I always march right up to the hotel desk clerk, show them a picture of my vehicle (if they can’t see it from where they are), slap down a $5 bill, and politely ask if I can “pay for a spot to rest for a few hours?” They ALWAYS say yes, and thank me for being honest and straightforward and for respecting the fact that they are in the business of making money, not running a free Rest Stop. I suspect the desk clerk pockets the $5, but what do I care? I don’t get hassled. In the morning I stop by and thank them, and sometimes they give me coffee! Best wishes on your future attempts!

@libbyhicks7549

Жыл бұрын

Thats what we said too. If it is only for one night , you will likely get a yes.

@djday7974

Жыл бұрын

100% amen to this, they see a van and have no idea who is inside. Just parking and trying to dodge security on private property is way more sketchy than just going in and asking.

@fancyoo8670

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same thing. Honesty is so much easier than being sneaky.. Her attitude gives me anxiety.. So dishonest.. just tell the knocker

@Devinadamsonbagpiper

Жыл бұрын

i used to be a night auditor at a hotel and i was always told by my manager to run off people sleeping in their vans. it pained me to do it because at that time i lived in my van and knew how much i hated hearing "knock". best i thing i can say is go to a walmart or some grocery store and part as far away from the entrances as u can. great way to not get spotted doing vanlife

@jamesreid5950

Жыл бұрын

That’s a good tip

Hard to believe you actually let down the window!🤦🏾‍♀️ Just because he was wearing a uniform means nothing. Be careful out there!

@lydiapetra1211

6 ай бұрын

I got creeped out when I heard the knocking....I do agree with you...

@miguel360kmc

6 ай бұрын

You didn't hear the sound of a round being chambered? She had a gun

@denicebrookssings

6 ай бұрын

@@miguel360kmc doesn't matter...criminals know hoe yo easily disarm people. If she had a gun, all she needed to do was to say so...or show it..but certainly not roll the window down. 🙄

@miguel360kmc

6 ай бұрын

@@denicebrookssings not sure where you're getting this impression of criminals from but there isn't some class that teaches criminals to disarm someone. You have to think realistically what type of "criminal" is going to try and break into a van. Which would be junkies for the most part looking for a quick and easy score seeing a person male or female is enough to scare half of them away gun or no. Point is a master criminal isn't breaking into vans in a hotel parking lot. And if they are a glass window up or down isn't going to make much of a difference is it?

@denicebrookssings

6 ай бұрын

@@miguel360kmc ok🤣🤣🤣

I read a nurse's comment in a similar video that hospital parking lots were very safe to park and sleep. They are monitored with security cameras. She said that families of people in the ER or hospital often take time to sleep out in their cars and therefore are not disturbed. Maybe everyone should add that to their potential list of places to sleep safely.

@niahoward1920

5 ай бұрын

Maybe they shouldn’t!

@ralphholiman7401

5 ай бұрын

Not to mention, you can always walk in and find a nice clean bathroom.

@peachygal4153

5 ай бұрын

Hospitals charge parking. At least $3 an hour sometimes more.

@DiAllinson

5 ай бұрын

Well I don't think it would be a nurse in UK saying that, where hospital parking is very expensive and my local hospital is known for vehicles being vandalised

@porshataylor-ee5ri

5 ай бұрын

Most definitely not safe at any hospital in my city

This has to be very unsettling to look for lodging every night. My anxiety would send me through the roof! Wishing you safety in your endeavors. 🤗

@blackberrylady9265

6 ай бұрын

Yesssss I Totally Agrees...don't wont to keep hunting a spot to sleep...Soo scary 😳 👈🏾💯💯

@heidiroy-boy

5 ай бұрын

Some people like me have no choice

@Laffy1345

5 ай бұрын

Anxiety? What causes that? You need to exercise, that helps with a lot of physical and mental illness

@Tracy-wr7mj

5 ай бұрын

You get used to it..the fear is real but it after awhile its nothing.

@MissHannah2036

4 ай бұрын

It would get exhausting having to think everyday where you were going to park that night. It's either out in the sticks or desert somewhere or pay for camp site for security and peace of mind. Sounds like you have to be constantly thinking, planning organizing, stocking up and moving on. You need to have a destination and your route, stops etc. worked out.

Please don't EVER open your window. Talk through the glass. (Even a uniform doesn't mean he works there.) Also, I have a red, steering wheel lock to deter anyone from even trying to break in overnight. (even in the day as a deterrant. They're looking for a quick steal.). I'm also armed, and hope you are too. Women on the road can't be too careful. ❤

@OgglyGoogly

Жыл бұрын

The red locks, you hack saw through steering wheel slight bend and pull steering lock off its roughly 46 seconds to do by hand, if powered its 8 seconds.

@Watchoutho

Жыл бұрын

@@OgglyGooglyu don’t even need to saw through those (club) steering wheel locks u can use antifreeze spray in the lock n it breaks in like 5 seconds.

@johngaither9263

Жыл бұрын

Being armed can be good or terribly bad. There are no common gun laws and even having one in the van could get you imprisoned in some states. If you choose to be armed obtain a carry permit from a state with reciprocity with a large number of other state and know the law in every state you enter.

@mainemermaid6596

Жыл бұрын

@@OgglyGoogly -Those few seconds gives you all the time you need to get up front, pull the slide back on your pewpew, put it to the back of his head, and say "Get out or die!"

@OgglyGoogly

Жыл бұрын

@@mainemermaid6596 if you in the car a pick of the door you in before they even awake so no you dont have any seconds to react. You can also release gas into the van while they asleep so no.

The idea of traveling is so seductive. The idea of driving all night to find a place to sleep, not so much. I have to admit that I'd be very scared to hear a knock, especially as a woman traveling alone. I'm going to keep up prayers for you and your well-being.

@wahinepaddler4

Жыл бұрын

I was wondering about that.. maybe a camera like a ring type outside.. wouldn't be helpful without wifi or phone signal though 🤔

@gigigiseleworld

Жыл бұрын

Research is important..when a woman is a Van Lifer..

@huckleberrychris

Жыл бұрын

If I don't see already know where I'm stopping for the night, I'll stop driving about 1 pm and look for a place.

@gigigiseleworld

Жыл бұрын

@@huckleberrychris Another thought.. police in small towns are finally getting used to "Van-lifers" that have KZread channels. I follow about 15 accounts of Van Lifer's, RV's Van's remodeled,car Lifer's. A ton of these individuals and families travel for work ". Any event..just be careful. Not all police will be nice ...to single women traveling across the country. They always think that people are engaging in something illegal. Stay safe ladies. 🥀📿🙏

@rs5570

Жыл бұрын

No doubt this weirdo saw her earlier, knew there was awoman alone inside. No male would ever do this to snother male who could kick his face off. I would’’ve got out the bear spray and given him a big blast in the face. Then called the cops. Short of that I would’ve left!! Just drive the hell away.. This is crazy men harass men this way. It never stops. There is little accountability. This is what I fear most about this sort of living. Men follow me for miles and miles in my car as it is now. It’s ridiculous.

You have given the public a bird's eye view of what truly a Vanlifer goes through.

@billykulim5202

6 ай бұрын

come on its security guard, and its illegal to park without staying at hotel property, its was her fault not ask for permision, and the click bait picture in the video are like clickbait to make them like a thief or burgar knocking the door?????

@BBare.

4 ай бұрын

Not really..

@lynnw7155

Ай бұрын

If security knocks in the middle of the night and you don't respond, will you wake up to find yourself being towed?

I work at a hotel... as a night auditor... off a main highway and we dont run tired people thats obviously traveling off site. We'd prefer people not to drive so tired they might crash. Plus most of the time travelers grab a 2-4 hour nap and theyre up and going for the day

@dragnszdragnsz9702

2 ай бұрын

💜

@yolandas.6193

2 ай бұрын

You guys are good people. Where I live the hotel folk will run you off.

@72CrossingRS

Ай бұрын

Some hotels will have you towed if you park there just to eat at an Ihop or Dennys these days.

The second you pulled in and I saw that car sitting there with the lights on I said, “Oh no, girl.” Lol I definitely never park where cars are just sitting. Never good news. 🤣🤣

I had a couple of thugs climb on the roof of my motorhome once when I was parked in my hometown. It's disturbing that people have no respect for you and your own property.

@whitelacey333

5 ай бұрын

Did you drive off with them on the roof? I would have!

As an expeditor, I would always find a Pilot, Flying J or a Love's Truck Stops to stay the night in every time. People park overnight in those places all the time and I never had an issue doing so. I was in my late fifties and what was real nice was I was able to use the restrooms and get showers at these places as well. They are a lot safer to stay in then Walmart or rest stops. Just thought I would let you know. Please be safe, young lady, and God bless!!!

@lockandloadlikehell

7 ай бұрын

Uhh Walmart is perfectly fine

@michaellarenee4856

7 ай бұрын

@@lockandloadlikehell I was kicked outa several Walmart parking lots, but never once was I ever kicked out of truck stops as long as I didn't park in the back with the big rigs! Walmarts aren't always available for over night parking!

@TheCindlbergen

6 ай бұрын

There's a Love's truck stop near my house. There are two girls in a van that have been living there for eight months and I keep telling them to just get a job there already 😁 This video girl passed a Buc-ees in Florence that would have worked.

@michaellarenee4856

6 ай бұрын

@@TheCindlbergen That is a good suggestion for the gals that continue to stay at the same truck stop. I always felt safe sleeping at truck stops. My interactions with truckers was always pretty positive for the most part as long as I didn't park my Promaster Van in the back where they parked. Truckers can get a little testy when they ain't gotta a place to park for their bigger rigs! I never blamed them for that a bit either, because they only have some many hours a day they can be on the road and then they are forced to pull over by their trucking apps to rest for so many hours a day or they get huge fines. When I delivered busses and truck chassis's I had to follow trucking apps as well. It's a royal pain in the Bahama Bootie! I loved my expeditor job because I didn't have that hassle of following those trucking laws! My loads were smaller and so was my van! You would not believe how great it was not worrying about clearances, weigh stations, and some states require permits for commercial vehicles to travel through them! If you ever get into the truck driving lifestyle, I suggest an expeditor job! I miss doing it!

@F_e_l_i_x_

6 ай бұрын

@@lockandloadlikehell Walmart is not fine. Some areas there is very high crime and robberies. The truck stops are a lot safer. Rest stops at night are high risk.

It doesn’t seem like much fun to have to look for a place to park every night and to have to move and to have to worry about who is knocking at your door. I felt stressed out just watching your video. It felt ver real!

@arettadavis5935

5 ай бұрын

I slept in my Honda Element for two months. At first it was somewhat adventurous but after awhile it definitely was not fun....but it's a have to do so.....if you are living in a vehicle ..there isn't a choice in the matter.

@kawi8507

3 ай бұрын

You need an outside camera!

@janepilkington9293

2 ай бұрын

​@@arettadavis5935I wouldn't be able to sleep very well. I would sleep during the day and driving at night.

@BeautyWithTiffy

Ай бұрын

@@janepilkington9293 you cant. i was homeless and lived in car. scary. people will not leave you alone scared all the time.

If you have a Planet Fitness membership they often don't mind you parking outside! (as long as its one of the 24 hour ones). It feels so great to get a workout, have a good night's sleep, wake up and take a shower, then head out. I have a school bus with bright paintings and two dogs that need bedtime walks so I'm not stealthy at all, but I've never gotten the knock at a gym so far. I always let them know I'm there and then pick a quiet spot in the back. I've also seen people parking at YMCA and Golds, even though those aren't 24 hours.

@judybartley6047

4 ай бұрын

good info.

@rockysjewel

4 ай бұрын

and memberships are only $10 a month

I lasted 7 days sleeping in my conversion in New Orleans. Found a decent route of 5 sleeping spots but the last two nights i was witness to a gun fight and the last night i was there a group of teenagers were busting up the car behind me right after i made dinner.. i prompted jumped in the front and drove away asap.. i left the city the following day.. going back to Arizona now to regroup myself and figure out where i want to go next.. be safe out there y'all and always trust your gut

@celestepalm6949

3 ай бұрын

🎵 "New Orleans, it's a wonderful town, but if you're by yourself, be out by sundown..."🎶

@EYES2seeEARS2hear78

Ай бұрын

Welcome (sorry it’s been a year) but THIS is 1984 plus Idiocracy. Facts

VERY SCARY traveling alone, then to hear somebody knocking😳 Prayers for your safety.

They need to make an app that shows where it’s safe to park, for people living in their cars!

@sparklemotion86

8 ай бұрын

iOverlander

@rythemzlatin

8 ай бұрын

There are several.

@nn3514

8 ай бұрын

Ioverlander

@stargater2892

6 ай бұрын

Are you serious?

@stefaninekester4830

5 ай бұрын

They have them they are called safe places to park to sleep

The best protection i ever had while sleeping in my van was Bulletz and Wolf my two German shepherds!! each of them curled up and slept on the two front seats,, If they heard anything they sat right up and no one ever messed with me or my van,I aylways slept great and felt very safe,.

@shavaunaronan3188

6 ай бұрын

I also travel with my 2 GSD's, I can tell you are as grateful to have your dogs as I am. Best protection ever!

@mistyl1987

5 ай бұрын

I have 2 German shepards, this past summer we spent a whole month camping in the mountains ❤

@janellbeach8616

5 ай бұрын

That's why I have Dobermans. O e look and people walk the other way.

@LaurenFitzgerald-gs6hv

4 ай бұрын

I miss sleeping in my van.😢

@user-md5di8vp6l

4 ай бұрын

yea but then u were in a small space with two nasty ass dogs

As much as I love the idea of having my home with me wherever I go, It's the nighttime I don't think I could deal with.

@amyschaefer1140

Жыл бұрын

Me too. I don't think I would ever get a good night's sleep.

@michellecastaneda4104

Жыл бұрын

I promise you it's not as scary as it seems. Especially when you are camping in regular camping areas and places that are designated for nomadic living. When I'm actually on the road I only go to truck stops and rest areas. Anything else you stand a chance of a knock at your door. I feel safer in my van than I did my home.

@skooliecarol8542

Жыл бұрын

​@@amyschaefer1140 Three years...solo female,75,Nomad...I have parked everywhere you can imagine...No problems,No issues

@colourwheel5703

Жыл бұрын

Generally on registering for a hotel room you have to give them your plate number, so they know your are a patron. I can see staying in a hotel lot could be risky. Stay safe out there.

@jennyl.2689

11 ай бұрын

Me too. With all the weird things going on in the world it's scary. There are too many creeps out there. But I hope she stays safe and secures the van.

Of all the Vanlife pages I belong too, this one was the most real I've seen. This shows the struggles that I haven't thought about while wanting to do this. Makes me think twice.

@travelsnacks

5 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching and for your nice comment!

You need a companion dog like a German Sheppard... That way, when you are asleep in your van, that dog will always be on guard.

@juddloader4756

8 ай бұрын

The German Shepherds are loyal and will fight to the death to protect you.

@juddloader4756

5 ай бұрын

@alirussell-hayward6279 It wouldn't matter. If you walk them in the day or the night... To do their business or otherwise... They are a twenty four hour protector regardless where you are. A Cane Corso,German Shepard..., Any kind of dog like that. If I was single on the road that would be my companion and protector !!!

@DonnaL-xv6tu

2 ай бұрын

Why do you live in your van?

@DonnaL-xv6tu

2 ай бұрын

​@juddloso will a glock ader4756

@shereebodvake1412

2 ай бұрын

Yes!

I called the police station one evening in a familiar town I was visiting but was having trouble finding parking. They were so friendly and gave me a few places I could go.

@rs5570

Жыл бұрын

That’s a great idea.

@maryann3149

Жыл бұрын

Thank you. TURNED OUT GREAT . GOT TO PARK RIGHT ON THE LAKE.

@maureenblute2555

Жыл бұрын

Same when I was in Wilmington NC

@raveninavaniam9438

Жыл бұрын

There we go ... 👍👍👍 excellent MaryAnn 👌

@darcymoon2109

4 ай бұрын

Sometimes the police will let you park right there

I lived in my SUV in a big city for almost 5 months. A couple of truck stops, a casino, a mixed retail/college campus area with parking garages and parking along a creek.... but my favorite was the top floor of a hospital parking garage. I had my own little corner that I felt sooo comfortable at night! 🤗

@livinginthenow

Жыл бұрын

Yes! Hospital parking lots, whether an open lot or in a parking garage, are very good for parking overnight. It's the nature of what they do there that means people arrive at all hours and can sometimes stay for days at a time.

@vickilssrb4405

Жыл бұрын

@@livinginthenowand I just remembered a couple of other spots that I slept at... Cracker Barrel and Walmart. My "little corner of the world" was by far the absolute best because no foot traffic just randomly passed by me through the lot. ☺✌

@monnaprovost7294

Жыл бұрын

How much did u pay for parking at the hospital? Mo in NJ

@raveninavaniam9438

Жыл бұрын

That's cool ! ... I'd think that would be comforting...❤✌

@raveninavaniam9438

Жыл бұрын

@@vickilssrb4405 I always think it's interesting to hear where people Park when in a city, because that is something I've not yet done after all these years. I stick to Forestry and I'm only dealing with animals for the most part .... I think I've only had a couple of situations where thugs approached my vehicle in the woods ... but when you live in Wisconsin, we handle things a little differently , ... pretty-much everyone is packing Firearms when you're in the wilderness, so there's not much fear. The worst thing that I can recall happening to me was a black bear climbed on top of the hood of my Isuzu Trooper when I was sleeping in the back with my German Shepherd. That happened in the Oneida Forestry ..... he probably smells the dog food inside.

I could not live like this… I would never sleep😂… stay safe out there ❤

@mariannebell4708

2 ай бұрын

It's all part of the adventure

I'm a vanlifer and can relate to what you go through here. Although it only happened once, I was kicked out of a casino parking lot. I avoid hotels (last choice) and prefer Cracker Barrel. I like your van, I can't stand up in mine lol. Thanks for the good advice. Blessed and safe travels.

It's getting more and more difficult to find places to sleep in a car or van, and there is a lot of weird people running around

@DonTrump-sv1si

11 ай бұрын

Why you gotta talk about me?? Geez😒

Being more organized will take away stressful situations. Always know exactly where you are going before you start the day.

@bcaye

Жыл бұрын

At least pick some good spots and scope them out before you're exhausted. The aimlessness just shows she isn't thinking clearly.

@djday7974

Жыл бұрын

100% this -

@ms.pirate

Жыл бұрын

People said that truck stops are very safe, and places like cracker barrel have places to park your RV or Van

@doloresrodriguez6715

Жыл бұрын

It depends where the truck stop is if it's safe.

@ericsparks9408

8 ай бұрын

Or people with social issues,or the Ted Cross out people up that have to be watched. Plus some hotels have drug dealers delivering drugs who pull up and wait for tenants to come out. Hotels are never a good idea to stealth in for these reasons

The world we currently live in is unsafe FOR SURE for a woman alone. Please be careful out there🙏🏻

@BBare.

4 ай бұрын

Why? And why for a woman? I have never felt unsafe, ever....

@seadaesy

3 ай бұрын

@BBare. It really depends on what area the person is in. I've been to places that were extremely safe walking around in the middle of the night by myself as a teen. Super quiet and peaceful places. Meanwhile, in my hometown, multiple women have nearly been kidnapped in broad daylight in the afternoon while out for a jog, and one of my friends was being stalked by 2 large men around a grocery store at night. Luckily, her male friend who drove her there and was waiting in the parking lot. She phoned him to come inside, and the 2 men backed off and left. My town is mainly one specific race, and the females here are highly desirable for human trafficking. Creeps even come here to lure kids into cars...It doesn't help that my race's rate for being kidnapped and unalived is higher because the police all over don't do anything or care. x') Even if we get physically attacked by strangers in the streets in other cities and towns, the cops are usually like, "Well, what did YOU DO to provoke them?" 🤦🏻‍♀️

@LoriBrogdon-yz7rx

2 ай бұрын

@@BBare. You must be a military person or just know how to take care of yourself. Alot of women don't

@heide-raquelfuss5580

Ай бұрын

Women are allways and where allways in history vulnerable. It will not change ever. Humans, men and women, children, dogs, cats are vulnerabke, like any life form. That means...be careful allways out there. Allways trust your instinct, gut feeling, combined with your experience and intelligence, knowledge.

Oh my goh, that’s scary!! That happened to me when I was in my car parked in a car park in Scotland! A man kept saying he wanted to talk to me and I heard a woman whispering with him.. I said I was calling the police and they went away.. I was too scared to stay so I drove off and ended up staying in a hostel.. glad you are safe 🙏🏼💕

A fríen who was a ranger said she would put her hand on te bumper and knock. If she felt the van/car moving she knew someone was inside. If you hear the knock- don’t move!

I’m not sure if you always just pull in. I would recommend backing in… that way if you ever need to exit quickly you are in a safer situation. Have you tried 24 hr stores, gyms and gas stations? Places where cameras are on you? That’s my recommendation for safety.

@jennymccullough9517

Ай бұрын

OK there are cameras but most don't have security guards 24 7. And calling cops sheesh they're never available or on time to help save you from real danger. Plus the constant noise no thanks.

I always find a place at least two hours before dark. I prefer to camp in the wilderness if possible and I avoid towns and cities at all costs. It's just too crazy out there. Outside cameras are a must with lighting and always be armed. You should have looked for a truck stop and parked with the truckers, there is always someone there and they are used to people parking. Good luck.

You might want to park right next door to one of those big commercial trucks, one of those that has traffic cones out. You’re not right in front of the hotel but out of sight. You might want to create a dummy antitheft indicator right next to your driver side door. It’s going to be a dummy antitheft lock and red led light. Just like some folks put out dummy cameras on their front porch’s. Make the security guard think that they’re going to have a car alarm start blasting off at 2 Am and waking everybody up.

@johngoodin3445

3 ай бұрын

Yeah I noticed as you drove in to the area there was two commercial vehicles parked there just before you got to the parking lot itself and out of sight of the hotel itself. That might be a good vehicle. Van camp in a converted commercial vehicle. I’ve seen several times where someone converted a box truck. From the outside you’ll never know someone is sleeping inside. They’re disguised that well you’ never guess that someone was asleep inside in apartment luxury. Most box trucks have a partition that closes the cab area off from rest of the truck. So if the lot security guards are looking at the truck they really can’t see anything. One other conversion they most likely wouldn’t mess with would be a vehicle that did an electrical repairs after a hurricane. You know the kind I’m talking about the kind that goes into other states to help local crews repair their electrical infrastructure.

Have you ever parked overnight in hospital parking lots? I’ve heard it’s a good option from a van life former nurse.

@christinebutler7630

Жыл бұрын

ER patient lot works. Nobody wonders if the vehicle doesn't move for 10 hours.

@SK-po3ck

Жыл бұрын

They parol here too and usually they are paid lots.

@Clothed-with-His-Glory

Жыл бұрын

Our hospitals charge for parking.

@PolarB36

Жыл бұрын

@@Clothed-with-His-Glory I’ve never had to pay at hospitals for parking but even if you do have to pay in a pinch because you can’t find a spot to safely park overnight, it would still be cheaper than paying for a camping site.

@aguest4408

Жыл бұрын

If you park in a hospital parking lot, please don't take spaces anywhere near the ER at any time of day. Go to an empty area of the lot to leave room for the people who are actually staying at the hospital or are seeking treatment. In larger urban areas, most hospitals charge a lot for parking, it isn't free parking, and also there are never enough spaces for those who actually need them to be with a patient in the hospital or at the ER. Maybe using a hospital parking spot in a smaller town or city, but please don't do it in an urban area. You can probably get away with it, but know you are hurting people.

We park at hotels all the time ... just go in, tell them you're traveling and just need a safe place to park while you rest ... we've never been told no.

@bs4real

Жыл бұрын

You've clearly never tried that in Florida.

@bradleysonthemove5790

Жыл бұрын

@lanimccarthy2848 you're correct, we haven't ... do rest areas there

Love your realistic videos where everything isn't staged, scripted, and perfect !

@G4RY1159

8 ай бұрын

I stopped watching one of the channels as it was like one long advert for products, I much prefer as you say.

I would be much too nervous to travel alone and especially park and sleep in the van. It looks like great fun but there are too many dangerous people who need to be taken off the streets. I really enjoy this type of video.. I wish for you a safe and easy travel path. I hope you know Jesus and you talk to him every day.

@shereebodvake1412

2 ай бұрын

Absolutely. 🙏🙏❤️

Allison, get a remote start installed. Carry bear spray Also find a camera system for your van. One you can monitor from the back. Also, if someone starts knocking. Don’t turn on any lights. If you do want lights. Get some red lighting. Less noticeable from the outside.

@mimiruiz3785

Жыл бұрын

Really good ideas

@rs5570

Жыл бұрын

Very good tips! Thx!

@imnitguy

Жыл бұрын

Get a house.

@13699111

Жыл бұрын

I've carried hornet spray at the ready it's saved me from dangerous people , animals many times over my 71 year's . My niece drives a semi truck I suggested she carry hornet spray being a lady exspecially . She always wears work clothes ,boots , work jacket , jeans , yet still gets creeped out every ounce in awhile at a truck parking by the few creepy men in the world . I'm sure these types of people creep everyone out worse I think it's criminal to .

@charisma-hornum-fries

Жыл бұрын

I wouldn't recommend using any spray on the security doing their jobs.

Kinda feel like asking a hotel if you can sleep in their parking lot is like asking a restaurant if you can BBQ in their parking lot.

@missycitty9478

Жыл бұрын

I agree. Kind of like a slap in the face. 😲

@skibbydogg

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I agree. When I stay at Cracker Barrell, I end up eating there at night and then again in the morning. It just seems right. I wouldn't think of staying at a motel unless I was checking in.

@Erin-Thor

Жыл бұрын

🤣 I’ve never thought of out that way, but you have a point. 😊

@cherylschumaker1366

Жыл бұрын

Wht about truck stops ?

@audrealambert9583

Жыл бұрын

I think you have a point there

This was so unnerving and extremely uncomfortable to watch. It gave major anxiety vibes! I felt SO bad not only for her but just simply watching it because no one deserves to live this way. My heart truly goes out to those who have to live this way and I commend you for doing what you’ve got to do and just making it👏🏼👏🏽👏🏾👏👏🏿👏🏻because I get that but if you do not HAVE to live this way, then I cannot possibly understand why anyone would want to subject themselves to this kind of torture each and every night. -At one point in time in my life this could have been me but it wasn’t, thank you God!

@camiv5640

8 ай бұрын

This is not a way people HAVE to live, it's how they CHOOSE to live. Not all nights are like this. It's only because she's parking in the city.

@oigamaeciruam

7 ай бұрын

I will be doing this with me and my little girl because I cannot afford rent anymore. Not everyone is lucky enough to have choices

@lockandloadlikehell

7 ай бұрын

If you think that's toture, youve lived a very sheltered life

@lockandloadlikehell

7 ай бұрын

​​@@camiv5640nope- it was definitely HAVE to You're projecting again.

@louquinn1045

5 ай бұрын

@@lockandloadlikehellprojecting WHAT? LMFAO. Clearly your reading comprehension skills are severely lacking. They’re saying PLENTY of people CHOOSE this. PLENTY of people WANT to travel like this. PLENTY don’t. Get over yourself, seriously. They weren’t saying “wahhh wahhh you’re a victim you chose this”.

Wow i was on the edge of my seat. So glad you are ok and received rest.❤

Is there any way you can put cameras on the outside of your van to see the surroundings or if anyone is out there knocking?

@Ob3ysteeze

Жыл бұрын

Yes there's RV and van cameras available to install

@PraveenSriram

Жыл бұрын

That is exactly what I was thinking 💭 too about cameras 📷

@patrickcummins976

Жыл бұрын

Hope you called the cops on the weird guy?

@gigigiseleworld

Жыл бұрын

That's a perfect idea. Many 20-somethings always have outside cameras..on their van's and RV's. I follow a diverse group of accounts on KZread.

@onemoreday1550

Жыл бұрын

Great idea

Come to the Cracker Barrel at Exit 80 on I 20 on Columbia. Very safe and I work there.

The problem is--so many people are now living out of the vans--they are everywhere! I ran errands today, and saw a few van dwellers in both parking lots of the major stores. How do I know? It's a warm day, and they had their doors open you could see their beds and they were clearly living in them. The businesses are afraid of becoming "van cities" and keeping buyers or business away. It's going to get harder--because more and more people are having to live out of their vehicles as rents have gotten so high.

@usrIO30581l

Ай бұрын

It’s cheaper than todays’ democratic State rent, I live in a Uber /Lyft/ door dash car. Sometimes people could smell my dirty drawls and dishes under the storage panels.

Hotels offer parking usually. You pay a small fee , they give you a sticker to put on your van. Be safe❤

I am at Nomad and the rule of thumb is find a place by three and in by five give or take I have used this practice it works for me. God bless you and hope to see you out there.

The whole risk of having a knock in the middle of the night would raise my anxiety every night. It’s just more intense when it’s knocking on your car as opposed to your home I don’t know.

My first night out a nervous land owner in Idaho with a pistol called the county sheriff on me for trespassing. All ended well but this baptism by fire left me very cautious. Now I plan ahead, park before dark and try to have a couple backup places handy. Two years in and no more trouble. But I like your approach, too! Motel parking lots! Brilliant idea! Stay flexible!

In the near future for your safety never let your window down. Talk to them through the closed window. And then just leave. You never know if they are who they say they are.

@raveninavaniam9438

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely never roll down your window or Open Your Door and always make sure you are locked inside -- with your keys and your phone near your side at all times.

@ms.pirate

Жыл бұрын

How can you hear each other through the window then?

@raveninavaniam9438

Жыл бұрын

@@ms.pirate ....oops, I posted a comment reply that was meant for one of my own videos, that's why I deleted it, sorry about that ✌

@marlaf1545

Жыл бұрын

@@ms.pirate you should be able to hear through a closed window . Unless you have a hearing problem.

The only way i would do full time is to stay in campgrounds. Trying to find a place to sleep every night would be extremely stressful to me. i wouldn't sleep well and would not be at peace. I need peace.

Click-baitish, he stopped knocking once you answered. He knocked because he is private security there for that parking lot.

So glad you were able to find a spot to get some sleep. Stay safe 🙏

I so much appreciate you sharing a real life scenario, and tips for finding spots in a new area. Happy travels!

😞Knocking is @18:45 💡Find a 24 hr gym and park there - that works for me 100% of the time. 💡I’ve taken road trips all over the country and I know hotel lots are iffy a lot of the good ones have stealth security people in the lot - they see you before you ever see them. I usually plan to sleep overnight at Rest Stops, 24 hr gyms, neighborhood streets in safe areas, Cabela’s, and free parking garages / parking decks. I have always been creeped out at Cracker Barrel & Walmart lots. My spirit can’t seem to calm down or relax, not sure why so I don’t even try those locations anymore. 🤷🏻‍♀️ 👍Safe travels. 💝

@BrendaLee8

Жыл бұрын

Don’t forget hospital parking lot

@lovingatlanta

Жыл бұрын

@@BrendaLee8 - 👍True for some cities. Again, you have to pay attention and see if they have security “knocking on doors”.

@topherbec7578

Жыл бұрын

Great Idea, and if it's a national chain you can get a membership and have a place to shower .

@lovingatlanta

Жыл бұрын

@@topherbec7578 - 👍🤩Oh for sure, that’s what I meant…I should have said that to be clear. I definitely only park overnight at gyms that I have a membership to use. 💝

@aura5944

Жыл бұрын

How about gas stations? I know you mentioned the gym, will anything 24 hrs work, Dunkin Mc ds?

I would be terrified to try and live and travel in a van by myself. I admire you that you can do this. You are so much braver than I am. Prayers for your safe travels.

My son used to work all night at a 7-11. If someone asked to park in the back, he would allow it and protect them.

Gotta tell you….I’d be FREAKED if someone kept knocking like that. 😳

I’m buying my van this year. From watching your videos and others I know to ensure thicker glass, autu security bright lights, ect… I value my life and refuse to step out half assed

i just watched the nurse living in a van, everyday looking where to park. I rather pay for a small apartment , than living in the street or parking lot, but to each his own.

Watching you look for safe parking makes me ever so grateful that I am no longer in my van. Blessings to you❤

The hotel may have added security either because too many vehicle dwellers had been staying there... or because it’s a sketchy neighborhood and there have been robberies, causing the hotel to lose business. Honestly, I can’t imagine driving so long just to find a place to sleep, that’s pretty tough. Glad you found a spot and it was peaceful.

@ChrisB-bg5rh

Жыл бұрын

I lived in Columbia and know the area. The overall neighborhood of that hotel isn't bad, but there's an extended stay hotel just two doors down from it that could have an iffy traffic flow. So that might have influenced the hotel security situation. If she had just driven over the big intersection(next to the Denny's) she would have been at one of Columbia's largest hospitals and probably could have blended in with the vehicles there.

@serenityjewel

Жыл бұрын

A lot of hotels in the South have security. I didn't know hotels in other places didn't.

@cheflifevanlife

Жыл бұрын

Or that's just their level normal level of security and he saw her pull in and not get out. Could be as simple as that.

@marieblankenship8592

Жыл бұрын

The weinermobile did have its catalytic converter stolen recently.

@Flinshot1

Жыл бұрын

When I was driving trucks in the early 2000s I40 was the worst. One day it took more than 20 hours to find a parking space.

Its a good thing you answered otherwise the next knock you would have heard would be from a police officer and then a tow truck.

Too stressful to live like this. I need an apartment and definitely a bedroom indoors. Stay Safe, your very sweet

Never answer the door. Now they know there’s someone in the van.

My main reason why not upgrading to a van. Love that I can park my SUV anywhere and not be noticed.

I admire your analytical skills in searching up a safe sleeping spot. I tried minivan life for only 2 weeks but failed because when I'm tired, it's so frustrating to have to go to 3 or 4 or more places just trying to find a safe spot to sleep. Your success and good attitude is a testament to your tenacity, but at the same time, it pisses me off that you should have to go through this. With the growing need for people to choose van life, there should be accommodations made somehow to provide legal and safe parking.

@bnellaniyah

3 ай бұрын

Unfortunately, if the PTB cared, the need would not be growing.

I live in Murrell's inlet, you can park that in my yard anytime, it's very safe. Columbia isn't a place I'd want to even get a hotel.

Girl you need cameras! No more peaking out 👀 Not only can you see everything, but you can record what’s happening 👍🏻Just my two cents 🙂 Thanks for sharing! Safe travels 🚞

Along with cameras, you need to get you red or green LED lights, you can see fine inside, but no one can see any lights on in the Van. Please stay safe❤

I lived in an RV for ten years. You get a sixth sense for where you can stay. I never in ten years stayed in a hotel parking lot. They're considered private property and a good way to get the dreaded middle of the night wake up, the police called on you or a ticket for trespassing. I always went to Walmart or truck stops. No problem in ten years! And please drive carefully while you're filming. You ran a red light.

Cracker barrel and Cabela's I don't know if they have them there but those are usually two very safe places to overnight in the parking lot

This happened to me while just traveling in my truck. I pulled into a fast-food restaurant and got food and then pulled into a spot in what looked like a vacant hotel and was sitting there eating when a guy from inside the hotel comes to my window asking if I needed a room. Weird. Just leave people alone who are not bothering anyone or anything.

@F_e_l_i_x_

6 ай бұрын

When you aren't a paying customer, you are trespassing. They can call the police and have you removed and cited for trespassing.

@penni6432

6 ай бұрын

I had not committed an offense and there were no signs saying that only guests could park there. And I wasn't parked at the front of the building, I actually parked in a spot closest to the street. But here in lies the problem. Society has become so diligent with the "you can't do that" attitude, that they are making mountains out of mole hills. Let the innocent stuff go. I was literally there 10 minutes. I wasn't going to camp there.@@F_e_l_i_x_

My husband and I feel your pain. Lol. We stealth camp in our van and this night you had is sooo similar to some of ours. Sometimes we nail it quickly. Sometimes not. One night while in a hotel parking lot a man and woman had a huge lovers quarrel smack behind our van. A nice hotel. We could hear everything they said. I was sooo nervous. It continued on and on so my husband slowly climbed out of the bed to the drivers seat, started the engine and took off in one fell swoop, leaving them in shock no doubt 😮😂 Another night we had a policeman knock and kindly told us we couldn’t park where we were and directed us to Dennys.

@catbee1452

8 ай бұрын

I don't know if I could handle the daily stress of not knowing where I was parking for the night, if it was safe and if I would get the dreaded 'knock' !

@lockandloadlikehell

7 ай бұрын

​@@catbee1452park at Walmart - problem solved

I work as a Security Officer for one of the major companies in the US. The most common reason for Security to be in a parking lot in a regular car is on a new acct. That car was either a company paid rental, or an officer's personal vehicle if the account is so new that a rental was not yet arranged. Most marked vehicles are actually owned by the security company. My guess is that hotel has had security in their lot for 6 months or less.

@onemoreday1550

Жыл бұрын

Lately. Crime is up everywhere. Gotta be careful

@harrythomas2656

Жыл бұрын

@@onemoreday1550 That's exactly what the security officer was doing. Making sure his post was safe.

@raveninavaniam9438

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind, professional and informative response 👍

@Invisible-Man666

9 ай бұрын

I e worked security for many years. A lot of officers monitor the parking lot in their personal vehicle due to the working just that property. Not worth having a company vehicle there if it’s not needed.

@pearpo

8 ай бұрын

As a van lifer it might be cool to get into security work

You should park in a place where you can't be boxed in, you should always park where you can pull off if need be in a hurry

I would have a big dog with me if I was in a van alone. A shepherd or something.

@Heidi51616

3 ай бұрын

No fair to the dog.

What works for me (granted I am in Europe where there are treaties which protect free choice of dwelling and traffic laws which allow - and even demand - recuperative parking) is to kit the van out as a work van. You may have to choose wisely on what kind of work van you want to impersonate because obviously an electronics courrier is very popular with the burglars whereas the sewer unclogging professional will never see anybody wanting to have a snoop around the interior... I impersonate as a plumber professional and I never get any knocks from fake popos or other bussy bodies in a uniform... I like the "just got here and was using the bathroom" excuse...

@pattikelly8921

Жыл бұрын

See, the thing here in America, is that most parking lots (all those attached to businesses) are legally private property. So there can be no govt requirements to allow those not actively engaged in doing commerce with that business, and during normal business hours only, can a person even be on said property for any length of time. This touches upon our very common laws regarding Loitering and Trespass. The business owner can agree to it, and that changes everything. But then there are the insurance providers who do not want to see something like that due to liability. And there are the officials from Code Enforcement who will come along and put a stop to it immediately. Many people, myself included, are full time on the road, and I will try urban stealth anytime I need to, for sure. But I don't kid myself where I stand under the Law. And being uninformed or using vague rationalizations have no bearing whatsoever. "Woulda-Coulda-Shoulda" has no validity here. Personally, I'm not happy things are that way, but it is what it is. Business (most especially corporate entities) rule here in the US, even over the civil rights of the people. Sad, bad thing that. Beyond all that, Columbia SC is a very high crime city. And generally, the entire state of SC is very forceful against parking overnight like that. Locals resort to violent behavior easily over it.

@koningbolo4700

Жыл бұрын

@@pattikelly8921 Europe has for the most part similar rules and regs but as long as you are on public land (the parking lot of any government entity, a open parking lot (unless posted or fitted with any form of barrier or gate - even if said barrier or gate is opened) In europe for the most part, if normal traffic laws apply (which they do in all areas - even private land - which is publicly accessible - like a open lot and even an ungated private driveway) you should keep to the traffic code and as such can not drive when fatigued...

@CircaBEFORE

11 ай бұрын

Wow. This is genius

@georgewagner7787

6 ай бұрын

​@@koningbolo4700America has public lands too but it seems mostly in the west. I only know from videos though

@robinalecia7554

6 ай бұрын

Hospital parking lots are good and safe if you keep quiet

I’m curious why you didn’t walk into Walmart and inquire about overnight parking, or ask the security guard that you mentioned was roaming around. Either of these options would have been much less effort than all of the driving and searching.

@dustysfinds9900

Жыл бұрын

That was my thought as well....but, hey, to each their own

@BrendaLee8

Жыл бұрын

Most Walmarts let you stay in their parking lot

@timeless4495

Жыл бұрын

She called twice no answer. I would NEVER go in person either because that identifies you to potential criminals who overhear you asking. This is of particular concern to females traveling alone

@MsPhillyG

Жыл бұрын

@@BrendaLee8 Alot of Walmarts have actually stopped allowing overnight parking and have signs posted up.

@tinydancer7426

Жыл бұрын

@@MsPhillyG Was just going to mention the same. In fact, where I live, if a shopping center where a Walmart is located is found to be regularly permitting such overnight parking, the owners of said shopping center can and will be fined by local government. The property is not zoned for such use. Also, shopping centers are populated by many businesses/stores, the owners/managers of which have no authority to okay/authorize the use of the parking lot for such overnight camping.

Security companies are cutting costs by having their guards use their own personal vehicles. Kudos to that guard for actually doing his job and not napping in his car.

I’m in over the road truck driver and my advice to you is not to park at Walmarts. Some of them will have your vehicle booted and it will cost you a tremendous amount of money to have that removed. You should try to find parking in outer suburbs, not in the downtown area and get yourself some trucking apps like flying J loves TA Petro you can usually park in the front lots of those for free and they’re well lit and the staff inside can see your vehicle and nobody will bother you

@roxane7432

Жыл бұрын

Yes, truck stops are the best

@Watchoutho

Жыл бұрын

I’ve seen tons of videos where the people say Walmart allows overnight camping in their parking lots.

@djday7974

Жыл бұрын

100% this, very good advice.

Wow girl! I just made it (barely!!) through the KNOCK and am still amped up with you as if I were there! I have been there myself, and you managed to convey the precise heart stopping experience with all its nuances, the knocking on all three sides. Omgoodness I almost couldn’t stay with it! Really enjoy your realness 😊

@btpuppy2

10 ай бұрын

I immediately went and double locked the front door to my house!!

At least he didn't ask " is Tamara home?" 😱😂 the random knocking is def jarring, i agree. Loved the video 😊

You cannot park on private property at a hotel unless you pay .... It's a law. The only places you can park are at rest stops and some stores like Walmart or grocery chains during their business hours or their security guards will boot you out

Oh my. I would have been in panic mode. You stayed so calm and handled the situation so well. I work at a Lowe's in NC. They allow truck drivers to park overnight so they may let vanlifers do the same. Maybe just another option. Stay safe out there

@GoAskAlice23

Жыл бұрын

Cracker Barrel is a well known safe place to park. They are found in every city and are usually right beside exits.

@gracierose3076

Жыл бұрын

@@GoAskAlice23 I was thinking about that! ... yes, if they allow this. But I would want other campers there as well.

@GoAskAlice23

Жыл бұрын

@@gracierose3076 plenty of RVs are here now. All shapes and sizes.

@lesleylight4690

Жыл бұрын

Be careful.

@martijordak806

4 ай бұрын

I've done that No problem.

I would hate being tired and having to look for a parking spot to sleep - I think that alone would be tiresome.

@libbyhicks7549

Жыл бұрын

I have done it. It is exhausting. But all parts of the lifestyle are. You have to get up and find coffee or tea. Then you have to find or get to the showering place. Then you have to get to an eatery. It all takes so much energy and time, there is no way you could look for a job or likely hold one down. You save alot of money though. Rent is taxed. Expecially if you know enough people that you can sometimes have housesitting or pet sitting to break the monotony. It can be worth it.

That is what I'm afraid of uninvited intruder. Be safe. Park at 24-hour fitness. Used there shower if you're a member.

I was homeless and living in my car too. It is not so bad actually. Industrial Parks are good for parking and sleeping. No one bothers you there

20 years ago as a teenager I moved out living out of my jeep Cherokee in Walmart parking lots for a couple of weeks. Was wondering if you have a reason for not overnighting at truck stops, or maybe you do stay in those sometimes. Enjoyed your video. Then totally understand a van sticks out much more than smaller vehicle in those parking lots. Pretty unsettling to have somebody going around banging on your sheet metal and then your window. At least it happened only a few minutes after you got there so you weren’t woken up.

😱😱 Even watching the video, after the knock my heart stopped, that was so scary, i could never travelbon my own, maybe only with a lion by my side 😬

@mariegeorge8865

8 ай бұрын

😂

The first thing I would have done was activate my alarm. If it's someone with bad intentions, they'll scamper off in a hurry. If it's security, they'll stick around. Another gal who's been van living for six years, travelling across the US, has a map of all the free parking spaces she's been to, an interactive map with notes about each. Worth googling. Only recently did I realize that truckers park overnight at our local Walmart. I saw a few campers, too. Just was not aware of it before.

I suggest, you get a CD that has a large dog barking ferociously. Turn that dog barking on, when you have suspicious activity around your camper / vehicle.

Too stressful for me! By the time all the driving was done to find a place I think I'd of just got a room for the night and researched for the next night.

@Birdbike719

Жыл бұрын

,and I would have so much adrenaline I wouldn't be able to sleep anyway

@bingo1232

Жыл бұрын

Karen, you little cutie! I bet you’re a strong woman… you can handle yourself, I know. Best of Luck in all your life, in all your journeys; may prosperity always seek you out.

OMGoodness, I am so glad you are safe! I know you have to be tired. Hopefully, you can find better place so you can get a full night's rest. Safe travels!

Hello Steve. I know this is late but thank you for your extremely special post. My mum passed at home with us from a cardic arrest. One day here ,next day no more conversations and no one to call 'MUM' Steve you rock ,you are the only camping dude I watch. Wish you could come to New Zealand.

Interesting. I travel a fair deal and they always ask for type of car and license. I always assumed they monitored who parked there. I wouldn't have thought anyone could park overnight without being a guest.

I've been traveling like you, for past 8 yrs. With crazy gas prices and cost of food, I am on now on a budget, Go to a truck stop, get a map of Loves, Flying Js, etc truck stops. Most 24/7 super center Walmarts allow parking, but ask security. I travel with a 80 lb German Shepard, Blue heeler, Rottweiler mix, I leave a window cracked open so he can smell and/or hear someone approaching my Motorhome. Happy travels dear

@ydoicare2000

3 ай бұрын

Ya a truck stop for sure

As a full time van lifer visiting here in Arizona, I've learned if Walmart has security roaming the parking lot, don't even attempt to stay overnight! Those buttcrack of dawn knocks suck!😆

@imnitguy

Жыл бұрын

Pay your own way. Walmart owes you nothing. Good grief.

@libbyhicks7549

Жыл бұрын

@@imnitguy Walmart owes all of us.

@ms.pirate

Жыл бұрын

I hate Walmart for multiple reasons

@pearpo

8 ай бұрын

If he stays the night he is more likely to buy stuff there. Don’t they lock their workers in there?

@lockandloadlikehell

7 ай бұрын

​@@imnitguylol ok lil fella whatever you say, killa

I feel your stress. Jeez, wish you safety and serenity ❤

I don't blame people for not wanting people to park while not using the hotel. I think this is one of the reasons why people are not very friendly towards people living in van's/camping.

Hear me out I'm a truck driver, for everyone that is part of the van life I don't care if have a partner or fur babies with you, down load trucker path. It will help yall out with the walmarts nation wide cause there some of the walmarts that will not let us park. But it might be the same for yall as well.

Anybody can wear a security uniform pretending to be a guard! Rolling down that window was not smart or safe!