One day, I hope to be able to love like the Sun. In this episode, I discuss what that means by examining the exultant humility of the star in the center of our solar system. The Sun is one of our best models of the generosity, abundance, and indifference that constitute the most elevated forms of love, and its teachings are freely available to us all. If you're ready to up your game, and move beyond the exchange of value that characterizes relationships, this episode is for you. Social Media Facebook: facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090053889622 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/orion-taraban-070b45168/ Instagram: instagram.com/psyc.hacks Twitter: twitter.com/oriontaraban Website: oriontarabanpsyd.com Orion's Theme: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iaaMpNyKYquqdbQ.html Thinking of going to grad school? Check out STELLAR, my top-rated GRE self-study program based on the world's only empirically-validated test prep system. Use the code "PSYCH" for 10% off all membership plans: stellargre.com. Become a Stellar affiliate and earn a 10% commission for every membership purchased by a new student you conduct into the program: stellargre.tapfiliate.com. GRE Bites: www.youtube.com/@grebites4993 Become a Psychonaut and join PsycHack's member community: kzread.info/dron/SduXBjCHkLoo_y9ss2xzXw.htmljoin Book a paid consultation: oriontarabanpsyd.com/consultations Sound mixing/editing by: valntinomusic.com Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world. #psychology #love #sun

@kickhisassseabass318

9 ай бұрын

Heliocentric belief isn't scientifically proven. Still great video though 👍

@TylerAnderson-xl6hb

9 ай бұрын

On one hand you say one doesn't need love to be in a relationship , and on the other hand if one isn't feeling loved you should leave. I'm not saying this is wrong, however don't you feel the yearning for love or certain feelings greatly negate the feeling of duty in relationships (especially marriage) and would this, in part explain the high divorce rates and breaking down of the nuclear family?

@viktoriaarsova545

9 ай бұрын

I like your shirt😊

@torremalku

9 ай бұрын

@@kickhisassseabass318 All beliefs aren't scientifically proven. That's what makes them a belief, instead of being a fact.

@quirkyqs

9 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video! Do you have tips for becoming more extroverted? I feel like with age, the introverted side has taken over and maybe it has to do with energy levels overall with more responsibilities in life but would love to hear about this topic--thanks!

It was when I realized it was more important to "love" than to "be loved" that I experienced more love than I know what to do with.

@louera

5 ай бұрын

Beautiful realization☺️ Absolutely true. Self-love is the beginning of it all.

@hollismallory2757

4 ай бұрын

Right on

@zegy8454

8 күн бұрын

Absolutely. Been there and it feels really good. Problem is people take you for granted and can be cruel in return. Pains me to accept it, but my self esteem has plummeted and have felt depressed ever since realizing this.

"To get more love, you have to become more loving. " If only everyone in the world understood this concept.... what a wonderful place it would be!

@dan3696

9 ай бұрын

Would you accept my love, then?

@mzwakhetfwala16

9 ай бұрын

It would be a more peaceful place

@lantousaturn6115

9 ай бұрын

Cope. You just have to be attractive (Halo effect). Just BTFO in one sentence 😂

@dennisrobinson8008

9 ай бұрын

Works in theory and in good environments. In a toxic environment itll hurt you.

@jackjones9460

9 ай бұрын

@TotenKopf11 Life doesn’t have to be a struggle in most places until we crowd so many people together food sources are destroyed and disease spreads with our breath.

This is your best video. No blame. No nonsense. No ego. Really wonderful video. I am so glad that you shared this lesson. It’s beautifully profound.

@lionspirit1111

9 ай бұрын

100% agree

@diegobonafe7317

5 ай бұрын

this is a fkn beautiful idea indeed

@filmcity2569

5 ай бұрын

You all just soft😂😂😂

8:25-8:46 really resonated with me. When my ex-fiancée dumped me I had no problem letting her go because it was what she wanted and all I wanted was for her to be happy; I then mourned what I had lost over the following months but had no long-lasting ill effects. I dumped my last girlfriend in anger because of everything she did to me; it took me years to let go and find peace. I loved this episode Dr. Taraban. This is a great message to spread along.

For me, the crazy part is.. I actually find it much more easier to be "unconditionally loving" towards random strangers, than it is close loved ones. If a stranger needs help jumping their battery, carrying their groceries, etc. I'll help them in a heartbeat without even thinking twice about being paid back. However... when it's a person I see on a consistent basis (family, friend, co-worker, etc.), it becomes increasingly harder for me to constantly show love to them without eventually expecting some sort of reciprocation.. Like, it's only when I find myself pouring into the same person over and over again, where my well is most likely to run dry if I don't feel loved in return. Not sure if this is good, bad, normal, abnormal, but yeah. That's how it is for me.

@WinglessRain

9 ай бұрын

It's easier to be kind, authentic, and generous towards people you've not yet formed relations with because you don't have any baggage, but people close to you also need it. I haven't thought of 'reciprocation' in at least 10 years.

@desnicar

9 ай бұрын

Familiarity breeds contempt.

@el-hp1lj

4 ай бұрын

same here. My ex gf even told me how come you're nicer to strangers than me? I dont know, maybe because they are grateful and dont complain when I go out of my way to help them..?

@susanhaines7358

3 ай бұрын

True story this is a dynamic that happens a lot. Especially in marriage. A stranger is not known and a person may always precieve them as good where family is known and seen for who they are. This is to be taken seriously to overcome if you wish to choose and have a successful marriage

This made so much sense. I will keep this video in my back-pocket

@victoriaburgess700

9 ай бұрын

Me too!

@joshuasalameh6513

9 ай бұрын

Beautifully Said 👊🏻😎💯

8:02 If you feel betrayed, or unappreciated, or unreciprocated, then just let go and find someone else. 9:14 If you're not getting what you want from a relationship, just move on and continue to shine. I learned a long time ago you can't control other people's actions or emotions. Only your own. Those two aforementioned quotes reinforce this truth.

Funnily enough, you exactly described God's love. I feel like this is a model by which nobody can and nobody will love. Only God.

@cule4life80

2 ай бұрын

But the sun doesn't punish you if you don't worship it

@TephaRhi

2 ай бұрын

I think it’s possible❤

@hardywatkins7737

2 ай бұрын

No. The persons love. Who is god if not the person.

@TheRockerX

Ай бұрын

Does the sun send you to hell for not loving it in "the right way"?

@MitsurugiR

Ай бұрын

@@TheRockerX redditor

This is one of your best videos. I've listened to them and I haven't quite connected because I do not view my friends and relationships in terms of transactions. I remember I did a little as a kid, but I've loved like the sun for as long as I can remember now. Its very possible. I give because I see there is a need, and their response is irrelevant. I feel nothing in return when giving and joy or apathy is returned. Because its not why you're doing it. Its the knowledge that you assisted where it was needed that counts. Even then, there's not a lot of emotion there. I think true love is cerebral. Its not emotional. Our emotional attachments to friends and family are not love. It is when we accept and help the people around us despite our emotions, because there is the knowledge that they need this, that is the real expression of love.

@siyasamente9590

9 ай бұрын

To serve for their sake and not your own. I resonate with what you said there.

@thegreengatsby9803

9 ай бұрын

I resonate also and I, too, wonder to what degree love is emotional and what degree it is a conscious choice

@ssing7113

9 ай бұрын

To give is to serve your own needs. No you’re not holy or you’ve broken the code. You’re like every one of us self serving our own wants and needs. Nice try though, masking that you’ve made it and give unconditional and with “pure love” There’s a need with much employment. I guess start there filling your towns lack of employment and go give your time for free with nothing expected in return. 😂. Just trapped you. Funny how your “giving” is selective. Wonder what needs are being met selectivity giving where you do Something to ponder on and realize. Yep. You’re still that kid only masking you’re transactions.

I tried this with a girl I was seriously attracted to and I found myself nervous because I was also neglecting my own needs. We're not perfect like the sun. Being clear about wanting reciprocity is healthier.

@grinja73

9 ай бұрын

I think this model works best when two people understand it, otherwise one might be more of a taker than a giver.

@DNA350ppm

9 ай бұрын

It is nobody's business whom you love. You don't have to bury that feeling. Just be happy that you are one who is able to love. It is not even the business of the one(s) you love. But discussing about engaging in a long term relationship, then only choose reciprocal, mutual connection, one that makes you thrive, both of you. Never pester somebody with your loving feelings, they are yours, and nobody's business nor responsibility - just keep on being a decent person in all your conduct. Then love and appreciate those who love you, think: there's a person with good taste and all! Among those you'll find one to build a mutually satisfying relationship with.

@austintran451

9 ай бұрын

You’re misunderstanding what Mr. Taraban is saying and you were never loving like the sun because you still needed something. The Sun simply shines and doesn’t need anything from you. Loving is simply its nature because it’s what it is and it simply can’t stop loving. As long as you need something from someone, you can’t Love them. To seek love is to imply its nonexistence, which means you haven’t embodied Love yet. When you’re whole and happy by yourself and you don’t need anything from anyone anymore to be happy, it is only then that you can Love like the sun. But that’s a hard state to attain so yes, rather than pretending to be loving like the Sun, it is healthier to express wanting reciprocity.

@mikebrines5708

9 ай бұрын

You tried this in a relationship, yet his whole point was, love can't be part of a relationship. Relationships are trasnactional. Love is not. Watch the video again and maybe you'll understand.

@NextLineIsMine

9 ай бұрын

The model transcends that. Self-love overflows to the other, like he says, you’d simply part ways if that were the case

Love is a beautiful feeling. When we give love to someone, we are giving a part of our feeling to them. Such is the charm of love that it makes you feel like a kid running in green meadows on a sunny day, flying its kite, it makes you feel that life is worthwhile ❤.

@davidteeples2558

3 ай бұрын

Beautiful description thank you!

Linkin Park said - “ The sun doesn't give light to the moon assuming The moon's gonna owe it one” From a young age this resonated with me and you’ve just put words to what I felt all these years. Much love and power to you sir

Guess this is why we have a habit of developing Sun/sky gods

Starting the video. I'm intrigued because I had a 12 year marriage that absolutely fell apart, and I'm in a five year LTR that is doing very well, and I attribute our current success and mutual satisfaction owing precisely to becoming very clear about an exchange of value. We both consistently work hard to make sure the other is not feeling taken advantage of. And when we become aware of that feeling, we bring it up in a non-volatile way and seek to balance things out. So, now I'll start your video because I'm intrigued and I'll report as a reply.

@lannister4694

9 ай бұрын

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"It's shining because it's a fucking star!"

I love your shirt!☄️ Seriously, the sun is a noteworthy metaphor! 🌞 High five to fellow Heliophiles! Great one doc!

@vtmegrad98

9 ай бұрын

I'm legit distracted from this video because I can't stop thinking that I'd like to have one of those shirts myself.

@oh-dizzy8791

9 ай бұрын

@@vtmegrad98 Google image search and see! 😃

You don't know how much I needed to hear this today. Thank you.

Excellent metaphor. I feel like this video was made for me because very recently, I've discovered my sun powers! I've quit being emotionally attached to my expectations of others and I 100% believe that all I need is myself. It's been truly liberating.

@EK-mi6zn

9 ай бұрын

The metaphor should not be overly stretched, though. Thinking of yourself as approximating our sun's abundance appears as narcissistic, I prefer to shine for people that have, or might have, some kind of relationship with me. Metaphorically, light always is accompanied by shadow, at least on this earth.

@AvocadoBee

9 ай бұрын

@EK-mi6zn I see what you're saying. I think that this sun metaphor is actually antithetical to narcissistic behavior. Being indifferent means you aren't perturbed or compromised by an outcome. You (like the Sun) should give of yourself without any expectation of recognition or reward. This is charity. And It should go without saying, you shouldn't abandon your self-improvement mindset as well as your good manners. Although, I suppose that indifference alone would be narcissistic. And yes, light does cast a shadow. But what is a shadow? It is darkness diminished!

Accept your nature, if you give, and give and get nothing for it, you will feel resentful, unless you believe you will get a prize in "afterlife" for your deeds.

@angrydragon4574

9 ай бұрын

That's why most religions have to sell you on the "Heaven's Reward" fallacy. There's no evidence for Heaven or Hell other than BELIEF. It's like believing in Santa Claus but for adults that can't bear reality.

I'm finishing a book about my love story and now I'm not suffering anymore. I'm not even sure if I will show him the art that I poured in the form of words. I'm just grateful that he expanded my emotions. Thank you for your videos. They really help me to get up again. Wish you the sun!

@RicksPhatPharm-vw2lb

9 ай бұрын

Yes, MGTOW no so shallow after all is it... gotta love that black pill

@lauren4434

4 ай бұрын

wow, what a beautiful comment. God bless you.

@lilakurylski4590

4 ай бұрын

@@lauren4434 how kind of you for telling me that, thank you Lauren. Im still refining some chapters of that book. I sure feel so blessed for integrating that part in me. Hope you leave your fears behind and focus on what makes you happy and important. God bless you.

@lauren4434

4 ай бұрын

Truly you have inspired me. I have turned an apparent abandonment and rejection into a creativity that has served me and my relationship with God, and the expansion which came from apparent "failure" of the relationship I had wanted has been for me like a huge golden step up.. I chose this. Thank you, kindred soul, @@lilakurylski4590

"And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make." -Beatles

Can you elaborate on the bit about, "When you feel love, what you're actually experiencing is your own love leaving you. That's true for all emotions."

"happiness comes to those who spread love like the suns rays, without asking if they deserve it"

This is so good. I've basically witnessed the same thing in myself where at the point where I told my significant other that I'd love her, it was to some level replaceable. Like... don't get me wrong it's not that ANY other woman could have sat there next to me, but I just felt this sense of deep love, respect and contentment for myself which I was able to express to the outside world and I feel like after this moment everything changed for me, I would not get upset about rejection of the love I was giving anymore.

@Amlux1984

9 ай бұрын

You aren’t really loving if the rejection doesn’t hurt. Love isn’t numb.

@mrchristian87

9 ай бұрын

@@Amlux1984love is a state you can let flower in you but it can also be censored by the constriction of the mind aka the ego.

This is the best description of God's love and how Christ models love for the church & humanity at large I've heard from a secular source. Absolutely helpful explanation on how to be Christlike in loving others!

It's difficult to remove the ego when it comes to expressing love with another person, because on some level you desire reciprocation. Getting that return for your investment equates to your value in a way, and yet you give away a lot of your own power in the process. Loving just to love is definitely a worthwhile goal. Great video.

@andersnielsen6044

9 ай бұрын

If you expect returns - you do not love!

People going with this sun analogue should search for ❤ Suryavanshi Prabhu Shri Ram ❤

Brought a tear to my eye. Thank you for making us lovers feel seen, understood, heard and valuable.

So beautiful! You really brought it home for me with the example of our children playing in the distance. And it gave me a whole new appreciation for the scripture, "God is love." Thank you!

This is also how I’ve always viewed love since a child Doc. I’m able to love a woman with all my heart but I’m a very unattached man. I’ve had many relationships throughout my life but they never work out because I don’t like being attached to a woman for too long. Its gotten to a point now where all the women in my life seem to unconsciously know how I am by nature. I’m a loyal dude who stand on my word, they know even if I’m doing my own thing I will never abandon them, so they stay loyal to me. I show my women love, I don’t impose anything on them, they are free to live their lives as they please. As life go by, they always stay attached to me in some way because I stimulate their minds and bodies. Relationships aren’t my thing, but women who understand me always experience the time of their lives.💯💯

@ChuckNorris-nk8tq

9 ай бұрын

Exactly how I am as well. Reserved but willing to love unattached. Want my own space and time but willing to give love when I see a chance.

@dwightbrown

9 ай бұрын

Great to read. You just described me as well.

@dimetriwatt7334

9 ай бұрын

Just read your post and I'm going to practice unattachment. I'm the guy that usually puts buffers in place to protect my investment. I was told though "that it feels like walking on eggshells"...I am open to care and loving a woman, but now i need to work on removing myself and not trying to control everything

@profound369

9 ай бұрын

So girls you're with bang other guys and come back and it's fine

@rod4726

9 ай бұрын

Basically marriage is not for you

"You are the one you have been looking for", this hit me like thunder 🤯

thanks Dr, i literally got out of a relationship last month, i felt like my love wasn´t been reciprocated, so instead of turning bitter and vengeful towards her, i just let her go, i stopped focusing on her and instead i just focus on my goals, told her that i´m not gonna make her be with me against her own will, so we are now again walking are own paths, it is a strange feeling but very refreshing, focusing on doing actions because they are the things that make you feel meaning in life, i still have the memories which make me feel i´m carrying some extra luggage, but as time goes on, day by day it feels lighter, just keep living and loving, because it is the right way of living, be your best possible version!

living your life appreciates the sun way beyond any other form of worshipful awe

This video is on another level .. it’s profound- you have a gift to teach, clarity you bring to any topic is second to none. Big fan, here

Thank you! Recently I’ve been wondering about that idea of being too nice too people and your discussion here encouraged me to not worry if people can’t handle kindness, it’s not my problem they can go on living in fear as much as they want. Meanwhile I can enjoy being kind when possible simply because it’s a pleasure. Thank you.

@edwardbrito4010

9 ай бұрын

Becareful who you shine to people take advantage & can abuse if you don’t put boundaries.

The entire expaination makes perfect logical sense, but what I found to be particularly interesting is the example of the parent watching in the distance and the conclusion that comes from it i.e. the highest response to love is joy and not some form of transaction or exchange. Even a feeling or demonstration of gratitude, praise, or appreciation, could become a repayment to the person expressing love, which would automatically relegate those responses to an inferior status compared to joy. Since joy is something that is personally experienced, it cannot be transactioned while maintaining its spontaneous nature - fake joy is not joy at all. This helped me understand that, while it's desirable to show this type of love to others, it's also essential to have the proper response when others show this kind of love to me.

The sun shines on the good, bad and the ugly

That was really beautiful and very true. I thought about this a lot and I’ve realized that it is the giver of love who get to experience love.

I look at this kind of stuff the same way as a marketer. I would look at it like email marketing. Just give value and even if 20% of the emails I sent out are reciprocated with a purchase, 20% is an insanely successful percentage. Be grateful for that 20% success rate but be more focused adding more value to myself through becoming more valuable. Indifferent to outcome is the best way to be.

@angrydragon4574

9 ай бұрын

That's not a bad metaphor except you have to also keep in mind that those respondents also have their own interests in mind ahead of yours.

@RecreationalUseOnly

9 ай бұрын

@@angrydragon4574 exactly. Of course they do. That’s why we always have to invest in ourselves more than others. We have to use whatever we do to attract others as something that betters ourself first and foremost.

Love like the sun. Very quotable ☀️

There’s genius in you Sir! You have made my life a better experience in multiple ways. Very much appreciated and I wish you all enrichment you have gifted to us all your watchers. Shine on Sir!

This was a very profound video

Incredible I tried to explain this yesterday with a date and got halfway there. I'm going to send this because you put it so beautifully. Thank you🙏

Whoa! Listening to this while sitting in the sun at lunch is rather comforting. Love this analogy so much. You are spot on here. 🌞

Did you know you uploaded this episode on the first day of the new year? As millions of us turn our thoughts to making peace with the events of the past year, your wise words about letting go with love could not be more illuminating. May this be the year that we all learn to love like the sun.

There are profound theological implications here worthy of unfolding in my context.

Thank you for share us this unconditional love is part of this ! Time to shine 😎 experiencing this at the moment

There are different categories of love. I love all people but this doesn't mean I have to like them. After 21 plus years when I found my daughter, she said she hated her father. My advice to her was to love her dad, forgive him and hope that he bettered himself. Do this for yourself. He may not care that you forgave him, but hate destroys the vessel. I am not Religious but I believe in a higher power. I believe that to worship this entity is to help others when the situation presents itself if possible. When I give love, I feel this incredible warmth and what I call champagne fuzzy bubbles. This feeling elevates me. One of the most precious gifts I have received is to meet someone who I had helped, sometimes even years later and the tell you how much the help you gave them made a positive impact on their life.

I love this. Love is to give with no expectation of reciprocation. To require reciprocation is antithetical to what love even is. When loving less, being less loving is required to be perceived as being of greater value and appreciated that is just confirmation of it being a transactional relationship void of actual love anyways. Love like you are the sun and never let anyone dim your light.

Finally! A KZreadr who’s saying things beyond the transactional, marketplace discourse in which most discussions about relationships are framed. What a relief!

Every human relationship is a transaction. Whenever someone helps you is because either it’s THEIR JOB (meaning they help others for a living) or it’s a family member or even a significant other who needs you because of the value you provide to them.

@DesiresAttackVirtues

9 ай бұрын

You live a sad life if that's how you think. People can love each other enough to help strangers in need without reciprocity.

@ChrisPTY507

9 ай бұрын

​@@DesiresAttackVirtues I am not interested in arguing with a random on the internet. I'll just say that you're in for a rude awakening. There is no need for me to explain why; life will teach you. Have a wonderful day.

@betteremotional

9 ай бұрын

​@@ChrisPTY507lol try to comprehend the topic. It's about love, not relationship. Everyone knows human interactions are majorly transactional

@georgedang449

9 ай бұрын

@@DesiresAttackVirtues People help strangers in an environment where strangers helped them in the past. It's still give and take, just reciprocating with different people instead of the same person. When you love someone, the feeling of love you get is the reward, and the help you give freely to the subject of that love, your payment. Only when you love equally and shines on everyone under the sun, do you love like the sun. You are neither Jesus Christ or Buddha, you do not love like the sun. Your love is towards a specific object, and you receive as the euphoria of loving that object.

@mikebrines5708

9 ай бұрын

@@DesiresAttackVirtues But that's not a relationship. That's love. You have no relationship with strangers.

Soooo true! And beautifully said. Amen.

Absolutely fantastic! You have an unique analogical talent. Even the well known analogies seem new from your mouth. Thank you.

Your last few videos have been very profound and have helped me open my mind to be stronger and more resilient- thank you so much

Hope everyone can love like the sun, this planet can be more than illuminated ☀ ❤

The sun shines on all, both the good and the bad...

Dr. I gotta say, your videos are getting better and better and this one was instantly one of my all time favorites ❤

My G-d. This has been his best talk yet! Really amazing!

Completely agree. That's why one of my favorite songs is "Here comes the sun" George Harrison

This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.

Man I love this one this need to be retaught in the churches and religious institutions of today some of that timeless wisdom❤🎉😊

When I got older, I started to love more like the sun. I'm not sure where I learned to live with an open hand. I think men love more like the sun (unconditionally) and women love more like the moon (conditionally and in different phases).

Best talk yet. So incredibly healing. Such a huge moment of realisation. ❤ thank you!

I'll be honest as someone who naively chose to love all, I got very burnt over the last year overspreading that love, make sure your love is earned.

WOW brother. You put into words my knowledge of Love. It’s even more tangible now. Thank you.

This was so beautiful to listen to. Thank you so much for sharing

That is something to strive for!

Definitely enlightening, I needed to hear this. I definitely forwarded this to a couple of people who will benefit, just like I did 👍

This is one of the best expression of Christian theology as Christ revealed, without mentioning the word God or Grace. This is what Christ said and acted in his life when he spoke of his Father.

I love this! ❤ Beautiful analogy wrapped around such wisdom. One of your best videos yet! Shine on my friend… Yet stay humble like the sun!!🌞🌞🌞

Self-sacrificing martyrdom is a real problem for many women who grew up in dysfunctional homes, as I did. What is needed is not to love the other as the sun would love him, asking nothing in return; but in rediscovering our own self as that Sun, falling back in love with our own soul..... Then, gently watch what happens. No more drama needed. I do think Orion Taraban is saying overall the same thing.

Dr.Taraban... Love your channel and videos

Amen brother! That was beautiful ❤

I just got into a new relationship and am binging your videos again so I can navigate this without imploding, thanks dr!

"After all this time, the sun has never said to the earth, you owe me." Rumi

Such a wonderful message! wow, it really does make sense why we often times get the idea of love mixed with unnecessary emotion and drama! This has been the most important and enlightening lesson I’ve been taught in my life!🎉

To get more love you have to be more loving .................... to the right people. Do not be loving to the wrong people. Wrong people will just drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

@divinelovestar

9 ай бұрын

Thanks for share this and totally agree💓

Love this metaphor. Excellent description, thank you for articulating it so well

"Lucidity is the wound closest to the sun." René Char (1907-1988), French Poet

They say the greatest wisdom is often the simplest and here is a perfect example of a really complicated issue being explained in a simplest form

Love this episode. There is soo much depth in the comparison with love and the sun. Sun worship was a massive part of most ancient cultures, and I think this is no coincidence.

Thanks!

“And still, after all this time, the Sun has never said to the Earth,‘You owe me.’ Look what happens with love like that. It lights up the sky.” -Jalaluddin Rumi

Your insights always make me see things a lot more clear, I really appreciate your content, thank you, Orion!

This is my favorite video from you. It reminds us of the goal of how we should live our lives.

I've always take a pride in my ability to loves people in my life that won't ever gives me back any of it. At one point a girl felt the love I was radiating and fell in love with me. Never have I felt to be loved romantically like that, and it made me fall in love with her. We were in a happy and loving relationship for 3,5 years. Last year she no longer feel that love, and last month she dumped me. I on the other end, always had my love for the women that came before her and still have the love I had for her. She found another man and I know for a fact that it is better for her to be with him. It hurt so much, yet I have to let her go. Today I'm going to lie to her and tell her I've lost my love for her, it will ease her mind so that she can be happier with her new man. Without your videos on love and relationships, I wouldn't be able to love her fully like that. Now with this video I also realize that I can still spread loves and be happier about it rathsr than focusing on the relationship that she gave up upon. I will keep loving, and try to be as close as possible to the sun. Thank you sir, some people might not understand your words, but for those who do, it is such a blessing. I hope to be like you one day.

@noworneverzzz9888

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You made me cry.

Thank you soooo much!!❤

I watched a lot of your episodes and I’ve got to say, this is my favorite message.

Wow what a profound message, we should go in relationship not because of the NEED to love but out of the DESIRE to EXPRESS love

This is “Truly” your best , AND ONE OF THE BEST I’ve ever heard….EVER!

This was much better explained video than the last one

This is really profound and so elegantly presented. Your channel is a gold mine

This is my favorite video you have done so far. I've shown it to so many people.

Beautiful words

Very good Orion! Beautiful, as a matter of fact. Thank you for producing this Video.

Dude is a genius

Brilliantly said. This man knows his stuff.

This is the best one you've ever done. Profound. Pure TRUTH

I love this message!