Living with Down Syndrome and Married for a Decade (With the Help of a Caregiver)

Buffy and Tony are both diagnosed with Down syndrome and have been married for a decade. They live together with the assistance of a caregiver. The two have learned that marriage isn’t always easy, but their love can endure any test, like snoring. Buffy is 46 years old and Tony is 41.
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  • @distancebetweenstars8047
    @distancebetweenstars80472 жыл бұрын

    That dad was nearly crying. You can tell he had doubts in the past about her finding love, but now he’s just happy

  • @allaleelee
    @allaleelee3 жыл бұрын

    I love that they've been married for 10 years and it says Just Married on their fridge! They're a great couple 💕

  • @nightyew2160

    @nightyew2160

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow, that's awesome. I didn't even notice that.

  • @justinpullin98

    @justinpullin98

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@nightyew2160 JustinPullin&TracymcClune

  • @AmandaClarkherself
    @AmandaClarkherself2 жыл бұрын

    I hope Tony's parents have seen this and have visited their son. He obviously misses them a lot. God bless this sweet couple.

  • @steph3443
    @steph34432 жыл бұрын

    her crying with him when he’s missing his family is so incredibly sweet

  • @michellewilliston1937

    @michellewilliston1937

    2 жыл бұрын

    Not sure if you know this but people with Down Syndrome are very empathetic they actually very rarely get angry and have outburst they are very loving people

  • @pinco40
    @pinco402 жыл бұрын

    'Marriage is hard'. Amen!! I wish them both much happiness!

  • @D-me-dream-smp
    @D-me-dream-smp2 жыл бұрын

    These guys know what it takes to make a marriage work. I can see how proud Buffy’s dad is.

  • @loveyouallful
    @loveyouallful Жыл бұрын

    The snoring part is so relatable😂🥰

  • @dublinjazz1

    @dublinjazz1

    Жыл бұрын

    My poor husband has been kicked more often than a football because of his snoring🤣

  • @ellie3365
    @ellie33653 жыл бұрын

    She is such a classy girl I love her demeanour she comes across so nice

  • @reddre3995

    @reddre3995

    2 жыл бұрын

    She's incredibly classy

  • @itme999
    @itme9993 жыл бұрын

    I love their love and I'm so glad they have each other. 🥰

  • @Chic_Ken
    @Chic_Ken2 жыл бұрын

    I have a tony that snores too; I feel ya girl!

  • @lisad1655

    @lisad1655

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too. It is so annoying,I can so relate to Buffy,lol. They make an adorable couple. I love how her dad is so emotional over their marriage. I can tell he had a hard time letting her go.

  • @drrezash9287
    @drrezash92872 жыл бұрын

    That dad is very cool for supporting them so well!!! Glad they have each other

  • @olivedog1880
    @olivedog18803 жыл бұрын

    They’re adorable ❤️ I love her dads love for his daughter

  • @lauraswann5543

    @lauraswann5543

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too. It's obvious how much her Dad loves her.

  • @DaftRebel
    @DaftRebel2 жыл бұрын

    Props to Ginger who makes all this possible!

  • @redlady222
    @redlady2222 жыл бұрын

    Their marriage is Inspirational. ❤️

  • @MalinoisMadness888
    @MalinoisMadness888 Жыл бұрын

    I know Dads heart is so full seeing his daughter live a good life and be independent. They have a great support team

  • @Kai-eb1fv
    @Kai-eb1fv2 жыл бұрын

    So many people in the world, and these two managed to find each other

  • @ivetteheredia4821
    @ivetteheredia4821 Жыл бұрын

    If only all of us would have this type of honest and sincere love for each other...this world would be a better place

  • @morganalabeille5004
    @morganalabeille500410 ай бұрын

    I’m angry that so many disabled people can’t have this because they’re institutionalized or under a guardianship or otherwise have their legal rights taken away. It’s a crime against humanity that it’s allowed to happen.

  • @chinchillamdgamer
    @chinchillamdgamer2 жыл бұрын

    "someone standing in front of the TV" i want those arguments when i get married :D

  • @beek.4860
    @beek.48604 ай бұрын

    The fact that Tony said the best part of having a wife was taking care of her when she got sick... where do I find a guy like that?!

  • @insomniacraccoon
    @insomniacraccoon2 жыл бұрын

    They're so sweet!!! hope they have many more decades together! :)

  • @stephaniep104
    @stephaniep1043 жыл бұрын

    You can feel the love between you two! And what supportive family and friends too!!❤

  • @pop6997
    @pop69972 жыл бұрын

    Oh my Goodness, this has given me such hope! Buffy ( By the way, a favourite old show of mine ) has got the most wonderful Father. I can barely let my two sons go a little even though I know as a parent it's good for them. You, sir are everything a wonderful Father should be, and the happiness of your little girl and her caring husband and friend is truly living! God bless you xx

  • @andrewjames2617
    @andrewjames26172 жыл бұрын

    “She cries because I do” that says it all. I wish them all the best

  • @6justinFG9
    @6justinFG92 жыл бұрын

    They set an example every married couple should follow.

  • @douglasreeves9938
    @douglasreeves9938 Жыл бұрын

    I laughed so hard at the end when Tony said "Then my first kiss." He's a player! Such a lovely couple.

  • @jessydavis3400
    @jessydavis34002 жыл бұрын

    I love the wife, so cheerful and sweet

  • @AdventuresinCritterland
    @AdventuresinCritterland3 жыл бұрын

    10 years! Congratulations! ❤️

  • @dw4959
    @dw49592 жыл бұрын

    Buffy Girlfriend! My husband snores too haha! Drives me crazy, but we love them anyway right 😄

  • @M0101EP
    @M0101EP Жыл бұрын

    A man I love this. I hope they get really old together and happy. I love seeing a father who's in touch with his emotions because he has too having a child with down syndrome. These people have beautiful qualities that inspire others. Man I'm so hapy watching this.

  • @ritabrandow1318
    @ritabrandow13182 жыл бұрын

    You remind me of when my amazing Husband ask me to marry him. He also got down on his knees. We were married for almost 31 years before he went to be with Jesus.

  • @Spiritarlc
    @Spiritarlc2 жыл бұрын

    I've always felt like people with down syndrome are angels sent straight from God. They are usually the sweetest most happiest people I've ever met, I can only imagine the amount of love in that house. These 2 are adorable.....♥️

  • @danielnascimento6300
    @danielnascimento63002 жыл бұрын

    This is so lovely. Made my day.

  • @nickharrington2050
    @nickharrington20502 жыл бұрын

    I love this video. I watched it twice and I love the reality these two live in. A decade strong now and I hope it gets to Golden!

  • @tonipilgrim9984
    @tonipilgrim99842 жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful couple I’m so glad they have each other

  • @dinaelsherbiny1727
    @dinaelsherbiny17272 жыл бұрын

    I love how they look to each other u can tell how much they r in love together 💞

  • @Jesus.is.LordSavior4
    @Jesus.is.LordSavior43 жыл бұрын

    I love them

  • @judyahmed6934
    @judyahmed6934 Жыл бұрын

    This is so beautiful it made me cry as my daughter is special needs, and all she wants is someone to love her to just like everybody wants the fathers, wonderful, and what he says about the two of them

  • @margherita49
    @margherita492 жыл бұрын

    To są szczerzy niezakłamani, wspaniali ludzie,oni mówią to co czuje serce ❤️😘

  • @liviluv7779
    @liviluv77792 жыл бұрын

    Their love is so pure, I love this!

  • @kathryntolle7822
    @kathryntolle78222 жыл бұрын

    This is making me smile so darn much 💛 ☺ I love happy couples and especially those ones that have lasted a long long time like that.

  • @tameriaseymore6776
    @tameriaseymore67762 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful, sweet, and wonderful people. May God continually bless you. Watching and hearing your story has blessed me. Thank you.

  • @jonimosteller8031
    @jonimosteller80312 жыл бұрын

    Adorable couple, God is so good 💙💜

  • @mariewatson7292
    @mariewatson72922 жыл бұрын

    Such a beautiful story , many couples could learn off these amazing couples ... its not about money or any material things .. its all about loving caring and trusting each other till the end a beautiful happy couple I wish all the best for them

  • @barb8335
    @barb83352 жыл бұрын

    They sure do make a sweet couple. I'm happy they found each other 💞

  • @ericabyrd815
    @ericabyrd815 Жыл бұрын

    This is so wonderful I'm so happy for them 🥰❤️

  • @tajjacobs1882
    @tajjacobs18822 жыл бұрын

    This is such a lovely video& it's good that these two understand each other so well when it comes to feelings.🤝👍

  • @beatajaocha3593
    @beatajaocha35932 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful couple, I am glad that you have the opportunity to be together.

  • @diantvurnt5962
    @diantvurnt59622 жыл бұрын

    what a sweet couple. I loved her fathers response to his daughter getting proposed to and married.

  • @alishabee369
    @alishabee3692 жыл бұрын

    Total cool and class all around.

  • @atheadax
    @atheadax2 жыл бұрын

    This made my whole week

  • @BM-ct2hl
    @BM-ct2hl2 жыл бұрын

    What a great story!

  • @benjodan9069
    @benjodan90692 ай бұрын

    Thank you, this gives me hope for my son!!!

  • @eliselaughlin1886
    @eliselaughlin18863 жыл бұрын

    Omg so sweet.

  • @Petersmith-il7bs
    @Petersmith-il7bs2 жыл бұрын

    So beautiful. Such a sweet woman

  • @lauraswann5543
    @lauraswann55432 жыл бұрын

    I love this beautiful couple. Buffy's Dad is so happy she found love. This video made my heart smile. I send them lots of love and best wishes. 💖💙💖💙💖💙💖

  • @adalbertoholguin6928
    @adalbertoholguin69282 жыл бұрын

    This warms my heart soooo much!! 🥰❤️

  • @theworldsdaddy9014
    @theworldsdaddy90142 жыл бұрын

    The wholesomeness is off the charts!

  • @charlottebarnes6761
    @charlottebarnes67612 жыл бұрын

    I wish all marriages will be blessed like this one God Bless this couple

  • @katherinelee3235
    @katherinelee32352 жыл бұрын

    i really love this story❤️i wish them all a continued life of happiness.👍

  • @milliehumphries3916
    @milliehumphries3916 Жыл бұрын

    Great story! They sure know how to love.💖

  • @seatherny_y
    @seatherny_y Жыл бұрын

    They make me smile so much. They are such a cute couple.

  • @emmaannavlogs9214
    @emmaannavlogs9214 Жыл бұрын

    she gives me sweet librarian vibes! it’s amazing!

  • @pamelataylor4091
    @pamelataylor40912 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful couple!

  • @donnah3892
    @donnah38922 жыл бұрын

    I'm a new Subbie! I fell in love with all of these people ❤️ Just a bunch of sweethearts. May God Bless everyone of you.🙏

  • @georginashanti4605
    @georginashanti46058 ай бұрын

    Gosh I love this channel! 💛💛💛

  • @cshell64
    @cshell642 жыл бұрын

    What a wonderful loving couple! ❤

  • @michellexavier4439
    @michellexavier44392 жыл бұрын

    So sweet

  • @meganchristian7085
    @meganchristian70852 жыл бұрын

    Very inspirational

  • @TURTLEORIGINAL
    @TURTLEORIGINAL2 жыл бұрын

    Very beautiful.

  • @dustinwebb6883
    @dustinwebb68832 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful.

  • @HeyGirlHaaay
    @HeyGirlHaaay Жыл бұрын

    😢 so beautiful. LOVE IS 💯 ❤❤❤

  • @goodsmile5170
    @goodsmile51702 жыл бұрын

    Sweet sweet people

  • @omolaraodiondavis3601
    @omolaraodiondavis36012 жыл бұрын

    You are blessed

  • @jazzseaman7631
    @jazzseaman76312 жыл бұрын

    We should all have that type of marriage....Loving!!!

  • @adverterb
    @adverterb2 жыл бұрын

    4:00 "it's very hard to save our marriage" my heart skipped a beat 😭 I think I misunderstood her when she said that

  • @leegraham1179
    @leegraham117910 ай бұрын

    Congrats guys good luck too u in future nothing can stop u

  • @mylittlecoco345
    @mylittlecoco3452 жыл бұрын

    so adorable

  • @zainabzuhasarafdeen4873
    @zainabzuhasarafdeen48732 жыл бұрын

    God bless you both 💞💞

  • @dhanalalonde3932
    @dhanalalonde39322 жыл бұрын

    Awwwww the cutest couple everrrrr!!!

  • @M0101EP
    @M0101EP Жыл бұрын

    So refreshing to watch this. 2022. People lost their view on love.and these people tell me.about being there for.one.another when they'll be sick. I hope the world gets better. Just like thede people.never leave love.

  • @jacqueslefave4296

    @jacqueslefave4296

    3 ай бұрын

    They're not smart enough to not take their wedding vows seriously. They actually meant it and don't do clever "workarounds."🤔

  • @MultiGemgirl
    @MultiGemgirl2 жыл бұрын

    great couple

  • @alisonriley3996
    @alisonriley39962 жыл бұрын

    I am sat here in tears but they are very happy and emotional ones. I think Tony and Buffy could teach us all a thing or two. Their marriage makes me wish I could change places ,they are so loyal and loving and look after each other. This was a joy to watch and I wish them both a very happy future together, they are an amazing couple.xx

  • @specialkidsmoments
    @specialkidsmoments8 ай бұрын

    I love how this young lady encourages her father to talk! "Tell them" and then she makes a gesture, meaning "keep going" 😃😃😃

  • @jedjones5406
    @jedjones5406Ай бұрын

    A beautiful lovely couple 😊😊

  • @steveladner4346
    @steveladner43462 жыл бұрын

    Amazing...

  • @theshayjenny
    @theshayjenny Жыл бұрын

    Aww I love it

  • @egnarnia
    @egnarnia2 жыл бұрын

    What a lovely video

  • @nazneensultana601
    @nazneensultana601 Жыл бұрын

    Be happy always

  • @brucelee-bi8jk
    @brucelee-bi8jk2 жыл бұрын

    ❤️ MY SON HAS DOWNS, HE IS 18 HE WANTS TO GET MARRIED. I HOPE HE FINDS SOMEONE. ❤️

  • @jasmines72
    @jasmines722 жыл бұрын

    🥰🥰 my heart they are the cutest

  • @jenskarlsson4744
    @jenskarlsson47442 жыл бұрын

    THERE IS SOMEONE FOR EVERYONE !!!

  • @Grzmichuj2137
    @Grzmichuj21372 жыл бұрын

    Better couple than 90% of them

  • @dupisdisasterpiece1058

    @dupisdisasterpiece1058

    2 жыл бұрын

    I dont

  • @brendadonald9091
    @brendadonald90912 жыл бұрын

    Awesome

  • @yvonnemccullaghward361
    @yvonnemccullaghward3612 жыл бұрын

    Lovely

  • @amrita4468
    @amrita44682 жыл бұрын

    Wow! They must have found the fountain of youth. They look so young.

  • @corinneweisbein6679
    @corinneweisbein66792 жыл бұрын

    Buffy is absolutely gorgeous and beautiful and Tony is absolutely good looking and handsome 😍 They are a beautiful couple 💘

  • @ms2507
    @ms25072 жыл бұрын

    God bless✨💛✨ you

  • @dontmindme9313
    @dontmindme93132 жыл бұрын

    I need this love yo