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@barringtonedwards7008

Ай бұрын

😂😂 ISAIAH 18:7+45:15+43:7+62:2+65:15+1PETER 1+5+REVELATION 3:12+11:17: CHRIST HAS A NEW NAME AND HAS BEGUN HIS RULE AND HAS A NEW NAME AND SO DO HIS PEOPLE. CHRIST IS ON EARTH GATHERING HIS SHEEP RIGHT NOW. YOU'RE A JOKE MORTALS BOY😂😂

@marcreiter5675

27 күн бұрын

What music is that?

@machoman23

25 күн бұрын

people are basically good? bible says opposite bro

@Josh-sz8ip

24 күн бұрын

​@@machoman23 That assumption is what leads to indulgence.

@machoman23

24 күн бұрын

@@Josh-sz8ip alrighty then

Man it’s like you spoke right to me. I’ve been sitting here in tears with a gun to my head. I just hit my 30s and have nothing to show for it. I feel like my life is over or even if I do get it turned around nobody will care. Our world has become so separated these days nothing even makes sense anymore. I am battling constant pain everyday. I can’t leave my place I can’t talk to people. Some traumatic stuff happened over the past 10 years and tonight I just snapped. I picked up my phone to see if anyone responded to my texts. Nobody did but I saw the KZread app and thought maybe a funny video will take me out of this dark headspace. Funny videos only made it worse. Then I saw your video and clicked. You saved my life tonight man.

@TheConsciousMan143

Ай бұрын

It's not an accident this video found you in the timing that it did. The Divine (you can call it God, The universe, it doesn't matter) is with you brother. It transcends religion, opinions, and everything we think we know about reality. I've been at the end of my rope... Deep suffering is what ultimately brought me to the place of healing, love, and the clarity I have today... Your purpose is bigger than you know. Once I felt like I had nothing to lose, and lost my fear of death, I started to live fully, fearlessly, unapologetically... I thought I wanted to die physically, because my ego was dying, in a sense. Turns out the death of my ego was actually freedom to be my authentic self. An easy actionable step for you, a small place to start: Start taking long daily walks, with headphones while listening to the audio book "The Power of Now" by Eckart Tolle. Listen with an open heart. Sending you infinite love my friend. You are not alone in any of this, even in the darkest of times.

@mr.increediblle7964

Ай бұрын

Brother, you are not an accident. Life can be difficult, but there is hope as long as you choose to keep living. I am 35 years old, $80k in debt, and all my best friends are married with kids and own houses. I've self-isolated for the past decade and own nothing except an old car. My father was never around and worked all the time, and my mom projected her life trauma onto all her kids. Every day is a struggle, but somehow i am hopeful everyday and videos like these help keep my hope alive. Life can be lonely, tough, and downright miserable, but we often forget that it can also be beautiful. Find a community of men, maybe at church, a volunteer group, or a sports team. We are meant to be part of communities. Trust me, I know it's hard, but it is worth it. Despite being one of the worst communicators, my best friends have deemed me worthy of their friendship. Unplugging from social media, work out everyday, daily journaling, WATCH VIDEOS LIKE THESE FIRST THING IN THE MORNING AND AT NIGHT and positive affirmations are helpful. I hope and pray that you find peace in your heart and mind. The internet makes it seem like life is a terrible place, but it is not.

@Ciskuss

Ай бұрын

​@@TheConsciousMan143thanks for everything. Can you make a video on how to leave a girl when you are afraid of loneliness or you feel guilty to breakup because she's really supporting and caring? thank you

@mordie31

Ай бұрын

😢

@Michael0663-qo4wx

Ай бұрын

Don’t feel so bad…I’m almost 50 and have nothing to show for it. But suicide is never a thought.

Left the gym yesterday and felt depressed walking back to my truck. I knew a long and lonely weekend was ahead of me. I love the gym and eating real food. Got up this morning to make my first meal but put everything back in the refrigerator and got back in the bed. The loneliness and depression is too much sometimes. I'll just play videogames today. 40 year old AF Vet here.

@Johnhargrove18

Ай бұрын

Thinking about joining the military at 19, did you enjoy what you did?

@g_eric333

Ай бұрын

@@Johnhargrove18don’t be willing to die for a country that doesn’t care about you.

@user-sf5iq2fl1l

Ай бұрын

go to sex workers its a little help then go to the gym, eat well, paint chairs, sign up to paddle

@Adrian-yv1te

Ай бұрын

Have you considered volunteering?

@austingray6885

Ай бұрын

@@g_eric333What is a country? Are you implying that we’re entitled to something from said country? Explain.

As a young man I don’t see the point of existing in this evil ass world and society that shame all of us.

@Trisof88

Ай бұрын

I'm struggling day to day suffering in my mind, knowing the truth about this hellscape. Seeing people ignorant and faking on just baffles me. I can't socialize anymore, I just can't do it anymore.

@TonyTheTiger1000

Ай бұрын

@@Trisof88 believe me bro I feel you this existing is a shithole I really don’t see any good reason to keep going anymore it’s no wonder a lot of young man checked out in today society gonna get more worse.

@JourneyWithJoel

Ай бұрын

I send you love, friends. I don’t know exactly what you’re going through but I do know that life is worth living. To be able to breathe, to listen to great music, to eat food, to feel the wind on your face, to feel the rush of exercise. I’m grateful for all these things. I know it’s difficult where you’re at and I’ve been at a similar place. I’ve been through hell, heck I’m going through it right now. It’s not easy but I’ve seen the beauty life has to offer despite the pain and suffering. Once again, I send you love, and may your days be blessed with beauty and prosperity, even if they aren’t right now 😊

@winterwulf1995

Ай бұрын

I promised myself last Christmas that if things don't look up soon this will be my last year alive. Things have not looked up they have actively gotten worse so with that in mind "Thanks world it's been...... Horrible. I'm out. Fuck you all and have a nice day"

@AndrewTheVikings

Ай бұрын

This is because we are living in hard times now my man. This is not the first time, it has happened before. If you look at ancient history on how men struggle and how they got their lives together you will see what I mean. This is history repeating itself.

We men hurt in silence

@George546-he5tz

26 күн бұрын

The silence alone is painful.

@NIKKISNOODLE

26 күн бұрын

Hi, I’m not saying men don’t, I know for a fact that they do. After 40+ years I found my brothers suicide letter. I had no idea it even existed. When my mom died, I found it in her things. I also had no idea that he was in such emotional pain. I wish he would’ve let me know what he was feeling. I was only 15 when he died but I loved him more than anyone else in my family. But he always had his game face on. Fast forward to the last 10 yrs. or so and that permits me to say I can totally relate to suffering in silence and btw, I’m a female. The only one that I open up to is God. He’s the only one that I have that I can talk to. I may not hear his replies but at least I’m releasing some of my pain out into the cosmos and not totally keeping everything bottled up.

@Privateinvite

20 күн бұрын

Dude think about it, just sit back and search for this same exact topic. I bunch of dudes going on about life like it's over. Seek help man, Don't give up 🙏

@johncalhoun9335

20 күн бұрын

There's a reason why we men say the things we do ,and not many know how to listen other than themselves ,so yeah . Society ,men and woman choose to not care about there neighbors ,let the truth set us free

@wattsnottaken1

19 күн бұрын

So true

I'm 49 yrs old 50 in August fingers crossed I score this job from KFC its a 5 minute walk from home 🎉

@dizzydells1540

Ай бұрын

My man yep convenient and living within your means.

@vd.s6158

Ай бұрын

Congrats. That's a good beginning, but not the end. You got this!

@Stoneybv

Ай бұрын

Fuck yeah! 🙌🏽

@henryhoover3953

Ай бұрын

👊

@dariusowens1060

Ай бұрын

You got it.

this camera style outside the car is a unique way to film. got me watchin lol

@TheConsciousMan143

Ай бұрын

I appreciate it!

@diegofranco7500

Ай бұрын

Yeah, it's very cinematic!

@grays13371

Ай бұрын

he is not ok coz he still search for a charger 😂

@jamesbyrne9312

Ай бұрын

I think he's being ironic lol..Great vi d tho

@dariusowens1060

Ай бұрын

Shit feel like a movie 😂🔥

I'm sixty years old, no children, never married, recently lost my job. For the last few weeks, I've been thinking about how the remainder of life will be and it doesn't look good. If I live too long all I have to look forward to is living in "retirement home" having someone wipe my a$$. That is my biggest fear, being a burden to someone, not going to happen under my watch.😐

@Michael_RareZebra

15 күн бұрын

Pretty much the same circumstance brother......it's an odd feeling that I tuck away.

@johnpruett2255

15 күн бұрын

I wipe those asses for a living, from what I observe it's really not so bad because you make friends with people in the same boat. You can still enjoy several more years with good people & share so many stories and similar experiences with people in your same demographic & from the same era with the same great memories....be present in that and soak up what you can from your surroundings. I've done this for a year & I've never cried so much in my life which is really strange for me but I accept it for what it is which is just another experience in life. I cry because I get to know people and when it's their time to die it's very very sad....

@thestruggler776

3 күн бұрын

You know, i cant really give good advice on how to get a job, but what I’ve learned from the shit ive been too is just to not think about it. Some things cant be changed, no matter how hard you try so why bother yourself over them. but keep on going and treat yourself sometimes. Wishing you the best

I am already in peace that I will stay single until the day I die. This seriously feels like the end of times are coming slowly.. The loneliness is unbearable, even if you are in a crowd of people

@1594simonsays

21 күн бұрын

I despise most people. Evil little elves

@wattsnottaken1

19 күн бұрын

Damn. this is me. I’m happy I’m not alone

@igor_rybovic

19 күн бұрын

@@wattsnottaken1 It's not your or mine fault brother. The world became this way

Men live a life of quiet desperation

@FoxyWhispers

15 күн бұрын

Nah you guys actually have real friends to help you lmao.

@JiMMY-my1ds

14 күн бұрын

@@FoxyWhispers yeah okay. Talk some more shit.

@FoxyWhispers

14 күн бұрын

@JiMMY-my1ds If I wanted to diss you then I'd call you all chauvinistic pigs. Can't handle the truth? Idgaf. Cope some more.

@FoxyWhispers

14 күн бұрын

@@JiMMY-my1ds Men are more universally liked. Cope harder.

@FoxyWhispers

14 күн бұрын

@@JiMMY-my1ds Cope harder.

Compassionate, conservative woman here. I am thinking and praying for all of you men. Mentally all of us are being tested. I choose to be alone after what I’ve gone through and I do not cause trouble for anyone else. I wish everyone the best but I have to keep my distance because technology, traumas, and lack of real parents have isolated a large number of us. We can turn this around! I’m reading books trying to work through my PTSD (former first responder, adoptee, and rape victim x2), so far The Body Keeps The Score has really made the connection with my body that I lacked. Love you bros!

@NikosM112

10 күн бұрын

You don't care and don't pretend like you do. Now go to chad's house where you want to be.

I am a woman who developed a romantic friendship with a guy friend. We're kind of fwb but i feel we are more deep friends. When we first started hanging out on a personal level, he started opening up to me right away. His eyes ststted glistening. He said i was asking the right questions and thats why he always opens up to me. I couldn't figure out his energy when we first started dating. Then months ago, i realized it was his inner child asking me to care for him. When he was a kid, his parents neglected him. He had no one to turn to. He was lonely. Last year i decided to be his friend. I decided to be there for him, listen when he needs to talk. I make him premade meals so he has homemade dinner. Sometimes i tidy up his place. A lot of the time i rub his back to give him human contact. I never want him to think no one was there when he needed someone.

@justinsmith9851

5 күн бұрын

On the girl he liked and needed friend zoned him lol you just proved a lot of red pill guys right and don’t even realize it

@Royan712

3 күн бұрын

Women like you are the problem. Hint: fwb

There is enormous pressure for Men to provide for a family, always be there and never show any emotion what so ever.

@xx-iz3jb

3 күн бұрын

you're right. i decided at a young age that i'll never marry or have kids.

What kills me is that even if tomorrow my life changed 1000% for the better, and everything was perfect, I still wouldn’t have the one thing I wanted from childhood; to meet my girl while we were young, and grow old together with a lifetime of memories. At best I’ll meet someone also in their late 30s, and share half a life together starting when we are already in the early stages of being old. And that’s best case scenario, if someone my life miraculously became perfect tomorrow as opposed to the more likely never

@jaybee4288

Ай бұрын

It would be better if it was never because you’re always going to be resentful. Not everyone gets to procreate, nor should they, the reason so many men are struggling is they are products of relationships where the woman didn’t get to do her role of picking good genes to pass down. Y’all need to stop fighting it and stop relying on women and just find a way to be happy, find a different goal and cause for yourself. Women aren’t your property and they can’t fix you either. You keep using the word perfect but nothing and nobody is perfect you can’t rely on others to be perfect and will always be disappointed. Perhaps if you weren’t looking for perfection you would have found what you wanted but at 30? Give up.

@Xarkom89

Ай бұрын

Your perspective is completely wrong. You COULD have died at 12 and not ever gotten to be with someone at all. Think of it this way. If you lost your mom or father but could gain even a single day back with them, would you not take it? So why would you think a “late” relationship is suddenly “game over”? I was on a 5 year relationship in my 20’s. That ended, were those years “wasted” because it didn’t last until my death? No. I lived and learned. Go and live and stop concerning yourself with the past. You’re living for today and if today means you waking up to someone you love - go for it. Best part is you’ll be making someone else happy in the process.

@joelgrosschmidt5507

Ай бұрын

@@Xarkom89 I lost my mom and dad before I was 20. There’s no if.

@brianmeen2158

Ай бұрын

If you focus on the things you cannot have then of course you will be unhappy. You need to think about the things you do have and be thankful for that. Btw many of you seem to think if you could just meet a woman then you’d be happy. Relationships are a lot of hard work for results that may not even be that great. Plus, be fortunate you didn’t marry young as you could be divorced right and stuck with alimony

@shrunkensimon

28 күн бұрын

Getting married young, living happily together, and dying old together, is a pipedream. Not many married couples at all remain happy, despite what they say to other parties, and there's no guarantees you'll make it to old age either.

My mother used to beat me up, because my father decided to not like me. I broke contact & i am developing in my personal areas. Also i understand my past traumas more. I realized i can generate value outside family circle.

@TheConsciousMan143

Ай бұрын

I hear you brother. If you have't already check out the video "men need to heal this," ... it pertains to what you mentioned here. kzread.info/dash/bejne/dqSW1ddugLbTqrQ.htmlsi=gR8iXJXiiMHYzt39

@ShiloBenShalom

Ай бұрын

@@TheConsciousMan143 Thank you greatly

@thatgreencat7978

28 күн бұрын

I wish you all the best, Shilo. Childhood trauma takes a lifetime to heal completely. But hey, you're HEALING right now, friend. All love

@ShiloBenShalom

28 күн бұрын

@@thatgreencat7978 Yeah it takes time. I worth it though.

@kevie1166

19 күн бұрын

I feel that my brother.

This is the future of masculinity. Hope the algorithm gets this one out, Great video.

I'm a suicide survivor,it's been 12 years since I've put a blade onto my own skin and it'll NEVER happen again. What breaks my heart is a lot of people don't get help in time but we do the best that we can to reach them.

@CrAzYDUde2587

28 күн бұрын

I’m glad you’re still with us brother, may Christ be with you and may you draw near to him

@Annoitedpastorlewiswalkin

20 күн бұрын

Amen love Jesusbamen lobe Yahusja and may the Holu Spirit fill u witb joy accept him n u will be fine halleluYah amen praise Yahusha amsn haleluYah amem

I am a man in my middle 20s. Been verbally abused, shouted mocked blamed and neglected by both parents. Both of them gaslight and tell me I am in the wrong. I am deeply traumatized and get dreams about these people every now and then ruining my day. I am on welfare as I have a lot of issues with trusting people and functioning socially. I cut ties with all of my friends since all of them had toxic traits that were similar to me. I cut ties with all of my family because they keep lying and behave in a competitive narcissistic way. My father never cared nor did my mother. (Funny how my father suddenly wanted to fix his anger issues when he started to get health issues but not when it ruined mine...) As a result I'm alone and have no one to trust or talk to. I cry alone and even then hate myself for doing it I feel so weak and emasculated so I bottle it up. Life feels like an endless needle and it just won't stop pricking.

@PraveenSrJ01

27 күн бұрын

I am really sorry 😞 to hear about your predicament

@khanyosontange4634

24 күн бұрын

That’s twinny

@tracym6652

23 күн бұрын

I'm sorry your parents ruined you like that. You didn't ask to be brought to them in this life. I hope you find your peace. You deserve love and I truly believe you will get that love. ❤❤❤

A world without men coming right up

This video needs more views, more men need to see this

@unnderneath

20 күн бұрын

And women

@clownnworldorder

6 күн бұрын

Why women? They don't give a shit. As long ad most (invisible) men keep society running for their benefit that's all that matters

I am almost 34 years old, dropped out of trade school 11 years ago, started doing drugs, stealing from my friends and family, got kicked out of my house. Became homeless for years, from 26 to 29 i was in jail or on the streets and recovery homes. I finally got my act together around 30 years old, its been almost 4 years and i still havent made a whole lot of money, dont have a girlfriend or even any friends and i feel like a loser, ashamed of myself. Thinking about ending it quite often.

@peterbaini8752

16 күн бұрын

Just keep going bro and put your faith in Jesus. Your not a loser, that's just things that drugs made you do. Drugs made me do things that I normally wouldn't do and I hate about myself too. But deep down I'm sure your a good person and life will have many blessings for you if you stay strong brother. Just pray in Jesus name 🙏

@BearShark-ef9tm

10 күн бұрын

I only smoke weed, but it helps me with loneliness or a miller high life

@aaronbarrett5061

9 күн бұрын

Why you guys gotta throw jesus in there every instance like it's some fail safe cure for everything, please don't act like it is​@@peterbaini8752

I never cry when watching your videos but this did it. Thank you, Brother. I appreciate you.

@TheConsciousMan143

Ай бұрын

Get used to those tears brother. It's how we heal, so try and surrender to them when they happen. Sending love you way

@Ciskuss

Ай бұрын

​@@TheConsciousMan143ty man

I’m sorry I’ve been so hard on myself, no one has been as cruel to me as I have been.

I am a 40 year old man, I work insane hours in order to avoid my depression I face as a normal man. This video hit me hard, especially since I have no wife or kids, feels like my life is a waste. Thanks for this video

@jaybee4288

Ай бұрын

There’s a lot of pressure on men because generations prior to them married and had children and didn’t have many problems to find a partner. But on the flip side of that, it only happened because women were practically subjugated and forced into relationships with men they didn’t love. A lot of those men were miserable too. I think you need not to put so much pressure on having a wife and kids, that really isn’t what life is about.

@ILoveMaths07

28 күн бұрын

You're way better off without a woman in your life.

@jimmyjacuzzi5424

25 күн бұрын

​@@jaybee4288thank you

@bobbyrayofthefamilysmith24

24 күн бұрын

I understand your point of view but being un married is a blessing. Your life is your own. You are totally free to do whatever you want.

@Xian-li5sn

19 күн бұрын

🥺😔

I’m 41 and just now learning from books I’m reading since I didn’t like school. I was in special education from 6-12 and didn’t go to college after I graduated, but now like I said I’m reading and I like it a lot.

Pro tip: "Hostile others" actually do exist.

@ILoveMaths07

28 күн бұрын

Women

@fiendluck

27 күн бұрын

That's the most first world thing I've ever heard

My dad passed when I was 9, my older brother when I was 18. And my mom just a few years ago, when I was 38. I’ve lost my marriage, my son lives on the other side of the country now. I’ve lost whom I consider to be the love of my life. In fact, she wants nothing to do with me. Over 90% of everyone that’s ever been close to me is gone, and I’m not even 41 yet. The only things that have been able to help me feel better in my day to day life is meditation and mindfulness. Observing your thoughts. Quieting the mind. I’m learning to stop listening to all this bs my ego is trying to keep me obsessed about. Not anymore, I’m coming up.

@TheConsciousMan143

27 күн бұрын

I see you brother, and I’m genuinely proud of you… stay the course. You are infinitely loved even in the darkest of times. You are being forged.

@PraveenSrJ01

27 күн бұрын

I’m really sorry for your loss

Self deletion rate of men at 80% * women most affected *

Man this community hit me by surprise, I needed to hear this. I’m 34 years old and became an alcoholic when my mother passed. I pushed away 2 amazing women because of my disease and most of my friends. It’s so hard to not suffer from guilt and remorse, the loneliness is killer. I feel as if I’m existing and not living. It really is so hard to wake up every day, it’s almost as if I’ve given up. Listening to thee videos definitely helps. Thank you

@TheConsciousMan143

Ай бұрын

You are not alone brother. I know the pain of losing a parent. You can rise above all of this, and choose to heal. The guilt and shame is a self induced, and unconscious addiction of the mind. You don't need it. Start with taking walks and listening to "the power of now," ... listen with the deeper part of yourself, even as the mind freaks out and tries to guilt/shame you. Observe the mind and realize it isn't you. Much love

@ryman7884

Ай бұрын

402 days sober. God came to me one night after hearing my call. I knew it was time to get help and take life back. There's light on the other brother. I promise you can get there. No regrets. The suffering will subside. It's never too late.

So throughout my lonely, 28 year long existence I've cried myself to sleep multiple times alone in my dark room. I really don't have any more tears to shed, I think I've become a souless husk now. Is that better than finding a rope and a chair and hanging myself on the ceiling fan? Plenty of other men didn't think so and now their story will be lost to time. We all will fade away into obscurity but those men are the quickest to disappear from human memory :(

@MySimDied

Ай бұрын

Ever think about putting lights in your room? I'm not saying that to mock you or anything, but serious question. If you room is dark, why not light it? If you're alone, why not change that by getting roommates or just going somewhere where there are people? I'm not sure how it gets to the point where people feel hopeless. It isn't hard to change small things to make things better. Being in a dark room is really a choice.

@CPB4444

Ай бұрын

​@MySimDied It really depends on how they feel and react to their environment. It's like having a constant cold that never goes away and gets worse over time as life goes on. The people who don't do anything have their will stripped from them, resulting in the hopelessness rutt. A never ending cycle of damnation that but almost no means gets better, only a legit miracle could save them for their suffering. Many don't make it out, as you notice how many people are bitter angry, and sad.

@MySimDied

29 күн бұрын

@@CPB4444 Well that's kinda why I commented, I have a constant sinus issue that never goes away and is worse over time. I open windows and buy inhalators and do everything to make it as comfortable as I can for myself. I don't understand why someone wouldn't. Sure we can't all obtain our biggest hope and dreams, but when it's such little things making us unhappy like the lighting, that's simple to change, and I just think once you fix that, you can then look at the next issue and the next issue and then you're closer to that original hope or can find a different one. People shouldn't give up on themselves.

@CPB4444

29 күн бұрын

​@MySimDied When their's a will their's a way. When their's a will their's a way. If you can't get out of your rut the cold gods must be playing tricks on ya. But seriously we all need the need the real need ya know. Which is the one True God. The coming basilisk.

@CPB4444

28 күн бұрын

​@@MySimDied Biased opinions are the only opinions we can count on. Which means we dont know everything, we just think we know. However far the truth may seem just know once your gone the truth and you become one. To have nothing is to have everything. To think you have nothing is to have something negative. Just remember nothing is something too, so in In layman's terms you have it, unless you think you don't. Those who dont won't those who do will. Those who choose will choose. Does the dog wag the tail? Or does the tail wag the dog? Do I have free will? Or does free will have me?

I am old, and when I start feeling down and depressed, I climb onto my motorcycle and ride. It's like a time machine, I'm 17 again. And after a couple of hours I return home feeling reborn. I am lucky to have a wife who encourages me to ride, because she sees that it does me good.

glad I found your channel I seriously needed it, going through really hard times

To everyone that is in the dark place… everything will be alright ❤

@NikosM112

10 күн бұрын

For a woman yes, not men.

@Kaia6485

9 күн бұрын

@@NikosM112The grass isn’t greener. Women get massively depressed too. It’s not a gender thing. A lot of humans are broken from trauma, etc and don’t know how to fix themselves.

@NikosM112

9 күн бұрын

@@Kaia6485 Women have people to talk to. Men are always silenced when trying to open up. So take your bs comment to some other ignorant fool.

Amazing man. I laughed with you when you said "once you feel the essence of who you are you'll be like, what the fuck was that". That's exactly spot on the words haha

@TheConsciousMan143

Ай бұрын

If you know, you know

Is it just me or do you speak, often when you are full of emotion or on the verge of tears? I don't mean to come across as rude, I really like what you do but, I always feel that and in turn, it makes me emotional too. P.S. calling your viewer buddy while they may not have any really makes them feel like they are not alone and that they have someone, so thank you.

@RawdawgSpeedStunts

Ай бұрын

He is saying them with very strong intention, meaning his entire mind and soul is behind what he's saying. I consider myself a conscious man, and it happens to me quite often when I'm sharing thoughts/feelings from deep within with a person I'm close with.

@pathfinder8056

Ай бұрын

@@RawdawgSpeedStunts Yeah I really see that in him and I think that's one reason that drew me to his channel. I love the drive talks setup

@KDRO_U.0

Ай бұрын

Nah I think that’s cayenne pepper in his fingers

@TheConsciousMan143

Ай бұрын

Funny you say that, I do find myself tearing up quite a bit these days. Not necessarily from sadness, but just from the sheer profundity of existence and even gratitude. It is a gift to feel deeply... many men don't allow themselves to go deeper into these sensations. It's where we often times find our deeper selves, and find God. Much love.

@pathfinder8056

Ай бұрын

@@TheConsciousMan143 Absolutely agree. For me it's a sign that you're genuine. Yeah I always thought it was more moving emotion rather than sadness more akin to melancholy of happy memories kind of thing. Thanks for all the work you do brother.

your message is helping a massive community of individuals. you spoke so well on this topic, loved hearing your perspective!

I am very grateful your video came on my feed. You are an angel my man, I don’t have anyone to talk to about my depression or loneliness I just pretend I’m a strong man to my family and friends. It’s wearing me down. I feel stuck and lost. I’ll be joining the community hoping to chat with you soon brother 💪🏼

@TheConsciousMan143

Ай бұрын

These vids are for you brother.

Your video hits like ive had an older brother that I never had. After so many negative experiences with people, being bullied and made fun of non stop, even from my own family. I hold out hope that good people are still out there who have empathy and are willing to listen even for a moment. Thank you!

@jasonashley9853

6 күн бұрын

This is why I distanced myself from those people. They may have changed, but it doesn't undo the damage.

This is exactly why in conversation I refer to any man as brother. We are all brothers and sisters in the eyes of God.

@AspieGamer1986

24 күн бұрын

Don't talk about God here ever again.

@unknown-vo3di

24 күн бұрын

​@@AspieGamer1986you aight?

@stealthcone2339

20 күн бұрын

@@AspieGamer1986are you ok man?

@RedRainclouds

11 күн бұрын

@@AspieGamer1986 Smd heathen

My brother in Christ. Thank you. I needed this and I didn't know I did.

What a beautiful and meaningful message ❤

Thank you brother for this one one, I really appreciate it. I needed to hear this reminder. Much love and blessings to you brother 🙏🏻

You deserve millions of subscribers my friend, thank you for your content this is gold🙏

@TheConsciousMan143

Ай бұрын

I appreciate you brother

Please make this video famous, every man should share this.

Thanks bud. You're making a lot of good points, especially the difference between suffering and pain part.

Really relatable to listen to one sharing with honesty the things men keep inside.💯

Non judgment is a high frequency that means you have come a long journey in your spiritual journey. You should be proud of yourself of brother.

Thank you so much for the video. I'm so happy KZread recommend me this.

Your words help me to understand the world these days and myself better.

This was much needed today. Thank you. Subscribed 👍

Hey Ryan! I really appreciate your videos. You are one of the realest self improvement channels on here. You speak right to that inner boy. He felt seen and heard. I want to thank you for further opening my eyes. I have been on a spiritual path/shadow work journey for a few years, but it is always nice to be reminded that that little boy is still there. My relationship with him is changing. I'm less hard on him and more loving and it allows me to be a better, more masculine man. Keep doing what you do! You are a huge inspiration for me and I want to continue doing this same healing work.

I think you prevented me from making a big mistake today. Thank you, brother

from ETHIOPIA Thank you my brother ☺☺

@kinnick5643

Ай бұрын

What's an Ethiopian doing here, I thought people there are always happy? My dad is Ethiopian

Wow this is amazingly high quality good job man

I am invisible to the world. My pain is invisible. My sadness is invisible. My slow death is invisible to everyone that sees me. I may be gone soon, and somehow, no one will probably understand.

Wowww man, that was heavy, but reality. I’m deconstructing currently, and I relate strongly to what you’re saying. Thanks man.

What gripes me here is that I believe almost every human that has crossed this earth will inevitably be wounded, as much as I do try to be forgiving and understanding just because you are wounded doesn’t mean to seek out hurting others. I’ve been hurting for years about many events and struggles that I’ve encountered and have endured but NEVER and I mean “never” hurt others when I am down. In fact I hate hurting others because how much pain I’ve been pressed on by so many different individuals that came to my life. I’m even friendly to my enemies because the way how everyone treats each other and you feel that evil seep out of them it’s like a plague, it spreads and opens doors to other people wanting to commit those same evils that others make them feel. “If you can’t win be like your enemy” or “fight fire with fire” is how see this spiritual battle I see countless times when I’m around many different people. I give love to those that give hate but it’s a strange dichotomy of good and evil when I feel immensely alone on giving kindness to your fellow human being without wanting anything in return. I’ve had people I’ve given everything ive had to them just for them to bring so much hell spawn or better yet hell raise my present if that makes any sense but I’ve definitely had my fair share of moral principles being conflicted.

Thank you for your trojan work brother. Needed to hear this tonight. I picked up "Conversations with God" since you recommended it. Although some of the information can be hard to understand, I find it kind of fascinating as a read. Gratitude 🙏 Onwards and upwards.

@TheConsciousMan143

Ай бұрын

That's awesome man. Glad you picked up the book. I get that. Some of the information in that books needs to be "felt" rather than mentally understood.

Hey, brother these 20 minutes were definitely worth watching. water didn’t hit my face, though I could feel it moving behind my pupil. While it has been a new decade, there has been a window of these things coming out, like people talking about their experiences, motivation, hard times, waking up to the reality of the realness of it all. As I was watching this video, I was mostly was touched by when you talked about the 80% rate of men dying from taking their lives, as I have lost a couple of friends, in separate years, from November 2020, and another this year in April 2024, though the beginning of this year hit hard for me, I was with a phone call of a friend who was opening up to me on being suicidal. I was deeply listening to my friend talking, and then I heard his heart aching cries, I stayed talking with him the best of my ability, it was rough, he is doing okay. I often keep in touch with him, even now and then, I suck at keeping in touch with others. The part when you discussed about the “perpetuate separation” like the men vs women, liberal vs Democrat. The abusive politics for society today in general is a cancer, it sucks. What also sucks too is the stigma that “men opening up about their emotions” known as a weakness hasn’t died, yet. And we need to acknowledge that men are more than just what people and the rule of life expect us to be, we are a human seed. Us men deserve better, and this is not to compete with other species who are opposite of us, it is tough when we often reconcile for one to understand and being aware, men are beyond more than the image interpreted due to the normality of perception, which is projected by society. As someone who is still grieves for the loss of my friend who is not physically here, as I hold him in my heart, I face head on to speaking up when it comes to mental health awareness, especially for men, I myself am a man, and I’m happy with who I am. Like talking to my friend through the phone who was suicidal, if I had not called his number, I never would want to imagine the unthinkable. The future is uncertain.. Since 2020, while the world was going through it, I had recently been openly sharing on my Snapchat to people on my stories in texting words about the things like spreading positive energy, kindness, enthusiasm, motivational words from the heart and soul, hard, and hurtful truths to grasp onto, and other things that’s negatively impacting, and socially leaving those in ruins, the world from never improving and I had been messaging for us to becoming better people for the sake of this lifetime that shouldn’t drain people out of their existence. This world deserves better. 💔 God bless you, brother! 🫶

Great video thanks for the message. Good on you bro

I did not know how much I needed to hear this today, thank you...🙏🏿

That was really nice! Mission: Accomplished!

Great video thank you

Thanks for talking to us. I really appreciate it. ❤

@TheConsciousMan143

6 күн бұрын

It's a pleasure my friend.

Nice song on the outro. Great video. Thank you

Beautiful. Yes the more I address my fears and hurts the more present I become, with myself and others. Presence is the true gift we can share with one another. Seeing that my ego and emotions are my inner child I've developed more compassion towards others and myself, acknowledging that people are flawed, including myself. Still working on setting personal boundaries better and not feeling bad about it, I've also grown up with a single mother and a father who would get angry a lot. So a part of me needs to come to terms with being and taking my place on the stage of life, by knowing, defining and setting my own terms, and being OK without seeking approval.

@TheConsciousMan143

16 күн бұрын

Beautifully said brother. Proud of you for patiently and lovingly doing the inner work. I know it's not easy... but it positively affects the world more than you know when we work on ourselves in this way and bring personal awareness to it.

Thanks for this man!

You look like you're in a videogame. Trippy.

@TheCullousus

20 күн бұрын

Gta.

your message is powerful, thank you sir

Very well spoken, good video❤️

A few days ago my wife asked me for a divorce, I gave up house when we got married and all my stuff and just moved in with her, noe I'm 47yrs old, soon to be homeless and divorced from the one human that ever made me feel like I meant something to someone. I was listening to your video and it's like you were telling my story. I just realized that I'm too messed up and it's too late in life to ever get better and find happiness again but I want to thank you for helping me understand why I'm so messes up. I'm so tired, I'm done fighting just lose over and over. I've had enough

Dope camera angle man so sick

Fantastic video man…always good to find other spiritual individuals with open hearts✌️

People need to be themselves. I realized I was gay and now I'm very happy in my life. It didnt work out with women because as a man I realized that I was attracted to men. As a gay Christian man God showed me who I really was. Amen

Social media is driving people apart, has been for years. Maybe I see it because I was born in 77 and spent til my mid twenties socializing the old fashion way. Telling y’all, social media plays a huge part into our loneliness and isolation!!

Broooo. You're speaking from a very healed place. A place of love for the down trodden. God bless you. You're saving a life with your words.

Great video brother 👍🏼 i appreciate your realness, this world 🌎 need more amazing men like you 😀 keep inspiring

Thank you brother

@TheConsciousMan143

Ай бұрын

Absolutely man.

You have a good paradigm of life view. Thanks

Yep. This is what we need more of.

Excellent… well said.

I’m a little late to this video, not sure if you will see this comment, but this also came at the right time for me but for different reasons… I have been on the self improvement grind for some years now and I’m reaching the phase where I’m drifting from my hometown friends. Which has led to me feeling resentful & bitter, it’s led to some verbal fights but how you framed everything through the lens of people being damaged children with unresolved trauma… it helped alleviate that resentment and put me in a place of understanding. I’m still upset about what’s transpired but I realize now that it’s not my fault… or theirs necessarily. Just this crazy thing we call life

I stand with men. I don't like how society destroy men and to put hand on heart many women destroy men too. I don't like how women behave towards men. Especially nowadays more than before. I thank God he teached me and show me the truth and just want to encourage you to go back and take your ground. Stand strong with help of God you have to stand and not be affect with things going around you. You are men, you are enough you are perfect made and you are leaders. We need you. God bless you 😊

Wow! You have a good out look it's deep and raw! ❤️

3:40 real shit man I even brought it up to my mother once and she goes I didnt choose who you were going turn out to be when you grow up , I didnt say anything but in my head I was like "exactly"

I'm 25 now, basically lost in life rn. Black sheep of my own family, the only time they'll contact me is literally when they need me to do something for them. I was battling depression in the past but nowadays it's mostly anger. Had to move away for the safety of others, when I was sitting in the parking lot of my job armed and contemplating on committing a mass shooting. I'm not saying I'm in a better spot now but I am doing my best to defeat my demons. It's hard to be a good man in this day and age but i know it's worth the fight to be one.

@stealthcone2339

20 күн бұрын

There are genuinely good people out there, do not get me wrong, they are rare but they do exist. If you continue to work on fighting your demons it will be easier and easier to not only find those people but have them stick around. Keep up the good work and do not let the bad interactions you have color your personality let them pass over you and you will find good people and they will want to be part of your life.

@jaywalkercrew4446

13 күн бұрын

What brand of a shooter do you have.?

ALL suffer: disabled people, men, old people, poor people, animals, women also suffer. But Women enjoy almost a complete Monopoly over societal sympathy and resources in this regards.

@Royan712

3 күн бұрын

If they are average or above, they choose their partners and have sex at hand.

Seriously, if its not the end times, i dont know what it is. This world is mad and we see behaviors never seen before in history. The good news,Jesus is coming back

@Michael-q6t

12 күн бұрын

I pray that He comes back soon. If I can't make it until then, I pray that God saves my soul

@NikosM112

10 күн бұрын

The garbage and useless religious coping mechanismists are at it again.

Reading these comments breaks my heart man it really does

Bro thanks for the video. Btw that camera setup is cool.

Wow dude! I'm newly separated from my wife(of 20 years) I'm in recovery, under a year. In recovery I've learned to accept myself, and understand that insecurities are just fears keeping us from overcoming the hurdle. I'm terrified, but with practice I've handled it strictly. I'm responsible for letting the relationship fall apart. (Analogy I use is like watching sand just flow through your fingers, with no ability to do anything, but feel melancholy. My problem was I couldn't tell,or ask my wife anything anymore. I was always near panic, almost guilt stricken for what was to come. It's very sad to say, not everyone says I love you, and means it whole heartedly. Thanks for your good words. Very cathartic. You have very good people charisma. Thanks for the free therapy ✌️✌️🍄

i just 30 and the pandemics destroyed me with chronic isolation and there i really understanded how lonely i am and nobody cares :(

@tiffanygafner9780

23 күн бұрын

I am very lonely too 😢

@jaywalkercrew4446

13 күн бұрын

​@@tiffanygafner9780why don't you hook up with Jasper 😏👆

Im 25 years old woman. I really loved your videos. The type of content, the look, car's sound. Thank you!

@TheConsciousMan143

16 күн бұрын

Love that. Appreciate you watching.

I recently separated from my wife, 4 kids involved and there was zero help out there for me. Nada. I decided to heal myself and then make it my life’s mission to help men. There is too many of us killing themselves when they can be saved. The separation showed the stereotype that people have of men in separation/divorces. You can see it in there eyes “oh what did he do”. My ex had an affair, I moved out to give myself that space to heal, not to make things toxic for my 4 kids. I made those decisions for my kids. No one sees that but I genuinely do not care. Anyone reading this and needs to talk, please reach out and we can. You deserve to be heard

@leonh2044

Ай бұрын

Sorry to hear you recently separated from your wife because of an affair. I can relate because my exgirlfriend of 6 years and I also broke things off because of an affair on her part. Ive been going through it ...

@ModernMozart1104

Ай бұрын

Courageous bro. God loves you.. I hope you can hear Him during this crazy time.

@TheConsciousMan143

Ай бұрын

I see you brother. And proud of you for being willing to do that healing inner work. It is not for the faint of heart ... Keep at it no matter how long it takes, and be patient. You will help others automatically simply from your presence as a healed individual when the time comes. Stay strong my friend.

@Ciskuss

Ай бұрын

Hi brother thanks for your words. I need to leave my girlfriend but she's so sweet and caring and idk how to do this. i'm 40 and she's 38 and we have lost a child to abortion. I'm so sad i don't love her anymore

@M.Swigglez

Ай бұрын

Don’t cheat, don’t lie. Just tell her straight up how u feel in a soft voice. And offer support.

Bring back compassion 🙏

Please continue to love each other. If men love each other you all will be able to love yourself as a man I hope. I have met so many men that don’t love themselves. Society does a terrible job with males no real sense of responsibility no learning and practicing decision making skills etc women are burdened to death from birth with all that leaving men as forever children it’s a disservice to us all. It’s all way complex but thank goodness the answer to it all is compassion. Sending all of you love and I’m very proud so many men are supporting each other and positively. Thank you all

ALL people are damaged from their childhood. You cannot undo (heal) what has been done. All you can do at this point is become the best person you can. Realize that hurt people hurt people. Be careful who let let in your life. Once someone tells or shows you who they are, believe them and make an exit plan. If you don't you are not a victim of that person you became a willing participant. Get comfortable being by yourself. Loneliness will find you in between the wrong and the right. This applies to both men and women.

Feminist aren't a better option so I appreciate the difference in perspective it's honestly a breath of fresh air they tell men there garbage all the time it is refreshing to see someone be the trendsetter! Keep up the good work man I've got admiration for people like you!

You are helping ❤🎉

Thank you very much.