I feel like lockdowns have give so many people time to think about their gender identity and sexuality a lot more and it's great! 🏳️‍🌈💖

@PHlophe

2 жыл бұрын

Elouise, the quiet yet scary time period everyone needed. But i had relatives sending me SOS because they were trapped with the very people they detested but could only manage communication from afar .

@krewland7041

2 жыл бұрын

Cuz funny now guys are being more respectful careful and not being douchebag or being asshole all the time dude this girls like girls guys are nervous 🤣🤣.

@yeshvinny193

2 жыл бұрын

I agree

@user-yo4dz5np7g

2 жыл бұрын

It became a trend

@jannafreudenberg1878

2 жыл бұрын

So true

hearing their process about finding out she’s a lesbian is almost exactly the same as my process was and that just makes me so happy that i can relate to them in that way :)

@ifrahdb

2 жыл бұрын

same!!!

@obscurity87

2 жыл бұрын

@@ifrahdb the definition of a lesbian is a woman who is attracted to other women...confused with the fact that they consider themselves nonbinary?

@ifrahdb

2 жыл бұрын

@@obscurity87 what? are u confused or are u saying im confused? bc im not confused haha

@casiecase12

2 жыл бұрын

@@ifrahdb yall are confused asf

@ifrahdb

2 жыл бұрын

@@casiecase12 im not confused? sexual orientation ≠ gender idenity / pronouns. i can be a lesbian who goes by she/they

i came out as lesbian at 19 (i’m 22 now) and i relate to kehlani so much and i think that’s why she’s one of my fav artist, i suffered with compulsory heterosexuality but also internalized homophobia and it took me so long to accept myself but now i am free and i can finally breathe

@stuff1784

2 жыл бұрын

I’m 24 and still haven’t fully come out 🙈

@2KLONEWOLF

2 жыл бұрын

@@stuff1784 it takes time, u dont have to come out to anyone as long as you come out to yourself, thats the important thing

@2KLONEWOLF

2 жыл бұрын

im glad to hear that, also your very pretty

@mekaysiawilliams9410

2 жыл бұрын

@@stuff1784 I’m 18 years old and I’m a tomboy and a lesbian and she’s 2 my favorite female R&B singer and I haven’t come out to my grandma and my aunts and my dad so I’m just going to keep it to myself and keep my sexuality to myself and that’s the way I like it so I’m going to wait a while until I’m ready come out to my aunts and my grandma and my dad so I’m still very much in the closet still so I came out to myself as you said I came out my mom and my brother and my cousins and their all cool 😎 with it they accept me for who I am and I love ❤️ myself and I love ❤️ my family very much and I’m proud of myself for coming out being who I am a lesbian I like being a lesbian because if God can accept me as a lesbian then I can accept myself as a lesbian and I do accept myself and that’s why I’m a lesbian because if My family and God can accept me then I can accept myself and I find myself and be who I am that’s what I did and that’s why I am a lesbian

@sapphic384

2 жыл бұрын

I could not relate more to this. I just turned 22 in October and realized I'm lesbian this year. I've gone thru the same. My mom is homophobic and my dad was once upon a time as well. He seems to be accepting for the most part now tho. I'm excited to continue to try to fully accept myself and find myself by expressing myself the way I should've long ago.

you don't know how powerful it was to grow up in the era of Kehlani, Keke Palmer, Zendaya and the other tomboy-ish / feminine presenting with androgynous style. I'd love to hear about K's experience with motherhood as a queer person and if she/they wants more kids, what that would look like for her/them, etc. if they are comfortable, ofc :)

@jannafreudenberg1878

2 жыл бұрын

So true

@Sssssssslf

Жыл бұрын

In what world is zendaya or keke Palmer tomboyish or androgynous?!?

@QueenZsWorld

Жыл бұрын

@@Sssssssslf in the world of 2011-2016 or so. that's when I was growing up, looking at their street style, on their IG etc. you might be used to their glam style, but I grew up in an era when they gave more menswear looks. everyone's definition is different though.

@brittanyanderson9038

11 ай бұрын

Brittany ❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕🇱🇷

@andria8279

9 ай бұрын

@@QueenZsWorldI remember that Zendaya… I was obsessed with her for a while.. my lesbian awakening

kehlani coming out as lesbian after identifying as bisexual for so long literally described my life, and being able to relate to my idol like that is really comforting i love her so much

@LgbtColortv

Жыл бұрын

I love kehlani big fan congratulations on your success of life being honest being a mother being a lesbian being whatever you wanna be that doesn't make you a person of social media to talk about it's life you have a Soft spirit just like me I totally understand I have four mix children that I pushed out and I just came out four and a half years ago so yes at that point I was bisexual and then the question started coming like🤦 I can't have all these kids and be gay? are you really gay all those kids ?why you just decided that you gay now? how you know your gay?so you just wanted to have kids with a man and then go gay ? Women that got kids take all the good ones so they confuse to 😩So I wasn't worthy enough to be with a woman that loves me and my children because I have four children with one man I was confused suicidal emotional left out heartbroken helpless scared for my children because how would Mens feel about the situation or my kids daddy might feel even my family and friends those are the questions 😩🤦💔but never got with a man or look at after me and my girl friend got together I am very open I'm happy I'm in love she has the sweetest heart she a giver she a motivator she loves my children I am comfortable I'm shy..but no feeling of the hurt and pain from multiples men that I came across but no not all men is bad I don't hate men's I just feel more connected with woman's 😊I love feminine females but I also like females that's masculine and act aggressive no stereotype that's just what I like and men's still holler at me everyday and I have nothing against that but I will never have a man's experience again I'm a woman for a woman ..and she's my first almost 5yrs🥰

everyone that’s ever judged them for changing so much needs to watch this and realize people are allowed to change

I just came out as Lesbian two days ago. I feel so much peace now. I can relate to every thing Kehlani said about coming to terms with everything... literally everything I experienced.

@lavonnealexander6936

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣girl I came out last year. Been happy since. Congratulations to you.

@jessklaroliner8758

Жыл бұрын

It's crazy. I've been a lesbian since... Since forever. I've always felt it. I'm 21 rn. I am so upset you all had to go through experiences to even discover it, it should have been your identity from the beginning, you should've felt comfortable since the beginning 🥺

she's so deeply honest with herself and others. I love that

I loved this conversation so much!!! I could listen to Kehlani talk for hours, she’s such an amazing soul💜

When Kehlani came out as lesbian; I literally was like okay....like you said it was not anything new. She been liked women even while dating guys; so the fact that she took one more step and accepted the fact of being a lesbian was like okay....NEXT!! I was not surprised at all. I was more so like she knows where she stands with herself in her life right now.

thank you thank you Kittens for bringing Kehlani on to this podcast to talk, feel, and bring some light to all of the deep shit that, personally, i have been feeling so lost in - sexuality, family, spirituality, living in an era where you can be constantly perceived, all of that. it was so so lovely to hear two queers of color be so real about all of the things i think about a LOT these days, and articulating, putting words to feelings, that i thought no one else really felt. this talk was life-giving!

@iamKITTENS

2 жыл бұрын

Ahh♥️♥️♥️♥️

When I tell you I was waiting I was WAITING PATIENTLY lol but this video is everything! 💛 Nothing but the truth bring spilt here and I'm loving it! 🥰

@iamKITTENS

2 жыл бұрын

lmaoo thank u for ur patience!

No one should ever put you in a box to please (them)! God always take you on a journey, and during the particular time you may not get it, but eventually you get the message for you. The word Growth is powerful, and you learn to stay in tune with you! I’m 55, and I’m still a work in progress but I’m in tune with my journey and I stay grounded and work through it. You are a beautiful soul working and stay connected to the inner you❤️

she's literally so cute and made a topic that is often redundantly heavy feel so normal and light. shoutout kehlani

Honestly, these were the best 55 minutes of my life. Got me cry to laugh in seconds. Don't know if Kehlani ever talked about this before but now that i know that ESCAPE is about a girl made me love even more this song (one of my favorites btw). The part that they said about the marriage get me so emotional 😭 i'm on my way to marry you please wait for me 😂💍 all this conversation made me so happy fr lots of love from BRAZIL!!

@mariasxavier

2 жыл бұрын

Que casamento é esse AMG?

it is so so so validating to hear a person i’ve looked up to for so long talk about their gender and be able to resonate to some extent. thank you for this i needed it

YES I LOVE KEHLANI SO MUCH

@iamKITTENS

2 жыл бұрын

dont we all

Yes, thank you for coming out as Lesbian. Words do matter. Lesbian visibility matters. 💖

Yesss I loved this so much! Glad they’re finally sharing their journey and evolution as an artist but a human as well!

@iamKITTENS

2 жыл бұрын

most inspiring and resilient human

@krstenangel_

2 жыл бұрын

@@iamKITTENS exactly! i felt so comfortable watching the two of you discuss everything containing the topics of feeling freedom, sexuality, etc

i’ve been listening to kehlani since middle school !!!! they’ve definitely helped me figure myself out and i’m so happy they’ve finally figured themself out:).

LOVE!!! You can totally see how happy she is and you just love to see it!! So much of this is relatable and it makes it that much better. 💯🔥👏🏼

thank you so much laniiii for this and for just being you ❤️🥺 it makes me feel seen in my identity. tsunami gang 4L 🌊🤞🏽

Been waiting to get to know more about Keh 🥺💕 her soul is ✨ thank you.

I really like how they just casually talking but about deep important things and describing identity and maturation so good

This is such an amazing interview. That self discovery opens up your mind in a whole new level. I am excited for her.

its funny and comforting to see how kehlani also read the master doc with comphet etc. i been thru all of that last year and im only 20, its nice to see how everyone goes thru relatable things despite different life stages

I understand now why her songs hit so hard. There is so much emotion and passion in her songs so its nice to know its from a person see was seeing at the time.

Really loved that i searched for this more in depth about Kehlani, her journey and aspects of her values. Beautiful. Love the aspects of energy describing feminine and masculine. Really resonates. Also loved the conversations from both of you. Thank you for this interview! 💖

This interview was EVERYTHING. I personally resonated with a lot of what Kehlani said about coming to terms with her identity. And this whole conversation just brought me so much comfort and joy.

imagine being the girl they wrote Honey about 😩 god i wish that were me

Everything she said resonates and was spot on. Whew!!! I needed this 💛.

love this talk so much! worth the wait 🖤🥰

So open and honest love it like this is truly what we go through in identifying who we really are

Epic interview. Appreciate the genuine honesty. makes me proud to begin living my truth. much love & support.

Such a truthful and honest discussion. Very insightful.

This was so raw and honest. Thank you for a great interview 🌈❤️👏🏼

This was so cool to watch! Just two friends having a dope conversation! Love the vibe!

This Was My Favorite Video Yet! I’m So Proud Of Kehlani and Their Journey With Lesbianism!

Wow, its been amazing to watch Kehlani’s journey. They are always amazing me!

this was such a cool convo! kehlani is one of my favorite artists & they are so beautiful so it was so interesting to hear a little bit of kehlani’s journey!

@rodrigohoy7186

2 жыл бұрын

Are you lesbian as well?

notes for self 8:00 16:14 compulsory heterosexuality 20:54 23:46 about people making a big thing about it/avalanching 25:27 yes it means a lot! 35:40 generational healing, importance of family 36:24 didnt believe in marriage until she came out 38:30 paper work, jesus in marriage

I love and appreciate Kehlani so much, as a non-binary lesbian they inspire me and them opening up about their journey is so eye opening for my own. Thank you for this💗

This nourished my soul on so many levels!! 💜✨ I can't even express how good it feels to watch content that is for us and by us. The L Word review was pure gold😂

I’ve had writers block for a long time now, but this interview inspired me to write and self-reflect. Thank you!

Thanks for this interview ☺️ I love, love LOVE her music and could already tell she sings from experience and from the heart ❤️. I love it 😍

Kehlani always makes me feel better. With her music, intervievs, her spirit ❤❤❤

This is incredible. I loved this!

I love this. This was such an enlightening interview. I’m also happy for them and where they are on their journey.

I really needed this interview, kehlani has helped me so much personally. Hearing these convos from someone I look up to while I am personally struggling has made me feel so much better. thank you for this!

I found your channel searching for kehlani and I’m a subscriber now for sure. This conversation is so much needed. Kehlani is such an amazing person in every aspect. This flow of conversation is amazing and seemed so easy between the two of you. Everything about this I loved.

@iamKITTENS

2 жыл бұрын

aw hi welcome! thank you so much :)

Feeling so seen... only ten minutes in and this interview is everything.

Love this soo much!! Me as a Queer person I am growing more and more into my ultimate self. So hearing their journey is so inspiring

This was absolutely amazing thank you so much for this

this what we been waiting forrr😍😍

@iamKITTENS

2 жыл бұрын

thankyou for being patient!

Love this conversation so much, it was so insightful and I love hearing Kehlani talk 😩❤

I'm here again, for like the 5th time, something with hearing someone experience the exact same thing you did is so validating.

🫂 You made me feel seen. As someone who identified as a bisexual and came out as a lesbian, I felt (still do) feel shamed by my past with men. It’s the performance. Thank you for affirming me!

such a good interview, thank you so much!

I was waiting for this I love it so much that she’s happy and feels good 💛💛💛💛

I appreciate this conversation so much

Omg this interview was freakin LIFE!Watching someone’s live brought me here. That person is absolutely in love with Kehlani and I wanted to know…who is Kehlani? And what is it about her that makes people drawn, outside of physical appearance of course? I mean I’ve heard of her but just never listened to her music. But baby two words…"I understand!" Kehlani you are awesome girl I’ll mos def be tappin in to other interviews and listening to her music. Keep it up you are glowing and your happiness is organic and contagious it shows. Thank you Kittens for your platform and using it to create awareness…it’s realistic and relatable. Great work ladies 👍🏾

omg i was waiting for thisssss . i love it

Her skin looks so perfect and the light looks so nice on her 😩❤

Dang I need some friends like Kehlani in my life…

Kehlani has a heart of gold💛 idk why but she's always been different, like good different, very caring, talented, beautiful.. Always glad to see her happy.. lookin forward to the new album🎶🔥 Can i suggest an artist for a future interview, not sure if thats allowed lol. Just wondering, if not its ok, no problem.

I felt this entire interview with everything in me

okay yes to Helena - the character development is chef's kiss

AMAZING!!! So much love ❤️‍🔥

This was sooooo good!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️

Ugh I loved this episode so much! You guys talked about so many important things that everyone needs to hear, thank youuuuuuu

@iamKITTENS

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching:)))

Snaps n many claps to Kehlani for coming out LEzzzz🤩🤩🤩🤩my heart I knew I felt it, and this affirms me on so many levels thank uuuuu 🥰

Not me crying watching this 😭. I love kehlani so much ❤️

Yay for Kehlani ! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 🌈 ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 love is love .

loved this so much, I can rly resonate with it!

Big Kehlani fan here! I sure appreciate you both for creating and being so open and honest! You both are changing hearts and minds and helping people everywhere accept themselves. We all have our stories and struggles but loving ones self is what's important in life. Ignore the noise and enjoy the moment, love you both!

@iamKITTENS

2 жыл бұрын

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@yaya9845

Жыл бұрын

@@iamKITTENS tolong ya mbak...

I love this interview so much😌

I’ve wanted to hear this from kehlani!!! I’ve been a fan since You Should Be Here! love you kehlani! ❤️

Omgg I love this podcast thank you so muchhh

@iamKITTENS

2 жыл бұрын

What a beautiful and important conversation

This has been my favorite episode ❤🏳️‍🌈 kehlani is incredible. Being queer it's definitely like a roller-coaster and I totally admire the whole process of finding her/them true self. Thank u kittens for this ❤

@iamKITTENS

2 жыл бұрын

My fav toooo

Lauren you're such a joy, so charming and cool and intelligent. I love watching your interviews. I hope someone interviews you in your own channel for this series 😄

@iamKITTENS

2 жыл бұрын

Aw thanks hunnie🥺

My absolute fave artist, literally right next to 070 Shake. So talented in many different aspects & Lani, you are so loved 💘

The woman on the right 😍😍😍 and when she talks about healing and what she went through with divorce parents.. i like her questions and she seems so calm and aware..

I've never listened to her music. I've only heard of her and after watching this I plan to listen to her songs. She is so vulnerable and down to earth and that makes me like her just as a person. I wish I knew her as a friend.

YES i was waiting for this

Kehlani is very sensitive. She should not read those mean comments. It’s gotten to her understandable Such a sweet soul under so much heavy scrutiny by the public at such a young age. Relationships are not about gender, race, class etc. There about people. As long as her partner whom ever the gender brings her happiness does it matter? No it doesn’t. I love Kehlani!

4:07 is where they start talking about sexuality ‼️

Well clearly not 'news' to you but congratulations on gaining clarity. I so appreciate your choosing Lesbian as a way to identify yourself. Lesbian erasure is a thing and it's frightening to me that Lesbian is an identifier that so many folks are afraid to use. We're all works in progress, all the time, our entire lives. You do you mama. Lesbian proud!

Love this so much. Love Kehlani. I think she seems like such a beautiful person and her music really speaks to me. Just got a tattoo of some of her lyrics. ❤️

kehlani knew what she was doing w that lighting WE LOVE TO SEE IT ☀️😙!!!

I love Kehlani so much and every woman who writes her experience here #courage

I loooved this conversation, thank you ❤️

@iamKITTENS

2 жыл бұрын

So glad!

With the clouds she described Cloud 19 & You Should Be Here awww

I pray she continue to have peace

I loved this video so much🥺

Yo!! Loved this interview. The L Word conversation is gold. I need to know what y'all think about season 2

it's so crazy that now in a couple weeks kehlani will literally be on the series I'm so excited man!!

Loving the L word rant, Kehlani nailed it with the second season predictions!

Was WAITING for the L Word conversation. Did not disappoint.

@ifrahdb

2 жыл бұрын

im still watching and waiting for it to pop up

Wow what incredible humans. Such amazing conversations

@iamKITTENS

2 жыл бұрын

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽