Mom Says Teen Son Refuses To Go To School, Lies, And Gets In Her Face With Anger

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A mom says her 17-year-old son refuses to go to school, lies about “everything,” and rages. What does she say she believes caused him to turn from an “extremely sweet, loving” boy to an anger-filled teen?
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  • @christianedwards3448
    @christianedwards34484 жыл бұрын

    Hates school, no hobbies, just sleeps in his free time... Isn't that called depression?

  • @Jacob-le6nh

    @Jacob-le6nh

    4 жыл бұрын

    No... no it’s not

  • @adriana8607

    @adriana8607

    4 жыл бұрын

    Actually these are in fact symptoms of depression

  • @angiedriggs2160

    @angiedriggs2160

    4 жыл бұрын

    SosaGamer ...you shouldnt say that. laziness isnt something that would affect him to be this disfunctional. it could be depressive side affects from doing drugs, insomnia, or anxiety. it could also be depression. it sureeee does sound like it. also, depression isnt just isolation. you should study it more. just because he doesnt lock himself in his room 24/7 does not mean he isnt depressed.

  • @hecklife6636

    @hecklife6636

    4 жыл бұрын

    SosaGamer laziness is a major factor of depression. what you’re describing is introversion.

  • @kamilmalinowski1267

    @kamilmalinowski1267

    4 жыл бұрын

    SosaGamer it could be social anxiety as well

  • @cshmnyj
    @cshmnyj4 жыл бұрын

    She’s more concerned with him hurting someone than killing himself. Sad

  • @kingkatyusha2424

    @kingkatyusha2424

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jada Nicole both are bad as each other

  • @lightningbolt4419

    @lightningbolt4419

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@kingkatyusha2424 He has an illness, shes just cruel

  • @dailydefaults

    @dailydefaults

    4 жыл бұрын

    Was gonna comment the same thing

  • @thegalwiththepig

    @thegalwiththepig

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@kingkatyusha2424 Not true.

  • @featuremarkstudios

    @featuremarkstudios

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@kingkatyusha2424 What an arrogant and uninformed comment. What you said is not even close. Killing yourself is selfish. But what's more selfish is to take away someone's life who didn't do anything to deserve it.

  • @iWillWakeYouUp
    @iWillWakeYouUp4 жыл бұрын

    Lmao the mom and her re-enactments of her son are cringy and hilarious

  • @ms.artichokecheesepizzawst3239

    @ms.artichokecheesepizzawst3239

    4 жыл бұрын

    I did laugh way to hard lol

  • @clucka

    @clucka

    4 жыл бұрын

    I think she was acting. So animated. LoL

  • @StellarNovah

    @StellarNovah

    4 жыл бұрын

    i think she was actually a pretty good actor lol. she should have went into a career in theater haha.

  • @knockhello2604

    @knockhello2604

    4 жыл бұрын

    Probably accurate

  • @cindyhehe1504

    @cindyhehe1504

    4 жыл бұрын

    0:52

  • @Evan250xxx
    @Evan250xxx4 жыл бұрын

    she’s killing his mental health

  • @kennethnystrom593

    @kennethnystrom593

    4 жыл бұрын

    she isnt at all, she is thou (and seemingly everyone around him giving him the impression he has the option to behave like this)

  • @Evan250xxx

    @Evan250xxx

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kenneth Nyström she gave him anxiety and refused let what he want

  • @kennethnystrom593

    @kennethnystrom593

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Evan250xxx Then id explain to the kid there is nothing to be anxious about, you got 1, 1 option.

  • @ericaschaidt8588

    @ericaschaidt8588

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kenneth Nyström you think you can explain away anxiety? That’s not how that works.

  • @XxX_afterHours_XxX

    @XxX_afterHours_XxX

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ericaschaidt8588 i concur. in life, there is no such thing as "one chance" and if he were to experiance the workload given on kids nowadays, he'd see something to be anxious about. chances are he's a bud light sippin' fucktard, but that's just me

  • @imanitaylor2484
    @imanitaylor24844 жыл бұрын

    "I never brought pot to school. I never brought nicotine to school. I did bring a vape to school, but I never brought nicotine to school."...Wasn't suppose to be funny, but I laughed so hard.

  • @robertwochoski3774

    @robertwochoski3774

    4 жыл бұрын

    Everyone did

  • @ericaschaidt8588

    @ericaschaidt8588

    4 жыл бұрын

    Imani Taylor while he may very well be lying it is possible. There are vape options that don’t contain nicotine or THC.

  • @emersonhawks

    @emersonhawks

    4 жыл бұрын

    There are vape liquids without nicotine but who knows if hes lying

  • @Ashton__

    @Ashton__

    4 жыл бұрын

    Imani Taylor ikr!!! VAPE JUICE HAS NICOTINE IN IT 😂

  • @trillnix3043

    @trillnix3043

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sounds like he’s acting

  • @MrBug-qp1zz
    @MrBug-qp1zz4 жыл бұрын

    Her recreating son's anger is just hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣wtfffff

  • @bennettlieberman1710

    @bennettlieberman1710

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lady Braybrooke yes I lol 😂😂😂 if only I was in the audience I’d be covering my mouth

  • @spce777

    @spce777

    4 жыл бұрын

    💀

  • @sa1187

    @sa1187

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😭

  • @bongo6022

    @bongo6022

    4 жыл бұрын

    I cringed sooooo hard

  • @cindyhehe1504

    @cindyhehe1504

    4 жыл бұрын

    0:52

  • @ThePersonator2000
    @ThePersonator20004 жыл бұрын

    You’re so concerned about “what if he does something to someone??” “He’s so angry all the time” When he just told you he was suicidal and you didn’t even voice his own self harm as a concern?

  • @m_-.430

    @m_-.430

    4 жыл бұрын

    He claims that he has anxiety yet he can talk in front of an audience without having any social anxiety yeah that seems legit

  • @syubbi

    @syubbi

    4 жыл бұрын

    tgf xp not all anxiety is social anxiety bub

  • @zZera

    @zZera

    4 жыл бұрын

    tgf xp dude. Having anxiety doesn’t mean you have social anxiety, they’re two different things

  • @amaniqiy

    @amaniqiy

    4 жыл бұрын

    tgf xp hmmm sis you don’t know the difference between some anxieties, don’t go around saying stuff you haven’t got a clue about

  • @indifferent.1588

    @indifferent.1588

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@m_-.430 sdfu

  • @Music4EverKanekavi
    @Music4EverKanekavi4 жыл бұрын

    Shes actually his biological *grandmother* His own sister had him, his biological father at that time injured him greatly as a baby, which is when the grandmother adopted him. Poor kid is suffering, he needs much greater attention by people who love him

  • @katies5356

    @katies5356

    4 жыл бұрын

    How do u know this

  • @ms.artichokecheesepizzawst3239

    @ms.artichokecheesepizzawst3239

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@katies5356 it's on previous clips .. I actually watched 2 of them before this clip . Just scroll through the next clips and you'll find them.

  • @ms.artichokecheesepizzawst3239

    @ms.artichokecheesepizzawst3239

    4 жыл бұрын

    You are joking right ? Greater Love ???? His father could have potentially killed him and his family saw and saved him from that!!! Protected him for harm and potential death . Gave him Love , gave him a home !!! Gave him everything!!! And it wasnt enough ? Your brain has ESCAPED TIME and made you an idiot ..

  • @katies5356

    @katies5356

    4 жыл бұрын

    d stu thanks!

  • @Coryraisa

    @Coryraisa

    4 жыл бұрын

    What he needs is a good rehab center, psychiatric intervention and perhaps a long-term in-patient treatment plan...that's the best love he can receive. Not pleading, not yelling back, not standing/sitting by helplessly and doing nothing.

  • @Youtubing5999
    @Youtubing59994 жыл бұрын

    If someone is short tempered or having an outburst you don’t keep provoking them! People do this at work all the time and I stay calm or walk away if they don’t stop. Also I’ve noticed all the kids who are “bad” on here have a helicopter parent!

  • @alana4554

    @alana4554

    4 жыл бұрын

    What's a helicopter parent?

  • @Sw33tLilMonstr

    @Sw33tLilMonstr

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@alana4554 basically a parent that controls every single thing you do. They go through your things, your phone and privacy and dont let you do anything on your own or have your own voice. I dont think these people are helicopter parents though

  • @alana4554

    @alana4554

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Sweet Little Monster ah okay thx :)

  • @kohlbyhayes9173

    @kohlbyhayes9173

    4 жыл бұрын

    If that behavior is ignored or tolerated it will continue

  • @liliavenus6503

    @liliavenus6503

    4 жыл бұрын

    I was raised around "bad kids" and I happen to be one (getting help now) and I've realized the only reason why bad kids act bad is because they feel bad inside. Obviously their not happy if they're screaming, acting out, getting trouble with the law. There is always something going on inside if you see a kid or a teen acting like that.

  • @nathanniesche6380
    @nathanniesche63804 жыл бұрын

    Seeing the mocking tone she has while talking to Dr. Phil about her grandson really makes me not like this lady.

  • @ggn4016
    @ggn40164 жыл бұрын

    Suspended for 10 days for a vape... LOOOLL he does sound like he’s acting but no way

  • @jewatokes5211

    @jewatokes5211

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kids fight at my school and get suspended for 3 days

  • @relishmayo2260

    @relishmayo2260

    4 жыл бұрын

    I go to school with him it aint acting

  • @sorayawhetung8661

    @sorayawhetung8661

    4 жыл бұрын

    Andrew Schaefer really?!

  • @harrywisniewski5017

    @harrywisniewski5017

    4 жыл бұрын

    Andrew Schaefer Michigan?

  • @danetteloveslife832

    @danetteloveslife832

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@relishmayo2260 he wasn't always like that though.

  • @emilymckenzie9296
    @emilymckenzie92964 жыл бұрын

    I feel really bad for him

  • @emilymckenzie9296

    @emilymckenzie9296

    4 жыл бұрын

    SaintyStarfishYT if you ever need to talk msg me on insta emsspamz20. I’m sorry that you’re going through that I went through really hard depression for 14 years but it gets better I promise

  • @ricardomorales8969

    @ricardomorales8969

    Жыл бұрын

    @Varix2006 being a teenager isn’t that fun

  • @kennethcochran5277

    @kennethcochran5277

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @alanmawson2187

    @alanmawson2187

    4 ай бұрын

    Me too

  • @violinistvanessa0922

    @violinistvanessa0922

    4 ай бұрын

    Me too

  • @emmam8682
    @emmam86824 жыл бұрын

    *kid: "im grieving over the loss of my friend and i hate school because it stresses me out and im feeling suicidal too"* *mom: "its the weed"*

  • @darajoyce5514

    @darajoyce5514

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wtf aaaaa just dismissing his pain aaaa

  • @locc989

    @locc989

    2 жыл бұрын

    fr fr

  • @Mandaxx25
    @Mandaxx254 жыл бұрын

    He's fed up of his parents treating him like that. Sometimes kids just can't catch a break. His mum seems bloody annoying. He could be on the spectrum. I was but wasn't diagnosed until 32 and i would have meltdowns and no one would know why or what I was talking about during them.

  • @justme-pv8yz

    @justme-pv8yz

    4 жыл бұрын

    I think so, i have 2 children on opposite ends of the spectrum.

  • @SleeplessinOC

    @SleeplessinOC

    4 жыл бұрын

    WhisperSparkles ASMR Since 2010 I feel sorry for this young man . Imagine all the pain and anger only to have your mom making it worse .

  • @twigaroho912

    @twigaroho912

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah definitely agree .. I have similar outburst like that at his age .. his hole explanation of things sounds like me at his age .. at 24 was diagnosed

  • @gpug4415

    @gpug4415

    4 жыл бұрын

    His friend killed himself. He’s in an angry grieving stage

  • @AlexRosario222

    @AlexRosario222

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gpug4415 he also got sexually abused by his real father, those are his grandparents they adopted him so he probably is having a hard time

  • @allisonnish9756
    @allisonnish97564 жыл бұрын

    Honestly kinda feel bad for the teen because he hates school and his parents aren't trying to talk to him about how to cope or make it easier. Of course he can deal with his anger better. However, I believe he just wants his family to see how he is feeling. This is just my opinion.

  • @darajoyce5514

    @darajoyce5514

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah

  • @alanmawson2187

    @alanmawson2187

    4 ай бұрын

    Agreed

  • @lolc-wm6fu
    @lolc-wm6fu4 жыл бұрын

    "I'm so angry I could hit someone right now ughhhhhhhhhh."

  • @123654789950

    @123654789950

    4 жыл бұрын

    A1 performance 🤣

  • @sa1187

    @sa1187

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😭

  • @ottersimms7672
    @ottersimms76724 жыл бұрын

    She hears her own son yell “school makes me want to kill myself” and she continues to egg him on. Like... get your son HELP. Nicotine, weed, and all other types of drugs are stemmed addictions because of personal pain. He needs help, he’s obviously struggling. I feel for him... he deserves somebody to really care and listen and understand him 💓

  • @marraine7299

    @marraine7299

    2 жыл бұрын

    At this point I consider a mom a good mom if she does something nice for her son once a year

  • @TheBizzle1984
    @TheBizzle19844 жыл бұрын

    The fake yelling nonsense is an intimidation tactic. He needs a lot of counseling. He's got a persecution complex. Also, his mom is clueless.

  • @kennethnystrom593

    @kennethnystrom593

    4 жыл бұрын

    More options is not what this youth needs. 1 option and all this vanishes.

  • @tapski1

    @tapski1

    4 жыл бұрын

    The mom is just who she is. The kid has behavioral Health issues that's all. Spread love please.

  • @bellareina05

    @bellareina05

    4 жыл бұрын

    His only issue is being spoiled and entitled. Save the parents the money from paying all these pseudo scientist and take everything away but the bare requirement. If he doesn't clean up his act he is off to job core or military school.

  • @XxX_afterHours_XxX

    @XxX_afterHours_XxX

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Elizabeth Brower and so do you.

  • @zoe-iu5ut

    @zoe-iu5ut

    4 жыл бұрын

    afterHours i agree with everything you’ve said, except how tf is psychology not actual science? how can something that you can study and get a degree for not be an actual science? i get that it’s not a rigorous science and the past experiments have been kinda racist and misogynistic, but c’mon. not everything that is measurable needs to be quantifiable in order to be a science. psychology has done a lot to further us and mental health. it’s not perfect but it’s getting there.

  • @victoriataylor6967
    @victoriataylor69674 жыл бұрын

    something about this mom rubs me the wrong way. she’s clearly been making the situation worse by adding to the tension and making little to no effort to understand her son. instead, she seems more focused on placing blame, being in the right, and pushing the responsibility of raising her son onto somebody else. talk to your kid. anger feeds anger

  • @position9925

    @position9925

    4 жыл бұрын

    She on opiates i feel

  • @SleeplessinOC

    @SleeplessinOC

    4 жыл бұрын

    JAY GEEBEE if you’re not gonna try to do it right , then she should not have adopted him at all . How much better off is he if his own grandmother isn’t making the effort to really hear him and understand him than being in the foster system ?

  • @ivyrose779

    @ivyrose779

    4 жыл бұрын

    JAY GEEBEE She his mother now. She adopted him so it’s her responsibility.

  • @featuremarkstudios

    @featuremarkstudios

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@jaygeebee7291 IRRELEVANT. It doesn't matter if she's his grandmother and not mother. The point is SHE TAKES CARE OF HIM. So, she needs to actually listen to him and try to understand him instead of trying to get a rise out of him. Do you understand how frustrating it is to go through something so hard and then for someone to completely disregard that? To have your whole world collapse before your eyes only to be MOCKED like she does to him. Get a clue.

  • @amazonamazing2742

    @amazonamazing2742

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s appropiate

  • @adenboogie3631
    @adenboogie36314 жыл бұрын

    His mom is just annoying, he just needs to be understood

  • @shanicebarth6918
    @shanicebarth69184 жыл бұрын

    He might be yelling but hes literally just trying to tell them how he feels... he said school makes him feel bad but they just write it off as a addiction and him being over dramatic.

  • @SuicideRedemption

    @SuicideRedemption

    4 жыл бұрын

    His friend committed suicide due to the kids at their school bullying him Video of him screaming about not wanting to go to school was taken not too long after he found out about his death He is grieving and in pain. Plus that lady isn't his actual mother. He found out his real mother is his sister.

  • @kcroeder
    @kcroeder4 жыл бұрын

    Dude that kid has every right to be mad. Those parents are out of touch.

  • @joshblack4407
    @joshblack44074 жыл бұрын

    Lol she's turning him insane, I bet she has no hobbies, her son is probably her hobby..

  • @darajoyce5514

    @darajoyce5514

    2 жыл бұрын

    What how is that even possible

  • @ArchWolfVegasEditor
    @ArchWolfVegasEditor4 жыл бұрын

    He’s so concerned with other people seeing the wrong they do to him but he couldn’t care less about what all that screaming is doing to other people.

  • @kennethnystrom593

    @kennethnystrom593

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeep thats pretty much it. (to low price to behave "bad")

  • @bellareina05

    @bellareina05

    4 жыл бұрын

    He would not be screaming at me his butt would be on the next bus to job core

  • @ladyrain299

    @ladyrain299

    4 жыл бұрын

    Maybe because he feels like no one cares about the hurt that was done to him.

  • @ladyrain299

    @ladyrain299

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tough Bickies the abuse he received as an infant and the trauma of being adopted in general.

  • @ladyrain299

    @ladyrain299

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tough Bickies does he? Or does that soft place feel full of uncomfortable lies and secrets? I’m just saying, he shouldn’t have to be grateful his parents love him.

  • @cassgruberman6425
    @cassgruberman64254 жыл бұрын

    I'd hate that woman too. She's so set in her ways and is the one with the real issues

  • @uk9383

    @uk9383

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree

  • @m20tjm
    @m20tjm4 жыл бұрын

    How is this his mum, she seems like one of the least scary people when she’s angry if that’s what she’s like

  • @Annat4r

    @Annat4r

    4 жыл бұрын

    He's adopted I believe good sir

  • @michelleboldan5

    @michelleboldan5

    4 жыл бұрын

    He’s adopted

  • @m20tjm

    @m20tjm

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ahh yes on closer inspection I put a gap in my intelligence at the moment of making that comment

  • @Annat4r

    @Annat4r

    4 жыл бұрын

    Don't sweat it, it happens to everyone

  • @m20tjm

    @m20tjm

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ah hah according to someone else in this comment section she’s the grandmother so what I said above could be true( putting faith into someone else)

  • @tasha3757
    @tasha37574 жыл бұрын

    He's DEPRESSED for goodness sake! HE'S DEALING WITH A FRIEND WHO JUST COMMITTED SUICIDE! Smh

  • @irenedontoh3539
    @irenedontoh35394 жыл бұрын

    Sorry to say this, but the mom looks funny when she's mimicking and imitating her son

  • @happydayz7857

    @happydayz7857

    4 жыл бұрын

    Irene Dontoh reminds me of Kathy bates in Misery

  • @CashCatMoney

    @CashCatMoney

    4 жыл бұрын

    ...it kind of looks like she's pooping

  • @irenedontoh3539

    @irenedontoh3539

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@CashCatMoney 😂🤣🙊🙊

  • @marsdapoet1740
    @marsdapoet17404 жыл бұрын

    He clearly is doing this for attention sometimes the only way to get it is to act out negatively. She needs to hear her son out before it’s too late

  • @dustinfitzmaurice8592

    @dustinfitzmaurice8592

    4 жыл бұрын

    KeeannaVibes I think it is to late.....

  • @SuicideRedemption

    @SuicideRedemption

    4 жыл бұрын

    His friend committed suicide due to the kids at their school bullying him Video of him screaming about not wanting to go to school was taken not too long after he found out about his death He is grieving and in pain.

  • @luke1835
    @luke18353 жыл бұрын

    I struggled with mental health at his age. I still do. If my mother behaved like his, I absolutely would not be here right now.

  • @glenistergrotj3022
    @glenistergrotj3022 Жыл бұрын

    Sounds like the kid has depression. Not going to school, loosing joy in life and not having hobbies, sleeping in his free time, having sudden outbursts. Those are all signs of depression, I don’t think he’s a bad person. Depression can change people and make people snap no matter who the person is.

  • @yoojinjan7664
    @yoojinjan76644 жыл бұрын

    The only thing this boy need is someone to talk to him , and listen to him , that's all

  • @Ashton__

    @Ashton__

    4 жыл бұрын

    yoo jin jan he needs a hiding

  • @Melody_On_Pawz1

    @Melody_On_Pawz1

    4 жыл бұрын

    He definitely needs that but it’s also definitely not that simple

  • @OGStarlightKY

    @OGStarlightKY

    4 жыл бұрын

    @WINTER Well you're uneducated if you think he's smoking just to do it. He clearly stated that he has anxiety. And his best friend commited suicide.

  • @featuremarkstudios

    @featuremarkstudios

    4 жыл бұрын

    @WINTER You're a moron. Ever think maybe he gets high because no one listens to him?

  • @tripocular
    @tripocular4 жыл бұрын

    Mom- “my greatest concern is him hurting someone” You should probably worry about him hurting himself He seems stressed, and as a teen who’s about to go to high school and has been through stuff just hear him out

  • @helloandgoodmorning3596
    @helloandgoodmorning35964 жыл бұрын

    The mom reenacting her son's tantrums tho😆😆😆😂😂😂

  • @SuicideRedemption

    @SuicideRedemption

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's not his actual mom.its his grandma

  • @martingardner9124

    @martingardner9124

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SuicideRedemption it’s his grandma turned mom.

  • @Vunu20k
    @Vunu20k4 жыл бұрын

    She said shes afraid hes gonna kill someone, when the person hes gonna kill is himself

  • @blxckdixmonds
    @blxckdixmonds4 жыл бұрын

    0:05 “well don’t tell me i can drop out if i’m not gonna be able to.” .... my boy has a point

  • 3 жыл бұрын

    I laughed so hard

  • @elliemartin4155
    @elliemartin41554 жыл бұрын

    i just watched a video before this about this, his friend just killed him self. parents and adults need to try and understand. his friend killed him self because of bullies at school. why would you want to go somewhere that constantly reminds you of your dead friend? why would you want to go to where the people who lead your friend to death are?

  • @blakeholland1562
    @blakeholland15624 жыл бұрын

    she needs to calm down but he’s still too easily aggravated.

  • @bennettlieberman1710

    @bennettlieberman1710

    4 жыл бұрын

    xanaxc- ‘ nobody is calm under pressure

  • @ericaschaidt8588

    @ericaschaidt8588

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bennett Lieberman that’s not entirely true.

  • @AnnaGibson

    @AnnaGibson

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm so confused the mom was calm for the entire video

  • @gotatoka8114

    @gotatoka8114

    4 жыл бұрын

    Anonymously yours, and why doesn’t his mom leave him alone she is a helicopter parent anyway

  • @SuicideRedemption

    @SuicideRedemption

    4 жыл бұрын

    His friend committed suicide due to the kids at their school bullying him Video of him screaming about not wanting to go to school was taken not too long after he found out about his death He is grieving and in pain. Plus that lady is his grandmother. He was lied to all his life. They told him she was his mom and that his actual mom is his sister. His world came crashing down

  • @sethmoneygetter7140
    @sethmoneygetter71404 жыл бұрын

    That “mom” is definitely looking for empathy, manipulative, and clueless.

  • @audreywhite6592
    @audreywhite65924 жыл бұрын

    He doesn’t seem like a bad kid he’s just getting bullied

  • @SuicideRedemption

    @SuicideRedemption

    4 жыл бұрын

    His friend committed suicide due to the kids at their school bullying him Video of him screaming about not wanting to go to school was taken not too long after he found out about his death He is grieving and in pain. Plus that lady isnt his actual mom.its his grandma. He found out that she lied to him his entire life saying she was his mom and his actual mom his sister His whole world has come crumbling down.

  • @kaywee4200

    @kaywee4200

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@SuicideRedemption goodness :(

  • @martingardner9124

    @martingardner9124

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes. That’s his problem. It’s all since his friend committed suicide

  • @AlexRosario222

    @AlexRosario222

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SuicideRedemption on top of that, the reason she adopted him was because his father was SA him when he was a baby so the court took him away from them and gave him to her

  • @martingardner9124

    @martingardner9124

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s his issue. It’s after his friend committed suicide.

  • @shlogedis2364
    @shlogedis23644 жыл бұрын

    his friend literally killed himself. hes having a hard time and shes not helping him at all

  • @glenistergrotj3022
    @glenistergrotj3022 Жыл бұрын

    The fact that she is scared of him hurting someone but she isn’t concerned about his well being is just sad. I don’t think he would hurt someone, I think he’s at risk of suicide.

  • @goofball2228
    @goofball22282 жыл бұрын

    I know what it’s like to be an angry teenager. I was an angry teenager who raged like that. His rage is stemming from his sadness and fear. He needs someone to hear him out.

  • @Great_WesternTVFan
    @Great_WesternTVFan2 жыл бұрын

    His stress, anxiety and anger actually match with mine

  • @ryleelawler6202
    @ryleelawler62024 жыл бұрын

    This poor kid is clearly suffering. He needs help managing his mental health. Saying "oh hes so angry" shuts down and invalidates what hes feeling. He already said he wanted to kill himself and she didnt bat an eye

  • @ktalbert700
    @ktalbert7004 жыл бұрын

    Man, that kid is literally a spitting image of myself and probably many others in this generation

  • @darajoyce5514

    @darajoyce5514

    2 жыл бұрын

    That is the literally pain

  • @bshays21
    @bshays214 жыл бұрын

    My mom is like her. I still have night terrors about school. See those bullies in public and shut down quick.

  • @sola9219
    @sola92194 жыл бұрын

    I've been suffering with depression and suicidal thoughts too, but I haven't shouted and voice it out loud like that. That really means he's really done, he had too much. It must have been so painful for him.

  • @jupiterzombies
    @jupiterzombies4 жыл бұрын

    "what does he do for fun?" "nothing that i know of" THAT is how you can tell she is not paying any attention to her son or listening to him at all

  • @kkerr1993
    @kkerr19934 жыл бұрын

    I’m scared for this young man’s safety, especially when he’s vocalizing that he wants to kill himself and his parents are doing NOTHING. I’m praying he gets help and sees life is worth living. This is coming from a 4-time suicide survivor.

  • @bigbill5865
    @bigbill58654 жыл бұрын

    She acts like he should act like a typical teen...

  • @ladyrain299
    @ladyrain2994 жыл бұрын

    So this child who was adopted and lied to about his parentage for years...is diagnosed with ptsd from the infant hood trauma he endured... The cannabis is treating his ptsd. He should see a dr about a prescription and get his medical card. Cannabis is a highly effective medication for ptsd. He should be allowed to explore his parentage and given support in discovering such a critical part of himself. And his parents should be supportive and loving. They should be the soft and warm and loving place that a child deserves.

  • @guridurituriduri
    @guridurituriduri4 жыл бұрын

    "I dunno what makes him happy." "He has to go out with his friends all the time."

  • @bahaamohamad9296
    @bahaamohamad92964 жыл бұрын

    If that was my child I’d get him serious help

  • @darajoyce5514

    @darajoyce5514

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @allisonfields3108
    @allisonfields31084 жыл бұрын

    The way she reenacts his behavior reads almost like she's mocking him

  • @lamasu8060
    @lamasu80604 жыл бұрын

    So.....he was adopted to be taken away from an abusive father.....to be put into a family with an abusive mother. Crazy.

  • @raeganhall8777
    @raeganhall87774 жыл бұрын

    she’s dramatic lol

  • @cailinschaub2835
    @cailinschaub28354 жыл бұрын

    Everybody needs breaks sometimes. It’s even harder for him when his own mom doesn’t listen to him. If your son openly admits that he wants to KILL himself, the fact that you would even let it get to that point is disgusting, but any sane parent would sit down with him and comfort him.

  • @jlstump849
    @jlstump8494 жыл бұрын

    I want to give him a hug so bad right now.

  • @xxPinkyGeekxx
    @xxPinkyGeekxx4 жыл бұрын

    Jeez woman, he will calm down when u leave him alone. Tbh if I was her son I got mad too

  • @Peepsyx3

    @Peepsyx3

    4 жыл бұрын

    right? she is ready to crucify him on everything he says, no wonder he lies! yikes.

  • @gerard7417
    @gerard74174 жыл бұрын

    He's actually a very smart young guy he just needs a better a good support system

  • @LoVE.B.
    @LoVE.B.4 жыл бұрын

    *This is called, living in your head.*

  • @shizukusan9716
    @shizukusan97164 жыл бұрын

    When she said “ it’s not good for your Brain “ I stopped sighed and said bruh so loudly

  • @sharontt2203
    @sharontt22034 жыл бұрын

    What’s actually terrifying and disappointing is that the mother is more concerned about his son hurting other people than actually caring about his health smh

  • @vfxved9601
    @vfxved9601 Жыл бұрын

    The mom says says he's going crazy, but is he? Or is it that you're making him crazy, and increasing his burden?

  • @rossdiamondthief6627
    @rossdiamondthief66272 жыл бұрын

    I get most adolescents tend to overreact about things, but it drives me nuts when ones actually going through a tough time and is suffering from clear depression but the parents still shrug it off to them being “childish” or “immature”

  • @goofball2228

    @goofball2228

    11 ай бұрын

    I myself am 15 and I had depression. He definitely seems depressed.

  • @harvey__
    @harvey__4 жыл бұрын

    Dr.Phil, please make a follow up with this and give this young man some help! Im in his shoes rn (except for the friend killing them selves, my uncle assaulted me) and im starting counselling soon. please please get him help

  • @amantyde
    @amantyde4 жыл бұрын

    Dr.Phil,Your Show is absolutely Beautiful And Wonderful. I Love it So Much,Seeing You Fixing Families And Well...Life. Thank You.

  • @swkohn1279
    @swkohn12794 жыл бұрын

    The mother doesn't get that him saying he's going to hurt something/someone then going to him room is him restraining himself from doing something he'll regret. What a terrible parent.

  • @jafrayanes8354
    @jafrayanes83544 жыл бұрын

    He's 17, let him start to figure it out...

  • @rustyshackleford691

    @rustyshackleford691

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jafra Yanes the thing about Dr. Phil is that he makes a spectacle out of these kids lives and always takes the parents side. He just needs to live his life and get a therapist for the suicidal tendencies he has instead of being publicly dragged on TV.

  • @johnpatrick3968
    @johnpatrick39684 жыл бұрын

    We all experience that same feeling.

  • @Great_WesternTVFan
    @Great_WesternTVFan2 жыл бұрын

    I'm actually enjoying that boy's complaints and criticism to the mother, it's so good

  • @ripdiptatterchip3851
    @ripdiptatterchip38514 жыл бұрын

    lmao “i’ve never brought nicotine to school. i brought a vape but not nicotine”

  • @hardendurobosnia17
    @hardendurobosnia174 жыл бұрын

    PLEASE LISTEN TO THIS I was a bad student and angry like him, i've gone through a lot of stuff in my life, It ALL ENDED when i started riding enduro on a dirt bike, i swear its better than any medicine or medical help. You should try it

  • @thesetruths1404
    @thesetruths14046 ай бұрын

    I have a son, 16, who does not want to do anything chore or responsibility related. He wants to be entertained or sleep. I don't know what to do.

  • @clairepelley6786
    @clairepelley67864 жыл бұрын

    He needs help and comfort , and he isn’t getting that

  • @Barbiturico1998
    @Barbiturico19984 жыл бұрын

    U can clearly tell here by how reacts that he is in a very defensive state, I can tell that he’s probably not having a “great” time on school or maybe someone is bullying him or something. When I was younger I always used to be like this, always came from school crying and always got angry at everything (specially if they wanted to blame me for something), my parents always had trusting issues with me even tho I was a good student and daughter. I got bullied a lot and always tried to reach my teachers but didn’t care, tried reach my parents but they were always busy and always said to me “oh u just don’t have to listen to them, if u don’t they’re gonna get over it, since is not gonna be “fun” anymore, and their gonna go look someone else”. It did, it did ended when stop caring, but it really hurted me a lot , make me felt like I was alone a not having anyone, and definitely influenced my now ME. I hope this guy finds a way to make through it, and find peace and enough strength too.. What doesn’t kill you, it makes u stronger I guess...

  • @mjcamck
    @mjcamck4 жыл бұрын

    "You don't care that you hurt other people?" Doesn't this grandmother care that SHE'S hurting HIM!?" I think that he's very unhappy . . . " Sorry, but with cold caregivers like you & your husband, MOST children would be unhappy. This young man is confused and needs caring guidance which these two grandparents seem ignorant of how to provide. I hope all three of them receive the consideration ALL human beings deserve. For the record, EVERYONE needs to vent anger once in a while.

  • @kbrad4280
    @kbrad42802 жыл бұрын

    His eyes when he is screaming on the bed, his pupils are huge.

  • @Trackman71
    @Trackman714 жыл бұрын

    God I feel bad for this kid when I had problems during high school I had freak outs like these but at least I had parents that calmed me down especially my mom she was with me throughout it. He’s not the problem she is.

  • @mikok21ify
    @mikok21ify4 жыл бұрын

    My name is Michael and I totally understand how he feels everyday in my life and I'm 30 .. it's like mfs try to degrade you. They push you.. I totally understand this

  • @gracetanner4132
    @gracetanner41324 жыл бұрын

    I feel bad for him seems like a nice kid he’s in a period of his life where he’s stuck

  • @nyny5896
    @nyny58963 жыл бұрын

    Mother: And if stunk like skunk Me in my head: BARS

  • @shawnyjohnson4456
    @shawnyjohnson44564 жыл бұрын

    He has alot of anger issues, depression anxiety issues and his mother isnt helping the situation at all. She needs to sot him down and find out why hes so angry she needs to put him therapy and start family.counseling with him.

  • @kendallh.9554
    @kendallh.95544 жыл бұрын

    he looks like matt from david’s vlog

  • @subtlecupholder7899

    @subtlecupholder7899

    4 жыл бұрын

    When he was yelling in bed it almost looked like it could of been taken from a vine.

  • @nightcorebeatzx8652
    @nightcorebeatzx86524 жыл бұрын

    This makes me not want to have kids 😂😂

  • @rivkydiamant

    @rivkydiamant

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sarah Monroe maybe watch the Gardner quad squad or some other family channel instead of one with issues.

  • @ericradford2142

    @ericradford2142

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tell me about it.

  • @SuicideRedemption

    @SuicideRedemption

    4 жыл бұрын

    His friend committed suicide due to the kids at their school bullying him Video of him screaming about not wanting to go to school was taken not too long after he found out about his death He is grieving and in pain. Plus that lady isnt his actual mom.its his grandma. He found out that she lied to him his entire life saying she was his mom and his actual mom his sister His whole world has come crumbling down. That's why he is acting out

  • @darajoyce5514

    @darajoyce5514

    2 жыл бұрын

    lol same, I'm too scared that I'll lash out my anger at my children after work

  • @CUlataKatie
    @CUlataKatie4 жыл бұрын

    i was like this in high school. i only got better when i was put on antidepressants, and started family therapy. he’s not a punk, he’s struggling. this mother and dr phil are exploiting him. after therapy i got my ged, moved out on my own and i’m now in my second year of vet school.

  • @exphurtfan
    @exphurtfan4 жыл бұрын

    Studying Mental Health here. The problem is his mother won't let him be a young adult. From what I've seen (including 1 previous video) is that he feels like he cannot do anything and feels like he isn't being heard or understood. His manipulation is just his way of surviving in the environment he is in right now (he doesn't deny that he doesn't) because he feels that nobody understands what he is going through. I can empathise with this as I have been in a similar situation myself in the past.

  • @Nickster-jw8ql
    @Nickster-jw8ql4 жыл бұрын

    “I did bring a vape but I never brought nicotine to school”. Wax? 😂

  • @ericaschaidt8588

    @ericaschaidt8588

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nickster 3073 there are vape options that are nicotine free.

  • @ladyrain299

    @ladyrain299

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nickster 3073 legal cannabis vapes are nicotine free.

  • @owenchuarbx
    @owenchuarbx4 жыл бұрын

    I had been in that misanthrophic situation before

  • @mads3732
    @mads37324 жыл бұрын

    Any kid that deals with the same level of parenting and mental health issues sees this in a different light.

  • @_theCritter
    @_theCritter4 жыл бұрын

    Most of the time when there's a problem with the kid it most of the time stems back to the parents.

  • @beccablack6807
    @beccablack68074 жыл бұрын

    Hold up mom said stunk like skunk..shes a smoker lol

  • @Cory_Springer

    @Cory_Springer

    4 жыл бұрын

    ?

  • @beccablack6807

    @beccablack6807

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Cory_Springer your obviously not a smoker...

  • @Cory_Springer

    @Cory_Springer

    4 жыл бұрын

    Oh I am. It helps many of the symptoms of my Multiple Sclerosis. But her saying that, does not tell me she smokes.

  • @carlapoch4177

    @carlapoch4177

    4 жыл бұрын

    Believe it or not you don't have to be a smoker to know what weed smells like.

  • @Cory_Springer

    @Cory_Springer

    4 жыл бұрын

    In my experience it is actually non-smokers who make the skunk comment. Not because they know it's a reference to Marijuana, but because it smells similar to a skunk (you know, the animal)

  • @philhancin3489
    @philhancin34894 жыл бұрын

    Reccomend at 7am, I click. Must sleep now.

  • @bianca-gl6hd
    @bianca-gl6hd4 жыл бұрын

    his mental health is concerning I really hope he gets help but when his mother did those impressions of him and the dramatic music starting playing when he was going off like “I never bought weed to school..” that all the way sent meee 😭

  • @oOISekaIOo
    @oOISekaIOo4 жыл бұрын

    Poor guy... a lot of older generations are so clueless and uneducated about mental health. I’m 28 now and been struggling with it since 15. Usual answer is you don’t have a reason to be depressed. This guy has “a reason”, it’s obvious that he needs therapy.

  • @yunggizzyt9168
    @yunggizzyt91684 жыл бұрын

    He had a point on smoking weed though

  • @katherineduke9042

    @katherineduke9042

    4 жыл бұрын

    Actually it has been proven that most ppl that end up in the ER for panic attacks and anxiety are high on marijuana. It does for some ppl fix anxiety but most ppl it induces anxiety.

  • @yunggizzyt9168

    @yunggizzyt9168

    4 жыл бұрын

    Katie Duke yes I’m not no expert but I reckon for people like him it could help him calm down and not get so angry and frustrated but you do have a point

  • @katherineduke9042

    @katherineduke9042

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@yunggizzyt9168 There is just so many other healthy ways to fix anxiety and panic attacks. Antidepressants and anti anxiety meds from a doctor and therapy with a psychologist. My son had panic attacks and anxiety. I took him to the doctor. Hes on two meds and seeing a psychologist to learn how to defuse a panic attack and anxiety. Hes almost 95% better. Without marijuana. I just think drugs is never the option. Just my opinion. We all have a different opinion. I understand that.

  • @yfs9035

    @yfs9035

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@katherineduke9042 Yes it can cause panic attacks but that's usually from the "I did illegal drugs" stigma

  • @patrikios1800

    @patrikios1800

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@katherineduke9042 do you know that those meds ur talking about are drugs as well and not the innocent ones. Some antidepressants like xanax can be way more dangerous on the body than weed.

  • @kaylabreault519
    @kaylabreault5194 жыл бұрын

    Technically shouldn’t be smoking or vaping marijuana at a young age due to your brain still developing

  • @chupacabra2032
    @chupacabra20324 жыл бұрын

    I totally get the dude... he is so unhappy. He wants to be understood and helped by his mother and no one helps him! He is mentally not okay anymore. He’s been trough a lot and it damaged him. I’ve been and I am still going trough this! It’s really tuff.. the anger issues are just everything that’s cramped up inside and someone needs to say or do something when ur not in the mood (what is basically all the time) and you can get so fkn mad.

  • @dubssalamander
    @dubssalamander4 жыл бұрын

    I know exactly how this kid feels with his mental health isssues, I know what it’s like to deal with parents that really don’t understand the feeling of depression, I can clearly see that the kid is hurting inside, it’s the reason he tried drugs, it’s a hard thing to get over

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