Watch Karamo read YOUR comments from this episode here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hWV9ppmYfdTMpKg.html

I bet her husband loved his daughters with all his heart and the mother has been competing with them ever since the beginning.

@Skarletkombat

Жыл бұрын

That’s the vibe I get

@Nick-ei8lt

11 ай бұрын

That is something I have noticed about black mothers especially from that generation; when they have girls they treat them like competition especially when the father stays around and when they have sons they try to train them to be their husbands.

@raynaemurray

11 ай бұрын

It’s parents they view their children as competition or threats to their happiness that are part of the problem, and it’s too common in black families (moms and dads, both)

@anamerandom5147

11 ай бұрын

@Nick-ei8lt Why does everything bad have to be black-washed? Like this has nothing to do with black culture and everything to do with toxic family dynamics. Which you can find among the black community but also EVERY other community that is composed of HUMANS. Pls stop with the slander you’re not helping anybody. Quit finding every excuse to create a “safe space” per se to hate on black people and especially black women. It’s very disheartening how quick people are to jump on the bandwagon of hate but refuse to acknowledge what that behavior is rooted in, and it’s almost always pain.

@Kacy-77

10 ай бұрын

@@Nick-ei8ltthat kinda racist

As soon as her daughters started coming out her whole demeanor changed. She started out sweet and just flipped the switch.

@ImnotBritish166

Жыл бұрын

Ikr it's insane 😮

@kate4kanini

Жыл бұрын

That's how Narcs are. They can fool the world with their fake vulnerability but they evil .

@diane7865

Жыл бұрын

Mental illness in our culture is ignored or swept under a rug! Jesus I hate to say that I know how the daughters feel! But you must let go of what no longer serves you and still love from a distance.

@hayleymcneill189

Жыл бұрын

i mean she literary js said she docent like them because she feels that their the reason for her husbands death so she's obvusly gonna be mad

@sicilysscenarios365

Жыл бұрын

@@hayleymcneill189 but why lie saying you want to fix the relationship?

The mother is so obviously abusive. Clearly physically too. This is so sad and sickening, I’m keeping them in my prayers 100%

I see why she called the daughter in the pink evil, it’s because you can clearly see that she is the one who’s always tried to stand up for her sisters. She clearly has always been the middle man, and I’m sure, the peacemaker between everyone. She most likely doesn’t allow her mother to act like that to her sisters when she’s around, that’s why her mom kept saying she’s evil. It’s because she doesn’t put up with her mom’s rude behavior.

@LadyLoverShae

11 ай бұрын

It takes strength to be that person, I would have walked away and left her to her own devices. I would tell my father I'm sorry but to fulfill your dying wish would put my mental health at stake

@joydanleigh7711

11 ай бұрын

🩷🩷🩷

@amayas570

11 ай бұрын

@@LadyLoverShae Yeah! It totally does! It’s not fair to the daughter at all!

@sophiaandre139

8 ай бұрын

Yes, you hit the nail on the head. She is the truth-teller of the family.

@jameliakingstom1190

5 ай бұрын

Allow?

The daughter in the crowd seemed so scared to even say something about her momma. Her mom actually put trauma over her. I can see it

@ShyLittle88

Жыл бұрын

Yes I saw that too and it broke my heart. Daughters SHOULDNT be scared to talk the truth toward their mothers but unfortunately it happens like this situation :(

@kweenkaydavenport402

Жыл бұрын

facts! you can tell her mom did some damage to her.

@marcusoliver2375

Жыл бұрын

I noticed that as well, she tried to silence because she knows she’s done more harm to her. She told her to sit down as soon as she stood up to speak and purposely tried to cut her off while she’s speaking 😢

@cynthiadunn7576

Жыл бұрын

Also, as soon as the mom got up to walk behind them in the end she sat up so she wouldn't touch her.

@PeaceLoveAndJoy

Жыл бұрын

It was so sad to watch. Until Mom gets herself some help and let that evilness go, these daughters need to stay away from her and love her from a distance. She is so toxic.

The “sit down” moment just tells me the daughter knows if she doesn’t do what is told, she will get worse. It’s heartbreaking.

@hozzzane

Жыл бұрын

This moment was litterally too much, she even scared me through the screen. Something is so wrong with this woman, I don't ever think simple therapy like Karamo did will fix anything about her. And after that, she mumbled something like, straight into her own daughter's eyes "I will beat you up" as if it wasn't enough I'm seriously worried about these girls' mental health

@Mimiii_..

Жыл бұрын

It’s funny of what she said bc it’s on tiktok

@aja6376

Жыл бұрын

@@Mimiii_.. 😂

@knightclassic1

Жыл бұрын

That's Black Mom's for you, they are evil

@TheLily97232

Жыл бұрын

I felt threatened . My parents never talked to me like that ever. This is an abusive violent parent

I caught her daughter saying she treated the husband and their father the same way. It’s deeper than grieving his recent passing. She has some deep rooted issues that causes her to act the way she does. I would not want a relationship with her and distance myself immediately. Too many times people expect children to continue to take abuse from their parents just because their your parents. That’s not right to expect your child to be your punching bag.

She calling her daughters evil but the mother is pure evil. Just the way she screamed at her daughter in the audience to sit down. That was a monster that came out. Honestly they might have to disconnect and cut their mom off. She's really toxic

@knightclassic1

6 ай бұрын

She sound like she's from Detroit and Chicago

She the type of mother you have to love from a distance

@zaharakalushi6443

Жыл бұрын

Very true

@skyemcadoo6826

Жыл бұрын

Amen!

@canishalashaeQueenDom

Жыл бұрын

Yesssssssss

@DeeDiamond2981

Жыл бұрын

Yes girlll

@ShyLittle88

Жыл бұрын

Yes

Grief is grief, but the mother’s behavior towards her children is disgusting. I’d have to remove myself from that relationship until she got some real help and took the first steps to make amends.

@Lina_unchained

Жыл бұрын

grief is grief but it's more in this situation. I lost my husband when I was basically still a kid I was 19. Even I didn't handle my grief by abusing people. And I was a kid who had no emotional intelligence whatsoever. This is a grown woman. It's clear to me that she has been like this since before the passing of her husband and only gotten worse since. She clearly pulls them in by pretending that she wants a relationship with them and that she's changed and as soon as they show up she begins abusing them again like every abuser. Something like this is probably never going to be fixed. Because they will never feel safe around her ever again.

@lashondaharris

Жыл бұрын

i co sign on dat!

@nicolestraub8707

Жыл бұрын

Perfectly said

@Monkeybread31

Жыл бұрын

@@Lina_unchained the youngest daughter has never felt safe. She was even attempting to abuse her as she left the stage.

@Lina_unchained

Жыл бұрын

@@Monkeybread31 exactly that's my point they're never going to forgive her because they're going to do the work at unpacking their pain and she's not going to change and all of that hurt all of that abuse is never going to leave them and so they will never trust her or feel safe with her again even if she does begin doing the work eventually

The way she acted I was trying hard not to cry. How can she be so cruel to them. They all said they loved her despite all the mean stuff she said to them.

@rosalindtuckson9528

Жыл бұрын

I grew up with this type of mother. Deep, deep, deep, rooted pain here. Generations of pain. The only thing to do is to walk away, I'd at all possible. WALK AWAY😢😢😢

@2pretty557

3 ай бұрын

The mom js pissed me off. My angers would never.

I recognize this mother's spirit, because I've been in the daughters shoes. Nothing they will ever do will make their mother happy. The siblings need to distance themselves and lean on eachother for support as well as seek therapy to heal. It's great that they all see through their mothers bs because most times theirs a golden child put above the others and are blind to the fact that they are a pawn.

@velmaminor557

Жыл бұрын

The mom is selfish and no help for her.

@standupbcounted2420

Жыл бұрын

There is help for the mother if she is willing to acknowledge it and receive the help. However, there are many layers of pain that need to be peeled back.

@knightclassic1

6 ай бұрын

@@standupbcounted2420 Black People don't believe no help

If she’s talking to her daughters like this on national television, what is she doing to them behind closed doors?

@darisleidyperez1502

Жыл бұрын

Not trying to be funny but she probably beats the breaks of them kids 😢 she don’t give a damn obviously. Just sad AF. So many women wish to be able to have kids and give them love while some are able to have them but treat them like this lady treats her kids.

@bassplayerwife

Жыл бұрын

Look at how she told the youngest I’ll pull your braid out your head on national tv.

@philomenaezeh7770

Жыл бұрын

@@darisleidyperez1502 My nephew’s wife lost their 1st baby 2yrs ago, and is in the hospital right now after an ectopic surgery. We need to cherish and treasure our children, because they are a gift from God. Thanks sis. and have a blessed weekend!

@darisleidyperez1502

Жыл бұрын

@@philomenaezeh7770 only thing I can say is she will reap what she sews. The man above always sees everything. Blessings 🙏🏽🙌🏽

@philomenaezeh7770

Жыл бұрын

@@darisleidyperez1502 Amen 🙏

I feel so bad for the youngest. They are all abused but sounds like she’s still in the house. God protect her!

@britney3750

Жыл бұрын

No we all have our on place !

@aqueen4life40

Жыл бұрын

@@britney3750 prayers extended to you and your family ❤🙏🏽

@juliennehall6300

Жыл бұрын

@@britney3750 Praying for you baby

@krystingrant6292

Жыл бұрын

@@britney3750 girl listen I have a toxic mother. Move forward no contact she's evil. No excuse to why she's treating you all like that!!!! Narcissistic mothers are real but your health and sanity is important. ❤️

@blacknae88able

Жыл бұрын

@Britney my heart goes out for you all. I pray your mom realizes she's pushing y'all away before it's too late.

That mother's behavior is more than grief. She's been abusive for years.

Who needs enemies when u have a mother like that.

"She treated him bad as well" Tells me this wasn't grief that caused this. That is no mother. That's a monster.

@goldfishglass

Жыл бұрын

Her behavior is that of a mentally deranged abuser. That's dishing out her insecurities on her daughters. She needs to be committed for psychiatric help.

@Alexxxxxxxxxx3577

Жыл бұрын

It’s ironic she calls her daughters evil repeatedly but I have never seen such true, unbridled evilness in someone’s eyes as I can see in this “mother” like it’s literally scary to look at this woman’s face.

@Monkeysrulaa

Жыл бұрын

@@Alexxxxxxxxxx3577 I was called a b word, wicked, evil, all because I reported her for my brother saying she chased him with a weapon. Talm bout “why did u come to me”? Ma’am I’m not going to negotiate with someone who’s done it before, and could’ve potentially killed a child..

@ToBTee2

Жыл бұрын

She may be feeling guilty for the way she treated her husband. Also seems like she’s jealous of the relationship between dad and the daughters…very sad

@celestie4609

Жыл бұрын

Yes and she is not sad because she misses him,she has guilty conscious and now she wants to blame her daughters because she knows she's the one who is responsible for her husband's death.may God have mercy on that evil mother.

This is exactly what living with a narcissistic parent is like. It’s not about love, it’s about competition. She’s using her daughters emotions against them. This is something that probably won’t be fixed unfortunately

@dashleyguzman7788

Жыл бұрын

From personal experience probably not entirely cause the change has to come from her. She needs to sit and try to understand where they are coming from and she never will because she doesnt want to understand

@Latina8301

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. I have a parent with narcissist tendencies. They are so draining. I say cut ties with these people. Parent, friend or foe.

@Sincerelyschaumin

Жыл бұрын

Sadly you’re right and I am still healing from that to this day 😢

@tiffanymaker8117

Жыл бұрын

That was my thought right away, she's a narcissist and probably always was. Perhaps it was thr husband who kept things in check but now he's gone and the daughters don't have that buffer. And she said she wasn't gonna look after her grandchildren either. She seems to be violent ant they would do better to stay away from her.

@alicianajha1573

Жыл бұрын

Just heartbreaking to watch I cried for them 😢

“and the worlds worst mother award goes to…” the fact that those girls sat there in the said, she’s always been this way… It just got worse after their dad passed is heartbreaking… you can tell how she treats those girls behind closed doors

Telling them to show her love instead of telling them they need to cut her off immediately was shocking to me, she’s absolutely abusive and none of them are responsible for taking that vitriol, no matter how much she’s “hurting.”

You can tell she sees all her kids as competition

@AishaDiane

Жыл бұрын

Yes that was my thought that she is jealous of her daughters and especially their relationship with their father. This is so sad and unfortunate.

@alkalinelifestyle638

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely 🎯

@abigailgranston8835

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely. That's the first thing that came to mind as I was watching it. Sad...toxic behavior.

@Kyramaney122

Жыл бұрын

took the words right out of my mouth!!

@christinawooten346

Жыл бұрын

That’s exactly what I think it is. I also think that rings true in relation to the father. I don’t think she wishes her daughters loved her more, I think she didn’t want to share the father’s love with her daughters.

The hatred she has for her daughters is very apparent. This behavior didn’t start with the passing of their dad and won’t end anytime soon. The way she looked at them was so evil it made my stomach turn. And when she said they can’t bring their kids to her house anymore, I think they shouldn’t anyway because a person who hates you will mistreat your kids

@youmakemelaugh1797

Жыл бұрын

Yes I can tell that nasty hateful attitude has been there for years, the name calling oh I know she was beating on them as kids.. I would leave her evil a** right where she is trust me and gone on about my life!! I know that pain all too well.💔

@sanitytbd3455

Жыл бұрын

Or they'll purposely turn your children against you. It's too dangerous a situation.

@tawandabell64

Жыл бұрын

It's not so much hatred for daughters. It's hatred for self

@tawandabell64

Жыл бұрын

This is example of love self more than a man

@itsmyahhh9104

Жыл бұрын

I agree 100%

My heart hurts for her daughters. Not only they lost their dad, but they've lost their mum as well.

@aprilfields5469

9 ай бұрын

It looks like they never had her

The mother is horrible. Before during and after her husbands death. The lady is so damaged there’s no fixing that. Those girls need to separate COMPLETELY.

This has nothing to do with grief. This is who she’s always been!

@JG_SmileSOBright

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely! She is an angry, hateful person in general. Had to be hell growing up w her. I feel sorry for her daughters.

@neisci

Жыл бұрын

They need to cut her off and love her from a distance. This is WHO she is.

@sugarandspice2136

10 ай бұрын

Facts

@bohlalenchabeleng1370

10 ай бұрын

She needs Iyanla Vanzant.

@reneekaranja695

10 ай бұрын

​@@bohlalenchabeleng1370spot on!!!!!

As a therapist, I’d have to say this situation is too complex for this show. Mom needs therapy and she is abusive. That can’t be loved out by her daughters. Unfortunately the answer to abuse is not give more love. She needs a mirror of awareness that treatment can provide and a safe environment for accountability and healing from the hurt and pain she is projecting on others. Praying for the healing and wholeness of this family, especially her daughters 😢🙏🏾

@SlideJones

Жыл бұрын

Y'all been acting like this. Yall were really raised to believe everything momma and big momma and madea say is perfect and everything they do and say is justified. There are no men in these households because no one wants to walk on eggshells for some fat, black, angry woman who you can't say nothing to. They go they whole lives w/o nobody poppin them in that smart ass mouth so they think their bad. Those days are over.

@TheRayofsunshine01

Жыл бұрын

Yes!!!!! I was thinking the whole time, why not have a professional on the show that can actually help this family!

@abbeyhenderson3549

Жыл бұрын

I would love to hear how her relationship with her mom was

@TM-oe2on

Жыл бұрын

@@TheRayofsunshine01 I think he was/is a licensed mental health professional.

@PAb8

Жыл бұрын

Im a mental health therapist too and my observation is that the mother is a narcissist/psychopath. She's been mistreating her daughters ever since they were little and, probably her husband. No kind of therapy will help her because in her mind she's right and everyone is not. She's evil and can't love. Bad seed. Her daughters should be educated about that disorder.

Man this lady has so many personalities. She went from sad, remorseful, to angry and Evil🤦🏾‍♀️

I’m so happy that the sisters stick together. Such a sad situation

The Father sounds like he was the peacemaker in the family. When he passed, all they can do is go at each other.

@karlo9572

Жыл бұрын

Na this woman is evil

@knightclassic1

Жыл бұрын

That's Normal being Black

@basedspears7876

Жыл бұрын

@@knightclassic1 not really

@standupbcounted2420

Жыл бұрын

@knightclassic1 Your statement is very biased. This is not normal behavior in black families or any other families. This has nothing to do with race.

@knightclassic1

Жыл бұрын

@@standupbcounted2420 Yes it does, I'm from Chicago so I've seen it all.

Mother or not, for their own mental health they should not stress having a relationship with their mother until she gets some serious help. She is bitter, mean, and evil. They should focus on making themselves better and relationships with each other so that they don’t pass down this same behavior in their own families. As a mother I could NEVER display this level of non care for my kids.

@celestecruthird7842

Жыл бұрын

She Probably Treated That Poor Man Like Crap! I Wouldn't Claim Her As Mother!😠😠😠

@user-Tina8462

Жыл бұрын

You are so right

@sunnylove3521

Жыл бұрын

Pot always call the kettle black - it's the mother who is evil. They need to let her gooooo. The mother need good consequence s. That's a woman with a lot of pathology. She used to cuss the Dad too.

@celestecruthird7842

Жыл бұрын

Her Ass Would Be Alone For Good F Her!

@starlishaync81

Жыл бұрын

@@celestecruthird7842 one of the young ladies said she did

i felt the mom was gonna jump out the screen and hurt me.

@therealdannyabza

Ай бұрын

Fr tho

“Girl, I’ll take your braid out your head” 🤣😂. I wouldn’t be able to do nothing but laugh at her if she was my mother, I’ll stay far away from her as possible but I’ll be laughing like hell! She is deflecting her pain and it goes deeper than the death of her husband, I hope she get the help she needs cause she seem like such a sweet person.

@britney3750

Жыл бұрын

We do laugh at her 😂

@lovey_charm

Жыл бұрын

@@britney3750 girl, y’all need to adopt me as y’all sister! I love her 🤣😂

@britney3750

Жыл бұрын

@@lovey_charm she said she love you too boo

@ritawarobi6318

29 күн бұрын

Ain't nothing sweet about that lady

I hate when some Parents think speaking your mind and expressing how you feel is disrespectful. In a lot of black households we’re made to feel like we don’t get to have feelings just because we’re the child. You can tell the mama evil asf and jealous. Instead of trying to fix the relationship with your children you’re being spiteful. It’s sad. As a person who lost my dad at a young age it’s a lot of pain when you can’t have a relationship with your only living parent.

@angelasurratt657

Жыл бұрын

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

@alvinaslaughter4458

Жыл бұрын

I said the same thing.. like they lost their daddy and you blame them for it.. that’s the most evil shit ever

@fruityblue9784

Жыл бұрын

Yep… I was told many times as a child “because you are the child and I’m the adult I don’t have to explain anything to you.” You should WANT an understanding with your family. You shouldn’t laugh at them and mock them when they cry. My mom threatened me, hit me with spoons, called me fat and the b word… did all this same stuff. It’s sad. Ever since my sister had a baby I’ve been triggered as hell about my mom watching him bc of how hateful and careless she can be.

@sumayyaporche3225

Жыл бұрын

You are so right

@JAPANESEJENN

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. It makes you feel so bad and alone .

If I was in the audience I would’ve yelled out to that young woman “speak your truth.” It’s terrible how her mother scared her 😢

@benbenassi2348

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, but she has to go back to her house. I hope she can get her own place soon.

@speaklife404

11 ай бұрын

Yes exactly!

@Omar-kl3xp

6 ай бұрын

She is abusive and I am talking about physical and mental abuse ,that’s pretty obvious

All the daughters are beautiful and I applaud them for doing their best for their mother

The mother's past relationship with her own mother needs to be talked about and investigated as well. It's much deeper than just the attitude towards her own daughters. There's a generational chain that needs to be broken.

@toombs6287

Жыл бұрын

This💯💯

@lotab2

11 ай бұрын

Exactly

Unfortunately this is deeper than her husband’s passing… this is childhood trauma being protected on her children. God help them all.

@brittneycalynn7101

Жыл бұрын

Definitely

@BklynCreme

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking this exact same thing. That’s usually the cause of this type of mentality. The root needs to be exposed and treated.

@jackiejohnson6973

Жыл бұрын

I agree! That's what I said as well. She has hurt that she hasn't dealt with in years and has been projecting it on her girls and probably her husband as well. 😥

@fatkatt2002

Жыл бұрын

U right. He's gonna be blue in the face & that lady still gon be hateful..

@kaybase6967

Жыл бұрын

Hurt people, hurt people. The cycle continues with her daughters. They are now traumatized themselves. Hopefully they will get help so they don’t do this to their own kids.

Its 2022. Can we as a Black community normalize listening to your children when theyre respectfully telling you about yourself whether it be auntie, uncle grandma etc. Sometime its better to hear it from your kids than someone else. Its so sad to see that they dont have support from someone who birthed them. My mom is my best friend shes my everything, I cant imagine ever having a mother like theirs. This is very disgusting. Like fr fr i feel bad for them🤢

@ShyLittle88

Жыл бұрын

Tbh it should be all communities whether it's black or white. Even white people like myself have issues with their own parents when trying to explain my feelings to them especially my mom and they don't listen at all After awhile I stopped even when I moved out.

@Byjadamarie

Жыл бұрын

It’s 2022. Let’s normalize recognizing that black communities have the exact same issues as other communities. Much love 🫶🏾

@AceSantiago

Жыл бұрын

This lady ain’t normal? A mother is not supposed to show hate against her offspring, she is literally calling her daughters evil! She is in a sick manic state and she needs help. Her husband/their fathers death most of really brought out her craziness

@LA-fr4gp

Жыл бұрын

@@ShyLittle88 Unfortunately the black community specifically is really bad for neglecting the feelings and thoughts of their child and treating them as less. Not to mention how normalized physical abuse as “discipline” is.

@moebetta6194

Жыл бұрын

@@LA-fr4gp speak for urself and stop speaking for the. Black community. We dn not share the same thoughts

He is giving the worst advise… the only advise here is RUN

This is the reality of so many black little girls and their mother.

@fashionizkee8734

Жыл бұрын

Sadly most blk mothers are narcs

@Thatgirlkeshia

Жыл бұрын

And other female family members

@elenawilliams32

Жыл бұрын

Why? I'm in Australia and don't understand why this awful Mum and her vile behaviour would be the "reality of so many little black girls"? Surely, there's a mix of amazing, great, good, average and horrible Mums. This woman seems competitive with her daughters and her words are so cruel. My father was a cruel and violent man yet I was lucky enough to have an incredible Mum. Girls need their Mums to love, support and build them up. I wish these girls well. Take care. 🐨

@roslynhawkins1475

Жыл бұрын

You said it!! My mom hated me because of my light skin tone and hazel eyes but the reason she got with my dad was to avoid having darker skin children which is what her mother did also. It literally made me hate myself and everything about me because I couldn't understand why she would call me horrible names, make fun of me and say horrible things about lighter skinned people. She was jealous but I don't understand that. My 18 year d daughter looks just like a younger me, but I'm so proud of her and I love her to death and would never try to destroy her.

@beanieheadaj

Жыл бұрын

@Cali Classic well they didn’t say all the black girls , they said MANY..so how about you don’t just speak at all

The mother say she wants to fix the relationship with her daughters but looking at her and hearing the things she saying is telling a different story. She don't want to fix it and calling her children evil when she the one speaking evil... I feel for these young women having to deal with their dad dying and their mother blaming them.

@michelleterrell5133

Жыл бұрын

Mom needs to turn things around before she pushes them all away.

@chewedw1re

Жыл бұрын

@@michelleterrell5133 it’s way too late, seems like she’s stuck being a bitter old woman

@ashleyjones5617

Жыл бұрын

When she says “fix” she means for her daughters to comply to her treat like before. Now they’re speaking up more and defending themselves and she doesn’t like it.

This man telling those girls to tell their mother they love her? Nah. The amount of hurt she’s caused them, she doesn’t deserve it.

This is so sad, I’m sorry for anyone going through something similar - I pray for your healing ❤

Her attitude towards her daughters is not from grief! The youngest daughter said she's been treating her like that her whole life! I believe the mother has some jealousy issues because of the love the daughters received from their father and that's why she said the love was gone after he passed! She can't possibly have true love for them in her heart looking at the way she's presenting herself here! So sad!

@deajahgold3639

Жыл бұрын

Literally telling them she doesn’t love them but saying she wants to “fix” her family? Threatening them ? I say cut her off for your mental health at this point abuse is never okay no matter who it is

@wandering4786

Жыл бұрын

She is mentally ill. She needed therapy probably long before she had children !

@yolandayolanda7486

Жыл бұрын

i said i dont see how he helps at all honestly

@lynn6694

Жыл бұрын

@@yolandayolanda7486 He didn't help them.. The hatred that the mother had for her children was too real.. Like what do you say to that? What on earth can you do with that as an outsider?

@jenced80

Жыл бұрын

I was waiting for someone to say that mom was jealous of the dad's love for his daughters. That was probably always the case. Resented them, never wanted them, they divided up the Dad's attention and love, she's bitter he's gone and she blames them. The lack of love she feels is her own. Maybe she can't fathom how her daughters could love her when she knows she never gave them love. The husband's attention and love was probably all mom ever wanted and now she's "stuck" with the kids she was jealous of, resented, and never seemed to love in the first place. Like a hurt little child.

their genes are so strong , for them to look exactly like her & it’s like she’s looking at her self with hatred 🤦🏽‍♀️

@hawtnsweet

Жыл бұрын

This is so DEEP, that last line. I never thought about it like that. You're probably right too. Wow.

@0bong0bunny0

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same thing.

@nesssa6326

Жыл бұрын

@@hawtnsweet right omg

Maaan I just feel like that woman got a bad spirit on her. And when her husband died it took all the way over.

The hurt in the little girls voice when she told her to sit down broke my heart 😔

This goes way deeper than the loss of the husband. This hurt and feeling of inadequacy comes from mom's childhood.

@paula4518

Жыл бұрын

iam parying for the 👪

@nahbird3620

Жыл бұрын

Think mom has mental health issues

@celianacruz997

Жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯

@unitywidlund2229

Жыл бұрын

Always the root or the seed..

@maryegarcia8538

Жыл бұрын

She feels remorse for treating the husband bad as well, and is taking out on all of them

This is beyond grief. Those children don’t deserve that. Listen at the youngest states about the verbal abuse growing up. The dad was the glue that gave those girls a peace of mind and love. My heart and prayers go out to them for strength and healing.

@ejiroekius3747

Жыл бұрын

I really feel for them, when my bro passed away,this year my own mother blame for his dead and call me all kinds of names, I was grieving in the side also depressed, it not easy,I understand what her daughters go thru each passing day.i just said my mum need help,but it not easy for me, I don't know what to do,I keep asking myself if am the cause of my bro dead, I just don't know what to do. Deep down am in pains,I just keep to myself at home

@catherinejohnson2822

Жыл бұрын

I agree the dad was the glue that held it together so sad

This hurts so much especially when having a mother who’s just like that. It hurts because why? You know how can a mother treat their own daughter this way and constantly blame everything on us, me. It really is a hard pill to swallow and especially trying to love myself when the person who gave birth to me was supposed to show and give me that love

I watched this a second time today. They mentioned she treated their dad bad too. Could it be possible that she used to treat him bad as a way to deal with her own trauma and now that he’s gone she’s taking it out on the daughters?

The way the mother scares her daughter into shutting up & sitting down is so sad

I hate how our society tries to force children and guilt trip them to work it out with abusive parents. The children are in a vulnerable place wanting love and acceptance from the person who is supposed to be their protector. It's okay for them to walk away from that hateful woman until she can respect them as people and not her emotional punching bags.

@DeeDiamond2981

Жыл бұрын

Right. They need to run

@KharufMaluf

Жыл бұрын

amen. he was wrong in my eyes for how he approached that. all the way wrong

@tolithalarkins2643

Жыл бұрын

Exactly....we need to stop this for real....and let these relationships go....stop trying to make folks stay in connection with what is killing their inner spirit....

@briathomas5310

Жыл бұрын

Tell my Momma that, please.

@johonnahenderson1170

Жыл бұрын

@@tolithalarkins2643 yes well mama doesn’t care anyways..life goes on

Man, when the rock of the family die the family fall apart

"Girl bye"😭😭😭

People need to normalize cutting anyone off to protect you peace and mentality! Including parents!!!! It hurts it really does but you have to put yourself first. It doesn’t mean that you necessarily have to disrespect them but respect is earned.When the hurt is there it’s there. 🤷🏾‍♀️

@CashUnlimited8

Жыл бұрын

💯‼️

@jadaann6390

Жыл бұрын

THIS!!! is i’m getting mistreated idc who it is if you don’t want to fix it or it’s not fixable, we’re done. family or not

@retishaboykin6721

Жыл бұрын

HUGE Facts protect your PEACE at all cost

@zephyr-.

Жыл бұрын

thats why i hate the saying “blood is thicker than water”

@roslynhawkins1475

Жыл бұрын

I cut my relationship with my mom and sister a few years ago and felt instant relief. This is a permanent separation and I have no desire to see or talk to either one again.

My 14 year old daughter sent me this. She loves talk shows...she was like Mommy you need to see this. After watching this I was so pissed off because this is exactly how my mother acts. This woman behavior will never change and I can already tell you she will never have a relationship with her daughters. My mother is toxic and I refuse to have her in my life. I applaud the young ladies in this video on trying to make it work but she is someone you have to love from a distance.

@okuhlentuli9093

Жыл бұрын

The first few sentences made my stomach turn... I thought your daughter sent you that because you somewhat act the same way towards her... I don't know you but thank you for being such a wonderful mother to her... You turned the narrative for real... I'm 18 and my mom has always acted like this towards me and it makes me fear ever becoming a mother... I really don't want to become her... And will most probably cut her off sooner than I would've loved to

@talanetaylor1988

Жыл бұрын

@@okuhlentuli9093 don't ever fear of becoming a Mother. The Beautiful thing I've learned is I don't ever have to walk in my mother's footsteps. I wish I had a Mother to talk to and be here for me. I don't and I'm okay. I know my daughter will have me until I stop breathing. I don't care what obstacles get in the way my daughter will always know I will never treat her like she is nothing.

@okuhlentuli9093

Жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤️🥺

@talanetaylor1988

Жыл бұрын

@@okuhlentuli9093 Your welcome 😊

@lifeofdonyae888

Жыл бұрын

Real heavy on the "love from a distance"!!! Because this has opened my eyes that I am grateful for my mother, I'm 16 years old and this just horrified me because my momma has never ever done anything related to this ever.

This woman is abusive, jealous, self centered, bully, selfish…… on purpose. OMG!!!! Total Narcissist fueled by trauma. They have to stay away. She is vengeful

it's not even anything physical, this is something spiritual. The mother AND her daughters need deliverance from their trauma. The mom moving around and nervous after being told positive things is her manifesting. She doesn't feel emotion because she is invested with demons. I pray the lord frees her and her family, and that they heal from this and move forward. Amen!!!

For your own sanity, love your Mother from afar.

@alkalinelifestyle638

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely RIGHT

@jadaann6390

Жыл бұрын

ain’t no love atp.

@laflower6082

Жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏🏼

@virgounapologetic

Жыл бұрын

No love there.. u haven't been through it so u probably wouldn't understand the deep trauma.

@blueangel365

Жыл бұрын

Nope abuse is abuse. You don’t love your abuser from afar, even if it’s your own family or your own blood.

This is beyond grief. She has palpable disdain for her daughters and that didn’t just develop over 2 months. This is a sad case but it’s one where these sisters may have to support each other and become their own version of family and love their mom from a distance because no one under any circumstances should be subject to this type of emotional and verbal abuse.

@jenasaisquoi9202

Жыл бұрын

Wholeheartedly, I agree.

@lakeofalltrades1453

Жыл бұрын

Straight up!!! I’m tired of people living off of the strength of “family” when family can show such a disgust towards you ESPECIALLY children you brought here to earth ESPECIALLY when you have no reason or it’s every one of the kids, you hate them all but you are holier than thou…… it’s abusive and sad and you can find family in strangers more than that mom so connect as sisters and be your own village because dad was a saving grace but he’s gone now 😞

@mimicoquillionmondesir507

Жыл бұрын

That entire statement 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@MarkMcNeel13

Жыл бұрын

@@mimicoquillionmondesir507Makes me sad 😢 So disgusting

@len1871

Жыл бұрын

Exactly people get so wrapped up in titles, before anything you human . I will cut you out my life quick

First time watching your channel and these episodes, they’ve given me a lot perspective and clarity, appreciate it

It hurts me so much that these lovely girls have to go trough such an situation ,its a tragedy ,the mom is beeing so mean to them shes so cold in the heart ,its so good that they have each other as sisters ,I pray for them ,God protect you 🙏🏻😢❤

Never seen a mother acting like this towards her own children, soo disgusting. Would love an update on them or like an extended episode x

@tonilove8833

Жыл бұрын

They're alive....thats all the credit I could give this so-called mother.

@loveandmarriage8041

Жыл бұрын

This is how my mom treated me🤷🏽‍♀️ when I left and got away I stayed away! I refuse to be a punching bag because she’s hurting!

@labonitagatita3241

Жыл бұрын

@@loveandmarriage8041 I’m sorry 😢

@tiaboo2008

Жыл бұрын

@@loveandmarriage8041 I’m glad you got away and you are better

@hafsahm4486

Жыл бұрын

@@loveandmarriage8041 I’m so proud of u, genuinely ❤️

The mom has serious deep issues, just seeing her not wanna pass the tissues to her daughter or screaming at her other daughter to sit down. The kids might as well stay away from her

@michelleterrell5133

Жыл бұрын

Then walks off stage still threatening the youngest daughter. While mom is talking about her house and keys I'd be giving them back to her with a quickness. They should protect their peace and focus on their kids and their mental wellness. They can't mom and she's toxic so she can decide to work on healing or have no one at all.

@GangstaBoo7

Жыл бұрын

@@michelleterrell5133 👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾

My heart breaks for these young women. And their mother. You can tell the mom has some deep wounds stemming from her own childhood. I've seen this in my own family on some levels. These are truly generational curses. She was likely never given the proper tools on how to "mother". Someone violated that woman. And she's been looking to place blame ever since.

Wow watching these makes me so thankful for my parents.

To the girls, pick new people, and let mom go - it's her personality. Stop hoping for a different result. She'll die mean, but y'all deserve love. ❤️

@sai7sai

Жыл бұрын

Agree - they need to grieve and heal their mother wound

@johonnahenderson1170

Жыл бұрын

And die knowing no one gives a shit about her feeling because she’s a mom, that’s why she doesn’t care about theirs😀

@gabriellebrooks5499

Жыл бұрын

Yesssss💯

@britgaddis

Жыл бұрын

On my soul. Havent talked to my mom in over a month

@sai7sai

Жыл бұрын

@@britgaddis Sorry sis, therapy helps

She'll regret every word that came out of her mouth when she needs someone to help her in her older age or if her health fails. The animosity that she's carrying will surely send her to an early grave.

@Josie_gifty

Жыл бұрын

That part

@amaramellahairstylist1079

Жыл бұрын

When her health fails… Cholesterol is a muthafuxka…

@littlefarmers1861

Жыл бұрын

She won't. This is like my grandmother. She will die with her bitterness and delusions

@clarasfilm8122

Жыл бұрын

Nope. there are people out there who has no kids at all and are doing just fine in their old age

@celestie4609

Жыл бұрын

Shell definitely regret it one day,she has forgotten that she's not getting any younger.

This is so sad ! Such beautiful kind daughters. Lovely, kind, respectful and a gem. Reminds me of my beautiful daughter. I just want to hug them. Mom is selfish and I feel sorry for her. 😢

Your willingness to appear on the program is greatly appreciated, family. What transpired that the mother failed to confront or process intrigues me. It appears that the spouse was assisting the mother in loving him and the children.

The moms behavior is grossly disgusting 😢 When my father died, I was 13 and my siblings were 9 and 17. I watched my mother be so strong for us. Loved and supported us. She forgot her own grief and held on to us because we were half of him. 30 years later my mother is still going STRONG and LOVING us STILL!! Now I have 2 daughters and there is NO WAY I could EVER talk to them with such unbothered hatred and disrespect!!! I am utterly APPALLED! 😮 My heart goes out to the daughters. I hope they heal. And praying for the mother because she acting out over GUILT!!

@CELESTINOXZ

Жыл бұрын

I’m so proud of your mom and y’all tooo she a real queen for staying strong so long just for yalll😕❤ Rest In Peace to your father

@unejammindsetofficial

Жыл бұрын

she is loved but she don't love noone, neither here husband

If you listen to the daughter she said her mom said her father was breathing like that all day… really the mom blames herself for his death even though she says it’s her daughter’s fault… I hope she gets the help she needs

@hedrick7

Жыл бұрын

I heard her say that, and I'm like she's shifting the blame off of her conscience

@babbzilla

Жыл бұрын

I also heard the mom say she didn't want her daughters around.

@AG-ld5ku

Жыл бұрын

I also heard the daughter say she treated the father bad, too.

There’s grief, for sure and getting with a group or going to see someone by yourself to talk about your grief makes a big difference. The Mother hurts and so from her will come nothing but hurt. She has a sad past even before her husband so, yes lots to unpack that can’t be done in front of a crowd. The Mother really needs help but doesn’t know how to tap into helping this part of her but what comes out is grief pain and anger re-directed at her daughters. If she does have guilt, she is transferring that also to wanting her daughters to feel this too. Just so sad😢

5:46 “WHENEVER YOUR READY” 😂😂😂

She might be grieving but her attitude towards them has nothing to do with that. Her husband passing is just a good excuse to express how she’s always felt about them.

@missshannonsunshine

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!!!

@hedrick7

Жыл бұрын

I feel like she's always expressed it, but the daddy was the shield. Now that he's gone, there is no one to stop or buffer what she says and the abuse

@lynnw100

Жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯💯💯

@lisar9363

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. The youngest one said she's been called "B****" since she was a young child. This lady has been abusing her daughters for years. She's just got a "good reason" for her behavior right now. I pray for healing here, esp for each of these 4 beautiful daughters. Karamo is off track on this one. This is not caused by grief.

@brittanyhunter3331

Жыл бұрын

No doubt! She’s resented them since she had them.

Normally I think Karamo gives great advice, but the suggestion of telling their mother “dad loved you and so do I” wasn’t it. He was definitely right that this is something far, far deeper than what we’re seeing. But I think his first piece of advice should have been “if you’re mother acts out calmly let her know that you won’t tolerate that kind of behavior and remove yourself from the situation”. I see her daughters’ pain and “Mom I love you” is not going to help because it won’t make her stop. Those girls need to look out for and protect themselves. Like someone else said, “love your mother from afar”

@mrs.maxwellofcourse5859

Жыл бұрын

It’s okay to say I love you but she don’t have to be in their life.

@BreSymonee

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. I think he took it too easy on her. Instead of holding her accountable, he coddled her and made it the daughter’s responsibility to coddle her too.

@kclittylife7519

Жыл бұрын

See my whole thing is I agree with you, the only thing I didn’t get is one of the daughter that the mom blames for the father death said the mother seen him breathing like that all day and didn’t decide to get him the oxygen. So why blame the girl ? That’s what I want know. This whole situation is so sad.

@NZBoss67

Жыл бұрын

He needed to see just how far gone (narcissistic) she was. At first she responded positively, creating a false narrative to appear engaged with him and the process. Then later she totally renegged showing her deception. His mistake was giving her responses anything more than face level

@TRay_Unveiled

Жыл бұрын

@@kclittylife7519 I understand totally where you are coming from. I see Karamo's therapy tactic as well. Love conquers hate! Repetition changes behavior. Constantly reassuring mom that they love her may not be therapy for her, she may never change. However, because they are genuine it will be helpful mentally for them. 💝🙏

We need a part 2

I am sorry for yall loss . I pray God heal u all . I think you guys should go on fix my life because it's going to take more then this moment i know my family toxic to.

It's obvious the mother has been that way before her husband died. I feel like I got PTSD after watching her behavior on this show. I feel badly for the daughters and I hope that they find some type of solice in their lives. They probably need to step away from their mother so she can feel their absence. Some people just don't want to change. May God Bless them with strength.

@solidsoul28

Жыл бұрын

💯

@jatoriabeckham9916

Жыл бұрын

Yessssd

@theycallmedopeness

Жыл бұрын

She need to have Iyana Vanzant call her a gutter snipe

@krissymonster1

Жыл бұрын

Those poor kids!

@mrstrikerr5799

Жыл бұрын

You don’t have no ptsd 😂 watch the vid n calm down

I like how the lady in crowd told her to stand up, cause don't have nobody shut you down even your own mom, I'm glad she speaking her truth and not letting her mom shut her up

Oh this made me cry Thanks Sir u are doing well in this show to help family Mom please forgive them Beautiful sisters please forgive mama One thing mama must know is that girls just love their dad We don't know the reason why we love our dads so much than our moms Expecially the care ones But regardless we still love our moms too they are our Rock. Am still missing my dad for leaving us in the painful world But in all we thank our good God Sending love to u all And I hope you all will be fine with ur Mom And ur dad will be happy as one of u said that what dad wanted

The youngest daughter admitted when the father was alive and when they were kids, she would curse them out calling them bitches and other things. Clearly she’s been verbally abusive before the dad’s death. She doesn’t need to coddled and her daughters don’t need to show love towards her toxicity. She needs to be held accountable.

I shed a tear when they started telling the mom they love her and she still had the face of a person who doesn’t care

This finna make me cry honestly I feel so bad💔

There is so much depth in this problem. Some things just never gets better and its so sad to see how a mother can act like this to her own children. I hope the girls cut the contact completely with her.

She's the parent you have to put hands on and walk away for good until she apologize

@DeeDiamond2981

Жыл бұрын

Lmao.. right.

@Mkmojis

Жыл бұрын

No fr

@meshell1543

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely the truth

@augustacookeygam5579

Жыл бұрын

They never apologize

This woman literally has an evil spirit within her and she doesn't even realize it...The evil one is very clever and it is definitely all over their mother. She has issues and needs some spiritual healing.....She clearly was more than likely also mistreated by her mother and has past on the pain to her own children. Her mother needs counseling and so do her children. Sending love, peace, and blessings from afar for this family. 🙏🏾

this was the best one so far😁i pray the mom changes her ways

Wow! Heart breaking

These girls are so strong. I hope they stick together.

@jamiearnold9159

Жыл бұрын

We is ❤❤❤thanks

@SenoraGomes94

Жыл бұрын

@@jamiearnold9159 love you girls and you're amazing beautiful woman each and every one of you. don't ever let her make you feel less babes. stick together and if a no contact relationship has to be the way you live until she stops hurting y'all then it is what it is. yall can't keep accepting abuse being hurled your way. you are too too precious for all this pain 💛 Love from the UK

@brinaunderrated8282

Жыл бұрын

Yes we is……

@meganquinones1271

Жыл бұрын

I am so happy/proud of all of you! There is nothing more beautiful than sisters who have one another! There is that saying “hurt people, hurt people,” your mom just needs her healing.

@britney3750

Жыл бұрын

Definitely gotta be strong 💪🏾

This is sad. They are all grieving the loss of their father/husband. But the utter disdain and hate she has for those girls has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with his death. It’s obvious she has probably felt this way for quite some time but is now free to express those feelings since the husband passed. She seems narcissistic and also possibly jealous of her girls relationship with their dad. They don’t deserve to be treated that way and should probably distance themselves from her until she seeks the help she needs. The daughters need to support and lean on each other during their grieving process.

@GGCanLove409

Жыл бұрын

I couldn't have said it any better!! They will have to grieve her while she is still alive and ghost her for their sanity. Continue to build their sisterly bond and help each other out (financially, babysitting, advise etc) and leave their toxic mother alone.

@lakeetiacarter4548

Жыл бұрын

Your absolutely correct!! That’s why GOD kept giving her girls to🤣🤣She hates self. The love that Man had for his daughters is because he seen her in them. He loved that woman because she loved him so. She didn’t like sharing his love she wanted it all for herself. If she had a boy she would have been fine.

@David-gw5ec

Жыл бұрын

@@lakeetiacarter4548 you said nothing but facts! Sadly my sister in law is experiencing that with her mother.

I would love to see this get better YOU SHOULD BRING THIS FAMILY BACK!!💜we see this alot in the black community especially because alot of our mothers and grandmothers were hurt or are hurt. And not EQUIPPED with the tools to deal with their pain, and not damage US when we was growing up. And now as adults we raising our kids trying to break all this generational hurt... it's just crazy I hope someone reading this today can understand where I'm coming from or just understand me period 🙏🏽 💜

“Sit down” 😂

He should have kicked mom off the stage after she yelled at the daughter in the audience. Then she could have watched back stage while the daughters expressed their true feelings. There also should have been a therapy session before hand.

@jimt.626

Жыл бұрын

That’s what Steve Wilkos would’ve done

@AyeJye

Жыл бұрын

Exactly she said some abusive things!!!

@roslynhawkins1475

Жыл бұрын

@@jimt.626 And threw a chair

@jimt.626

Жыл бұрын

@@roslynhawkins1475 I forgot he did that and says "get the hell off my stage!!"

The mother is so angry and evil .. I felt so bad for the daughter in the audience she’s so MEAN to her .. she’s mean and JEALOUS of all them!! She doesn’t appreciate her BLESSINGS !!! May those girls love and nurture each other forever because sadly they won’t get it from her .. god bless the siblings ..

@michelleterrell5133

Жыл бұрын

She honestly reminds me of the mom in the movie Precious. She seems like an abusive person, and she needs therapy because there appears to be something else going on. The anger needs to be addressed.

@nikkiquinn1886

Жыл бұрын

I work with a woman just like her. She is so mean and angry with the world..she's a nightmare to work with!

@ShyLittle88

Жыл бұрын

@@michelleterrell5133 yes probably other issues that she's never gotten help for :(

It’s crazy how the mom was cruseing at her and it made me remember my life 😢

How I get outta here got me am sorry 😂😂😂

I really feel like the mother really loved her husband and from her having all girls, she built a jealousy towards them because her husband gave attention and love to the girls and she feels left out.

@mommameia2012

Жыл бұрын

Yesssss that’s exactly it. And now that he’s gone she feels like that love and attention she thought she wasn’t getting she’ll never get.

@deonlove9119

Жыл бұрын

He's not there to protect the girls from her now.

@heykanhey

Жыл бұрын

I agree! It seems like she feels she will never be loved again.

@cecilianavarro9879

Жыл бұрын

Child please! Now days everyone is accepting BAD BEHAVIOR. GIRLS CUT ALL TIES WITH THAT EVIL WITCH, RUN RUN..... Or your lives gonna be a living hell!

@jenasaisquoi9202

Жыл бұрын

@@heykanhey She just may be correct.