MESSY TO MINIMAL 3 YEARS LATER: Have I FAILED? | opening up about struggles, decluttering + family
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MESSY TO MINIMAL 3 YEARS LATER: Have I FAILED? | opening up about struggles, decluttering + family
Today I'm having an honest chat with you all about some things on my heart and mind as we head into 2023. I'm sharing some of the goals and intentions I have for my life in the new year as well as what you can expect to see on my channel throughout the coming months. I get vulnerable and honest about my life as a youtuber and how it affects our family as well as lend some encouragement and advice regarding questions you have about minimalism, decluttering and simplifying your own home.
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CHANNELS I LOVE FOR ENCOURAGEMENT WITH MINIMALISM/HOMEMAKING:
@TheMinimalMom
@FancyThatwithCandice
@Clutterbug
@simply-allie
@AshlynneEaton
@thatpracticalmom
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♥️ PLEASE READ! ♥️Hey friends, thank you so much for the love on this video! Your comments and the great conversations we’re having just warm my heart so much. I wanted to add some additional clarification to what I said about gardening and homesteading content on this channel going forward. I added a little bit of text on the screen, but I think it’s easy to miss 22:09 *I have no intention of completely taking gardening, homesteading or outdoorsy content off of this channel. I love sharing that and I know many of you love seeing it. It’s just not going to be the focus of any of the genre or niches that I highlight in titles/thumbnails on my channel. The algorithm is a forever moving target, and I hope someday it moves to aligning with sharing more and more of that but as it is right now, I can only do so much!*
Hey, I know you seemed wistful because you “aren’t funny”, but please know you have another gift. Your presence and your voice are calming, and I would even say soothing. For someone like me who struggles with anxiety it means a lot. It definitely helps me work through being overwhelmed so I can take care of my own house and be present for my family. You are also incredibly kind. Just the reassurance you express toward viewers who are also struggling is so appreciated. Keep being you! I look forward to seeing your new content this year. ❤
@beatrizmonteiro201
Жыл бұрын
as I watched I thought of a hundred different topics I wanted to touch on the comments but this one says it all! just read it again nat, and think that it was me saying it this time haha
@staceyhookins3433
Жыл бұрын
Yes I agree. I often wait for a quiet moment when kids are napping to watch Nathalie's videos because they help me unwind and not feel so overwhelmed.
@janedavies4667
Жыл бұрын
yes calming that alone is a gift Natalie!
@TracyMichelle210
Жыл бұрын
Yes, so calming. It’s a busy/stressful time of year both at home at work and I’ve found myself so drawn to your channel because of how calming your presence is. Your presence, voice, and outlook are such a breathe of fresh air and your channel feels like such a safe space.
@amandarachelle13
Жыл бұрын
Yes! I completely agree with this! When I’m stressed out this is the first channel I come for. Definitely calming and soothing. ❤
Thank you for respecting your non-consenting children’s privacy! Such a breath of fresh air in this space. Love your content 👍🏻
@natalieeubank4533
Жыл бұрын
Yes!!! I couldn’t agree more!
@Julie-si3hi
Жыл бұрын
I agree! I font watch ytubers who constantly include and excited their kids for content.
I don’t comment often because I’m usually watching/ listening and cleaning up. But I want you to know that people like me (loud, funny, big personalities) come to your channel because of your calm demeanor. I come here because you are kind, encouraging, and non-judgmental. You’re doing a great job! I’m so grateful your channel is here.
@Nikki-ks6wi
Жыл бұрын
Spot on!
@zsanettolah
Жыл бұрын
Same
@ellie448
Жыл бұрын
Yes
@Karincl7
Жыл бұрын
No personality sounds better
I am so happy that when you came to the decision to not show their rooms and respecting their privacy!!!! That's called "Parenting over KZread Personality". Way to go Mama!!!!! I felt that so much when you said this world has changed! Thank you for putting the values of your family first!!!! This is why I love your channel so much!
@Julie-si3hi
Жыл бұрын
100 percent! So many ytubers add their children as content
Kim’s humor is definitely her gift to the KZread world but you also have a gift. Your voice is so calming and soothing - your videos are so relaxing and cozy!
@KCallaAK
Жыл бұрын
Yep. Love you both! I don't watch tv so you gals inspire and make my days!
My mom had 6 kids from 1989 to 1998 and the biggest thing she stresses to me. When it comes to your babies "Dont stress the little stuff" she holds on to so much regret making our house always look perfect and having cared SO MUCH about how we all looked. She says she was so stressed out for so long by the expectations she held for herself that she wasn't able to enjoy a lot of it. Slowing down and letting go of expectations of what motherhood and homemaking " look like" has made me so much happier. Happy new year from Germany!
Love the idea to pivot the family vlog channel into a homesteading channel!!! There are a couple homesteaders that I watch and it’s such a fun community
@Julie-si3hi
Жыл бұрын
Oooh yes, do you wat h becky at acre homestead?
Natalie you put it exactly right, I’d watch you talk about paint drying and still want to know which gloss turned out better. I’m one of the viewers that has been watching since the very beginning of your family channel, and I was only a teen at the time. The joy I’ve always found in your videos was you. You’ve felt like a kindred spirit in so many ways. Some days you wish you could sit down and bounce ideas off of yourself and to me that’s what watching your videos feels like. It’s a reminder of who I am, what my goals are, what I want out of life. Some days it’s a place to laugh at babies playing in syrup and some days it’s a place to cry with your mom and not feel so alone. I respect every decision you’ve made as a content creator, especially that you choose to do the right thing instead of what’s easy. But let me be the first to say, you could make 9 channels and I’d subscribe to all of them with the bell on 😂 I might not always have time to watch something right when it’s posted, but I’ll always make time to go back and watch them 💕
You are doing a great job, we love the content even if is not just about decluttering and minimalism. I love to see you in the garden. Maybe you could put in the title... decluttering my garden.... minimal gardening tips :) we totally understand the algorithm, and search for the videos every week if they are not in the feed. Thank you for the content!
@NatalieBennett
Жыл бұрын
Then people would scream CLICK BAIT! I can’t win for losing 😂
@NatalieBennett
Жыл бұрын
But I would love to see what others think about this! Playing the algorithm game would simply help my subscribers see more of my videos but I strive to be honest with my titles and thumbnails. What do you think?
@alexandrinapop5300
Жыл бұрын
@@NatalieBennett Being honest is what I like about your content. Many subscribers are watching the same creators not only for main topic of their Chanels, but for the community, for the KZread friend who visits...... There is only so much that you could say about a topic without repeating oneself. we understand change, and even expect it in some ways.... There will always be someone to say something unpleasant, but maybe they just have a bad day.... keep up the good wok.
@NatalieBennett
Жыл бұрын
Honestly I COULD talk endlessly about minimalism... it's just that I also want to talk about other subjects too!
@angelamelum4304
Жыл бұрын
I LOVE the gardening and homesteading stuff. I’m open for anything you post.
Great to see a parent respecting their children’s privacy... you can always record “home movies “ for just your family that they will get a hoot out of when they’re older. They will probably thank you for keeping their “embarrassing moments “ off social media however! Loved that you still have your tree up. Did you happen to get a new sofa? I like the light color! Keep up the good work & Happy New Year!
I promise I'm not just buttering you up here, but I love your personality and watch every single video you post. Your peaceful presence (even though you've said that isn't always the case - we're all allowed to be flawed) brings so much joy and peace to my heart. I also watch Kim and I love her. I tend to choose who I watch based on my mood and what I need at that moment and I love there are so many different kinds of creators! Thank you for sharing your beautiful, authentic heart with us.
Love you Natalie!! My little sister Introduced me to your channel. Now My daughter (5 years old) and son (2 year old) watch with me! I find soo much motivation from your videos. I’m a fellow perfectionist and have really benefited from your realistic and balanced approach to serving you’re family. “Progress over perfection” is my new phrase for the year. I appreciate you’re humble heart. It’s obvious that the Lord is using you in a special way to reach so many people just by letting christ’s light shine through you. You’ve impacted me. Ps. My sister and I agree that our favorite video to date is the gardening video. So if it’s something you enjoy, feel free to share more homesteading and gardening. We’d loveeee it!!!!! ❤
I'm a silent subscriber. But I would just like to say that I would watch anything you put out, because it's you that's putting it out! And I really love your personality and the way you talk about things :). I not only come back for your content, but also for you and your soothing voice and words 🎉
Kim could literally talk about paint dry and I would totally watch too! She’s hilarious! 😂 I love your content as well Natalie!
I really admire how you protect and respect your children and their special spaces. This speaks volumes to you as a person. The Lord laid something similar on my heart with sharing my children on social media - at first it was hard not to share them but now I feel such a peace.
I have to add, how you described your friend on the wads is how I see you! Although I'm older than you by a few years, I want to be YOU (and Dawn) when I grow up lol you are in inspiration to me and I think you are a package deal, don't cut yourself short ♡
@NatalieBennett
Жыл бұрын
You're so kind, Shauna!
So excited for this! Watching your videos and adopting your mindset/attitudes has instilled so much gratitude and contentment in me over the years. I'm very grateful for your journey, Natalie! 💕
I love your day in the life content. When I wish for a different season, I go to those videos and rewatch.
Thank you for all you videos! May you & your family be so blessed this NEW year!
As I'm currently watching /listening to the entire list of your messy to Minimal series, this video is quit possibly the best thing that could happen today. ❤️
Loved everything that you shared with us today!! Happy New Year.
I always enjoy these sit down videos! You have so much wisdom to offer.❤
Progress not perfection. I’m glad your family is feeling better. I love this video! I needed this video and I hope you make more!
Thank you Natalie! I always enjoy your videos. Look forward to 2023 with you
As a Mama and one who works with children and families I appreciate your respect for your family! Thank you for your content!
Love your channel, keeping it real, love to hear more about your faith/and how you deal with your illness. xxxxx
Hi Natalie! I am so happy to spend the morning with you and watching your video! 🥰 One of my goals for the new year is to stick to the promises I make to myself. I am running my first 1/2 marathon this year and it takes a daily reminder to myself that I CAN do hard things. I hope you have a very happy New Year! 😊 #premierefam
Happy new year Natalie, wish you and your family the best for 2023!!!!!! I love all your videos!!!
Oh Natalie this video was so encouraging! I’ve had a morning so watched this at the most perfect time! Now feeling ready to pop on a song or two and make some small progress! Thank you thank you 😊
You have such a kind, nurturing personality and that's what keeps me coming back. Funny is fun, but when I listen to you I genuinely feel better about myself. Not many people can do that. I love that you insist on keeping your content free because you want to help others. 💓
Thanks for another great video! Love spending time watching your vlogs. You don't need humor, your personality is so calming, especially in this crazy mixed up world, it has made your vlogs become a staple for me. Love everything you are currently sharing and looking forward to whatever you have planned. Thank you for sharing your life and family! Happy New Year, Natalie!
Love your content! Thank you for your inspiration. Your channel is one that has helped me on my journey to become more minimal. Love that you say “progress, not perfection”. Love your take on minimalism. Thank you for helping me set realistic goals when it comes to living more simply!
I don't consider myself a minimalist and only declutter 1-2 times a year and I just enjoy watching/listening to your channel. I hope that can be an encouragement to you as you strive toward your goal to be able to post what ever you want when you want. When that day comes, I will be here to stay! Keep up the great work
I love your approach and ethic to motherhood and family life. You’re a pleasure to watch so thank you for continuing to create great content for us all ❤
I love your channel and watch it all the time! Thanks for being you! ❤️
I cannot wait for the "messy to minimal" revamp!! You helped me so much when you explained how to just go for it (cleaning or decluttering) even if it's just a few minutes. There are so many benefits to doing it this way; it doesn't take long 😊, I feel like I have accomplished alot, it's easier to get started, it keeps me interested in focusing on what I'm doing, and little by little eventually everything will get done! I thank the Lord for you!!😘 I also like to write a list with different color markers that emphasize what tasks I need to accomplish and tape it to my wall; and I can make it comical (picture alot of exclamation points) lol
Happy new year! I would honestly watch any video you upload. Your videos make me happy😊❤
Natalie I am just so thankful for you and your channel. You are such a legitimately good and honest person. 🧡
Thank you for respecting your kids’ space!
I’m so excited to see what this year holds! Happy New Year! PS-love the respect you show for your kids and their privacy, so many people don’t think about that on SM. Yay for you!
I absolutely love your content - all of it. You are a joy to watch, you seems like a person I would be friends with, had we attended the same church (and lived in the same country etc). You are sweet, funny and such an inspiration on many points.
Love watching your content, you have inspired my journey of simple living and planning my homestead dreams! You are one of the creators that watch every upload no matter the content and can't wait to see what the new year brings for your channel, hopefully we do see more cooking videos, love those!
One of my goals for this year is to find stillness in everyday life. I feel like I always need to be doing something or thinking about what’s next and find it very difficult to be present, so this year I’m focusing on slowing down to be here now. PS. Loved the countdown at the beginning of the premier! #premierefam
Love that you are a Christian content creator and are so calming and realistic but have humour about things you tried and call fails are great!
I have followed your channel for years and can still say you are one of my favorites. Thank you for being such a positive, peaceful, and joyful space here! ❤️
I love how thoughtful you are and how you take us through your thought processes. I find you very inspiring in terms of being my best self. 😊 Thank you.
Girl, I’m here for the chatty videos! I love seeing your video pop up every week. I usually save you for when I’m cleaning up the kitchen at the end of the night. Also I LOVE that sweater - looks so cozy!!!
Your channel is such an inspiration. Thank you for your calming presence and for sharing the things that don’t work as well as the things that do. So often I feel like I’m lacking because my housekeeping isn’t perfect. I’ve had a great big mindset shift on the relationship with my stuff, and you’ve really helped me build that healthy mentality about my home. ❤
Natalie I have enjoyed watching you for many years!! You have been such a blessing and inspiration!! 2023 - didn’t come into the world with stuff and won’t leave with it!! #declutterforrealz2023
Pretty much any video you upload is the perfect thing for me to listen to while cleaning or doing a load of laundry. ❤️ so grateful for this cozy place you’ve made here!
I found your channel through your minimalism/decluttering content and stayed for everything else. I watch and enjoy whatever you upload ❤ Thank you for all you do!
You genuinely one of my absolute favourite youtuber and instagrammers. Ur such a joy to listen to.
I love the content you put out 🥰 watch more or less everything because I like to year what you think about different subjects, and I get so inspired.
You’re one of my favorites on this platform. You have such a wonderfully calm demeanor, and you’re so eloquent. I would support watching any of your videos. Looking forward to your other content ❤
You are such a joy to watch. We are fellowing Washingtonians and I find you to be so inspiring! I love your peaceful spirit, you have really gotten me moving towards a more minimal life and I can’t thank you enough for that!
I enjoy watching you do all that you do! Press on, Natalie. I appreciate the way you approach life, marriage, parenting, homemaking, and all.
Hi Natalie! Thank you for answering my question in your video! As a new subscriber last year I didn’t realize you had already addressed the question regarding your vlog channel. I have immense admiration for your convictions to keep your kids lives private. I’m excited for new decluttering content this year and would love to see more cooking videos/blog posts. Your kind and gentle spirit has been a breath of fresh air here on KZread! Happy New Year to you and yours 😊
I love everything about your channel! I love the homesteading videos along with everything you make
Love this video! Thanks, Natalie. I look forward to continuing to watch your awesome videos in the new year❤ Video suggestions: Your morning and night time routine What you eat in a day
I loved how real and raw this was thank you for being transparent! ❤
@NatalieBennett
Жыл бұрын
You’re welcome! I’m so glad you enjoyed it! ♥️
I love and watch all your videos even if the content is not what I do or want to do like homesteading. I still enjoy them, your videos always feel like I'm catching up with a friend. Happy new year xxx
You've inspired me to start decluttering this year! I even made a calendar with a tiny section of my house each day so I don't get overwhelmed or uninterested. Thank you so much for what you do and for all the encouragement 💖
I've been following you since you posted the Easter basket for the boys on their 1st Easter. I have 3 kids my own ages 13, 8 and 6. It was been so nice to have you as a "friend" To grow our families together and go through life stages together ❤️
this was awesome! I really appreciate this big chunk of time you just gave to keeping me company while I try getting started!
I adore your videos! I never miss one! I love your Christian voice! I love your practical approach to life. Keep up the amazing work! Happy 2023!
I for one love the homestead stuff and look forward to more. Also while you have more of a calm presence than other KZreadrs, that's what I love about you and your channel! It always feels like just chilling with a good friend.
Simply this Life and But First Coffee were the two decluttering channels that inspired me the most. I still love and watch their channels. I found you several years ago but then couldn’t find your channel again, probably because it was the family channel. Love your content! Your messy to minimal series was and still is very inspiring for me! Looking forward to another series of this and all of your videos this year.
I actually really like your homestading videos! All the best in 2023 ☃️
For the record I put on your videos even if I’ve already seen them when I’m also decluttering, cleaning, doing homework, doing my skincare, makeup, hair, anything just for entertainment because I could just listen to you talk all day! I love everything about this video. Thank you!!
Your channel is soothing. The talent you have to express yourself & explain things is amazing! I love when someone can walk you through the process or mindset of decluttering! That's a great teacher! I watch the other KZreads you mentioned also, but I definitely don't miss watching any of your videos. Would love to see cooking recipes & ideas. I always look to improve that. Also love your favorites videos.
I LOVE that as someone who does social media that you are taking a step back and respecting your kid’s privacy ♥️🙌🏻 Good for you!
Hi Natalie! I really enjoy your videos about simplifying and decluttering. I don't think you've made one in a while, but I did enjoy when you used to make your morning routine videos. Always good for helping with new ideas. Also, would love to see when you go thrifting or antiquing. You always seem to find such great stuff!
Thank you for all your content!
As someone who has been watching your videos for several years, I absolutely watch because I love your personality! You are so fun to watch and always give me great ideas!!
Natalie thank you for all the work you do to show us these awesome videos, the content about minimalism have inspired and helped me tremendously to declutter my home too. While it’s not easy journey your leadership in this area has definitely kept me motivated to keep living a more positively minimalist lifestyle 😊 so a big thank you.
Like always Natalie you made a great video…Thank you for answering the question the viewers asked and taking time out of your busy schedule also to answer them…Hope your 2023 is a beautiful one ❤❤❤
I love seeing your gardening/homesteading videos.
Hi Natalie! Happy 2023. I love spending the morning with you, and getting to soak in your wisdom! This year I’m hoping to grow in my relationship with the Lord, and make additional changes to live a healthier life (including modifying/refining boundaries). #premierefam
Love your Chanel because of how you keep things real, non judgmental & encouraging. You are one amazing woman of God ❤️
Totally agree with what you said about progress over perfectionism and letting your kids help and learn, even if it isn't done, how we like it done.
I look forward to every new video you make. I’ve been known to rewatch older videos. Not only do you offer the motivation I need but you have a magical calming effect on me. I wish I could put to words how valuable that is for me. I wish you and your precious family all the best of everything in 2023 and beyond. Happy New Year. 🎉❤
@FlamingoFieldsFarm
Жыл бұрын
And if you create any new channels, I’ll subscribe like lightning!
I love your channel. Your so soothing and calming to watch. I’ve become a decluttering nut and it’s a good thing. I’m trying to unload all the extra decor that doesn’t have a purpose. I love how much respect you have for your children. I look forward to homesteading content and more wise words from you. ❤
I love your homesteading videos! Darn algorithm 😤. Happy New Year 🥳🥰
I love watching you! I would watch you talk about paint drying. You soft spoken and gentle. You make me happy and bring me down to earth when I am overwhelmed and freaking out!
Natalie I absolutely adore your calm demeanor... you are a gem 💎 in this crazy world. And I totally relate to being a perfectionist... I don't have kids but when my hubby tries to help me with folding laundry or something I need to learn to appreciate it and accept the help without feeling the need to "fix" the folds!
Hi Natalie! I just recently discovered your channel and I'm impressed by the amazing work you've done in decluttering. Keep up the good work! I live alone and have been decluttering for several years now, and it's feels like a never-ending job... Love from Finland! 🇫🇮❤
Your channel and Kim’s are my absolute favorites! You’re both so relatable in different ways. You are more intentional and fit the vibe I want for my life. Kim cracks me up and makes me feel like my crazy motherhood journey and cleaning the same messes over and over is normal lol. I never miss your videos. Decluttering, organizing, gardening, favorites…love them all! Happy New Year to you and your family
I love your chatty videos, also love(feel left out) when my favorite KZreadrs talk about being friends with my other favorite KZreadrs lol Can’t wait to see what you have for us in 2024 :-)
I love your stuff!You can tell you have a great heart and I love that you express your relationship with Jesus!❤
I love when Kim or you mention the woman across the room. It makes my heart happy to know that you are friends.
Hi Natalie, my word for the year is "Presence" to be present in what I do regardless of what it is. I'm trying to stop the railroad of multitasking! Just want to say to you thank you for your amazing content and your values. Its like you've popped in for a chat!! I hope KZread let your content spread to homesteading and gardening. I live in the middle of England in a city with a tiny back garden but I still grow vegetables and have three little chickens so I am still interested even though I don't have acreage! Much love to you and your family and thanks again 💕xx
I've had several Natalie video marathons this week, at home ill with Covid whilst taking care of my 15month old. It's felt like having a bit of company which has made the week that little bit easier, and I wanted to say thank you. My girl has a 3 second attention span when it comes to the TV but she always dances along to your music choices 🙂
You know what I love you for? I absolutely love how calm, soothing, genuine, and kind-hearted you are. I admire how well-spoken you are. And I so appreciate your tips, knowledge and encouragement..
I love every one of your videos! they are so lovely and helpful ❤️
Love your videos! I would say you have a calming, down to earth personality that makes me feel like I'm in the room and you're talking directly to me. Keep being you and using the gifts God has given you! Also I would LOVE to see more cooking and meal-prepping videos, as well as how you manage and work with (not against) your ADHD!
Really enjoy All of your videos and just want to say thank you You are definitely one of my favorite videos to watch and I love your sweet family Happy New Year to you and looking forward to watching your video content this next year and yes some simple recipes would be awesome as well ❤
I don’t have much to say, but gosh I love your channel so much. And this video was great. All my best for a successful and fulfilling year of 2023! ❤️
Looking forward to seeing you ❤
You are such a wonderful woman and I love your videos! And I understand the issue to respect the privacy of your children!! 🥰