Let's Catch Up!! Post-Breakup Healing Process, Spirituality and London

hi friends, welcome to this rambly lil video where I chat about where I am in my post-breakup journey, the power of creative expression to help process feelings, my current relationship to spirituality and exciting life updates like going to Coachella (!!). as always, this community has been such a point of inspiration and connection for me in this rocky few months and i'm sending the biggest hugs through the internet!! thank you for being in this lil corner of the internet 💌
Timestamps:
00:00 welcome!! lil intro
1:00 1: Hosting a Creative Night: Using Painful Feelings as Inspiration
3:23 Where I am in my Breakup Process (reading you my piece)
14:16 2: My Relationship to Spirituality
15:10 being offered my dream job -- and declining it
15:27 Anam Cara book by John O'Donohue
16:14 Tarot Cards as a Tool for Self-Reflection
19:05 3: Coachella
20:52 Feeling Alone and Missing my Ex: The Fluctuating Healing Process
23:11 Finding Peace Within
Music:
Music by Breathing Piano - The Quiet Creek - thmatc.co/?l=F2FC63E4
Music by HAI KU - If It Must Be So - thmatc.co/?l=8B7FDDFA
✨ CONTACT ME ✨
Business Enquiries: unjadedjade@sixteenth.co
Instagram - @unjadedjade
TikTok: @unjadedjade
🌞 MORE 🌞
Casual Magic of the Day: i cleaned my whole apartment and it feels so FRESH! tidy space, tidy mind ;)
Song of the Day:
Currently Reading:
What are YOU grateful for today?
FAQ:
How old are you? ~ 24
Where are you from? ~ The UK! Near London.
Where did you go to university? ~ Minerva Schools at KGI
One of the best decisions you ever made? ~ Taking a gap year!
if no one has told you today, you are enough. 💛

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  • @UnJadedJade
    @UnJadedJade28 күн бұрын

    hiiiiii friends!! let's catch up like we're on facetime

  • @joaodotcodes

    @joaodotcodes

    28 күн бұрын

    Well, thats facetiming a lot of people!! Hah

  • @UnJadedJade

    @UnJadedJade

    28 күн бұрын

    @@joaodotcodes hahaha I love that whenever I meet you guys in person it feels so seamless to get to know you!!

  • @Ahhbove_

    @Ahhbove_

    28 күн бұрын

    Jade keep living✨

  • @rhythmicelegance4670

    @rhythmicelegance4670

    28 күн бұрын

    Ralph Smart says in his videos he’s Facetiming his audience from out in nature ☀️😎

  • @goodie6636

    @goodie6636

    28 күн бұрын

    Hi Jade, I love that you want to engage in relationship with spirituality.. I believe the only, best and peaceful way to is to come to Jesus Christ. You're a sweet soul and Jesus has made a way for you and everyone to be their best self and also have a wholesome loving relationship with Him. I hope you reflect on this and also study and seek to know Jesus as well ❤

  • @mahima_queen
    @mahima_queen28 күн бұрын

    2:15 oh my god i misheard it as something elseeee and i was like whaaaaa

  • @MelHamilton-Brown

    @MelHamilton-Brown

    28 күн бұрын

    Me too lol

  • @user-ut7rw4gm3b

    @user-ut7rw4gm3b

    28 күн бұрын

    I genuinely can’t understand what she’s actually saying hahahah

  • @UnJadedJade

    @UnJadedJade

    28 күн бұрын

    hahahaa wait this is so funny, it's pizza and SNACKS gurl

  • @icephoenix1932

    @icephoenix1932

    28 күн бұрын

    Nah but what did she really say??

  • @yasminagomez8969

    @yasminagomez8969

    28 күн бұрын

    Sameee

  • @kevmoon3920
    @kevmoon392028 күн бұрын

    Jadeeeee you neeed to make a video about EVERYTHING about friendships: how to make friends, how to grow friendship, how to let go. You inspire me so much ilyyy❤❤

  • @RikkeGade

    @RikkeGade

    28 күн бұрын

    She already did one video on friendships :) kzread.info/dash/bejne/rHlmuJKKm7moqcY.html

  • @nancyl5941
    @nancyl594127 күн бұрын

    You have SUCH a gift with words Jade. That written piece was mind blowing, vulnerable, and gorgeously articulated. Keep journaling!! And keep them documented!! Thank you so much yet again ❤💎

  • @rimshahmaryam1377
    @rimshahmaryam137728 күн бұрын

    Jadeeee your voice, it is so therapeutic, your gifts of creativity are truly flowing, your energy a blessing

  • @UnJadedJade

    @UnJadedJade

    28 күн бұрын

    bless you, thank you for sending *your* gorgeous energy my way

  • @islamaunder7015
    @islamaunder701527 күн бұрын

    I was reunited with my favourite word recently, "sonder", which means: "The profound feeling of realizing that everyone, including strangers passing in the street, has a life as complex as one's own, which they are constantly living despite one's personal lack of awareness of it." I think we can all find strength and community in our collective yet individual struggles ❤ Always reminds me of the power of kindness.

  • @palesaramurunzi5035

    @palesaramurunzi5035

    20 күн бұрын

    there’s a cafe I really love in Cape Town South Africa with that name 🥹

  • @tora3584
    @tora358426 күн бұрын

    9:25 "i craved my independent 16-year-old self, hidden safely in her books, heart untouched and whole." JADEEEEE PLS THIS MADE ME TEAR UP😭i am seven months post-breakup and also a year since discovering that i too, am queer (nonbinary & aroace!). with the help of medication and determination, i have found myself now, at 23, feeling drawn to the things i devoured prior to romantic relationships and even technology, like reading again, going to the library, the desire to volunteer at places. i had to let the leech as you put it, drain me, and it still is, but i think it's almost done. thank you for being so vulnerable. sending you so much love💎

  • @UnJadedJade

    @UnJadedJade

    26 күн бұрын

    🥺🥺🥺 wow, thank you for sharing

  • @hamnahjujara3035
    @hamnahjujara303527 күн бұрын

    that piece had me sobbing, crying and it felt like someone was speaking my heart out!!!!!!!!!!!!!i love you jade. we got this

  • @UnJadedJade

    @UnJadedJade

    27 күн бұрын

    🥹🥹🥹🥹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

  • @sarah.93.30
    @sarah.93.3028 күн бұрын

    Hi Jade, I have to say that's as the most honest and transparent I have seen anyone be online and I truly appreciate it. Im a 30 year old Irish gal about to move to London in September for a 2 year MSc in Physiotherapy. I first truly experienced the loneliness of London last summer during an internship, and I am feeling very nervous and apprehensive about moving there again to experience the loneliness all over again. Isn't it astounding that in a city packed full of people, we feel the loneliness! Anyway thank you for your honesty in your videos. It's so refreshing and just what I needed to hear today. Stay safe and well. Perhaps il bump into you on the pearly streets of London ☺💕

  • @rittv5005

    @rittv5005

    27 күн бұрын

    Agreed, love your authenticity Jade! Such a great quality, making you relatable :)

  • @freeda9971
    @freeda997128 күн бұрын

    💎 As a person who has English as a second language, omg, your writing is stunning. I love that as a British, you use various vocabulary and use the language in such a beautiful way. I saw your story about John O'Donohue's interview on his book Beauty and immediately listened to it. It touched me so much when I needed it most. I bought Anam Cara and Beauty. I really can't wait to start reading them. Thank you for inspiring us in the most authentic way, Jade. ❤

  • @meghnaprakash6991

    @meghnaprakash6991

    26 күн бұрын

    Truly! In the most authentic, uplifting way. Your writing gave me goosebumps!

  • @innocentthing4423
    @innocentthing442325 күн бұрын

    Can I just say it is amazing that you wrote that in an hour, you express your thoughts do beautifullyy, my diary is just full of 'lols and whatevs' 😂 also it felt like listening to my own life, being 16 driven and independent and then 22/23 in a loving relationship but feeling trapped

  • @naomi-jh8nj
    @naomi-jh8nj28 күн бұрын

    This entire rude awakening from hyper-independence and the hurts that come with living, really living, in touch with your needs and feeling and all, I relate to it entirely. It is extremely humbling, extremely painful as someone who's been nearly identical to you as a teenager. Thank you for sharing this. It made me feel connected, especially being surrounded by people who never seemed to have this jarring curve ❤💎

  • @maneskinnnnn7190

    @maneskinnnnn7190

    25 күн бұрын

    he richness of life does not come from being alone FOR YOU, but for some prefer being alone, always remember you are speaking from your own perspective, your opinions and perspectives are not facts, for me i am happiest when single, i have been in many relationships, very happy ones where i was so in love. however for me and many women proabably older than you, we prefer to be single, i dont even have friends but i am so happy, with me my cats, my art. studies have proven single childless women are the happiest and healthiest demographic. however society conditions women that we need men to be happy, this is false

  • @ahteshamahmad9410
    @ahteshamahmad941028 күн бұрын

    In the realms of beauty, she shines like a star, Her radiance surpassing, near and far. Her eyes, like pools of celestial light, Draw hearts closer, igniting love's might. 🧿❤

  • @UnJadedJade

    @UnJadedJade

    28 күн бұрын

    gahhh thank you for being here and for your lovely words!! 💌

  • @ahteshamahmad9410

    @ahteshamahmad9410

    28 күн бұрын

    @@UnJadedJade thanks to you jade for being with me supporting through your videos. 🧿❤

  • @Izzyyyyy66
    @Izzyyyyy6613 күн бұрын

    Hey Jade! I'm only 16 right now, but whilst watching this video I got the urge to put down a comment for the first time - it actually makes me a bit nervous. But I just wanted to say that watching your emotionally frank and humane videos really help during the stressful time of taking GCSEs right now. You inspired me to be self-compassionate and you allowed me to acknowledge the importance of honouring my emotions! So thanks sm! :)

  • @eleanorwellman5024
    @eleanorwellman502427 күн бұрын

    I moved alone to Australia at the beginning of this year and the homesickness has really been hitting me lately. I was literally writing yesterday about how it's so hard sometimes to be an adult and be expected to always pick yourself up. Some days you're thriving but others you just want a hug and to be safe with people who know you. Thank you for being so vulnerable, just opening up and talking about these kinds of experiences can bring a lot of comfort. Sending lots of love from down under!! 💎🩵✨️

  • @zazajf

    @zazajf

    23 күн бұрын

    I'm also in Australia! Although I've lived here my whole life. Which state are you in, if you don't mind sharing?

  • @user-rd1lr6fk6x
    @user-rd1lr6fk6x27 күн бұрын

    Jade, your videos feel like a warm safe hug. I feel so seen, so human. I appreciate you being so vulnerable with us more than anything, creating this wonderful lovely welcoming corner of the internet. This is a safe space that i hope we can all come to when we need that sense of comfort and encouragement. We are never alone in what we are going through . We are so proud of you. You are a gem 💎!

  • @vasudhamukherjee2590
    @vasudhamukherjee259027 күн бұрын

    jade!!! your piece was so so beautiful. you are so good at articualting your pain. as someone who has experienced something very similar recently, i relate to you on such a spiritual level. i just wanted to come on here and i say i am so proud of you. it takes so much strength and courage to take the step that you did. i also find it so crazy that someone living on the other side of the world somehow so perfectly encapsulates all of my fears about adulthood. so much love and power to you jade. you make me feel less alone in this arduous journey.

  • @haleyboyd1012
    @haleyboyd101228 күн бұрын

    The way you’re true to your emotions during this period in your life is so inspiring to me. Having recently broken up with a serious partner, I often feel that parasite within me as well. Thank you for your vulnerability. ❤️

  • @-argent42vb
    @-argent42vb28 күн бұрын

    Hi Jade!! I've just seen this video and I felt the need to write. I've been following you for a while and having discovered this little corner of the internet is one of the most healing and beautiful things that has happened to me this year. You know, we live in a society that wants us to believe that living fast, following new trends and doing what the majority does without even reflecting about it... is the right thing to do. If you want to act differently, just to be original and yourself is very frustrating sometimes. My intuition tells me not to be like that, but then I ask myself, "Am I the only one who doesn't want to follow the mass?". Then I see your videos, and I see this beautiful person you are and I just feel so happy because it proves that I am not alone and that there is people like me, who think like me and want to show their true selves to the world, not a mold that the masses have created. Jade, you're a VITAMIN PERSON, you make others feel better because you radiate positive energy, but most importantly because you are unique. You have helped me so much these last few months. I feel more conscious and spiritual, not afraid of embracing and loving my authentic self. I still can't believe how brave you were in sharing this with the world. It's amazing. And this channel is art, you are art. We love you, Jade💜🌻🦋 PS: your smile has healing powers, don't ever stop smiling!💎🥰

  • @viktorgrezu7874
    @viktorgrezu787428 күн бұрын

    JADE you are truly a blessing 💎 You deserve a comment section that feels like home because you genuinely inspire each and every one of us.

  • @wintergirl8101
    @wintergirl810125 күн бұрын

    💎i've been seeing you on youtube since last 5 years, i've seen all of those journeys via this small corner of internet, and i feel like i myself went through soo many phases and glow ups and glow downs all these years, but however the times were, i always kept coming back to you, and this place. Kinda felt like i grew up with you..all along this journey. And i just wanna say this that you always makes me strive to become the better and most authentic version of myself. I never go empty handed from any of your video you make. Thanks for being one of my most unjaded casual magic of all time on this internet!!🌻

  • @clara-mb1vu
    @clara-mb1vu28 күн бұрын

    your ring is so so lovely. it compliments your eyes in the prettiest way!

  • @UnJadedJade

    @UnJadedJade

    28 күн бұрын

    eeeep thank you so much!! my mum got it for me for my birthday and i love it so much

  • @carolinavillanueva9350
    @carolinavillanueva935027 күн бұрын

    Hi Jade. Thank you, first of all, for opening up to us. You are a true inspiration for out generation, an make the internet feel like a safe space, and not such a draining place. I am going through a tough growing up process (according to my psychologist) and it's so hard. I feel seen by you, and I love watching your videos. Would love to hug you right now. Thank you for everything, our jewell ;) 💎

  • @user-ww2tb7et4o
    @user-ww2tb7et4o27 күн бұрын

    Jade, you beautiful, kind soul!! You are a light in the world!! Thank you for sharing the deepest parts of you. You have no idea how many people you help unconsciously… sending you so much love❤

  • @malenafelici8475
    @malenafelici847525 күн бұрын

    Jade, a huge thank you for always being so open and the most gorgeous representation of honesty and vulnerability. You can't even imagine how healing and relieving is to hear your thoughts and reflections. Please keep doing what you are doing, because you are doing it amazingly. A big hug from Argentina!💎

  • @bristeeleenabasu
    @bristeeleenabasu28 күн бұрын

    jade, to see you embrace the process makes me loves u more, you're doing an amazing job !! loads of love ❤

  • @fareehabadar922
    @fareehabadar92227 күн бұрын

    These are my favourite kinds of videos from you jade! I love your honesty, it makes me feel so heard and understood. I've learnt how to sit with my uncomfortable emotions and find beauty in the fact that life is never constant. Thank you

  • @victoriavonvoigt5768
    @victoriavonvoigt576828 күн бұрын

    Jade, you are THE gem, you have no idea how much i needed this! 💎 It's crazy, because i'm on a long car ride rn (not driving myself) and i was feeling the post-breakup blues so intensely, and then my thoughts moved on to "i wonder how Jade is coping" and next thing i know, i get the notification for the most relatable video...! Thank you ❤️

  • @amyryan535
    @amyryan53528 күн бұрын

    “Is iomaí bláth a chuireann óige di” is an old Irish seanfhocail (proverb) that my Irish teacher gave me before leaving school 2 years ago and one I often think of. It roughly translates to “There are many layers to youth”. I am currently in a similar situation to you Jade, battling between being independent and dependent. To me, this proverb reminds me that we can be both, and that that’s ok!🦋☘️

  • @teenagegirl43
    @teenagegirl4327 күн бұрын

    Your writing is beautiful and felt really relatable in a way that made me feel both sad and happy simultaneously. Thanks for your vulnerability, I think you touched a lot of people in a positive way 💕

  • @ASMRfleur
    @ASMRfleur27 күн бұрын

    💎 Aarrgghh sweet Jade. You just.... inspire me deeply. As a 24 year old -in her post burnout, heartbreak and spiritual era I resonate to your content so much. Your realness, rawness and your vulnerability in sharing these bits of yourself are so valuable. You've mentioned before how you feel the internet needs more realness (agreed) and I feel like you're a prime example of being the change you want to see (slay). As someone who creates content too (on a VERY different scale and a different genre) I often overthink too on what to share, how to share that etc., how things are being perceived and if I'll be understood. But you're a beautiful reminder to me on how this intimacy can bring so much connection. Honestly.. can we just exchange digital friendship bracelets, sit on a bed in dim lighting (salt lamps & fairy lights) with hot tea, read tarot cards, philosophise about life, meditate and share our feelings?

  • @amekaweston5472

    @amekaweston5472

    26 күн бұрын

    💎 Aww your content looks so cool! 🧡

  • @JoB822
    @JoB82228 күн бұрын

    2:15 am I hearing that right?? 😭

  • @UnJadedJade

    @UnJadedJade

    28 күн бұрын

    bruh i said pizza and snacks 😭

  • @joaodotcodes

    @joaodotcodes

    28 күн бұрын

    Hmmmm… yeah i had to replay that too. Of course you can have that thing with others but still with people you dont know anything about…

  • @EggyEggPie

    @EggyEggPie

    28 күн бұрын

    LMAO i didn't even notice how that sounded-

  • @anetasvrcinova5782

    @anetasvrcinova5782

    28 күн бұрын

    Hahaha same I had to replay that 😂😂😂

  • @angelatanganagba8273

    @angelatanganagba8273

    28 күн бұрын

    @@UnJadedJade OMG I WAS SHOCKED 😭

  • @liahlow1435
    @liahlow143528 күн бұрын

    When you said that the leech might be reborn as well I cried. You were so nice to a dark part.

  • @heatherstanley8227
    @heatherstanley822725 күн бұрын

    💎 hi Jade! This is such a beautiful video (I’m obsessed with your writing!), thank you for being so genuine & open. I’m 20 and I’ve never been in a romantic relationship, so while I can’t relate to the roller coaster of going through a breakup, I can relate to the struggle of wanting to be simultaneously independent-to care for yourself-and to be cared for. I think your content really has a way of helping people feel connected through these types of shared experiences, and I hope reading the comments helps you feel less alone too 🫶🏻

  • @krishaparmar7364
    @krishaparmar736428 күн бұрын

    Jade your timing is soo good! I was just having a bad day , i totally lost all my motivation to keep going....... feeling very low today for some reason! .......but then you posted this video , i needed to hear this! You inspire me soo much ! 💗✨

  • @Vitoria-rv7bx
    @Vitoria-rv7bx28 күн бұрын

    Hi Jade! As always, such a beautiful video! The piece you read was mind-blowingly beautiful. It was raw, it was beautifully written, it contained bits and pieces of normal life layered with deep emotions and reflections. It was absolute art. I think it could even maybe deserve a whole video of its own. It was truly, truly beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing it!

  • @user-kq9ge2fd3t
    @user-kq9ge2fd3t28 күн бұрын

    Hi Jade, I was waiting for your new video and can’t wait to watch it! ❤️ You helped me through a life changing journey the last few months and my little journal is full of quotes that you said. Your videos mean a lot. 🦋

  • @amila1084
    @amila108427 күн бұрын

    💎dear jade, thank you so so so much for what you're doing. you know, every time i watch your video i tear up, but those are tears from sheer happiness and solace from seeing how strongly you react to everything that comes your way and how you stay positive no matter what happens. you've taught me so many things awww. sending you rays of warm sunshine🥺💗☀

  • @ameliek5668
    @ameliek566828 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your radical vulnerability, watching your videos is so healing in so many ways, every time. Thank you Jade

  • @kierabelson4021
    @kierabelson402128 күн бұрын

    💎 jadeeeee thank you so much for sharing these parts of your life with us!!! every time i watch one of your videos i feel so seen :)) i currently dealing with a question of spirituality and faith, but as a stem girlie it feels so counterintuitive to lean into that! it’s so nice to hear that we don’t have to pick one or the other but that whatever makes us happiest is the best choice

  • @aparajitaprabhu1947
    @aparajitaprabhu194725 күн бұрын

    💎I absolutely adored this video Jade… the vulnerability you give us Jade, like we’re your close friends, is so honouring And I just feel so deeply connected to you, and learning with you…. The whole section on spirituality and how you are entering this phase of your life is so eye-opening and just enhances my creative juices ten-fold, just purely by how the topics you bring up just expand my perspective… I just feel like anything is possible when I see you Jade💎

  • @anasagebiel3647
    @anasagebiel364727 күн бұрын

    Jade!!!! Every upload you do makes me absolutely swell with excitement and I am just so thankful for your insight and reflection and vulnerability on this lil corner on the internet ❤ I’ll be in London at the end of June and it makes me so happy to know I’ll temporarily share a city with you! I’m about to enter my 20s and it’s so enlightening to hear your reflections on growing pains of this period of life 🦋✨💎sending you so much love!!

  • @malavikaps5015
    @malavikaps501528 күн бұрын

    you are a gem💎im going through a similar experience and this feels so validating, im in tears. the pain truly feels neverending.

  • @christiebecerril8113
    @christiebecerril811328 күн бұрын

    You are a diamond, healing is a long and not straightforward process but you are a queen and you will get through. Wishing for you to experience your new rebirth with so much joy and happiness

  • @lucielenoble2795
    @lucielenoble279527 күн бұрын

    This video is so precious to me Jade. Your courage to just be you, to show authenticity and vunerability on social media is something so precious to me. Really you are such a kind and lovely human 💕 Send you lots of love and let's go spirituality!! 💎💎💎!! PS: I recently read your book which I believe is indeed the best study guide I could have ever needed because of how great it was written. I wish every student would read it because of how amazing it really is. They would learn so much. Thank you for writting it!!

  • @kaciesjourney
    @kaciesjourney25 күн бұрын

    I don’t usually comment on anything but you are such a beautiful and special person and I’m sure you know that but it needs to be said! This channel is my safe space and I’m learning that whatever happens in life everything will be okay. Thank you for sharing your journey of life 💕

  • @Health.Nutrition_Dana
    @Health.Nutrition_Dana26 күн бұрын

    Omg Jade you don’t know how much I needed to watch and see this video I’m going through the same same thing. I had this calling to break up with my ex because I was so stuck and stressed in life and the relationship was not going anywhere and things started to fall apart as expected. I went on long journey of healing and after a while I have visited family and I felt better as soon as i started living alone the blues were crazy and I blamed my self for feeling sad and I started regretting the decision again and felt so alone and I thought I’m not normal and something is wrong with me but after seeing this video I cried and cried feeling so relieved and supported. Thank you Jade and I’m sending you so much love 💎❤❤❤❤

  • @emelieolsson3198
    @emelieolsson319827 күн бұрын

    Hi Jade! It really does feel like I am catching up with my friend when I watch your videos. I loved listening to your writing, the way you use words, it was so beautiful and powerful.❤ It also brought me so many thoughts on my on life and dealing with both break-ups and loneliness. 💎💎❤

  • @mikalajones8911
    @mikalajones891126 күн бұрын

    that blue crystal is beautiful !! your willingness to open up to yourself and the internet about this time in your life is a true gift 💎 thank you for being here :)

  • @lenaahmed1895
    @lenaahmed189528 күн бұрын

    Hi Jade, That piece you wrote and read..... I'm almost in tears right nowww.... Can relate to the feelings of a semi fresh heartbreak 😭

  • @inesgil6103
    @inesgil610328 күн бұрын

    💎 Jade, is so heart warming and at the same time refreshing, like swimming in the sea during a hot day, to be able to share in your vulnerability and this phase of your life💎 I've know about your channel for years now, but since the major focus of your content was academical, I'd always feel triggered to watch it, cause I've been having procrastination issues during my doctorate😖 But in this phase of your life, as you reconnect with yourself from the ground up, I'm grateful to witness it. I'm reconnecting with my spiritual side as well (trying to find a tarot deck cause the one I made and loved a few years back is starting to crumble😅), and tap into my inner child and higher self, learning about the flow of energy of the universe and all that good stuff so I can Manifest the life of my dreams and be content with my life in every phase❤️✨ Hope this phase and growth serves your better purpose❤️ the rain may make us long for the sun but without it there would be no flowers❤️ Love from Portugal ❤️💎

  • @aniutaecolife8349
    @aniutaecolife834928 күн бұрын

    Oh Jade ♾️ the heart takes time to heal … and the triggers are everywhere and the good moments just replaying … what a great catch up with YOU ! ♥️loads of love and 💎💎💎

  • @KrslnP
    @KrslnP28 күн бұрын

    As someone who lives in London, same age as you and someone who sees themselves as similar to you, I want you to know how strong you are❤️ I love how you embrace your vulnerability and there’s tremendous beauty and strength in accepting it and growing from it. We are all proud of you❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @RikkeGade

    @RikkeGade

    28 күн бұрын

    I bet you're a really nice person too💜💛💜

  • @KrslnP

    @KrslnP

    25 күн бұрын

    @@RikkeGade ❤️

  • @hannahstobart5377
    @hannahstobart537727 күн бұрын

    Had a little cry listening to this - this is EXACTLY how i felt two years ago when i had a break up and it gives me comfort knowing that this is how the healing process is for other people too! the leech analogy is so relatable 💎💎💎

  • @Artandnatureloveeee
    @Artandnatureloveeee27 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video. My breakup is 2 years ago and I still am not over it. Thank you so much for sharing. It helped me so much to accept my own feelings more. When I broke up I feel like a lot of people were like “yes but you are young …” “yes but you have your whole life before you …” “yes but but but …” I feel like partly why my healing process is taking so long is that I have the expectation that it should be ok by now. Which it is not. Actually I’m kind of proud that it’s taking so long, because it shows that I took this serious and it’s not as easy as everyone says. Actually kind of proud of myself

  • @morganlahm9381

    @morganlahm9381

    26 күн бұрын

    Hey! You may not hear this a lot, but how you feel is valid. Break ups are super hard, and to be honest, we can't control how we feel for someone else. It just happens. I bet you are doing great things for yourself and trying your best! I personally broke up with someone who I knew I loved more than they loved me. It's been 5 months. Today is her birthday and it really sucks not to be with her. I think you have a wonderful perspective on how you feel, and I fear I may not be over this for a long time as well. I know I took my relationship very seriously for sure as well. Getting over a relationship that meant so much to you is so hard. I hope this can get easier for both of us.

  • @1111sm..
    @1111sm..27 күн бұрын

    Jade..we are in this together..I love ur authenticity..been following you for so long and so proud of how far you've came..sending you soo much love❤

  • @emiliaa.g
    @emiliaa.g28 күн бұрын

    hi jade🦋 thank you for your honesty and willingness to share your thoughts and feelings so vulnerably - your words were beautiful and the leech metaphor was brilliant. you‘re such an inspiration to me and remind me to be kind to myself. sending you so much love and patience and good energy

  • @annemijnriezebos3523
    @annemijnriezebos352324 күн бұрын

    💎Wow! This is just an amazing video, it really feels like we are sharing life updates through FaceTime. Thank you for sharing Jade! The words at the end made me almost cry. As I'm now less than a month living on my on for university I understand certain feelings you are going through. The loneliness is sometimes unbearable but this little corner of the internet and your past videos have made me sit in de moment en take the time to feel all the feelings life throws at me right now. Thank you for being here💙

  • @daviddidusca654
    @daviddidusca65427 күн бұрын

    It's refreshing to see authenticity and vulnerability on yt. Keep staying true to yourself, Jade 💎

  • @tanjaranja8311
    @tanjaranja831127 күн бұрын

    🪬🧿 Thank you Jade for being your authentic, vulnerable self! It inspires me everytime I watch your videos. You're a beautiful human being! ❤ Love from the Netherlands (from Friesland!)

  • @Rowena_101
    @Rowena_10127 күн бұрын

    Jade, you write so beautifully! I have been trying to journal, and I will admit the way I write is super different. But I loved listening to you. I have been watching you for about a year now, last year I was doing my a-levels, and I would watch your videos on study tips, and now I enjoy watching and just learning more about you. I am also almost 6 months post-break up, and surprisingly the "leech" sometimes still fights back. At the start of my break up, it fought so hard, that I wrote texts but would always stop myself from sending them, because I knew that I would have to deal with the pain all over again. Know that you are doing well! Keep your head up high, and enjoy life. As you said, you set your own expectations!! 💎

  • @ciaraoshea7246
    @ciaraoshea724628 күн бұрын

    Jade showing off her crystals and tarot book is so cute and wholesome 🥰 spiritual girl era is here!! 💖✨💎 P.s. this is my favorite type of content of urs everrr

  • @Ladybird-rw4fv
    @Ladybird-rw4fv20 күн бұрын

    I am amazed by your authenticity and you inspire me to come to terms with my identity it feels so hard to be yourself in the uncertainty of social life there are so many things to keep up with everyday and you just feel somewhat broken thank you Jade I am sending you all my love to you now❤

  • @ophelia3658
    @ophelia365828 күн бұрын

    Thank u for sharing your journey with us my cutie Jade. You're glowing and I love you so much💕✨ You're a gem! 💎

  • @UnJadedJade

    @UnJadedJade

    28 күн бұрын

    no YOU're a gem!! you're always the cutest, thank you ily

  • @dodosanddontdonts7032
    @dodosanddontdonts703224 күн бұрын

    I watched your breakup video 2 months ago when I was stressed about my relationship for similar reasons to yours and agonising about how/when to end it. Your video really helped me process my own feelings, because sometimes subtle intuitions that you're being stifled and not quite being able to be yourself any longer are difficult to properly honour as valid so it was really helpful to see someone else bring those to the surface. Now I'm 2 weeks post-breakup and despite the pain feeling proud that I stayed true to how I was really feeling instead of dismissing my internal compass. Just wanted to say thank you for being so brave and vulnerable, because it helped me find a way through this difficult moment in my own life

  • @olivercoulthard5468
    @olivercoulthard546814 күн бұрын

    That piece was beautifully written and straight from your soul. Thank you for daring to be so vulnerable in the harsh times we live in 💎

  • @mellismacka
    @mellismacka24 күн бұрын

    Thank you for opening up and charing Jade. It felt so special to listen to your inner thoughts and feelings 💎

  • @philippascholz4666
    @philippascholz466627 күн бұрын

    💎Love the raw honesty! I am not going through the exact same, but its a sort of break up with a lifestyle and community. Sending you a hug! 💎

  • @tillyrobins8656
    @tillyrobins865624 күн бұрын

    Your voice is the most gentle and soothing voice on social media. And I will forever be grateful to be able to watch your videos. ♥️

  • @melvegter4989
    @melvegter498919 күн бұрын

    The fact that your videos have timestamps makes me so happy for no reason. I never skip any parts of the video but their presence makes me happy

  • @aoifebrowne2302
    @aoifebrowne230228 күн бұрын

    Jade! This is the first video of yours I've watched. I got goosebumps when you mentioned receiving The Artist's Way. Just while I heard your journal entry I thought to suggest this book to you. I have started the programme once before and abandoned it but I have just started it again this morning. One month ago I had a stroke; I'm young and it's been tough but I'm recovering well and decided now is the time to do the Artist's Way oncemore. I also love to write and I can not recommend it more to you or anyone how wants to start creating consistently! The fact I picked this book up again during a hard time and hearing how it arrived on your doorstep again shows me that this is a magical book. There is so much meaning to be found in the toughest stages of life. Good luck to you and everyone who is struggling 💜

  • @UnJadedJade

    @UnJadedJade

    27 күн бұрын

    Wow, thank you so much for sharing your story. I can’t imagine how difficult the stroke and your recovery has been 💛 I’m so glad The Artist’s Way has been so healing for you and this is even more inspiration for me to start the programme!! Lots of love

  • @wangxiao2019
    @wangxiao201927 күн бұрын

    💎💎💎 I've been here since before your graduation journey and at that time i was graduating from high school, i graduated years later than most of my friends, they were already in their university era and i feel so behind in life ashamed and also that was when my depression started to worsen. After finishing high school i should have started university but i didn't, i spent a whole year rooting in bed speak to no one and processing a break up that I realised I never truly processed. It was devastating, it still feels like that most days Thank you for being you and creating this space ❤

  • @KSiquot
    @KSiquot26 күн бұрын

    This is so real! Thank you for sharing the truth about feeling lonely and thinking of your ex in those moments, while still being sure that your break up was necessary and that you are on the best path for your well-being! I am going through something very similar. Sending you lots of love

  • @janjajanja2134
    @janjajanja213426 күн бұрын

    Your videos are like a warm hug everyone needs🥺🥰 Love you❤

  • @belle5653
    @belle565327 күн бұрын

    Gosh Jade, hearing you read your journal was so emotional and confronting but so beautifully written and cathartic. I’m dealing with so many big emotions as I’m going to university in September, and I’m not ready to leave school or my friends or my support system here. It’s so hard to process but you have made it so much easier. Now I’m off to find a journal, and buy some tarot cards. Love you! 💗 💎

  • @pp_nikola
    @pp_nikola26 күн бұрын

    💎💎💎💎 u r my literal teacher and mentor and therapist and just a girl whose honesty and openness i adore sm !

  • @UnJadedJade

    @UnJadedJade

    26 күн бұрын

    gahhhh thank u thank u 🥺

  • @katherinedare
    @katherinedare25 күн бұрын

    Wow, Jade. Your writing is beautiful and really transports the listener into what you're feeling. Great work

  • @Laaurkly
    @Laaurkly28 күн бұрын

    You are incredible sweet Jade💎 You are helping me so so much on my own healing journey towards the light from the darkness of something different yet pain is pain and we are alchemists. Sending love and hugs and friendship kisses from across the sea in Ireland xxx

  • @gabrielapegas6407
    @gabrielapegas640722 күн бұрын

    Jane, I'm so grateful for your videos. Sometimes, when I had a bad day or when my anxiety is kicking in, I just come here and listen to you and feel like myself again. Just like a little catch up with a person that I truly respect :) Everything is going to be fine, you're strong enough, we all are ❤💎

  • @roxanelemcharki9571
    @roxanelemcharki957128 күн бұрын

    Beautiful writing 💙Thank you for sharing your human feelings in such a poetic way

  • @crunchygreeny
    @crunchygreeny28 күн бұрын

    I am currently on a gap year and I always used to place my own self worth in my grades, my logic and my own professional development. the pursuit of romance felt useless to me. just like you, I got three a stars at A Level and placed a lot of value in my own educational pursuits. over the course of this gap year, its like ive finally managed to come into contact with my emotional side, and ive started to appreciate the importance of having people around. watching your videos is so refreshing and I relate to you so much :) keep inspiring people Jade

  • @sarahoglesby8381
    @sarahoglesby838124 күн бұрын

    You are such a beautiful writer Jade, and thank you for sharing this, it will be relatable for so many people 💌

  • @meganhughesyt
    @meganhughesyt26 күн бұрын

    Jade you're a ray a sunshine. You've been through a difficult time but it sounds like you're coming out stronger 💕

  • @khyatiyadav9456
    @khyatiyadav945628 күн бұрын

    💎💎💎💎💎this video was so wholesome. The way you read your journal was amazing. I could feel every emotion through your words. It could be hard to put these things out in public but it is helpful for so Many people who are going through the same phase in their lives. I wish you all the happiness in the world. Thanks for putting out this video❤

  • @camillaalesi8955
    @camillaalesi895526 күн бұрын

    What you just read was one of the most beautiful things I have ever heard ❤️

  • @angelicnic777
    @angelicnic77725 күн бұрын

    that writing touched me so beautifully thank u for sharing jade

  • @aurorahughes2696
    @aurorahughes269616 күн бұрын

    Ahhh Jade! I could say so much but I’ll try to keep it concise. I feel so connected to you and your experiences, especially in the this phase of life. You’re going through a major breakup after a multi year relationship at the same time as me. I feel like a mirror to your experiences, it’s very similar to what I have been going through. You write so beautifully and so eloquently about everything I have been feeling. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing. I feel seen and known. “I am biting back” ❤💎

  • @fernandamena9461
    @fernandamena946124 күн бұрын

    Wow, I loved what you wrote. Thank you so much for sharing your feelings with us, this is your safe space. I cannot express how much I relate to a lot of the things that you wrote in your journal. I could see myself represented in your powerful words. Hearing you felt like a deep warm hug from a dear friend.

  • @katieclark401
    @katieclark40121 күн бұрын

    Wow, thank you so much for sharing you post breakup written piece. That was truly something special. Your use of language is so skilful but accessible, you truly have a gift!

  • @deliberatelydawdling
    @deliberatelydawdling26 күн бұрын

    I love that you randomly got The Artist's Way! I own that book but have never started it. As a 34 year old who's also currently in a death/rebirth situation, I am so impressed and inspired by you! Sending you peace and light in your journey 🎉 (this is me shooting the peace and light to you from the USA haha)

  • @leila_axo
    @leila_axo21 күн бұрын

    Thank you for sharing ur writing w us! The way you encapsulate ur words are so beautiful🌸✨I feel so seen! Ur videos feel like such a comforting & safe space to go to when I’m feeling down💗💗

  • @musaacuminata7972
    @musaacuminata797223 күн бұрын

    i've been following for some time now, and I love how your self reflections also resonates with me too! 💎💗

  • @NaoNao-vx7ps
    @NaoNao-vx7ps16 күн бұрын

    I recently broke up with my boyfriend for similar reasons. He is an incredible person (emphasis on incredible) but this part of me kept getting louder and louder. I am having difficulties trying to not regret my choice to leave this person but to move forward and your video helped me put words on so many emotions. Thank you so much jade 💎

  • @chelseydixon3917
    @chelseydixon391727 күн бұрын

    Theres something so beautiful and pure about raw spoken poetry ❤️

  • @marferrer24
    @marferrer2428 күн бұрын

    Your videos are like a warm hug💕

  • @philippinevialar
    @philippinevialar24 күн бұрын

    Dear Jade, I am only half way through this video and it is so refreshing. Overall, your openness on what early adulthood can look like is refreshing ! I am myself in my early 20s and I feel you. The ever changing events of life that challenge us in so many ways ! Still, I have faith in the fact that we are all living our very own path, one that we will learn to like (if not already). So, thank you for your presence here, the quality of your content ! Also, you are such a great storyteller ! This journaling piece is a piece of literature !! Sending you love and support from Paris ;)

  • @bursucantonia-luciana9380
    @bursucantonia-luciana938028 күн бұрын

    I cannot express how much I love this video ❤ Thank you so much! Also the crystal 🔮 💎

  • @alexyeloyeva1435
    @alexyeloyeva143526 күн бұрын

    ❤thank you for the video and bravery to be so open and sharing personal journey online. Also, I just love how you make even things completely outside of my interest, seem fascinating. I never thought of being into it, but hearing you talk I can see what you see there - how beautiful and unique natures creations can be. Architecture of color and light 💎

  • @elenawatkiss6354
    @elenawatkiss635422 күн бұрын

    In a world that is go go go and everyone in their own bubble with busyness of their own lives, consumerism, distractions your videos are such a lovely break from that. I am going through my own spiritual journey after dealing with anxiety/panic which was wake up call from my own distractions and busyness. It was message from my body telling me I needed to stop and I needed desparately to pay attention to myself in very intimate and real way, which meant facing my difficult and uncomfortable emotions. Your videos are such blessing because this journey can feel so isolating especially in western society, you show me that I am not alone. 💎

  • @rosestormwolf
    @rosestormwolf25 күн бұрын

    I definitely feel the same way about journaling, and this video really is just reminding me to take the time to sit down and let my thoughts flow onto the page