Have you ever been bullied in the workplace? What advice would you give someone going through it?

@danaabel1049

2 жыл бұрын

Never be afraid to stand up for yourself, b/c there's nothing more important than human dignity.

@andrewgadson89

2 жыл бұрын

@@danaabel1049 salvation through Jesus Christ is way more important than human dignity!

@danaabel1049

2 жыл бұрын

@@andrewgadson89 Maybe so, but from what I'm pointing out, it's like the expression: "God helps those who help themselves."

@brendasuelong-bryant3855

2 жыл бұрын

I have. Straighted my shoulders, looked them in the eyes, ask who they were talking to. It worked!!

@chowking4195

Жыл бұрын

Yup Ive been bullied before when I worked in Malaysia as an OFW>>Overseas Filipino Worker. After a year of working I was assessed by my boss and got an 88% grade with one step increased in salary and level grade but to my surprised, one of my co worker who got 75% grade with a three step salary and level grade even he worked ineffective. So what I did was that I enquire to the HR Manager on what was the basis of assesment to an employee and the answer I received was. If Iam not happy the way they assess me was that I can file my resignation. The following day is that I file my resignation. with a letter saying As adviced by the HR Manager I hereby tender my resignation effective immediately today. And you know, what happen. All department head was shocked and surprised with my direct to the point resignation. 😉😉

Stood up to a bully at work.....got HR turned against me, resigned and left because everybody blames me for speaking up...... would be wonderful if it can work like this in real life.

@katholeenloveit8923

Жыл бұрын

Happened to me too. This seemed very idealistic compared to the real world

@peace-now

Жыл бұрын

Best to divert the bully somewhere else. Having a light hearted approach works. Main rule. Don't gang up on others when the bully is making jokes about them. Make it obvious that you don't think it is funny. No point in going to HR. It creates trouble, breaks trust and they already know anyway. Remember that bullies can change later! I have often seen it.

@ydcee3123

4 ай бұрын

​@@peace-nowVictim blaming 🙄

@peace-now

4 ай бұрын

@@ydcee3123 How come? It is generally best from my point of view to avoid complaining. In a work situation, the bully is often in a managerial position, and HR will support them. To my mind, like with war, peace and compromise is best. In my experience, bullies respect people who are diplomatic and read the situation well. As an older person, respect is all important - and trust too.

@barbarabowles1874

3 ай бұрын

SAME THING HAPPEN TO ME. I ALSO, STOOD UP TO THE UNFAIRNESS IN THE OFFICE AND STOOD UP AND I GOT FIRED. IT WAS SO UNFAIR, BUT I FELT BETTER ABOUT MYSELF FOR STANDING UP.

This is a nice story, but in the real world I've never seen a leopard change their spots before. People can change habits, but their personality never changes.

@peace-now

4 ай бұрын

Disagree strongly. I have seen it many times. People often act from a position of power. Once they lose it, they often learn fast. Life is an ongoing learning exercise.

@healthguy79

2 ай бұрын

Leopards never change spots, only their tactics

All employees, regardless of what company they work for, deserve an environment where they are treated with respect and dignity!!

@Scorpiosting_1029

2 жыл бұрын

Facts.

Every employee deserves to be treated equally no matter the race gender or sexuality

Boss should treated his employee with respect, instead of being a meanie. He will be very sorry for this misdeed, this is too wrong!!!!

It takes so much courage to stand up for yourself

The best way to deal with bullies is to stand up to them. If you show fear and avoid bullies then they will become more abusive. Enough is enough attitude is required to deal with bullies. Seek other people's help and gather data because the bully may have abused others as well.

Karma will get him ‼️ Thanks for the video‼️

@LilT2o00

2 ай бұрын

nah, karma doesn't exist. The bad guy wins 90% of the time that's why billionaires exist. The amount of people they gotta step on to get to where they're at, lol, if karma existed, billionaires wouldn't

If you are not going to do it for yourself, do it for your kids...... 👍👍👍👍👍👍

It takes a strong person to admit when they're wrong. And it takes a strong person to know when to apologize for a wrong they committed. Humility can be a useful asset.

1:20 I’d bet his yearly salary he doesn’t sign her paycheck. Seeing as his father is the CEO and the end shows he not as invincible as he claims. I’m fully sure he doesn’t sign paychecks. The only check he will be signing is the settlement check to Melina for the sexual harassment claim.

I've been bullied and lied on not given chances to promote! Threaten to turn them in to labor board.

If this were Disney and all this happened, with the owner who last name is over the business, all employees and voice actors would never allow that kind of behavior, from anyone. they treat all of their workers with respect and dignity! Walt should've named his wife Liliana Disney, after the company, I love the moral of the story!

Toxic boss

9:45 He asked if you have any proof. That's doesn't meanhe "didn't believed a word you said," that's getting the facts without jumping to conclusions.

@Lindamay9

2 жыл бұрын

I worked for a dreadful company, that allowed power tripping douche bags to become management and walk all over honest hard working employees...! Yes, Shoppers Drug Mart...

This Is one of the best stories i have ever seen and the teaching Is priceless. You really are making big! True masterpiece ⭐

Simple... dad should have just asked Maddox to outline the Davis proposal right now, her in this office at this time. He'd have nothing to give and that would be proving half of the problems.

IVE TAKEN A SUPERVISOR'S FIRST AID LICENCE AND HELD IT FOR THE TERM OF ONE YEAR THEY DIDN'T LIKE IT WHEN I TOOK POSSESSION OF THEIR FIRST AID LICENCE THE RED CROSS COUNCIL WAS THE HIGHER AUTHORITY

Workplaces are the biggest sources of depression and anxiety because of such rubbish boss.

Thank you for the wonderful short film. It reminds me how vulnerable I was before 😔😇😇.

These are valuable lessons for young and old. They are like a bright light shining in the darkness of 'Short Videos Land'. Why are your viewers so few? It appears that these days, most of us prefer not life's lessons, but frivolous entertainment.

@natashamubita7622

2 жыл бұрын

I know right...

@Vortiporius_

Жыл бұрын

People prefer real stories, and reality tv these days.

@rellam240

Жыл бұрын

@@Vortiporius_ Yes...and they are being molded into persons lacking dept and without real values..

Well done, really good acting here

Great story!!

Really GOOD video here! Keep it up, Paradigm Studios!👏🏽👍🏽

Here's a question to consider....if the roles were reversed, the male was an employee, the female was the bosses daughter, do you think the boss would have asked his daughter, "do you have proof?" What would the differences be?

@goingplaces2274

Жыл бұрын

Good point. My guess is no. They will not give a male employee the same treatment because they would think men are stronger and would not be subjected to harassment by a woman, though the truth is that it does happen.

For men who may get mistreated at work, every single day they resist the urge to bring that firearm to work.

@eyecomeinpeace2707

Жыл бұрын

Are you talking about yourself? Get help.

I love this video this is amazing love video love love video

Yea!! Son needs to go

Susie does not look happy in confronting Maddox and his father for cases against him as far as harassment and bending rules is concerned.

Hahahahahahahaha!!

This is so unbelievable.

Well portrayed but I would have loved if the girl had REALLY dished all out in front of the father.

13:16 why you look mad, Maddox? You sign their checks; which means you sign your own check lol. So, when your dad said “suspended with no pay,” on payday, just sign your paycheck. There you go :-p then it changes to “suspended with pay.” LOL!!! Oh what’s that? You were lying about signing Melina and Susie’s paycheck? It’s actually your dad that signs it. Oh well… that sucks.

Melina,if you don't speak out,that gives Maddox the opportunity to do this to another female employee.

Lol!!! I would be like u don’t have to fire me bc I quit.

I like this channel 👌

good work

If he was claiming she's was sexually harassing him why wouldn't he put in a complaint to HR about her?? Such an toxic work environment

Absolutely unreal. Bullies are most probably narcissists and/or psychopaths, which is not a condition, but a trait. Those people don't change. They never "recover" because they are not sick. Be sensible.

Excellent

Well done the actor playing dad

Maddox doesn't seem contrite to me.

Go straight to HR and file a complaint

Hate workplace bullying

Maddox came out good

Yeah... stand up to a bully? If you think things are bad now, it could get a whole lot worse.

The camera that your using was not clear

@jannettsnow2856

2 жыл бұрын

It's clear on my phone

👍🏽👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

This is a powerful vid. But they should have cute it off after speaking to the boss/firing his son. It was all brilliant until that point but then the son immediately apologising right after, IMO, that completely ruined it. It was sweet and idealistic, buy I think it made it seem cheesy and Disneyish, kinda stole some of the thunder from the message. Too bad... Still a good message for sure just.... Could have been better

@mll888

2 жыл бұрын

he apologized yes. 6 months later, not immediately

@estelleschneider9033

2 жыл бұрын

Just like that He changed in 6 months I do not think so...character faults do not leave that quickly..apology was not sincere..phoney I agree..that the video should have ended after his dismissal

@mk_735

2 жыл бұрын

@@estelleschneider9033 not excusing his behavior but he apologized and changed afterwards, are people not allowed to own up to their mistakes and be a better person, if so then you must be the first person to never have done anything wrong in life, or you've just never apologized for it before. Is that the message you want to send?

If I Was In That Position, I'll Be Out Of There Quick Smart!

She shouldn't have believed a word he said, because people like that will always think they're better than everyone else. Also his dad should have fired him.

@chrismc410

2 жыл бұрын

Problem with family being fired is the greater possibility of extreme retaliation. After all, they're family and thus can get close or have resources in place to do the job for them. He'd do it in such a way its not connected to him, he'll inherit the company, quash the harassment case, eventually fire the two women or make their lives a living a living hell to force them to quit on their own.

Cute story but what he did would put him in jail

Karma⚖️👍

No she did not do it at all. He should be a janitor that is for him.

This is out of this world. I encountered content with a similar message, and it was absolutely astonishing. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

Subtitles helps us understand more about it

Yes , you both go and start your own business. You do not need them to be successful, you need yourself to be successful. You two can go and work together, both of you just go and work together. Just go and get your worker together and start your own company.

go in girl

That sounded like Adam Driver

@coreyabell6332

10 ай бұрын

Who dat?

@stephenswift5531

10 ай бұрын

@@coreyabell6332 Adam driver

@coreyabell6332

10 ай бұрын

@@stephenswift5531 Yeah I don't know who he is that's why I asked

@stephenswift5531

10 ай бұрын

@@coreyabell6332 okay

Only in a fantasy would the harasser apologize. the only thing that seemed realistic is that he wasn't fired for sexual harassment. They tried to make a point of the son not being above punishment yet he was allowed to come back to work after it was proven. If it was another man he'd be fired rightfully so. Sexual harassers shouldn't be allowed to come back and work with their victims. If I was her I would have sued.

Threat Alert.

Document Everything. Recordings help.

Don't Play Maddox.

Get together and you two work together. Get out and you all get together. Get all your woman , report him to the cop. Yes you all get together with all the ladies.

Bye Bye Maddox

Brankesh Laui’urī

Rude and nasty boss man and he don't care about he's job

Yes, just get that man out he is a horrible boss.

Ho no you not he will get it.

He his a Brett his father does not see that.

Never knew that males are toxic too...

"I own HR, idiot!"

@LilT2o00

2 ай бұрын

i mean HR works for the company, they never have the employee's best interest in mind. Just how to negotiate and mitigate the damages

@chrisxavier3147

2 ай бұрын

@@LilT2o00 Yes, but I was pointing out the arrogance in that statement

@LilT2o00

2 ай бұрын

@@chrisxavier3147 i mean that's how it actually works 90% of the time lol

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Look forward to Jehova world

Scripted acted lie it starts that way and truth is the victim

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Why am I subscribed to woke over the top fantasy? Sorry, but no. Good actors though.

@kirbyboycoolness6734

2 жыл бұрын

How is this woke and over the top?

Ladies you all get together and guit working for the company.

The lady said it rite. T.O.X.I.C B.O.S.S 👍

I was bullied in the post office the supervisor did nothing to stop it