Marriage comes with its own social pressures especially for women like name change, living with in laws, having kids etc. A live in relationship offers much more freedom.

@swatisaini6447

2 жыл бұрын

💯

@ananyaverma9599

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly.

@swaroopbag9279

2 жыл бұрын

exactly.

@binnaaesculapian5068

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. And divorces are really hard & long if it doesn't work out.

@skyfall7155

2 жыл бұрын

Communist after successfully destroying joint families are seeing huge success in destroying nuclear families also.

According to me peace and comfort matters ultimately. It's all up to you about what you choose be it a marriage, live in relationship, break up or divorse. You should do what makes you comfortable and peaceful. Beside this it's people's duty not to snoop into someone's personal life.

@sohit7706

2 жыл бұрын

Nah.. Divorces are not always fine. As these days specially in western countries people are getting divorced just because they are little bored. More than 50% americans divorce. And these Cases are increasing day by day. A sense of responsibility is going away in todays generation. They just want fun not the responsibility. It just complicates things for your children.

@sharmisthachowdhury7111

2 жыл бұрын

@@sohit7706 let the parents think about their children. After all it's their personal matter. We can only give good advices. Its their decision to accept it or not.

@sohit7706

2 жыл бұрын

@@sharmisthachowdhury7111 Parents who divorce because they are bored don't care about children. The emotional turmoil that children face when their parents are divorced often results in helplessness, anger, confusion, sadness, guilt and self-blame. Also it leads to behavioural problems and depression. Don't talk about something in which you have no idea.

@sharmisthachowdhury7111

2 жыл бұрын

@@sohit7706 if I have the idea what can I do to the children? Can you please give me some information about it.

@sohit7706

2 жыл бұрын

@@sharmisthachowdhury7111 Don't marry? And if you marry don't divorce just because you are bored or just because you have some minor arguments. That's true from both sides. However women initiate most of the divorce. Be responsible. That's it. Don't marry of you are so immature to handle any sort of responsibility.

We are the one of 23 countries in world where Marital Rape is legal...if thats not a crime ...criminalizing Live in relationship is not such a suprise.

@firstnamelastname1744

2 жыл бұрын

Also the only country where if you change your mind on marrying a girl its ra pe.

@anupamaMall

2 жыл бұрын

I think it's 36. Also Domestic Violence Act has provisions for sexual abuse too but we need a separate law.

@respawnedhere

2 жыл бұрын

true!!

@chocochatter8480

2 жыл бұрын

@@ultimatetruth4156 Thinking that "marital rape should be criminalized" is a foreign type shit just shows how stupid you are

@quizudita

2 жыл бұрын

@@ultimatetruth4156 Chief Justices of India are Not Some kind of God descendent directly from Heaven, whatever they say is ALL Good and Truth.. 🤬 *According to one, Oral Sex with a Minor Doesn't account as Child Sexual Abuse* 😡

Live in relationships aren't devoid of commitment just because there isn't a legal document binding the couple. It can also be a way to determine whether getting married to that person is a good idea or not.

@Kiiiiiiiie

2 жыл бұрын

@@ultimatetruth4156 sure, there's nothing wrong with fatherless societies.

@firstnamelastname1744

2 жыл бұрын

@@Kiiiiiiiie nothing is wrong anyway. If you look at it like that nothing is wrong for motherless and even parentless society. It not about whats wrong its about whats best for a child 🤦‍♀️.

@Ob-sw9sd

2 жыл бұрын

@@ultimatetruth4156 sure, why not?

@rajinvincible

2 жыл бұрын

I don't understand why people jump to conclusions so easily without knowing the consequences of growing up without a father or mother. I hope you guys take time to find and read enough research on how it affects children. You can evade reality but you cannot evade the consequences of evading reality.

@shantanusingh3641

2 жыл бұрын

@@ultimatetruth4156 You are speaking as if such women never find a partner again and marry. Eventually, women do marry and children do have step-fathers with whom they share healthy relationship. Otherwise also, the birth father has to face the legal, financial and social responsibility in contributing to the growth of his child. More importantly, you should stop presenting these cases where children are born father-less to target live-in relationships, and rather question the lack of availability of sex education and family planning to such couples. Individual freedom to explore relationship is very important so that individuals can choose whom they eventually want to marry, unlike in India where individuals face social pressure to marry an unknown person and then live with them for the rest of their life, regardless of whether they want to or not.

I think live in relationships are better than suddenly living together after marriage. The incompatibilities and problems (like the partner not doing any chores or having a very different lifestyle) won't come up as a shock.

@swatisaini6447

2 жыл бұрын

💯

@CurlyFitt

2 жыл бұрын

I completely agree. Separation too is less complicated than marriage

@veda6831

2 жыл бұрын

@@ultimatetruth4156 Always blaming women for everything. Get some new excuse 😴

@CurlyFitt

2 жыл бұрын

@@veda6831 exactly. This person is commenting same everywhere 😂

@Jyotigautam52870

2 жыл бұрын

@@ultimatetruth4156 Tu America se vapis aa jaa ab Bhai🤣🤣🤣

There are some people who say that, " we want to do live-in because we want know each other. Then they say ohh we have known each other now , so bye"

I believe the people who don't get to be in live-in are jealous when they see others in it and hence they don't accept it.

@swatisaini6447

2 жыл бұрын

Possible 😂

@CurlyFitt

2 жыл бұрын

@@ultimatetruth4156 what is the benefit of having a father?

@CurlyFitt

2 жыл бұрын

@@ultimatetruth4156 marriage is a legal or societal way to glorify slavery of a woman.

@devd8845

2 жыл бұрын

@@CurlyFitt a father figure is necessary to raise the child to be strong and responsible so that in future he/she would not end up being feminist, weak or beta, who play victim card or blame it all on others all the time instead of taking responsibility for his/her own actions and would be capable enough to succeed in life without any kind of reservation or favours.

@CurlyFitt

2 жыл бұрын

@@devd8845 i agree father figure is as important as mother for a healthy family but it isn't necessary to live. Come on being feminist doesn't mean playing victim card. And here the video is about live-in relationships and not to have a father or not. As much as of concern India me jo father hai max logo k Ghar me wo rahe ya na rahe koi khas fark nahi padega child k upbringing per kyuki unka waise bhi koi contribution nahi hota hai other than giving sperm and money (if he's working)

I would always prefer live-in relationships. Why? Because according to me, "Marriage" is just a live-in relationship between two humans with a tag which will not hurt society's ego. As said in the video, people can accept sex between strangers than love between two humans. Why do we need to have unnecessary tags? It is far more easier to get out of a live-in relationship than a marriage anyways, if need arises. And the best part when the couple may break-up? No involvement of family or "log kya kahenge". Live-in relationship actually tells one if the other person is even bearable to live with for the rest of their freaking life, that is, if someone is so keen on marriage. Live-in should be considered an important part of one's relationship so that, if a couple end up marrying each other, the chances of divorce becomes minimum. Live-in has so much advantages, ugh.

@skyfall7155

2 жыл бұрын

I don't know about you guys But marriage in my religion is a very sacred bond

@lalitthapa101

2 жыл бұрын

@@skyfall7155 yes. Its Sacred. That's why people shouldnt just blindly enter into one. Thats just more reasons for starting a live in relationship.Get to know the partner,live in basically a marriage but not a marriage and when everything's known,then tie the knot.

@magneticfield2318

2 жыл бұрын

Ye alag alag log ke sath Ghar ghar khelene ke layak independent bhi hona padta hai. Khud ki kamayi, ghar hai? Parents ke paise se ye sab nahi hone wala bachho😂😂

@swaroopbag9279

2 жыл бұрын

@@skyfall7155 aaji ghantaa

@swaroopbag9279

2 жыл бұрын

@@magneticfield2318 sahi

If both the parties are fine with live-in relationship then ok. both parties opinion should be counted, parents should also not force their child to marry if they are in relationship

@saltyuser_

2 жыл бұрын

@@ultimatetruth4156 who the hell told you that I'm gonna take a "test drive"? 💀 And why are you talking about American society? When the whole video tells us about Indian society which is completely f*cked up And if the father only doesn't want the child then what can even a mother do?(don't have s-x only) She would choose to abort the child, and most of the time they choose to accept the child! Child should be the mutual responsibility of mother and father..

@diyonysus55

2 жыл бұрын

@@ultimatetruth4156 agreed , it is nothing more than influence of western soft power and guess what america has one of the highest divorce rates in the world even after living in so called compatibility testing relationships , and of course no one will like to talk about darker side of live-in relationship all they repeat is compatibility and no responsility that you have to take after marriage, they won,t talk about how people even after 5 years of this relationship just get up and leave and leave other partner broken as if nothing ever happened to fend for themselves and many other darker points and they think it,s open minded to import it into Indian society beacause they think it,s cool and actors do it all the time, it,s just an excuse for no responsibility easy life with no strings attached.

@saltyuser_

2 жыл бұрын

@@admiral_general_aladeen165 ठीक है, अमेरिका का नागरिक

@justawlwwholikesshygirls5704

2 жыл бұрын

@@admiral_general_aladeen165 you seem gay for that guy bruh

@shiveenanarula6104

2 жыл бұрын

@@ultimatetruth4156 who hurt you child?

Such a nice video. I think respecting someone's choice and individuality are the keys. Even if two consenting adults want to be in a live in relationship just for s#x , there is nothing wrong with it. Let them be.

@vasavisadhu9062

2 жыл бұрын

You have really progressive views @sneha Ghosh

@RinkuYadav-lv4zk

2 жыл бұрын

@ Sneha Gosh totally with u

@PrashantSingh-dh6ff

2 жыл бұрын

Who stops anyone to be in a live in relationship. Ummm Society!...As you have full right to be in a live in relationship. Society has full right to judge you.

@vasavisadhu9062

2 жыл бұрын

@@nixxfleet Its called freedom of choice, rather than being dictated by social pressures of what you can and cannot do. No thank you. I will take choice over patriarchy any day. Yes feminism is about equality and choice. Its way better than patriarchy

@justme-qq4od

2 жыл бұрын

@@nixxfleet well you haven’t understood it correctly. you just need to mind your own business and to quote above comment “let them be.”

People from outside think that live-in is a free pass to a trial offer with no cost involved. Little do most people realise the pain it can induce. Attachments are inevitable in a live in and seperation after that is painful. It gets more complex when the seperation is one sided. Its foolish to consider there is no price one pays.

@CurlyFitt

2 жыл бұрын

But less than divorce

@aaravbutolia7412

2 жыл бұрын

@@CurlyFitt ig only the legal things aren't there ...

@snehaghosh4132

2 жыл бұрын

So true

@saptarshipal6743

2 жыл бұрын

@@CurlyFitt legal things are actually easy to get away with rather than emotional and mental baggage. Even after marriage it's these things that stay with you. So same is going to happen in live-in as well. If you were staying someone for 2-3 yrs then you are going to take this baggage to next relationship as well. Though it can't be generalized but majority does.

Marriage isn't a joke. Its a commitment. So before tying the knot,its better to be in a live in relationship. Get to know the person more and basically be in a marriage thats not a marriage.If it doesn't work out,part ways. If you think a simple thing like this "against out culture" then only God can help you.

@swatisaini6447

2 жыл бұрын

💯

@beachplease_

2 жыл бұрын

@@ultimatetruth4156 So you’re telling me that everyone should marry a stranger and consummate their marriage with someone they know nothing about?

@koyle.j

2 жыл бұрын

@@ultimatetruth4156 BRUH do you understand your own words? Live in's are important to know a person. A person can be abusive and most people hide it very well. It's only after living with them for a few months that you realize what kind of people they are. Test drives? Bizzare? Padh nahi sakte to movies dekh ke hi thodi knowledge gain karlo.

@beachplease_

2 жыл бұрын

@@ultimatetruth4156 Seriously? Meeting his friends and family and I’ll get to know him? How naive are you? A person is an individual with their own thoughts and feelings.

@designkolamart8828

2 жыл бұрын

Ye kaunsi duniya me g rehe hai? Stats or emotions ka difference pata hai ise? Par data kaha se late hai? Kaunsi website hai? Itna mind reading power hai iska? Surroundings se sab jan lete hai? Bhai hume bhi tickets de do yaar, agla date agar koi hota hai to usko to aap k paas hi le jaungi - surroundings se parakh karwaane k liye! Aare sab pair chhuyo iske, right number wale babaji mil geye! Seriously, jab bhi swaddle comments khulti hu har jaga iska comments(aur bhi hai shayed do tin aise), and mostly kisi dusro k comments k niche ladne k liye comment karta hai, kitna frustrated & jobless! Ise kehte hai passionate hate! Khudke zindagi me kuch na bhi ho par hate karne k liye time nikal na ek top priority hai!

People please understand that if live in doesn't work out you can end things by breakup while in case of marriage u have to Kato chakkar of court for eternity with little to no hope

@swatisaini6447

2 жыл бұрын

@@ultimatetruth4156 no but an incel less society is definitely preferable

@quizudita

2 жыл бұрын

@@ultimatetruth4156 _Bhai, kbhi toh America se Bahar Aa jaya kr.. Duniya mei 100+ countries hai or wahan bhi population exists krti h..._ Everywhere you will find different types of people. Learn Not to Impose your beliefs on Others. Just because you have seen something in a certain way , doesn't mean that everybody has to look from your lens. *Not everything can be Categorised into BLACK or WHITE. Most of the times it's GREY. Everything has their Own Advantages and Drawbacks.* _Try to Add COLORS in your life. Practice Meditation. Improve your Power of Acceptance._ The World don't Run according to One person. 🙂 (P.S. I don't believe in Live-In R.. But I am mature enough to not to Judge people in every Step of Life. If they are comfortable doing that. If it's working for them. It's FINE. Who am I to question it? )

@xlr8466

2 жыл бұрын

@@ultimatetruth4156 the data you are posting is from baby boomer generation. That time contraceptives and family planning were not prevalent in USA also. Today with so many options i dont think it is a big deal. Again planning with your partner is always a good option.

@ashanasinha671

2 жыл бұрын

@@ultimatetruth4156 areey contraceptive ka naam sunna hai 🙄 legal abortion 🙄

@dominikjunior1998

2 жыл бұрын

Only women will eventually suffer from such culture. Men won't no longer support their family. Sex is not everything. When you will do then you will realise it's very small thing. Their are many other things in life

That's why majority youth leave india..so that they can love and live with the person they like with full freedom ...they know they cannot date and love in privacy in a close minded backward india

@pallavipatil5304

2 жыл бұрын

Yea , and I think that's the better option because changing indian people mentality is not easy.

@thethirddoor5480

2 жыл бұрын

Lol only few privileged once leave India not majority, also most of them came back after completing their studies.

@ShubhamPal-yh9rq

Жыл бұрын

Bro agar tumhe India acha nhi lagta hai to tum bhi ja sakte ho Tumhe ayyasi karna pasand hai to Aisa jaruri thodi hai ki sabko wahi pasand ho And I love my india

I just love how it said, "shaadi ke bina rehna paap but anjaan insaan se shaadi then sex is okay".

@analgesic

Жыл бұрын

And when u talking about "anjaan ppl" Uss anjaan ppl ko tumhare ko8 n koi relative even ur parents achhe se aur lambe wqt se jante hote h No matter ki vo arranged ho ya love Agr tumhari baat me thori si bh8 sachhai h to to tumme aur kutto billio ko koi frk nhi🥱😴

@analgesic

Жыл бұрын

Jb tum baat krti ho l8ve in relation ki to vo to krke nikl lega aur usse koi kuchh nhi keh skta human ko animals se jo chiz different bnati h vo h morals civilization baki tum smjhdaar ho

Sex wali baat shi h bhai ..isse ldko ko farak ni pdta lekin, breakup ho gya to ldki ko farak pd jata h , isiliye m bhi livin k khilaf ho

@Manish_R1

2 жыл бұрын

@@admiral_general_aladeen165 Yes

Thank you for making videos in Hindi as well, it makes it more shareable with my parents/relatves.

The way Indian weddings are, I believe marriage is a very pure and way more respected concept (the vachans and stuff) So I dont think comparing live in with marriage is a great idea. I belong to the new generation but Live in is just not my cup of tea, not something I'll try for myself. I like to stick to the roots ,and follow all the good things about our culture, for me marriage is beautiful . Yeah but that doesn't mean I'll start judging people who have live in relationships! The bottom line is we should not care and let people live the way they wish to.

@rupakkundu4394

2 жыл бұрын

I agree or also live in should be only practised after you think you can marry like here in my area a bhaiya and didi lived in live only because they worked in same city and also they married within 3-4 months after live in so here it isn't wrong but ya I also beleive in true bond of marriage by vedic rituals like you👍

Thank you for such Enlightening videos

Thaaank you for making this video in hindi. Now its more accessible to the elders in my circle. Swaddle has awsm content but atimes language is a barrier. The devoted daughter video again was a masterpiece. Can u please make it into hindi as well. Awsm work Team Swaddle. I would love contributing my bit for the amazing work u guys do ❣

From my experience I would say I am blessed with a supportive family despite they are from a old era background ,I have seen them accepting the changes with respect to time.I have been with a relationship for almost 6 years and last year we have moved in together with the consent of our parents.We are working out happily with all our ups and downs. I can say live in relationship does gave you the experience to develop a good base for future marriage.I hope everybody's parents should understand the necessity of your child individual life so that they can avoid being trapped in a cycle of suffocating marriage.

@nagatouzumaki-gq4oj

2 жыл бұрын

What will happen if you can't marry your boyfriend ? What will you say to your future husband about live in relationship ?

@rumashreedas9953

2 жыл бұрын

@@nagatouzumaki-gq4oj Actually we are going to marry soon on July'22😊

@nagatouzumaki-gq4oj

2 жыл бұрын

@@rumashreedas9953 great wish you happy married life didi

@nagatouzumaki-gq4oj

2 жыл бұрын

@@rumashreedas9953 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

@rumashreedas9953

2 жыл бұрын

@@nagatouzumaki-gq4oj Thankyou so much 🥰🥰

Baat ye hai ki ye India ke ladke hai bhai Live in me rah ke faayda uthana to koi inse sikhe Ye ladke apne maa baap ke saamne hi sidhe or sanskari banke rahte hai Zara si freedom milte hi ye log line cross karke blunder karne me zara bhi der nahi lagate

People have right to be in a live in relationship. And society also has full right to judge them.😂

In my opinion, I think 'live-in' in it's most natural and raw form i.e, without any social, community or legal intervention is most beneficial for males and least beneficial for females. Which I think stems from the fact that in any such system a male would always have an opportunity to evacuate(not considering the moral sense here). However, marriage can't be basically existing in it's raw form(it never was) . Because, it's an integrated version of live-in itself and thus already comes well equipped with all sorts of social, religious, community as well as law interventions thus, safeguarding both the sides from maximum possibilities of risk and fraud. Basically, live in is a retrogressed form of marriage. It's like a stock version of a vehicle while marriage is well-equipped and tested form. I know it's comparatively difficult to exit a marriage while a little bit simpler and easier in case of live-in and that is only because marriage has more external interventions than live-in relationships thus, different and distinct weightage. Anyways, the point is 'live-in' will surely help fending off external disturbances and interruptions but will not necessarily aid in the actual internal ambience of the relationship (which is equal to that of marriage). And internal cooperation and management is that which matters the most. Which brings us back at par with that of a marriage or any other human-human relationship. N.B : everything jotted down here is just my surface/basic knowledge of both the systems and doesn't necessarily coincides with facts or studies.

Thank you over thinking

Love is a emotion which can vanish over time while marriage is a social contract which gives us safety and security, it is like comparing oranges with apples, the western society had mixed 2 different things in so called concept of love marriages that's why we call it it illogical and harmful western influence. Giving you benifit of foolish, you want to say live in as cohabitation without comment situation is as good as marriage cohabitation with comment. God bless you and your judgement #indianshainchitiuyanahi

That is soooooo true man😭❤️

Even while booking hotels, majority of them ask for your marraige certificate. Hope people's thinking changes soon

@mrtriyja7800

2 жыл бұрын

Hope people accept rands and muththals as new gods.

@user-go9kw6wf4m

Жыл бұрын

@@mrtriyja7800 lol 😆😆

As a guy who is not interested in marriage, I find live-in relationship as the best substitute of marriage. One can experience everything a marriage can provide without actually getting married. And if the relationship doesn't workout anymore, you can leave that relationship, you don't have to face as much difficulties a married couple faces while getting divorced.

@r.halder1810

2 жыл бұрын

I agree too

@swaroopbag9279

2 жыл бұрын

yeah, 🔥 true

@rahulranjan343

2 жыл бұрын

@@ultimatetruth4156 incel troll

@vardhan4594

2 жыл бұрын

Also no legal obligations whatsoever like alimony, maintenance, divorce, etc etc

@milkyway8988

Жыл бұрын

Yes you should sleep with a 100000 peopel to chose the right person Completely agree we should live with others have sex with them if it dont work out lest just leave I bet you have a body cou t of a million you father must be so proud I

Welcome sir 🌸 I guess you are new for us . Good luck keep it up.🤗.

please yeh video ko facebook pe viral karoo..... our parents don't come to youtube to spend time.

I agree to some extent but disagree far more. 1. Live-in-relationship cannot and should not be sought as an alternative answer to all problems in an arranged marriage or even for relationships without live-in. 2. I believe most couples in India are not mature enough to handle live-in responsibly. I see most around me simply adopting it for fun with predetermined notion of ultimately marrying to guy/girl of their parents choice. Not to forget how entrenched is our caste system when it comes to marrying. 3. This topic in India cannot be discussed in isolation. Consider the same and try bringing caste, language,regional differences and see the interplay of all the factors. In West live-in-relationships can be understood in isolation but not in India. Compatibility comes much later here. 4. most arguments are from male perspective(not because the person behind the camera is a man) I mean the arguments presented here somewhere easily let men get away these arguments and most women in the name of "acting cool" and "to not come across as too wanting out of the relationship" suffer emotionally, mentally, financially. 5. There are several fallouts of live-in -relationships too alongside it's benefits such as freedom of choice. But think this for once: how beautiful a couple's life could be if they choose freedom alongwith responsibility towards each other as well. Not just in health but also in sickness..and here's where most live-in relationships fail.

@cauliflowerhead2735

2 жыл бұрын

Well, it's terribly fallacious to think that live-in relationships come without responsibility. Most people who can afford it would be employed and will have to contribute financially and domestically to the household. Domestically, they'd have to do most of the work themselves as young people may not be able to afford househelps straightaway and may have to work towards that kind of luxury. If you think about day-to-day responsibilities just to maintain decent living standards I don't believe the option of live-in is completely free of burdens.

Chalo sab Videsh chalte hain..our culture which makes us learn tolerance, empathetic and more humble..also teaches us how to keep a relationship to the day we cease to exist..but sorry to say in the name of so called freedom, we are on the path of destruction...more and more people of our country has become consumerist now..they want to consume more and more be it testing a person through casual sex or live in relationship without any responsibility...Marriage is lifetime commitment, which majority of people forget may be because they have good amount of wealth, options lack of values and hence become ungrateful and unfaithful..celebrities are real life examples.... Pyar karte ho kisi insaan ko toh poori achhi intention ke saath karo..nahi toh bhaag niklo.. And even old couples who are married for quite long time like Bill gates and Melinda gates also got divorced, I think nobody could have ever afford to have live in relationship for that long... Live in relationship are going to be misused majorly it is another form of patriarchy..in the end only women would suffer..(any kind of violence in a relationship must be discouraged..and parting ways is the only option.)

One of the major reason about not accepting live in relationship is about the result/outcome. No one talks about it but marriage actually is about bearing more responsibility and also bare the weight of a family. But Live in relationship totally cuts the responsibility part legally.

Live-in relationship is not safe for women in india. They are considered damaged goods. In the event of a break-up, the woman suffers like crazy

live-in relationships are great for testing compatibility between two people and they can save you from landing in a bad marriage .. it's always better to know a person well before marrying them. i hope people become more considerate.

@mrtriyja7800

2 жыл бұрын

You can never test. People broke after 10 yrs

Kya baat hai... Jab khud koi point prove karna ho to.... Aap log sirf ek tarfa story batate h... Jha loop hole hai us par to aapka pura focus hota.. Plz.. You are a good channel... I hope.. Ki aap log iske baki facts ko bhi consider karenge... Kisi chiz ko bina jane.. Or KAHE TO PURA JANE BINA AAPNE ISE PRESENT KAR DIYA... Western culture ki tarf dekhte dekhte hamri maansikta bhi un jesi ho rhi h... Hum apna system sahi ke bajaay dusra system lagu kar rhe h... In sab se family shuru hongi bache bhi honge.. Fir kuch bigda to single parenting (isme kuch galat nhi h) lekin uske bahut sare wrong impact bhi to h... Kya hum jo system chala aa rha h.. Usme improve nhi kar sakte.. Bajaay dusra system thopne ke liye... Live in ko chahe kitna hi Defend kar le... But ye bahut sari kamiya lekar aata h.. Isliye swaddle... Plz ek tarah ki soch na thope... Ye baat aapka virodh karne ki nhi h... Bahut sari Or chize bhi h.. But aap thoda or samjhe... I strongly against you at this matter.... Sorry but no sorry... Thank...

Live in is better atleast men won't have to give alimony

Truth

live in is not crime. law has changed. so we should also change.

I find live in bullshit!! The very men who want a live in relationship will become angry if their sister whats to be in a live in. Why? Because they want their sister to get respect and they know if a man wants a live in instead of marriage it's highly possible that he is not serious with the woman and only keep her till he wants. When asked of there opinion hearing from male elders, friends & brothers from a man's pov or advice all have always answered similarly that if a man truly is in love with a woman and is serious about her it's always going to be marriage and not live in. It's more like a red flag that he is not thinking of you in his future. But not putting all the blame on men it can be that some women want live in because they are scared of what will happen after marriage or don't want to marry.

@rahmanreshad4909

Жыл бұрын

Perfectly explained!

Live in relationship love marriage even simple dating....i have never dated anyone the problem starts during our teenage years when we have the crush phase and we are told by our parents that all this crush and all is just baseless better put more time in studies but i think that is something no child should go through suppressing ones feelings ...its okay if one has no interest in dating and its okay if one has crushes but if to restrict one from having these crushes or not having an open environment that dating is normal trying out is normal bcz our parents had different situations that they did what their parents told them to do but this generation is different parents and society need to understand that the time has changed and ultimately its their children that have to live if they dont know what healthy relationships are

@cauliflowerhead2735

2 жыл бұрын

Crushes n ol aren't baseless. They are an important social and emotional experience but it shouldn't trump your own ambitions and academic performance :)

Anyone with comparatively less tolerance, fat ego issues, aggressive nature, manipulative tendencies, weak sense of responsibility, poor decision making skills, non-cooperating behaviour will/shall inevitably fail in any form of alliance; be it marriage, live-in or platonic friendships.

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Voice 😍

So many married people cheat on each other despite having documents which say that the couple is commited to one another.It doesn't matter if you're living in a live-in relationship,or engaged or married,people who want to cheat will cheat no matter what.

Marriage is basically a kind of a live-in relationship. Most indians get married largely bcz they are sexually frustrated and don't wanna end up alone. Marriage in india isn't a commitment but a desparate measure. If commitment and compatibility is somehow found then consider yourself lucky.

Im Indian in a relationship with a Chinese man. We are in love and made a family. Someday we may marry but not today.

Not all relationships march.whatever the mutual arrangement

Living in is not a bad thing.. I knw its a taboo.. But in the era of being too modern, dnt forget that the base is love, respect! Not only physical relationship

@RinkuYadav-lv4zk

2 жыл бұрын

Live in has nothing to do with being modern.

@sreenandhana8429

2 жыл бұрын

@@RinkuYadav-lv4zk i meant nowadays hookups, casual physical relationships are becoming trends! But wht yu need to understand is that these short term pleasures r Killin ur long term satisfactions.! I will not say hookups r wrong, living in is wrong.. Its just t

Kitna time dena chahiye ek live in relationship ko? Kis umra se start karna chahiye?

Irrespective of the kind heartbreak is involved in both of them. If its live in parents refuse the marriage proposal due to income status or in the name of cast and if it is a forced marriage parents agree for the same income level abusive and grated taking partner just bcoz the cast is same. Mu mitha karao humne apne hi baccho ki zindagi barbaad jo kar di hai

My simple opinion:- kutto billio aur insaano me frk hota h ye kuchh budhhi jivo log smjhte h🥱😴

i believe that when sex education will be well embeded in the indian society then concepts like livin relationship will be accepted as well. Also parent child communication improvement.

@saptarshipal6743

2 жыл бұрын

How is sex education and livin related in anyway??

Once a very famous person had said prostitution is not going to stop until society stops marriages itself.

Living relationship cannot be used like that.. Marriage is Marriage... Living relation is living relation there is a difference. Do not live in living relationship unless u rich.. u will beat your wife

What is the use of live in if men have to pay maintenance

Please make a video on Charlie Hebdo, France teacher and Sri Lankan man 🤐🤫

Wow Swaddle finally has a male speaker.

@mrtriyja7800

2 жыл бұрын

Esa beta he aaayega yha par

Mata sati and mahadev were in livein . In puran it's called Gandharva vivah

@mrtriyja7800

2 жыл бұрын

Saaale harameeee Dont lie.... Don't u mot phuk ever compare muthal like u to our deities .

I wonder why when talking about relationships in general, only heterosexual illustrations were used!

@mrtriyja7800

2 жыл бұрын

In India we are not bhog centric culture. The purpose of sex is to procreate .... Conservation of seminal energy makes you superior.

@narendasari6305

2 жыл бұрын

one of the central purpose of sex is pleasure and pleasure remains crucial irrespective of sexuality.

@mrtriyja7800

2 жыл бұрын

@@narendasari6305 Yeah, one of the soul purpose of animals is Sexuality because they don't have higher consciousness like humans to thing beyond it and channelize their energies for complete liberation and constant stability. But guess what, We are not Animals... atleast some of us.....

Exactly my point! A sign on a piece of paper doesn't mean that I'll have to stick to that person forever, and if there is a way to check compatibility without all the facade, why not use it? If you ignore the reception and feast, technically my parents are also in a live-in relationship, since they don't have a marriage certificate, and I believe this is true for many couples who got married before 90s. By that criteria, a grand feast should be enough to get permission for live-in relationships!😂

@skyfall7155

2 жыл бұрын

I don't know about you guys but in my religion Marriage is a very sacred bond!

@dominikjunior1998

2 жыл бұрын

From western world we just see this culture of live in relationship. But one must also see it's repercussions in one's life. Then only we can conclude.

@analgesic

Жыл бұрын

Oo really kahi pr bhi kisi se bhi marwao it's ur prblm 🥱😴

When I saw Little Thingd all 4 seasons I loved it allot but was also always wondering how are parent ao chill abt it haha Evn though I knw that fictional show do parent like that exist? I think if your parents are liberal enough for other things ones you are earning enough they wont have prblm with live in

People accepting live in here in comments might not be even 1% modern population Reality with Indian society is different than swaddle's own strawberry world Still 70% of indian society doesnt even approve gf-bf relationship Girls still r afraid to go out with their male friends for any trip and they have to take permission for it Live in concept is like atom bomb for such society Chupke chupke reln me hote hai Sex is still a taboo to talk about Live in apply to only metropolitans Not district or village Swaddle plz just come out of ur strawberry world n check facts Girl cant even marry without parents permission n u r talking about live in 😂😂😂😂👌🏻👌🏻

@mrtriyja7800

2 жыл бұрын

Ye lodu swaddle funded by global communist and feminist networks of SOROS

@cauliflowerhead2735

2 жыл бұрын

Sure but that doesn't mean we can talk about concepts we are more or less already aware of.

Live in relationship are good but not in india because laws are biased

#overthinkers😉🤞💛

Live-in relationships are problematic if people who want to be in it are not responsible, they might be in their 20s but are dependent on their parents for everything, if they run to their parents for all their little problems. If they both can sort out most of the problems between them without involving their parents and can bear the consequences without dumping it on their families, then alone it's possible for a live-in relationship. When you say arrange marriages, it's not always a complete stranger you will be marrying, I have seen both the bride and grooms family do indepth research regarding each other. From their education to their friends, distant relatives, neighbours etc. And during the same time bride and groom are allowed to go on dates to get to know each other but I agree the time is short and it's not the same as getting to know them by actually living with them. Live in is too far fetched even as a concept to Indian parents. They atleast need to accept love and intercaste marriages first and then we can talk about live ins.

@cauliflowerhead2735

2 жыл бұрын

Irresponsible people can't even edure a marriage tbh. They can commit to anything.

@rupakkundu4394

2 жыл бұрын

I whole heartedly agree with you on this.

Lukka chuppi is such a bad example of live in because they literally only lived together for like 2 weeks ... That's not long enough to know about Someone's annoying habits and or anything deep really

I want to be in polygamous one sided open relationships. Is it possible ? I need multiple girlfriends ,wives ,etc .

For all the women choosing live ins, I am going to list down certain aspects that make live in relationships not a good choice in life. Not good doesn't mean bad, but just not a good choice overall in life. Because the demerits are far more than the merits which we all know. So won't delve into them. Here are those points- 1. Evolution has made sure that women should seek commitments. They're tough to come by and find, but then again, so is life. Everything needs to be earned- love, relationship, bonding, character, trust, etc. 2. The more you get involved in to live ins and one nights, the more you're de-valuing your own body. Men operate differently. Just because they dont act similar to women doesn't mean they're evil. If you make yourself easily available for bodily pleasures, then you're easy to get. It's simply based on the concept of demand and supply of economics. 3. The value of a girlfriend will always be lower than that of a wife. Because the designation of a wife requires legal, social, financial and psychological commitments from men. These things put men under pressure. So it is natural that they will seek a woman who can satisfy most of these parameters. A girlfriend designation requires none of these things. That's why a girlfriend is no less than a mistress from whom men get all the pleasures, minus shaming of women. 4. A non-wife female partner is someone who hands out all the pleasures of a wife to man/men. Not just sex, but companionship, travel partner, emotional support, etc. If a man can get all these pleasures of a wife from his girlfriend, then why to make commitments to that girlfriend? Ask yourself these questions before going for a live in. Hope these points will help you decide in a better way. If you still wish to go ahead, then be accepting of all the shame, encouragement, problems, happiness, etc that will come your way. In short, accept the consequences of your choice. If things will backfire, do not blame your guy, you too are willing to get involved, whether thoda sa ya pura ka pura.

@cauliflowerhead2735

2 жыл бұрын

Women can't go into a live-in relationship with themselves. If they get into one it's gonna be along with a man, so he is also responsible for the success and failure of the relationship be it live-in or a marriage.

@justme-qq4od

2 жыл бұрын

women are not here to be how men want them to be and vice-versa

Why I hate living relationship ? After knowing the person they do breakup ..because every relationship has some faul but we are not ready to accept imperfect patner ...everyone looking for perfect patner which is not reality... living relationship is for tp .. some living relationship are done for fling and swing patners .. .. some people live in relationship for drugs and financial support fulfill there common goal ... because patners know there will be no family pressure on them so they do what they like and there is always freedom to do breakup ...there is temporary sexual gratification and exchange patners with friends drugs financial support ..no dignity and some people gives justification that living relationship is not wrong .. most of living realationship taking place because law against men in india..

Beta Jo cheez yaha ki nahi hai usko yaha manufacture karoge toh shuru mein dikkat ayega he

Completely agree keep up the good work

Live in relation ship does not protect women LEGALLY. Marriage is not a perfect institution but at least women you are protected. The is the single reason a woman should reject live-in relationship. Matter of choice goes out of window when in case of break up you cant divide property you owned as couple fairly.

@vasavisadhu9062

2 жыл бұрын

Yes just for the social protection women should just find the first guy and stick to him for life, whether he is good or bad doesn’t matter. Don’t you think better would be if women were completely financially free, and therefore protected.

@bijayashrestha3130

2 жыл бұрын

@@vasavisadhu9062 why would you marry the first guy you meet? why would you like to continue a toxic relationship? marriage is a legal institution and there will be a legal separation called divorce, the amount of scrutiny in both types of living is similar for women but why take an unprotected way if you can take safe way.

@vasavisadhu9062

2 жыл бұрын

@@bijayashrestha3130 Most women marry for money, as they are financially dependent on their spouses, but if you are financially independent you don't need to marry for money, you marry when you are truly compatible to your partner. In that case you're in a live in relationship so you can judge your compatibility with someone before you commit to them for life. Live in is safer for women because if the guy is an asshole, you can move on without legal drama, in marriage there is a lot of family drama and family bonds to be broken. So it makes no sense to straight away get married. But I understand where you're coming from. I think you believe the more the sex a woman has, the lesser her value, its a archaic thought. A woman is just as respect worthy as a man, no matter how many men she lived with. You need to get that straight!

@bijayashrestha3130

2 жыл бұрын

@@vasavisadhu9062 No, I do not believe in if a women has more sex her value gets down, if this is the norm it should be for both men and women. Live in is never safe for women. Women will be vulnerable in both relation type, marriage is just a safer option. In live in you will always be tip toeing around.

@frangipani.19

2 жыл бұрын

True!👍

Ghadi detergent - pehle istemaal kare phir vishwas kare....

@mrtriyja7800

2 жыл бұрын

Yes when u r messing with GANDAGI.

Well.. I live in with my partner. Before the live in, we were scheduled to marry. After live in, he only wants to continue live in and has completely stopped discussing marriage. Hell, he won't even let me leave.. he just wants to keep continuing live and doesn't want to marry anymore.

@rahmanreshad4909

Жыл бұрын

isn’t it good?😂😂😂😂

Please video on Triple talaq, halala, 🤫🤐

1. Every relation has a learning curve including the one between a parent and a child, and live-in relations are a faulty solution to a vast problem. Live-in relations are an attempt at getting ahead of that curve in a smaller period of time. One of the main reasons why the majority of live-in relations end up as a failure. 2. This is a system that even after succeeding will lead to losing track of the gene pool in the long run. Even though the Indian system has its own demerits but the western will lead to an implosion in society. 3. Example: Western society has a high separation rate and more people choose to leave instead on working on issues. We stick together and develop higher resilience even though we have a different set of troubles altogether.

100 pc true. Live in is only for sex. People have to do alot of things in their daily life only sex is needed feom another person otherwise all things can bendone on own. Your dreamy foreign couples who do live in are maximum uneducates after school and are interdependent on each other for finances, life security? Isn't is marriage only. But they don't marry as they see each other as a temporary source dor sex and cash cow. Jab mann bhara, change kar liya. Yahi india me bhi gold diggers ko chahiye😪

According to Indian society, they consider live -in as bad because they think if two opposite genders are living together without marriage, only sex is happening between them.....isse jyada bada Indian society kuch soch bhi nhi skte 😂😂😂😂

Well well I think we should not forget that we live in patriarchal society ...though live in relationship concept tend to give the hint of freedom but in reality in india it does not when it comes to women ...it is better for men ,they enjoy sex and leave the women whenever they want and end up marrying someone else ...the social censure falls on women ...then there are several rights that women do not get in when they are live in as compared to married women ..if women will get rights then I don't see any difference in live in or marriage then ...this tell us that our society and people are not mature enough what a relationship is whether it is live in or marriage ....

@cauliflowerhead2735

2 жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right about that. I think live-in can work only when families on both sides are completely aware of it, that way there is some accountability of the the couple. I don't think they brought up this topic thinking it's gonna be a reality in the immediate future, I suppose they did it to warm us up to this concept.

Living together to completely see if it can work is acceptable in privileged societies and in established metro political cities with acceptable families who don't interfere with you in the criteria like caste, religion, gender, etc. If the couple is financially independent and reliant enough to make their life choices, this altogether looks absolutely fine to me. But nowadays, people who are still dependent on their parents financially and somewhere know that they have to get married to their parent's choice itself and preserve this conservative behaviour which is very likely and majorly found. I don't think this live in relationship concept has a strong base or future in the Indian population. If you are in a live in relationship only because you are carried away with your hormones and want to act cool. You are terribly destroying yourself and the other person's life too!

as for myself, I don't like live-in at all. I don't see the point in it. I don't ever want to have a marriage where I just met someone and get married the next day. Obviously, I want to know that person well before committing to something big. And I think there are other ways to do that except live-in. Like meeting, talking even though it takes months-years. For me (Entirely my opinion) I think what live-in takes away is that if I lived like a married couple then what the hell am I gonna do after marriage. The concept of marriage itself isn't bad, it's that society puts so much pressure on those 2 people after marriage that they don't feel that much free after it. Anyway, it's entirely my opinion, you can love Live-in, I have no problem.

UCC should be implemented all over India . Boycott Live in relationship!!!

Religion(most) forbids premarital sex

I never understand one thing that if you love someone and you are independent then why don't you marry and if don't love then why live in and it's not the way you know only someone after getting physical with them you can date. Live in relationship is only good for boys in Every espect they can back off any time they want .single mother is big problem that can ruin a girl life. I personally never like it the fact two people can anytime say I don't love you anymore what if 2nd person don't want it and not ready . And about arrange marriage why marry someone you don't like or love if you independent it's called force marriage arranged marriage is not that bad we think now a days people be injoying their life in live in relationship hook ups then get tired and broke up and want to settle and go for arrange marriage then they don't care about this stranger thing people can change and fall out of love when ever they want whether its 10 year relationship or 40 year .most inportant thing is be self dependent to handle everything by own specially for girls .live-in is like use and throw method for most of the people . Most of the people don't even marry their live in partner. But we don't have right to interfere in Anybody lives judging their choice A wise woman have said that even though I'd never do it i won't judge anyone.

@sharas9769

2 жыл бұрын

Even if you love someone how are you gonna know he is gonna help you or you can co ordinate with him under a roof and if you fail then rather than divorce your family and society will force you to stay together that's why live in is better

Live in relationship are relationship without commitment. What will happen if a child is born ? Abortion will increase.

35 tukre

Nowadays many young indians leave india for a better life and also to live there lives with freedom and with whom they want which is very difficult in india I think if immigration wasn't very expensive and if it was easy and affordable for almost every indian than half of the india would be empty 😂

@analgesic

Жыл бұрын

No way this is ur opinion u are fully covered by the western influence btw congratulations for ur immigration in near future kyonki tum jaise logo ki koi jarurat nhi h India me😴😴🥱

@thecurious82

Жыл бұрын

@@analgesic it's ur opinion tum jese 💩 ki zarurat nhi hai😪🥱

If couples love each other.then why there is hesitation to give that relationship a name??

@user-hc3kq9hp3q

2 жыл бұрын

They don't wanna take responsibility. They just wanna enjoy

@haritham7799

2 жыл бұрын

Love isn't the only thing required for marriage

@justme-qq4od

2 жыл бұрын

there’s no hesitation they call it live in

😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

Samantha and naga Chaitanya were in relationship for 10 years before going in for marriage. Why did their relationship break then? Reason why marriage was preferred in same caste and same financial background with approval of community was to make sure that because two people are raised in same caste would ensure similar upbringing, similar interests and similar moral values. And approval of community ensures that marriage would not be taken lightly. Relationship on the basis of love only is going to fail. Because u cannot love someone all the time. Love is emotion, which can change. U need to have a better foundation than love for any relationship to last. Live-in relationship is being needed because u cannot trust other person, thats why u need test drive. And here also u are sleeping with a stranger. At the start of relationship two people are strangers only.

Seriously... Dude... I don't buy it..

There is no issues in Live-in relationship as long as both the parties are mutual with it. But problem arises when one partner wants to take it to the next step and other doesn't want to. And the success rate of Live-in relationship is very low compared to married relationship. If they have kids then it's even worse, even Kamal sir has faced this problem with kid's school admission and very minor things like checking in into a hotel because he and his partner decided not to get married back then. And I want to understand what is the problem in documenting a relationship, marriage certificate is just like a birth certificate right?

@anilkashyap1187

2 жыл бұрын

Actually by documenting through paper or rituals, you land into a 'legal contract' and forced to obey by the society..?!!

@swatisaini6447

2 жыл бұрын

Birth certificate is the proof of your existence while marriage certificate is proof of a legal relation between two people. U need to understand the legal implication of live in Vs marriage

@AK-tj4ot

2 жыл бұрын

A marriage certificate has a lot of worth and lots of problems that comes with it. For instance, ur spouse automatically becomes ur nominee in almost everything, ur land, ur house, ur PF to pension. It's not like a birth certificate. Legal formalities to end one marriage is sooo complicated for the ordinary people that they chose to separate but not legally most times.

@pavithravellingiri

2 жыл бұрын

@@anilkashyap1187 Being rebellious from Society is absolutely right but for the things which are required. Let's say you get into a company without any documentation, would you feel comfortable with it? Or would the management feel safe around you? Some things are structured in order to be beneficial for both the parties and turning against it is unwanted. If they chose to be rebellious, then they gotta face the consequences also. But character shaming someone because of their personal choices is bad

@pavithravellingiri

2 жыл бұрын

@@AK-tj4ot So are we really gonna start thinking about separation right before we get into a relationship?

Fun Fact - More than 50 percent of marriages in USA end up in divorce.. . . They have full freedom for live in relationship and choose the best partner and yet majority of them don't find good partner even after knowing each other.. 😂

@iu9130

2 жыл бұрын

There was also another survey that proved rich people are very less likely to divorce as compared to poor people.

@vedantpatil3889

2 жыл бұрын

Lol,if only Indian women were financially independent and divorce hadn't been a tabboo for them.i bet divorce would skyrocket to 90%

@sohit7706

2 жыл бұрын

@@iu9130 That's interesting

@swatisaini6447

2 жыл бұрын

@@iu9130 but more likely to 'separate'

@quizudita

2 жыл бұрын

Similar case with topic ➡ Love marriage vs Arrange Marriage. One has keep this thing in mind ➡ *Nothing Is Perfect/Permanent in this World* and *Humans are complicated creatures* Bf-Gf relationship *Breaking up* Live-In *failing* Marriage *breaking* Love marriage *failing* Arrange marriage *failing* I have *seen* everything by now. (I am unmarried and never been in Relationship {by choice 😙} ) All I have observed that Initially everything seems beautiful, you feel attracted, fun, excitement, compassion (basically Honeymoon phase). Post that it turns just into Responsibility, Loyalty. No one can be in LOVE for whole life. _It involves adjustments, understanding, acceptance, little bit you have to compromise, little bit your partner compromises._ In a nutshell, *Its all about of Falling in Love with the Same person Again and Again* 🥰

For me, both doesn't matter🤣. Live-in relationship marriage I don't care. I am going to stay single all my life. My life is like my personal world, and I want to be the Empress of my world. I don't want anyone to enter in that lol. If you guys want a live-in relationship instead of marriage then just do it. Why you guys are getting bothered by that so-called society. If both partners are independent then I don't think society or anyone has any authority or status to question your decision. You are earning money, paying your bills, taking care of your necessities on your own then who then hell is this society???

@sharas9769

2 жыл бұрын

Bro it's just reason that no one wants to get along with you

Why do people think live in is about sex?

@mrtriyja7800

2 жыл бұрын

Coz it is...

One thing which has been missed out Is live-in have become more of necessities. Rent prices are going on roof. And accomodating with opposite gender doesn't always means sex. What society thinks and what we perceive are not mutually exclusive. But sometimes there are some wants and needs in different setups.

@mrtriyja7800

2 жыл бұрын

Live with a guy mdrcod to save the rent. Don't excuse like this

@cauliflowerhead2735

2 жыл бұрын

I never saw it this way. Thanks for bringing a different perspective.

Hamara country ka thought process next century tak change nahi honewala

@foodislove6295

2 жыл бұрын

@@mrtriyja7800 so many wrong things. pointed out very well in this video. how much else have to be pointed out?

@foodislove6295

2 жыл бұрын

@@mrtriyja7800 ok, so you think accepting yoga is same as going backwards in time by telling people how to live their lives? then why dont you go back a bit more and burn your widows along with there dead husbands?

@nagatouzumaki-gq4oj

2 жыл бұрын

@@foodislove6295 Why you drag sati here ? Sati pratice is banned in India by hindu reformist raja ram mohan roy there have no point to talk about sati

@foodislove6295

2 жыл бұрын

@@nagatouzumaki-gq4oj So as long as someone doesn't officily legalise some practice, you will make fun of it or condemn it!

@nagatouzumaki-gq4oj

2 жыл бұрын

@@foodislove6295 what you want to say I don't understand can you please explain me clearly what you want to say ?

I don't understand marriage so live in is the best option. Idgaf what society says.