When he said "everytime you go through a relationship, a piece of you dies", i felt that deep into my heart

@halimageremew9760

Жыл бұрын

me too

@fashionismydrugblog

Жыл бұрын

@@halimageremew9760 i feel you sister ♡

Who's watching this in 2022?

this man can be a great president!

@ricardopelc-wesoly3483

3 жыл бұрын

Yes and a Teacher for Humanity.

@Certitude_o

3 жыл бұрын

Right

@somayyamughal8313

2 жыл бұрын

Which country?

@luweiweiwei.3069

2 жыл бұрын

@@somayyamughal8313 all 7 continents Maybe!

@adanahmed8917

2 жыл бұрын

@@luweiweiwei.3069 actually the whole world

You invest your time, energy in a relationship, you might fall in love and if it doesn't work out you get your heart broken and trust me it hurts so much! After that you start dating again and the process starts again, it is horrible! It is like stuck in this loop where you go from one partner to another, it becomes meaningless! May Allah protect all of us and bless us with goodness in both worlds.

@queenbee7074

2 жыл бұрын

Ameen! I have a few girlfriends who are non-muslims and they are so unhappy on the relationships front! They go on dates, sometimes horrible things happen and sometimes they r happy with their new boyfriend but he cheats, ghosts them or worse just never wants to commit and when I hear them I thank Allah for my husband N how we can work things out as we are bound by the sacred convent of marriage. Alhamdo’lillah Allah has made systems that serve us best!

@mairachoudhry8438

2 жыл бұрын

Ameen

@joy8801

2 жыл бұрын

@@queenbee7074 may Allah protect you and your husband from evil eye and all harms ameen. What you said is very true

@ilhanmoussa3074

2 жыл бұрын

Aminn ya rab

@leangroundbeef2322

2 жыл бұрын

Islam= 🤮🤮🤮🤮

wow 8 years ago, when people could speak the truth without being cancelled

@anindanahiyan8660

2 жыл бұрын

"Cancelling" only works on people/organizations that depend on the approval of others to survive. Islam can't be cancelled because real Muslims don't need the approval of others, they only want the approval of Allah.

@amala558

2 жыл бұрын

@@anindanahiyan8660 yooooooo that’s literally the best mindset ever

@SoSo-of8pp

2 жыл бұрын

@@anindanahiyan8660 amazing response!

@p.shahnazhanum8

Жыл бұрын

@@anindanahiyan8660 This is very wise Indeed. It all boils down to two things,, Are you seeking the Approval of Men or are you seeking The Approval of GOD?

Subhanallah he was only 25 in this video but look at him stating facts! so full of wisdom

Why didn't I listen to this before, the damage is already done. Nvm it's fine, now i got to listen thank god. Y'all, listen to what he says!! 😭

@Saraii5690

2 жыл бұрын

For me too lmao but it’s never too late to start. Healing at the moment ❤️

so much clarity and wisdom in his speech subhan Allah

TRUTH. Young muslims must watch this lecture.

@johnnyo.9391

2 жыл бұрын

Young people who aren’t muslim should watch this too, just like myself.

I'm not a Muslim but damn... this man spitting! I'll be taking this on board.

@Maria46823

Жыл бұрын

I really recommend his lectures even if not Muslim, a lot of non Muslims listen as well. They are really good advice. Especially this one applies to everyone : kzread.infoCghQ9tOkUSE?feature=share

The love comes when we see the person for who they are and are still willing to accept the spouse!

*Wow sheikh Omar doesn't age for a decade ✊😗*

@mohamad1647

2 жыл бұрын

Ma shaa Allah

"He prays 5 times a day ---> Mashallah sahabee" 😂

@ZAMislive

Жыл бұрын

ikrrr lmaoo 😂 yaAllah... omar suliman some jokes xD may Allah fovegive our sins aamen

Mashaalah he makes me laugh... I love brother Omar the sake of Allah

MasyaAllah, thank Allah for the guidance, this video randomly got into my recommendations i didnt searched for it but i sure needed to be reminded of the danger of these issues

So much wisdom just can't thank this man enough..!

masha allah this was soo refreshing. the way he speaks and hes very articulate masha allah. may allah bless him

9 years ago. Great talk, I hope he still lives and preaches by this.

Wholesome speech masha allah💖

this is one of the best lectures i’ve ever heard

Maa sha Allah, tabarakAllah. We are soo blessed with such of these brothers like brother Sheikh Dr.Omar Suleiman, in The blessed shade of Islam. Jazaakh Allahu khayran sheikh, for this beneficial talk. May Allah SWT grant you the best reward, and help us all, grant us tawfiq and make this issue easier for us. Aameen.

Truly the knowledge and wisdom this man is from Allah SWT...

Thank you Dr. Omar Suleiman! We need your truth and fire in this world!!!

alhamdolilah May Allah reward you for this khutba

@thestraightpath8236

2 жыл бұрын

اَمِين يَا رَبَّ الْعَالَمِيْن

This is an unbelievable conversation and a terrific explanation. I hail from what Americans consider an incredibly restrictive conservative faith background as a Latter-day Saint. But I’m terms of dating, we are traditionally encouraging to the point of pushing our young folks to date frequently. I’ve experienced it as well myself and married within that faith … and it’s not been great. This way is a better way, for sure. I wish I had done things like this back in the day.

@silentstorm718

Жыл бұрын

These people are nuts dude. They are no one to imitate.

@keining4081

Жыл бұрын

This is the order of Allah not to date!! Not the order of omar suleiman! If you date girls than you might do other things as well because you are not alone at the time of dating shaitan is as well with you bzzzzz

@silentstorm718

Жыл бұрын

@@keining4081 But you follow a bunch of chicks KZread channels

@keining4081

Жыл бұрын

@@silentstorm718 what do you mean by chicks?

@silentstorm718

Жыл бұрын

@@keining4081 females

Ooh I love Dr Omar suleiman for d sake of Allah.

Awesome lecture!!!!!👌👌👌👌

Respect this guy

Jazak Allah!!

Excelent lecture and awesome advice. If only people follow half of what Umar suggested they would be in a better position. You don't have to sacrifice your relationship with your parents to find someone to love & live your life with. Always ensure the family package 📦 is successful in your relationship. Never marry someone who abandons his or your family .

The algorithm brought me here.Timely!

great talk :) Alhamdulillah

@kuzon2132

5 жыл бұрын

Agreed

I love him. I love his smile. MashAllah.

Alhamdulillah thank you for clarifying

14:50 👍🏼 every relationship you lost something from you 17:25

Me on a mission to seeking marriage the halal way

@lewismiller870

2 жыл бұрын

LMFAO, good luck.

@mohamedkdc

2 жыл бұрын

@@lewismiller870 Who hurt you man🤦🏾‍♂️ SAMii Insha Allah you find a blessed one brother.

@lewismiller870

2 жыл бұрын

@@mohamedkdc No one hurt me, little boy. I just wished him good luck. It ain't allowed here?

@Saraii5690

2 жыл бұрын

@@lewismiller870 LMFAO isn’t normally the way people start to try and wish someone the best. You were being condescending.

@lewismiller870

2 жыл бұрын

@@Saraii5690 and?

Subahanallah 👍

Ma sha Allah

رب إني لما أنزلت الي من خير فقير

Subhanallahi wa bihamdihi

Walahy exactly 💯 👏

My ustadhhhhh

I’m actually in love with Him🤍 May Allah bless his soul.

@thestraightpath8236

2 жыл бұрын

اَمِين يَا رَبَّ الْعَالَمِيْن

Other than that.. this was a solid video

The "old" me would 100% agree that guys and girls cannot "just be friends". That was before I accepted Islam completely into my heart. Nowadays...I have no problem with it at all. My devotion to Allah overrides things like envy, cupidity, and lust. I know in my heart Allah would not want me to engage in any kind of physical relationship outside of marriage. And so for me it is that simple. I wish to remain chaste and pure so there can be no doorway for evil. What makes Allah happy is my first priority in my life. Should Allah one day guide me toward a woman to marry, I will most assuredly set the passion my heart ablaze for her. But this is not something I am actively looking for...and I remain firm in my commitment to our Lord. Embrace humility my brothers and sisters.

11:18 "That's not what I signed up for" 😂

Or did anyone think of this? If it's too much of a burden, just don't get married...spend your life establishing and growing a love for Allah. Allah is the only one who loves you no matter what you do and Allah will never leave or break your heart. When you reach jannah, you can get married to someone far superior and wondered why you wasted your energy in this dunya. InshaAllah.

@windilabalbone6500

2 жыл бұрын

I agree

@wafa-ug3bt

2 жыл бұрын

i agree

@justarandomguy6794

2 жыл бұрын

That's a completely dumb stance because first of all you're not following the sunnah of Prophet S.A.W and second of all ALLAH never ordered such an act to be done. What made you think you could develop a better connection with ALLAH by lessening your burdens? One time three sahaba came to the Prophet S.A.W's wife and asked her what was the Propet S.A.W's routine. She told them the Prophet's routine and they came to the conclusion that marraige was just a burden along with eating and sleeping so they would fast all day and spend their entire nights worshiping all the while being single. When the prophet S.A.W heard all this from his wife he got furious like never before and asked why they came to such a conclusion. Marrying and having kids is jihad. Providing through halal means while raising your kids to be good muslims will get you far more reward than whatever you think you'll get by being alone.

@papayaman123

2 жыл бұрын

@@justarandomguy6794I respect your opinion but do not think this is a dumb stance. Many people are not meant to marry nor want to and it should not be forced upon them. Alhamdullilah for you if you can do it but not everyone has the capability. Don't impose extremist mentalities on others. Allah knows best.

@justarandomguy6794

2 жыл бұрын

@@papayaman123 This isn't an extremist stance. You are saying that the responsibility that comes with marriage is a burden and is a hinderence inbetween you and ALLAH. If that were the case then why did the Prophet S.A.W marry? You think you can develop a better relation than him with ALLAH by not marrying? And who are these people you are talking about who can't get married or don't want to? ALLAH made the desire for the opposite gender in male and female for a reason.

Mashallah😀😀

jumping jacks 😂 love his advice

It's to do with attractions and feelings and emotions and hearts

HE LOOKS SO YOUNG OMG

I'm not having a arrange marriage dad can forget that

@Saraii5690

2 жыл бұрын

I’d honestly be happy if my parents found someone for me 😭

subhanALLAH

@softlyspiritual

Жыл бұрын

May Allah bless this brother and grant all of us listening Jannat ul Firdaus. Ya Allah make us righteous muslims. Allahumma ameen

@softlyspiritual

Жыл бұрын

Trust Allah subhanahu wa ta ala

Marriages are like that now "trying to make it work!"

I understand but according to this, you can't marry a new convert then if they are not fully practicing yet? I have seen many in happy marriages and they both got more religious after the marriage.

And mind

I think you can only be friends if it's just professional but if you spend your leisure time with them individually then no you can't either one of you is expecting or want more. So keep it professional, don't discuss much of your personal life more than you need to. You don't have to be rude, be nice and don't give yourself or other a chance to do something that you dont want. There is a reason friendzone is a huge thing. That's my opnion. Lastly, my question would how would you like a person other than attractiveness because you ain't going to date them or be friends to figure a person, at that point what I have seen parents are also just betting on what they think often it doesn't workout. Atleast with attractiveness you can trust your biological programming to know bilogical or evolutionary hierarchy most of the times lol but if there was a way to know their personality or deen then that would be better pick for sure but how can we know about that.

@tealeafs3824

2 жыл бұрын

As a non-muslim, I used to think men and women can be friends. Now I don't. My ex got involved with his co-worker, a friend of many years, and things ended badly for two families. People around me think I'm short minded, but I've seen too many situations like this, where they kept each other around for years, and one day they got involved sexually. I guess I'm more muslim than I want to admit.

@mahiaabedinnourin947

2 жыл бұрын

@@tealeafs3824 I think you should watch more videos of This Iman also follow him on Instagram. I hope you will find the true you.I hope after clearing all doubts, you will accept Islam because it is the only religion that is true.In sha Allah, you will find peace in your life...

This aged well

Hyderabad? Gujarat?Has he been to India before

28:35

14:30

What about parents who don’t care if a person is good for u they just want that person bcuz thts who they’ve planned for u since u were young. How will u ever come to an agreement?? U either marry someone who your parents don’t agree with or marry someone your parents want but is bad for you? (not talking about me btw just generally)

@What-fc8df

Жыл бұрын

Nobody get’s forced to marry someone they don’t want in islam. If your parents doesn’t agree, and you know the guy is a good muslim the parents must accept.

This is the Omar Suleima I loved not the one that supports qawm lut .

A "love marriage" is an oxymoron anyway no marriage can survive without love and understanding! Who coined the term "love marriage"?

If you get married you get the whole packages

I have an online male frnd and today I am gonna end things

@abdaljbar8253

Жыл бұрын

same

6:40 عجبني الكلام بس الصراحة اشوف ظلم شلون وصف العرب قبل الاسلام كانه معندهم ولاشي زين والرسول صلى الله عليه وسلم بنفسه قال «إنما بعثت لأتمم مكارم الأخلاق» يعني العرب كان عندهم اخلاق والرسول بعث عشان يتممها يعني نوعا ما ظلم انه تعمم الصورة هذي عن العرب قبل الاسلام وكانه مافيهم خير

@louy4450

2 жыл бұрын

اي اخلاق تقصد ها ؟ ف الجاهليه وتقلي اخلاق اكيد تقصد من بعد الرسول

@bored6463

2 жыл бұрын

@@louy4450 الكرم والوفاء بالعهد والشجاعة والانفة وعزة النفس وغيره وغيره

@bored6463

2 жыл бұрын

@@louy4450 انا قصدي انه العرب ف الجاهلية كان عندهم اخلاق حسنة بس الاسلام اتممها ، ما اقول انه كل اخلاقهم كانت زينة بس بنفس الوقت مب عدل تقول انه كلشي فيهم مب زين وانه ماعندهم اخلاق تماماً واهما بالصج كان عندهم بعض اخلاق زينة

@layans.3330

Жыл бұрын

هو قصده انو لا تشوفون الاسلام كشيء رجعي بينما بالحقيقه هو انزل على عرب مكة الي كانوا يعبدون الاوثان، يشربون خمر، يلعبون قمار وميسر، وعندهم استعباد واحتقار الفقراء، وواد البنات، وما فيه اي احترام للمراه، وعندهم تعصب للقبائل، وو … اشياء كثير هذي كلها سلبيات واضحه وجاء الاسلام ودحضها. ما كان قصده يقلل من صفات العرب كثر ما انو يوضح نقطة الاسلام مو رجعي وبالعكس كان سبب انه يطلع افضل ناس (الصحابه) بالرغم من المجتمع الي كانوا فيه.

13:00

@alveera8834

2 жыл бұрын

13:35

@alveera8834

2 жыл бұрын

14:00

@alveera8834

2 жыл бұрын

14:40

@alveera8834

2 жыл бұрын

14:57

Nowadays watch out for qirl and qirl friends ..

19:00 - 19:20 😂

18:43 34:25

I dont know if this is Khutba or stand Up comedy.

@MultiDarkstar21

3 жыл бұрын

Not a khutbah, just looks like a discussion/class

@anotherakhi1078

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 Omar Suleiman 💯🔥

I have an objection. I can be a friend with a girl and never think about anything else, most of you wont believe but it is a true statement.

@ishaqrahman4888

Жыл бұрын

would you have a wife and friend thats a girl?

@AhmadEdinHodzic

Жыл бұрын

@@ishaqrahman4888 yes but someone smart and mature that i can share my experience and opinions as a friend.

@ishaqrahman4888

Жыл бұрын

@@AhmadEdinHodzic Just share with your wife and that description sounds like a wife as well😂

@AhmadEdinHodzic

Жыл бұрын

@@ishaqrahman4888 only difference is that you don’t provide to your female friend and you don’t engage in any sexual activity with her 🙂

🥰😀😃😀😀😂😂😂

I still don't agree man. Cause I'm a girl and my best friend for over 20 years has been a guy. He's a very nice pious guy. After he got married, his wife who is also very religious, she then became my best friend too. Actually, maybe what I'm talking about is the exception, not the rule. But I truly felt what respect and honour can do to a friendship between a boy and girl. My best friend is actually like my brother.

@theARMYGamer

2 жыл бұрын

That’s not the point he’s making. The greater truth he stated “in the end of the day we are men” implying that whether you have been friends for 20 years and never hooked up or even if he is married, as a man he at one point may have looked at you in a way that isn’t halal. In Islam men and women are to lower their gaze… to not look at each other sexually unless married to that person. Also to make it very clear that temptation exist. And the greatest way to not have temptations is to take away the possibilities of it ever existed aka girls and guys being friends.

@ShogunTen

2 жыл бұрын

@@theARMYGamer crystal clear 👌🏼

@lewismiller870

2 жыл бұрын

@@theARMYGamer "take away the possibilities of it ever existed aka girls and guys being friends" are you really religious if you can't control the most simple thing that EVERY single religion has ever said, control your lust? Are you really worthy of the heaven if you can't even do one thing, which is the most simple one?

@peaceplace4565

2 жыл бұрын

Girl he’s at least once looked at u or thought about u in a non halal way. It’s inevitable. Thats just how biologically men are u cant reason with tht. Whether a guy wants u or not, naturally he will do tht.

I was enjoying this video until the 12:00 minute mark. Marriage was not frowned upon in early Christianity. Marriage is a sacred covenant, a holy matrimony that is divinely blessed. Christians would have been pretty stupid to follow this concept because if we were practicing celibacy, how else would our numbers grow? I think what he is getting mixed up is, in Christian teachings sexual intercourse purely for one’s pleasure was indeed frowned upon and discouraged. Sex was taught and encouraged as only for procreation. You know... so we don’t go extinct 🙄

@adrppy1146

2 жыл бұрын

So why do Christian monks shave their head and not marry

@laurendal1588

2 жыл бұрын

What percentage of the Christian population is comprised of monks, priests or nuns? If early Christians were all encouraged to abstain from marriage, and therefore sexual inteercourse (for procreation), then I think the religion would have died out within the first two generations. Does it really make sense?

@shariquemohammad1215

2 жыл бұрын

@@laurendal1588 i agree with you... probably, if he would have said that, celebacy was considered better as compared to marriage.... then would have been correct. Wrong word choice :)

@shariquemohammad1215

2 жыл бұрын

@@laurendal1588 i agree with you... probably, if he would have said that, celebacy was considered better as compared to marriage.... then would have been correct. Wrong word choice :)

@laurendal1588

2 жыл бұрын

@@shariquemohammad1215 Exactly! He would have been correct in saying celibacy was considered better than marriage, because a Christian life is meant to be focused on God alone and to detach yourself from all worldly pleasures (and this could include marriage to an extent). However, to say Christianity looked upon marriage as detestable and disgusting wouldn’t make much sense because after all, the sacred covenant of Holy Matrimony before God is performed in a church no less! P.S. might also point out that not all denominations require their clergy to never marry.

These videos are always "Dont do this, Dont that." What are we supposed to do?

Sooo strange - saying that women and men cannot be friends.. This is not Islam, this is culture

@lubnaa4805

2 жыл бұрын

Lol no it isn't it's religion

@MuhammadIbrahimAmer

2 жыл бұрын

Either state source or shut up your mouth

@hibasoomro4239

2 жыл бұрын

You can work with them but there is a boundary, you obviously can’t be close with them hang out with them. When a man and woman are alone the third person is shaytan.

@taco1058

2 жыл бұрын

He meant that if a man wants to be JUST FRIENDS with a women, the women may think they are just friends, but trust me, if you ask any man with a Friend who Is a women if he would like to marry her he would say yes.

I disagree with guys and girl not being able to be friends. Lol I have female friends and we are just friends. We respect each other.. the love is there as if we are family and we don’t cross boundaries.

@unknowngirl191

2 жыл бұрын

exceptions are there but exception can not be an example

@user-pb5jt6xk2m

2 жыл бұрын

@@unknowngirl191 That is true Imam Omar superman said the exact same thing Edit: that is true imam Omar said the exact same thing 😂🤦‍♀️🙈

@unknowngirl191

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-pb5jt6xk2m yup ik idk if that is an autocorrect/u wrote it intentionally, but it's cute though😂 'superman'

@user-pb5jt6xk2m

2 жыл бұрын

@@unknowngirl191 lol 🙈 U are right it is an autocorrect 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

@AkhtarM28

2 жыл бұрын

I agree. I have guy friends who are really honest good guys. Never once did any of them cross the line with me. They met people and got married eventually. Even when they were trying to find spouses, they were not like "let me poke at this possibility. Let me try here... cause she knows me for long..." There are friendships between men and women but I think that only works if both sides know their limits.

The caption is wrong there is no such thing as dating in Islam

Old Christian theology does not frown upon Marriage,,,Gross Misrepresentation there

Christianity doesn't frown upon marriage

@anindanahiyan8660

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe that's why priests and nuns, who are supposedly the best christians, don't get married

@shrubhunt

2 жыл бұрын

he mentioned that historically at some point they did

"men and women can't be friends" What about female family members - grandma, mom, aunt, daughter, sister, cousin niece? That question alone destroys this toxic theory of men and women can't be friends. SMH Islam has alot of growing up to do.

@xdkenshy9743

2 жыл бұрын

U literally answered ur own question while asking it

@tealeafs3824

2 жыл бұрын

What a silly question! Do you might get sexually attracted to one of your family member? You mistake being a relative to being friends. Sure, you can get close to a relative, but you will never worry she/he will see you in other way than this.

@kindahmustafa7248

2 жыл бұрын

Think about what the term friends actually means, it creating a bond with another individual respectfully without developing feelings or making it more intimate, this intimacy will automatically turn the term "friends" to the term "dating" or a "romantic partnership". Men and women cant be "friends" only because this might be considered a "friendship" in the eyes of the woman but a more sexual relationship in the eyes of the man or the other way around. Unfortunately we cant keep it in our pants, one might develop feelings which will turn into smth more, then eventually heartbreak and the loss of this "friendship". Think about it, ofc you can be friends by saying it, but deep down are you friends because of the meaning of "friends" or just to develop are more intimate relationship with that other individual. You can be friends with your female or male family members 100% beacuse it wont turn into smth sexual or more intimate. At the end of the day it's your choice to agree or disagree but keep an open mind to other people choices, and Islam definitely doesnt have alot "growing up" to do.

@JohnDoe-ih3ns

2 жыл бұрын

@@xdkenshy9743 I think my comment is over your head.

@JohnDoe-ih3ns

2 жыл бұрын

@@tealeafs3824 i think any one making a blanket statement that men and women can't be friends because of sexual attraction but family is exempt is a way more silly statement.

This is the most stupid defence I've heard!

Men and women can't be friends? What?

@nescasta1950

2 жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/iZWOpJmsl83Vmag.html

@alishairabdulrauf5166

2 жыл бұрын

U will never undrstand

Is Omar Suleiman gay ?

@latiz4681

2 жыл бұрын

Don't waste your time trying to comment videos about Islam in a bad way.... Do you really think you have the power to destroy the faith of a believer or Islam? If so, you're so naïve 😂 😂 😂

@lionheart4552

2 жыл бұрын

@@latiz4681 My friend I am just asking a question & I'm not being judgmental at all. I just want to know If Omar Suleiman Is homosexual ?

@assiltech5629

2 жыл бұрын

@@lionheart4552 he's married and have a daughter , he's just so calm and loving and caring , so he's not what u said as a muslim can't be what u said because its an act of immoral act as its against human biology , i wish u would reflect on that

@Ex_Hindu_Hashhyy

2 жыл бұрын

Does this question will help you in aakhirah?.Allahoalam .you dont need to know.khalas

@lionheart4552

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ex_Hindu_Hashhyy I think If Omar publicly declared his homosexuality It would do wonders for the relationship between the LGBTQ & the Islamic community.

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