I respect dis 21 years old girl u'r so brave and powerful May God Bless u

@evamodipadi7171

5 жыл бұрын

Gaopalelwe Mabolawa she doesn't deserve to hav evil mother like this.

@mangenamangena6278

4 жыл бұрын

Hello

Very proud of the last girl she’s worked so hard to get her qualifications against all odds , I have watched stories of people blaming their parents for not pursuing with their education. She’s a fighter I wish all young ladies could be like her.

@koketsoleopeng9171

5 жыл бұрын

you find people blaming their parents for havin children at a young age. how many teenagers that are staying with their parents that have kids in their parent's presence, hai ba gafa man.

@brendonmartin9550

5 жыл бұрын

Koketso Leopeng - I think people should learn to take full responsibility of their actions, it’s not easy not to have parents growing up as a child ,but that’s not an excuse for one not to fight for a better life. That girl she fought for a better future despite everything that was missing in her life. It annoys me when I watch stories of some people saying they stopped going to school because their father or mother was not there for them.

@nompumelolo

3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY like the last girl that blames her drug habit on an absent father yerr

@zamazwane9113

3 жыл бұрын

Not everyone is strong willed and able to pick themselves up ! There are people who need constant affection and support to build their character, low self esteem. People who see the glass as half empty instead of half full

I respect you sister..u shaped ur life u walked in a right path yourself..ur father nkare ke phasela fela

When the last mother said "I love you". I felt that. So raw

@simonlefohla7931

4 жыл бұрын

Those are the type of mothers the community needs

I love the response of woman in second scene, she is really matured. Mosadi gara basadi

@dineogee110

5 жыл бұрын

They are all matured even the 1st lady

@morkelbones9737

5 жыл бұрын

@@dineogee110 first woman atleast according to the story given here my conclusion is that she ain't matured...leaving your daughters for 17 years and when she came looking for you, you dnt show remorse and the reason she gave nah they are not convincing

@dineogee110

5 жыл бұрын

@@morkelbones9737 I'm talking about the gal

I am proud of Busi.You are brave my girl may God bless you.

Hats off to Mma Sithathu... Yohhhhhhhh such a loving Mother, woooooooooooow. The Lord bless her beautiful heart.

@candiicandido5006

5 жыл бұрын

Im so happy for her, gained two parents manje

@simonlefohla7931

4 жыл бұрын

Her approach was so humble

I feel sorry for her and I hope she will get a job and start her life. The suffering made her to be focused and finish school. All the best girl🙏

I don't like the word "Stepmother" eish i felt that..The respect she has this child..M impressed..

God Bless the 2nd Lady.... Zange ndikhale kanje

Even though I know some people struggle to express their feelings, but lomama doesn't show any remorse

@perfectlyimperfect1095

5 жыл бұрын

She is just numb to whatever she is feeling. The day will come when this all hits her.

Busi is a real mbokodo!!!!✊✊✊

@annetteodanga

14 күн бұрын

what is mbokodo please

I honestly don't get this good excuse of not having transport money for 17 years..but you'll have money to eat, drink on daily basis

@singaworamncwana443

5 жыл бұрын

and dont forget that she even has money to give birth to more children and feed them... some mother kodwa she is just lucky that her daughter is humble and calm

@ntebolebodi2282

5 жыл бұрын

Zingi mazongs she doesn’t show remorse mme yo,always ga ba na chelete but ba ya madodeng mxm,ba lapisa

@zingimazongs274

5 жыл бұрын

@@ntebolebodi2282 😀😀😀😀

@bettymaluleke3634

5 жыл бұрын

My Point exactly, you don't have money for transport but you have money to drink hai suka maan

@khae74

5 жыл бұрын

You spoiled by smoothness of your life

I totally understand Busisiwa's situation 😭😢😭ku rough xem💔💔 not everything is about money but just love and peace😔

Busiswa is the strongest girl ever❤️❤️

@arnoldmathoto5785

10 ай бұрын

Batshwana yoo

I suspect the husband Sipho did not allow the mother to visit her children. He comes and say your mother has been looking for you for a long time she even lost weight. But the mother had already explained that she did not have money lol. So the real reason is hidden

@anniendhluli2790

5 жыл бұрын

The sister in law said they had money for her to go home but Phumla always said she doesn't remember her way back home...bahlangehlangene ngamaphixiphixi

@lillyxanga7395

5 жыл бұрын

Annie Ndhluli Vele lomama uhlukmezekile, I see people swearing at her on comments; she suffered abuse in her 1st baby daddy and nala hlala khona uyabona wenziwa isisebenzi sakhona nje badlala ngaye

@alusiambonani685

3 жыл бұрын

Oķ

Thanks for graduating baby girl 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌

@busisiwelizzy4622

5 жыл бұрын

Hlemphe Abiel Semelane ❤😍😚

@nomalizoc

5 жыл бұрын

She is a rare gem...most have babies and make wrong choices and blame everyone

@highandmightyqueen79

5 жыл бұрын

such a brave young women....wish her all the best and i hope she deals with all that anger and resentment she feels.

@hlempheabielsemelane3358

5 жыл бұрын

@@highandmightyqueen79 very brave

Two strong women, sad yet beautiful and encouraging.

This episode it show that how much we must love our child nomatter how hard you face in life

First mother feels nothing, so sad😔

@agnesmkhuzangwe7308

3 жыл бұрын

It broke this girl twice becoz all this year she had her mom as hope in heart n then this😿

Lomama doesnt have money for transport kodwa she has a husband and children... this woman ran away from her responsibilities and making up excuses... 17 years yonke sies

@patiencechivunge8515

5 жыл бұрын

No she didn't want to go and same location very stupid woman ,the other lady said they try to ask her to go and see the kids she said she forget aaa aaaa gegegege

@singaworamncwana443

5 жыл бұрын

I never understand the concept of leaving your children because you fear their father, especially your daughters because the same thing he does to you he will do it to your children and will not take care of them at all... The father is cruel as well, you mistreat their mother to a point that she leaves her children and he doesn't take care of them

l wish you all the best Busi! Congratulations on your graduations, it was not easy but you made it.

Big up Busisiwe, you were born to shine.Your future is bright and may your mom's soul rest in eternal peace

mama hug your child plizzz..don't just sit there

1st glimpse at the mother straight away I knew she was her real mother... such resemblance.

but am so proud of her she is so intelligent she did'nt let her past determine her future, she is the woman of ambitions, power to that. i tend to look up to you moGurl. shame my heart hurts.

@timindlovu5417

5 жыл бұрын

Well said, Sisi!

God Bless Busi..she managed to finish college wow..Modimo a mne le wena going forward

This excuse of not having money for 17 years pisses me off....#lame!!!!

@condonethakeng5563

5 жыл бұрын

Madness she is psychological sick xem we can see that 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Busi is so inspirational. Very proud of her!!! And she was so happy. I reallly hope her life has improved even further!!!!

@okwethualokan7210

2 жыл бұрын

Aaah its worse shame, everything has fallen apart, her stepmom was only doing it for the camera

Mama Sthathu bigaup!!!! made as easy for Busisiwe, and Busi is a good kid.

busisiwe's story got me to cry, i felt so hurted and i sympathise with her, yah impilo inzima shame

Busi my dear you're a sweet child and humble and very respectful, this guy doesn't deserve to be your father shem.

@busisiwelizzy4622

5 жыл бұрын

Orapeleng Tawana loool aow mara

No comment ngidikiwe

Eish tough hey..She speaks Pedi and mother speaks Xhosa..Life e boima weitsi

@kabelo_m

3 жыл бұрын

E boima kudu struu. O bolela nonsense mosadi yo

Such a humble girl luv you gal may God bless you and protect you

The way they're speaking setswana and sepedi, so nice I wish u could speak those laguages

Well.. Respect at its best🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾.. The young lady is very humble and respectful

Big up Busi well done cc. Only few stepmothers who can pop out this words "I love you" to their step kids. S/O to this stepma. Finally I c Busi having a lovely & united family 👪

Mmm Busi be strong girl be positive your father must give you love

she is beautiful and good manners I wish her the best

That Batch means nothing to him....I mean nor only did he leave his child but he also didn’t have the guts to tell his wife.....LET'S CHANGE OUR WAYS OF DOING THINGS PEOPLE....THANK YOU KHUMBULEKHAYA. ...

I can't imagine being in both of these girls shoes. They both portrayed such great strength.

Second story the father is heartless and no sign of remorse? Tota what's wrong with African men? This girl looks exactly like his father....

Ayi Phumla doesn't even care I mean doesn't even she cries no emotion nje

BUSI AND MR SITHATHU LOOKS LIKE TWINS😭🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️

The last girl you are amazing God bless you n your family

The last episode that girls has her fathers looks

@candysikiti8077

5 жыл бұрын

Indeed dear

Upbringing without parents is very painfull...Mr Thomas Busi is ur daughter take responsible mr

Mama wokuqala akalalo uthando yuuuuuh mayeeeh sekaze bemtshela kuthi aduduze mtwana...

I'm crying coz of next week's episode already. You guys will catch up with me akere?😭😭

Dna test is needed for this show

@anniendhluli2790

5 жыл бұрын

They must call Nimrod(utatakho)for people like Thomas ngoba vele oThomas bakholwa ngokubona

@elizabethletsoso2558

5 жыл бұрын

@@anniendhluli2790 kkkkkkkkk 😂😂😂😂😂😂 exactly

@crzyrdr

4 жыл бұрын

@@anniendhluli2790 lolzzz

The struggle of black woman continues in the democratic south Africa

@mphomkhalipi6537

5 жыл бұрын

Hlemphe Abiel Semelane IF you gave a woman a job the entire family would be looked after. The issue is the practice of man being the sole breadwinner and they don’t bring home the whole pay envelope resulting in poor marriages and breaking up of family structure

@amydikeledidube9628

5 жыл бұрын

The whole of Africa moghel😥

So Busi's dad is saying the mother was supposed to tell him how to act as a father ?? Didn't he know he's the dad 🤦 mxm

Lies behind that shining star haaaaaaaaaaaaaa

am crying for this family.

If your man is abusive how can you run away and leave your child behind .

@vinitasibindi9235

4 жыл бұрын

So stupid means u dont care about them...this one wasent abused she is a drunkerd only

17 years can't find money for transport...really..as for the second family lobaba is full of it. He says he heard people say its his child and the mom used to come with the child to work but he didn't want to get involved...so u did he think she was coming to his workplace ..for biscuits...this man!!!! Sorry baby girl hope the pain and anger gets healed

I Know its not funny, But the way that lady said "Ha Mara Phumla" lol that was funny. Wish them all the best bandla. God Bless.

The second father kemasipa he trying to denied her daughter shoo she look exactly like him

@athitiwani5371

4 жыл бұрын

I understand him my fathers wife wants nothing to do with me to an extent that I lost contact with him because every time I try to contact him he ends up in coma😭😭💔what hurts me most is that I know he loves me but I can be with him

@crzyrdr

4 жыл бұрын

@@athitiwani5371 oh my God, sorry to hear that

This mama l suspect the mind is not working well 🤔

@lillyxanga7395

5 жыл бұрын

CONDONE THAKENG Who? your mother?

@agnesmkhuzangwe7308

3 жыл бұрын

Yah she is not fine, another thing Ke depression, to end up being so dependent to alcohol when u feel sad it’s the 1st sign of mental illness

Ausi Busi respect for you my sister. Modimo ago godise. True leaders.

Yhoooo Phumla... Tshiza elidala uthi wayengayazi indlela mnxm

Busisiwe 👌... She's a real woman xem... She's strong hle

This girl hàs a big heart may God bless her more

17 years mara Apalelwa ke R190 from tembisa to plk

@bettymaluleke3634

5 жыл бұрын

Oka bolela gape but kamo otshwere onwa bjala corner to corner

@kellzhlongwane9458

5 жыл бұрын

Hiking spot is even cheaper than that

@evamodipadi7171

5 жыл бұрын

eish im crying

@takalanimarubinicharity1916

5 жыл бұрын

@@kellzhlongwane9458 🙆🙆🙆😂😂😂😂😂😂

@elizabethletsoso2558

5 жыл бұрын

This woman habontse Lerato niks mo ngwaneng after 27 yrs bathong tjooo

Thank you admin for uploading the episode

The mother neglected her child when she needed her the most. God has been with this child and i hope that all goes well for them

Notshitshi and Busisiwe are the role models of their generation.

Brave girl from polokwane

yoh guy i don't take the excuse of not having money for 17 years....but i like the scene 2 wish you all the best busi

Ke rata mafoko a gago ngwanetsho, ba few. God Bless you.

can we donate toys for "1st , 2nd and 3rd " so that they go and play in peace please.

U r strong gal I like that😘❤️❤️💪💪💪

This woman is cold 🥶

No money for transport but money for beer...

bana baa batswana, pls stwaranang.Busi uyimbokodo.

I like her to be humble to her kid.i like her a lot she feels guilty.She is a human being after all.Please forgive her.

Kodwa lendoda yafuna ukuphika ingane ifana naye madluphuthu nobaba wakhe

@roxynhlonipho6651

5 жыл бұрын

Siziwe Lungile 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@lillyxanga7395

5 жыл бұрын

Siziwe Lungile No, he did not deny, but into ngiybone kuye amahloni la emfazini kythi zothini zoqale avume kanjan ukudala azi, since wayefihlile! Manje nkinga manje ibinomfazi thinking ukuthi zowelwa umuzi! so he ddnt know kuthi his wife zoyithatha kanjan yonke kento! nkinga nje ibilapho otherwise yena shem cha uyazi ingane yakhe

Yoooh u Phumla ude axelelwe ukba "Khuthaza umntwana" lol yuuuuh heeeee abanye oo mama sana..

Uyasonta nanandini eZCC yekela amanga bewazi kahle ukuthi unengane hlukana nokusa mxm ukhulumisa kabi abantu abasontanyo yekela amanga

Second family father try to denied the child the stepmother i salute her she's a good mother

i love this girl

WAze wanamanga ubaba !!!amanga

Ke kwele bohloko go bona the way bana ba golago ka gore,ke ya rapela Modimo o mphe bophelo,bohlale le maatla a go godisa bana ba a mphilego bona,bana ba gola boima

Waze wafa mfazindini if bekunzima awushiyi abantwana bakho usile wena mxm

May God protect her and her sister , I send healing to the family ..... as for her mom 💔💔 wow excuse for transport money for so many years

Well done gals❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Its even more painful when your father didn't even bother looking for you or sending letters inquiring about you to the mother or calling to find out about the child....asking for police to search...ANYTHING! There is comfort in knowing a parent tried to desperately look for you despite of what happened - this is what black parents with issues with partners don't get...even if your attempts to look for your child and give some support completely fail - but it will be on record that you did show concern and love for your child.

This father is the biggest liar......Mr. Sithathu you're the biggest liar!

Ever noticed that ma ZCC always appear here

@samuelmushapo8095

17 күн бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭

Im crying and painfully srs

Sometimes I don't blame mothers for abandoning their child. I remember one of my friend was left with his grandmother by his mom. Bcs the father used to abuse her. And when she find another man she was afraid of taking them bcs she was afraid her children will think the step dad is the same as previous husband 🙈🙈

@LawrenceManyika

24 күн бұрын

Mamela lavi wami isizulu sithi intandane enhle umakhothwa wunina

AM PROUD OF YOU BUSIE 😍😩

The second father does not deserve Busi. He is a sorry excuse of a man and he wanted to deny knowledge of Busi.

Ntate Thomas is not honest jeez. This child was old enough to see what was going on. Lol as for she's not his, look in the mirror she looks like you.

@patriciamakotore5604

5 жыл бұрын

They are like twins

@perfectlyimperfect1095

5 жыл бұрын

The frustrating thing is that he never even made an effort to get to the truth. The just sat on his laurels.

@innocentiapakati2985

5 жыл бұрын

He is not honest. He should have been honest. He knew it was his child. It's unfair.

@perfectlyimperfect1095

5 жыл бұрын

@@innocentiapakati2985 exactly. I think he may have even told the mom to have an abortion.

@ntebolebodi2282

5 жыл бұрын

I think he was already married, hiding the child ,his story ga e tlhakane niks

Busisiwa's story made me share a tear.😢😭 The fisrt mother is a huge disappointment. How do you live for seventeen years without your children especially girls and you are a woman? And she was blessed with a very humble girl.

@happinessmabuza2639

5 жыл бұрын

I just want to encourage all those who are growing up without parents to fight n hold on to Jesus for He will always be there for u...i know it from my life ..old as iam with my own kids n family I never lived with any of my parents but was raised by my grandmother who instilled in me the desire to be independent...i don't have d word dad in my vocabulary coz I don't know him but I must admit I still have that desire to sit down with him n ask him questions but ke life is just like dat..so good people let us fight n carry on n prove to these heartless fathers that even without them we can make it with God on our side..i salute all the people who are growing up without parents love

she is well raised and very strong

That place doesn't exist in Zim

She need to be close to her father, #placecalledhome

So the father couldn't raise his daughters why, I'm not denying that the mother was wrong but why didn't he raise his daughters. 😩😖

@bonzateebonzatee855

5 жыл бұрын

Eish batho ba bona ba bora waitse ba etsa bana then ba ba latlha ba fetsa ba fa di excuse fela

@ramoshabaramoshaba9561

5 жыл бұрын

@@bonzateebonzatee855 sometimes ba Tina. They know what they did was wrong. Why can't they just humble themselves.