Life Lessons My Iron Taught Me About Overcoming Adversity | Emem Washington | TEDxRoyalCentralSchool

Emem Washington shares lessons learned from her iron to highlight the importance of a resilience mindset, and how to use it to survive and succeed in the midst of overwhelming adversity.
Known as ‘The Dream Ambassador’ to many, Emem Washington, is an International Speaker, Author, Coach and multi-passionate creative entrepreneur. She is also an Attorney and Recording Artist. Her mission is to inspire, equip and cheer millions towards success, regardless of where they are, where they are from, or where they have been.
She blends her legal, entrepreneurial, familial and spiritual experiences into real and relatable advice, sharing from her heart and inspiring women to uncover and live out their purpose and use their gifts.
She is married and the proud mom of 2 sons. When she is not teaching, researching or leading worship, Emem enjoys spending time with her family, listening to music, and scribbling down thoughts, ideas and aha moments on napkins and post it notes.
Get to know her further at www.ememwashington.com. Known as ‘The Dream Ambassador’ to many, Emem Washington, is a Speaker, Author, Coach and multi-passionate creative entrepreneur.
She is the author of “Rise from the Shadows: Overcome Your Past, Reclaim Your Voice, Live Your Light” and the co-author of the anthology “Women of Purpose” and has been blessed to speak internationally.
Emem blends her legal, entrepreneurial, familial and spiritual experiences into real and relatable advice, sharing from her heart and inspiring women to uncover and live out their God-given purpose. - This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @DrmOeAnderson
    @DrmOeAnderson8 ай бұрын

    I've watched this several times when the road of life became bumpy. Emem always inspires me with her words and warmth! Great talk. ❤

  • @nishatiwari9542
    @nishatiwari95423 жыл бұрын

    The way you used the iron as example for life lessons is amazing.

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m so glad that it resonated with you. Thank you.

  • @yingmclane941
    @yingmclane941 Жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful story! The analogy is right on point! I love how she speaks with honesty and humor. We all have wrinkles in our lives, and it's our attitude and action toward those wrinkles will make a life difference!

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for listening and sharing your thoughts, Ying! 🙏🏾

  • @MomTheEbayer101
    @MomTheEbayer1013 жыл бұрын

    Wow!!!! This was absolutely beautiful!! Now I'll never look at my iron the same again lol!! Thank you for sharing your story because it definitely strengthend me to simply enjoy the process, utilize my base and to embrace the heat because it's just as important as anything else. Wow!! Great Emem - Great Job!! ❤️

  • @Saunders7

    @Saunders7

    3 жыл бұрын

    I dont iron.

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for listening to my talk and for your kind words, Angel. I’m so happy it resonated. ❤️🙏🏾

  • @ronniechambers4755
    @ronniechambers47554 жыл бұрын

    Iron begin to talk to you is all about self awareness, I can understand. Beautiful lesson ❤️

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes to self-awareness. Thank you.

  • @quincyn4010
    @quincyn40104 жыл бұрын

    Thanks you so much for sharing... I picked up on some amazing points. So sorry about your mom. Great 👍🏿 job...!

  • @julesj2381
    @julesj23813 жыл бұрын

    Wow! Beautiful analogy. Amazing how the natural things around create life lessons... Thanks Emem

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Jules! I’m so glad it resonated.

  • @jessicareed51
    @jessicareed514 жыл бұрын

    Loved the way she explained things. absolutely great points!

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much. I’m glad it resonated.

  • @ashleyevans8801
    @ashleyevans8801 Жыл бұрын

    Such a valuable lesson from something so simple. Thanks for the reminder to take note of our surroundings and learn life’s lessons gently. Valuable lessons here.

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for taking the time to listen and share your thoughts, Ashley. ❤

  • @melm3526
    @melm35264 жыл бұрын

    Women helping women entrepreneurs brought me here 🙋🏽‍♀️ Lord knows I needed this. Thank you & Congrats 🤍

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Oh I’m so glad to know that it resonated. Thank you, Mary!

  • @leeyuna4131
    @leeyuna4131 Жыл бұрын

    OW, SUCH AN EYE OPENER. YOU EXPLAINED EVERYTHING WELL, YOU'RE MY FAVORITE SPEAKER NOW

  • @danielblanchard2757
    @danielblanchard275711 ай бұрын

    Great insight about overcoming adversity.

  • @davidjensen2469
    @davidjensen24693 жыл бұрын

    I have to say that every bit of what I heard was really motivating and educating. great work!

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, David. That’s awesome to hear.

  • @umoh0
    @umoh04 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful speech. I am proud of you.

  • @joyogunneye
    @joyogunneye Жыл бұрын

    Wow, so so profound. I love and resonate with the ironing analogy. And love how we can learn valuable lessons from chores we hate doing. Thanks so much for being such an inspiration and helping us connect the dots through your testimonies. Powerful!

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Joy! P.S I still hate ironing😅

  • @joyogunneye

    @joyogunneye

    Жыл бұрын

    @@EmemWashington hahahaha lol 😂

  • @remiwilloughby7095
    @remiwilloughby70954 жыл бұрын

    Excellent presentation, Emem! So proud of you.

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much. I appreciate it!

  • @ifyetuokwu1370
    @ifyetuokwu13704 жыл бұрын

    Relatable • Poignant • Thought-provoking These lessons spill into the many fabrics of life and your words have encouraged and lit a fire within. Thank you for sharing your heart Emem!

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m so glad! Thank you for watching and for your encouraging comment.

  • @benyanthony
    @benyanthony4 жыл бұрын

    Awww dear Sibling! What an awesome analogy. Sooo proud of how you are graciously wearing your testimony! Yes we do need the heat in our lives to straighten those wrinkles...LOL some of us take our clothes to the dry cleaners... There is this form of heat aka Discipline. No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produced a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it. Hebrews 12:11

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Very well said. Thank you!

  • @aaronscott9974
    @aaronscott99744 жыл бұрын

    Very valuable lessons. we learn in life that we need time to become better.

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @mikejohnson-vp2ms
    @mikejohnson-vp2ms3 жыл бұрын

    You have explained things really well! great speech! 👏🏿

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you. I’m glad it resonated. 🙏🏾

  • @jamiesmith1145
    @jamiesmith11452 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing the lessons. More power to you!

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for listening, and for your kind words.

  • @Wisdom_Works
    @Wisdom_Works3 жыл бұрын

    I’m so glad you shared this! I needed to hear this message, this morning! What a blessing!!!

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you. I’m so glad it resonated with you.

  • @akashgupta-vv8sb
    @akashgupta-vv8sb3 жыл бұрын

    Very well spoken and really encouraging.

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for listening. Much appreciated.

  • @christinajohnson9941
    @christinajohnson99413 жыл бұрын

    This was really inspiring and very valuable life lessons.

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for watching.

  • @efiokibokette883
    @efiokibokette8834 жыл бұрын

    Enemies you are great and I thank God for your life

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @chiomaosibodu7166
    @chiomaosibodu71663 жыл бұрын

    I love this..soo much insight, coming at the right time!!!

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m so glad it resonated with you. Thank you for your warm comment. 🙏🏾

  • @ramatunjoku4260
    @ramatunjoku42604 жыл бұрын

    I am so proud of you Emem

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @kelseyellenwood853
    @kelseyellenwood8532 жыл бұрын

    I Learned so much from this talk! Thanks!

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m glad, Kelsey. Thank you for your comment.

  • @estherakogun3201
    @estherakogun32014 жыл бұрын

    Way to go Emem, I am so proud of you! I love the analogy and the lessons resonate! I especially like the lesson of living and loving while we still have the time! May the memory of your mum remain blessed!

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen. Thank you so much! I am so glad they resonate. Blessings to you.

  • @laurabarnett5643
    @laurabarnett56434 жыл бұрын

    Yes strong base is a great lesson! love your speech

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for listening.

  • @dr_htown6910
    @dr_htown69104 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Emem for sharing! Love the analogy. I needed to hear this

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m so glad it resonated. Thank you for watching.

  • @ameliebaxter553
    @ameliebaxter5532 жыл бұрын

    Omg, a very good topic! I'm also like this!!

  • @sharlenemeyer2385
    @sharlenemeyer2385 Жыл бұрын

    so inspirational, hope you can talk more about this topic. i love listening to your words, you give good analogy.

  • @2morot
    @2morot4 жыл бұрын

    A very beautiful presentation. Emem, this is awesome...more grace to you

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @RegumDomini
    @RegumDomini4 жыл бұрын

    Good work Mimi. This blessed me, and stirred up valuable lessons.

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m so glad! Thank you!

  • @TomiFavored
    @TomiFavored4 жыл бұрын

    So inspiring and encouraging Ms. Emem! Thank you so much for sharing these lessons.

  • @cukomadu
    @cukomadu4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for reminding me that life will not always be wrinkle-free. I’m embracing the heat in every area of my life so it can do it’s work. I too had the I don’t need anyone mentality. But, I’m learning to collaborate with others. There’s beauty in having a solid base. Thank you so much for an amazing 🙌🙌🥳🤩🥰👏👏👏 talk. I enjoyed your stories, presentation style, and mannerisms 😂

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much! I’m very happy that it resonated with you. Good for you, regarding collaborating with others more. And yes to beauty in a solid base!! ❤️🙏🏾

  • @anietieudoh8832
    @anietieudoh88324 жыл бұрын

    Very good analogy of using the iron! Having a support system as well as trusting the process is definitely major components of ironing! Thank you Mrs. Washington!!

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching. I’m glad it resonated!

  • @Tsemoe
    @Tsemoe4 жыл бұрын

    The lessons we learn when we open our hearts to listen. Great analogy, great delivery, excellent presentation.

  • @emc8556

    @emc8556

    4 жыл бұрын

    I love how you said that: “the lessons we learn when we open our hearts to listen”.

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @poojakapoor2441
    @poojakapoor24413 жыл бұрын

    Excellent of way explaining. Learned a lot!

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @simonyoung7785
    @simonyoung77853 жыл бұрын

    Truly inspired by the talk!

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m happy to know. Thank you for listening.

  • @mattperry4691
    @mattperry46914 жыл бұрын

    I really needed to hear this. great talk!

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m so glad it resonated. Thank you for watching.

  • @jamescutler2486
    @jamescutler24864 жыл бұрын

    this was really inspiring. self awareness is really important.

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree. Self-awareness is a powerful weapon.

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching.

  • @marysmith9371
    @marysmith93713 жыл бұрын

    I get a valuable lesson, thank you Emem.

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m glad. Thank you

  • @gBalldevelopmentllc
    @gBalldevelopmentllc3 жыл бұрын

    I lost my precious mom in August, 2020. It still hurts.

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    2 жыл бұрын

    Glenda, please accept my condolences. I’m so sorry for your loss. Reach out if you need a listening ear.

  • @oluchiozumba7122
    @oluchiozumba71224 жыл бұрын

    Wow! Great analogy and very informative. Great job! I love these Ted talks.🙏🏾👍🏾

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @emeugwuegbu5317
    @emeugwuegbu53174 жыл бұрын

    Excellent presentation dear cousin. I was captivated to the very end. So proud of you.

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you cousin. ❤️🙏🏾

  • @jeremymartinez6869
    @jeremymartinez68693 жыл бұрын

    This was inspiring to listen!

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for listening.

  • @tolaniadewole848
    @tolaniadewole8484 жыл бұрын

    Exactly what I needed to hear! I learnt that I can’t do life alone. Don’t rush it, somethings take time. I am not failing, I Just needed more time😀. Thank you!

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m so glad it resonated. Yes, please don’t do life alone.

  • @by_on

    @by_on

    4 жыл бұрын

    Right, don't do life alone 👍🙏

  • @mfonmays5733
    @mfonmays57334 жыл бұрын

    Very powerful. Gives you different ways to analyze life

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m glad. Thank you!

  • @charlesmiller8286
    @charlesmiller82863 жыл бұрын

    Emme your talking is very inspiring,I learnt a lot.

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @HeyShawnQ
    @HeyShawnQ4 жыл бұрын

    This is SO GOOD!

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @meriesegovender3286
    @meriesegovender32864 жыл бұрын

    Amazing analogy🌼

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @jetmirarema1563
    @jetmirarema15634 жыл бұрын

    I watched the video and found it very interesting!🙂

  • @IncomingThought
    @IncomingThought3 жыл бұрын

    REally enjoyed meeting you in Clubhouse. Thank you for sharing your unique perspectives on what ironing can teach you. Ben Chai. PS Ironically I enjoy ironing ;-)

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Ben. So good meeting you on Clubhouse and listening to the wisdom you shared. I’ve learned to cherish those who enjoy ironing, almost as much as those who enjoy matching socks after laundry, ha! Thank you for listening.

  • @caerusnetreferralteamsoffi944
    @caerusnetreferralteamsoffi9446 күн бұрын

    Now I know why you hate irons. But without them, we'd be all wrinkles! Great talk, Em!

  • @kemistrykemidada9256
    @kemistrykemidada92564 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this well delivered speech.🙏 It's indeed true that no man is an Island. We need a strong support base. It's also important to learn from our 'wrinkles', even while the heat of the iron is being applied. It's funny you mentioned the hairdresser because I have that relationship with mine. 🤣

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    I get it. My friend is a hairdresser and she just shared with me that many of her clients have that relationship with her too. Thank you for watching and for your beautiful comment.

  • @delilahbardlette
    @delilahbardlette Жыл бұрын

    Bravo 👏🏾

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for listening!

  • @xtravaganzapluswithusenika103
    @xtravaganzapluswithusenika1034 жыл бұрын

    I learned a few things from this talk Emem, well done 👍🏼

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much and thanks for watching!

  • @lorijones3637
    @lorijones36374 жыл бұрын

    Very engaging ❤️

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @ronnyrossi3206
    @ronnyrossi32064 жыл бұрын

    I love irony 😝, I can totally relate

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Haha! Thank you. 😆

  • @stacyegbo1
    @stacyegbo13 жыл бұрын

    Learn from what you hate doing !

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes, it’s possible! Which lesson resonated with you most?

  • @stacyegbo1

    @stacyegbo1

    3 жыл бұрын

    The heat irons out the wrinkles

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    3 жыл бұрын

    Stacy Egbo awesome! ❤️🙏🏾

  • @deleteexistence6175
    @deleteexistence61753 жыл бұрын

    Your iron should have just told you to buy an ironing board and be more patient. You only really need to buy it once, occasionally you might need to replace the cover. Also then the board and the iron will have its place (organised) and the ironing process will have its spot.

  • @deleteexistence6175

    @deleteexistence6175

    3 жыл бұрын

    The lesson from that is to just get some things you put off out the way and it makes your life less stressful in the long run.

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    3 жыл бұрын

    Interesting

  • @bowlocheerios
    @bowlocheerios4 жыл бұрын

    Iron? Like ironing clothes?

  • @EmemWashington

    @EmemWashington

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yep

  • @manelkh3706
    @manelkh37064 жыл бұрын

    Are we seriously doing this? These talks are getting ridiculous

  • @tolaniadewole848

    @tolaniadewole848

    4 жыл бұрын

    Did you listen to it?

  • @quincyn4010

    @quincyn4010

    4 жыл бұрын

    Doing what ...why don’t u go out there and make your own talk. Look in the mirror and you will see what ridiculous is. Someone needs some heat here...

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