My wife has fulfilled everything he says she ticks all the blocks. ALLAH grant her JANNAH. INSHA ALLAH AMEEN

@shimmer4771

Ай бұрын

Ameen. You have a wonderful wife.

@jesuismoi438

12 күн бұрын

Ameen ya rabb 🤲🏻

May Allah fortify our husbands with honour, taqwa, integrity and ihsan so we may respect them and fulfil our duties towards them.

@azkahajadeen

10 ай бұрын

Aameen aameen aameen

@sulemanaalidu931

10 ай бұрын

God bless

@Raf-xd4ut

Ай бұрын

Ameeen

@TheLazyGuyWay

Ай бұрын

you did not understand anything at all He said the complete opposite ! What you do for your husband is in order to have the best connexion with Allah subhanahu wa taala You must not only give your husband respect and many good things because he also does it but must do it with your intentions to please your lord

May Allah help me become a better muslimah and wife. Insha'Allah ❤

@shimmer4771

Ай бұрын

May Allah reward you.

Message to brothers and sisters: If either of you has psychological issues, get that sorted first before thinking about marriage.

@hashh2019

Жыл бұрын

very important comment

@kingoftheorient

11 ай бұрын

This. Any trauma or insecurity...it has to be healed first..or else, it will multiply as a problem in marriage by thousandfold.

@faisallaiquekhan

4 ай бұрын

very very important point, No one takes care about this, no one bothers about this but this could become the most significant changing point of marriage lives

My husband was abusive (WAS). I was forced out of the home. For two years, I cared for our sons, did not speak badly about their father, allowed them to maintain their relationship with their father (it is so important!), did not date. I waited for him to get things right. We are together as a family should be now. His transgressions are in the past. We do not speak of them. He is forgiven.

@ladyelegance5737

9 ай бұрын

SubhanAllah. May Allah (SWT) bless your whole family with the highest level of paradise dear sister. This gives hope ❤

@PrimeGems4u

2 ай бұрын

Subhan Allah Like Asiya ❤😊

@drosales7661

2 күн бұрын

You just spoke of them. No offense I hope if your keeping this private that anyone that knows who you are through this account doesn't see this

Wife is the test for a husband, and a husband is test for a wife. If both of them close to Allah, they will be able to face the test. It will be beautifull in the end 🥰

@muhsinatmutawakil8260

Жыл бұрын

Very true

@ziephk

Жыл бұрын

First none dumb comment. Very basic but def true at least.

@artisthusnatalal3099

Жыл бұрын

May Allah help us to make it beautiful 😊

@nobs997

Жыл бұрын

Except that Allah is not real

@therebelliousprince0073

Жыл бұрын

True. ♥️

❤💙" And We have already created man and know what his soul whispers to him , and We are closer to him than [ his ] jugular vein . " Surah Qaf 50:16

SubhanAllah...brothers and sisters please pray for me

Shukran. Alhamdulilah.

As a Muslimah. I agree . I even learned something more today . Alhumdulilah I am always looking to learn of Quranic terminology as I am not anywhere near as fluent as I could or should be . I realized some things pertaining to this recently , alhumdulilah .Allah knows better . However ... I think I am qualified to mention , that of all my life there's only a small percentage , not even 1% of sisters who get down like that . But there are many who are needing proper Islamic education just as brothers. Muslimah are generally expected to spend time in the home so if that's where she is majority of time then her husband or son , father even ... should make sure he brings to that home Islamic material going over extensive Islamic knowledge , sense it is a way of living our lives not just a way to behave during Ramadan or on Jumuah . Lastly , what I'm going to mention , is that while it is definitely something we should be reminded of , it is also ...a Human fault and doesn't have to necessarily be a Gender fault one over the other . Many times, men and women are not as mindful as they should be . Alhumdulilah barak'allah feekum , for all of the Many many sisters who are striving everyday while raising children and caring for their families. Put time aside for yourselves , always invest in yourselves the same as you do with family. Care about and for you. Because you are a Muslim , a servant and human too. Be intentional and mindful before and while you do what you do! Be grateful for what Allah ta'ala has given you in every aspect! And don't just go on routine sisters . Remember our men do a lot and sacrifice alot for Allah ta ala. They dream and they has things they want to make manifest and see happen . We're not only Husbands and Wives but we are ar Rajul and An-Nisa

We may be Bangladeshi, Pakistani, Aerobic etc but our all identity is one, Muslim. I am telling all husbands and wives to sacrifice for their life partner. Love him/ her so much only for Allah.

@EtherealStar1

Ай бұрын

Aerobic?

Subhanallah ❤

True love looks past the imperfections, and to hurt them hurts yourself also, not sure what type of women would say half the things he said, may Allah ta',ala grant us spouses that are true soulmates 🌹

@Islam4ever2006

Жыл бұрын

Love was never a reason for marriage in Islam. Soul mates isn't an Islamic concept either. Marriage was looked more like a contract, like doing a business transaction fisabilillah. Muslims have taken this superficial notion brought by Western Disney type movies that really doesn't exist in reality. This is one of the reasons why marriages fail, because people have this fantasy that marriage is like finding a princess and prince charming, rather than working around each others faults and meeting each other half way to continue on in harmony. When two people love and respect each other fisabilillah, fearing Allah, that is when a marriage can be successful.

@seramgilerproductions

Жыл бұрын

That's when you first fall in love and newly married. But when time goes by, there's no love but commitment and responsibility towards each other. The other one is the dangerous one kufur.. this always gets the women when after they're married for a long time.

@artisthusnatalal3099

Жыл бұрын

@@Islam4ever2006 If there's respect, Love follows automatically

@therebelliousprince0073

Жыл бұрын

@@Islam4ever2006 Not true. True love is real and it is even mentioned in the Quran.

@m.akbart3840

Жыл бұрын

@@therebelliousprince0073 HumbleMuslima4ever literally never said true love wasn't real, you made that up and then argued against it.

Being good with each other it is not going to take lot effort.. Just forgive each other and treat ur partner the way you want to be treated with all happiness.. Insha Allah it will be noticed by ur soul mate it will correct lot of things. Just don't hold grudge on anyone.. May Allah swt help us all to keep our soulmates happy.

What led you into Hell Fire? They will say: 'We were not of those who prayed'” (Qur'an 74:42-43) 🌹Don't forget your five daily prayers 🌹

@namin8400

Жыл бұрын

Also another narration. What led a women to hell fire 🔥. Is not because of her prayer rather she was ungrateful to her husband.

@shimmer4771

Ай бұрын

@@namin8400 it depends. If she was obedient, but did not pray, then she will be punished unless Allah forgives her.

@namin8400

Ай бұрын

@shimmer4771 Allah forgives. BUT if the husband was displeased then she has displeased Allah. This is the hadith

Be grateful to your husband's for every little, good thing they do. Tell him you appreciate it, and show respect always. Even during a disagreement/fight, you can still be respectful and never, ever attack and diminish his masculinity.

@ziephk

Жыл бұрын

Also that’s below basic or even expectations. It’s so sad that we have to tell our women to simply pass common sense or bare minimum since that’s all we can expect from them these days. God forbid we as for a woman to actually do something above bare minimum to pass as a female human being. How much lower can the bar be??

@artisthusnatalal3099

Жыл бұрын

May Allah help all marriages around the world 🤲

@sajvealam1892

Жыл бұрын

@@artisthusnatalal3099 amin yarabbülalemin🇷🇺🥰 🕋🕋

@Syedafathima12005

Жыл бұрын

May Allah Subhanahuta'aala make it easy for all of us✨

Thauban (May Allah be pleased with him) said: I heard Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) saying, "Perform Salah more often. For every prostration that you perform before Allah will raise your position one degree and will remit one of your sins". [Muslim].

My sisters in Islam, this does not apply if ur actually being abused. I want my beloved sisters to understand that in marital abuse. Both genders come to a 50-50 in statistics. Men also suffer in relationships, a lot of the time. Some women use intimacy as a weapon to blackmail their husbands, talk about them behind there backs

@haysnairte4

Жыл бұрын

In this case, be like the wife of Pharaoh, stay faithful even if your husband is the worst of men

@Dont-worry1618

Жыл бұрын

@@haysnairte4 That is not how Islam works, the companions of the prophet saw that divorced from their marriage did not work out. That advice will give women that make sure u can take care of the kids after divorcing the guy. Islam does not force men and women to stay in screwed-up relationships. That is culture Bs

@zakariyajama8004

Жыл бұрын

@@haysnairte4 you have a point there and Allah Azzawajal showed her palace in Jannah to her while she was alive and before Firaun could kill her Allah SWT took her soul out

@ziephk

Жыл бұрын

Women abuse is so rare, that for you to make such a comment I can’t help but feel the delusion behind your words. God protect the few rare actual victims of women.

@ziephk

Жыл бұрын

I can’t even think of a more typical “innocent comment” from delusional modern women.

Alhamdulillah 🤲🏾

There are so many aspects in islam that Allah made in a way to trigger monafiqs when they are shy away from accepting Allahs commands.

MashAllah what a beautiful message for us. May Allah swt bless you for it!

Beautiful speech 💖💖💖

Subhanallah

SUBHANALLAH 🕋🕋🙏🕋 ALHAMDULILLAH 🙏🕋💜 ALLAHU AKBAR 🕋🕋🙏 JAZZAK ALLAH

Thanks!

Seek forgiveness for others: اللَّهُمَّ اغْفِرْ لِلْمُؤْمِنِينَ وَالْمُؤْمِنَاتِ The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “Whoever seeks forgiveness for every male and female believer, Allah will record a good deed for him for every male and female believer.” (Tabarānī)

Masha’Allah Jazaa Kallah

thank you for this❤❤❤

Informative article

subhanAllah subhanAllah subhanAllah....

Here are some ways to earn deeds after death: 1) Give a copy of the Qur'an to someone. Each time one reads from it you gain. 2) Donate a wheelchair to a hospital. Each time a sick person uses it you gain. 3) Participate in building a masjid. 4) Place a watercooler in a public space. 5) Plant a tree. You gain whenever a person or an animal sits in it's shade or eats from it. 6) And the easiest of all, share this message with people.

I keep seeing lessons for men most of the time. It is nice to see the sisters get educated as well.

@zubaidahabdulkadir1092

Жыл бұрын

A male relative had complained about his wife. She prays 5 times a day, likes to give to charity, never miss Tahajjud but can be very rude to him. She would raise her voice at him. She is always happy and laughing when in company of others but always frowning at him. One nite he dreamt she was praying and suddenly the strap on her prayer dress strangled her. She struggled to release the strap from her neck but she fell, still struggling to release the strap on her neck. Then he woke up. When he told her about his dream, she cried and asked him for forgiveness. We need to constantly remind ourselves to be humble to our husband. Ibless was banished because he didnt want to humbled himself to Nabi Adam. Allah being Kind and Gracious and Merciful sometimes send warnings to his servants through dreams. Alhamdullilah.

@therebelliousprince0073

Жыл бұрын

@@zubaidahabdulkadir1092 Thanks for sharing, sister. I had a very peculiar dream today as well which seemed like a warning to me from Allah(SWT).

@therebelliousprince0073

Жыл бұрын

For real, bruh. It seems many western "daees" are too scared of the backlash from simps and f'em'i'n'ists if they were to advise sisters.

@Ll_jfdk

Жыл бұрын

@@zubaidahabdulkadir1092 SubhanAllah this comment is eye opening for whatever reason.

@kenanm3836

Жыл бұрын

@@zubaidahabdulkadir1092 maybe because hes bad or boring

وَعَلَيْكُمُ السَّلاَمُ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ .......ALL..MUSLIM/MUSLIMAH...... From..Indonesia.... BARAKALLAHU..FEEKUM.

That's our young love of lslam always in building and mends what's beautiful to ALLAH

Refreshing to finally see a lecture about women’s responsibilities. Rare in today’s woke, gynocentric infused world

i am ayesha,,, i am hafeza,, ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@codgraphics1029

Жыл бұрын

Mashallah

@nasirhassan9891

Жыл бұрын

💚💚💚

@fatimanatnaden8217

Жыл бұрын

Ma Sha Allah ما شاء الله

A man should not abuse the authority Allaah put upon men regarding womens

Alhamdullillah for listening to this khutbah.....my mindset has changed completely.. I was not aware of all this... Indeed marriage is a worship...

@SuperOlives

5 ай бұрын

Blessed are those heed messages...

With all the feminist ideologies pushed this really needs to be said and women need to listen

Yes we have to be nice and forgive and let things pass. But when you deal with a narcissist that treat you bad and always putting you down and can’t understand the hatred on his eyes you get to the point of enough is enough. 17 years of pain, and abuse nooo he is a good husband because he pays the bills. Hypocrite man doesn’t deserve to be love by a woman and then when you divorce them because you found him doing porn and texting another woman oh she is so evil, she left him.

@parasol1521

Жыл бұрын

Be nice and respectful but not at the expense of your self respect. And yes, narcissists are the epitome of hypocrites

@bouch8781

Жыл бұрын

i understand this sister. and then they want a submissive wife but dont realize its difficult too when you dont feel safe emotionally. and then use islam against you. subhanAllah may Allah grant us better husbands who respect us and give us our rights

@parasol1521

Жыл бұрын

@@bouch8781 yes, weaponizing Islam and spiritually abusing wives to enforce control. As you said, submissiveness can be only given in proximity of safety.

@aisham1057

Жыл бұрын

17 years of pain? Why are you still with him?

@latinalife2458

Жыл бұрын

@@aisham1057 3 kids and no family, but allah is showing me the way Alhamdullilah And make me stronger to say worry about your imam only.

Mashallah

Wow amazing Explanation. The verses in Quran mentions about peace and we trying to look for happiness which spoils everything. Good to see education for women as it is very rare these days

💙Narrated Abu Sa'id Al Khudri ( RA ) : Allah's Messenger Muhammad( peace be upon him ) said , " If a person embraces Islam sincerely , then Allah shall forgive all his past sins , and after that starts the settlement of accounts , the reward of his good deeds will be ten times to seven hundred times for each good deed and one evil deed will be recorded as it is unless Allah forgives it . " ( Sahih al - Bukhari 41 , Book 2 , Hadith 34 )

Allah hu Akbar

Brother you simply have to tell all men and women just be Al Muttaqun, Al-Muttaqun [the pious and righteous persons who fear Allah much (abstain from all kinds of sins and evil deeds which He has forbidden) and love Allah much (perform all kinds of good deeds which He has ordained)].

Ya Allah SWT give all married couple peace and tranquility ya Allah SWT give them a very blissful marriage and deeni children keep shaitan away from them all ameen

@aftabqasim1

Жыл бұрын

Ameen

@helpingheartm7189

Жыл бұрын

Allahumma Aameen

@therebelliousprince0073

Жыл бұрын

Ameen.

@savannahyemane

8 ай бұрын

Ameen. I just recently got married your post fits me thank you.

Beautiful message

This is why I have sabr in sha Allah the sister/sister wives will find me.

Very good 👍 a great reminder

My wife say im not doing enough for her...now she's flirting with another man behind me...Allah, please help me...

This guy had to get divorced and go through controversy to finally give this kind of talk.alhamdulillah for everything

Greet your husband with assalamualaikum. It does make a difference. ❤️

@ziephk

Жыл бұрын

Also that’s below basic or even expectations. It’s so sad that we have to tell our women to simply pass common sense or bare minimum since that’s all we can expect from them these days. God forbid we as for a woman to actually do something above bare minimum to pass as a female human being. How much lower can the bar be??

@therebelliousprince0073

Жыл бұрын

It will, indeed. ♥️

@therebelliousprince0073

Жыл бұрын

@@ziephk Although I understand your point , let's appreciate the advice the sister shared. Sometimes, small things make big differences... A wife could greet her husband this way and he may be pleased and they may makeup this way.

Absolutely, Allah-U-Akbar As-Salaam Alaikum.😍❤️

This dude sounds hysterical.

The Prophet (ﷺ) has forbidden for men to lower their garments below their ankles. The authentic Ahadīth in Sahīh Al-Bukhārī in Kitāb Al-Libās and other various Ahadīth points that whatsoever is below the ankles, is in the Hellfire. I advise myself first and the rest to abide by this brothers. May Allāh Forgive us and Grant us His Guidance. Amīn.

Exactly everything my ex wife did that the sheikh mentioned. Thats why shes an ex now. I dont need women like that im my life. Brothers need to be careful.. cut those relationships immediately because its a sign of toxicity.

I wish my wife can accept watching this video 😔

@Hawk7511

14 күн бұрын

Same!

Laa ilaha illallah Muhammadur Rasool'ullah (Sallallahu Alaihe wasallam)❤️

Well , it is a great lesson unto every soul , male and female . We don't belong to a classless community after all. So many diversities in the women , so deep within. What a hapless generations of people are we you would not know when we fall and slip into the errors we confront with in our common routines . The Crusade lies within, yes , within our consciousness viz Allah even So the kingdom of God is within every Soul. God and the Almighty Allah bless you 🙌 🙏 .

These words do not implement to all the women.. But to those women who are arrogant and have nothing to do with Islam. Who's upbringing is not good who's greedy ungrateful and does not fear Allah. No good Muslim women from good family does this. Women have all the rights and equality to fight with their husbands be angry also they're humans too By the same time they also love their husbands unconditionally. You must also explain that not all women are like this. Women unless of any religion but of good upbringing does same thing looks after husband family kids and whole relatives of husband and meanwhile she forgets that she also exists as human. Women as wives are always sacrificing loving stand by husbands in all ups and downs.

Hafidhatu lilgaibi means she guards her honor and her husband's property in his absence and NOT guarding what he does when he is absent. We shouldn't get carried away when interpreting verses of the Quran or giving it meanings which were not intended. Otherwise i think you are doing a great job. Keep up the good work.

@zaze8376

Жыл бұрын

FYI: Nouman is an expert in the (Quranic) Arabic language.

💘Abu Hurairah narrated that : The Messenger of Allah Muhammad( pubh ) said , " The best day that the sun has risen upon is Friday . On it Adam was created , on it he entered Paradise , and on it , he was expelled from it . And the Hour will not be established except on Friday . " Jami at - Tirmidhi 488 , Book 4 , Hadith 1

@shimmer4771

Ай бұрын

My brother and I were both born on a Friday, at night.

An amazing video that tackled a silence and serious worry of mine. This ungratefulness that I see around me discourages me at my worst times from keeping a grip on myself, at least to loosen up a bit this demon tells me. I have seen so many of my friends who are 28 or 30, older than me, get absolutely burned to the ground and still they continue working because they have too, but most of their resources now go to paying child alimony and extra for their moms. Paying like that, in this dehumanizing way after they tried to keep their marriages from falling. At times, I saw these young man assume both the working man and the nurturing women to fill a void, a responsibility completely and actively ignored by the wife. What's going on? For the love of God, the world became horrid in my mind. This video is great. I hope more people raise their daughters well. Good women are a blessing. For the kids. For the future of the world. Why isn't this an obviously nobel pursuit. I thought people care about meaning. Perhaps the book Man's Search for Meaning actually means the males search for meaning. I know it's not the case. However what's loud today says exactly the opposite. Thanks for everyone involved in this video!

@shimmer4771

Ай бұрын

There are good Muslim women out there.

Most imams, generally speaking ofcourse, are always talking about men and their responsibilities while men know their roles and duties well enough but nobody talks about a woman’s responsibility and duties especially to her husband because they fear losing their audience and getting backlash. Feminism has really crept inside the Muslim women and there’s not a lot of good Muslim women left that are worthy of getting married.

@chief7804

Жыл бұрын

This is so true, these so called simp imams from the west are one sidded entertainers. and go extreamly soft on the sisters while they are always slandering the man.

@ziephk

Жыл бұрын

Omg 😱 yes!!! Finally i see comments like this and it’s not just me. You know especially since women’s entire role or expectations ALL don’t even go past bare minimum or basic! And somehow they still fail. Like everything they need is within them to be able to be what an idea wife is, so their failure is not dependent or codependent on ANYTHING BUT THEM. Versus for a man, NO, what’s within him isn’t enough. He needs to provide and that’s clearly not solely dependent on him, society, economy, family all play a role in keeping him down, him being fit requires actual input and hard work, but for a women is simply don’t be fat and eat healthy, so a man that isn’t fat and eats healthy but doesn’t work hard won’t pass as a manly man. It’s like everything is literally handed to them at birth and they squander it all till they are 30 and useless to men and then start expecting on top of that.

@addisachannel169

Жыл бұрын

same scholar attaching women that why

@therebelliousprince0073

Жыл бұрын

Well said. This is the harsh truth

@EsHaQ2024

Жыл бұрын

Feminism is nothing but evil agenda to lure good Muslim women into doing evil things..

Where can I watch the full lecture?

❗Narrated Abu Huraira : I heard Allah's Messenger Muhammad(pubh ) saying , " If there was a river at the door of anyone of you and he took a bath in it five times a day would you notice any dirt on him ? " They said , " Not a trace of dirt would be left . " The Prophet ( ) added , " That is the example of the five prayers with which ALLAH INVALIDATE ( WIPE OUT ) EVIL DEEDS . " Sahih al - Bukhari 528😍

And also lovely video!

@ziephk

Жыл бұрын

Actually, basic or even expectations. It’s so sad that we have to tell our women to simply pass common sense or bare minimum since that’s all we can expect from them these days. God forbid we as for a woman to actually do something above bare minimum to pass as a female human being. How much lower can the bar be??

could you post about life of daniel (a.s)?

6 ways to earn deeds after death: 1) Give a copy of the Qur'an to someone. Each time one reads from it you gain. 2) Donate a wheelchair to a hospital. Each time a sick person uses it you gain. 3) Participate in building a masjid. 4) Place a watercooler in a public space. 5) Plant a tree. You gain whenever a person or an animal sits in it's shade or eat from it. 6) And the easiest of all, share this message with people.

any address i can send money cuz i don’t wanna use credit card

Nowadays, women ARE the providers as well... often with higher incomes than their husbands!

What a nice advice ❤️

Who is the speaker here? I hope not Mufti Menk. So far I heard him only speak good things. But this is bad. It starts off already blaming women for not thinking good. It puts down women from the start. That shouldn't be. Would one rhink that of his own mother? That would be disrespect and dishonor for her. In any relationship it goes both ways. Both must work together to make it work. For a relationship to work both must see the good qualities in each other. Starting off negatively like this would be bad.

@mohamedjoosubebrahim9273

Ай бұрын

Noman Ali Khan Good speaker

How did you figure out that?

Any reminders for husbands

❗The Prophet Muhammad ( s.a.w ) said : " Look to one who is lower than you , and do not look to one who is above you . For indeed that is more worthy ( so that you will ) not belittle Allah's favors upon you . " Jami ' at - Tirmidhi 2513 &

Simple solution Stay Single🙂😉

What about those husbands who cheat on their wife n lie about having another woman outside ..

@shimmer4771

Ай бұрын

If he did wrong by you, by patient. The Prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him) said, "Shall I inform you who rights you should fear Allah regarding?" He said, "Women and the orphan." If he committed adultery, then this is indeed a major sin. He must repent and ask his wife for forgiveness for this matter. This is issue is very serious.

I can't believe this video exists.... Alhumdulillah. May Allah give us all the Taufiq to be better, brothers and sisters included. Allahhummah Ameen 🤲 ❤️

I am a Hindu. I treat my husband with love and respect. This idiotic egotistical belief that everyone else from a different faith are unpleasant needs to come to an end. If an individual claims everyone from a similar faith is a terrorist, you get upset don't you. Respect shall be mutual.

@StarLight-sl9ok

Жыл бұрын

I agree, it’s a very disrespectful attitude. They want the world to treat them well but show little respect for other faiths.

@7 :49

@3:38

Men are naturally providers 👍 Women aren't naturally good 👎 Are you serious? How dare you disrespect creations of Allah as a woman i hope you brother make istighfar for this audacity toward Allah

@svtcarat6386

3 ай бұрын

indeed

@shimmer4771

Ай бұрын

I have never heard women aren't naturally good. Where did he get this? If he said something wrong, May Allah forgive him.

Please stop placing blame on the wives. It takes two to resolve conflict and be mature adults to resolve conflict. Both parties have to be good. Half of these brothers are not being providers and the sisters have the wealth like Khadeejah had for Mohammad. She also had the beauty and help the Prophet Muhammad with the religion...ijs

Please make dua for me to get married insha Allah

@AGULL

Жыл бұрын

For every single person🤲🏻

@fatimanatnaden8217

Жыл бұрын

In Sha Allah a good and pious wife

@ziephk

Жыл бұрын

May Allah provide you one of the rare good women. And may Allah make you worthy of her too.

@caribbeanboy6949

Жыл бұрын

@@ziephk ameen. Jazakallah

@caribbeanboy6949

Жыл бұрын

@@fatimanatnaden8217 ameen. Jazakallah

When we fight my husband doesn't talk to me for days , I forget n forgive in a few mins but he just points out my mistakes n always asks me to bring my parents or leave his house . I feel hurt whenever he says that it's his house n not ours but it's true that he earned the money ,he bought the house so it's his. Still I am his wife so does it not make it my home as well. I ask him to move on with the fight but y does he insist on being angry n not talking. He is a good man. It's not lik he is abusive or doesn't help at home or anything lik that . Just he punishes me by not talking for days whn we fight. That's lik torture fr me coz I can't handle not talking with him .

Leave it to Nouman to not hit the nail on the head and beat around the bush with the things no one disagrees on while knowing that he’s not addressing the real issues of women. (edit: i dont want to be unfair, because he hits the nail on the head in almost all topics, EXCEPT in the subject of women. almost to not lose his followers. allah knows why, but he is amazing with almost everything except this topic). Their lives is beyond easy and their ungrateful on top of that. With technology and modern life, their roles have been made BEYOND simple when it was simple already. *Good manners, *simple effort, *affection, *respect, *knowing who has the last word, *not being fat, *putting effort in dress and passion *sex is a constant between lovers, * but it isn’t when women are gold diggers. *Feminism, *delusions of independence, *inconsiderate expectations, *not knowing what is within the authority of a man (dress, leaving the house, who your friends are, where you can’t go), *breast feeding (what repulsive retrds), *ignorant in islamic upbringing for kids, *not healthy or care to provide healthy meals for husband and kids, *delusions of travelling, *weddings not being a necessity NOR the responsibility of the groom, *mahr is not the only obligation on him to marry, *absurd mahr (inconsiderate of his wealth) I’m positive a few hundred GENIUS females will list similar things applying to men, but as usual self deluded and no one checks them. No! Most men meet and exceed these simple fundamental minimal things, they just fail in meeting great requirements OR your made up ones of entitlement. OR clearly his insufficiencies are a direct response to the miserable life you’ve given him, especially when your whole life is as easy as a ******%%ing smile and respect. So sick of the constant victimhood. Even hijabi girls these days are delusional. God bless the exceptions!!! But even the exceptions now they know how rare they are so their demands become naturally absurd, because they know how desperate men are for a simple good women that simply meet minimal expectations. Not even great, bare minimum is the new gold when it comes to women.

@Mutant_Mods

Жыл бұрын

all our lives were made difficult with modern life. Islam will solve your issues if you were to try to follow its teachings. He doesn’t mention those things because he doesn’t think it’s relevant because it goes without saying. Delete ALL social media, your life will get easier. Stop comparing your husband and wife to others on insta or facebook. Social media has single handedly destroyed ourislamic ways in middle eastern countries.

@therebelliousprince0073

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May Allah bless you, brother! Please don't swear or insinuate it.

@shimmer4771

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@@therebelliousprince0073 Salam Alaikum, brother, how are you?

Bad men always use religion to blackmail their wives . They treat them wrongly and expect her to be good to them . When a man fails to follow the sunnah of our prophet s.a.w and the instructions of Allah that is what they get from their wives. Most of the time the men with these complaints and not good Muslims , they are the pretenders . Mostly the narcissist.

❗The Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) Said I swear on Allah , it will be better for you that Allah should give guidance to one man through your agency than that you should acquire the red ones among the camels . " Abu Dawood - 3661❤

And they will listen, only if their husband said it is ok to do so.

If husband remain, loving, caring, providing, appreciating towards wife, ,, there will be reciprocation from wife to husband... Husband being the guardian need to exercise more patientnce towards wife..

@therebelliousprince0073

Жыл бұрын

True

@mufunyiibrahim3655

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The feminist lie. We have naturally evil women in our society

@JulieDeuxFois

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That's right! A man is a gardener, his wife and kids are the garden and flowers. ❤the look of the garden it all depends on the gardener

🤍❤️

Why do u have to add an extra repetitive background sound? It’s distracting and irritating

I only have reason to get angry at sisters-in-law ( husband's sisters). They always cause conflicts by telling my husband anything she feels not satisfied. For example, my husband not give her money to buy cosmetics and fashion. I really hate them. They claim themselves as Muslims and they did that, not modest, not humble.

@therebelliousprince0073

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That's unfortunate. It is not necessary for you to keep ties with them. But you have to let your husband keep ties with them as they are his sisters.

@thanhcarmen4623

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@@therebelliousprince0073 As a Muslim, I pray to Allah SWT to change their personality, and I also try not hate anyone. I know they are husband' sisters, I want to keep harmony with them actually. I don't want a conflict, because I love my husband a lot and I want to make him happy.

@JulieDeuxFois

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Is your husband Saudi?! 😂 That's typical in KSA

@thanhcarmen4623

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@@JulieDeuxFois He is Pakistani. I don't want to say bad things on the sisters-in-law, but what they act, I am not sure they are Muslims: always watch the movie, Makeup Channel on TikTok, hair style...I am a revert Muslim. But truthfully, before I was atheist, and I didn't make up too much and not fashion too much .I asked them to look at babies,I go toilet,then I come out, babies fell down on floor crying 😭😭😭😭. How could I open mouth to say to my husband about this. He told me that wife should solve these matters in family. Advise me please 🥺

@thanhcarmen4623

Жыл бұрын

@Jasmin I am a revert Muslim. But you know, I am not boastful about myself, truthfully, before I was atheist, I worked at company but never made up too thick,never dyed the hair so colorful as they do. I think I assist husband to get enough finance ,find randomly some men, organize a wedding to kick them out. And on the wedding day, I will be the happiest one. 😆😆😆😆

My husband used me to get money. I supported him and managed his business without a salary for over 6 yrs. He only owned a bed when I married him. He said Islam allows him have more than one wife and left me. Took the car, took all the money and the business we both built together and left me. He was physically, verbally, emotionally abusive to me. He prays 5 times daily. Yet he makes me feel unworthy and meaningless all the time.

@basilaaliu6105

Ай бұрын

This is the problem

The Prophet (ﷺ) said: “I was shown hell. I saw that most of its inhabitants were ungrateful women… The Prophet was asked: ‘Were they ungrateful to Allāh?’ He replied: ‘They were ungrateful to their husbands and for the favors and the good done to them. If you show benevolence to one of them and then she sees something in you not to her liking, she will say: ‘I have never seen any good in you.’”

@shimmer4771

Ай бұрын

Let me explain the oftentimes misunderstood context behind this Hadith. The Prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him) would never want to sadden or hurt anyone. This was given during his pilgrimage. He wanted to motivate the women to give charity and to get the reward for fighting jihad. The Prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him) also did this to motivate women to avoid those traits and fear Allah. The entire Hadith also states, "There will be more women in Paradise than men." The Hadith about when the Prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him) said, "Had I made it lawful for anyone to prostrate to anyone other than Allah, I would have women prostrate in Sujood to their husbands." But, it really just is to emphasize the importance of obeying the husband. During the days of the Prophet Muhammed (peace and blessings be upon him), the people all strove to be the best of the best.

The strong and indépendant feminist Muslims will get mad at this one

@ziephk

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He barely said anything. He was way too soft on women these days. He mentioned aNothing close to what he should have!

How about the Muslim wife who doesn’t pray ( Swalah ) you guide her through Allah she doesn’t change when ever you give her more chances is that respect ?

@shimmer4771

Ай бұрын

Maybe she can repent? Not sure. Or, is she menstruating?

A man felt in love with my wife before her marriage but my wife didn't feel the same but he kept forcing and she and i were already in love but when she was going to marry me that guy said " i curse you both" and started crying she apologized and said i don't feel the same what you feel for me so will Allah forgive her and will Allah accept the badd dua of that man And what was the better way for solving this?

Husbands basically do not know how to love wifes. Wifes have to be a breadwinner for husband. If wife not working husband have a mentally wifes lazy at home. Wifes become breadwinner for husband mother. Being abuse by inlaws. Wifes is SO Exhuasted at home to please everyone n for family saja enduring each day from morning struggling wif kids in the morning, work 2nd breadwinner, thinking of home groceries n stuck of food n toilet laundry items, cooking, house chores wash dishes, laundry hanging n folding, sweeping, vacuum, kids school work. Wifes coming back hine tired too. Wat do husband do??????????? Help wife at home???????? Husband pls dont make ur wife a maid, a mother or a Room mate.