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Love before marriage, is this something our religion accepts, what should you do if you fall into a situation like this? Find out from this video.
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  • @sadia4932
    @sadia49326 жыл бұрын

    "Good women are for good men"..(Surah An Nur)

  • @mohamedamin-sm4yu

    @mohamedamin-sm4yu

    6 жыл бұрын

    الْخَبِيثَاتُ لِلْخَبِيثِينَ وَالْخَبِيثُونَ لِلْخَبِيثَاتِ ۖ وَالطَّيِّبَاتُ لِلطَّيِّبِينَ وَالطَّيِّبُونَ لِلطَّيِّبَاتِ ۚ أُولَٰئِكَ مُبَرَّءُونَ مِمَّا يَقُولُونَ ۖ لَهُم مَّغْفِرَةٌ وَرِزْقٌ كَرِيمٌ - 24:26

  • @sadia4932

    @sadia4932

    6 жыл бұрын

    Martin Hemligt ..its the translation of the Arabic verse of Surah An Nur..whats wrong in there btw ?

  • @sadia4932

    @sadia4932

    6 жыл бұрын

    its the verse no 26 & from the chapter no 24 of the Quran .

  • @clairesnow2258

    @clairesnow2258

    6 жыл бұрын

    Sadiyah then bad woman for bad man? Wow...thanks I guess I will not marry then

  • @sadia4932

    @sadia4932

    6 жыл бұрын

    Faqihah Ismi ..there is always a way to be good again.

  • @deed1436
    @deed14363 жыл бұрын

    Don’t fall in love, grow in love. Go slowly so it’s savored and enjoyed throughout your lifetime. This way you’ll never get bored and stagnant.

  • @jumuahinsights1804

    @jumuahinsights1804

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good words put there together.. mashaallah.

  • @kabadabo2098

    @kabadabo2098

    2 жыл бұрын

    O Allah don't hold me to account for what they say about me. Forgive me for that which they don't know about me. And make better than what they perceive about me.

  • @ihavenoname5501

    @ihavenoname5501

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kabadabo2098 Salamalaykom Brother i came on this channel to ask a question i was hoping u could answer it. If u love a girl in this world but u dont get her in this world and then she gets married tgo some1 else can u have her in jannah.

  • @ozzy_117

    @ozzy_117

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ihavenoname5501 i don't think so brother/sister if both spouses were still married until their death they'll be reunited in the hereafter but Allah is all knowledgeable

  • @ihavenoname5501

    @ihavenoname5501

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ozzy_117 oh okay jazakallah brother

  • @soloprince9296
    @soloprince92965 жыл бұрын

    LOVING ANYTHING MORE THEN ALLAH IS A DISEASE

  • @safeyalrahman

    @safeyalrahman

    5 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @zulthyr1852

    @zulthyr1852

    4 жыл бұрын

    a sin*

  • @Uiytrd

    @Uiytrd

    4 жыл бұрын

    Dont love anyone more then Allah ho give you life evon you are perents first Allah then you are you are perents my friends

  • @giribey9949

    @giribey9949

    4 жыл бұрын

    I Agree, please pray for me so i can only love Allah, Rasulullah, and my parents. i need your pray guys.

  • @DuckHD

    @DuckHD

    3 жыл бұрын

    Your mom??

  • @shasha1848
    @shasha18485 жыл бұрын

    I was in love with a muslim guy.. got engaged insha allah being to marry soon..

  • @bettanguppieschannel5866

    @bettanguppieschannel5866

    5 жыл бұрын

    May your life be a great and beautiful. Aminn

  • @IlariaBeam

    @IlariaBeam

    4 жыл бұрын

    was in love or still in love?

  • @kazihasan1003

    @kazihasan1003

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sha Sha so lucky Masha Allah , May Allah bless your heart, Ameen

  • @diruholic

    @diruholic

    4 жыл бұрын

    Not to spoil it for you but I have alarm bells ringing here. If you have converted or are going to convert then please reconsider marriage to your guy. If he got into a haram relationship and with a non-Muslim girl on top of that, he is likely not very practising. This will lead to problems in the future as you draw closer to Allah and lack the support of your husband in your deen. It happens to converts all the time so please be cautious. And if my description is accurate, yet you still get married, be married for a while before you decide to have children. Again I really don't want to be a buzzkill, just trying to prevent you from possible misery in the future inshaAllah. I wish you all the best in this dunya and the akhirah. Ameen

  • @ammarabbasi3230

    @ammarabbasi3230

    4 жыл бұрын

    How'd you know she's a convert?

  • @zoobear84
    @zoobear845 жыл бұрын

    Fall in love with Allah..No love for a man or a woman will ever last nor will it not hurt

  • @Tflower08
    @Tflower086 жыл бұрын

    Holly wood, bollywood and stuff glamourize love but true love is from Allah and the best of relationships is as the Prophet SAW was with his wives and the companions next to that it will be their love that will stand out on the Last Day may Allah make us follow and forgive us - Ameen

  • @islamonlywayout

    @islamonlywayout

    5 жыл бұрын

    Tflower08 AMEEEEEEN

  • @varunmajji6514

    @varunmajji6514

    2 жыл бұрын

    i guess you are also born from the same love between your parents which you are calling haram sister

  • @Rafia98
    @Rafia986 жыл бұрын

    I agree exactly with 'get the nikkah done' I don't understand why its culture to not allowing people to get married just because they won't live with together straight away?

  • @muhammadjoshua7464

    @muhammadjoshua7464

    5 жыл бұрын

    Today society 😒

  • @happinesssomewhere18

    @happinesssomewhere18

    5 жыл бұрын

    In my case hes not fiancnial ready...

  • @Marocgirl-kw7cs

    @Marocgirl-kw7cs

    5 жыл бұрын

    For me and my fiancé we are getting the nikkah done this year in scha Allah. And next Year is our wedding in scha Allah 🙏🏻

  • @ahmedharris7148

    @ahmedharris7148

    5 жыл бұрын

    I plan on marrying my children young and supporting them financially until they finish their studies and become financially independent

  • @reezis1619

    @reezis1619

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ahmedharris7148 You will be a great father

  • @faithhope9009
    @faithhope90096 жыл бұрын

    If our connection with Allah is strong we will be protected.As the say "when you're focused you're hard to reach and when you're distracted you're available.We should stay focused in pleasing Allah

  • @feisalo337
    @feisalo3376 жыл бұрын

    Let us marry each other for the sake of Allah

  • @MiftahUlHaque789

    @MiftahUlHaque789

    6 жыл бұрын

    Feisal o That ain't gonna happen anymore lol ...we're in the last age of fitna!

  • @lebbarmohamed76

    @lebbarmohamed76

    6 жыл бұрын

    Miftah Ul Haque Salam alaykom. Don't lose hope. Make du'aa to Allah to give you a righteous spouse. Nothing is impossible for Allah. Whether we're living in righteous times or not, nothing is beyond Allah's power.

  • @AjieA

    @AjieA

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ameen~

  • @franklymydear413

    @franklymydear413

    6 жыл бұрын

    Please provide even the SLIGHTEST shred of actual proof that "Allah" exists. It sure isn't the Quran, because it is filled with errors and contradictions.

  • @user-pk8bv3kp4j

    @user-pk8bv3kp4j

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thousdays salam please make dua with our akhlaq in sha Allah is we can gain reward

  • @saphirwohrfism
    @saphirwohrfism4 жыл бұрын

    i want to get married but i feel as though there’s no one, all i know it’s not all but most brothers today are obsessed with the dunya and I want a husband whose caring, and follows his deen over this dunya. inshallah allah answer my dua and grant me a good spouse 🤲🏿✨

  • @316aamir

    @316aamir

    4 жыл бұрын

    Can we talk ??

  • @saphirwohrfism

    @saphirwohrfism

    3 жыл бұрын

    @A simple Guy Just simple I know that, I said I know it’s not all. This is just from my experience. I never tried to blame all Muslim men I just meant that a lot of brothers today are after something I’m not.

  • @arafatqq2106

    @arafatqq2106

    3 жыл бұрын

    Capital A for Allah

  • @usmanfatima2846

    @usmanfatima2846

    2 жыл бұрын

    MashAllah it's truth thou sister

  • @user-hw6cg9ji5x

    @user-hw6cg9ji5x

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@316aamir why did i know that there will always be this "intelligent" brothers....SubhanAllah...

  • @arshiyaahmed1220
    @arshiyaahmed12204 жыл бұрын

    I like mufti menk lecture.. it actually relate us.. may Allah bless US

  • @r.abdulwahid9708
    @r.abdulwahid97084 жыл бұрын

    JazakAllah khayr sooo much for another amazing reminder, may Allah bless you loads, Ameen!

  • @akondor323
    @akondor3233 жыл бұрын

    maa shaa Allah, at least u guys have someone who loves you...good for u, may Allah facilitate for us all and bless us with beautiful marriages that'll continue forever in Jannah.

  • @ovitvchannel
    @ovitvchannel6 жыл бұрын

    Awesome 👍👍👍

  • @idonotreply2502
    @idonotreply25023 жыл бұрын

    Beautifully narrated❤

  • @hudanuma3818
    @hudanuma38182 жыл бұрын

    You are a medicine for a broken peeps 🥺❤️

  • @mohdaffan7256
    @mohdaffan72563 жыл бұрын

    I belong to a society,where I can’t even talk about my marriage,I hv to get a good job nd a house to become eligible for proposals,...and I’m sick of it,I can’t control myself at this point of my life,I realllly wannna get married but I can’t even think about talking to my parents....pray for me Allah grant me sabr bcoz I don’t know how long I will keep it that way

  • @adilahmakeup7069

    @adilahmakeup7069

    3 жыл бұрын

    Inschallah everting Will be ok

  • @SalymahIV

    @SalymahIV

    3 жыл бұрын

    Inshallah brother Please stay strong inshallah

  • @mohdaffan7256

    @mohdaffan7256

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thnq all

  • @joseconstantino3279
    @joseconstantino32792 жыл бұрын

    Very good advice, thank you.

  • @Momo-zi7sp
    @Momo-zi7sp4 жыл бұрын

    May Allah swt protect us from all evil and give us everything we want and protect us from all evil and keep us happy forever. Ameen.

  • @Anonymous-ze8iu
    @Anonymous-ze8iu4 жыл бұрын

    Barek allaho fik very good topic wallah

  • @mahmoud64273
    @mahmoud642734 жыл бұрын

    Please make dua for me. We never got to get married because of certain problems but only Allah knows how much I still love her after all these years...

  • @farhanishrak8001

    @farhanishrak8001

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hahhahahah

  • @itsmin9379

    @itsmin9379

    2 жыл бұрын

    Have u got over her yet ? 🙁

  • @makeithappenwithjayinZBrush
    @makeithappenwithjayinZBrush2 жыл бұрын

    Great speeches! Thanks a lot!

  • @ayoubkhalil1
    @ayoubkhalil15 жыл бұрын

    I totally agree, you always need this as a reminder in your head, that you want the hereafter more than the girl. But I believe it is harder in certain areas in the world. Personally I live in NYC and this is a huge challenge, because the women here aren't modest at all. Modesty doesn't exist anymore. So when you go out, it's literally a sexual war inside of you (at least that's how it is for me, maybe I'm just lustful). Sometimes I'll see a girl, and at the start I'd be like no way you can't talk to her. Then I get these ideas, like he mentioned, just get her number you don't need to do anything, just talk to her you don't even know what she's like, hey you never know she might be the one. Sometimes the arguments I come up are so good, but thank Allah so far I've always been able to fight it even when approached. For those in similar circumstances as me, you really shouldn't take this lightly. Yes it's hard, but as you keep doing it you will get stronger at it.

  • @nasreenhameed7823
    @nasreenhameed78234 жыл бұрын

    Masha Allah.. Well said.. I have got my answers for my questions.. It's really helpful.. Zazakallah khayrun... Please share more videos for us.. To make a good society.. Barakkalah feekum

  • @hakim-nationcreation7374
    @hakim-nationcreation73745 жыл бұрын

    Loved Sir Mufti Menk.. On the Dot and right on point

  • @taibislimane7007

    @taibislimane7007

    5 жыл бұрын

    its not sir menk who is geving the lecture

  • @har00nsaeed93

    @har00nsaeed93

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@taibislimane7007 it is

  • @YJ-7

    @YJ-7

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@har00nsaeed93 no it isn't

  • @zubiyanahmed4460

    @zubiyanahmed4460

    3 жыл бұрын

    At 2:45 Sir Mufti Menk saying starts

  • @reemalfarhan2120
    @reemalfarhan21203 жыл бұрын

    let’s hope that Allah will guide us to the best love life that will make him and us happy 😊

  • @tanvirhussain74
    @tanvirhussain743 жыл бұрын

    I always wanted nikkah but she delayed it for personal reasons and it ended up breaking my heart but may Allah forgive both our sins.

  • @imteyazansari8396
    @imteyazansari83963 жыл бұрын

    Very bold question... Super answer..👌

  • @safiii_2035
    @safiii_20354 жыл бұрын

    4:07 'Walaahi if that was the case the hadith would've said if someone came to you they have a lot of wealth get them married''.That was a power ful speech

  • @yasmeenkhan7890
    @yasmeenkhan78904 жыл бұрын

    The ending was good advice!

  • @khadarahmedaden214
    @khadarahmedaden214 Жыл бұрын

    Sheikh saed Raage May Allah bless you ❤️💯

  • @bagzadstyle5458
    @bagzadstyle54586 жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah God bless everyone

  • @216sana
    @216sana6 жыл бұрын

    I just broke up with my boyfriend I know it’s haram that’s why I broke up with him....everything was getting too toxic for me I fell into major depression and my parents also do not like him one bit and tried making my life hell. I let him go because I need to fix myself up before I even jump into a marriage with him or anyone else because it isn’t fair for anyone to have this baggage in me internally and I have to fix them. I don’t know if i did the right thing guys....please..I just let him go because since I’m not gonna marry him at this point in my life because I feel like I’m not ready so I don’t want haram going on anymore because it’s not fair for any of us. I just pray Allah brings us back together when it’s meant to be. Maybe we weren’t meant to be at this point in our lives because im at a point in my life right now where marriage isn’t the answer for me rn and I don’t even have the support of my parents behind me if I even marry him..... Did I make the right choice guys? I don’t know I just let everything upto allah and I’m going to get help with counselling

  • @216sana

    @216sana

    6 жыл бұрын

    Kamil Ibri is it okay to feel like if I still feel like I love him after working on myself that it’s best we marry?

  • @216sana

    @216sana

    6 жыл бұрын

    Kamil Ibri wsalam. I’m sorry. I think it’s best right now I focus on myself even though I still love him and everything I don’t think jumping into marriage is the right choice right now because it’s been getting really toxic between my family, him and me. I feel like I should be getting help by sorting myself out before getting married because it’s unhealthy

  • @fatimar2783

    @fatimar2783

    5 жыл бұрын

    sanerz Salam sister. You made the absolute best decision for you and your akhira. I know that it’s hard especially when you love that person but remember that your choosing the love and fear for Allah before the love for his creation. If you would have died tomorrow that man that you love would not come with you in the grave, you would be there alone and with the sin of a haram relationship. You saved yourself and that man, sis wallahi you did him a huge favor. Focus on yourself, grow your imaan, rebuild your relationship with your parents (they are your ticket to jannah) And while doing these things pray, pray, pray that Allah blesses you with a marriage full of barakah, kheyr and love whether it’s with that person or someone else. Also remember that Allah knows best, you may think that this guy is the best and suits you perfectly but we quickly forget that we know nothing wallahi. Everything is already written, do your best in improving yourself always and leave the rest to the absolute best, Our Creator. I genuinely wish you nothing but the best sis, may Allah ease all of this for you and help your improve yourself and bless you with a steadfast imaan. Allahuma amin

  • @vascul4rrs673

    @vascul4rrs673

    5 жыл бұрын

    I'm so proud of you for breaking up with your boyfriend. May Allah bless you sister. It may seem hard now, and trust me I know I went through something like this before, but once the love of Allah and His messenger fills your heart you will never want to turn back to your boyfriend. You made the right choice by breaking up with your boyfriend, try get married soon In Shaa Allah.

  • @vascul4rrs673

    @vascul4rrs673

    5 жыл бұрын

    and my sister he wasn't right in the first place trust me, women are innocent but if you knew what men think generally speaking you wouldn't want to even be close with them. Your boyfriend most likely just wanted to sleep with you my sister, if he truly loved you he would've asked your father for your hand for marriage. This isn't a real man, this is what you call a boy who's just filing his desires by displeasing Allah. Marry someone who loves and fears Allah my sister, I advise you to watch video by dawahman just type heart break dawah man it should come up.

  • @rachelhilla8556
    @rachelhilla85565 жыл бұрын

    I STAND STRONG WITH WISDOM

  • @abidesa2582
    @abidesa25825 жыл бұрын

    Put Allah first u will neva b last.......

  • @aslamtaq555
    @aslamtaq5554 жыл бұрын

    It's about faith, are you both praying salah? Do you aspire to move forward spiritually? Physical attraction is important but are you compatible based on mutual understanding?

  • @duaamohamed8459
    @duaamohamed84593 жыл бұрын

    Always gain the love of Allah SWT first , pls make dua for me everyone as I love this person so much but they really hate me and hurt me everyday and its not really a healthy relationship as they hurt me everyday and don't care inshallah none of you will expirence what i am right now May Allah SWT bless all of you inshallah ameen x

  • @bibimariamabdullahbhamji6019
    @bibimariamabdullahbhamji60193 жыл бұрын

    I have agreed with you all Muftis 💯

  • @shufa7179
    @shufa71792 жыл бұрын

    thankyou so muchh. i really wanted this

  • @san404error
    @san404error3 жыл бұрын

    Astaghfirullah wa atubu ilayh... May Allah SWT forgive our sins and help us stay away from haram until we meet him in the best of shapes inshAllah!

  • @JerickaBingham
    @JerickaBingham4 жыл бұрын

    Asalaam aliakum thank you everyone. Keep the LOVE alive. We need it in the World even more then i realized we did. Thanks for all thsh you do and have a blessed day. I loves you all brothers and sisters. Almighty Allah protect, bless, forgive, and continue keeping our love within our Family bonded & our relationships with spouses and even friends also....may He protect and bless them and us all and those on which we love. Bismillah. Mashs Allah. Amin. Amen.

  • @AA-bf3xm
    @AA-bf3xm4 жыл бұрын

    Please make dua for me that Allah SWT grant the person I had in mind Hidayah. Trying dakwah on him. Initially he was interested but maybe its not the time yet. Only Allah SWT knows. Now I have realised Allah SWT may want to Guide him through me making prayers for him. Do not worry. I have not talk to him or have any relationship with him. Please dear sisters and brothers, pray for my Dakwah to be successful this Ramadhan 2020 and may He Grants Hidayah to more non-Muslims and Guides more and more to Islam. May Allah SWT forgives our sins and accepts our ibadats and answer our duas this beautiful Ramadan. Alhamdulillah for making us all a Muslim.

  • @saharamohamed7309
    @saharamohamed73095 жыл бұрын

    Assalamu alaikum sheikh ma shaa Allah you always make us proud may Allah bless you and your family too and yaah Allah grant as in this world and hereafter.jazakallahu khyraa

  • @dhanug6538
    @dhanug65386 жыл бұрын

    Right 100%

  • @bullclassic2554
    @bullclassic25543 жыл бұрын

    I am Christian ... this’s video is so helpful

  • @abirahmed8643

    @abirahmed8643

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good brother I suggest you read/listen to the Quran with translation it really is the best feeling, i cant describe it☺️

  • @aleksanderblinn4492

    @aleksanderblinn4492

    2 жыл бұрын

    Quran Chapter 4 Verse 171 O People of the Scripture, do not commit excess in your religion or say about Allah except the truth. The Messiah, Jesus, the son of Mary, was but a messenger of Allah and His word which He directed to Mary and a soul [created at a command] from Him. So believe in Allah and His messengers. And do not say, "Three"; desist - it is better for you. Indeed, Allah is but one God. Exalted is He above having a son. To Him belongs whatever is in the heavens and whatever is on the earth. And sufficient is Allah as Disposer of affairs. Quran Chapter 5 116. And God will say, “O Jesus son of Mary, did you say to the people, `Take me and my mother as gods rather than God?'“ He will say, “Glory be to You! It is not for me to say what I have no right to. Had I said it, You would have known it. You know what is in my soul, and I do not know what is in Your soul. You are the Knower of the hidden. 117. I only told them what You commanded me: that you shall worship God, my Lord and your Lord. And I was a witness over them while I was among them; but when You took me to Yourself, You became the Watcher over them-You are Witness over everything. Quran Chapter 3 45. The Angels said, “O Mary, God gives you good news of a Word from Him. His name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, well-esteemed in this world and the next, and one of the nearest. 46. He will speak to the people from the crib, and in adulthood, and will be one of the righteous.” 47. She said, “My Lord, how can I have a child, when no man has touched me?” He said, “It will be so. God creates whatever He wills. To have anything done, He only says to it, ‘Be,’ and it is.” 48. And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel. 49. A messenger to the Children of Israel: “I have come to you with a sign from your Lord. I make for you out of clay the figure of a bird; then I breathe into it, and it becomes a bird by God’s leave. And I heal the blind and the leprous, and I revive the dead, by God’s leave. And I inform you concerning what you eat, and what you store in your homes. In that is a sign for you, if you are believers.” 50. “And verifying what lies before me of the Torah, and to make lawful for you some of what was forbidden to you. I have come to you with a sign from your Lord; so fear God, and obey me.” 51. “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.” 52. When Jesus sensed disbelief on their part, he said, “Who are my allies towards God?” The disciples said, “We are God’s allies; we have believed in God, and bear witness that we submit.” 53. “Our Lord, we have believed in what You have revealed, and we have followed the Messenger, so count us among the witnesses.” 54. They planned, and God planned; but God is the Best of planners. 55. God said, “O Jesus, I am terminating your life, and raising you to Me, and clearing you of those who disbelieve. And I will make those who follow you superior to those who disbelieve, until the Day of Resurrection. Then to Me is your return; then I will judge between you regarding what you were disputing. 56. As for those who disbelieve, I will punish them with a severe punishment, in this world and the next, and they will have no helpers. 57. And as for those who believe and do good works, He will give them their rewards in full. God does not love the unjust.” 58. This is what We recite to you of the Verses and the Wise Reminder. 59. The likeness of Jesus in God’s sight is that of Adam: He created him from dust, then said to him, “Be,” and he was. 60. The truth is from your Lord, so do not be of those who doubt. 61. And if anyone disputes with you about him, after the knowledge that has come to you, say, “Come, let us call our children and your children, and our women and your women, and ourselves and yourselves, and let us invoke God’s curse on the liars.” 62. This is the narrative of truth: there is no god but God. God is the Mighty, the Wise. 63. But if they turn away-God knows the corrupt. 64. Say, “O People of the Book, come to terms common between us and you: that we worship none but God, and that we associate nothing with Him, and that none of us takes others as lords besides God.” And if they turn away, say, “Bear witness that we have submitted.” Quran Chapter 19 In the name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful. 1. Kaf, Ha, Ya, Ayn, Saad. 2. A mention of the mercy of your Lord towards His servant Zechariah. 3. When he called on his Lord, a call in seclusion. 4. He said, “My Lord, my bones have become feeble, and my hair is aflame with gray, and never, Lord, have I been disappointed in my prayer to you. 5. “And I fear for my dependents after me, and my wife is barren. So grant me, from Yourself, an heir. 6. To inherit me, and inherit from the House of Jacob, and make him, my Lord, pleasing.” 7. “O Zechariah, We give you good news of a son, whose name is John, a name We have never given before.” 8. He said, “My Lord, how can I have a son, when my wife is barren, and I have become decrepit with old age?” 9. He said, “It will be so, your Lord says, ‘it is easy for me, and I created you before, when you were nothing.’” 10. He said, “My Lord, give me a sign.” He said, “Your sign is that you will not speak to the people for three nights straight.” 11. And he came out to his people, from the sanctuary, and signaled to them to praise morning and evening. 12. “O John, hold on to the Scripture firmly,” and We gave him wisdom in his youth. 13. And tenderness from Us, and innocence. He was devout. 14. And kind to his parents; and he was not a disobedient tyrant. 15. And peace be upon him the day he was born, and the day he dies, and the Day he is raised alive. 16. And mention in the Scripture Mary, when she withdrew from her people to an eastern location. 17. She screened herself away from them, and We sent to her Our spirit, and He appeared to her as an immaculate human. 18. She said, “I take refuge from you in the Most Merciful, should you be righteous.” 19. He said, “I am only the messenger of your Lord, to give you the gift of a pure son.” 20. She said, “How can I have a son, when no man has touched me, and I was never unchaste?” 21. He said, “Thus said your Lord, `It is easy for Me, and We will make him a sign for humanity, and a mercy from Us. It is a matter already decided.'“ 22. So she carried him, and secluded herself with him in a remote place. 23. The labor-pains came upon her, by the trunk of a palm-tree. She said, “I wish I had died before this, and been completely forgotten.” 24. Whereupon he called her from beneath her: “Do not worry; your Lord has placed a stream beneath you. 25. And shake the trunk of the palm-tree towards you, and it will drop ripe dates by you.” 26. “So eat, and drink, and be consoled. And if you see any human, say, ‘I have vowed a fast to the Most Gracious, so I will not speak to any human today.'“ 27. Then she came to her people, carrying him. They said, “O Mary, you have done something terrible. 28. O sister of Aaron, your father was not an evil man, and your mother was not a whore.” 29. So she pointed to him. They said, “How can we speak to an infant in the crib?” 30. He said, “I am the servant of God. He has given me the Scripture, and made me a prophet. 31. And has made me blessed wherever I may be; and has enjoined on me prayer and charity, so long as I live. 32. And kind to my mother, and He did not make me a disobedient rebel. 33. So Peace is upon me the day I was born, and the day I die, and the Day I get resurrected alive.” 34. That is Jesus son of Mary-the Word of truth about which they doubt. 35. It is not for God to have a child-glory be to Him. To have anything done, He says to it, “Be,” and it becomes. 36. “God is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.” 37. But the various factions differed among themselves. So woe to those who disbelieve from the scene of a tremendous Day. 38. Listen to them and watch for them the Day they come to Us. But the wrongdoers today are completely lost. 39. And warn them of the Day of Regret, when the matter will be concluded. Yet they are heedless, and they do not believe.”

  • @tilotamadeep4523
    @tilotamadeep45234 жыл бұрын

    Ya Allah please protect me from garam relationship.. Please keep me near by you. May Allah bless us with the power not to commit any kind of sin. Ashtaqfirullah for all our sins. I beg Allah mercy on us. Please forgive us ya Rabb. Allahumdullilha for everything we have right. I am in a much much better place. Where I can pray you every day. Subhanallah. Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Allahumdullilha Allahumdulliha Allahumdullilha

  • @naih.272

    @naih.272

    3 жыл бұрын

    Masha Allah ❤

  • @svshashi8153
    @svshashi81532 жыл бұрын

    Good keep it up

  • @hajerhajer5294
    @hajerhajer52943 жыл бұрын

    Masha Allah I respect sheikh mufti menk masha Allah let this help me on my relationship insha Allah 🤲🤲🤲

  • @hananparay5651
    @hananparay56514 жыл бұрын

    May Almighty Allah protect us

  • @OmarMohamed-qx1vq
    @OmarMohamed-qx1vq4 жыл бұрын

    Be careful of who you fall in love with.

  • @nxbxxha_1764

    @nxbxxha_1764

    3 жыл бұрын

    We can't control our feelings

  • @Amatullah.574

    @Amatullah.574

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@nxbxxha_1764 Yes you can. This is why we have to lower our gaze and not intermingle with the opposite sex. Shaitan casts arrows and causes desires which leads to infatuation we think is love.

  • @josefinaluziafatimanalin5621
    @josefinaluziafatimanalin56215 жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah SubhanAllah Alhamdulillah

  • @kemyellealimckinneyistanda4535
    @kemyellealimckinneyistanda45356 жыл бұрын

    AS SALAAM ALAIKUM, I LOVE MY INTENT Anthony Washington and I am giving our relationship to ALLAH S.W.T. I keep praying for us, our marriage a Nikkah Inshallah. I don't play with what I am holding on to Inshallah the Brother feels the same way. I AM IN LOVE WITH HIM .I keep calling in faith STRONGLY ON ALLAH. If any sisters and brothers are in support of Us as I sister Khadijah would make Dua for your good ties and a blessed marriage as well, I HUMBLY THANK YOU and may ALLAH be with us all. AS SALAAM ALAIKUM

  • @josefinaluziafatimanalin5621

    @josefinaluziafatimanalin5621

    5 жыл бұрын

    Assalamu Alaikum. Love Allah

  • @abubakarsiddiquishaiks2nda653
    @abubakarsiddiquishaiks2nda6533 жыл бұрын

    Subhanallah ❤️

  • @Nabz1415
    @Nabz14155 жыл бұрын

    SUBHANALLAH!!!!

  • @rosemay8456
    @rosemay84566 жыл бұрын

    well said..

  • @safeyalrahman
    @safeyalrahman5 жыл бұрын

    A very good point at 02:50

  • @Soundtherapy222
    @Soundtherapy2223 жыл бұрын

    I was involved in a haram relationship for almost 2 years thinking it will be halal one day. I ended up asking him back in November if he has feelings for me. He told me he didn’t have feelings for me. I ended everything. I try to forget him everyday. I do tahajjud and it’s still so hard for me to forget him. I make dua for him still. But it’s so hard to let go. I try every single day. I’m tired of this.

  • @rijaeislam5587

    @rijaeislam5587

    3 жыл бұрын

    He is not worth for your love ..... That was never a true love .... Because true love can't be replaced

  • @Soundtherapy222

    @Soundtherapy222

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@rijaeislam5587 thank you. I’m still trying.

  • @Soundtherapy222

    @Soundtherapy222

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you samieur

  • @Soundtherapy222

    @Soundtherapy222

    3 жыл бұрын

    @A simple Guy Just simple idk what u tryna say here tbh. If u can’t say something nice then just kind your own business

  • @Soundtherapy222

    @Soundtherapy222

    3 жыл бұрын

    @A simple Guy Just simple u need to stfu and get a life bye

  • @story5188
    @story51885 жыл бұрын

    More so make sure your partner is responsible and has deen but like the shuyook said mashallah being real and striking a balance is key 🔑

  • @sultanafathima1785
    @sultanafathima17854 жыл бұрын

    Super

  • @zahraadam4024
    @zahraadam40245 жыл бұрын

    I loved him for the sake of Allah and when it’s time to get our ...... 😭😭😭😭

  • @naserelamam493

    @naserelamam493

    5 жыл бұрын

    its ok may Allah replace you with someone better than him....

  • @HANA-ri1ik
    @HANA-ri1ik4 жыл бұрын

    I'm in a relationship and we cannot get married for few years.. and we can't stop this forever.. but i wish to keep this halaal until our nikah... we avoid maximum meetings.. we jst chat for a little while and meets up once in a long time.. and we avoid any things like touching or other anything... is it enough for keeping our relationship halal until we get nikah??

  • @feswalsalim7909
    @feswalsalim79093 жыл бұрын

    Jumaa karim ishallah shukran

  • @ummi7821
    @ummi78213 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah subhanallah

  • @aashiram4577
    @aashiram45774 жыл бұрын

    Assalamu alaykum I am a girl from India who converted to Islam and I am very happy. I love a boy who is muslim and i really want to marry him but in india they still feel i am a hindu as i dont have any legal document of islam and here people feel hindu and muslim cant be together but i really want to marry him and spend rest of my life with him ! He told his parents and they ask about us to some molanas but the molanas said no as the family of the guy can get problems due to the marriage in future so they are not allowing the son for marriage and he says His parents are first for him but I really love him and make dua everyday!

  • @HamzaAkaMat

    @HamzaAkaMat

    4 жыл бұрын

    My sister, Look into islam, try to understand islam, if you guys marry with different beliefs - this can cause problems further into the marriage example: raising the children or going through life experiences, you guys want to have similar understanding so that when problems arise you guys get help each other through tough time and good times. Pray for guidance to make it easy for you

  • @Angel-pc2dx
    @Angel-pc2dx3 жыл бұрын

    I trust alot...

  • @believeinallahalhamdulilla3115
    @believeinallahalhamdulilla31154 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah so sweet video but it is hard to do nowadays because nowadays girls and boys just want a time pass 😔

  • @jumuahinsights1804

    @jumuahinsights1804

    3 жыл бұрын

    Like your profile picture 💖

  • @sarajan7599
    @sarajan75994 жыл бұрын

    I love this boy so much the reason why we got each other was by both of us praying for each other to Allah and finally we ended up together alhamduillah he’s so religious and he made me a better Muslim we want to get engage to make our relationship become halal (it’s long distance btw nothing haram is done )but we are only 18 same age his dad is the problem he doesn’t want me :// I pray every night for us to be together and marry fast but please pray for me I cry every night I really want him I hope his dad accepts us and let us be engaged in sha Allah pray for me ....

  • @Ahmedfazayel72

    @Ahmedfazayel72

    4 жыл бұрын

    Do nikah asap! Otherwise, if you have any type of contact with him before marriage, than it's haram.

  • @farhanishrak8001

    @farhanishrak8001

    3 жыл бұрын

    Haha, kids i swear

  • @Angel-pc2dx
    @Angel-pc2dx3 жыл бұрын

    La Ilaha Ila ALLAH Mohamed Rassoul ALLAH ❤️

  • @Aman_Azad
    @Aman_Azad5 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @meloukmalika162
    @meloukmalika1624 жыл бұрын

    Salem alaykoum svp traduction en français si possible merci beaucoup

  • @AdamAdam-vp8vr
    @AdamAdam-vp8vr4 жыл бұрын

    So here is my case .I loved my czn. We talked to each other on WhatsApp and fb. Her brother knew that he even saw our chat. AND miraculously we were engaged and both families allowed us to talk to each other .I never told her about how much i loved her before engagement because i thought that will not be ok or halal and after 1 year of engagement when both of us realize that we really like each other we told each other about our feelings . Alhamdulillah there is no haram chat between us ,we just talk about how we r gonna live after marriage what she like or what are the similarities between us or sometimes we share some of our genuine feelings about each other .Soooo is there any wrong with all that?

  • @sheerajzakir

    @sheerajzakir

    4 жыл бұрын

    No problem .

  • @Mohdzn
    @Mohdzn2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much what is the last speakers name?

  • @hamzaahmed1020
    @hamzaahmed10202 жыл бұрын

    I have a question. If two people arent allowed to talk before the marriage then how do we get to know if he or she is compatible or not

  • @daniellemcalpine-hawkins6756

    @daniellemcalpine-hawkins6756

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s because in the Quran Allah doesn’t restrict the opposite sex talking to each other. Allah mentions no sex before marriage, not avoid the opposite gender altogether. If both are appropriate and keeping conversations normal then you’re not doing anything haram. People go too far into this. You can’t marry someone without having knowledge on who they are, their goals, interests, desires etc

  • @khalidshayga5473
    @khalidshayga54735 жыл бұрын

    sheekh saaid raageh

  • @shahedi1407
    @shahedi14072 жыл бұрын

    Get the nikah done!

  • @beyourself3290
    @beyourself32904 жыл бұрын

    Asalam Alaikum.....i was in love with a guy but i never told him he loved me nd proposed me i said first send your parents thn ill be yours....but i never said i love you to him but our hearts were pyre v really wanted to hav nikkah nd wanted to marry but his parents said not now after 2 years nd still he was convincing his parents till last day of his life nd he died a week ago :( can we reunite in Jannah as Mehrams ?

  • @shakerkazi7917

    @shakerkazi7917

    4 жыл бұрын

    How did you endure that grief?

  • @missfarry3222

    @missfarry3222

    4 жыл бұрын

    Stay strong Anna💙💯

  • @Ahmedfazayel72

    @Ahmedfazayel72

    4 жыл бұрын

    No one will be single in jannah, you will have whatever you wish!.

  • @sanchitachatterjee2559
    @sanchitachatterjee25594 жыл бұрын

    ALHAMDULILLAH

  • @rachelhilla8556
    @rachelhilla85565 жыл бұрын

    I HAVE NOBODY TO WATCH OVER

  • @shariqaqhil34
    @shariqaqhil343 жыл бұрын

    Should we have desire for Jannah greater than the person we love?

  • @waleedwt4008
    @waleedwt40084 жыл бұрын

    Woe to me! Why hadn't been this recommended? When I was in that age when I did that mistake! Ya Allah help me! 😔😔😔😔. No use crying over spilt milk!

  • @heggyd

    @heggyd

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too :( married at 20 but he converted for the wrong reasons. If only I could go back and put Allah swt first 😔

  • @simanlul5536

    @simanlul5536

    3 жыл бұрын

    Take heart dear

  • @zaink7037

    @zaink7037

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think when young and in love it makes us naive. Sometimes though Allah protects us from people such as not getting married to them. I like a Muslim girl but of different ethnicity and language. I feel this might of been the tipping point for her. 4 years not seeing her after college I found out she got married a few months ago to a family relative. Sadly however I found out she's no good, nothing good said about her. This made me realise she isn't the girl I thought of her as and that insha Allah I will meet someone so much better and the halal way ameen

  • @filzakhan6954

    @filzakhan6954

    3 жыл бұрын

    u can cry and repent. it'll be of use

  • @whatis6521
    @whatis65214 жыл бұрын

    If you ended the haram relationship and ask for forgiveness but the boy don't wanna leave you like hee still thinks, i will be his one day, I am part of his life and inshAllah I will be and I also prays for him I just ended the haram things like talking to him. And even when we were in the relationship we didn't meet or touched each other. Is this right or wrong?

  • @yousraadly7341
    @yousraadly73413 жыл бұрын

    True love is agrace from God and its signs that it happens/activated After marrige ,God dont put something in whoever heart that serves a sin or facilates it especially if a person is religiously committed he blocks true believer hearts toward everything even emotionally thats violates Allah laws that how Allah protects believers and push them to invest in only what he please so they dont go astray or devil find a chance to enter and poisons true believers life matters. ALLAH is the best who take care of believers everything so i lee my both lifes on only him and so greatfull to whatever he meant for me .

  • @amnahakhtar293
    @amnahakhtar2934 жыл бұрын

    I'm only 15 and I've liked a this guy for 2 or 3 years . I tried to focus on my studies after 2 years when I turned 15 I always think of me and him. I pray to Allah swt a lot for me and him to be together. Is this halal?

  • @Ahmedfazayel72

    @Ahmedfazayel72

    4 жыл бұрын

    Cut off all type of contacts with him, social media, meeting with him and being physical. Being Together means marriage in Islam, if you want to have that bf gf relationship, then it's completely haram.If you pray to Allah to marry that guy, than it's ok.

  • @nonazareena3509
    @nonazareena35092 жыл бұрын

    Masha Allah I love my Allah

  • @nazeehar.y4470
    @nazeehar.y44702 жыл бұрын

    Assalamu alaikum... I was in a haram relationship... I talked to my parents... They are not ok... But... His parents are ok for the marriage... My family's problem is its too far from my place... It takes 9 hrs to travel... So that they are not allowing to get marry with him... For the sake of Allah... Alhamdulillah i left haram... But... I will always make.. Dua to make our relationship.. Halal.. Please my brothers and sisters... Make dua for me... 🥺

  • @rachelhilla8556
    @rachelhilla85565 жыл бұрын

    I STAND ALONE

  • @caseynpaola
    @caseynpaola Жыл бұрын

    I loved my girl the first time I let eyes on her n it worked from there cuz I met her n saw her personality the first week then I knew. It only took like 3 weeks to let her know we are serious now it's been 12 years n 2 kids. Still together. Still hate each other n still in luv 😂

  • @mubashirali3369
    @mubashirali33694 жыл бұрын

    Quick Question. I like this girl who is one year older then me.. i’ve liked her for quite some time now but i dont want to go to her house to ask for her hand as im scared she might refuse. What should i do..?

  • @enasmuhammad7737

    @enasmuhammad7737

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ask anyway or you will regret it. You never know what could happen unless you try. Make istikhara first then ask secondly. If ALLAH has written it for you no one can take it away. If she rejects then ALLAH has someone better for you. Trust ALLAH & ask for guidance from ALLAH

  • @user-ee1qo3ys1c
    @user-ee1qo3ys1c3 жыл бұрын

    I fell in love with a girl and I'm still young so my parents won't allow nikah I just don't think bad about her and I never touched her. I just remember her every time and I just care about her i wish by the will of allah we will get married can someone tell me what I need to do I can't just forget her I accidentally fell in love i'm afraid I might displease Allah S.W.T what do I need to do I'm really worried so much.

  • @zerotow7023

    @zerotow7023

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same thing with me , but am a girl lmaoo I liked him for 6 year but I never even spoke to him I can’t stop myself from thinking about him and loving and can’t ask anyone for help cos I feel ashamed , I spoke to him once in class and lied to him about something and I feel hunted now and scared that his going to find out that it’s a lie especially because I lied about my identity I wanna tell the truth but can’t . Crusaderff : if you read this thank you but if u haven’t it doesn’t matter because I just wanted to get this off my chest and tell someone. I literally have no one since I feel like the whole world is against me now .

  • @fahadaftab5497
    @fahadaftab54975 жыл бұрын

    4:17 Anyone Please quote the Ayat Number of Surah Noor...?? ?

  • @dineykusow1227

    @dineykusow1227

    5 жыл бұрын

    Verse 32 i guess

  • @aishagardiolceras3545
    @aishagardiolceras35455 жыл бұрын

    Assalam o alaikum... Im become muslim One year ago... Im still learning about Islam.. I met a muslim Boy..We want to marry.. But he is not living in The same country like me, he can't come to my country until one year after... I need to know if is necessary to do The nikha staying together or maybe we can do it staying far away to each other?? Is possible this last?? Please I need u help.. Someone can tell me?? I don't wanna a haram relationship, I fear too much to Allah.. Someone can help me.. Please 🙏

  • @sobiabi2752
    @sobiabi27522 жыл бұрын

    What if both parties are genuine and don't want zina in between the relationship and want to get married

  • @zakid6989
    @zakid69894 жыл бұрын

    I am not sure I love a girl and she loves me back But we rarely talk even if we talk we talk about studies and exams We don't use any romantic words... Even my family knows her and i promised her to propose her for marriage I never touched her or something and i really want to marry her Is this halal or haram ?

  • @khadjriza6055

    @khadjriza6055

    4 жыл бұрын

    It will be haram if u exchange numbers and uk all the romantic talks and the things that are written as forbidden. But u r allowed have a chat a discussion without touching kissing and all and u let ur parents know about it. Then its halal. Then if u really want to uk that girl or boy more then get engaged so that u can have even more discussion

  • @HS-md1er
    @HS-md1er3 жыл бұрын

    What if you want to marry a girl but she is not sure whether to marry or doesn’t want to marry?

  • @xoxo2072
    @xoxo20725 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes it’s not always the parents .. in my case it’s the guy.. who says he is not ‘stable’ or financially ready, or man enough to look after me. Please make dua allah protects my heart.

  • @zoobear84

    @zoobear84

    5 жыл бұрын

    XOXO those men are called f boys these days..fear Allah and fall in love with Allah..When you love him then the right man will come in your life..Can't make a haram relationship halal

  • @reezis1619

    @reezis1619

    3 жыл бұрын

    Dude leave him, men who says ''they are not stable'' or pull that card and do not want to marry are 100% fuck boys. I'm saying this as a man. Run. If he is serious he will try to get married directly

  • @xoxo2072

    @xoxo2072

    3 жыл бұрын

    Zoo Bear you are right, seeing this a year later. We broke up, he wasn’t ready for marriage.

  • @xoxo2072

    @xoxo2072

    3 жыл бұрын

    milk is cheap protein he was F boy.. a year later seeing this post, we broke up as he wasn’t ready for marriage, just all lies.

  • @reezis1619

    @reezis1619

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@xoxo2072 I hope you didnt give him your virginity. 90 percent of young men are like that. If he does not want to meet your family or get married directly run. "Im not ready" is just an excuse

  • @Kngofchaos
    @Kngofchaos2 жыл бұрын

    Is it ok in Islam to marry someone who’s older than you. I’m a male who the person would be a woman

  • @RuhulAmin-wo4rq
    @RuhulAmin-wo4rq4 жыл бұрын

    I really, really Wonder to know who was the first lecturer.. 😍Does anyone know here????

  • @ernadiani3276

    @ernadiani3276

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nouman Ali Khan

  • @thehumblecompanions2703
    @thehumblecompanions27034 жыл бұрын

    Asallam alaikum wa Rahmatulahi wa barakhatu... Brothers and sisters please advise me, i am interested in this girl (Somalian) and am a non Somalian guy,... If at all possible any Somalian married to a non Somalian to advise me how is it like to be married to a Somalian girl?

  • @RafidBhuiyan34
    @RafidBhuiyan342 жыл бұрын

    Guys I wanna just say its ma sha Allah not Mash'allah or Mashallah because it changes the meaning

  • @RafidBhuiyan34

    @RafidBhuiyan34

    2 жыл бұрын

    And also I forgot to say that u have to say it and write it like this. Its 3 separate words

  • @remindink2809
    @remindink28096 жыл бұрын

    You may use our videos, if you want. Celebrities and Quran. Peace