Hello Gweilo 60, my wife and I are leaving Maple Ridge BC in 11 days for Nanning city. I can not wait to leave Canada, I am 71 and Canada sucks. I flew to Nanning to get married july 2007, one of the best things I have ever done. I need to buy another electric bike, I have no problems driving around this beautiful city of green. I too will die in China, as Nanning is my home Your videos are very touching. It would be nice to meet you in Nanning sometime. I wish you the best for years to come. John

@Gweilo60

6 ай бұрын

Hit me up when you get here

@echosu5793

6 ай бұрын

希望你健康

@lazybones5390

6 ай бұрын

yea... Canada is just not looking good these days..

@9OClockRant

6 ай бұрын

@@lazybones5390yeah, our PM kept repeating “we are doing better than every members of the G7” as if that’s good enough for Canadians. He then use that as an excuse that he can keep increasing the carbon tax but nothing to show for it.

@weizhang2834

6 ай бұрын

@@lazybones5390never ,just supposed to be

I don't think you are crazy. I married my wife in Nanning 20 years ago, we have lived in both Canada and China (more in China mind you) and we decided to spend the rest of our lives back in China. To the end. We came back just last year. Some of my friends and family assumed the China life was temporary and we would stay in Canada permanently, and are surprised I didn't "put my foot down" and just demand it. But they don't get it. My missus could say she wanted to live on an island, a remote jungle, the middle of a desert or the moon. I would go with her and be there with her to the end. Much respect!

...you're not crazy at all. When I married my wife and we finally moved to her hometown here Shenyang, I told her very clearly, when I die you bury me here in Shenyang with your family and next to you. This is our home. God bless you as you deal with losing your loved one and share your experience. Mario

@9064peterpan

6 ай бұрын

Mario, where have you been ? We miss you.

You are not crazy. Only people who have been in your position will understand you. As people age we look for things beyond material values and for true meaning in life. Love the people who cares for you. It's that simple.

Life is a always a mix of good bad and ugly. Thank you being genuine and an all around fun guy.

You're not crazy at all. Peace, prosperity, and love make a true home for everyone, everywhere.

My wife of 40 years passed away 7 mths ago and she is still in my mind everyday. We dont have children. You are right, living alone sucks. I am doing lots of things but the X factor joy of life is just missing.

@huipreece1980

6 ай бұрын

You are so right

Hi Kirk, I have watched your channel for awhile and deeply appreciate the concept you have put in them. I’m from Nanning and am glad that you found what you need and love in my hometown. I’m very sorry for your loss and hope the time and the place heal you and give you peace and strength in time.

Nice to see you again in China! Wei Feng will be with you always! She was so lucky to have you also!

Since I started watching your videos, I decided to go along on the ride that is your life. You have proven to be an inspiration to me. I hope that we might meet one day or more in beautiful China, a place that I am determined to visit, and that we may converse over beers across a table. Cheers, and happy new year.

Gweilo60, please stay strong, smart, and positive! Make sure you get all the proper medical insurance in China and Canada!

Hope you can reconcile your past and live your life in China or anywhere else you choose. As a Chinese person, I truly appreciate your efforts to push a turer version of China to the international audience.

I haven't watched every one of your videos. But today I saw the title of your video was "LIVE and DIE in CHINA" and I opened it curiously. Then I found out that your wife has passed away. I went back and found your video in memory of your wife. , I felt very sad after reading it. I don’t want to say so much and only hope that your life in China is peace, happy and healthy.

@Gweilo60

6 ай бұрын

Thank you

glad to know you got a permanent residence status in China.. because it seems there is a scrum now to leave Canada and the US and peoples are looking for countries to move into.. there are videos of people giving their reasons for leaving.. its quite unbelievable to hear what they had to say.. something seems to be happening.. many reckon its irreversible.. unfortunately they could only afford to go down souths those south American country.. and you are a few lucky one kirk.. all the best..

@sams-lo6lc

6 ай бұрын

how do you qualify for that ?

@Rdburnzy

6 ай бұрын

You need to shill@@sams-lo6lc

@off-roadelectricscooterser8718

6 ай бұрын

@@sams-lo6lc I am Chinese, first of all I want to explain to you, China is not a country of immigrants, for foreigners permanent residence ID card audit is very strict, you can ask the Chinese Embassy for specific information, of course, I also bless you, if you love China I also welcome you to break through all kinds of difficulties to come to China!

@icodestuff6241

5 ай бұрын

​@@sams-lo6lc The easiest way would probably be becoming an English teacher (if that's your thing). Many schools in China want Native English speakers, so just by being born in an English country, you have a decent chance of going. You don't even have to know Chinese to get hired, but it would definitely help. Another is applying online for various jobs. There's a lot of Chinese hiring sites. I'm only familiar with the tech ones, but I'm sure other industries have similar things. Once you have a job in China, getting permanent residence is easy. Ofc, getting that job is not easy. Another way is to first apply for a multi-entry visa. It's lets you stay in China for up to 180 days, which the duration can be renewed. In that time, you can familiarize yourself with the language and get a job. Ofc, this option is quite expensive because you are basically a tourist and unemployed for 180 days, unless you work online or something.

They really need to make a movie about such a true love story. .. hats off to you, Kirk.

Loyal to WF to the end!Respect! A true gentlemen6

Thanks for sharing those deep moments, Kirk. We are with you. The black swan called out (for you?) and didn't attack. Sounds like someone came back in spirit to see you, bro. Wishing the best in the coming new year and 100K subscribers soon.

A GENUINE GUY WITH LOTS OF HEART AND LOVE

I'm 78yo and expect to die in China so this video contains a lot of good info about that. Thanks.

OMG, you making this video reminded me so much of what was going on in my life when my wife Chien-Ni passed away 7 years ago. If that makes you feel better, I can tell you: You'll get through this. You will have many, many good years in you, where you will have a great job to do for your community (meaning us, your fans). All of us like-minded guys have to work on making relationships between China and the West better.

Not everyone has a chance to live in China for many foreigners. I am grateful for you. You are a great husband, always and forever will be.

By acknowledging that you may be a little crazy is a testament to your sanity. Only a truly crazy person denies any possibility that they may be crazy. Take care and keep well.

Living in China is so nice and chill in the rural areas I think you will actually live longer

You are not alone 😢

Good for you, living in Nanning for the rest of your life. Nanning is such a beautiful and peaceful place. I’m from South East Asia. Enjoy seeing your video.

Gweilo, you have the right to be crazy; your type of craziness is pure love. my friend this is the healthiest type of craziness.

As long as you happy and you have friends and you can make more friends, also have people that cared about you around the area, also more secure more affordable, less tax from what i cans see, weather is ok, more convenient, more entertainment. best wishes. go for some teaching in the school etc...

Wishing you more strength Kirk, I'm sure this was a tough video to make. You have more friends than you know. Keep doing what you love, I hope these videos give you something to keep your mind active. good luck Steve and Yiqi

@linus631

6 ай бұрын

Hang in there Kirk, As someone who lose someone clowe, I promise you things will get better. ❤

Wishing you lots of luck! This was educational as well. Now that you are alone, hope you have support besides your brother in law in China. No matter how much you love someone, you can not live by someone's memory. You have to think ahead. That's exactly how Wei Feng would have liked you to live as well. As you said, you are young.. you have plenty of journey ahead.

First 🎉 (edit: but just realised the topic.) Rest in peace WF. She came across as such a lovely lady on your videos. 🙏

@rockyb9160

6 ай бұрын

P.S. guys, subscribe NOW, get Gweilo up to 100k. My god, out of all the China KZreadrs, he should be. 👈✅🍻

KZread unsubacruve me. So I have to subscribe again (for the 3rd time). Anyway, our condolences to you. Weu Fyng is such a lovely lady, inside and out.

It's a sad story of a lonely man！Wish you all the best! Please keep doing the videos.

@good2freelance1

6 ай бұрын

No, good story of a good man. I know much much sadder stories, just look at the US homelessness and deaths ...

Gweeilo 60, I feel sorry that you lost wei fong. I agree with you not paying what that relative said you should do. There is no such custom in chinese culture. The guy just made it up. Here in Canada Ontario, it would cost at least 50k Canadian for burying someone who passes away. God bless you! and hope you enjoy the rest of your life in China. I am from HK living in Ontario, Canada, for over 50 years. I know both cultures

This brings tears to my eyes 😢, luck pair Wei Fang and Guilao.

Kirk, your honesty and undiluted attitude on life and death for that matter is certainly a breath of fresh air. I lost my Pauline in 2017, the mother of my four beautiful children after twenty four years of being together, nearly half my life. Family popped out of the woodwork then too, and that's in Ireland! So as you say it's not a country specific thing, it's a people thing. I totally agree with you on the loneliness of one day waking and seeing the person you chose to spend the rest of your life with, suddenly they're not there.... but they are......they're in the menial things you see everyday, familiar smells or that special cocktail she liked (in my wife's instance). I look at my kids and I see her face. You owe nothing to anybody, be it explanation, monetary or even time. I've found someone now who I know my kids accept. They're old enough to realise the love I have and always will have for their mother will never die. Southeast Asia is a beautiful place, I'm heading out there again in March. No matter where you go Kirk, the world is only a confine of physical movement. Your wife is always with you.

Thanks Gweilo, 🍺

Keep strong and enjoy the rest of your life, I look forward to seeing more of your videos and hope that the next time we come to China we can buy you a beer😊😊

Hey man. The idea is not crazy at all cause Naning is already your home. Enjoy your every day left in China. God bless you

Thanks Gweilo, for sharing your story with us, you are a rare, down to earth story teller with an emphasis on the things that matter most ie; our way of relating to each other. I hope the rest of your life in China is a good one and that you reach the 100k subscribers soon, you deserve it.

Hi Gweilo/Kirk 😃! I'm so happy u bounced back to make videos again! As an overseas Chinese here in d Phils. we still practise traditions for funeral...it is said that our elders should be placed on high ground like a hill or any place that's high n facing d sea coz this is among d beautiful feng shuis for d dead , in fact for d good of d next generation. Even d time of passing is of relevance for d living family. One doesn't look back n get back inside after leaving d funeral parlor....etc. So far these are only d tip of an iceberg. I cnt mention many things here. It might get u dizzy 😅😄 but i'd say just follow ur intuition/instinct dat prod u dat moment or d first thought that comes to mind , finally , i wish u goodwill , well-being , health , safety n prosperity throughout d years ahead. All subscribers love u , dats for certain.😊😉👍👍👍

Peace to you, Gweilo. I found your channel today. In life there are the good, the bad and the ugly. Life has taught you a lot. May you remain strong and vigilant, travel and enjoy your remaining years... If you choose to be happy in your adopted country you will be happy. ❤ India

I'm 74 never married nor lived with anyone intimately and no kids. I'll be going to the Anatomy Dept at the University of Alberta here in Edmonton. I'm too cheap to buy a funeral or plot. Cheers to you.

@user-ij9tz1df5f

6 ай бұрын

Are you Chinese?

Keep yourself happy and healthy!

Your fans are looking at you n listening to u expressing your thoughts. Individually I feel like you are talking to me...n feel like a friend of yours. So in a way u are not alone. Sincerely

As a Chinese American born in China when I died I will be cremated throw my ashes in the wind so I can fly home ,in the Chinese culture the higher you are buried the wealthier you are it shows your status and where it faces is also important can’t remember what it is called ❤

What a beautiful place you chose. May each day get easier for you.

Gweilo, you have set a great example of loving and being loved. I admire you want to plan everything out, even your post-life. However, I think Weifang will be happier to know if you are enjoying your life and time in China for now without her. My friend, take it easy and enjoy your life in China.

''living alone sucks''. Not me, i'm living alone and quite happy to be honest.

Thanks for the beautiful thoughts Kurt. Your description of the feelings toward Weifang brought me to tears. Appreciate the good soul in you and wish you best of luck passing through this tough tough time of your life.

You are not by yourself.She will always be with you. Good on you mate.

Gweilo60, your video is so touching. Good healty❤

@Gweilo60

6 ай бұрын

Thank you very much!

Hello,Kirk, don't let wei fang down, make the most of the rest of your life, there is many more to explore down the journey unfinished!!! Have fun!!!!

Take care Kirk. You are a good person.

Glad to see you are making important decisions, good for you. Yes, it is when loved ones die that the vultures start flying around. Stay put, do nothing, no financial decisions until after a year or so. In my experience of losing my father, many "acquaintances" showed up asking for something, money, a deal. I did nothing and they disappeared into thin air after a year, like smoke.

You are a smart man, happily living a free life in the lovely Nanning City! Have a conviction and praying your next life become a proud Chinese!

@echocrep

6 ай бұрын

他已经拿到永久居留证了，已经是中国人了…很大程度来说，“中国”是个文明概念，有56个民族相互生活融合 He has got a permanent residence permit and is already Chinese.（without malice) To a large extent, "中国" is a civilized concept, with 56 ethnic groups living together.

geolow, weifang is a fortunate girl, she has you taking care of her after life matter, I am in Toronto now, and watched your channel long time, my wife and i admire.your life there, we will move back to china like you. hope you can cheer up!

We are also making the permanent move to Nanning. We were married here in Nov 2004, and are in Nanning now, house shopping, etc. We return to the states in a week to sell our home and all our stuff. Kirk, we have enjoyed your videos over the last few years as a chance to see the streets and sights of my wife’s hometown. We would love to meet up with you before we fly back to the USA, we live near Chaoyang Square. How does one contact you? All the best from Tim & Jiru

@Gweilo60

6 ай бұрын

Gweilo60 on we chat

@svenkrause4019

6 ай бұрын

how you all move to Nanning?

Sorry for your lost, thanks for sharing. Take care of yourself. Blessings!

Hey Kirk, I've been watching your videos for years and maybe I'm one of the earliest people to be your subscribers. I felt really really bad for you when I checked out this video. Here's my first comment only to show my support and respect for you. Wish you all the best and there's always some people supporting you.

Be aware those scams in China now you are alone. Take care and hope that time can heal your grief.

Take care. Good to be near your loved ones whether alive or passed on. ❤

Love and support from Toronto!❤

Glad to see you’re doing better, Kirk! Stay strong, my friend!🙏

It's definitely not easy and everyone has to go through this when we reach to this point. The brighter side is that you have over 99K fans here that keep you company. Whenever you post a video, you have hundreds of friends chatting with you.😊

Beautiful stories.. ... wish to go Nanning one-day. ....noon boo no not to die there.😮who knows maybe I collapse while visiting Guangxi or maybe Canada😅. No one knows. Actually you are looking good . We are all blessed by your courage🍀🌿

Nanning is a beautiful place for spend time. Cost of living is low and there is a lot to do outdoors. Good luck with your new adventrues. It sucks to loss someone that special but life will go on. we owe it to those we love. Best wishes to you!

My friend told me about your videos. Ive subscribed and will be following you. Wishing you a happy stay in China.

Yes, living alone sucks but you are living in a beautiful country. Sometimes being alone is good because you get to do what you want and how to live your life. Spend time with family or friends and explore more of nature, and you will find more joy in what life has to offer.🙏

Hope you well in China

Lovely video Kirk and no Kirk, you definitely are not crazy. Have so much respect to you and for your everlasting love for Weifang and China

Stay health stay safe and active as long as u keep yourself busy with your own pace u fine... life goes on as usual just enjoy it and smell the roses its good u focus on the positives.

Many of us foreigners will die in China. For many of us this is permanently home!

@off-roadelectricscooterser8718

6 ай бұрын

If you can read Chinese, I'd like to say a word to you. Of course I'm Chinese. 君埋泉下泥销骨，我寄人间雪满头

That black swan at the end of the video..... I'll let your spiritual imagination connect the dot.

Gweilo60. May all your aspirations come true. May you be blessed with good health and happiness .

Hi Kirk, just a word of caution. Most cemetery plots sold in China have a usage term limit of 20 years. Please find out the one you got has the same usage term limit. Wish you all the best.

@1:40, that called true love, Gweilo60. That kind of true love is a rare specie, today.

Thank u for sharing yr life experiences & wisdom. I subscribed ❤

My sincere respect for all you're doing!

Love you Gweilo. You are genuine and straight forward. You and Weifang have both been valuable assets of China. As far as I am concern, you are a Chinese.

Man, your love is inspirational and very touching

Glad to see you're back, Gweilo!

This is a different type video. 节哀顺变 一路走好 Rest In Peace. 沉痛哀悼 Weifang

Glad you are making videos again.

You are so affectionate. Until the day comes when you and Weifang are reunited, be happy and don't forget to laugh and love. I'm sure that's what Weifang wishes for. Good luck.

Thank you for sharing your deep personal thoughts with us

Gweilo, from what I know of China my country, i am confident that the people and the government in China will welcome you to stay until whenever you wish to. God will bless you, whichever God of your choice.

Thank you Gweilo! You taught me a lot 🙏🙏

God be with you❤

My experience: we all need to meet people every day, closer ones as well as others, beyond differences in languages or cultures.

Stay strong and wish you the courage and strength to move on from griefs ...only time can heal and we pray for your wellbeing...we are confident you will bounce back..

Can see and hear the hurt in you Kirk, it will take a long time to heal, if ever, respect to you for what you are doing, hope everything works out for you

Thank you and God bless you Amen 🙏 ❤😂

I’m very touch by your commitment to weifong, G60. Thanks so much for sharing your deepest thoughts with us.

I'm a local chinese and I'm forty years old and I have already buy a grave for myself and mywife

I am working in USA California. I understand your health issue struggling. What you said in Canada is right. In USA, many senior and retiring citizens are facing loneliness, subtle depression, hardly any visitors, lock in their own homes at old age, long distance driving which is difficult to have visitors.

God bless you ! Gweilo, you are a nice guy !

Come on guys....reach that 100k!

Understandable.

Hi Gweilo 60, you are not crazy of thinking your own well-being. I believe that you can choose any places you like as long as you feel comfortable to be where you are. The most important is to have quality of life.

Much respect to you sir, I wasn't subscribed before. I am now. Live well!