ofc your family! We'll support you and others as well. Love you, Hanbyeol!

Shin dongyeob being angry makes me laugh😂

She should’ve left him after the first child. I don’t understand why she keeps staying n having more kids.

@violet276

5 жыл бұрын

vanna8914 maybe she doesn’t have a job or no plan for herself

@glendagaspan6932

5 жыл бұрын

thats the saddest thing about love.. even if its toxic.. they will still stick to that thing they call love...

@SaraOanimeOcookie

5 жыл бұрын

Being a single mother in korea is very hard and frowned upon.

@kekw5153

5 жыл бұрын

Im so glad my mom have a job and got divorced easily. I feel sorry for korean moms

@vernalnetbanner3288

4 жыл бұрын

@@SaraOanimeOcookie Being single is frowned upon in all parts of the world. Not just in Korea lol

When they talked about the child’s depression it really made me hella sad

The kids are so pretty oh my god..... Hope they get raised well from now on and hope the elder one get cured as fast as possible.. Its too sad that she have depression from that early age

I hope that they fix their problems to be able to build their family again, for their daughters to be happy once again and get out of depression. Trust me, It's hard to always hear your parents fighting and act like everything is alright when you're in school or with friends. Don't let your beautiful daughters experience whaf I have wnet through. Wish your family all the best💓 love from the Philippines.

i honestly think the husband think that highly of himself because he's the one who make money in the family. he think he can do all of that because he's the one who provide the family. how come his parents didn't talk to them? he's so full of himself.

@Michelle-oo9gp

5 жыл бұрын

They're probably enabling him. I knew a family, they only had one son and he was lazy as hell but his mom would always praise him but yell at his sister even though she does both of their chores after going to school and her extra co-curricular activities. They would also buy him whatever he wanted. I'm going to bet my money that they don't believe their daughter in law because they think he's too good for her.

We need this show in our country :)

I love the guy with glasses he just be spitting facts like yesssss

I'm crying a lot watching this episode. Hopefully the husband will treat the wife much better than before. And also a child with a depression? She didn't deserve that 😭

I have never seen a more despicable, pathetic, immature, irresponsible and selfish human being in my life. Hearing him just while watching the video is so frustrating-I don't know what I would have done had I been there in the audience. I just wish this woman understands where this man stands in her life and walks out of this marriage because this man clearly shows no ounce of remorse, sympathy or respect for his family🤬

What a sad excuse for a father and a human being. You don't deserve to have a family if you are just going to neglect and mistreat them.

He smiled through the session, never feel sorry. Just leave him while you can.

the tears wont stop when seeing the part with the daughter having depression

Don't mean to sound ungrateful but I noticed that there's alot of delay in the recent updates . I hope that KBS would look into the matter and update on time . Thank you for the hard work .

it doesn't seem as bad as the way my dsd treats my mom but made me appreciate my mom for enduring it until i graduate high schoolnto finally leave my dad😶

never thought a young kid could get a depression... it hurts my heart 😭😭😭

All the hugs for Hanbyeol!!! I am so devastated for this family. :( I hope things turn out better for them; that husband is very emotionally detached and needs some serious reconciliation.