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@survive9741

Жыл бұрын

Bro please add captions , you got viewers not only from North ,some are from south also... kindly think about it

@aruneshsingh5582

Жыл бұрын

Bhai data sudharo apna Ratio me ab 1020 girls hai 1000 boys pe

@surajmaurya2553

Жыл бұрын

video on divorce??

@surajmaurya2553

Жыл бұрын

@@aruneshsingh5582 that's not a census data wo national family health survey ka hai

@srikaranb3649

Жыл бұрын

Love your vids. Kindly consider adding subs. Though I can understand a bit, having subs will truly provide full understanding.

Salman Khan The Brand Ambassador Of Singles 🔥😂🇮🇳

@dipanjanghosal1662

Жыл бұрын

Car, footpath aur harin. Aur kya chahiye zindagi mein

@ayushman7428

Жыл бұрын

@@dipanjanghosal1662 *hiran

@rajpatil2024A

Жыл бұрын

Modi ji and yogi ji also 😏

@AshmitManak

Жыл бұрын

*Ratan Tata*

@sharunps4356

Жыл бұрын

@@dipanjanghosal1662 neelkhaant

*Advantages of Not Doing marriage* 1. SAVING EASILY 50 LAKH ON MARRIAGE 2. NO CONFLICTS 3. YOU CAN LIVE A GOOD LIFE WITH YOUR PARENTS 4. more savings, Means Better Lifestyle 5. NO DEPRESSION, MEANS NO HEART ATTACK, MEANS LONGER LIFE

@sciencespectrum3855

Жыл бұрын

Yes👍 but we need artificial baby making facility🤓

@aosatishkumar1890

Жыл бұрын

What about sexual desires?

@sciencespectrum3855

Жыл бұрын

Agar Sadi kar le to jindegi bhar wife tang karte rahenge😭

@saurabhjakhar5582

Жыл бұрын

@@AkshayShukla. 🤣🤣🤣

@sciencespectrum3855

Жыл бұрын

@@vinayrao1087 artificial intelligence can make you happy 😊 they will treat like a human😁

I am 30 years old single man. All my life I got rejected by girls due look and status. Same groom family keep rejecting me due to look and status. I told my family I am happy to be the single. Today, I work for myself, earn for myself, spend on myself and love myself.

@niteku6448

Жыл бұрын

Try approaching not so beutiful poor girl.

@nishantaadi

Жыл бұрын

@@niteku6448 Nothing work, so called poor girl daddy want status quo.

@nishantaadi

Жыл бұрын

@@markratata Great bro, as a Doctor you can even have far better life then me, jealous. Hit the gym get great shape, wear cool cloth, eat well and enjoy the life. That's my target only currently struggling with money. So live a life.

@redleon7689

Жыл бұрын

​@@markratata well, my life is pretty much same as yours. It's OK to live alone, if someone ever show interest in us than we can think about marriage.

@yashjain5189

Жыл бұрын

Yeah bruh earn money 💰 should be main focus. Your look doesn't matter when you have money

No marraige No drama No divorce No alimony Stay safe stay strong, peace🤙

@archangelmichael8209

10 ай бұрын

no dowry too

@hackingpanchal8283

9 ай бұрын

Only marriage with your hand

@sharathSizZle

9 ай бұрын

😂 I tried getting hitched and 99% of the wamen 1st question how much do you earn, not what is your name. 2nd question more of a statement 😅 they all demanded 25k onwards for makeup and for parties with their bf with occasional hotel room rent to have fun with bf 😂 after listening to all that my parents no longer tell me to get married 😂

@nishugowda6172

9 ай бұрын

​@@sharathSizZlemen can expect dowry, beautiful girl, educated one and who knows every household work why can't girl expect a financially settled guy. What do you expect l then? Men shaming girls who are fat is it fine? Who will pay the hospital bills, groceries and school fee for the kids? Moreover respect matters when men don't respect women this is what happens. Buying bride?

@tamoghnagangopadhyay2847

9 ай бұрын

​@@archangelmichael8209Dowry is illegal but alimony is legal and women especially feminists support alimony but men in general dont

I'm a 30 years old female n i have seen my mom facing domestic abuse from Dad during childhood and this has made me realize that it's better off being alone than with the wrong person. Same goes to the males too

@hariommanjhuindia627

Жыл бұрын

Ha , isi vajah se hame independent hona chahiye specially financially

@hermionegranger8629

Жыл бұрын

(in the west, or in India?)

@being5411

Жыл бұрын

she chose bad partner

@INDIANATHEIST526

Жыл бұрын

@@hermionegranger8629 india me domestic voilence zyada hai

@jagwarxofficial6184

Жыл бұрын

First of all heal yourself with philosophy and spirituality . Go exterior discover the world and reboot yourself and then retook decision

Rich men don't want to marry because they don't want to loose their freedom. Poor man can't marry because most of the women will prefer to stay unmarried rather than engaging with poor men.

@thethreespikes9737

Жыл бұрын

Truth. Girls have become outright materialistic.

@puguwash

Жыл бұрын

What you said is true. Women want husbands with salary packages very High or matching them as evident in matrimonial sites. Well women are right in having that demand. So it is tough time for boys. I am single at 36 and not sure if I would be able to get married.

@shekharkapoor9208

Жыл бұрын

@@puguwash same with me 33-year-old

@NatkhatNoble

Жыл бұрын

@@puguwash How are women demanding a very high income husband right? Financial growth can happen even after marriage.

@Gr8_Yagami

Жыл бұрын

@@puguwash Lol why women are right in having that demand?

As a guy i think its better not to be married than marrying a wrong person. Goes for both male and female

@anony5021

Жыл бұрын

Considering the lol population... Avoid

@divyaprashanthprashant7387

Жыл бұрын

True

@bruhaintnowayugonnanowme3942

Жыл бұрын

Yea lol

@ppen8359

Жыл бұрын

A right person today may become wrong person after marriage. Marriage is 100% risk.

@Sati-hd9oi

Жыл бұрын

100%✓✓✓

Today, female donot want to get married.. it's true. I'm 27 year old female and i also don't want to get married.. bcoz in every marriage around me except for my parents, i have seen mental and emotional abuses, sometimes physical also.. crying girls with no option.. so, many people think that it's better to remain single and unmarried than abusive relationship and divorce. Ask any married couple around you, almost 99% will say that marriage is like a trap. Also in Indian society, parents donot want their children to do love marriage, and instead they try to find girl or boy by themselves in their caste.

@TheKuttaapi

Жыл бұрын

correct

@Sifubhaiarmy

8 ай бұрын

Very good bro I appreciate but I am belong poor family and I have one sister if you don't choose poor girl for marriage so this is also not good I suggest you should decided marige with good girl and low income family that my opinion and also I agree many good looking girl rejected me and also I have one sister they want married but know one want poor family background

@Apexedits056

4 ай бұрын

You are a female,but your name is Amit Bhadana 😅

@arnavsamaddar6638

2 ай бұрын

Stay single and deprressed

I was born in Haryana, but later moved to Jharkhand. The first thing which I noticed after coming to Jharkhand was that in my class the girl population seemed more, which was indeed true. In my school in Haryana, there were 23 boys and 7 girls, while the same in Jharkhand was 25 girls and 30 boys. I remember that I once heard my mom talking on the phone that there are no girls in Haryana. 😅

@fakeidi

Жыл бұрын

I recommend you to go Kerala 😅

@prysp

Жыл бұрын

@@fakeidi Wait, is the case opposite there?

@shashwatkumaratul1886

Жыл бұрын

It's true

@green_hedger_68

Жыл бұрын

@@fakeidi Kerala is totally different. Different Culture and language.

@princeofheaven19

Жыл бұрын

@@fakeidi kerala was great but the boy child disease is catching up , child sex ratio has declined to females

As a 25M, I feel the concept of marriage nowadays to be a kind of big business deal and nothing else. You study well, graduate from a good college, make a decent salary but the moment you hear about marriage people say you don't have a house, car, you have this much loan and what not. They are simply saying WHAT YOU HAVE IS NOT ENOUGH. Of course people can earn this over a period of time, but what's the point of marrying someone who doesn't want to be on your side when you are working hard, struggling but wants the fruitful results alone? It is better not to get married than ending up with a person who judges you for your materialistic possessions.

@defensefanbd2237

Жыл бұрын

U have said the same thing i am thinking all Day

@bindutiwari4263

Жыл бұрын

@Harsh Patel nah that's not at all true . Your source - Just Trust me bro

@kislaysingh3446

Жыл бұрын

@Harsh Patel never ,, you have seen wrong mens ,,, average looking hardworing ....>>>>>>> beautiful

@kislaysingh3446

Жыл бұрын

@Harsh Patel 😔😔,, yes bro beacuse of family pressure ,, better to find groom with the help of relatives and friends network and make the girl financially independent [ goverment jobs using reservations] this would be a good move

@kislaysingh3446

Жыл бұрын

@Harsh Patel bro bpsc ka exam ,, ssc ,,, every state has their exam like bpsc and most imp exam THE GATE exam can be given by even bsc students ,,,, pcs exam ,, lower pcs exam and many more bro ,, meri bahen bhi pcs ki tayari kar rahi hai bro

To be honest. For all males and females marriage has become a mystery. Some feel it as business. Some are afraid of toxicity. Some don't understand why to get married and loose freedom. Inshort everyone is confused in the aspect of marriage 😂

@silviatevini5815

11 ай бұрын

I married with One boy tamil origin but after10 year we divorcied he look for Money and go abroad

@PreetiSingh-bh1ff

11 ай бұрын

​@@silviatevini5815But why you both gave divorce?

@IPSITA1000

11 ай бұрын

That's why soul searching taking time for yourself to know yourself deeply is very important first

@Brainy_Gamer3355

11 ай бұрын

@@IPSITA1000 If one is able to activate the complimentary energy within themselves, then the dependency on other gender becomes less. It can be achieved using yoga, Healing process etc. Twin flame is all about the same, to realize we are complete with in our ourselves, realize and embracing it.

@Brainy_Gamer3355

11 ай бұрын

@@silviatevini5815 sad to hear dear, Hope you grow more powerful ❣️ . It's all part & parcel of life

I am 29 years old and have a govt job. Still I don't want to marry because of my medical condition. I have auto immune disorder which makes my life worse. I don't want any girl to regret after marriage 😞

@uttam_k766

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear this.

@lyyliesther984

Жыл бұрын

God bless you and bring you lucky times

@rajeshjaganathan224

Жыл бұрын

Even my doctor also said something like that. But what does it mean. What is the issues we face because of it. Can you share a video describing about it. Thank you

@Ascendify5

11 ай бұрын

enjoy life as much as u can bro.. have trips.. eelax meditare

@b-23aryankishore64

10 ай бұрын

Enjoy your life

the main reason is many of us had seen toxic marriage of our parents , and don't want the same thing in our life

@hermionegranger8629

Жыл бұрын

Interesting. Bigoted people will say My Parents' Relation Was Perfect, bcs My Country Is Perfect ...... Interesting to read many different opinions on the topic nowadays.

@Kathakathan11

Жыл бұрын

@@hermionegranger8629 what who are these bigoted, any person who has seen mom or dad suffering won’t lie. But there are functional marriages too.

@Musk1111

Жыл бұрын

100% truth

@animeshjha2442

Жыл бұрын

Exactly same with me

@SabyasachiBeheraIGIT

Жыл бұрын

Actually, this is the reason for majority.

A lot of men need to understand, it is better to be unmarried than to be in the wrong marriage. A wrong woman can single handedly throw your entire family in jail with fake allegations and demand massive ransom as alimony. So you are relatively better off at this moment. Focus on stabilizing yourself. Women will come if you have enough money to provide them a decent lifestyle.

@meenapatel1648

Жыл бұрын

I can say the same for the reversed genders My mother always taught me this ☺️💗

@rutvikrs

Жыл бұрын

@@meenapatel1648 that is literally programming trauma into the next generation. Ask her to stop

@meenapatel1648

Жыл бұрын

@@rutvikrs so it is wrong for a woman to stay single then to get married with a wrong man? Lol what

@babysroundhead

Жыл бұрын

Don't entertain unnecessary people be it men or women

@rutvikrs

Жыл бұрын

@@meenapatel1648 any parent imposing their experience onto thier child to the point they leave aside an aspect of life is programming trauma. A healthy parent informs and guides the child through the experience. Both the OP and you are so afraid of a "relationship with the wrong person" that you will never accept flaws in the other person.

We need to talk about educating these depressed men about happy life without marriage. Marriage is not a key to happiness. There are many males and females choosing to stay unmarried and are living a very happy life.

@freezingmoon5415

9 ай бұрын

Happiness within oneself is important. If our happiness is based on other person then our happiness can be destroyed immediately.

@AshTheDuke

9 ай бұрын

These days men need women who earns wells and pays the bills equally

@ss0498

9 ай бұрын

Yes, correct.

@user-rc8vy6fg9f

2 ай бұрын

After reading so many comments like this, I think I'll not get married by my choice in future and also the girl I'm looking for is kinda rare to find these days😅

Reasons a guy scared to get married - 1. Unstable income 2. Unsecured future 3. Unemployed 4. Girls have high expectations from her life partner. 5. Extra marital affairs of girls 6. Harsh Alimony and maintenance 7. Unfavourable marram laws against men. 8. False matrimonial cases against men. 9. Loosing freedom, doubling responsibilities 10. Girls have social media partners, colleagues and ex-bf to support, but men haven’t.

@ss0498

10 ай бұрын

Facts brother.

@Aaradhya24

9 ай бұрын

Good. If guys stop marrying it'll be like a heaven for Indian women

@ss0498

9 ай бұрын

@@Aaradhya24 Not only for women but also will be a heaven for men too.

@Aaradhya24

9 ай бұрын

@@ss0498 YES. And men should support it whole heartedly

@ss0498

9 ай бұрын

@@Aaradhya24 Yes some of us are already doing that and more are following in.

"Being in a relationship is about solving problems together....Problems you wouldn't have if you were single." 🤣🤣

@mando9181

Жыл бұрын

😂😂

@user-ml7sq4wp3c

Жыл бұрын

Bohoot bard hai tere bato mai

@hermionegranger8629

Жыл бұрын

(What's so negative about solving problems together, just the two of you?)...

@sendbreadandveggies

Жыл бұрын

@@hermionegranger8629 those problems won't even exist if there is no relationship.

@itv5610

Жыл бұрын

lmao

Let me give you an example of the same in my actual real life experience, i have a friend who works in IT he is almost 29, he is actively looking for a bride and so when he got a match with a girl, her father was a driver of some sort with monthly income of 10K , my friend said if the girl is good thats all that matters and he went to see the girl , but the father of the girl rejected him saying he doesn't earn much, the package of my friend is 15lac per annum 🤦‍♂️

@tanishthajaiswal8928

Жыл бұрын

He couldn't count the zeros properly

@srikarchinna1793

Жыл бұрын

Let them reject ....sooner or later they will realize and will come to realty.

@abracadabra7550

Жыл бұрын

Yes this happens quite a lot. Even non earning girls with bad family background financially wants upwards of 20 25 lpa. Thats why try having love marriage with colleague/same college. Both will earn equal.

@soumengorai8346

Жыл бұрын

@@abracadabra7550 i have 2 factories and 3 room for rent and big plots to give to bride and if they need gov job i will ready to prepare for it but after marriage this is my strategy 😂😂my age is now 25 years but I will need a bride somehow so that our marriage will be done happily and have a better kids in future

@KUSH_Joshi

Жыл бұрын

@@tanishthajaiswal8928 haha

Men who are even considering marriage should visit the divorce courts and see how men are being rammed by the women and judges; how unfair is the system; how tragic is it for men and their families.

@Chandrashekharbanerj

Жыл бұрын

very true

@anayadegani626

Жыл бұрын

And see how courts deny women for wanting to break marriages for domestic violence

@ajaygosai1759

Жыл бұрын

True ✅💯

@suhasvigneshwar678

Жыл бұрын

I thought Indian law system was better than US in treating men?? No??

@realbigmanoncampus

Жыл бұрын

@@suhasvigneshwar678 Not really. In both systems women face no consequences to making false accusations - at least in divorce courts.

In today's society, there is immense pressure to live up to certain expectations when it comes to financial stability and material possessions. While I may be able to provide for my own basic needs, I worry that I may not be able to meet the high standards that are often expected in a marriage.

@debanikgoswami4834

Жыл бұрын

Most guys of our generation are struggling with career. Even in 30s we don't know if we will be well settled or not. There is no point getting married.

@maishayartonahi

Жыл бұрын

@@debanikgoswami4834 actually. I'm a girl and I know ki ladki ni bhi kamati to usko still respect aur acceptance milega. Bahut ladke shaadi krne ko ready honge. But what about men? Unko to koi dekhega bhi ni. Society is very unfair for men and this is why I tell all my male frnds to just focus on your career and not run behind girls... Survival bhut mushkil hai ladko ke liye.

To all men out there. Focus on your life, serve your Nation, and always keep your Father and Mother happy.

@yashbush7145

Жыл бұрын

Abeyy chup

@Kushagra.j

Жыл бұрын

Focus on success bitches will come running

@krish4134

Жыл бұрын

One big reason is because of the gender biased laws against men in India. According to Indian law, a married man can be charged with adultery but the wife can't be charged (IPC 497). In addition, a man can't be a victim of domestic violence (IPC 498A) & can't be raped (IPC 376)

@ashamedtobeindian6418

Жыл бұрын

Serve your nation and in exchange get rampant corruption, pollution, inflation and taxes in almost everything.

@gautamyadav10

Жыл бұрын

Ladkiya onlyFans and insta pe naachkar bhi paisa kama sakti hao , so boys focus on career and money only.

One big reason is because of the gender biased laws against men in India. According to Indian law, a married man can be charged with adultery but the wife can't be charged (IPC 497). In addition, a man can't be a victim of domestic violence (IPC 498A) & can't be raped (IPC 376)

@souvikdas9110

Жыл бұрын

This is the exact reason for many men to be afraid of marriage.

@krudenx3488

Жыл бұрын

After being false accused you lose all sorts of things in life that you built with struggle

@bhavesh916

Жыл бұрын

Ipc 497 has been struck down by Supreme Court. It can only be grounds for divorce and isn't a crime anymore.

@islandsunset

Жыл бұрын

Adultery was declared unconstitutional by the SC. Sec 377 can be used to give justice to male victims of rape. Yes, sec 377 was used to wrongfully hold LGBT+ youth but now it had been read down. Now only non consensual (r@pe) are held illegal. But I agree that men cannot be victim of domestic violence in India as of now (for dense people this sentence is according to Indian laws and not my personal opinion SMH 🙄)

@kumarakash5219

Жыл бұрын

Yes mairrage is becoming curse..

We missed a point.. More empowered females don't connect with equally empowered male.. But since both are getting equal work opportunities, there are only few men left better than that female..

@amritasahu2023

5 ай бұрын

Hypergamy concept. Right?

Please do not ever get married. Be free and be happy.

Love is blind but marriage is eye opener. I'd rather be single and miserable than married and miserable. And my wallet said we can die together. 😇 💫

@laughterstation9270

Жыл бұрын

Sigma comment 🔥

@Ashish-uo5nm

Жыл бұрын

Jai Guru Gaur Gopal Das ji ki.. 👍😄🤗.

@peterparker9954

Жыл бұрын

Marriage cannot work in tandem with ego

@karandullet380

Жыл бұрын

Mate you'll soon change that view

@karandullet380

Жыл бұрын

@mommydeath then why are you telling us that shouldn't you he busy mourning her loss?

As an Introvert I will never marry. It's better to remain unmarried than having an incompatible spouse. I love my single life. I can feel peace and solitude. Majority of people marry not because they love the person genuinely, but because society forced them to marry. There is no genuineness.

@rajagopalanb8265

Жыл бұрын

🙂

@ayushyash6021

Жыл бұрын

Don't use social media too much!

@meghnasoni

Жыл бұрын

Your parents won't agree though

@subhanshaik19

Жыл бұрын

Beta jab tum 35 ke upar ki age ke hojaoge tab pata chalega

@subhanshaik19

Жыл бұрын

Agar tab bhi nahi pata chala to budhape bada pachtaoge

Thank goodness!! My parents don’t pressure me to marry. I’m a girl and really fortunate. I think marriage should not be such a stigma. Live and let live. Take the power in your hand. Focus into getting financial independence. Irrespective of gender, age!

@MySonu17

10 ай бұрын

Pl अपने मा बाप के लिये बोझ मत बन जाना.

@tula__

10 ай бұрын

@@MySonu17 financial independence का मतलब पता है ??

@ss0498

10 ай бұрын

If he has understood that he wouldn't have said that. Do what makes you happy and never give in to pressure from relatives.

@MySonu17

10 ай бұрын

@@tula__हा पता है पर मा बाप के घर मै रेहना एक जवान लडके के लिये बिना कमाये और बिना शादी करे लड़कियो के लिये ज्यादा तर मा बाप के लिये बोझ के समान है. (10% मा बाप ऐसे नहीं नहीं होते )

@AshTheDuke

9 ай бұрын

Friends with benefits is the best option

You forgot the misuse of biased women centric laws like fakse 498a DV 125 false cases...once a family falls prey their sons afraid of marriage. 498a is now one of India's booming profitable business

@newaryamen

Жыл бұрын

Liberals like him won't ever say that

It seems to be a global issue. I've spent more than five years residing in Korea. I came to know that most of my Korean friends are not interested in getting married when we talk about marriage. Compared to India, Korea has a substantially larger percentage of single people. Even girls do not desire marriage. This is due to the high living standards, independent lifestyle, unstable financial situation, and many other factors. And unfortunately, it's become a common issue within several parts of India nowadays!

@daredevil30000

Жыл бұрын

Korea is going to face population crisis soon.

@peterparker9954

Жыл бұрын

Korean population is rapidly declining

@kdjoshi726

Жыл бұрын

@@peterparker9954 Because of high living standards. Education & rent are high af there

@utubefreak7167

Жыл бұрын

@@peterparker99540.8 birth rate will do that

@dhonikumarshahi2806

Жыл бұрын

@K & D joshi that's not good for a county like Korea

I am 23 preparing for job i belong from middle class family Reason i dont want to be in relationship now is because i dont have enough money I can't go on a date to any restaurant and ,I don't own bike. I have limited amount of money which i spend only on my needs. And also I approached a girl few yrs back i shared my feelings to her and got rejected it was a great life lesson. 😂 From there on i spend lot of time with my family and its an amazing experience ♥️ ❤️.

@Godamongmen494

Жыл бұрын

badhia h, ladkia social media dekh ke apne swapno ke mahal me ji rahi h jo ki kabhi pura nehi hoga ....jab vo budhi ho jayegi aur koi attention nehi dega unhe tab bhuktegi like in America

@LostboyK79

Жыл бұрын

All the best for your future ❤

@tarunkalra8327

Жыл бұрын

👑

@LaxCF

Жыл бұрын

@@InshruTripathi i know bike,car financial condition yeh sab toh reason nhi he rejection ke,she sees me as a friend not more than that and that's ok. ♥️

@champion344

Жыл бұрын

@@Godamongmen494 ha be 😂

I love your perspective ..from a girl perspective would also like to share how most indian men and their families have unrealistic expectations from girls ..and seeing our mothers and grandmothers struggle we don't want ourselves to be in certain situations... Which move us away from marriage especially from thoese men who want a wife who they can control

@ss0498

9 ай бұрын

Better to be single than being in a needless marriage.

@adityasalunkhe1288

6 ай бұрын

most is a bit too much right? Like how did you estimated that? Based on your experience? If i said the same about girls, how most of them expect a richer family despite belonging from a poor family and then filing a false accusations against them, will that be right?

@amritasahu2023

5 ай бұрын

Agreed. ❤️

@amritasahu2023

5 ай бұрын

​@@adityasalunkhe1288 Even poor girls want richer boys mostly. I can agree with this part. But the false allegation part..mostly? Nope. ( but, yes. Even if it's just a fraction of women doing it, it's enough to make any good man scared. That's understandable. )

I have also decided to stay unmarried in my life and it's my firm and final decision. What I believe is that marriage must be optional and not be enforced upon by family/society. And I am happy that my family is educated and agrees with my decision. Our Constitution grants us right to live our life our way.

@ss0498

10 ай бұрын

Yep marriage is a just an overrated ceremony, and after getting married I have seen things go horribly wrong for some people better be safe than sorry.

@boss_niko

7 ай бұрын

I love you bro you took the right decision. Look at Salman khan. No wife, no children, no burden nothing. Full bindaas life.

My uncle did an inter-cast marriage, initially his parents and family were skeptical but she turned out to be a really smart person, with good communication skills and she's really good with people, now everyone loves her. They were colleagues and then they did an love marriage.

@Aradhaya45720

Жыл бұрын

I think sometimes love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Atleast in love marriage people care about each other and know enough about each other....

@AshTheDuke

9 ай бұрын

Kash mere sath aisa hota

@GurpreetKaur-hj9xg

8 ай бұрын

I think inter-cast marriage is a good thing. Somehow a lot of people are attracted and have more respect for other religions. Same thing happens abroad - people have respect for foreigners more than their own country people. They have successful marriages.

@rajeevmishra8932

8 ай бұрын

​@@GurpreetKaur-hj9xgnot really....this is sure opposite attracts but attraction is not eternal. My sister had inter caste marriage and she complaint and advise my younger sister to marry in own culture and own community.

@vartika76297

7 ай бұрын

​@@rajeevmishra8932arrange marriage me kaun sa love eternity hota hai bhai

To all the young men out there. Work smartly and pursue your goals, get rich, be disciplined, go to gym for yourself not to show-off, be the best version of yourself in terms of personality, be honest to yourself and think 10000 times before marrying because if divorce happens your wife will take away your children, half property, money and permanent monthly alimony even if the divorce is initiated by her. Take care of your parents and be strong. 😊😊😊😊😊😊

@gamingwithpankajagarwal6773

Жыл бұрын

prenup is a must even if that means you'll need to marry without proper rituals

@shekharkapoor9208

Жыл бұрын

bitter medicine but it will benefit in long term

@RaviVerma-my4gp

Жыл бұрын

@@gamingwithpankajagarwal6773 what us prenup

@RaviVerma-my4gp

Жыл бұрын

@@shekharkapoor9208 which medicine

@John_Wick720

Жыл бұрын

@@RaviVerma-my4gp Jo uppar described hai 🙃

Marriage is like a side quest in the game and you can skip that and still, you can complete your game.

@indo_cad8877

Жыл бұрын

Perfect

@trishachoudhury7313

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@AshTheDuke

9 ай бұрын

Cool

You came in this world alone, you live alone, you die alone. Never marry ✅ Chase your goals Live your life your way Bother none except your parents. Stay away from - 1. Drugs, alcohol, cigarette etc 2. social media like FB, Instagram etc 3. Marriage For guys - Don't chase women, there are none worthy of it

@ajaygosai1759

Жыл бұрын

💯

@ak.v7

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely true sir

@priyankarai6501

Жыл бұрын

himalaya chale jao ise acha 😂 aisi zindagi se behtar to maut hai

@vaibhavroy79

Жыл бұрын

@@priyankarai6501 maze karna sahi hai, chakkar me phasna galat hai. Consensual maze karo, no problem.

@rahulmma

Жыл бұрын

​@@priyankarai6501Kya aap shaadi ke liye ladka dhoond rahi hain?

No depression No Drama Single life is best 😊👍

@utkarshshaw8317

Жыл бұрын

Pakistani are not allowed to watch Indian video

@max-cs9ko

Жыл бұрын

Angoor na mile toh khatte hai😂😂

@nishantjaikari2484

Жыл бұрын

Eather u r living in joint family with brothers , or with ur friends as room mates , or u haven't reached the age of 37 at least ... It's very hard to live alone in ur own house , with all the luxuries with no one taking care.... What's ur punch ???

@bhavesh3729

Жыл бұрын

Mene to bol diya hey ghar pe shadi nahi karu ga, chahe BMW bhi dede petrol to hume hi bharna hey,😎🤣

@raneatharva3016

Жыл бұрын

@@max-cs9ko Exactly 💯

As somebody who continues to battle mental issues, I think that it would be incorrect to state that only men in Indian society don't get to talk about their mental health. In reality, nobody in Indian society gets to talk about mental health. It is still a taboo subject outside the urban upper middle class Indian society. Concepts of depression & stress are seen by an average Indian as fanciful terms used only by the elites of Lutyen's Delhi & South Bombay. Visiting a psychiatrist is considered equivalent to being certified insane in the larger society. This is mostly because of the fact that the school curriculum doesn't discusses about it unless one enters medical college & the resulting lack of interest for it in the public. All of this results in cases of schizophrenia, bipolar disorder & multiple personality disorder being tagged as ghostly/demonic possession, people silently suffering under family members with intermittent explosive disorder, children with attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder being not cared properly, post-traumatic stress disorder being hushed up & a host of other societal problems.

@the1stmetalhead

Жыл бұрын

Not only that mate, it is also very expensive and not affordable for a lot of Indians to visit a therapist or psychiatrist. Especially adult boys and men in our society since they have this responsibility to take care of their family and not appear weak despite going through all the motions .

@hindu_1188

Жыл бұрын

Shut up , depression is imaginary all mental

@shadymello9146

Жыл бұрын

It's impossible to approach your parents with such issues. I tried...It's not like they don't believe you it's just that they don't know how to handle it as they were always told to "suck it up" because "that's life"

@the1stmetalhead

Жыл бұрын

@@shadymello9146 so on point mate. Also as a growing adult I feel like it's my responsibility to not burden them with my issues and instead help them get better. It's a slippery slope but we're all riding it.

@killermakd2015

Жыл бұрын

there are two ways of looking at it, one is your way which is what i will refer to as the wester idea of visiting a psychiatrist, the other is the indian way, meditation. You see, historically, tension and stress have never been lower than today. while today we worry abt competition, back in those days ppl worried abt life and death. the factor that has changed is our ability to cope with that shit. ppl are getting mentally ill simply bcz their patience has decreased over the ages. thats the lowp oint of technology. instant gratifications, fast travel, consuming american cuisine while looking at our phones. in between our lifestyles, we have no breaks to simply think and observe. to contemplate abt the event of the day. to think where we could have compromised, to think where we could have won. all the time our mind has learned to be occupied so much that whenever there comes a time we are unable to occupy ourselves, all hell breaks lose, we start observing how deep we r already in the abyss. in a nation where we already have simple free solutions, even in them all we do is click photos and post to get likes. what else do you expect. our parents might not have gone through the immense competition but then they also didnt have all those mental issues so frequently. these days kids so randomly say they are depressed that it has lost all its meaning here. poor marks? depressed. lost a game?depressed. i mean wtf. not in a relationship? depressed. cmon ppl. all it takes is 15 mins in a day to sit straight close your eyes and focus on anything. no cameras no devices. just think. start there and slowly progress towards say your faith. all it takes is to not look at the phones during those bus rides and metro rides. all it takes is to have less oily food and more roti sabji. change your lifestyle, accept your reality. even a psychiatrist can only hear you. its not that effective when you really spend all that money.

Another reason is also women are becoming independent so it's easier for them to say no if they don't want marriage many women are scared of marriage because their husband has a lot of power over them and social issues play a big factor how people blame women when they give birth to girls the increasing rate of domestic violence and dowry then being forced to give up your career there are many other reasons of course but i feel these are the main

@funnyman3510

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like you're from a north indian state

@anayadegani626

Жыл бұрын

@@funnyman3510 this doesn't only occur in north indian states

In TN, even a gril earning Rs.10k pm wants a boy earning Rs.100k pm. what will u say abt this?

@man58652

Жыл бұрын

@@ssdftddrt1540 ok even if 100k guys set higher standard what about 95% other guys? It‘s about them they struggle. These girls won‘t find 100k+ guy but they still want it. And their want destroys common man.

Biggest reason is our culture. The same societal rules that make male -female interaction so hard in our society also cause these problems.

@Anushka-fz9bm

Жыл бұрын

absolutely agree

@Bharatwasi7

Жыл бұрын

@ISLAMOPHOBIC BOT No need of a BOT, focus on video. What did you learn from this video?

@jibran4794

Жыл бұрын

@@spam403 you call this stability?

@kanwalhemant

Жыл бұрын

Upgrade your culture

@kumargupt3426

Жыл бұрын

@@Kukhyaati True

To all the young men out there I want to tell you that focus on your aim and become something big in which you're really passionate about and think that as a kid when you used to take stress and all the responsibilities were upon you and no one was there to give you emotional support much but still you battled it and won so why not now remember guys we're self dependent people without relying on someone else we can live our lives fighting

@satyasankalpapanigrahi9416

Жыл бұрын

Ok Eren bhai

@balaji7233

Жыл бұрын

@@satyasankalpapanigrahi9416 😂. Eren was right

@lionheartJustin786

Жыл бұрын

The thing is whatever we do we will still remain average Joe in this world.

@satyasankalpapanigrahi9416

Жыл бұрын

@@balaji7233 I will follow whatever eren Yeager bhai says. Eren bhai zindabad

@yashwardhantubid2581

Жыл бұрын

Yes Brother 😈😈

Caste system is a whole another problem . My mom very casually says to my elder brother that yes you can fall in love with someone at your work and have a a love marriage but make sure her surname is Gupta/agrawal/goyal/Garg . Like now you would have to fall in love as per surnames . However i as a girl ain't allowed to love . I am all expected to have an arrange marriage in next 6 years . Great!

@aryan507cz

Жыл бұрын

Your mom is right bcz different caste actually have different upbringing and thought. For example in my bramhin family alcohol is strictly prohibited but in many caste that is not a big deal. Your mom is also doing the right thing by not allowing to have boyfriend bcz most of the boys of my generation will not get good job . So eventually breakup happen which will decrease your ability to deeply love your future husband. If a husband and wife are each other first relationship then they are more likely to lead a happy married life as they will do everything to keep each other happy.

@rajavarma8882

Жыл бұрын

Ha ha ha ha ha ha

@athribhat2243

Жыл бұрын

Your mom is 💯 correct

Marriage comes with risk and the risk outweighs the benefits. There's a risk that comes with marriage that essentially only benefits a woman. When a man marries a woman, all he can do is hope that one day she won't wake up and say"I feel like I don't love you anymore and I want to go, but you can't do anything about

@gal_targareayn6721

Жыл бұрын

You could have done anything about it before that point came.... But I am sure introspection is not an Indian man's game.... Better you guys remain single

@TheTanmoy16

Жыл бұрын

​@@gal_targareayn6721so your introspection didn't include the fact that communication could be the key? Or introspection is only on men's part? Heart to heart conversation could've also solved that issue. But no the men has to introspect. Then again what could go wrong, win win for women and lose lose for us men. 30% of man's worth easy cash because daddy's Lil monster "doesn't feel it anymore"

@gal_targareayn6721

Жыл бұрын

@@TheTanmoy16 cope harder....

@gal_targareayn6721

Жыл бұрын

@@TheTanmoy16 you should be scared of daddy's little monsters.... Atleast the fear will make you vigil and sensitive of other people's emotions with whom you live and give you ability to be better listeners... Talking about heart to heart 🤣🤣🤣🤣 with the inability of actually listening and then taking action over it

@iammealways1124

Жыл бұрын

Yes I find that actually marriage system is 80-20 benifits for women and men respectively even she is beautiful and he is ugly. It's a huge Indian trap if you want to get out from that you loose your 50% assets and money lol 😂

Finally someone’s talking about single men’s mental health. Kudos to you Mangal 👏🏻👏🏻

@sunriselotus

6 ай бұрын

I think overall men’s mental health needs to be addressed.

I am employed and belongs to a prosperous family, but i decided to remain lifelong single since class 9, as after the school, I found being in a relationship was no more fun but was a responsibility and I found it tough to be bound by that life long responsibility.

@shekharkapoor9208

Жыл бұрын

mere saath bhi aisa hi hua hai till 33 year old single

@nishantjaikari2484

Жыл бұрын

What's ur age ?

@ayeshakawakil845

Жыл бұрын

@@shekharkapoor9208 me 40 ka hu...have gf from NE, we don't need social approval for our relationship, we r happy to be together without any courts and government intervention

@alextiru4778

Жыл бұрын

@@ayeshakawakil845 full form of NE?

@ayeshakawakil845

Жыл бұрын

@@alextiru4778 NE means North East...She is from Nagaland

Its great to see you are bring such topics which people take lightly but are serious issues

U r always so too the point bro. Very well researched

I agree with everything you mentioned, The only reason men hesitate to get married is that some women abuse Indian law. These types of women lack ambition for their careers as well. One of my friends studied engineering but decided to become a housewife because she told me that her bakra (she said those words for her husband) earns more than she expected, so she does not wish to work nor does she wishes to contribute at all, given that these properties are hers. She can obtain them through any means she chooses. After hearing her reasons, I stopped talking to her. Hence, I urge every single man and woman out there to stop thinking that just because you aren't getting married does not mean your life is over. The marriage system has become a wholesome trap to ruin either one of the partners mentally and emotionally and also, waste their hard-earned money. hence It's more important to maintain self-respect rather than get humiliated.

@Godamongmen494

Жыл бұрын

😵oh teri aysi bhi ladkia hoti h🥴soch raha tha Arrange marriage thik h, ab too bilkul nehi karuga,

@appliedmech

Жыл бұрын

Saddening. I feel, institution of marriage is dead now. No point of marrying.

@r_saneee

Жыл бұрын

that's why i'm thinking to travel russia for russian girl

@hunnybunny8179

Жыл бұрын

if possible...kindly give a small hint to that Bakra plzzz...as stealthily as u may do but plzzz

@aishwaryamaiti4249

Жыл бұрын

@@hunnybunny8179 I wish I could, but what if he still take his wife side, popat mera ho jaayega, and some men do not understand the consequences till they see themselves, so let it be😞

Inter-caste marriages are very rare and sometimes parents stop and emotionally torture their children. But I think if someone is educated and good, it does not matter from which caste they belong and I think these things makes our society more mature.

@ajsuraj

Жыл бұрын

In fact educated people are more likely to maintain cas in marriageste. For instance Bamans.

@usnasi4439

Жыл бұрын

I am a child of inter caste marriage and in inter caste marriage myself. Many relatives of mine are in inter caste marriage.I never had bad experience, rather only good because of government schemes to help children of inter caste marriages. Only excepton was when my parents were looking for an alliance, both castes (my father and mother's side) were not interested because I am a mixed caste.

@codetocompetectc1810

Жыл бұрын

@@ajsuraj No that's not correct.. I have seen people coming from progressive societies and educated too are more likely to accept inter caste marriages.

@codetocompetectc1810

Жыл бұрын

@@usnasi4439 Love to hear..More power and love to your parents❣️

@ajsuraj

Жыл бұрын

@@codetocompetectc1810 That's an exception not the norm. However such initiatives should be welcomed & celebrated. The families should be garlanded so that they promote it & break the social stigma.

I don't think we should make fun of Salman Khan for not marrying anyone. It's his life his choice. Even though he is a celebrity, he is still human and we shouldn't comment on his personal life.

@amitjose3739

9 ай бұрын

dude is living the life, he doesnt pay alimony and probably hooks up regularly. If any one tries to falsely accuse him or frame him in any manner, he will show them what happens at night, when she walks on a foothpath.

You are So Right!

Mangal, U missed a VERY IMPORTANT POINT!! Since your video revolves around unmarried Indian men, the main reason for this situation is the high bargaining power from the prospective bride and her parents. On any day, if U go through a 'Wanted Grooms' section of any Indian matrimonial website or regional newspapers, U will easily find those criteria, not commonly matched by major population of Indian single men. For example, IIT/IIM (Both) Graduate, 7-8 digit Salary, NRI, Government job, Height above 6ft, etc. Whereas, in 'Wanted Brides' section, Maximum criteria that U will find from the men's parents side 'Wanted homely, qualified, beautiful girl for....'. U see the difference of wants here?? This has come to a level where every Indian knows at least one person, Man or Woman, who remained unmarried, just because either their criteria from their prospective partners were NOT fulfilled (mostly Indian women), or their demographics could NOT match the criteria of their prospective partners (mostly Indian men).

@cringebee-vt1nk

Жыл бұрын

Exactly.....It is difficult to digest that how could a women or girls parent bargain or argue....aren't they a cattle or something to get shift in truck from one place to another....n how dare she is educated or ugly or want to work,this is just not acceptable...she is a girl she have to be dependent and obey order.... I m a man this my patriarchal system....don't u dare girls expect something from me,it's me who is expecting your independence ,chuck of your dad's money to get married

@TheTanmoy16

Жыл бұрын

OMG! This should've been pinned. Best in the comment section

@zuckthebetacuck2789

Жыл бұрын

Hypergamy is universal.

@amritasahu2023

5 ай бұрын

Qualified but homely? This breaks me. 😑😑

Marriage is becoming a deadly trap for Indian men these days due to absurdity of Indian laws. Imagine working hard, earning and saving your entire life then you get married and if you have divorce then everything you have worked for is taken away from you. You loose the house, you loose half of your salary, you loose the kids, plus getting heckled in the courts is common. Imagine paying money to your ex wife who will now use that money to fund her lifestyle with another man. Who'd want that life? Lol. Better to be in a live in relationship. Less issues like these. I mean, there's issue of fake rape cases nd all but if the girl is good it's fine mostly!

@skmuzammilzeeshan6173

Жыл бұрын

🤣

@cherrylle

Жыл бұрын

You can sign a Prenuptial agreement before marrying. That way you won't loose anything after divorce. (No legal value, but it has persuasive value. Means you can show it in court if it's a 100% original Prenup. Your chances of paying alimony might decrease 🤷‍♀️)

@seku3509

Жыл бұрын

@@cherrylle not legal in india

@saintpixie2765

Жыл бұрын

Hinduism is the reason behind such poor sex ratio, boycott Hinduism

@allenrockstar2933

Жыл бұрын

@@cherrylle PRENUPs not enforceable in courts of law. Any contract that supersede existing law is not enforceable. Matrimonial laws are biased, if gender neutral the implementation is biased resulting in Indian men suffering after false cases, unjust alimony and maintenance.

We men suffer a lot mentally as we need to work hard to support our families. There is always pressure on us but we don't show it out because we don't want our family members to face the situations that we go through.

@RhythmBells

Жыл бұрын

@Harsh Patel I didn’t tell women don’t suffer. What I was telling is that men are also suffering in many ways.

@shreyashreya1328

Жыл бұрын

​@Harsh Patel even u too a men right actually as a girl I think men suffers alot more than women mentally😢

@shreyashreya1328

Жыл бұрын

@Harsh Patel think it in your dreams i agree girls face a lot of problems but they have some support from good neighbours or aunties and even froma father also but men put their burden silent and do alot in relationships and pls don't say that women suffer more just bcoz she is a woman if we dont understand men problems then who will understand them?????

@kikaa1884

Жыл бұрын

Girls go to kitty parties and go to spa and get massaged by men and go to beauty parlor Single rehna accha hai just like Ratan Tata and die at the age of 70

@kikaa1884

Жыл бұрын

Drinking Red wine is better than marrying being Asexual is best we won't get STD diseases and infections

You should be really proud of yourself for making this video because you are aiding to uplift all peoples sufferings and please continue to o your work in this way of serving humanity.

You didn't mention one important factor!!!!! Girl with 5L package wants boys with 50L package. I have seen couple of cases near me that boys are so fed up of rejection due to their salary that they now gave up on marriage and don't wanna get married.

@GeneralInfoSystem

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@S-tx2lk

Жыл бұрын

Why the hell they need such gold digger person in their life? Why such desperation? Only for s*x?😒🤦 Stay bachelor and enjoy life na.

@fakeidi

Жыл бұрын

I see a girl who is unemployed and want a nri boy

@Roopesh0409

Жыл бұрын

some get cheated so deeply they just get drowned and couldnt get rise. and life inside them dies eventually, with all desires gets dead. We shouldn't break trust, life becomes punishment after getting cheated for long time

@shubhamzanwar8041

Жыл бұрын

Completely agree with you. Girls are having so much expectations as they have more options even if she is not earning much or looking good. But if you don't have good looks then your good salary also not gonna help

Tbh, it's a win. Peeps are choosing to not settle for less(both girls AND guys), which might be seen as acting selfish but y not fulfil ur own dreams before taking responsibility of fulfilling those of ur coming generation :) Edit: also Many people hv realised that there's much more to life than just furthering ur generation

@GaneshAher1729

Жыл бұрын

Why not just call it a bramhacharya?

@KUSH_Joshi

Жыл бұрын

May coz of social media influencing a lot by showing better life style

@jainsushree

Жыл бұрын

@@GaneshAher1729 well u can still date so not exactly brahmacharya 😅

@GaneshAher1729

Жыл бұрын

@@jainsushree bramhacharya is for 2 kind of people Those who want to completely devote their life to God and want to take sanyas And other is Those who want to have family. Different rules of bramhacharya for different kind of people. It's not like brahmachari people can't marry.

@jainsushree

Жыл бұрын

@@GaneshAher1729 ooh didn't know that..well now I do :)

I m 25 and struggling and really after my first relationship and things happening around me has totally forged my mind to never get married ✌️😂

@ashikaushik1044

Жыл бұрын

Hi Five .... God behtar hai jab single hai 😁

@adityasalunkhe1288

7 ай бұрын

@@ashikaushik1044 dating is still fine, just stay away from marriage

Problem ye nhi h ki ladki nhi h Problem ye h ki dhang ki ladki nhi h

@Msmithjonesraven

11 ай бұрын

Sahi baat bhai, 2 rishte aae shadi k and its not that they are bad looking but they are too bland aka they got no hobbies or things they like and their whole personality is based on 'mai khana bna leti hu", which is not bad but khana banane k alawa aur bhi to kaam hai.

@TheQuietKId55

11 ай бұрын

@@Msmithjonesraven bhoto ko khana banane me bhi problem h

"Remember brothers marriage is a distraction stay strong until you achieve your goals "

@harshalahirrao683

Жыл бұрын

🗿

@peteck007

Жыл бұрын

And what about those who have achieved their goals??

@fivecardan

Жыл бұрын

Yea.... Those goals won't even be valid if earth's population drops low

@peteck007

Жыл бұрын

@@fivecardan lmao yes.. ye alag hi prajati nirman Hui he.. Sigma Chad 🤣

@Stoic_27

Жыл бұрын

20 pushups now 🦍🔥

Actually i think it is our educational problem With education we can solve 1) sex ratio problem 2) career problem 3) early age marriage 4) problem of lack of sex education 5) gender equality

@ASPIRANTJEE-op3un

Жыл бұрын

What???Sameer bro kuch bhi..tune sirf aise hee 4 5 social problems bata diye joh iss topic se related bhi nahi hai..

@rutvikrs

Жыл бұрын

😂😂

@speakingsarcasm9014

Жыл бұрын

Nope, girls (not girls actually, the girls' family) should stop their unrealistic demands. Not everyone can get government job or 6 figure salary.

@karpytoyt7074

Жыл бұрын

bhai tujhe jha per sirf unpad hi milenge education naam ki kuj chij nhi hoti😂

@amanjeetmalik

Жыл бұрын

@@_Virender jaisa ki video me bola h ....log private jobs ko insecure maante hain. Bhle hi bnda crores me kmaa rha ho.. ye lack of education hi h...

Good One !

im new here,the first time i watched ur video i was blown by ur explanation,literally u r explaining better than a professor. i've spent my whole day watching ur videos and its worth it.

They want women but Not daughter Simple and dark

@_Virender

Жыл бұрын

and women want money. Simple and dark.

@vaibhavigaur1842

Жыл бұрын

@@_Virender and men want beautiful wife

@denzylfernandes3280

Жыл бұрын

@@_Virender True

@vishalrai9532

Жыл бұрын

@@vaibhavigaur1842 and women also want beautiful husband but they don't get 😂

@Godamongmen494

Жыл бұрын

@@vaibhavigaur1842 so why should I marry someone to whom I'm not attracted? It will be unfair for her that her husband is not attracted to her.

Sir please make a video on boys mantel issues and solutions specialy for parents. To show them what they are facing. Many young generation facing this problem because of family pressure. I think this will be a turning point for every indian parents. Thanks 🙏

Single life is one of the best way of living, every married people are stuck with toxic partner be it arranged marriage or love marriage.

97000 married males do suicide every year because of these type of characterless wives 🙏🙏

I genuinely believe that romantic love between two people is an illusion, the idea of love of two people cannot simply be at same page and as love is an emotion like anger it's actually not constant but momentary. And that's why remaining single for life makes sense to me.

@AakashKale27

Жыл бұрын

no buddy nothing as such . Hopefuly you'll find someone u love

@ajaygosai1759

Жыл бұрын

💯

@maishayartonahi

Жыл бұрын

@@AakashKale27 so love is permanent? Aaj ke zamane me to ni hai atleast 😂

@AakashKale27

Жыл бұрын

@@maishayartonahi everyone's experiences vary na...but I've so many examples right in front of my eyes and hum bhi aaj ke zamaane se he hai .. it's probably just hasn't happened to you yet. I've changed from being the hook-up guy that I used to be to a loyal husband in the past 6 years. It happens when it's bound to happen. Peace ✌️

@maishayartonahi

Жыл бұрын

@@AakashKale27 cool. Best of luck ☺️

I m glad in tribal communities girls r in good ratio with respect to men.....even more than men.....but to change the situation in country level it will take time and innocent men will suffer because of mistake made by our parents 😭

@manthanpatel6295

Жыл бұрын

And sc st don't have dowry pratha

@saitama2508

Жыл бұрын

@@manthanpatel6295 they do

@user-wq3hh4up7r

Жыл бұрын

@@manthanpatel6295 because there condition is not good, once there condition will improve they will also start demanding dowry, and conducting very expansive marriages.

@user-wq3hh4up7r

Жыл бұрын

@@saitama2508 right only poor and backward st SC don't demand dowry,

@rahulsamant2003

Жыл бұрын

@@manthanpatel6295 we don't have dowry but things r changing now for bad.....i have few cases where girls after marriage is taunted for things she brought as gifts......and few families take Pride in expensive gifts they received. Ppl here r getting influenced by other communities in terms of dowry which is bad. We need to take care of this.

Great Content as always. Good job Boss

Bro being single is the best thing , no one will stop you, you will live with your own rules...

Indians are crazy about government jobs, don't know why 🤷‍♂. I am working in IT sector and I am earning more than most government officers. And yet I was rejected by girl's family twice in arranged marriage setup. They say that private job is not secure. But if one has enough skills, he/she can find another job easily.

@anishashaji4133

Жыл бұрын

Exactly 👍

@alextiru4778

Жыл бұрын

Bhai aapko sidha sidhi ladki ki family ko bolna chaiye ki Jab Life ki security nahi hai toh Job ki security le kar kya karenge

@ashishjoseph3522

Жыл бұрын

Recession, the constant struggle to upscale and staying relevant to the industry standards is not a headache for us. Meanwhile we government employees were chill even during covid. The child of even a peon is secured with top class education if one is employed in the central government.

@anishashaji4133

Жыл бұрын

@@ashishjoseph3522 exactly even if we try to live a simple lifestyle, inflation is pulling down savings

@ashishjoseph3522

Жыл бұрын

@@anishashaji4133 Corporate sector does take care of the employees nowadays and I am not against any private job. But when in a government job one feels like, "my basic security needs have been satisfied, now I can find time for other stuff to do"

So happy to see these types of videos being made to make people aware of the unanswered problems in our society

Sahi vedio banayee.. Sir.. It's true.. Make many more vedio on this topic 👌👌

Bahut bahut dhanyawad apka ye topic lane ke liye 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Guys, it was nothing but a prank, I just wanted to know how people would react. And i am somewhat sad to see that most of you are completely against the concept of marriage.😕 I don't know about you all but I just can't wait to get married and have kids of my own.✌️

@ayeshakawakil845

Жыл бұрын

@@Rishabh-Dev u want my retirement age to increase by 15-20 years 😭

@rhythmgupta1615

Жыл бұрын

More power to you... I have similar plans about orphanage..

@merakhudkachannel6620

Жыл бұрын

I am also 27 but I can only make maggi rarely , i need life partner to do all work. 😉

@t62adriver55

Жыл бұрын

I recommend you to watch up in the air, this might answer your question

@VikramjitSingh924

Жыл бұрын

Bhai i m 26 and I work in Amazon bangalore and I m experiencing similar freedom and have decided not to marry. Unmarried life is best and more importantly it's better to stay unmarried when we analyse biased marriage laws against men. 0 laws to safeguard men against false dowry, false domestic violence case and now new law is about to be passed i.e marital rape ,just on the basis of wife's claim the entire husband's clan can land up in jail without any evidence and it's on the husband to prove himself and his family as innocent.

...failure of many marriages in society is also a reason why it is a challenge to commit to another person in a less tolerant environment.

I m 28 years old female and dont want to get married because i feel very less amount of women get freedom in actual sense after marriage. I dont want to loose my freedom. Freedom what i want to do not what people expect me do for the sake of relationship. I have also confusion regarding my sexuality though i feel i am asexual but not sure so this is also one of the reason.

@utkarshjain861

2 ай бұрын

Good thinking 👍

@utkarshjain861

2 ай бұрын

@PrinceVa-hj4xg haa, yeh aap unse poocho na jo, apni life already kharaab karwa chuke hai relationship ki wajah se 😂😂 Relation na ho gaya, bawaal ho gaya hai, har kisi ko bas ladki chahiye 😂😅

@mogleesh-22

2 ай бұрын

​@PrinceVa-hj4xgSwami Vivekananda, Tesla, Newton laughing in their graves.

According to National Family Health Survey, 2020-21 (NFHS-5) India’s Sex ratio in 2022 is 1020 females per 1000 males. In the rural area, the Sex ratio is 1037, and in the urban areas, it’s 985 females to 1000 males. (Little confused on the part mentioned the current sex ratio is 925/1000)

*Meanwhile how two of my friend’s family view marriage -* Friend 1’s family - You won’t bring any girl to home, we will! Friend 2’s family - You will find your bride, we won’t! Meanwhile me - I would prefer not getting married. 😅

@kartikeyrathia4227

Жыл бұрын

U r very chalak bro...

@speakingsarcasm9014

Жыл бұрын

"Meanwhile how two of my friends' families view marriage -" sounds better.

@ayeshakawakil845

Жыл бұрын

I gave challenge to my parents to find bride and they were unable to do it as every girl has some past relationship which we found out later

@jioboy2676

Жыл бұрын

@@ayeshakawakil845 Why girls r becoming so Tharki now a days and who are those boys who enjoy them??😡😂😂😁

@ayeshakawakil845

Жыл бұрын

@@jioboy2676 That's not my concern, but such girl should not be allowed to enter inside my house is my only concern...warna poore kul ke izzat jayege bhatte me

You always upload energetic, well researched and meaningful videos. Hats off.

@rakeshmali2795

Жыл бұрын

Bhai kya such hai kya tum leftist ho dhruv rathee sabhi bolte hai but me nhi mante 😍😍🥰😘 But agar aaise merko laga ki aap bhi dhruv tatti ki tarh leftist ho us din mera last day hoga. Unsubscribe krdunga. Please leftist mat banna always be Neutral 🙏🤔

@abracadabra7550

Жыл бұрын

Its not well researched. Latest sex ratio of india there are more women.

@richajha6367

Жыл бұрын

@@abracadabra7550 your source???

@mohinishmukul7139

Жыл бұрын

@@richajha6367 source: trust me bro

@abracadabra7550

Жыл бұрын

You illiterate people check this link.. economic survey india 2022. 1020 females per 1000 males.

Mohak ladko se zyada to ladkiyon ko shame kiya jata hai. I'm a 27 yrs old unmarried women whose seen her mother treated like shit by non other than my father since childhood. All around me while growing up, all I've seen is men abusing their wives, whether its relatives or friends. We women when are married are treated nothing more than "Glorified kaam waali baiya" in the name of marriage who are demonized for no reason from time to time. Our pain and struggles are never even considered instead we are again shamed for it. Its not like there are no good men in the world but I just don't have the strength in me to risk it because I know, I will be the one who will ultimately suffer if anything goes wrong and still no one will even give a damn instead I will be demonised, humiliated, shamed. I rather choose be alone I'm better off by myself. I am enough.

@Discoveknowledge

11 ай бұрын

Ok but no one can live alive in her full life agree 💯 ? I think 🤔 you should marry someone who is unemployed you earn ,tell him that he do all household works . By the way aap job karti ho ? What qualities you wanted to see in your future husband 😊

@thequeryqueen

11 ай бұрын

@@Discoveknowledge Yaha job ki baat kaha se aa gai. Maine toh aisa kuch ni likha hai. Aap kuch bhi matlab nikaal rahe ho.. Aur mai jo experience kar rahi hu wahi bol rahi hu and by the way ek unemployed bande se shaadi karna bhi hell se kum nahi hai. Mera cousin bhai unemployed hai aur meri bhabhi job karti hai. Dono bohot jhagadte hai aur suffer bhabi ko hi karna padhta hai. Das baate ushi ko sunni padhti hai. Aur lagta hai maine jo upper likha hai aapne pura padhaa hi nahi yaafir aapko samajh mai nahi aa ayaa acche se.

@Discoveknowledge

10 ай бұрын

@@thequeryqueen Ok you are right but according to me marriage is very necessary for our life without marriage we can't live alive in this world . Aap kab tak apne parents par financial dependent rahungi . Waise aap job karti ho ki preparation kar rahi ho . Presently I'm preparing for upsc cse .

@thetrickster9885

2 ай бұрын

So much self victimization good luck forget marriage it wiill be tough to live alone if you are a narcicist

You are right bro.☺️

Financial security is one of major reason urban youth not getting married I know girls and guys who don't want to marry yet just because they are not self independent or not saved enough money or insecurity that they want to enjoy their life at best before getting married after marriage "ghar ki zimadariyio meh hi jeewan chale jayega"

@shekharkapoor9208

Жыл бұрын

yeh sach hai aadmi apne liye waqt nahi nikal pata

@Traumatised311

Жыл бұрын

Very true

If divorce laws are like this and there is no laws for men what do you expect. Who want to marry when the wife is talking your kids and property and she is being rewarded with alimony for this.

@aniruddhyagoswami1975

Жыл бұрын

Bro casteism ka the end karo sab theek ho jayega . I am bramhan boy. But ab caste khatam honi jarurat hai

@feministslayer2827

Жыл бұрын

@@aniruddhyagoswami1975 Feminisim khatam karne ki jarurat hai is case me

@aniruddhyagoswami1975

Жыл бұрын

@@feministslayer2827 bro feminism tika hua hai hu isliye kyunki hum ek dusre ka support nahi kar te

@feministslayer2827

Жыл бұрын

@@aniruddhyagoswami1975 agree

Nice video sir... it's helpful..I'm student.

I'm from Kerala, here we are discussing ' How to become self-reliant and start to live our own life '. Nobody has to get married under the pressure of family , relatives and society. Marriage is not to fulfill men's sexual needs or other needs, it is for getting a partner to support each other. If unmarried guys (which is shown in the video) can lead struggle to politicians and collector, they can also try to change the way which their society treating girls and women. Girls are not born to just become someone's bride! In this video , The mother from farmers family is concerned about her daughter marriage, why should they give more importance making her daughter 'Self-reliant '. Parents should only have to focus and help their children to become self-reliant. Starting a career is better than starting living depends on our life partner. You are adding valuable information to our life. Loves your work ❤❤❤❤❤

@ashutoshaditya1564

Жыл бұрын

You cannot change a person mindset no matter how much you try btw

@MayankGoel447

Жыл бұрын

I completely agree with your views

@saviojohny

Жыл бұрын

@@ashutoshaditya1564 If that was the case then this so called Social Media 'Influencers' wouldn't exist.

@riaganguly3897

Жыл бұрын

I agree 👍👍

@pentagon141

Жыл бұрын

@@ashutoshaditya1564 🤡

I'm from a land owning caste from the South of India. It is said that 90℅ of those from my caste own atleast an acre of land. We had the problem of finding brides until 5 to 8 years ago due to the problem of skewed sex ratio within the caste. During late 80s and 90s our fellow caste mates had access to scanning and gender determination, thru which, female fetesus were aborted, resulting in skewed sex ratio. Therefore the boys born during late 80s and early 90 had a hard time finding girls within the community. The girls available had a far superior bargaining power. A bcom graduated, stay at home girl was able to get a husband who worked in Microsoft or Google. The less well off boys had to go to Kerala to find girls or marry someone from an immediate lower caste. However, by 2015 the sex ratio had largely been fixed as the abortion of female fetuses stopped by late 90s. The gender ratio has now reached 1:1 in our community.. However, it is still difficult for guys to find girls for marriage, the reason now being, a lot of girls (to some extent guys as well) see married life as a restrictive and compromised lifestyle. Many families are ready to keep their girls single rather than go in for a compromised marriage. As a result, in the region I come from, there are about 5 females and 10 males who are unmarried in every single village. We can already see the side effects of it. Less marriage, less children and a lesser labor force. We do not have even the basic labor force to maintain our farms. The little labor available is expensive. Currently we depend heavily on immigrants from UP, Bihar, Orissa, Jharkhand and WB.. Not sure when their supply will run out..

@mr_ak123

Жыл бұрын

Yeah i agree, people are thinking not marrying will make them happy but it's a disguised curse for the future generations which we can't see now because of less examples here but if we see western countries and highly developed countries like Korea and Japan they are into bigger problem of drastically decreasing population and depressed youths. People are changing the laws.. but for whom ? When there will be no future generations what will be the need of such things, really short-sighted thinking.

@kdjoshi726

Жыл бұрын

Huh here population is already rising & will continue to till 2050, even after that it MAY get equal/enough I don't see why you'd worry about labour force when we have so much population. If you're being choosy that is then it's a different topic

@sakbhu001

Жыл бұрын

@@kdjoshi726 well, the problem is, we are all to some extent scared of the cultural shift bro. For now, we have enough labor to maintain the farm. The issue is, we are in a dubious phase. For generations, we have used local labor, accustomed to our language and culture. All of a sudden, their supply ran out or came at prices Unaffordable. As a result, we currently use immigrants from other states to work on our farms, who speak a different language, it's like every landowner is nervous, yet has no option but to employ them...

@adghat7819

Жыл бұрын

Kongu region ah.

@sakbhu001

Жыл бұрын

@@adghat7819 correct ah solliteenga!!

To be honest Indian men need to be a little stronger and stop craving for marriage! You won’t die if you can’t find a partner ! Men need to raise their heads high and focus on their lives and become UNSHAKABLE individuals of high values ! Don’t be so anxious to find a partner ! Being An individual you are the most powerful being ! IF LIFE CONSIDERS YOU WORTHY YOU WILL GET YOUR WOMAN BUT IF NOT ITS NOT THE END OF THE ROAD! You can do other greater things in life ! It’s a shame that men are getting depressed not finding a bride ! Live life with pride and dignity for yourself !

What a contain bro. 🙌🏻👏🏻

Thank you Mohak. You forgot to mention very important reasons for Indian men staying away from marriage, which are The fake cases, Alimony, Maintenance and the law being unfair and biased towards women. These are some of the reasons which makes many Indian men scared of getting married as it adds a risk of losing their wealth.

@Revati5070

Жыл бұрын

Losing wealth and health, because many girls don’t divorce but keep emotionally torturing the boy and his parents

@ritikasingh9555

Жыл бұрын

Yeah thats an issue. Women often take men for an atm. But now with guys moving away from this trend its gonna push women to see why gaining independence and earning is important.

@VPS_1547

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. There are many such cases where a good earning boy under family and relatives pressure was married to such a girl whose brother or sister was Spendthrift. Many a time such boys have to carry-on with such unwanted responsibilities even when the boy side never demanded a single dowry. I remember a suicide cases where a husband committed suicide just because all his bank balance was spend in care taking of his in-laws and because of it he was unable to get a good treatment of his ailing father. As a result his father died and in depression and regret the guy committed suicide. Not all boys are bad and not all girls are good. The above cases shall never come to lime light because boys are meant to escape goats for all evils of society.

@deepankarsharan2791

Жыл бұрын

Agree

@doublezeta04gundam29

Жыл бұрын

He won't mention because he is woke emasculated leftist

I think one of the major reasons is that true love is mostly gone nowadays. If one person still has it, the person they like doesn't. This leads to lesser amount of happy relationships, which in turn reduces love marriages. And many people don't want to do arranged marriages for many reasons out of which some may be debatable.

@jioboy2676

Жыл бұрын

Yes...True Love is *rare* now a days...most girls r now looking for Lust. And now many girls have past...where as for many boys...having even a gf is difficult thing. Why enjoy with someone else and then marry another one and even try to control the guy for rest of life?? All these needs to change....

@nmo3148

Жыл бұрын

where was there love earlier? there was duty.

@hermionegranger8629

Жыл бұрын

@@nmo3148 Some have an obsession with romanticizing the past. I have seen couples (arranged marriage) who gave each other good companionship... But times have changed, and let's try to shape things in a positive way. Including seeing a woman as a full person, no less than a person...

@peteck007

Жыл бұрын

25 sal ke bad love kuchh nahin hota hai bhai.. tab future Ko dekhkar shaadi ki jaati hai love ke chhapede mein padoge To tumhen dhung ki ladki Milne wali he nahi..

@dhitikabarua7677

Жыл бұрын

Exactly my thoughts...

Rahul Gandhi Yogi Adityanath Salman khan Apj abdul kalam Atal bihari wajpayi

Maintenance can not be denied over adultery charges. So wife can have an affair and still can claim maintenance, alimony from husband.

Imagine you have to pay to your spouse permanent alimony/monthly maintenance no matter how capable she is financially, just because it is supposed to be a "sacred" duty of men to maintain family. And I expect, this trend to go upwards once the amendment is made to criminalise marital rape is brought as recommended by Law Commission Report. It will be interesting to see how the burden of proof will be determined in such cases.

@yogeshsinghrawat477

Жыл бұрын

Ladki se jyada papa ke nakhre

@bhadwamuhammad979

Жыл бұрын

Many times divorces happen on virginity issues. That aspect is getting overlooked in discussions.

@srijanraghavula

Жыл бұрын

They do the chores without hesitating brother 😉 (not everyone)

@cauliflowerhead2735

Жыл бұрын

Yes if she spent years taking care of you doing work that you wouldn't do or don't care for, years that could be spent on self-interest or wealth creation, so you could be free to focus on your career, well then you gotta compensate for that. Both men and women are liable to pay it if they are eligible to do so.

@yumyum9902

Жыл бұрын

if u dont want to be a real man and don't want to do this apparent 'sacred' duty then don't get married as easy as that, why u want to get married if u don't want to share ur wealth with her? if working women don't help the family financially?

Anti male laws is also known reasons . And all media , goverment officer , political parties , judiciary and celebraties never recognise anti male laws and harrasment against mens. I know many NGO's who worked for that types of mens.

8:54 Two weeks ago KZread channel 'Black Pigeon Speaks' released a video 'How Incels are a threat to World Peace' in that he specifically gives the example of India and China being suffering this problem.

Great video