Man, both water and raw milk can be deadly to a baby...how did her soon to be ex husband survive with a mother like that?

@Olimar92

4 ай бұрын

He obviously isn't 100%.

@tallyp.7643

4 ай бұрын

It was apparently hubby's idea that MIL give it to Ron. Wonder who he talked to or what he read, but I'd love to have him explain his thought process to a pediatrician and let them beat down every one of his theories. Babies aren't the same as adults, and this guy doesn't get that. He should read the labels on OTC medicines and ask himself why so many directions say "don't give to children under 2". Wonder how long it would be before he gave the kid raw honey, too.

@dylankokotailo3888

4 ай бұрын

Plain water can be harmful, but powdered formulas require a majority of the bottle to be water to mix with.

@TheGreatMunky

4 ай бұрын

​@@dylankokotailo3888That was my thought exactly. People are acting like water is poison but even the mother's breast milk is majority water. Obviously you shouldn't just give water to an infant, but anything you give an infant will have some water in it. You aren't feeding a baby dry food.

@dylankokotailo3888

4 ай бұрын

@@TheGreatMunky not to mention most formulas have a cows milk base to them. Our child had to be formula fed and couldn't tolerate the dairy so we had use a potato based formula. It had an interesting side effect where their sweat smelt like French fries

A baby named Ron makes me giggle.

@greenknightofwar7024

4 ай бұрын

Hopefully they made his middle name Reagan

@BonnerDoesYouTube

4 ай бұрын

​@@greenknightofwar7024That or Billius

@becauselifts9913

4 ай бұрын

Baby pops out with a receding hair line, frown lines, and a morrgage

@Iblamethebarrels

4 ай бұрын

​@@greenknightofwar7024or Weasley lol

@amvdestroyer6831

4 ай бұрын

Ron you mean RUN

I hope OP gets full custody with no visitation rights for the Ex-Husband and Ex-MIL. Because if the child is diagnosed with any type of allergen, I'm willing to bet that the Ex/Ex-MIL would feed the child that allergy food under the pretext of "He's just faking it to get attention" or "Back in my day, kids didn't have Allergies"

@jimjohnson394

4 ай бұрын

You do realize that kids who develop allergies have that happen because of the lack of exposure to common substances, don't you?

@asnalem4391

4 ай бұрын

​@@jimjohnson394read the comment again, they are talking about an ALREADY DIAGNOSED allergy, there was another story about a MIL that killed a baby that way.

@LouisWarren530

4 ай бұрын

And the ex-husband is ordered to sign away his parental rights

@EternalLight111

4 ай бұрын

​@@jimjohnson394 That's definitely not true in most cases. Pollen is a very common allergy that occurs every single year. It does not become an allergen for these people because they weren't exposed to it.

@ayoncruz

4 ай бұрын

In my eyes she acted too harshly and histerical, not sure if either of them where prepared for taking care of a baby. Now the child will grow in a broken family that hate eachother, the father will be an ambulant ATM if he can't get any custody wich will further the bad vibe between them and the OP has to live as a single mother. Yes the baby was too young for taking milk and water, but unless the baby was already diagnosticed with some allergen, or the MIL milked cows from Chernobyl and got water from the Ohio river, the OP reaction was too extreme. Almost funny how she stained the baby future life to "save" the baby life and is acusing others of doing the same

5:50 “sure we ended up poisoning our son but hey, it was for his own good” Since when tf is poisoning an infant a “mistake”😭

@areszeudion5153

4 ай бұрын

They might have deluded themselves after watching some lousy scifi about strengthening immunity

@elistewart3435

4 ай бұрын

Or the exMIL is part of a Facebook mom group.

@Catherine.Dorian.

4 ай бұрын

@@areszeudion5153it’s just so dumb even if they did. Water is toxic for a baby and I can’t imagine unpasteurized milk on a baby

@ayoncruz

4 ай бұрын

I was "poisoned" with water, cow milk (boiled) and honey when I was a baby. Guess I was a lucky one to grow up well and healthy ?:P

@lastraven8575

4 ай бұрын

@@ayoncruz same argument the father has the issue I think is he's not willing to do anything else on top of that

The title should've been "MIL TRIED TO POISON MY BABY"

@jimjohnson394

4 ай бұрын

No, title should've been "Wife decided to destroy a home over petty reasons". Raw milk is not good for a kid that young, but it isn't poison.

@khicks4422

4 ай бұрын

​@@jimjohnson394 good for the wife then. That man was of no help anyways.

@jimjohnson394

4 ай бұрын

@@khicks4422 No, not good for the wife, or the kid, or the dad. Wife will be a single mother, kids will be the product of a single mother, and father will be a used ATM. I'd prefer to live with the dad if I were the kid.

@khicks4422

4 ай бұрын

@@jimjohnson394 The dad is a complete moron and the MIL tried to literally poison her baby. Not only that the husband has been nothing but an incompetent fool since the birth of their son and has made nonsensical advice like he knows better. Kick ass to the curve and never see that deadbeat again 💅

@RedGaymer69

4 ай бұрын

@@khicks4422 Just ignore JimJohnson they go on all the reddit stories to try cause arguments, It's best to just ignore them.

OP has a lot more grace and patience than me. If I were to walk in on anybody about to do harm to my baby I can’t say that would be able to hold it together and no start throwing punches.

@tiah5881

4 ай бұрын

Yup grandma would end up getting uppercutted after pushing me to force herself in the room.

Seriously how long did they date before they decided to marry? She said they've been married for 2 years and i'm going to assume that they didn't get engaged on first sight so why the f*ck would she ever choose to marry or have children with someone she considers to be extremely stupid?

@ritaerror7829

29 күн бұрын

Most obvious was his lack of understanding how to take care of a baby. If she was "in love" then she could gaslight herself that "helping with the chores" is his way of spending time together or whatever. The only way it could've been avoided was if they got a cat/dog before a baby and she could witness how incopetent this man was.

If someone had pulled that crap with my son when he was an infant he would’ve become seriously ill. The MIL and husband can have one another. How irresponsible and careless?!?

i work on a industry before...that specialized on carabaos or water Buffalo and i can say that it's unsafe drinking raw milk.. even to adults, we don't drink raw milks unless its already pasteurized.

@ISAF_Ace

4 ай бұрын

I've worked in the British dairy industry for a bit now (I'm a milkman who also services raw milk vending machines sometimes), from cows (mainly Holsteins, Jersey's and Guernsey's) its perfectly fine to drink after 5 years of age. It depends for a top age limit, but that actually depends on the locality of the milk. Milk from local areas has local bacteria's in which you will have developed an immunity to, so its up in the air. Also, the whole point of milk being raw is that its unpasteurized.

@ritaerror7829

29 күн бұрын

Depends. We had goats and no one thought twice about drinking raw milk, like, there was even no purpose in pasteurizing it when it was just for our home, not selling Some people are more immune than others, and if you know the animal you are taking milk from (like it being clean from sickness etc) then it's pretty safe bet. Maybe not to an infant, but for adults yes

Honestly, if it was that the husband has been taught these bad practices, then training would be an option. However, it sounds like the danger goes deeper.

@timothycotner3492

4 ай бұрын

Yeah, op states that mil's ideas are just old fashioned / out of date, while her ex-husband's are flat out wrong / dangerous. To add. The fact that he doesn't trust anything on the internet is... so-so, theres good stuff but also a lot of bunk. The fact that he doesnt trust the pediatrician all the time, that is a *major* problem. Along with his obsession about his son growing up _strong and healthy_ by effectively poisoning him.

@Maninawig

4 ай бұрын

@@timothycotner3492 honestly, if he wants to have a strong child, he should learn to trust those tricky doctors. Pediatricians have dietary plans and timelines specifically for that while avoiding the deadly normal foods (like water). That said, his advice of exposure is more for a 4 year old than a baby on the boob.

@laurafaehnrich4261

2 ай бұрын

The problem is not a lack of knowledge. The problem is that the ex refused to learn and acknowledge that his newborn/ baby is in a very vulnerable state and can't be given anything. And the unwillingness to learn. And as it seems he is just a very bad husband and incompetent on his own. I'm sorry for the kid but OP is defending better of without him

The only question I have is Why did you marry this guy?! Seriously how did the man convince you to marry him? And then you had a child with him? WT actual F?!😰😨😱

@jordanwardle11

4 ай бұрын

Infatuation

How did the idiot husband even survive his childhood with a mother like that?

Im not even a parent and I know thats literal poison. I would say the husband shouldnt get any visitation either

Child support is literally for situations when the other parent won’t be in the kids life.

@TheSergio1021

4 ай бұрын

And yet...

I'm sure there's a legal reason, if not a personal one, for doing so, but this woman made a post and two updates putting her now ex husband and his family on blast only for the last update to be "I won, peace out." and not include how the judge must have destroyed that man after what he did.

@laurafaehnrich4261

2 ай бұрын

I was so dissapointed 😞 😅

4:23 wtf? Weak and useless??? The baby is 4 m/o!!! What is he supposed to do beyond having human milk, sleeping, peeing and pooping???

@Yoongi_marry_me529

3 ай бұрын

Uhhh Peeing?

@ritaerror7829

29 күн бұрын

screaming it's lungs out?

They legit tried to unalive that baby wth

What is it with people willing to unalive their children for their ego?

I have no words, congrats on op for putting her child out of harms way, these two would've killed him, and I bet if that happened (fortunately it won't) they would've found a way to put the blame on smth else.

Raw milk is amazing, but due to the bio cultures inside of it, fermented foods and drinks shouldnt be consumed by kids younger then 2, or by people who cannot handle it . Otherwise its heathy and delicious! (Sauerkraut, yogurt, or raw milk)

@renadu30

4 ай бұрын

Exactly, after all, things need to be age appropriate. Just like how when we need to feed kittens because the mommy isn't there or can't do it, there are different kind of milk, and the powder to water ratio varies depending on the age in weeks. I know it's silly to compare kittens to babies, but it's because it makes sense. Also, for mother who are breastfeeding their child, even the milk changes slightly with time to accomodate to the baby's needs. It's natural as well, but it's different than raw cow milk.

@MossyCat0101

4 ай бұрын

Don't forget honey!

@sophiat2998

4 ай бұрын

Raw honey is good not milk, listeria, salmonella is a real threat.

@0palOpal0pal

4 ай бұрын

Yes!! Just because something is healthy and beneficial in some circumstances doesn't mean _all_ people should have it. Grapefruit is delicious and healthy, but people on some medications shouldn't eat it because it can make the medications work less effectively or not at all. Honey is a superfood, but you can't feed it to babies. Essential oils in a diffuser are lovely for mood, but you can't use all of them around children and pets. So many people don't understand this, and it's frustrating to no end.

@renadu30

4 ай бұрын

@moonstonemadness True, like, I cannot eat a lot of seafood, especially shells and the likes, because I have hyperthyroidism. As such, it is best to avoid iodized salt, which, of course, is easily found in seafood. I swear if someone tried to forcefully feed me only oysters to "make me more immune to hyperthyroidism", I would kick them in the guts and tell them that they shouldn't be angry : according to their logic, I'm making their guts stronger with that kick XDD.

correct me if I'm wrong but... 4 month olds should be drinking their mother's milk, right?

@neuvibathwaterpavedtheway

3 ай бұрын

@@zamp_gaming thank you for that information, this quite helpful to know tbh

no but in all seriousness how could someone be this level of stupidity is what is hard for me to believe rn 💀

@leazimridaniels8552

4 ай бұрын

This supports my theory that people should get tested and taught about parenting before they become parents

@Olimar92

4 ай бұрын

There are people that think the Moon doesn't exist.

RON WEASLEY?!?

Picking up a baby EVERY single time will make your kid spoilt, not sure why OP consideres this as old school, its true

@notaspeck6104

2 ай бұрын

It’s actually not. I’m very curious what your expertise is on this topic, but no. It is not that simple. This is a baby we’re talking about, do you have a single idea about how much a babies psychology differs from that of a toddler?? Picking up a crying baby (even if it’s every time it cries) will NOT spoil them. Once they start to grow older it’s true they should start to learn to self soothe. But not for a baby…

@TheyCallMeJay

2 ай бұрын

@notaspeck6104 same expertise as every parent, most will tell you the same

thats crazy, marrying someone like this then being shocked he's dumb, how do you miss that?

@timothycotner3492

4 ай бұрын

As the old saying goes love makes you blind

How did op fall in Love with this man in the first place

As a person who grew up drinking raw milk, you have to build immunity for it. My dad tried drinking raw milk. Let's just say his stomach didn't agree with him for the next 4 hrs.

It always amazes me how poorly people handle these situations. This woman is a psychopath! We just had a baby, we have equal rights and if she disappeared with the child and wouldn’t tell me where my son was I would call the cops and charge her with kidnapping then take sole custody and she wouldn’t get a visit for at least a few years until I decided she could have supervised visits. I can’t stand people who use their child as a weapon to inflict harm on their ex. Pathetic sad excuses for human beings

You can definitely bring up the factor that Liam cannot look after himself, so why would he gain full custody of a child?

Only at ~13 mins, but OP should have the lawyers/judge to watch Liam attempt to change a diaper to prove he shouldn't get custody.

This dude sounds so similar to my own father in the way he believes work is his number one priority and that because he does that one thing he shouldn't have to do much of anything else, it's an extreme laziness issue that's taught to them by their mother's, I thank god every day that my mom got to raise me while my father went trucking for the first eight years of my life, and taught me that simply going to work every day no longer how long or hard the hours are, you still have responsibilities back at home.

4 months? Useless? What he suppose to do? Doing chores?? Clowns...

This poor kid. Every adult in this story is crazy.

I would say that op should go for child support. Even if op doesn't need _any_ financila support to give ron a good childhood, that money can still be put in a college / life start fund for him. Liam owes ron support, however he has proven himself incompetent to give that supoort in a paternal role. Thus he should give it in a different way, aka child support.

@KnkFuy-ki9ns

4 ай бұрын

That doesn't make sense he's not his father anymore why would he spend money on him

@timothycotner3492

4 ай бұрын

@KnkFuy-ki9ns liam being a shit parent doesn't change the fact that he chose to be rons father. Him losing custody wasmost likely due to him showing himself to be an active danger to rons health. As far as the video shows, he didn't lose his paternal rights. I dont know why you think that equates to him no longer being rons father legally or otherwise.

@Nvggs

4 ай бұрын

@@timothycotner3492 "no, I'm not going to let him have any involvement in Ron's life"

@timothycotner3492

4 ай бұрын

@Nvggs That was a result of his actions, as well as his disregard for rons safety and ops wishes regarding ron. It doesnt change the fact that he chose to be a parent to ron before, and thus has a responsibility to support him.

@KnkFuy-ki9ns

4 ай бұрын

@@Nvggs honestly find this abit extreme

No way the baby’s real name is Ron

Picking Babies everytime they cry spoil them?? Say what? What kind of bullshit is that ??.......🤨🤦🏻‍♀️

Damn. Just because you don’t like his parenting style you divorce him. Only thing wrong was he wanted to lay the baby down on the stomach. And to be mad cause he wanted full custody just like she wants full custody the logic.

52 seconds in the video and the first claim OP has made me realize this is just a bunch of baloney. Babies are not supposed to sleep on the stomach ? Right then all those baby product advertisements and mothers who end up having their child sleeping on there belly were just malding 🤡

My husband was a scared father. He tried gis best to help take care of our first son, but he didnt want to do anything wrong to the point he was calling me almost everytime our kid made a noise. He eventually learned, but never once has he tried to give raw milk or water to our son. His mother said it was okay, but he didnt trust his mother very much. I didnt even know it was harmful until now, i just stuck to my stance that i wanted to breast feed my kids as my immune systen is made of something close to steel or something (never had strep, only had the flu twice when i was very young) and was told most babies get their immune systems built up via mom's brestmilk. Ik not all women can brestfeed, but i could and so i did.

Jeez, there are also those that try to give "urine treatments" to kids. FB moms are insane.

"Hadn't even been pasteurized" WOMAN?!?#!#!?#!@?~?!#!$@$@$ WHAT IN THE ABSOLUTE FCK

this lady’s biggest mistake was getting married. she obviously doesn’t like her spouse or anything he believes in. crazy isht.

You shouldn't pick up a child right away if they fuss. They need to self soothe. A child will wiggle and squirm a bit while sleeping. It is good to let them do that for a little while, and they might go back to sleep on their own. I don't mean full-blown screaming...definitely pick them up. I don't agree with the milk and water. The child's brain needs the milk fats to developed their brain. I know someone who was forced by their husband to switch to whole milk and the child has learning problems now. It's not healthy at all. But it doesn't sound like the dad was that bad. He just needed schooling on child care. He might have said some stupid stuff, but he needed to see the reason why he shouldn't have done these things. Nobody likes to feel stupid. As for moving the mother in law out of the way... your house, your baby. She should have just moved without you even having to move her. He did side with his mom so that is when I kind of lost any support I had for him.i should have waited till the end before I commented. Mil thinks she did a better job...she had to move in with him because he couldn't take care of himself. Wow how could he take care of the baby.

Why stay with the (ex) husband longer than enough to know you couldn't leave him alone with his own child without killing him, let alone let his mother, the preginerator of him, near also???

I thought op is one of crazy moms with her ,,training her husband,, and ,,sleeping on stomach,, but MIL is absolutely insane. She sounded like overbearing mother but after everything MIL did she has to be.

What about an update??????

While I am happy about the ending of this story I was disappointed about the lack of content in the last update.

Life must be sad if you're bragging about being first to comment on these kinds of vids

@brandonbriggs8098

4 ай бұрын

Life must be sad for you to be dissing people for no reason?

@isrln

4 ай бұрын

@@brandonbriggs8098 ohhh, offended one of the "first comment!" bozos. My bad

@bhaminibhanot3028

4 ай бұрын

Damn bro...I have been having exams lately and was super stressed...no need to be rude, chill

@Axiorenz

4 ай бұрын

​@@brandonbriggs8098i feel bad for you u tryna diss someone for speaking the truth

@brandonbriggs8098

4 ай бұрын

@@isrln I didn’t even comment tf you mean, I was just enjoying this video and then I saw your stupid ass comment. Who cares that people are excited to catch a video and comment first, clearly you’re just mad that you didn’t get first.

Raw milk are actually good but if the baby been feed it with it and not the mother breastmilk, the baby will get allergy. The case arent rare but also not often too. SIL is on the wrong here, she try to feed raw milk to the baby. What if somewhat the baby got allergy?. Its not only allergy to raw milk but also the baby mother breastmilk as well. Fmc husband also stupid too. Glad she choose to divorce him

@zamp_gaming

3 ай бұрын

Milk in general is not recommended for a 4-month-old because their body simply cannot breakdown the lactose like some adults can. Raw milk is perfectly fine so long as it comes from free-range, 100% grass fed dairy cattle; but it is not safe for a 4-month-old infant.

You seem to be paranoid and agressive (pushed her out of the baby room).... calling thr cops on her and when you're husband tried to reach your parents to know about his child he's bothering them😂....not letting a father help in caring for his baby ...then not letting him visitation.... you're child will definitely leave you as soon as you can for being a helicopter mom...no hard feelings...just pointing out the facts

Don't babies naturally sleep kneeling

@JenWulf

4 ай бұрын

There has been a public program for decades called "back to sleep". Pediaticians have encouraged parents to put their infants to sleep on their back, the goal being to reduce sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS). Once baby can roll themself over to their stomach, then yes, they do take that position, often.

@0palOpal0pal

4 ай бұрын

If a baby that isn't strong enough to roll over on its own sleeps on its stomach, there's a chance that the baby could end up face down into the bed, and struggle to breathe, yet not be strong enough to roll over to solve the issue. This is just one of the many possible causes of SIDS.

OP sounds like a control freak. I really hope the husband and MIL get away from her and, for the good of the baby, she do not get the custody, or that child infancy will be full of trauma with a controling mother

@sharkeatinpizza

3 ай бұрын

Bait used to be believable

Hes still the father, incompetent yes. But still atleast let him see his son from time to time.

@Nvggs

4 ай бұрын

Exactly, first time parents are never fully equipt for the job and many are flat-out stupid, but that can be changed and taught. This wasn't intentional harm, his goal WASN'T to hurt their child even if his actions would have done just that. Like "no, I'm not going to let him have any involvement in Ron's life" is taking things too far.

@sharkeatinpizza

3 ай бұрын

​@Nvggs if I kill someone in a car accident even though it wasn't intentional, you would let me get back on the road?

Why did OP put up with her husband for so long? The first thing I woukd do when I realised his dumb ideas about parenting was file for divorce, be ause the child clearly is in a risk of physical and mental harm under him

@jinga9862

4 ай бұрын

Because OP was in an abusive relationship and leaving them only seems easy on the outside

@Demyxu

4 ай бұрын

I was in 2 separate abusive relationships. Both lasted 2 years. When you're in it, a lot of the times youre blinded by a lot of factors. Once the glasses come off sometimes its just super hard to get out of afterwards.

@ShubhayooBanerjee

4 ай бұрын

@@Demyxu hope you are doing all right now buddy...stay strong....If u made it till here, there you sure as hell will make it through everything....we are proud of you

@Demyxu

4 ай бұрын

@@ShubhayooBanerjee I appreciate it! It took a lot to get over most of the damage and im still not fully repaired but I'm managing it!

@tallyp.7643

4 ай бұрын

Also, if they ended up splitting custody, he could do whatever he wanted (or his family by extension) with his kid without OP there to stop him. Unless he had restricted, supervised visitation. At least with them still together, she could keep an eye on kid and hubby and have some measure of control in their interactions. Then unless she documents every time the kid gets sick, the family will explain things away and it'll get expensive to fight in court.

Seems to me OP doesn't know how to interact with people, thereby unnecessarily escalating things. If she did, she'd have never married him in the first place. If she did, she'd have used words instead of her fists, the police, and the courts to get her way afterward.

@oliver4534

4 ай бұрын

I agree. There seems to be so much wrong with this story that's not even in the story. These two did not have a healthy marriage before the work trip started. Neither one was doing well at communicating.

First comment?

@brandonbriggs8098

4 ай бұрын

First comment’s first comment?

@jimjohnson394

4 ай бұрын

@@brandonbriggs8098 First commenter's first replier, first reply?

Here’s how you know the story is fake the father despite what the woman might say has the right to be with his child even if there is a divorce and could call the police for kidnapping.👍

@alexgerling4662

3 ай бұрын

Yea accept she didn’t do that she got mad at the mother and ran there is no evidence that he did anything wrong and the police would treat this as a kidnapping because neither parent can take the child from the parental home for an extended period of time without the consent from both parents or a court order.

@alexgerling4662

3 ай бұрын

And it would be kidnapping 100%

Second comment?

The father didn’t really do too much wrong in my opinion and you can’t blame a first time dad for not knowing anything lol how about we help him become a better dad and not take fathers away from our kids bc of our anger. Let’s think of the kids needs not our wants. Also f the step mom I agree but the dad asked to see his son and you denied him. You took the kid and ran away while he was gone. Why would he not be upset. And he went to the only place he could find you which is your parents. Then when denied to see his kid gets upset at them. I feel like this isn’t a tit for tat but more so a understandable reaction

@rhaelfixer2584

Ай бұрын

First, the husband should done research on what baby can drink instead of random bullshit info he got. Husband should do some basic online search. If he is too lazy, just consult with a doctor. In his sick twisted mind, feeding baby with untreated milk will strengthen the baby because the bacteria in the milk will make the baby more immune to it. It is irresponsible. Plus in the video he couldn't even take proper care of the baby which is why the wife have to step in and feed the baby because of his incompetent brain. Second, the father is not actively taking care of the baby and thought what if he put his mother to it. So you can said all this is most likely planned out by him. There is no discussion about him feeding raw milk to his wife. Instead the husband had gone behind his wife back and asked his mother to give his child raw milk with water.

My mom fed me raw milk growing up, your an AH and I hope he gets full custody. Smh 🤦🏾‍♂️

@sharkeatinpizza

3 ай бұрын

Bait used to be believable

fake

This first time mom is a psycho

@liamzakhaev

4 ай бұрын

Going by the full vid? Nah

@ARw275

4 ай бұрын

How?

@hgfggjhg

4 ай бұрын

no,it was the mil

@SheerLunaSea

4 ай бұрын

Aw how adorable, engagement bait! You're so cute and useless

@lastraven8575

4 ай бұрын

A wee bit overprotective and too quick to believe she's the only one with the answers was my take on it

This is pretty much just a cop out reason for the mom to leave the husband/father. There's much more going on that she's not saying for certain reasons. I bet she'd feed her baby formula like most of you as well, which has been proven to degenerate your child.

@jamiepetersen6153

4 ай бұрын

Me and my brothers were formula feed sorry my mum couldn’t make milk and if she did her milk would have killed me