Keys To Attracting Women (Full Guide)

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Many men have gained the world but lost their soul. They have the car, the house, the girl, but have lost themselves along the way. External results mean nothing without the inner peace and integration to enjoy them. The outer trappings and achievements just become the icing on the cake, not the cake itself.
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Most men are unattractive to women in the modern day. In this video I go into detail and share some actionable steps you can take right now to help improve this area.
The song at the end of the video is called "Carry On" - I wrote, sang, and recorded it myself. It is currently available on all streaming platforms: stem.ffm.to/carryon
0:00 Factors within your control
3:15 Chasing women
8:51 Working with what you have with looksmaxing
10:45 Don't do it alone. Community
12:34 No BS rundown on looksmaxxing
19:59 Social anxiety and cold approaching
23:13 Dating apps
23:57 Reframing money and status
27:45 Inner peace
Alternate titles (for the algo)
Become attractive to women
Transform yourself to attract women
90% of men are unattractive to women
stoicism, stoic, meditations Marcus Aurelius, self improvement, productivity, philosophy, Epictetus, Seneca, Spirituality, Carl Jung, the shadow, Alan watts
#selfimprovement #mensmentalhealth #stoicism

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  • @TheConsciousMan143
    @TheConsciousMan1436 ай бұрын

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  • @abis4064
    @abis40646 ай бұрын

    As a woman, I co-sign most of this advice (not that it’s my business to lol) But a word to the wise: a feminine woman will not initiate much contact. That doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you. Learn to read if she’s energetically open to you, and take cues from that, but certainly do not wait around for her to text you after a first date. A healthy woman in her feminine energy will likely not do that, even if she likes you.

  • @shafaatoo9328

    @shafaatoo9328

    6 ай бұрын

    This is true, but he's giving sound advice. The idea is just don't put too much energy into it. Because you only want the girls who genuinely can not stop thinking about you. It's about minimizing time waste, whilst maximizing time with girls who are already into you from the get go

  • @abis4064

    @abis4064

    6 ай бұрын

    Hmm, I agree you shouldn’t put effort where it’s not being received well

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    6 ай бұрын

    Love how you worded this. Thank you for sharing

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    6 ай бұрын

    Exactly

  • @Ahbhswrzq9221

    @Ahbhswrzq9221

    6 ай бұрын

    I agrée. True masculine energy is hunter energy. They initiate. Women receive . We don’t initiate.

  • @spicygolem9167
    @spicygolem91675 ай бұрын

    So glad I discovered your channel. You’re a real one, man

  • @bucknerfilm
    @bucknerfilm6 ай бұрын

    all it takes is mewing.

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    6 ай бұрын

    I just chew absurd amounts of gum if I'm being honest

  • @roelascart5963

    @roelascart5963

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@TheConsciousMan143make sure the gum is sugarfree tho , the sugar in the gym will damage your teeth in the long term

  • @ellekaye8943

    @ellekaye8943

    4 ай бұрын

    mewing is hackz

  • @Raspartus
    @Raspartus6 ай бұрын

    great video, once again. you've quickly become the goat to me in the self-improvement space here on youtube, thank you for the amazing vibes and keep the content coming! im glad i found your channel.

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    6 ай бұрын

    I'm grateful you found the channel too man... really appreciate the kind words and glad it's resonating with you.

  • @Samsulli57
    @Samsulli576 ай бұрын

    Great video my friend. Being a slender guy, putting on muscle, fixing my posture, and working on cold approach are the three big ones for me.

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    6 ай бұрын

    Good stuff man, you are definitely on the right track... keep going. It's a process, be patient but don't stop

  • @acecondor5716
    @acecondor57166 ай бұрын

    Great video Ryan! I definitely have a long way to go on being comfortable with myself. Thanks for this Ryan and you weren’t kidding when you said you’d be editing a lot into this video. 😅 great stuff man!

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    6 ай бұрын

    thanks brother - yeah the editing takes forever… but the end result is worth it when it comes to reaching guys with short attentions spans. Appreciate you buddy

  • @Zionholden2
    @Zionholden25 ай бұрын

    Apreciate the tips! I've been working on my self improvement. This whole video is professionaly crafted, you will do big things in the future. God Bless. 👊🤝

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    5 ай бұрын

    brother, I see you. I really appreciate your support. Made my day

  • @codyflores6385
    @codyflores63856 ай бұрын

    As always love the video. Everything you talk about is covered very well in the book "How to be 3% man by Corey Wayne. For my bald brothers definitely embrace the baldness. I started balding high school now I shave my head daily and have a killer beard and since taking care of myself i have noticed so many woman showing interest in me. I used to be so self conscious about being young and bald woman can sense that insecurity but I embraced who I am and accepted it and made it work, now women sense that confidence. You'd be surprised how many woman actually like a bald man that takes care of himself.

  • @mxbtc
    @mxbtc6 ай бұрын

    If i were able to invest in a channel, i would definitely invest in this one! This content is unique for real! the way you talk about some of the most fracturing themes of our society, mostly male self-development, without major cuts, just straight to the point, is so sooo underrated. If you keep on going with your channel i definitely see it becoming one of the biggest in this industry ( male self-help on youtube). I love your raw car chats bro, you must keep doing them as well, and also please talk about more interesting books such as you did with the "Ordinary men" one. I think you also mentioned "Banality of evil", i don´t remember it already, but you most certainly did mention some unique books with so much material to be deeply thinked about. Keep them coming and keep your awesome work, i´ll keep on watching!

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    6 ай бұрын

    Brother I really appreciate it... very encouraging coming across this comment today. Means more than you know. And more car chats coming soon too. Much love

  • @musea7986
    @musea79865 ай бұрын

    The last were really good advice, I already knew them but it’s good to hear it from someone else. Great reminder.👌

  • @RonBudLlamaDrama
    @RonBudLlamaDrama6 ай бұрын

    This video is all the passing thoughts I've had summed up for years. I want better for myself. I feel like you really spoke through the video to me. Let's fucking kill it in 2024.

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    6 ай бұрын

    So glad it resonates brother... let's go

  • @freekingdavey
    @freekingdavey6 ай бұрын

    Solid video brother. You levelled up!

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    6 ай бұрын

    Appreciate it man

  • @freekingdavey

    @freekingdavey

    6 ай бұрын

    what city are you in?@@TheConsciousMan143

  • @ajunseth4047
    @ajunseth40475 ай бұрын

    this video is jam packed with priceless advice

  • @safiulfaiyaz7038
    @safiulfaiyaz70386 ай бұрын

    Love this, I think all men especially teenagers who are impressionable & a bit immature about complex topicals such as love should see this.

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    6 ай бұрын

    Thank you brother... feel free to send to any teens you think could benefit. Much love

  • @cowboybollie
    @cowboybollie6 ай бұрын

    Love your videos man, keep up

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    6 ай бұрын

    Appreciate you brother. Also stoked to have you in the community

  • @VestaJ17
    @VestaJ175 ай бұрын

    brilliant content as per

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    5 ай бұрын

    Appreciate you brother

  • @shafaatoo9328
    @shafaatoo93286 ай бұрын

    Once more, my dear brother, you have crafted a video that explores these topics with profound beauty, excellence and spirituality. This is the type of holisitc masculinity the sons of Adam were meant to strive for. The divine values and principles of nobility, and honorable manhood shines through your videos. The red pill movement is nothing but an extreme reactionary response to contemporary neoliberalism. Despite both doctrines bearing fragments of truth, especially the red pill, they tend to mislead the disciples of these ideologies into the wretched path of thoughtless hedonism. Extreme beliefs, alas, inevitably cause an unbalanced existence. Woefully, people who follow the cancer modern society has created, do not contemplate this. It is etched in nature that women and men, in an intricate ballet, complement one another. Lamentably, a lot of men have begun to move away from women, be it due to the way society has become, or themselves. You artucilate beautifully how men innately can surpass societal confines by waking up their inner masculine self. If a man harnesses his innate ability to excel, and pursues his masculine destiny, he shall attract femininity naturally. But such is the sad state of men under the yoke of repression, submitting to their vices instead of embracing action. However with the existence of beautiful souls like yours, there is hope that we may ignite the dormant masculine spirit and rally young men into action with voices and messages like yours in the world. May your words of wisdom reach the hearts of these young men who are earnestly seeking for guidance amidst a world that opposes their nurturing and graceful navigation, especially with the clamour of modern societal dogmas and ideologies lurking ominously like venomous serpents. Yet, seeing principled men such as you kindles a flame of hope. I have no doubt you will reach enormous heights, as a content creator and as a man. May the Divine bless and strengthen you in the relentless pursuit of your noble quest.

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    6 ай бұрын

    Brother... you have a true gift of crating words in a meaningful and powerful way. Thank you or sharing this. Genuinely felt encouraged and it made my night. You have a ton of wisdom too, maybe you're also meant to share with the world and make an impact - Follow wherever the divine leads you. Much love

  • @realestindividual
    @realestindividual6 ай бұрын

    YOU ARE LOVED, YOU MATTER AND YOU'VE BARELY SCRATCHED THE SURFACE OF WHAT YOU'RE CAPABLE OF!

  • @android2016
    @android20163 ай бұрын

    Thanks for this Video!

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    2 ай бұрын

    Absolutely brother

  • @diegomendoza1975
    @diegomendoza19756 ай бұрын

    This is constant progress on my end. Even when I do find a potential partner, i will continue for myself. Specially the money and status part, that kinda took the edge off because even if i inherited millions of dollars, im not going to live in a big house and own 50 cars in a lifetime. Life to me is about experience and gaining knowledge at the end of the day.

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    6 ай бұрын

    I agree brother... you have a lot of self awareness. Keep going

  • @Eighteen87
    @Eighteen876 ай бұрын

    Thats some great regrowth, did you do anything more other than minoxidil?

  • @kakehavata
    @kakehavata5 ай бұрын

    great video man !! you've got some good ideas and great articulation. but in my perspective it currently feels like all this dating business is meaningless. like, life has a lot of meaning (caring for others, friends, art, etc.), but this dating thing is really frustrating to me :D in the long run. I was long out of shape, then got into shape. Then I thought my ethical principles were stopping me from actually interacting with women, so while looking for a serious relationship I slept around with girls who were definitely not what I was looking for. And now I'm just tired and kind of disappointed. Everything you are saying seems true to me, but it just doesn't matter to me anymore, it seems. I'm 29 and I feel like maybe I should focus on being self-sufficient rather than look for a partner. Despite some serious crises, I think I find purpose in many things in life. But I'm really growing apathetic towards these love games that end up nowhere, for whatever reason. Not trying to demotivate anyone though ... just sharing.

  • @LuCallofDuty1
    @LuCallofDuty16 ай бұрын

    I agree with most of it. Just not with the masculine and feminine stuff. It really is just words. Making the first move isn't either masculine or feminine, it's just the right thing to do, even if they don't show any kind of romantic attraction, cause they might've never considered the possibility of dating you (which can be for various reasons like not knowing your relationship status, or even thinking you're out of their league). So I would encourage women to make the first move too if they're interested. Most men will appreciate that even if they don't find you particularly attractive. Not only that. I kinda believe almost nothing that you listed here is inherently masculine. I honestly am way more attracted towards a girl that has her shit together or that is trying to get it together, that works out and has hobbies and passions and is very happy with what she does. Just my point of view on the matter, hoping that it leads to meditation towards this aspect

  • @TheSlickMachine
    @TheSlickMachine6 ай бұрын

    Your back is next level dude. What do you do?

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    6 ай бұрын

    I appreciate it ... getting really good at full range of motion pull-ups, and then eventually weighted pull ups were the ticket for me. Currently working on a full in-depth body transformation courses too. I'll keep you posted

  • @_ph4nt0mzz_47
    @_ph4nt0mzz_476 ай бұрын

    There are multiple "in-depth" looksmaxxing guides on yt. However they aren't made by a person with as unique of a world outlook as you. It would be great if you'd make a full guide yourself, with a twist of wisdom and guidance, not too dissimilar to what you did with this video idea.

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    6 ай бұрын

    Thank you brother... I'll definitely put that full guide together in the near future, hopefully there's enough in this current vid to get you started in the meantime. Much love

  • @damianfinneran7968
    @damianfinneran79686 ай бұрын

    I love this video. I habe to do a cold approach. Even the thought of it gives me such fear 🤢 But that be the way then 😅

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    6 ай бұрын

    You can do it brother. Become braver gradually over time… detach from the outcome and go for it. The initial discomfort will make you stronger. Our ancestors used to face saber tooth tigers, and most men can’t even talk to a female human… I’ve been there brother

  • @luvparc6787
    @luvparc67876 ай бұрын

    Write poetry, read them poetry, women live a bit of that, have a sense of humour and take the piss out of them every now and then, dont take yourself too seriously

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    6 ай бұрын

    I agree... creativity and art is good for the soul regardless

  • @luvparc6787

    @luvparc6787

    6 ай бұрын

    @TheConsciousMan143 it is you're right

  • @ryanrobertson7124
    @ryanrobertson71246 ай бұрын

    Part of the reason your driving videos are so cool is your 20 year old car!!!

  • @lempereur9289
    @lempereur92895 ай бұрын

    So i will start to approaching some girls, thank you for this video and hello from France !

  • @SuperThisishowwedo
    @SuperThisishowwedo12 күн бұрын

    I have Facebook, but is Instagram required to meet women? I’m 36…

  • @dominikcornelius248
    @dominikcornelius2485 ай бұрын

    obsessing 7:29 is more an indicator, that ones own life sucks. ^^ It‘s an escape from ones own life. And clearly it puts the obsessed in a very weak position. Most probably the ‚object of obsession‘ is owning or representing, what is lacking in ones own life. So the way out is to identify, what the other person stands for, that is lacking in ones own life and work on that :)

  • @benkane2333
    @benkane23333 ай бұрын

    This is your best quote to attract women, first don't fking care about them, second work on yourself and have goals. You're welcome

  • @stoyan_stefanov8
    @stoyan_stefanov85 ай бұрын

    10:18 WOW...I thought you are at least 26 or 27! Congratulations for your work and thank you for everything you do for many young men!

  • @user-tx1ec9wb1z
    @user-tx1ec9wb1z6 ай бұрын

    Or just become a Rock star. That seems to help. Shredding on guitar always turns em on.

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    6 ай бұрын

    Sure, if your only goal is to sleep around ... but that eventually gets old and leaves you feeling empty inside, no matter what the redpill folks tell you. I f you want a fulfilling meaningful relationship that is sustainable in the long term at some point ... you're gonna need more substance and more of a foundation than the superficial

  • @user-tx1ec9wb1z

    @user-tx1ec9wb1z

    6 ай бұрын

    @@TheConsciousMan143 Absolutely. My comment was a little tongue in cheek, because I knew you are a musician like myself. I really like your channel it speaks to me. The best thing a person can do, is turn their like over to Christ. The Holy Spirit can help you overcome Lust, and every other self destructive behavior. Without Jesus Christ, we have no hope. Great tips on attracting women in this video by the way. I can verify that they do work. But finding a godly woman that you jive with may involve a little patience. The wrong woman can ruin your life.

  • @whisper0fdeath677

    @whisper0fdeath677

    6 ай бұрын

    @@user-tx1ec9wb1z then spend your time on men like wtf

  • @user-tx1ec9wb1z

    @user-tx1ec9wb1z

    6 ай бұрын

    @@whisper0fdeath677 Homosexuality is an abomination to God.

  • @tylermuir9170
    @tylermuir9170Ай бұрын

    I really needed this video man you have no idea.. dating apps just aint it.. i keep getting left on read or exchange a few messages and get ghosted and cant help but feel like im doing something wrong, like theres something wrong with me.. started to realize i just need to work on my confidence, work on my physical health and fitness, and improve on cold approaching and getting out more. Because im starting to think i won't ever find someone online because im not a 10/10 on the attractiveness scale. But thanks to some of your videos and other podcasts and books im starting to make progress. Im 29 and i may not have everything i want at this age but im happy and grateful for what i do have. And i know i have the drive and ambition to be the best person i can be. I just have to not allow rejection and lack of matches or whatnot to bring me down and destroy my mental state. The timing will be right eventually.

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    Ай бұрын

    So glad the video helped brother.

  • @briceparlant9304
    @briceparlant93046 ай бұрын

    Who is this lovely lady Ryan ?? congratulations man !

  • @user-tx1ec9wb1z
    @user-tx1ec9wb1z6 ай бұрын

    Dude, you can't just eat One cheddar rice chip. That's messed up.

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    6 ай бұрын

    Just one cheddar chip away from complete and utter destruction

  • @josephzaki4353
    @josephzaki43536 ай бұрын

    i got a hair transplant and i can assure you women are noticing me 10x more.

  • @neo.443
    @neo.4436 ай бұрын

    what camera do you use?

  • @user-ix4wn1th5m
    @user-ix4wn1th5m3 ай бұрын

    I'm every woman 👩, sang Chaka Khan.

  • @jermsmason2082
    @jermsmason20826 ай бұрын

    I had this problem for so long, but now im 32 and am much more desired by women, and now the tables have turned and it feels oh so good to reject women in return, a kind of catharsism, a taste of their own medicine.

  • @ouroruo

    @ouroruo

    6 ай бұрын

    L incel

  • @jermsmason2082

    @jermsmason2082

    6 ай бұрын

    @ouroruo not anymore, that's the point 😁

  • @ouroruo

    @ouroruo

    6 ай бұрын

    @@jermsmason2082 you're rejecting and blaming women as a whole for being a lesser man earlier in your life, thats my point

  • @jermsmason2082

    @jermsmason2082

    6 ай бұрын

    @@ouroruo Yep, and these women would treat me like shit again if I didn't live up to their fantasy standards. These women have some cajones, coming back and expecting me to forget the past ever happened, thinking they're entitled to me and my money just because they have a hole between their legs, even after all they put me through in the past.

  • @PaulPinguin

    @PaulPinguin

    6 ай бұрын

    @@ouroruowtf is wrong with you, he never said anything like that.

  • @Chillfrfr
    @Chillfrfr6 ай бұрын

    Brush your teeth and develop your physique and you'll attract women. Showering occasionally helps but isn't necessary.

  • @gr33n83
    @gr33n833 ай бұрын

    The Key to attract women ist beeing a good looking guy end of story.

  • @creylacoste4981
    @creylacoste49816 ай бұрын

    All by bets are on this mewing paying off soon That’s my excuse for doing nothing else to make myself better in any other way.

  • @TheConsciousMan143

    @TheConsciousMan143

    6 ай бұрын

    No judgement

  • @kek22219
    @kek222196 ай бұрын

    Creepy Af.

  • @kek22219

    @kek22219

    6 ай бұрын

    Anyone who has a guide on attracting women obviously is on a list of some kind.

  • @hamza_clipsss

    @hamza_clipsss

    6 ай бұрын

    You’re an idiot