Some women “forget and forgive” so easily because they dissociate both in the relationship in order to preserve the relationship and out of the relationship to cope with the pain. It’s a defense mechanism that your mind does so that you can survive the trauma you are enduring. It doesn’t mean that trauma just goes away, it just means it’s existing in the subconscious mind.. it takes considerable work to detach from relationships like this and then actively heal afterwards. That’s why she cannot appear angry. She’s been conditioned and made used to this level of disrespect.

@dittehompoth1469

7 ай бұрын

Forgiving is a a sign of self-esteem issue, and the defence mechanism works by avoiding conflicts which also could be related to the same issue.

@samxsara

7 ай бұрын

Good point the dissociation

@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes

7 ай бұрын

Well said. Thanks ‼️

@mpch6298

6 ай бұрын

I told myself that one day I want to become the most relaxed person that I know. Maybe I am not Nr 1, but after 2 years of work on myself, I have never been more unbothered than now. Now my ambition is to become the least forgiving woman that I know - to those who don't deserve forgiveness but still come around and say "You should be more forgiving"... Nope, mister, I shan't.

@samxsara

6 ай бұрын

@mpch6298 I am exactly in the same boat! Unbothered, not many f**s left to give if any! And life is good, my skin is fine. Haha

9:50 serial cheaters dont deserve couples therapy for sure. A grown man repeatedly cheating deserves no empathy. Run.

@enmodelife

7 ай бұрын

Yeah, like I could never understand that. So *WE* have to go to therapy together because YOU cheated??? 🤔🤔🤔

@lunadoodlee

7 ай бұрын

serial cheaters will say theyre done and theyll never do it again just to get you back and then do it again a couple months later. ( my experience)

“Somebody might even do the WORM 🪱 “ That was hilarious 😅

@NANCYHUSTLE

7 ай бұрын

I laughed so hard lmao

@rileahangelaweston

7 ай бұрын

What does that mean?

@2okaycola

5 ай бұрын

@@rileahangelawestonyou ever been to a party before?

For a lot of women caught up in the New Age " twin flame " cult, the belief is that a woman must offer up some insane thing called " unconditional love " . Forgivness is an invitation . Only parents should " love unconditionally "

@2okaycola

5 ай бұрын

Yep

@lmm8960

5 ай бұрын

Love should always be unconditional. Your marriage won’t survive without it. BUT that has no bearing on accepting cheating and abuse.

Ladies the most important thing in life is your sanity and well being. This type of love is horrible for women. It ages you so much.I don’t know how Khloe can handle how stupid trashton is. I wanted to smack the smile on his face when he was talking about his cheating. He will pay when his kids find out what he did.

@Nana-vb8tm

6 ай бұрын

He cheated on his ex girlfriend who was pregnant by the time with Khloe, she was content back then by his behaviour. Now, she wants to cry and complain😂😂😂 karma is real. We' re all spiritually connected, what they did only did it to themselves. That's why you treat people how you want to be treated. The energy we put out is the one that comes right back to us.

When you walk away you get your friggin Self Respect back. Men open doors for me now even tho I am strong and it shows

@lolaxoxo5836

6 ай бұрын

*they open doors because you are strong

you are right, sometimes I forgave and forgot and gave grace to people that "didnt deserve it", I am only giving grace to someone that would also give the same grace to me. Men want forgiveness but would dump you immediately or even unalive you if you cheated smh

@danilaroche1156

7 ай бұрын

The Lord forgives us when we are humble, contrite and we MEAN it.

Glad alex pointed it out and showed this video !!! We all girls need to see this as more n more toxic relationships on the rise . Protect yourself from toxic relationships ❤thank you alex ❤

Analyze the breakup with Karol g and anuel she changed the game showing women if you walk away you will remain a queen in their imagination - untouchable and worth remembering 🤩

So right Alex. We cant control others we need to look at our own actions and choices

Lmao its scary to realize we are all alone until we find the one that deserves us

Kudos to you for embracing the feelings of disgust towards MFs who waste your time or disrespect you 🙌🙏

Thank you Alex for your videos!!! I just went through a situation and it wasn’t until I realized my worth and value and stood on it. That I was able to walk away. That is what self love looks like for me.

@christinacatalano

7 ай бұрын

I just did the same. Congrats ❤❤

@chustar2620

6 ай бұрын

I just did the same thing yesterday ❤❤❤😢🥰… it is for the best

I think meditation gives you more empathy mostly towards yourself, so you respect and love yourself more, that’s why you feel disgust when someone disrespects you

Intergalactic level 😂.. I’m learning that cheating is fundamentally a character flaw and possibly just not having a male role model to teach about roles of a husband and creating a family unit so it never became part of their value system.

@dittehompoth1469

7 ай бұрын

The male model importance I think relates to western phycology, I grow up in a traditional society where peoples do not divorce but cheating still happens..

@wintoby

7 ай бұрын

Agree, my ex has cheated many times, to many women infact, I don't think he is capable of not. His father was a cheater, so learned behaviour.

When you explain these situations it seems like it should be so obvious. Women are truly always thinking in best case scenario which must be the reason we go insane lol. “He looks like he’s missing a few chromosomes” 😂

@jenkech5824

7 ай бұрын

Lol.....

you need to make a lot of videos on the Kardashians! ex) Kylie Jenner's low self-esteem, Kim Kardashian's Narcissism, Kendall Jenner's Pickme character, etc it will grow your channel a lot for sure! you will get many more views

True love start when you become in love with yourself

"I wish daddy was faithful" 😆 that hits straight to my core

Walk away and when they come crawling back, don’t take them back. Don’t settle for someone who does not respect you.

Trauma bond can make you do many things..it's normal that she remembers the good times...she trauma bonded by a narcissist

Hahaha 🤣🤣🤣 when he said I can't look at the face of someone who is hurting my family member and embarrassing her at an international and possibly intergalactic level !! 😂😂😂😂 I am rolling 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Alexis ❤

I would rather leave then ever dare set up a man to go to couples therapy 🤢

@FaithAnswered

6 ай бұрын

Facts but sometimes you never know if that person has gone through trauma & developed things to help cope, the problem tho is if you ever bring it up & they dismiss it. That’s when you know they don’t gaf, that’s when you know fr it’s time to goooooooo

“You being slapped around so much, you might as well sign up for MMA”😭

It's very empowering to not forgive those who are not ACTUALLY asking for forgiveness cuz they beg for forgiveness you give it to them to clear their karma AKA, consequences. forgiveness is for those who MEAN it

I’m not laughing at her pain but your commentary is funny asf!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

MAKE MEN RESPECT YOU. MAKE MEN RESPECT YOU. MAKE MEN RESPECT YOU. Only then will they love you because they won't be able to control you.

@maryrice5873

6 ай бұрын

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

@cali-yt3iy

6 ай бұрын

💯🎯🗣️👂🏽🏆⭐️

An apology after someone does something so horrible doesn’t help with healing. The apology is more for them to alleviate their guilt. You don’t need an apology for closure bc they should not have don’t what they did in the first place. Now even if you do get an apology you still have to do years of costly therapy to get to a healing place for giving yourself and forgiving the person who did you wrong

4:32 listen I usually never ever let my anger out with the guy, I’ve learnt that even if I did & things got better or stuck it out I become detached. If he cheats or disrespects you in a way that validates anger I honestly recommend leaving instantly. Some girls wilddd out & I feel them cause I was there once too but it never ends well. Walk away, get angry once it’s done than heal. Saves you so much embarrassment & strength. Key point: leave

@laluna155

6 ай бұрын

I agree, getting angry shows you care and any man who cheats or disrespects you is not worth you getting angry for in his face. Get angry in private. You are right you simply leave.

You have no idea how much your videos have helped me . Thank you❤

one of your best videos , strong points and with good humor, ladies this is a reminder

@anonimatosaosa1723

7 ай бұрын

“Somebody might even do the WORM 🪱 “ "you might asweel just sign to the mma "

Off topic but could you do a video on the difference of loving someone and being in love?? Or staying I'm a relationship out of guilt to not hurt the other person? I feel like that would be an interesting video father alex!

Alex you are gifted. This video was so insightful and full of so much wisdom👏👏🔥 Keep em coming

Walking away is a win win situation 😊 u level up or u can level down .. it’s ur call 😊

Watching from Philippines 🇵🇭 Thank you Alex for your videos ❤❤❤

“Intergalactic” 😂😂😂 Alex & the one liners never miss.

Your new content is next level ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Love this video 🎉 keep helping women WAKE UP !!! LOVE YOURSELF, believe in yourself!!! 🎉 STOP being with EVIL people men or women!!’ Keep children happy !!!! Then with a miserable abusive father or mother!

She has the self esteem of her old body and face

@KevonnieElaine

7 ай бұрын

Bingo! Unfortunately she has the “ugly sister” tape programmed in her mind.

@veebliss1266

7 ай бұрын

He’s broken her

@samxsara

7 ай бұрын

Omg this is so sad

i’m so glad you did this video. I wish this family would stop trynna force this man to be something he’s not. it’s just annoying at this point.

You shouldn’t feel bad Father Alex, he cheated on his then pregnant fiancée with Khloe. So this looks just Karma from where I’m sitting 💯. If they’ll do it with you, they’ll do it to you 🔊 Love your content, much love from Toronto, Canada 🇨🇦 ✌🏽💋✨

@WHaAteVaA

7 ай бұрын

worse and bigger Karma , announced on public tv with 3 freakin random women

you are too funny😝😝😝 you are my favorite youtuber 💗please never stop making videos🙏

Watching from germany! I love KZread and your videos!!!! ❤❤❤

👏🏼 such a good video

Love these videos man and the relationship analysis are so fucking real man, definately is so helpful. Also loved the Haily Bieber one and im so glad he explains why men do the things they do and likeliness of why. I also have ADHD and I love how engaging, sometimes funny and informative yet entertaining the video's. Thank you!!!! and god bless you man!

You are EPIC! Bob the Mormon and missing some chromosomes. I burst out laughing too many times. ❤️😂

@Tuniebabie

7 ай бұрын

Facts!!!! I’m cracking up 🤣

Hey! I think your amazing 🤩 I love your wise words thank you ☺️ ❤

Oh Alex did you see my suggestion!? I asked if Alex could talk about this couple (don’t know if he seen it or if anyone else suggested it) but I’m hype to dig into this because nobody breaks it down like Alex!

She’s not weak. I support her!!

@724kdr

6 ай бұрын

😂

They broke up but how can you make room for another man when you still act like a couple it’s weird… He is around to block other men from having her while he still sleeps around because y’all are single but yet she has no man because he is always in her face crazy

The voice of reason!❤

13.00 My guess is that meditation also increases the empathy that you have or is supposed to have towards yourself. If senses are hightened you would probably feel negative and off putting energy being directed towards you more intensely.

Not the Kaioken x2 cheating maneuver 😂😂. Lovin all the anime references as of late lol.

I’m so in love with your mind and sense of humor 😂❤

This video slaps, I love it

I love your vids and energy lol

This video is underrated asf

i haven't listened to you for long time, but i have to say, you became and wiser and more hilarious :D how's is it educational and also funny :D

THANK YOU SO MUCH

@VictoriaGisele

7 ай бұрын

for your information and knowledge 🫶🏼

Step one: dive into your attachment style #2: look at your past relationship patterns #3 uncover unconscious negative beliefs and behaviors you hold#4 spend time working on yourself NOT JUMPING INTO ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP!!!

You just healed my life

father alex saving the day once again with this masterpiece

Intergalactic 😂😂 love you Sensei 😂

Yes, do a video about trauma bonding please

More of this... so real 🎉

Father Alex, your reactions are so funny 😂😂😂

Hii 😊alex can you please do a video of karrueche tran and chris borwn issues with the ex

Your so great :)

“My therapy is your action”…🎯

I always do the worm to celebrate!! 😂😂

So good I loved this video reminds me not be so dumb lol

I think that so many people forget that Chloe stole Tristan from Larsa, and Larsa stole Tristan from his 1st pregnant baby mom. She chooses to stay. I can't feel bad for her. That's a choice that she made. .

I always commented to Trashton as a sadist. He definitely IS! 😮

13:02 he’s like a teen in class that keep gettin in trouble smh then try to smirk and laugh when the teacher meets with them to explain their behavior

Alex, is funny AF!!! 😂

Intergalactic, I’m dying 😭😭😭.

OMG! I love you !!! 😂😂💗

You nail it 💯. Tristan’s duping delight makes me angry af

9:00 like a true toronto man lol

“Someone might even do the worm” 😭😭😭😭😭

I would love a video from you about financial abuse. Especially in a marriage where the woman is a sahm.

Has anyone purchased all courses? I’m not sure yet but I feel it will definitely be worth the investment.

I don't listen to music on the radio, because it pulls your mind into this bullshit. I just love the way you react to it.

Not intergalactic embarrassment 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the teeth smacking is perfect 😂😂😂cz fr I honestly prefer when you’re like this

36 min in I can’t breathe 😂😂😂😂

Father Alex leave the birds alone 😭😂😂

The frontman singer from Weezer made Vipassana meditation retreats on the map. That was in the early 2000s though. I've been to 3 vipassana meditation retreats and would have been to more if the pandemic didn't happen

Lmaoooo same can’t stand the face hahaha

"shut up bird" 😂😂

“Shut up, bird” 😂😂😂😂

I would love to hear, your perspective on Beyonce and Jz.

Please please do more cerebrity❤ Love you ❤ And and Do robert green's book with celebrity For example The dandy witch celeb is the dandy and how he or she behave

@yogigoyi

7 ай бұрын

Yes!

@rozitaqtb

7 ай бұрын

@yokoloviso Thank you 😍😍💋 And we would love to see the seduser types with modern examples

It the 💋 Jordon for meeeeee

Alex the arms are looking bufffffff 💪🏻😜

Can you do hailey and justin bieber?

Bob the Mormon😂😂

Idk if each culture is different in women dealing with men cheating? Im Mexican & my grandfather would tell me "No se dejen de ningun viejo!"

@ClaUDiishmoO

7 ай бұрын

What does that expression mean?

@lislis9134

7 ай бұрын

@@ClaUDiishmoO dont let yourself from any man. For a old school grandfather that was words of encouragement to not let yourself be humiliated for no guy.

Omg . Yes . If someone cheats on you BYE. YOU ARE FIRST. Always ! You should love your self

An amazing looking girl with all the money in the world and she allows this!!??? Unbelievable!!! 🤦‍♀️

Her mom tells her to stay with Tristan, it's crazy! Someone needs to send Khloe this video for real. She is so lost. She has been brainwashed into thinking she should stay.