My 10 Favorite Things About Having ADHD

There are many strengths that go along with our ADHD symptoms. Which strengths you have and express will depend on a lot of factors, and it's not the same for everybody, but here are my 10 favorite things about having ADHD that have been true for me, I've found in my research and I see in many other ADHDers too.
Also -- to be clear I am NOT saying ADHD is not a challenge or a legitimate disorder. I am not saying we shouldn't get treatment. I am on Vyvanse myself and a big believer in multimodal treatment so that we can overcome those challenges and enjoy our strengths.
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  • @janbily525
    @janbily5257 жыл бұрын

    great adhd comes with great responsibility

  • @hannahrosereviews5073

    @hannahrosereviews5073

    7 жыл бұрын

    HAHAHA!!! 😂

  • @billymcleod1963

    @billymcleod1963

    7 жыл бұрын

    Im still trying to figure out if i have it lol

  • @kivsa85

    @kivsa85

    7 жыл бұрын

    ANTHONY EVERHART It depends...

  • @partypanda4757

    @partypanda4757

    7 жыл бұрын

    I have it too

  • @urhumantoast5912

    @urhumantoast5912

    7 жыл бұрын

    WE HAS TEH AD ACHE DEE

  • @windwolf22lovesmcr20
    @windwolf22lovesmcr205 жыл бұрын

    But I've got anxiety and ADHD so it kinda clashes with each other so I'm either quiet or the loudest frickin person ever

  • @javabucket561

    @javabucket561

    5 жыл бұрын

    Windwolf22 loves mcr I’m literally the exact same. Anxiety and ADHD. I’m loud and hyper, or I’m quiet and shy.

  • @lisaowen5490

    @lisaowen5490

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yess

  • @smorrow

    @smorrow

    5 жыл бұрын

    I'm just quiet

  • @blueecho7123

    @blueecho7123

    5 жыл бұрын

    oh relatable

  • @alaroyde5758

    @alaroyde5758

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @JonathanRobertAlexander
    @JonathanRobertAlexander2 жыл бұрын

    "ADHD isn't a failed version of normal." Good to hear. Too bad the *_rest_* of the world doesn't see it like that. 😞

  • @firejeco

    @firejeco

    2 жыл бұрын

    I hear you!

  • @Niklas.Kirchner

    @Niklas.Kirchner

    2 жыл бұрын

    In a few year there will be more than 50% with ADHD. Than it will be the opposite xD

  • @irtzashahanpk

    @irtzashahanpk

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Niklas.Kirchner what makes you say that ?

  • @gauloiseguy

    @gauloiseguy

    2 жыл бұрын

    The world is changing. And fast. I'm 47 and only diagnosed about six years ago. Meds work brilliantly, I become a freaking machine but they also make me extremely 'agitated' or better, aggressive. So I'm off meds and figured it mostly out myself. The difference now and when I was a kid is people are at the very least aware how to cope with ADHD and how to react. ADHD was known then but rarely recognized and treated. I've been called lazy, a failure, a waste of incredible talent and so on. Trust me. It's better now then it has been in my lifetime. I work as an educator, been running a household with two kids alone half of the time ( co parent) for the last six years and generally been functioning fine. Because I put in an enormous effort, but also because the people around me understand and care. My personal experience in this day and age is something of a miracle. Instead of being judged I'm mainly being understood. Granted, it took effort. Lots of it. But the people around me do appreciate me for who I am. My employer pretty much tailored my tasks around my strengths and it's a win win situation for both of us.

  • @flappybox767

    @flappybox767

    2 жыл бұрын

    I hear that too!

  • @kevinklevjer
    @kevinklevjer2 жыл бұрын

    10. We are enthusiastic! 9. We're willing to take risks 8. We're resilient 7. We're funny 6. We're generous 5. We're creative 4. We're forgiving 3. We can hyperfocus 2. We're full of surprises 1. We are not alone Thanks Jessica! :)

  • @whitehai-_-8683

    @whitehai-_-8683

    9 ай бұрын

    Adhd is a Improvment to life

  • @gamingassassin839

    @gamingassassin839

    8 ай бұрын

    Yep I have ADHD and I love having it

  • @pbufh

    @pbufh

    7 ай бұрын

    I'm almost none of those

  • @BubblesBear17
    @BubblesBear175 жыл бұрын

    When you’re hyper focusing on this channel 😅😅

  • @mirandabochner7663

    @mirandabochner7663

    4 жыл бұрын

    Miss Bubbles hahah YES!! That’s so me right now

  • @vaughnmonkey

    @vaughnmonkey

    4 жыл бұрын

    ya and this channel keeps reaching into my heart and ripping out so much emotion that I never expected from such short and helpful videos

  • @adrianaadnan7704

    @adrianaadnan7704

    4 жыл бұрын

    Move to netherland n adopt Dutch culture

  • @BubblesBear17

    @BubblesBear17

    4 жыл бұрын

    I am Dutch. I grew up in Dutch culture 😂

  • @atinyblackrose8938

    @atinyblackrose8938

    3 жыл бұрын

    me toooo

  • @royalexroy
    @royalexroy6 жыл бұрын

    Fun is very important to us. If the whole world were ADHD, this planet would be a playground.

  • @HowtoADHD

    @HowtoADHD

    6 жыл бұрын

    +Roy Alexander lol you are so right.

  • @Czadzikable

    @Czadzikable

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hehe it would probably be an unfinished playground! 😅😛 But it would be very innovative and creative, and full of risky but extremely novel and exciting things! 😆

  • @allisonwest7079

    @allisonwest7079

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yessssss!

  • @lydiajohnson2519

    @lydiajohnson2519

    5 жыл бұрын

    I WISH! That's what i'm going to think about While falling asleep tonight!

  • @saywhatomar3163

    @saywhatomar3163

    5 жыл бұрын

    Czadzikable wdym sometines I cant and sometimes I just focus soo much I finish something very easily

  • @eirikmurito
    @eirikmurito3 жыл бұрын

    What I love about having ADD is that when I'm passionate about something I'm in the zone and the universe bends to my will..

  • @NinaStone63

    @NinaStone63

    2 жыл бұрын

    This sounds like my son. :)

  • @cashacton6108

    @cashacton6108

    Жыл бұрын

    *adhd

  • @mikewright2858

    @mikewright2858

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, it's a superpower. But, pity the fool who interrupts us.

  • @styoless414
    @styoless4142 жыл бұрын

    My favorite part about ADHD is my empathy, since I go through tons of emotions and my reactions, opinions, and ways of processing them always change over time I'm able to understand whatever other people are feeling since I literally go through so many different emotions every day and my perspective on them changes several times a month I feel like whatever state of mind someone is going through, based on their actions I can see myself when I went through that same thing, and I give my friends alot of generally good advice and my friends also find it east to engage in emotional/deep conversation topics with me

  • @diegoapalategui579

    @diegoapalategui579

    2 жыл бұрын

    totally agree, 100%

  • @TheAmericanCatholic

    @TheAmericanCatholic

    2 жыл бұрын

    I also have autism so I don’t relate as much much but my adhd helps with self reflection so it helps me to understand emotions in people.

  • @alexpavalok430

    @alexpavalok430

    Жыл бұрын

    Same but I'm also way too intense for most people when I get comfortable I tend to not have a filter and talk people's heads off. Combine that with large vocabulary and higher than average intelligence...let's just say I don't have many close friends lol.

  • @karengaray5114

    @karengaray5114

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes! Many people have told me I'm the only one who listens to them and understands. I hadn't thought of it in exactly this way but you expressed it beautifully.

  • @AbunchOfRandomArt

    @AbunchOfRandomArt

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @echfx9201
    @echfx92014 жыл бұрын

    our emotions are really temporary, when we're sad its so easy to make us happy again

  • @starrynight1165

    @starrynight1165

    3 жыл бұрын

    This reminds me of how sometimes i do this thing where i say or do something, then i think about it every second of every day for about three days, then it wares off and everthings normal again

  • @juliadeoliveira3834

    @juliadeoliveira3834

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Will Fryer 2 He's right, the emotions are very fleeting, but the scenario changes if you have a comorbidity like depression But it is also important to remember that each person with ADHD is different

  • @Kooki_Mawnster

    @Kooki_Mawnster

    3 жыл бұрын

    This makes sense, yesterday I realized how quickly I'd gotten over my sadness and thought "wow that was weird, but I always do that dont i?" Lol

  • @wolfhugger3344

    @wolfhugger3344

    3 жыл бұрын

    We don’t hold grudges/ we can’t hold then

  • @kcsledge95

    @kcsledge95

    3 жыл бұрын

    Did we mention we’re frickin kids?!

  • @LaundryFaerie
    @LaundryFaerie4 жыл бұрын

    My ADHD superpower: I'm never bored. Really. My brain is full of interesting stuff thanks to a lifetime of reading, daydreaming and actual real-life adventures, so it automatically opens up an amazing mental playground when potentially boring stuff is going on outside. Which means that if I have to go through something that doesn't fill me with glee and doesn't require my focus (looking at you, today's iron infusion treatment!), I can go inside my head and be completely enthralled for as much time as I need.

  • @cobalius

    @cobalius

    4 жыл бұрын

    I want that

  • @ilikememes9234

    @ilikememes9234

    4 жыл бұрын

    I just frickin love hyper focus

  • @ahagqgwvisn9879

    @ahagqgwvisn9879

    4 жыл бұрын

    Omg same! I thought I was the only one who did this lol. My teachers have always gotten mad at me for daydreaming when I was playing in my 'mental playground'

  • @tasmiakhan9934

    @tasmiakhan9934

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi I'm like that as well. I always thought my imaginations are wild, in real sense. I always wanted to become an actress but couldn't. So sometimes I practice acting when I'm home alone lol

  • @saori5808

    @saori5808

    4 жыл бұрын

    I fr start a whole movie in my head when I get bored

  • @MissKilljoy
    @MissKilljoy Жыл бұрын

    I feel this so hard. Some days I view my ADHD as a superpower, but other days it's also my Kryptonite.

  • @user-sb1yb5mz3k

    @user-sb1yb5mz3k

    4 ай бұрын

    Same here!

  • @ericenle
    @ericenle2 жыл бұрын

    I love having tons of knowledge about literally everything. I only wish I could figure out how to work it to my advantage (financially and career wise).

  • @Dancestar1981

    @Dancestar1981

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m the same I have Aspergers and ADHD Inattentive

  • @Chronikstyles303

    @Chronikstyles303

    2 жыл бұрын

    Action

  • @Chronikstyles303

    @Chronikstyles303

    2 жыл бұрын

    Action is how you bring it to you advantage financially and career wise . Which I'm basically just starting from 32 years of living through adhd . It's unreal how much I'm learning at this stage of my life . But I would say it's action . Which is so much easier said than done obviously

  • @celine9322

    @celine9322

    2 жыл бұрын

    Relatable

  • @thainaraoliveira2782

    @thainaraoliveira2782

    2 жыл бұрын

    Literally described how I feel right now. Can't decide in which direction to go having so different options

  • @thecoolaxolotlnova8523
    @thecoolaxolotlnova85234 жыл бұрын

    Her: "staying up all night studying how to sleep" Me again at 5:30 AM: o shi again

  • @adrianaadnan7704

    @adrianaadnan7704

    4 жыл бұрын

    Move to netherland n adopt Dutch culture Omg u r funny.i want to create an aspie country.but theres already netherland

  • @Carlygrrl

    @Carlygrrl

    3 жыл бұрын

    So Dang True!! 🤣

  • @Julia-ln5og

    @Julia-ln5og

    3 жыл бұрын

    Surprisingly I've never had a problem with sleep

  • @lovelylia93

    @lovelylia93

    3 жыл бұрын

    So me.. also, trying to learn how to stop procrastinating while I'm procrastinating lol

  • @thecoolaxolotlnova8523

    @thecoolaxolotlnova8523

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lovelylia93 lol I commented this when I had depression and completely forgot about it

  • @Moon-zq3de
    @Moon-zq3de5 жыл бұрын

    I am Korean. People from many countries see your KZread channel. I recently found out that it is an adult adhd. This video really helped me a lot. I feel cheerful in my life. Thank you.

  • @pvnda69420

    @pvnda69420

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah bro we all do

  • @alaroyde5758

    @alaroyde5758

    5 жыл бұрын

    I hate KPOP

  • @syedmohammedosamaquadri980

    @syedmohammedosamaquadri980

    4 жыл бұрын

    Those aren't enjoyable for sure... Wanna hear real Kpop? Search " Let's go" korean version. ;D

  • @theninjascientist689

    @theninjascientist689

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm so proud of you!

  • @alinarovanpera4524

    @alinarovanpera4524

    4 жыл бұрын

    안녕하세요! My ADHD actually helps me learn Korean because it's fun for me. 화이팅!

  • @deborahwarne3604
    @deborahwarne36043 жыл бұрын

    Just a thought, but I’ve always felt my ADHD helps me get along with little children way better than everyone else. Anyone else feel this way?

  • @FreakyFeline88

    @FreakyFeline88

    2 жыл бұрын

    100%!!! I'm a teacher and I really get along with children because literally I'm a child in the body of an adult.

  • @dingusdeduck2621

    @dingusdeduck2621

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agreed, they understand us in a way and we understand them in a way

  • @elacohen6749

    @elacohen6749

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh my god yessss! I’m a teen but I love little kids and I get along with them so easy and I’m always up to go see them and I have ADHD too and everyone’s always calling me the “baby whisperer” because I get on with them so well I totally feel the same way as you!!

  • @christinaleuchtmann2085

    @christinaleuchtmann2085

    Жыл бұрын

    I definitely fit in this category. I'm 45 and I still feel like I'm a teenager in an adult body, I definitely get along better with children than adults, I'm exactly at that level. And I get along great with my 19 soon to be 20 yr old Daughter ❤️

  • @reveninja5252

    @reveninja5252

    Жыл бұрын

    I can relate... I am the only one who sees that you can do interesting things with children. Everybody else does not enter the "playfulness" category out of fear it might be contagious and they might learn something... or I don't know... It's like nobody else knows that there are more things you can with your time beside cleaning house, or watching something. Maybe they have some sort of Attention Deficit Disorder, cos they cannot see opportunities...

  • @FrogeniusW.G.
    @FrogeniusW.G.2 жыл бұрын

    My favourite is the "high sensitivity"/ the "noticing everything at the same time" -thing. That's what distracts us, but it's also what keeps us noticing the little things.. ♡

  • @polarbear5041

    @polarbear5041

    2 жыл бұрын

    That is so true

  • @Thefixersnyc

    @Thefixersnyc

    2 жыл бұрын

    Global thinking/perspective. I can relate.

  • @TheHobbyist_76

    @TheHobbyist_76

    Жыл бұрын

    ditto

  • @mikewright2858

    @mikewright2858

    Жыл бұрын

    I have an innate ability to hear and feel the slightest irregularity in any machine or piece of equipment. I can sense the very slightest thing wrong with my car, and before I was a software engineer and I was an equipment technician, I could easily diagnose problems simply by touch and sound, just listening for irregularities others missed. It ALSO means that if something in the back of my SUV is rattling going down the highway, I am pulling over and unloading everything to find it. Done that. More than once.

  • @FoggyMcFogFace

    @FoggyMcFogFace

    11 ай бұрын

    @@mikewright2858 I, on the other hand, have heard a concerning rattle in the front right of my car when going over 110km/h. Bright as day. For I guess half a year now? It hasn't worsened or caused problems so my strategy of "eh, it'll be fine, looking sounds like effort" seems to be working quite well I'd say.

  • @nothanks8387
    @nothanks83877 жыл бұрын

    when I saw that picture of Michael Phelps and you were saying champions have ADHD I was like "YES! i can do this" and then I went into the kitchen while doing this and I hit my hip against the table

  • @estellesandford3267

    @estellesandford3267

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ahhhhhh yes!!! I'm constantly banging into things because I'm not spatially aware! Often it is corner of desk, or even straight into the side of a door edge or something!!!

  • @arianna93

    @arianna93

    7 жыл бұрын

    Brain: "After all this time?" Me: "Always"

  • @nothanks8387

    @nothanks8387

    7 жыл бұрын

    Estelle Sandford lol i feel sorry for u

  • @fit_me_up9355

    @fit_me_up9355

    7 жыл бұрын

    Lmao I own that whole scenario several times a day.

  • @nothanks8387

    @nothanks8387

    7 жыл бұрын

    Fit_me_up now that must hurt

  • @hauntedblossom3293
    @hauntedblossom32935 жыл бұрын

    "We're full of suprises!" so true. I'm so unpredictable that I don't even know what I'm about to do next.

  • @rosegarden69

    @rosegarden69

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same!

  • @cobalius

    @cobalius

    4 жыл бұрын

    Love that comment today xD

  • @Cooper024

    @Cooper024

    3 жыл бұрын

    😀

  • @117chandelin

    @117chandelin

    3 жыл бұрын

    Truth: people express disinterest that I laugh so hard at my own jokes. I explain that I heard the joke for the first time with them.

  • @MsBorkbork

    @MsBorkbork

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@117chandelin I do this too! Sometimes I start laughing just before I finish telling the joke because I realise what I'm about to say! Thankfully I've found some folks that seem to think I'm funny most of the time.

  • @AlexanderHamilton10
    @AlexanderHamilton103 жыл бұрын

    "Pull your keys out of the freezer" Definitely done stuff like that. I used to keep my wallet in the freezer so I could remember where I put it because it was easy to remember a joke about freezing my assets than it was to find my wallet on my nightstand.

  • @brumbybailey6599

    @brumbybailey6599

    2 жыл бұрын

    👌yes!😂

  • @RadioactiveGamin

    @RadioactiveGamin

    2 жыл бұрын

    laughed a bit too hard at this one lmfao

  • @jericho1137

    @jericho1137

    2 жыл бұрын

    Chefs kiss 🤌

  • @laurawrigleycarr

    @laurawrigleycarr

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lollllllll.

  • @azlizzie

    @azlizzie

    Жыл бұрын

    Fantastic! Haha!

  • @lurileyloo4541
    @lurileyloo45412 жыл бұрын

    My parents are asian, so being fun, too energetic and talkative was hard, i literally had 2 personalities at home and at school.

  • @sanskarchourasia6856

    @sanskarchourasia6856

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bro you don't even know how much I relate.

  • @roseeg6937

    @roseeg6937

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@user-eb2fz1we9k it’s a cycle Our parents didn’t have an emotional connection with their parents they are in pain but they don’t realize it And they treat us the same way their parents treated them and this cycle keeps on reacting itself Rather than changing my parents, I would change myself and be a better person for my kids if I have any in future

  • @cferracini

    @cferracini

    2 жыл бұрын

    I had it too but to me, it was the opposite. I felt oppressed at school by the other kids so I would be me at home

  • @luckymstr5614

    @luckymstr5614

    Жыл бұрын

    I know this is a year old comment, but you won't believe how true this is for me!!

  • @Lanuzos

    @Lanuzos

    9 ай бұрын

    Culture really hurts the spirit of people. I doubt that even your parents fit into the work hard mentality they have. There are other ways to live a fulfilled live than just strictly studying and working, I hope that your parents will realize that and can see who they really are. I’m glad that my parents have supported me and raised me knowing I have autism.

  • @yajairamonseratvlogs8627
    @yajairamonseratvlogs86276 жыл бұрын

    I don't feel lonely anymore 🙂

  • @simonestaios4546

    @simonestaios4546

    5 жыл бұрын

    seriously no matter how much i think about it, i always arrive at this conclusion and makes me happy, not alone!!!!!!!!

  • @theblacktigertkd360

    @theblacktigertkd360

    4 жыл бұрын

    Welcome to the tribe

  • @ellashella0194

    @ellashella0194

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yay!! I'm happy to hear that! I can totally relate to you :) my friends don't have ADHD but I'm glad that there's a whole community here for us and that understands what we are going through!

  • @kamikaze6198

    @kamikaze6198

    4 жыл бұрын

    ADHD PEEPS RIIISE UP! *HyPER ACTIVITY JUICES FLOWIN*

  • @kingmickey666

    @kingmickey666

    4 жыл бұрын

    I have met alot of people who have adhd. You might know someone with adhd too without them, or you even knowing they have adhd. :)

  • @coolbluelights
    @coolbluelights6 жыл бұрын

    would you say ADHD people never really grow up? i've never lost touch with my inner child and I can still remember things from my childhood that my classmates have long ago forgotten.

  • @kimholcomb6943

    @kimholcomb6943

    5 жыл бұрын

    No coolbluelights, we do grow up. But we're never boring (I'm adhd myself)

  • @mariuschristensen1600

    @mariuschristensen1600

    5 жыл бұрын

    I think growing up can be synonymous with repressing that inner child. I was growing up until 25, then I started trying to grow down again.

  • @mariuschristensen1600

    @mariuschristensen1600

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@iprobablyhaveapoint if you are refering to immaturity thats not really what i meant.

  • @mariuschristensen1600

    @mariuschristensen1600

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@iprobablyhaveapoint allowing yourself to be weird, free, doing what you want and not what other people want you to. Removal of cultural programming, bias and inaccurate conclusions you drew as a result of parenting and lots of "no".

  • @tamhogg_

    @tamhogg_

    4 жыл бұрын

    I get people say that to me all the time. I am by no means childish but I have been told I'm child-like. I have been able to keep my wonder about the world and appreciate small things. I'm very grateful for it.

  • @janekreger5749
    @janekreger57492 жыл бұрын

    Thank you. I have thought I had it but everyone blew it off. Finally at age 73 my primary care doctor actually listened.

  • @wendyhannan2454

    @wendyhannan2454

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too at 75, I think many people diagnose them selves. Then we have to find the right medical people to confirm it.

  • @PVVI2015

    @PVVI2015

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too at 74! Finally I really understood myself and could see my life in a different perspective. Although my Dr was very sceptical he suggested I try a low dose of Wellbutrin and it has definitely helped. Instead of a “Ferrari brain with bicycle brakes”, I at least have disc brakes now😇

  • @ace_of_cups4096
    @ace_of_cups40962 жыл бұрын

    I need this.. I pretty much hate myself because of the things I do, that fall into the ADHD category. I try to tell my mom that the things that work for her don't work for me, and what is easier for her isn't easier for me, and she just gets mad at me for being unable to do things when I try them her way because she refuses to let me try things in a way that might work for me. I feel like she's starting to hate me for these things, too...

  • @mhxybeats653
    @mhxybeats6534 жыл бұрын

    my hyperfocusing abilities are crazy. once i find something i genuinely enjoy, give me 3 days and i already know everything about it, because i don’t stop researching. everyone thinks i’m smart because i know so much about so many different things but it’s really just the fact that once i actually do focus on something i can’t stop

  • @hipxel8918

    @hipxel8918

    2 жыл бұрын

    So thats the reason i learned how to design characters. Its because i want to make imaginary friends in my free time. Lol

  • @Dinomine22

    @Dinomine22

    2 жыл бұрын

    So lucky… i wish i was able to do that.

  • @hipxel8918

    @hipxel8918

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Dinomine22 you are lucky that you read that.

  • @BCuniverse-ce4ih

    @BCuniverse-ce4ih

    2 жыл бұрын

    That happens to me also, I’m interested in what that thing is.

  • @LukainX

    @LukainX

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same for me in lucid dreaming.

  • @toobossforchuck
    @toobossforchuck4 жыл бұрын

    "Being a good person doesn't mean you never mess up" ...crying rn and it wasn't even the main point of the video

  • @Catherine-lz7bi

    @Catherine-lz7bi

    3 жыл бұрын

    LOL I was just reading your comment and then she said in the video at the exact same time 🤣

  • @ChavonJWright

    @ChavonJWright

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're sleepy, huh? Take it easy on yourself tomorrow 💜

  • @bee_anchor
    @bee_anchor3 жыл бұрын

    I’m literally bawling my eyes out hearing this right now. I needed to hear this. I feel a lot more positive. I was diagnosed a week ago and it has been a hard week to say the least. There are a lot of positives to being diagnosed of course, but its so big discovering who I really am and why.

  • @richfrench8665

    @richfrench8665

    2 жыл бұрын

    i hope you arefeeling better about your situation

  • @daniellegentile2559

    @daniellegentile2559

    2 жыл бұрын

    omg i was diagnosed a month ago....im in the same boat as you my friend

  • @celine9322

    @celine9322

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤️

  • @thechosenone3094

    @thechosenone3094

    2 жыл бұрын

    I just got diagnosed a week ago and I feel you way too hard 😅

  • @polarbear5041

    @polarbear5041

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hang in there buddy.. : ) I have had AD HD since I was 4 years old.

  • @naomiidk1583
    @naomiidk15832 жыл бұрын

    it’s a breath of fresh air to hear some positive things about having adhd, it’s tiring sometimes to only hear ways to cope (even tho it’s important!) this video made me tear up because it’s just really nice to hear someone saying hey you have some really great qualities!

  • @boystown1955

    @boystown1955

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree 👍🏽

  • @nicksteven5521
    @nicksteven55214 жыл бұрын

    I was playing drums while watching this video so when she said drum roll please i was alll likeeeee. “Been waiting my whole life for this. Rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

  • @L1LP0E

    @L1LP0E

    2 жыл бұрын

    EPIC!

  • @Sarah-ht7cs

    @Sarah-ht7cs

    2 жыл бұрын

    Luvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvv!!!

  • @jusme414

    @jusme414

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is so funnnyyy

  • @doctaflo

    @doctaflo

    2 жыл бұрын

    AWESOME

  • @ScMaHi

    @ScMaHi

    2 жыл бұрын

    Coool

  • @stephdc68
    @stephdc685 жыл бұрын

    I love the fact that I can always stay childlike..my son has told me once that " Mami, you are so young because you are funny and always playing with me " :)

  • @msaxa23

    @msaxa23

    3 жыл бұрын

    Iam a big kid when iam around kids including my own i love to play

  • @bradlyhenson1814

    @bradlyhenson1814

    2 жыл бұрын

    People have accused Me of having '' Peter Pan Syndrome '' I tell them No, '' Hook Syndrome '' is a lot more Fun, because I get to be a Pirate. ROFL

  • @Dancestar1981

    @Dancestar1981

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@msaxa23 me too really handy now that I have a 9 month old nephew

  • @Ashley-ro4xz

    @Ashley-ro4xz

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oof I’ve had one time where being told I was childish was a good thing. (That I can remember) I keep getting told I act like a kid since high school like it’s a bad thing. Great that your son had that outlook! It makes sense that kids are the only ones that get me.

  • @stephdc68

    @stephdc68

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Ashley-ro4xz Thank you :) Let's stay young / childlike, carpe diem!

  • @kate56ful
    @kate56ful2 жыл бұрын

    My humor and creativity are my FAVORITE things i love about my adhd. I never ever want to live without them. I didn't even know they were a result of adhd i thought it was just my personality and intelligence. The more i discover new things about adhd, the more i learn about my self and the more i love who i am. Because for the first time ever my difference has an explanation.

  • @wendyribeau2736
    @wendyribeau27363 жыл бұрын

    I feel alone with ADHD in my life which I need to say I don’t interact with a lot of people, I don’t keep up on social media and writing to computer for interaction. It doesn’t feel really real. But one positive and person who made me not feel alone or someone who I totally felt I related with you Jessica. You have truly impacted my life helping me to move forward towards loving and accepting myself more.

  • @kasiaadams3594
    @kasiaadams35945 жыл бұрын

    I love that hyperfocusing can bring us from a noob to an expert overnight

  • @cedricburkhart3738

    @cedricburkhart3738

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤔

  • @candyaddict111

    @candyaddict111

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ain’t it!

  • @Sleepy_Sunshine

    @Sleepy_Sunshine

    2 жыл бұрын

    But then i un-focus and don't touch the skill for months

  • @joelman1989

    @joelman1989

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes!!!! I just learned I have adhd like 2 days ago and feel like I can write a dissertation on it.

  • @Dani-et3es

    @Dani-et3es

    2 жыл бұрын

    Trufax. 💅🏽

  • @Kamel419
    @Kamel4196 жыл бұрын

    my favorite thing about my ADHD is how well it suits my career as a software developer. i really love challenges, and programming is basically a never ending supply of challenges.

  • @cobalius

    @cobalius

    4 жыл бұрын

    Oh my deer. That's what i'm aiming for! Where's the friendship button??

  • @armorsmith43

    @armorsmith43

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tasty Rainbro make sure to learn how to write automated tests. Test-Driven Development makes ADDer much better at programming.

  • @gringa23

    @gringa23

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am finally at a job that I love😆😆

  • @giu3077

    @giu3077

    3 жыл бұрын

    good thing comp sci is going to be my major then! :D sounds pretty fitting haha

  • @haxney

    @haxney

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's so true. But I've found it makes it harder to progress up the career ladder (at least for me), because I always want to work on the next little bit of a program rather than writing a design document or creating a plan for other people to follow. Why would I do that when if I just tweak that one thing, everything will work?

  • @linkinlog8543
    @linkinlog85433 жыл бұрын

    The one I love about my adhd is that I am able to daydream at will whenever I want. Its amazing, I look like I’m focusing but I’m really focusing on my favorite video game characters.

  • @jackwest6348
    @jackwest6348 Жыл бұрын

    I started this video just as my 10 year old son (who also has ADHD) was walking by. He stopped and watched the whole thing with me. I looked over at him when it was done and he had a huge smile on his face. I said "see it's actually cool that we have ADHD huh?" He said "yeah, I like this." Thank you so much. For encouraging me and my little boy. :-)

  • @ameliasmith7421
    @ameliasmith74216 жыл бұрын

    The fact I got through this whole video is the most consistent thing I've done all day

  • @julienickel3568

    @julienickel3568

    5 жыл бұрын

    Very funny and oh so true.

  • @barthalomeowthegreat8470

    @barthalomeowthegreat8470

    5 жыл бұрын

    She's the greatest!

  • @notlucy770

    @notlucy770

    4 жыл бұрын

    HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH I felt this

  • @a1gdotbrixx716

    @a1gdotbrixx716

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol jus take meds if u think it’s that bad

  • @MinMin-ow5cc

    @MinMin-ow5cc

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same tbh

  • @karindaarchbold7360
    @karindaarchbold73604 жыл бұрын

    I’m definitely struggling to see the positive side of my ADHD at the moment. My life is in disarray and there seems to be no way of moving forward.

  • @cedricburkhart3738

    @cedricburkhart3738

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well the thing is it can be hard to appreciate being different when it looks like it makes you less abol to achieve things.

  • @cedricburkhart3738

    @cedricburkhart3738

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Will Fryer 2 Getting yeld at for not paying attention for one. Or burning out trying to do something that would be easy for a normal person.

  • @jgbreezer

    @jgbreezer

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤗 hugs

  • @charliefinn319

    @charliefinn319

    3 жыл бұрын

    I feel the same. Hoping things turn around for you 💗

  • @kuibeiguahua

    @kuibeiguahua

    2 жыл бұрын

    I build my capacities brick by brick. I ask myself how I can live the next five years and position myself in the right place. Good luck and thank you

  • @MsDomomuffin
    @MsDomomuffin3 жыл бұрын

    Her: “My favorite ant had it too” Me: hahaha her favorite ant..why’d she have a pet ant and why’d she think it had ADHD Me 2 seconds later: oh...

  • @MichaelBoyer213

    @MichaelBoyer213

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same!!! I totally thought she meant “ant” when she said that

  • @candyaddict111

    @candyaddict111

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lmbo

  • @ChavonJWright

    @ChavonJWright

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hahahahaha 🤪

  • @skaryzgik

    @skaryzgik

    2 жыл бұрын

    I know there's plenty of people that don't *have* that vowel merger, but I keep forgetting there might be people who haven't even *heard* of it.

  • @kevinbernadet5365
    @kevinbernadet53653 жыл бұрын

    I recently found out I had ADHD at 27 years old. And it's so nice to see and hear the positives about it after beating myself up about my weird habits for years. so Thank you. You're an awesome ADHD advocate!

  • @anissaalonzo3425

    @anissaalonzo3425

    Жыл бұрын

    Metoo

  • @orianawaldren8740
    @orianawaldren87407 жыл бұрын

    LOL! When she said "My favorite aunt had ADHD too," I thought she meant "ant" like she had a pet ant that she played with...😂😅😃

  • @leevadam6686

    @leevadam6686

    7 жыл бұрын

    me too lol

  • @potatoking2729

    @potatoking2729

    7 жыл бұрын

    i did, but then i realised she meant the person....

  • @COVID-19_Crab

    @COVID-19_Crab

    7 жыл бұрын

    Oriana Waldren ikr!

  • @desperatedoodling6590

    @desperatedoodling6590

    7 жыл бұрын

    I did too xDDDD lol

  • @StarrTheWitch

    @StarrTheWitch

    7 жыл бұрын

    Oriana Waldren honestly I thought that too and I am laughing at myself

  • @heriehairi9781
    @heriehairi97817 жыл бұрын

    in my country they still assume adhd is an excuses. 99% percent dont knw what adhd is. i tell my best friend and he laughed. its so depressing.

  • @moreda3

    @moreda3

    4 жыл бұрын

    Which country?

  • @LKBeatbox

    @LKBeatbox

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same thing here bro.

  • @patternsmashing
    @patternsmashing2 жыл бұрын

    Oddly enough, it makes me great at project planning, mostly because I expect deadlines to be exceeded, and I've developed mad improvisation skills (and that's fun too). So when I build a project schedule, I mean engineer in extreme detail a project schedule, it's full of padding, plans B through F, and when something unforeseen happens... I enjoy figuring out to fix it.

  • @rachelpalmer8385
    @rachelpalmer8385 Жыл бұрын

    I just wanted to acknowledge when you made the video you had 15,000 subscribers. Now you have 1.35 million. Way to go!!!

  • @davidholloway6127
    @davidholloway61276 жыл бұрын

    This is the first time ever that I have genuinely thought that having ADHD was an advantage. Thank you.

  • @Ryosuke1208

    @Ryosuke1208

    3 жыл бұрын

    I see it as a double edged weapon, it can work against you, but using the same creativity that ADHD gives you, you can find a way to make it work for your benefit, although is not a very easy task, but when you finally do it, its very rewarding.

  • @freanh2
    @freanh27 жыл бұрын

    I am ADD, I realized that I always interrupt people, bcos I need to say what I think or I'll forget before they end, I can't controlled sometimes hahaha 😂😭

  • @laurimarkkanen1fan

    @laurimarkkanen1fan

    5 жыл бұрын

    me too but I have ADHD

  • @jazminromero396

    @jazminromero396

    5 жыл бұрын

    Francisca Fernandez same😄😂😂😢😨

  • @JamieFairclothPRODUCTIONS

    @JamieFairclothPRODUCTIONS

    5 жыл бұрын

    Omg! Me to and I always get paranoid that people find it really annoying 😬😂 I have ADHD xx

  • @justinestylinson4840

    @justinestylinson4840

    5 жыл бұрын

    Oh my gosh me too!!

  • @hackaysockay6367

    @hackaysockay6367

    5 жыл бұрын

    Francisca Fernandez I feel ya

  • @inkstainedpanda501
    @inkstainedpanda50111 ай бұрын

    I am almost 51 years young, and have just been diagnosed … such a relief!!! It does explain a lot. Your videos are amazing - thank you soooo much ❤️

  • @normamcbride2673
    @normamcbride2673Ай бұрын

    I love that almost every project coordinator and manager I’ve met also has ADHD. I’m starting to believe it’s something that people with ADHD can truly excel at because it builds in many of the tools we find helpful.

  • @Jack-vu9on
    @Jack-vu9on5 жыл бұрын

    I ALWAYS THOUGHT I JUST HAD SOMETHING REALLY WEIRD HAPPEN WHEN I GOT 2 WEEKS OF SCHOOL WORK DONE IN 2 DAYS. HYPERFOCUSSSSS

  • @darkgriffin8007

    @darkgriffin8007

    3 жыл бұрын

    Then there is me with my whole terms work done in one night 😉

  • @HaydenNightingale124
    @HaydenNightingale1243 жыл бұрын

    0:38 "ADHD is not a failed version of normal." Love it! This was a refreshing and uplifting video.

  • @zm4362
    @zm43622 жыл бұрын

    3:11 it’s almost 4am and HERE I AM🤘🏽 hyper fixated and cant sleep because im learning about how some people get hyper fixated and can’t sleep. Although I’m not diagnosed, I don’t claim to have it, and I probably can’t even afford being diagnosed anyways, I DO have a ton of ADHD symptoms and they are too prominent so listening to these videos makes me feel heard ONE WAY OR ANOTHER I feel like I can acknowledge parts of myself that I’ve tried to disregard or even avoid and I can work on maneuvering my life better!!!!! SURE it’s in our nature to look at how certain aspects have held us back in order to improve ourselves, but it’s important to see what strengths they bring to our lives too :)

  • @OhCanada2019
    @OhCanada20199 күн бұрын

    Love love love. Today my doc said my daughter might have adhd. I felt like crying and sad and still in shock, your video made me relax and I started seeing positives of this adhd

  • @javascriptsophie4958
    @javascriptsophie49587 жыл бұрын

    I just feel like my ADHD makes life way more exciting then it would be without it.

  • @notelizabeth7861

    @notelizabeth7861

    7 жыл бұрын

    I would hate being ~shudders~ *normal*

  • @SonsOfLorgar

    @SonsOfLorgar

    7 жыл бұрын

    Walrus In Training yeah, normal is like, the most outrageous insult ever! ;) Weird FTW!

  • @saywhatomar3163

    @saywhatomar3163

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lurchipoo you have to find something that actives that focus and when you do you will learn and finish things quiet easily, mine would be music

  • @lewisford7438
    @lewisford74384 жыл бұрын

    You just made a very depressed person feel good about themselves 💛

  • @polarbear5041

    @polarbear5041

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same!!

  • @stargazerbird
    @stargazerbird2 жыл бұрын

    Enthusiasm is such a big one. I don’t know how people get through life without being lit up by a new passion on a regular basis.

  • @willhem69

    @willhem69

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yh one day you want to be a strong man the next day a pilot

  • @robynpitman5385
    @robynpitman53852 жыл бұрын

    "Think outside the box?" I don't even know where the box is sometimes

  • @hebbycakes
    @hebbycakes4 жыл бұрын

    I love my adoration for the mundane, for small things. Appreciation and excitement over things that others might think aren't that special.

  • @prapanthebachelorette6803

    @prapanthebachelorette6803

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh yes totally

  • @djsaintmusic7819

    @djsaintmusic7819

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same, I’m chronically depressed with ADHD so I always try to squeeze a little bit of happiness out of things

  • @boystown1955

    @boystown1955

    Жыл бұрын

    @@djsaintmusic7819 same here

  • @Clutterbug
    @Clutterbug7 жыл бұрын

    I just found your channel on a day I really needed it. Surrounded by normals, I've been totally feeling bad about myself for not being able to "get it together". A few of your videos and I feel happy and energized again! Thank you.

  • @HowtoADHD

    @HowtoADHD

    7 жыл бұрын

    Hi!!! Omigosh thank you for commenting, I could really use your channel too!!! Subscribed :D

  • @hayleymarshall9487

    @hayleymarshall9487

    7 жыл бұрын

    +How to ADHD what I like about my adhd is that I am very creative and imaginative with about every thing I do

  • @amyabramajtys2100

    @amyabramajtys2100

    7 жыл бұрын

    ClutterBug!!! I was actually thinking that you two should collaborate on some videos! I watch both of you, and you are the only two channels that I'm subscribed to!!

  • @amyabramajtys2100

    @amyabramajtys2100

    7 жыл бұрын

    In fact, I assumed that you knew about Cassie already; I'm so glad that you guys found each other.

  • @cruzingracie3081

    @cruzingracie3081

    6 жыл бұрын

    ClutterBug!!! I subscribe to you too!!! Love your channel too!!! :) Stay shiny!

  • @dirtawaycarpetandupholster4611
    @dirtawaycarpetandupholster4611 Жыл бұрын

    i love my creativity with how i put words together to get people laughing. i have literally had people rolling around on the floor almost wetting them selves through laughter. i hate the really negative stuff about it, but like this amazing lady said. you learn to laugh at your self, which also makes it more difficult for the "its just naughty child syndrome" people to put me down. ADHD gives you a huge advantage over others in certain areas at least

  • @blasthead1722
    @blasthead17223 жыл бұрын

    I love it when you say; "Hello Brains". I feel like grinning and responding with, "Hello Wise and Knowledgable Brain".

  • @kristianamiller1912
    @kristianamiller19126 жыл бұрын

    " I love your videos, you've been really helping me with my ADHD life. I made one of those cool glitter bottles. Thank you for all your advice. " - my 8 year old son Myles

  • @HowtoADHD

    @HowtoADHD

    6 жыл бұрын

    Hi Myles! I’m glad my videos are helpful! What color is your glitter bottle? I can’t find mine, I want to make another one ☺️

  • @vxmpiire_9801

    @vxmpiire_9801

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@HowtoADHD I know I'm not mule but I just wanna share, my glitter bottle I salmon pink and the glitter is gold and blue

  • @meggylee8078
    @meggylee80787 жыл бұрын

    What if I love this girl but don't have ADHD? Can I still be here?

  • @HowtoADHD

    @HowtoADHD

    7 жыл бұрын

    Of course! :D

  • @sirenofsound

    @sirenofsound

    7 жыл бұрын

    MeggyLee yes you can!! Spread the 💘 and spread the word. You're even learning things you had no idea about. I'm #adhdandsuccessful and Yep! I've probably watched this video 5 times and forget everything 10 minutes after I watch it. #alwaysentertained

  • @notelizabeth7861

    @notelizabeth7861

    7 жыл бұрын

    NOOO YOUR NOT ALLOWED TO WATCH KZread!!!! *Hint hint wink wink sarcasm sarcasm:

  • @lailai25279

    @lailai25279

    7 жыл бұрын

    mee too ssoooorry i am verrrryy hyyypeer and i dinnnnnn't get my adhd medddddddds

  • @twocandles1108

    @twocandles1108

    7 жыл бұрын

    MeggyLee the world could learn from someone like you... awareness is awesome...

  • @jezzaminejude6090
    @jezzaminejude60903 жыл бұрын

    i think my favourite thing about having adhd is the connection between other people with adhd. i feel like i’m running at the same pace at them mentally and it’s so refreshing to just be around them as i’m usually around people who don’t understand me as much lol

  • @lucytorres4846
    @lucytorres48462 жыл бұрын

    Literally some of my most impressive accomplishments to date are because of my ADHD :) from networking with people that I admire so much and cannot believe they wanted to work with me, to going viral a few years ago because I designed a coloring book to help kids ease their PTSD after a major earthquake hit Mexico city, to becoming friends with my biggest inspiration who happens to be a celebrity because of a gift I thought of making for her and her family, hyper-focusing on it for over 2 weeks and actually getting it done...and I could go on and on!! Like, yeah, maybe If I didn't have it, my life would have been easier and I wouldn't be dealing with internalized thoughts of not being good enough to get the job that I want BUT luckily I got diagnosed just in time and I truly believe getting to know my brain through therapy and the amazing tactics you so kindly share with the world, are priceless weapons of choice to tackle whatever obstacles I have to face so I can get there. I hope you know how many lives you've changed and touched, Jess 🧠❤!

  • @RubyRobbins88
    @RubyRobbins886 жыл бұрын

    I have to say I agree with a lot of this.....but I'm an introvert so I don't show my excitement all the time and I don't talk all the time. I do interrupt a lot though when I actually have something to say. I have the inattentive day dream kind of ADHD so a lot of what happens is internalized and not usually external.

  • @jotting2349

    @jotting2349

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @ksfishchannel

    @ksfishchannel

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same here! I'm kind of a wallflower, often floating off into the alternate universes I have created in my head, dont really participate at all in social situations unless its 1 on 1. People overwhelm me

  • @jeseniajrios

    @jeseniajrios

    5 жыл бұрын

    I would say that’s because your ADD that H will definitely make you an extrovert 😅

  • @leticialeuzinger2294

    @leticialeuzinger2294

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kingdomgirl 3333 I’m not an expert, but isn’t that just ADD? Instead of ADHD?

  • @Crumpsmeister

    @Crumpsmeister

    4 жыл бұрын

    Not me, when it comes to my fixation/hobby/obsession in life I talk about it to my wife all the time! When it comes to situations outside of that I can usually flip off the extrovert mode off for a limited amount of time.

  • @rimistanbouli1742
    @rimistanbouli17426 жыл бұрын

    my fav things : passion ability to relate jokes hugs imajination

  • @mikoelmongi
    @mikoelmongiАй бұрын

    I was recently diagnosed with Adult ADHD, im 47. Finally i understood why I process information so differently than others. I'm still digesting that this is my reality and that is a wonderful one. Thank you for this video. I needed that.

  • @danielawa5406
    @danielawa5406 Жыл бұрын

    man i thought that ADHD was really bad, but after watching this I can really see the benefits and boosted my mood! thanks for making ADHD so mush better for the world.

  • @brettthornhilladhdcoaching7016
    @brettthornhilladhdcoaching70167 жыл бұрын

    I am an ADHD Coach in Newfoundland, Canada (diagnosed myself as an adult). I absolutely LOVE what you're doing here. I will be sharing as many of your videos as I can if it's ok with you. I love the way you keep things light-hearted as you capture both the challenges and the ridiculousness of ADHD. Light-hearted, Informative and Insightful... ADHD talk just the way i like it! Keep up the amazing work!

  • @HowtoADHD

    @HowtoADHD

    7 жыл бұрын

    +Brett Thornhill ADHD Coaching yay thank you, I'm honored!!!

  • @AngelaMStovall

    @AngelaMStovall

    7 жыл бұрын

    I just want to tell you I think you are absolutely adorable and a joy to watch, thanks so much! You are a very lovely young lady and we need more women like you in the spotlight!

  • @redcarson3082
    @redcarson30825 жыл бұрын

    Got distracted by the background music. Have to watch the video over now 😂😂😂

  • @John-xe3rc
    @John-xe3rc3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this one, it was what I needed to hear today. I'm 32 and just got my diagnosis out of the blue when seeking treatment for my anxiety/depression. At first I was really taken with the diagnosis because I felt like it made so much sense and explained things about me I never had the words for. This week I've been grieving because of it, which also feels like it came out of the blue. So, thanks for the reminder that having my brain comes with perks.

  • @marjannikolic2224

    @marjannikolic2224

    Жыл бұрын

    How did you find out that you have adhd? i have doubts i have also. i am 32. years.

  • @monkeyman321

    @monkeyman321

    Жыл бұрын

    You’re describing what this week is being for me. I’m 33 now so we’re the same age.

  • @monkeyman321

    @monkeyman321

    Жыл бұрын

    @@marjannikolic2224 I’ve always been called a weirdo and a lazy person. I went to the psychologist for help with my low self stem and my anxiety and got diagnosed with ADHD.

  • @tedpreston4155
    @tedpreston41552 жыл бұрын

    Back then, I had no idea that I had ADHD, but just before law school, I learned a little about speed reading, and it became one of those subjects that inspired my hyperfocus. As it turns out, speed reading benefits from hyperfocus, and most of the time I was able to hyperfocus on the things I was reading, at least for short periods. It made law school SOooooo much easier, because I could do my reading assignments just before a class, and the material was fresh in my mind for the class discussions. When a professor asked a question, I was that guy with my hand in the air, ready with an answer. And I didn't have to spend long hours in the library reading, like my classmates did. Sadly, real life isn't like school. Law practice requires less reading and more writing, and ADHD doesn't help me to write any more easily. The constant wandering mind is definitely NOT helpful. I've only recently learned that I have ADHD, and it makes my past life struggles much easier to understand.

  • @emeraldvulture9576
    @emeraldvulture95765 жыл бұрын

    Show up to work 15 minutes late to work... On you’re break day... *Again...* I laughed cause that’s like so damn true and it’d Funny-

  • @jenniferisomatsu5743

    @jenniferisomatsu5743

    3 жыл бұрын

    I literally did that the other day

  • @alitvvlogs5041

    @alitvvlogs5041

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jenniferisomatsu5743 I did that once at college

  • @parsleyandozzie1857

    @parsleyandozzie1857

    3 жыл бұрын

    For some reason I'm I'm one of the things I obsess about is time keeping to the point it drives me nuts at times 😬

  • @marianbarckhausen1377

    @marianbarckhausen1377

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly that.

  • @ChavonJWright

    @ChavonJWright

    2 жыл бұрын

    Always

  • @mateusduol
    @mateusduol6 жыл бұрын

    You might have just saved my life. Thank you.

  • @julienickel3568

    @julienickel3568

    5 жыл бұрын

    I hope you are well

  • @allisonwest7079

    @allisonwest7079

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same!

  • @deergamer120

    @deergamer120

    5 жыл бұрын

    My life 🥑🥑🥑🥑🥑🥑🥑🥑🥑me🥔 Don't ask

  • @nick1342

    @nick1342

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dr. conners (the father of ADHD) writes: "For many years I interpreted everything about ADHD in a positive light: the increased research funding and accumulating research findings; the increased clinical awareness; more kids being treated with stimulants; the interest of parents and teachers; legislation making ADHD kids candidates for Special Ed; even drug company support for medical education and parents’ groups like CHADD. All seemed to be positive solutions to an important problem facing many families and school systems. But then one day I was asked to give a talk on what is the true prevalence of ADHD, as shown by empirical data. I was already aware that in some circles America is a laughingstock for its love affair with the idea of ADHD. Massive European birth registries show far lower rates than those being reported in the U.S. And my wife, who is a school psychologist, was telling me that any misbehaving kid in school would be quickly labeled ADHD by teachers. I was always suspicious that the high rates of “diagnosis” and prescription for ADHD came about because researchers based their figures on reports from parents, who in turn based their beliefs on teachers or doctors with no credible evidence. However large a massive survey, the data are pretty much worthless for one simple reason: there is no thorough history taking and hands-on clinical diagnosis. Large numbers of participants in a study guarantee sloppy diagnoses done via telephone interviews conducted by non clinicians. Careful diagnosis by clinicians is simply too expensive. The reported rates are inaccurate and exaggerated, upper limits not true prevalence. There was one exception in the literature, a massive study in the Western counties of North Carolina by two epidemiologists at Duke University. The investigators, Adrian Angold and Jane Costello, interviewed thousands of parents AND THEIR CHILDREN, using the latest epidemiological methods. They devised a comprehensive interview schedule and trained dozens of interviewers with a thesaurus that made sure the same inquiry took place exactly the same way for each family. For the first time, this highly praised award-winning study had both large numbers and detailed clinical examination. The results of this amazing project were startling. Only about 1-2% qualified as ADHD. Moreover, many children not sick at all had been given a stimulant drug. Also there were some children who actually qualified for the diagnosis of ADHD who never were identified by a mental health professional; there was both over-diagnosis and under- diagnosis. The findings were replicated in successive rounds of follow-on studies. It seems obvious to me that the steady increases over time In the apparent high prevalence of ADHD is due to doctor practices fueled by the shoddy science and allure of the big numbers, without the only meaningful ingredient of a comprehensive clinical history. Doctors on the front line who only have 20 minutes to get a story from a parent or to follow with medication checks or alternative therapies, are under pressure that guarantee mistakes with a complex disorder like ADHD. My review suddenly flipped my perception. I felt and announced to stunned colleagues that the over-diagnosis of ADHD was “an epidemic of tragic proportions.” Tragic because many kids get the wrong diagnosis and really have a different problem that needs a different treatment: or they are normal youngsters given a treatment they don’t need; or the drugs prescribed for them are given away or sold to other students wanting a quick fix for studying or partying-a reason why schools and colleges now have huge numbers of students using stimulant drugs, and why emergency rooms are increasingly overwhelmed with overdosing youngsters. Alan Schwartz of the New York Times exposed how disease-mongering and ruthless advertising by big Pharma had fed an eager medical system with false data, also capitalizing on the cooperation of unscrupulous “thought leaders” in child psychiatry. Doctors of course bear a lot of the responsibility- prescriptions for stimulant drugs can only come from doctors. Most hard-working primary care or general pediatric practitioners mean well but have too little time to really get to know their patients and too little expertise to be skeptical of misleading Pharma propaganda. I am alarmed to see how even some of my most respected colleagues deny the facts and bury their head in the sand. I recently talked to one of these highly published senior professors who has a “Distinguished Chair of Psychiatry and Genetics” and many publications on ADHD. I asked him what he thought about the New York Times revelations on the role of pharmaceutical companies in promoting over-diagnosis. He said, ‘I really don’t know that much about the numbers; I’m not an expert in epidemiology.’ Well, neither am I, but I know how to tell the difference between studies relying on telephone interviews of parents and those doing an actual meaningful clinical assessment. In today’s ADHD world the detailed family and developmental history has been replaced by word of mouth from parents and teachers and quickie interviews, largely by untrained primary care or general pediatric practitioners. I now believe that ADHD is part of a normal continuum going from very mild restlessness and Inattention to a severe form that requires treatment and skilled diagnostic assessment by well-trained clinicians.”

  • @irkedoff
    @irkedoff2 жыл бұрын

    I would not give up my mental health issues. It's hard to deal with at times, but it's part of me and it's my fed up normal.

  • @yasminfonseca3834
    @yasminfonseca38342 жыл бұрын

    This thing of you never know what we're gonna say is so real. My husband constantly says that what I just said to him was random. And I just tell him that is just how my brain works, a lot of random thoughts.

  • @TonyLey
    @TonyLey7 жыл бұрын

    I'm old and was just diagnosed with adhd. I'm consuming everything I can and love, LOVE, LOOOOOOOVE this channel! My favorite thing about my adhd is my creativity and the way my brain sort of steps out of the yard and looks at things very differently from most others. It's led me to my current jobs with Disney and Universal Orlando and all kinds of amazing experiences in my life. Thanks SO much to everyone working on your channel and you...this is a great resource!

  • @spring_la5499
    @spring_la54994 жыл бұрын

    I love the ability to find a solution to everything while others freak out, and of course creativity

  • @eduardoserralde7910
    @eduardoserralde7910 Жыл бұрын

    You probably hear this a lot. I've been wondering for a long time what was wrong with me. Due to the algorithm I crossed paths with one of your videos about 2 weeks ago. From there, it has been an enlightening experience. I have not been diagnosed or anything, but for some reason it all adds up. Thank you for making this videos. You literally have changed my life (for good). Greetings from Mexico!

  • @jeffreyocchinero9647
    @jeffreyocchinero96473 жыл бұрын

    So glad I found this Chanel I’m 44 with ADHD and I absolutely love having it

  • @alexwagner5722
    @alexwagner57225 жыл бұрын

    Recently a new kid came into our school. I had the honor of showing him the ropes at our school. But while doing that I noticed he acted slightly different than everyone else in the class. Later I realized he had ADHD. So I talked to him about it and he said it was true. So thanks to you’re amazing videos I’m understanding my new best friend better! 😁 Thanks!

  • @underratedsongsarezeebest9236

    @underratedsongsarezeebest9236

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are such a sweetheart ❤️

  • @wendyhannan2454

    @wendyhannan2454

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s lovely 😊

  • @daddydandy2901
    @daddydandy29017 жыл бұрын

    Hey Im 19. I think its about time to work on getting my license but scared of "oh look something flashing in the clouds"*crash*

  • @daddydandy2901

    @daddydandy2901

    7 жыл бұрын

    Could you do a video on that

  • @kaenonhori

    @kaenonhori

    7 жыл бұрын

    I agree, Driving is crazy anxiety filled thing. So much stimulation, But you have to filter the right stuff.

  • @kaylaschwichtenberg4804

    @kaylaschwichtenberg4804

    7 жыл бұрын

    I tap my fingers on the steering wheel as I drive even when there is no music playing it helps me focus as I drive

  • @PumpkinAttacker

    @PumpkinAttacker

    7 жыл бұрын

    Knowing that driving is dangerous is basically the whole battle. I go straight into hyperfocus when I'm driving, I drove about 1 hour in horrendous rain along unlit road with lightning flashing all thetime literally last night, and I managed to stay focussed the whole time. The only time it's a problem for me is when I'm driving somewhere that I drive all the time, like my commute to work and back each day. Sometimes I lose focus for a moment, but it never lasts

  • @amelsabri469

    @amelsabri469

    7 жыл бұрын

    Neil Nutt dont WORRY i was thinking that before i got my licence. it's just parasite idea but when you drive you will focus on the road..

  • @flappybox767
    @flappybox7672 жыл бұрын

    As I am watching this, I am rocking back and forth without realizing until just now....

  • @annikaaneja1365
    @annikaaneja1365 Жыл бұрын

    the "sense of humor" thing is so real. like making jokes about how you consistently make the same mistake again and again keeps people entertained

  • @karimhyde9383
    @karimhyde93837 жыл бұрын

    I discovered your channel today (at my age of 25) and it's making a huge impact on myself. I thought I knew a lot about my ADHD. But no, today I am learning so much with all your videos. Getting to know all of this, it's giving me so many answers... And it makes me extremely happy. I wanna send a big THANK YOU for your work, I can't explain how amazing it is.

  • @odysseus5199

    @odysseus5199

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same on me. Iam 20 and i havenot enough experience in life. And i think it will be more easier than erlier

  • @jessicaw8941
    @jessicaw89414 жыл бұрын

    When scary new project at work comes up: Me: I VOLUNTEER AS TRIBUTE!!! .oO(because I'm bored - gimme the new thing that I can break ... and fix!)

  • @neuroticnation144

    @neuroticnation144

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂🤣😂🤣😂

  • @laurak2042
    @laurak20422 жыл бұрын

    This is where I am living right now, as a newly diagnosed ADHD brain. At 63 it's enlightening and overwhelming. My discussions w/ my son (newly diagnosed), Daughter-in-law who has been struggling to find a doc in a new state, but has been diagnozed for awhile, and another daughter-in-law who was diagnosed this week and jsut started medication, we are talking about the upside to ADHD and my fear of losing what makes me special...

  • @Zay_M.
    @Zay_M.3 жыл бұрын

    My favourite thing about having ADHD is that nobody gets mad at me when I steal a rubber band from the kitchen! I don't have any fidget toys and one day I couldn't close a zip-lock bag or something and my mom showed me how I can do it with a rubber band, I started fidgeting with it trying to get it on the bag and I realised it was helping me be a bit less hyper at that moment. I ended up bringing a rubber band to school the next day(This was before COVID was a thing) and my teacher noticed I was fidgeting with it and he was just happy I didn't disrupt the lesson with an endless amount of questions. Which reminds me! I think ADHD makes to very inquisitive, because I hyperfocus on the lessons a lot but that also means I have lots of questions so I raise my hand basically every sentence and yes people get mad at me for that sometimes but it also makes me understand the subject a lot better. Nowadays in online lessons I'm either spamming the chat with questions or fidgeting with my rubber band!

  • @zanycinnamon9457
    @zanycinnamon94577 жыл бұрын

    do you ever cry because enough get so stressed

  • @HowtoADHD

    @HowtoADHD

    7 жыл бұрын

    yeah, I do. You?

  • @korejskavpraze1411

    @korejskavpraze1411

    7 жыл бұрын

    zany cinnamon i get so stressed out when my parents and people around me treat me like im a weirdo :(

  • @rumplstiltztinkerstein

    @rumplstiltztinkerstein

    7 жыл бұрын

    hey Juha. Think like I think, If people treat you differently, you can be different in a very nice way. Like a person with a lot better salary, a person that is a lot smarter, that has lots of cool ideas, that is very cool to hang out with, etc etc. You have the freedom to be whoever you want, let your creativity and impulse guide you o/

  • @korejskavpraze1411

    @korejskavpraze1411

    7 жыл бұрын

    Lucas Lemos okay what a nice reply thank you :)

  • @rumplstiltztinkerstein

    @rumplstiltztinkerstein

    7 жыл бұрын

    I'm very happy to help you my friend. We tend to find some hacks for some uncounfortable situations other people send us into because of how we look. I really needed to learn that at 6th 7th grade to deal with bullying ^^'

  • @vxvsfziwsobdos2100
    @vxvsfziwsobdos21007 жыл бұрын

    ADHD=Opposite of Normal Normal=Opposite of Fun I know most of you won't read this but.... Just because you have ADHD doesn't mean you're not totally AWESOME! And don't worry, you're not alone. My mind feels like a chaotic jail cell that I'm trapped in, but I always get through it. Have an awesome day.

  • @Eradicate_sentience

    @Eradicate_sentience

    6 жыл бұрын

    normal people have way more fun than you believe me

  • @poggerscat5949

    @poggerscat5949

    5 жыл бұрын

    Stop being so pessimistic, and start looking for the good things in life.

  • @caoimhekelly9192

    @caoimhekelly9192

    5 жыл бұрын

    NUEVO BEATS well technically adhd-ers are more likely to be a part of the fun than others who prefer to sit back and watch

  • @fanjin.z

    @fanjin.z

    5 жыл бұрын

    I think the best thing about ADHD is that we can't stand being normal. It keeps pushing us to do something we really like and to be a better self.

  • @abigaildeck2581

    @abigaildeck2581

    5 жыл бұрын

    NUEVO BEATS Plz don’t be mean I was diagnosed with adhd when I was 6 It was so hard knowing I would never be normal so plz you all may have more fun but we have all been threw a lot so the fun is more important to us and we appreciate every ounce of it we get

  • @hosauce5466
    @hosauce54662 жыл бұрын

    watching these vids has made me cry because i wish i was surrounded by ppl who understood me like this channel does

  • @lovereyna7303
    @lovereyna73033 жыл бұрын

    I was diagnosed days ago and was prescribed medicine and this is hard for me to accept and I dont want it to be true. I feel so alone. I'm glad to find videos like this on here . Thank you

  • @laurendavis4198
    @laurendavis41986 жыл бұрын

    I was diagnosed with ADHD in the first grade and in the 10 years since then, I've developed coping skills and discovered parts of myself that I love. My favorite part of my ADHD is that it has contributed to my work ethic. I work super hard to meet the standard of school and my peers, so I figure why not strive for more of I've come this far? I go beyond my disorder and even though it makes certain things difficult (like taking a long time to get work done) often times my classmates will be surprised when I tell them I have ADHD because I'm doing so well. I'm not saying I'm perfect; I'm learning to be okay with that. Btw I've never found a KZread channel discussing adhd and I appreciate this so much!

  • @marigorringoladybugcurvy
    @marigorringoladybugcurvy5 жыл бұрын

    My favourite thing about the ADHD is that you are always happy of trying new things, explore new things...

  • @P205S1400
    @P205S14008 ай бұрын

    I'm aged 42 and have got ADHD since January. Previously I was smart but lazy. I love this transition.

  • @SusanMcBrayer
    @SusanMcBrayer4 ай бұрын

    My favorite part is that I can really focus when there is something that needs to be handled right here and now.

  • @izzieluv
    @izzieluv7 жыл бұрын

    I just feel like I have so much more fun because of my ADHD!

  • @HowtoADHD

    @HowtoADHD

    7 жыл бұрын

    same!!

  • @jessicapinto3817

    @jessicapinto3817

    7 жыл бұрын

    Same!!

  • @mattimhiyasmith

    @mattimhiyasmith

    7 жыл бұрын

    I know what you mean, I feel bad when friends say they are/get bored.

  • @xx--xx5243

    @xx--xx5243

    7 жыл бұрын

    Lizzie Fleck same!

  • @jeffthememeslayer5096

    @jeffthememeslayer5096

    7 жыл бұрын

    me too!!!!

  • @annelieamanono6725
    @annelieamanono67254 жыл бұрын

    I haven’t been diagnosed but I have all the symptoms and can relate a lot to these videos! I’m only 13 too.

  • @juliadeoliveira3834

    @juliadeoliveira3834

    3 жыл бұрын

    Go to a specialist before diagnosing yourself, if you suspect it is important to be sure. The younger you discover it, better. I only found out with 17

  • @inauverudfinnerud4847

    @inauverudfinnerud4847

    2 жыл бұрын

    Im 16 and going trough the dioagnosis process. Only issue is that alot off your symptomes will Get Escused as just teen behavior. So Sadly i migth need to wait till im an adult

  • @jenniferjones3476
    @jenniferjones34762 жыл бұрын

    Your videos are helping me learn about myself some of this I didn’t even know this was ADD

  • @socketsproket
    @socketsproket Жыл бұрын

    My seven year old daughter watched this video and was so thankful. She wanted me to post on her behalf that her favourite thing about having ADHD is hyperfocus. She says, "Especially because I love cats so much that I can read long books about cats for hours and hours without breaking focus, and I'm only seven years old!" Thank you for a wonderful, helpful video.