This is one of the reasons why l am always a nice person when l meet people. Some people are dealing with real life problems and we deny them of a smile, a decent conversation or grab a bite and separate without asking anything from them. That gesture on its own consoles hearts be it they show appreciation or not you would have done your part

No sign of remorse of this woman on this first episode😢😢😢 and the mama with red cap is good mediator 🙌🙌🙌 God bless you

The second family made me cry... I'm happy that tamkhulu found his brother and you can tell they really love each other.

@bekezelanyathi2550

4 жыл бұрын

Mxxxm akaphelelanga

First family the girls are better off without the mother she's rude and the husband it's so painful girl's be strong and forget about her 🙏

@zulujanet6090

4 жыл бұрын

Seems she is mentally disturbed

@patiencechivunge8515

4 жыл бұрын

Akekho mama onje mara uhamba ezala ayi ezinyen ihlanya god have fovour on them

@siphokazimpofu1990

4 жыл бұрын

@@zulujanet6090 shes not usile qha .....ungcolile lo mama skaa

@zetmbonambi4425

2 жыл бұрын

Ist episode, the hate the mother have for her ex prevent her to even pretend to love her kids. Men abuse ruin people's hearts and brain.But this woman usile cos she continued making kids for other man while she abandoned elder ones. She is now comfortable with a new man in better environment so she see her kids as threath to her new family. So heartless 💔😪

@vusumuzivolly

Ай бұрын

Baza khawula , ufune umama kho noma ubaba wakho yena ukube akaku funi - then uthole onunye ubuhlungu Nabo labantwana baza khawula ....

Wow so heartless, she doesn't regret, what picture is she painting for women who have sacrifice for their kids. Very sad moment indeed, khumbulekhaya thank to the field team, camera crews and top management, thumbs up

@joyceskosana5048

2 жыл бұрын

What kind of a mother is this just rubbish heartles kind of a person nonses mother 💔💔🙊🙊🙆🙆😭😭👊

The lady in red cap. Thanks for trying 💖

2ND Story, God really kept this people for him. The whole family are senior citizens.

I love the way they welcomed the old man in the second family..They do not have much but they are a very big, loving and caring family .. They've just made me to notice how much I miss my late grandfather ..NdingumXhosakazi nam, ndiyawuthandwa lomzi mkhulu wakwa Xhosa ..asilahlani thina ..I soooo love this family ..especially the younger brother Tatu Makwedini yuuuh uthando lwenu bethunani

Beauty ❤️❤️💖her approach is 👌enjoyed watching this episode

Happy for the second family ,God is great 🙏🙏🙏

1st story, heart breaking 💔 de girls ar better off without de so called mother. 2nd story ✊brothers for life, I luv it👏

What an amazing 2nd family 😭😭😭😭🙏🏾. No questions asked, just a warm welcome home! Awhhh he still sees his siblings as they were in the 80’s when he left! So cute at his surprise that they’re now grannies as he is💕💕💕. This made me cry. Truly beautiful.

i loved that "That's good!"...from the old man

That woman in the first case is just something else. No remorse, no regret..... Sending those girls hugs! God's got you. Leave it to Him.

Second family they are very kind loving family the brother welcomed his long lost brother with open arms I wish my family are as loving as that family

@p.k.2220

4 жыл бұрын

Nami ngithandile kakhulu ukubona uthando olungaka.

@MiriamlkKgaswane

9 күн бұрын

That was great happy people love them ​@@p.k.2220

The second family, when the brother cried, I cried along with him 😪😪😪😪😪

@martinmogotsi3394

Жыл бұрын

I smiled the whole second story... Uncle is still full of jokes..😊😊😊

Wow, brothers for life. We salute them

@martinmogotsi3394

Жыл бұрын

I can watch the second families story over and over again

Its so sad to see your parent not welcoming you with excitement after such a long time. Those girls are traumatised and they need counselling after what their mother told them she doesn't regret leaving them with their grandmother. On the second episode, it was so good to see the younger brother welcoming his elder brother with love and so much happiness. I really applaud the family for accepting the old man and how i wish i had such a family. I miss my late brother when i see such love and its so emotional. Big up Khumbulekhaya for a job well done.

The brothers 😭😭❤❤

Nombulelo’s husband is not better either, very unwelcoming to his wife’s children up until Dudu intervened...The daughters are so mature

Girls forgive and forget and move on girls.thank you for sharing this khumbulekhaya, love it from Botswana

The old fella has a very good memory.

makhelwane of dis family she is has gud heart

Lyf is difficult we need family when we are old, please Lord shows us the right way,be with us all da way,We worship You, thank You Lord for everything,we need you Jesus

wow the second story😍 shame💞

So the husband went to change clothes for the camera,😅 anyway this first lady is hurt deep down naye ulimele lo mama

@mbulazindabezitha3316

4 жыл бұрын

Sinazo Dlanjwa Ayi wena🤣🤣🤣 maybe ubesebenza then wayogeza after.

THIS MOTHER IS HEARTLESS

@tebogomolalathoko1913

3 жыл бұрын

and they forced her to apologise and i was hurt by those words , it was like your mother saying she regrets giving birth to you

This woman first story is so cold Honestly some women don’t deserve to be mothers Sad part is so many would love to be called mom but they can’t Then you get this It’s too upsetting

@tebogomolalathoko1913

3 жыл бұрын

she's irresponsible and not ready to be a mother

Am hurt😭😢😭 how can a whole Mother say such things to her daughters

@pumla7manclcebza73

4 жыл бұрын

She' s a disgrace Thabang trust me

@sehliseloqueenmthomben822

4 жыл бұрын

I don't think she is normal

@anniendhluli2790

4 жыл бұрын

@@pumla7manclcebza73 big one she doesn't deserve these girls akahlale nje lePantyhose alisentanyeni

@mpongokazingelwayo3574

4 жыл бұрын

I sense depression kulomama

@busiejabu3443

4 жыл бұрын

Ey abanye abazali yoo andaz nokba ndingathin nje kungowam lomama

Nombulelo hates her abuser and everything from him (ie ‘his’ kids). She’s dead inside in relation to anything that has to do with him. I mean from first words out of her mouth my jaw dropped! “Why didn’t you tell me ur coming?” Seriously!!?? 😳😳😳😳😲🙊

@pamelazingisa4448

10 ай бұрын

She likes abuse ngoba the new husband as well he seems abusive he was so rude

😭😭😭 nkosi yam. This is heartbreaking

I won't even hug her sis 😭 She was forced to apologise

@vusumuzivolly

Ай бұрын

Thats why l say everytime , don't waist your time to want or to check your beloved wants stay home safe your energy If you forced you will going to be heart broken

To c Mdala met his br0ther,how they greeted each other.make me cry😭😭💕

Wahlukumezeka kakhulu lo mama walabantwana... nasekhanda ngat alisebenzi

I really need a neighbor like Dudu. The 1st story is really sad. Some mothers shame

@nomxhosapekani7966

3 жыл бұрын

Eish it's sad neh, maybe is PTSD- who know what kind of abuse she endured from their father, shame.

@pamelazingisa4448

10 ай бұрын

​@@nomxhosapekani7966akekho right umama Lona but she should have tried to make abantwana to feel better yoh

The first family broke my heart, It is clear that these girls are deeply hurt, to add on that I believe the mother could have handled the situation much better so as not to add on the pain her kids have endured for all these years of her absence. i trust the Lord to grant these girls strength and power to forgive for their own benefit ... kuzolunga guys.

I love you guys from Easter cape they did welcome there brother in warm hands realeboga yoooooohhh

hebanna uthi why they didnt call her first!!!!??????????? or ugogo Dlamini???????? uRight upstairs lo mama???? me I would have turn back and left....tsek

Kuthiwa nanku untodo.... Subtitle: This is Ndondo😂😂😂😂.... Elixhego lithetha ingathi nguPhekeza weTyala lamawele. Ngutsotsi wetshipha.

Zinhle ingane shame nibahle bocc ngiyanithanda unkulunkul Abe nani❤️💕💕

Dudu is adding fuel to the fire 😂😂😂😂stepfather fanele kuthi umphethe kabi lomama sengathi she is so scared of him.It's painful to be rejected by your parent especially a umama twice😢😢😢

The second story made me so emotional I cried throughout. Wish them all the best As for the first story I realy dont think the mother meant what she said. Maybe she s one of these people who cant express their feelings well. And I think she shoved off the feelings for her kids for a long time as a way of Dealing with the pain.

@perfectlyimperfect1095

4 жыл бұрын

Severe trauma will make you do that.

@djakbw.official2276

4 жыл бұрын

Thats very true.

@wushemxmakanjana3037

3 жыл бұрын

Uyinja lomama

The second family. 😢When the brother was crying. I couldn't yho...!! But thank God they found one another 🙏

😂😂uGogo wam azong Avasa😂😂ayi lomam udakiwe yaz Nombulelo iphutha lani ayi kukhona lokwamam suka, ngine sure kuyaphuza😂😂😂😂

Mam Dudu in the first story :"-( I wish she was their mom

Mmmmmm what a welcome home,is so nice to see the whole family's gather together and welcome one of their members,that last seen 40 years ago,and he came back empty handed,and they still accept and welcome him

The first mechanic guy, I think he has stolen cars in his yard! The way he chased the cameras away!!!!!!!!!!!! Hai

@nothandongubo5469

4 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

@mogaletilly7415

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@Samkeli_siweM

8 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

Ndiyavuya ukubona utamkhulu eyifumene ifamily yakhe yonke. Wafika no brother wakhe esaphila. GOD is good. Siyabulela.. Camagu!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Tjoo first episode the step father is vomiting fire ey mamelani yekelani shooter la and lento yenu niyenze le emgaqweni.

@Theodora822

4 жыл бұрын

The husband seems to have a good heart. He was ambushed by strangers with cameras, maybe that's why he reacted the way he did.

Ipart ka tamkhulu 😭😭😭 tearing apart. Inene ukhululekile mkhulu. And the warm welcome at home

That mother is not mentally stable 🤞🏾🤞🏾

that woman is just crazy... kudoz to the neighbor... she should've been the mother🎉

Tamkhulu 😍❤ 2nd family

This woman is saying she is not even remorseful for leaving her children behind 🤔 They are better off without her.

@perfectlyimperfect1095

4 жыл бұрын

I think mam Nombulelo has distanced herself emotionally from her 2 daughters. Also this was probably the psychological response to the abuse she says she endured. She was probably traumatized and then took her trauma out on innocent children. I don't think she allowed herself to love those kids because of who their father is. I feel like had she kept them she would've inflicted the worst abuse on them.

akekho right lomama 1st episode

@perfectlyimperfect1095

4 жыл бұрын

I think mam Nombulelo has distanced herself emotionally from her 2 daughters. Also this was probably the psychological response to the abuse she says she endured. She was probably traumatized and then took her trauma out on innocent children. I don't think she allowed herself to love those kids because of who their father is. I feel like had she kept them she would've inflicted the worst abuse on them

@ziningimazeka3736

4 жыл бұрын

First episode Cha Shem umama onjan lo uthwale ingane izinyanga eziw 9 kodwa ungazisoli ngokuyshiya ikhule ingakwaz unesibindi mama ndin

@ramoshabaramoshaba9561

4 жыл бұрын

@@perfectlyimperfect1095 I agree. I also feel like the world shames women for leaving their kids with father's. Father's are parents too, if she's incapable of raising them the father should. I don't understand why they had to make her feel like she wasn't supposed to leave them behind only because she's a mother.

@funohsummer7261

4 жыл бұрын

Struu uyagula shame angisadiniwe

That’s good washo tamkhulu😂😂❤️

i think nombulelo she's got mental disturbance a biological mother won't talk like that

@lilobhunge356

4 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣easy tiger

I'm chopping onions with the first 2 daughters

@noziphontini1821

4 жыл бұрын

Abanye omama banenhliziyo ezimbi yaz uzale ushiye ingane awunandaba waze wanescefe lomama

I cried 😢 out cos wow the pain of child to force Love from a mother I know it cos I know the pain as for me I think I'm much batter on my own God will comfort me How can a mother fail to love your children because of their fathers behaviour 😢

We worked from farm to farm no property no land nothing😢😢😢

Dudu you the boss😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@nokwandamhlanga

3 жыл бұрын

Dudu libhoza

Nombulelo is hurt shame, she hasn't healed. She's taken out her anger on her kids

@anniendhluli2790

4 жыл бұрын

& her 2nd daughter will be emotionally disturbed like her becoz of what she said

@okaymea

4 жыл бұрын

@@anniendhluli2790 Both of them will be. I feel like what she said jeopardized their relationship, it created a lot of anger and trust issues. Khumbulakhaya should get a psychologist for these people, some of they need help shame

@gladysmmamankwe3374

4 жыл бұрын

Ke nagana gore mme yo breng ke Dudu o hlakahlakane, ebileo kare ba mo jesetse korobela ,ka gore le go nyalwa aowa ke vat and sit jooowee.

The effects of the apartheid's forced removals on the second part

Gotta love Dudu

I think mam Nombulelo has distanced herself emotionally from her 2 daughters. Also this was probably the psychological response to the abuse she says she endured. She was probably traumatized and then took her trauma out on innocent children. I don't think she allowed herself to love those kids because of who their father is. I feel like had she kept them she would've inflicted the worst abuse on them.

@thandoc3934

4 жыл бұрын

she used distancing as a healing strategies i guess....

@blessed1609

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!! I also think she reacted that way because the kids resemble their father aswell

@response7296

4 жыл бұрын

I see mental disorder here. How v Can she be so conformable to say she doesn't regret what she did to her children. She is insane

@okaymea

4 жыл бұрын

That's very true, she would've been a horrible mother

@ndumndum1000

4 жыл бұрын

trust a woman to support and justify amanyala enziwa abanye besifazane.... abekho abantu ababole njengani

Wow this made me cry!!! Tjo! That’s just sad. Okay let’s say Dudu didn’t show up...she wouldn’t have apologized or hugged them!! Shu!!! No matter what a man does to you, don’t reject the fruit of your womb. I think it happened according to God’s will that they grew up with their Grandmother.

Geez 2nd fam is blessed so many family members in one place alive 🤗😊

The first part of the show😢may the children forgive their mother for what she did and also said when they met💔

🤣🤣🤣awzazi ngisho amagama inganezakho mama!!!

Dudu is sick guys She doesn't show any remorse at all ☹️ She's not normal at all

The lady in the 1st story i don't think she's 100% ok upstairs.

@NomfundoV8

4 жыл бұрын

Somethings wrong

@pearlmagwaza7748

4 жыл бұрын

BIG- MIKE I think she’s detached herself from her kids emotionally dats why there’s no remorse on her side

@patrickphokoane641

3 жыл бұрын

Ya true... but i think by the time she left them she got new love that was driving her crazy

Joooooo,1st story, what can we say💔💔💔💔💔💔,is this what trauma is like?Jaaaaaaaa,sorry babies,we don't choose our families BUT hei the elder daughter is convinced they will fix it in her own words!May God change their mother for the better. Even the current relationship is still abusive!!! I feel sorry for the heartless mother anyway!!! He I,jaaa,maybe with a little education things might have been different!!!

Nombulelo might be needing psychological evaluation, she could have suffered too much abuse & she doesn’t look normal or act it , people are harsh on her behaviour but she could be mentally challenged

@NomfundoV8

4 жыл бұрын

I agree, something is off with her.

@perfectlyimperfect1095

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly. She could be severely traumatized or this could be the results of untreated post natal depression.

@NomfundoV8

4 жыл бұрын

@@perfectlyimperfect1095 This woman has a lot of issues. Not to mention the fact that the current partner seems abusive as well.

@mirriamsofe6071

4 жыл бұрын

My dearest sister,spot on!!!Even the current one,to me is WORSE although I don't have enough details!!! Having her exposed with raw and inappropriate reaction, I'm tented not to use hard language like RUDE,many will disagree with me BUT she is still in an abusive relationship. You know in this case the song" Mam to man "" applies like a glove. Dress code and conduct should be taken into consideration!! She is yearning for something we may take for granted, it may not have been given to her, " LOVE " Apartheid was a psychological practice and to the weak meant to control,remove you're self love ( selfesteem)But its not the appropriate term I was looking for!!!Bloodline cannot be removed because of anger,a century from now ,one of her grandchildren might be caught in this raw,needing to trace bloodline and DNA will unfortunately revert to her!!!I respect the view's of everybody, through shock for some,anger,disgust for some BUT the eldest daughter is determined to see it work.

@merryzvi

4 жыл бұрын

@@NomfundoV8 l agree. the current partner wants to appear good but why on earth would he say the girls see the mother outside. The mother is not in her right mind.

Mhmmm"naba bezondithwalisa lomthwalo besendisithi ndiwohlule" sad

Yoh this Nombulelo women is heartless💔🥺😭 shuuu..... Sies.

Thanks to khumbulekhaya

This is sad really sad left me with tears

Bekuzoba ngcono ngabe bamthole ebhubhile umama lo , ku first story

true love between those brthers..i pray God him sight

Amai mupengo kugara ndisina zviri nani amai vacho ndisina .

@tsungaimukarati9737

4 жыл бұрын

Taura hako haaa ini handifunge ndaizoenderera mberi ktaura navo pavangoti l don't regret haaaaa ibenzi mai avo

@gertrudemutandwagertz7213

4 жыл бұрын

@@tsungaimukarati9737 ndaibva ndangooneka ipapo hanzi uyu akakosha nekuti ndakaitwa opp hezvo

@leahnjewa1608

4 жыл бұрын

Mudiki avagona hadzina kuti kwesere

So touching, abantwana bayisipho

The first family the step father makes them meet their mother outside as if he doesn't want to be on camera so was surprised seeing him showing himself again,looks like he didn't want the kids in his compound also but the wife told him about them,I just wish the girls can move on without their mother am so pissed with the way she welcomed them and her feels no regret at all on why she did to her kids.wish you all the best girls 🙏

Well done to SANCO for taking care of their community members, well done to Khumbulekhaya for serving the nation in such a powerful way, God bless you always. Just a little correction: Makwedini and not makhwedini, also Tshawe and not Chawe. I also think that Baloi is spelt as "Baloyi" though not 100% sure (I'm not Tsonga but I have a Tsonga best friend here on Campus). Sorry for correction just thought I should try and voice it out, hope no one will get offended, Otherwise good job, I highly appreciate Khumbulekhaya and the Team. Lots of blessings!

Ubaba yena who couldn't see well, that story made me realize ukuthi sociopaths don't only exist in American movies. I'm happy he found his family

Yoh UYANYANYISA LOMAMA AKAXOLISE NGOBA KUSUKA KUYE USEGCINA ICALA NJE AKANAMAHLONI SHAME ON HER.

Akaphili ekhanda lomama😢😢😢😢

khumbulekhaya team we love you

Ewu, sishi lomfati who abandoned her children for so many years. I'm pretty sure they are better off without her😞

This woman on the first episode uyanginyanyisa yezwa!!!! Eish!

Uyanyanyisa lo mama futhi akasile nj ekhanda..bengzovele ngimshiye kanjena mna😢😢

Guy's mosadi yowe gana nnete ebile gake tsholi e bile o re wayi le sa mphoune Mola Basa motsebe batla go tseba bjang Basa go tsebe

Akaguli uzibulawelwa nje yi pride

Ayi uNombulelo 🙌🏾

The mother needs help, shes stressed, i can see through her... she never boiled out i think, please help her...do not be quick to judge.

@nicolelight3953

4 жыл бұрын

Yooh was in abusive relationship but wen i decided to leave i never thot of going without them let alone leave them with that abusive man. Extraodinary love, steadfastness , perservearance and being burden bearers is wat defines a mother. This 1 i surrender.

Hawu Dudu😂😂😂😂😂✋

Ngyalibona ke iphutha lika Nombulelo kodwa ke uGugu uhlanganaphi omakhelwane

mhlsnga gals stay strong god loves you

Mnxm ukuzalisa isiphukuphuku kunje in 1rst story Nalomakhelwane weRed cap uthanda izindaba

There is seriously something wrong with Nombulelo. I feel sorry for the girls

I don't think this mother is well, hope they forgive her.

@noziphontini1821

4 жыл бұрын

Nami ngibona kanjalo yaz