Gents, remember it’s just your turn. Never get attached to gals.

@MargaritasinParadise

Ай бұрын

Good point, it's fantasyland for adults.

Take everything they say with a pinch of chilli flakes!😂

@MargaritasinParadise

Ай бұрын

Good advice

@Head173

Ай бұрын

😂🤣😂

When they say it’s my birthday, i tell them I don’t celebrate birthdays. Simple… just play the same game they are playing me. When they ask my job, i just say i work all over….. i tell them nothing ……and I NEVER pay up front…….

@MargaritasinParadise

Ай бұрын

A voice of experience, good on you

Great conclusion. I smiled all the time, only interrupted from a view big laughters. Your words should be printed in a book, for all newbies and some who stay there already longer. Great job Tom. 😂

@MargaritasinParadise

Ай бұрын

I appreciate your vote of confidence. Many times I have thought I could write a book. Thanks

New sub here. Love your laugh and well tempered commentary buddy.

@MargaritasinParadise

19 күн бұрын

Excellent, welcome aboard.

I was in Bangkok enjoying the company of a woman who works in a massage parlor. This woman told me her birthday was coming up and she wanted me to party with her at a club. She told me that she was going to pay for everything, but I came down with a cold and could not go out with her. Do you think she was going to pay for everything or was I going have to go to the nearest ATM? Did coming down with a cold saved me a lot of cash? 🤧🤒🥵🏧💳💰💰

@MargaritasinParadise

Ай бұрын

So normally Thai's pay for their own parties but having you there surely would cost you a significant sum. I imagine the party was going to happen regardless but without you maybe with bottles of SangSom, with you bottle services of Jack Daniels, Johnnie Walker, or Grey Goose, probably multiple bottles at that. There is a danger zone when it comes to parties but normally clubs require payment as you go. So if it would get out of hand, skipping out would be an option. 555 I hope this helps.

@carltonedwards8775

Ай бұрын

@@MargaritasinParadise She didn't even know I was coming to Bangkok and yes, the party went on without me. This is some information that can save me a lot of money and energy. THANKS!!!!

@MargaritasinParadise

Ай бұрын

You’re welcome

@fwnm

Ай бұрын

Oh, absolutely, old chap! A lady from a massage parlour in Bangkok offering to foot the bill for a wild birthday bash? Clearly, those establishments are renowned for their lavish birthday celebrations! I bet she had a unicorn waiting to whisk you away to a magical night on the town. Such a shame your cold robbed you of that exquisite experience!

@ChupraCumbra

Ай бұрын

You probably Simp...they can tell😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.

Cheers, Tom. Out of interest, have you done a separate video about owning a bar, the good/bad times, the theme, the type, the location, and why you gave it up? If you haven't done one, it would be interesting to hear about it. 👍

@MargaritasinParadise

Ай бұрын

I have considered the topic in the past. Eventually it will get done. Thanks encouragement

Well well well... Let's delve into this with a thoughtful lens. In the bustling bar scene, especially for bar girls, livelihoods depend heavily on client interactions, prompting strategic business approaches. Yet, amidst these dynamics, key questions arise about honesty, moral choices, and finding better paths. Should bar girls disclose to emotionally invested clients that theirs is a business relationship involving multiple interactions? It's a delicate balance. Transparency fosters trust and informed decisions but challenges romanticized ideals, potentially impacting business dynamics. Another dilemma is whether to stay in the bar scene or pursue alternatives, balancing financial stability with personal values. For those lacking mentors or resources, career advancement can seem daunting. Investing in education and seeking support programs can break barriers and build sustainable futures. In conclusion, navigating ethical challenges in the bar scene requires thoughtful consideration of personal values and client relationships. Promoting integrity and empowerment means fostering environments where informed choices and growth opportunities prevail. Let's aim for a future where fairness and ethical practices define success for all.

@MargaritasinParadise

Ай бұрын

Of course you know I love your writing. It's tough to respond without feeling biased, there's zero place personal morality in the avenue much less ethnical challenges. We can always say "what if" though which definitely expands the potential outcome. With the bargirl scheme, most are plain ruthless without interest in you personally and always fall back to the idea of "money number one" Sorry about the late reply; been travelling.😀😀😀

@fwnm

Ай бұрын

@@MargaritasinParadise Dear Tom my old chap, Thank you ever so much for your kind words about my writing; your appreciation truly means a great deal to me. It's quite right that discussing such topics objectively can be a bit of a challenge, what with our own biases and all. Personal morality and ethical considerations do indeed play a significant role in shaping our viewpoints. Your keen observation regarding the bargirl scheme's focus on financial gain is spot on. Yet, I'm just as intrigued by the motivations and circumstances of the bargirls themselves. Delving into the intricacies that drive human behavior is crucial for gaining a nuanced perspective. I must say, I find this topic incredibly fascinating and I'm eagerly anticipating our further discussions over a fine wine, amidst the warm summer air in Pattaya. Embracing different viewpoints enriches our understanding, and I'm looking forward to an engaging exchange that celebrates diverse perspectives. Cheers, and see you soon!

@MargaritasinParadise

Ай бұрын

Sounds Good

Your laugh is infectious lol

@MargaritasinParadise

Ай бұрын

Thanks so much

Good video and sooo true! How quickly they can forget about you and move on.... Luckily she realised i was smarter than her and at the end she commented "you won i guess you are smarter than me!" And i simply walked away ...

@MargaritasinParadise

13 күн бұрын

good on you.

Every Thai person has a nickname, not just BGs. It's correct that she may be using a different or new nickname for you, but it could also be the same nickname that her parents gave her and all her fri4nds and family in the village know her by. Her brothers and sisters (By Blood) will also have nicknames. This came about because a lot of traditional names have special meaning but aren't easy to say quickly and can't be shortened in a viable way. Most (not all) Thai women don't look their age. When a lady that looks late 20s tells you she's actually mid-30s it's sometimes difficult to believe until you see their ID. That 'Really nice garden bar' went broke & closed just before Christmas. Decent band but couldn't compete with Candy Club and Beer Hub as a music bar. BGs are always honest with me because they don't call me 'Hansum Man', they call me 'Sexy Man' which isn't the same at all... 😁 Good Info Vlog.

@MargaritasinParadise

Ай бұрын

Great input, I probably should have emphasized more that I was specifically talking about bargirls. It's like the names, definitely true all Thai's have nicknames and Thai's are famous world-wide for looking very young through there mid-life. Even some 100 year old women look 60. It's amazing. I have the same problem as you it sounds,...sexy man too much...How could that be a lie?

If you open the camera app and tap the little settings gear , one of the selections is "save selfies as previewed" . Uncheck this and your front camera videos wont be mirrored .

@MargaritasinParadise

Ай бұрын

Thank you for the suggestion.

A Snake Bit the Family Buffalo in Isan....Need BHT 5000 for the Doctor....:-)

@MargaritasinParadise

4 күн бұрын

Oops, I forgot that one. Thanks 😬😬😬

Oh, you are on your period? No worries, I can think of a few ways around that!! 😂😂😂😂

@MargaritasinParadise

25 күн бұрын

Haha, exactly

Crazytawn said Nano who works in a Bar in Pattaya is different.....turns out she wasn't..... hahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣. 1,000s on Kick watched the 🤡 stream weeks of non sense.

@MargaritasinParadise

Ай бұрын

I'm still laughing

@ChupraCumbra

Ай бұрын

@@MargaritasinParadise me too....to this day I'm wondering if he seeing her 📴 stream. He still there.... Transparent..Im pro Bargirls....but I stay in my Lane..

@MargaritasinParadise

Ай бұрын

I get it. 🙃😬🙃

Nice range of common lies. My rule of thumb, if she asks for money, I will ask her, wouldn't she rather just be friends? Expect all kinds of lies from bar girls. You are not the one! In general, if a woman is really interested in you, she won't bring up money. I don't date bar girls. If you treat a regular girl to a dinner, see how she behaves. You do not want her to bring a girlfriend on a date. If the girl is considerate and doesn't order the most expensive dish on the menu and also checks your bill, to make sure the restaurant is not ripping you off, that's someone that probably is not a liar.

@MargaritasinParadise

Ай бұрын

Good advice, of course the article was specifically on bargirls . Most people in Thailand have integrity and are good overall.

I was with a girl for a while and one time we went for a week to koh samui . When we got back to pattaya she said she wanted to go back to where she was frim for a while to see her family. Anyway while she was away i found out frim soneone that she had gone with another guy to guess where koh samui 555. So later when she comes back i said how was the family up in issan. She said oh yes very well thanks. I said oh i heard they were living in koh samui now. Her face just dropped lol. I just got rid of her thst day. Funny thing was she married that guy and moved near to me in london. Never saw her in England though

@MargaritasinParadise

Ай бұрын

That's funny. I had a similar incident happen with Koh Samui, Freakiing Samui!

Biggest lie I hate is when your girl doesn't turn up when you've booked her in for a shortie and her excuse was she was sick. You know 100% she chose another punter. Most the lies you've mentioned aren't actually a big concern unless you're looking to go into a relationship with them. The obvious one to say no to is the asking for a loan one. I got stung once with a regular. I initially turned her down but then I decided to loan her the money and instead of paying me back, we'd hook up 3 times where I didn't have to pay. What happened was obvious. That first night I booked her in, she didn't show up. I met her one time later and basically told her she was just a typical lying bar girl. And she was no, no, no. I was like get £ucked you ugly human and that was that

@MargaritasinParadise

Ай бұрын

Sounds like a voice of experience, Thanks for you advice.

@graguitar6493

Ай бұрын

@@MargaritasinParadise yes I've had my experience. Unfortunately retired from the monger game now in Hua Hin. That is until I wake up that my lady isn't different haha. Enjoy the videos mate. Keep up the good work

@MargaritasinParadise

Ай бұрын

It's funny I spent the last 2 nights in Hua Hin, just arrived Pattaya. In the near future will have 2 videos from that side of the pond.

@graguitar6493

Ай бұрын

@@MargaritasinParadise nice. I'll keep an eye out