Can foreigners with physical disabilities live alone in your country independently?

@chattykathy9079

6 жыл бұрын

Excellent Part 2!!! Nobita:-) Many Thanks to your wonderful guest:-) The answer to your question is yes. In fact, many people having disabilities are encouraged to be self-reliant.

@netro32

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for posting this Nobita. I recently visited Japan and I was rather curious as to how people with Disabilities handled everyday life. It so crowded in the areas that are so important to everyday life, in Japan, that it seemed almost impossible.

@coralineblue9195

6 жыл бұрын

Find Your Love in Japan can foreigners with disabilities live alone in my country independently?No.They will not survive here, our infrastructure isn't disability friendly, majority of our street isn't wheel chair friendly.Sad to say.

@ATK.

6 жыл бұрын

Find Your Love in Japan depends on what disabilities they have. Country: US

@neomileft3409

6 жыл бұрын

nobita, this vid is a nice concept. tell her she might be disabled but her beauty keeps getting brighter.

My husband (Japanese) is disabled but you can't really know just by looking at him, he looks super healthy, but all disabilities aren't always visible, and I feel for her when she said about when she isn't using her wheelchair. I have 2 chronic diseases but they don't show and sometimes I need to sit in transport. When I was pregnant, my husband and I often used the priority seating because he can't stand up for long, but we twice got comments that he is looking young and healthy so he shouldn't sit there, i was obviously pregnant so I had no comment about me but the first time my husband didn't answered and the second time he showed the person his disabled card and the person felt bad after but we explain nicely that all disabilities aren't always physical or visible. What she said about doctors is so true.. I once risked my life being misdiagnosed by a doctor who was quick to go to the next patient. She seems such a sweet person! I wish her the best in life!

@TheJapanReporter

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing!

@ririj1234

6 жыл бұрын

Sadly some people don't understand the whole 'invisible illness' thing unless they actually were to suffer themselves 😞 Especially when you're young, it's out of ignorance!! Are you living in Japan?!

She is awesome. Actually stronger than most people I know.

@TheBengalDragon

3 жыл бұрын

She, like me, like ALL people like us, have no choice.

I appreciate your interview. And everyone thank you many hot comments! But I can only understand half those comments because I can understand English a only little. Sorry. Sometime I will try to translate.

@sinsemilla9876

6 жыл бұрын

Hope you get out of that wheelchair someday, a pretty girl like you shouldn't be afraid of dating, there is alot of good guys out there you just have to be an excellent judge of character before you engage in a relationship :)

@FukaRado

6 жыл бұрын

Big hugs from Poland :3 You are amazing!

@GlitchPredator

6 жыл бұрын

すたいるぐれいす 頑張ってください! あなたがすごいですよ！俺はあなたをそんけいしています！

@13rnvences

6 жыл бұрын

すたいるぐれいす keep it up and don't be afraid of dating you are beautiful and im sure you will find someone. Never stop fighting at least that way if you go down you go down swinging. Cheers

@lulylulyanka2676

6 жыл бұрын

かわいい かお と かわいい こえ。そして つよく ことばわ

When she says " I can't go out alone cause im disabled, I think its alot easier to socialize if u can go out alone" and u just sit at home - healthy - not going out or socializing anyway. I have a guilty concience now. Feelsbadman

shes cute

@chiari4833

6 жыл бұрын

Neomi Left don't feed the troll. Obviously he is looking for attention. Dont encourage his behavior just report him.

@neomileft3409

6 жыл бұрын

+Chi Ari yeah u're right.

@urjnlegend

6 жыл бұрын

Chi Ari what?

@urjnlegend

6 жыл бұрын

Chi Ari ok nvm, saw other coments

@FBBBO

6 жыл бұрын

Just "cute" is an understatement.

Her attitude really shines through in her smile! I enjoyed hearing her speak

So many thirsty dudes in the comments. That's a shame. She is a shining example of positivity and overcoming the obvious downsides of Japanese culture regarding the disabled. Truly an inspirational person as well. Being disabled in Japan sounds quite challenging and the Japanese Government needs to do a better job at helping and meeting the needs of disabled folks like her. I have a disability myself and there is quite a lot of prejudice towards disabled people. We need to teach our children all over the world that disabled people are just like anyone else and deserve respect and human decency like anyone would expect. I now feel less nervous about visiting Japan and will make it my goal to do so in the near future. Thank you for sharing your stories of hardship and your wisdom miss. I wish you the best for the future and stay strong and positive as you have been! Again you are an inspiration!

I firstly thought: she is beautiful But at the end of the video it was more like : all of her is beautiful

She is so positive and beautiful. I love listening to her and looking at her. What a beautiful spirit.

I feel so bad for her, but I really admire her perseverance

@tordyclark

6 жыл бұрын

Why do you feel bad for her?

@MomoChanhs

6 жыл бұрын

Cause she can be leading a normal life like the other people in Japan. Which she wants to, but can't have. She's young with many chances in life for her, but to be down with so many TERMINAL ILLNESSES and developing more as it goes along, you can't help but feel bad that she's experiencing all these... To add on, you can tell that she's a nice and thoughtful person, so why wouldn't you feel bad for her?

She is a strong woman!!! 頑張って! Very inspirational, ありがとう

She is beautiful inside and out. such strength and resolve to continue despite what hand she has been dealt. We can all learn a lesson from her.

This was a very heartwarming video

Great interview Nobita! Actually this brought tears into my eyes. She is incredibly wise and emotionally very strong! I just love her positive atitude to life. I'm sending her pure love and light and wish her all the best in life! In my home country Turkey, you don't see many disabled people out on the streets, because the situation is pretty much the same as it is in Japan. However, in Finland, where I live now, it is completely the opposite. Everything from public transport to housing, shopping centres, schools, libraries, restaurants etc. is designed with accessibility in mind. Disabled people can also find jobs and they get social support from the government. They are treated as equals and with respect, as everyone should be. They can use public transport for free. Finnish people value independence, so here in Finland not only disabled people but also elderly people can go out of their homes alone, using a special walking aid called "rollaattori". I hope we can all learn something from the Finns! Have a beautiful day and keep up the good work Nobita! :)

@Nabium

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah. I get what you're talking about. I live in Norway and we always get accused of having so many physically and mentally disable people by people from Eastern Europe and the Middle East. For a long time, I thought it was true, that something in our genes that gives more people downs and other conditions. In Eastern Europe, there have even been a lot of newspapers and TV-news stories about how we in Norway have so bad genes we "kidnap" children from their countries to give to Norwegian parents if they come here to work(because Norwegian child protection service will take any child that is abused and put in foster care, and these Eastern Europeans aren't used to that, so if they hit their children they lose the custody of their child, and then they blame our government afterwards for stealing their child(when they should never have hit their child in the first place)). But then they did studies on it, and found Norway and Scandinavia are equal to other European and Middles Eastern countries when it came to ratio of physically and mentally disable people, including downs. It's all a myth, there's no truth to it being more disable people here. The only difference is, we have a lot of programs made to make it easier for disable people to get out and be a normal member of society. Also we have less shame about it. So therefor you'll see more disable people outside, so it will seem like we have more of them, but really we don't. If you're completely unable to walk, you might get a wheelchair, and if you have trouble using the wheelchair - like with CP - they'll hire you helpers, professional people paid to help you so the burden on the family don't become too much. And if you have a child like that, the government might give you a van for free, a van which is custom designed for bringing handicapped people. If not, they'll pay for disable-adjusted taxis. When my grandmother was old, she got that walking aid you mentioned. But the government also fitted a chair lift in the appartment block she lived in as she couldn't walk the stairs. She got visiting nurses and aids who would check on her twice a day, make her dinner, buy her groceries, clean her floors, shower her and clean her clothes. She also got a lot of other equiptment, like an easy to use bed, a weird item to help her put socks on, special long socks to help with blood pressure, a chair that wasn't painful for her to sit on, a lot of stuff like that. Then she got physioteraphy once a week, and she got 100 free taxi rides a year. She had to pay for the groceries they bought, but except for that it was all free. Including all medicine, hospital bills and doctor appointments off course.

@turkantezcan1731

6 жыл бұрын

Nabium, thanks for the detailed comment! I totally agree, "locking up" disabled or elderly people into their own homes doesn't mean that they don't exist. I strongly believe that it is the responsibility of governments (be it socialist or capitalist) to ensure all the citizens get the respect and receive the service they deserve. Ignoring problems just doesn't help them disappear. I work as a community interpreter in Finland and experience first hand how well each and every citizen (including kids) are protected and being taken good care of by the government. It's embarrassing to admit but in Turkey using physical methods to discipline kids is still a common practice. (I had my fare share of it until I was 18 too, LOL). And the government has a funny approach to it, which is basically "what happens in the family, stays in the family", even worse "what happens in school, stays in school". I can go on and on and on, but you get the point. I've never been to Norway, but I'm happy to know that you have a social system which is similar to that of in Finland. One of the things I love about living in Finland is that, regardless of their abilities or disabilities, age or gender all the people (and animals) are treated with respect. And I feel more at home in Finland than in Turkey. Greetings from from Finland to Norway! :)

@Nabium

6 жыл бұрын

Yes. Each government should assist their citizens. That should be basic human nature, to help your fellow man. While the economic situation of the country off course has to count, each country still has to do it best with what it's got. When I was in Thailand, for example, I lived for a couple of months in a secluded rice growing village that is poor by Thai standards. But, an old woman I met there had gotten walking aid equiptment given to her by the state. Showing that even though not everyone has the ability to help their disabled peoples in the same way the Nordic countries can, more normally developed countries can also assist their citizens. It was such a nice suprise to see that other countries also cares. I took an elevator with a West African(I assume, based on her looks) woman who was yelling at and hitting her autistic child because he was being weird. The strikes were soft, but still a cultural shock for me. I could see she was embarrased by her own kid. A shame thing, I guess. He wasn't doing anything wrong, the boy, he was just acting weirdly due to his mental disability. I tried to explain to her that the boy was just being himself, and was probably autistic, but I don't know if she understood or not. She seemed embarrased and just said "yes yes". This is probably the most important thing, to not be ashamed of disabilities, not wanting to hide it away, and particularily not mental disabilities. I'm glad to see you have such a good heart, and to see you feel at home here in the cold North. You are exactly what we need more of :) Thank you.

@turkantezcan1731

6 жыл бұрын

I love travelling, too. It's a great way of getting to know other cultures and their practices. The good thing about it is that we can learn from those cultural differences and even better we can teach people better ways of doing things. Just like you did in that elevator. I think you did the right thing by talking to that mother with the autistic child. Judging from what you wrote, I think you are a kind hearted and caring person. The world needs more people like you so that we could change the world for the better, one person at a time. I personally am trying to inform and educate my friends and acquaintances each time I go to visit them in Turkey, especially about the things which are commonly practiced here in Finland. For example, about gender equality, how to solve problems with negotiation, rather than fist fighting, how to better serve customers and how to preserve and protect the environment, the importance of recycling and avoiding littering and so on. By the way, thank you for your kind words! I consider myself a global citizen, and I believe that as humankind we have responsibility towards our fellowmen to take care of one another and support each other. Sending you pure love and light with positive vibrations! :)

@lobaetoile8440

6 жыл бұрын

Nabium: Wow. That's interesting... It's so sad to realise that in so many countries disabled people don't seem to exist simply because they have to live a reclusive life, almost like animals in a cage. :'( Hopefully, if we care and we work for equality we can improve this situation in other countries and follow the example of Nordic European Counties.

one thing for sure Japanese people are shy so don't get offended if you get the silent treatment. be yourself and you will be just fine. don't be what others want you to be it will do you no good in the long run. if it happens it happens. if it doesn't happens it doesn't happens life goes on some people will get lucky and some wont but that doesn't mean you have to change yourself because you don't feel accepted it means you have keep trying i am surely one will show up. there is always somebody for somebody but you will never find that somebody if you don't get out here in the world and find them. love yourself first before you love others that the only way you will understand a person better if you understand yourself first. we are only humans..

@Jacob-xx2bx

6 жыл бұрын

this is too true !

Oh wow, she's beautiful. 25 illnesses, that's awful, I hope she's well though.

She is very pretty. The whole time I couldn't stop thinking how beautiful she is, her voice is very nice too. and her words are encouraging!

She's bueatiful. 25 illnesses but still smiling.

Very inspirational person I'm glad you reached out Nobita I wouldn't mind hearing more from her.

The most beautifull Wheelchair user i have ever seen. Very Smart. Good Interview Nobita, keep up the good work.

I love your channel! Your the best

I'm really glad you posted this video. It's given me alot of hope that, even though it's unlikely I will ever get to live in Japan, I should be able to visit without much difficulty as long as i have someone with me. I was born with a mitochondrial disease (if you think of your body like a car, the mitochondria are the engine. They're what gives your body strength (through your muscles) and give you the energy to move). Over time, as a side effect, it caused many other complications and illnesses to manifest. Nowadays, like this young woman in your video, I am also wheelchair-bound and cant even leave my house without assistance. As for where I live. Here in Texas, USA (and note: Texas is a big place, so it's very likely things vary alot throughout different parts of Texas) it is very difficult for physically disabled to live alone. There are certainly options to try, though. One option that was explained to me was this assisted living home. The waiting list was 8 years long though, and even then I would have had to pay to live there, and as someone unable to work, that would have been very inconvenient. Another option is hiring a nurse to come help you do things like bathe and any medical-related assistance. I havnt needed that though because luckily my mother happens to be a nurse. Aside from that, the only thing I can think of off the top of my head is placing yourself in a Home, and by that I mean the type of place the elderly tend to be sent when they have nowhere else to go. But it's another situation where you have to be able to pay for it. In my specific situation, if anything happens to my mother, I will very likely end up on the street because I cannot afford any of the services provided to disabled people. On the note of how the disabled are treated, it's disgusting. In the area I live in, any disabled using government assisted medical insurance, such as Medicare or Medicaid, gets treated awfully by doctors. Most doctors here wont even accept patients with that kind of medical insurance. I wont say all, but most that do accept them just use them for tax exemptions. From my own personal experience, I get treated like I am less than a person. For example, earlier this year my bipap machine (a machine that helps me breathe when I am asleep) started faltering and needed to be replaced. We were told by both the nurses at the doctors office and by the people who work for the medical supples office where they get bipaps from that it shouldnt take longer than 5 days to get what I need. It took three months, with no explination. You may be wondering what that has to do with what medical insurance I use. As I mentioned before, my mother is a nurse, and has been for a long time. She knows from working in the field how people like me are viewed. She is also very good at getting other nurses to say what they normally wouldnt say in front of other patients. Kind of like a "Oh, she's one of us" thing. And on many occassions she has gotten a nurse to admit (usually very ashamedly) that the reason something is taking so long is that I got pushed behind patients with medical insurance that is not government-assisted. I'm going to stop there. I am very sorry for the novel I just wrote in your comments section. Once again, I am happy you posted this video. No matter what the struggles of being disabled in Japan are, it doesn't sound any worse than what I already experience, so I'm confident I can find a way to manage if I am ever fortunate enough to go there (probably with my mother). I hope so. If you're even still reading at this point, sorry again for saying so much. Please take care, and please keep doing what you do.

@TheJapanReporter

6 жыл бұрын

Appreciate your thoughts!

@MomoChanhs

6 жыл бұрын

Please continue to be strong! Hopefully they'll find a cure for it soon. Well wishes for you!

Wow she's hot, she's beautiful on outside and inside. I like her perseverance to keep pushing despite her disabilities. Makes me realize how grateful we should be just for being able to walk and do other things. I wish her the best of luck.

she is such an inspiring woman

She's AWESOME ! please Nobita we want to see her in future videos :)

This really got me in the feels, i think its good you look at her side of it aswell. Love Your stuff man keep it up

I have a mild (if there's such a thing as mild??) case of MS and walk with a limp, going up stairs at train stations I had numerous people offer to carry my luggage up for me.

God damn, she's insanely beautiful!

I'm an American with a different set of physical ailments, but a lot of what she said sounded like my daily life. If you would, please let that young lady know at least one of your American fans said a prayer for her and wishes her all the best in the future.

This video helped a lot. I have several illnesses too, epilepsy, partial blindness and EDS. I hope to go to japan one day and am glad to know all of this

@k.m.6939

6 жыл бұрын

rabba didi hi fellow zebra!!

@rabbadidi7385

6 жыл бұрын

K. M. Hey :). What type do you have? Mine is type 3 hypermobility.

@k.m.6939

6 жыл бұрын

rabba didi type 3, what about you?

@rabbadidi7385

6 жыл бұрын

K. M. Type 3. I'm in Australia and am on disability support so i was worried about not being able to get help if i moved to japan.

@k.m.6939

6 жыл бұрын

rabba didi we bendies are everywhere! I'm from the Netherlands :) here we are a bit left to manage on our own, not much support from the government. How is it for us zebras in Australia?

One of the better videos. Enlightening!

she is a wonderful person. props to her attitude and outlook on life. she really made me smile

What a sweet, brave young lady. I whish only the best for her. I felt bad when she told about the mean bus driver. This is one of many things Japan should work on fixing besides being overworked and under birthed.

I love watching your videos and learning about japanese culture. This was very interesting and you seem to ask really good questions. I also want to wish her luck in finding someone in the future who she can spend her life with.

Good luck to her, and may she get better

Hey Nobita, i really appreciate you sharing discussions about this subject as a disabled person i'm interested, especially since i plan on going to japan, o thanks a lot, i subscribede, really enjoy the content, especially the honesty :) keep up the good work!

As a medical student who wants to one day do some training in Japan, I found this quite moving and ill be sure to remember this for my future practice. What I find most amazing is that you clearly are a strong, wonderful person and it saddens me that you are often treated the way you are. I see this every day and there really is no excuse for it...

Such an inspiring video.. I really love the idea of positivity... Like not giving up... I just feel that Japanese people generally have that attitude and personality that motivates and gives me lots of learnings in life...

I'm so glad I came across this video as I was recently thinking about what it might be like to live in Japan with a Chronic Illness. She's such a strong lady and a wonderful example to many. Loved this video, I hope she is staying positive to the best of her ability and doing OK. 素晴らしいビデオ。 ノビタさん、 ありがとうございます

Hello. I don't know what your name is but I enjoy watching your channel for learning purposes. I have learned quite a bit about japan from your videos. Much love from a Latino in the USA

I suffer from epilepsy myself, so at least I can somewhat relate. I remember when I went to school in the late nineties I would be kicked outside the door whenever we were watching a movie or occasionally even when a projector was running. This was all despite me having the doctors word I didn't suffer from a type of epilepsy that could be triggered by flashing lights. I'm actually kinda curious what the Japanese think of epilepsy. I remember my ex girlfriend (a lovely Japanese girl) understood it, but there were some languages barriers and it weren't until I had to go to the hospital she completely got it. It's not exactly the way I would prefer teaching people about it. With that out of the way I want to thank your guests, both in this and the previous video. It was nice of them to share their experiences and the girl in this videos positive attitude and encouraging words makes me happy.

Such a brave girl I salute and respect all disabled person..

She is so kind Loving and beautiful and what a helpful video And in my country ,handicapped peoples cannot live only and mostly who live alone suffered terrible its so sad out here not every one get help to specially handicapped from India

I have end renal failure for nine years I'm on dialysis there times a week. I feel for this young lady.

Very strong woman making the best of her life and situation. Kudos to her.

Great vid man...I've noticed a lot fewer disabled people out and about here than compared to the states which is likely because of Tokyo being such a train based city. Great to see this point of view.

Thanks for this video! My partner and I are both disabled, he's deaf and I have mobility impairments that may never get better. We want to move to Japan one day. He wants to teach English. I'd like to do something too. It sounds like being disabled there is much like bring disabled here in the U. S. I've been bullied and discriminated against much for the same reason: you don't look disabled. Some days I can move around well with just a walking cane and others I have to use my walker it a wheelchair. People think I'm pretending because I look young. I'm 42 and have had bad health all my life. I was in a car crash when I was 14 and still deal with pain every day. People don't understand that. I think people learn the wrong things by watching too many movies. If you walk away from an accident you're alright, but in reality you deal with pain and trauma for the rest of your life. I'm trying to learn all I can about how my partner and I will be able to love in Japan and this video gives me a lot of hope and information. Thank you so much, again.

Thanks for this video.

This was a great interview, she is such a strong, open, enlightened and cute woman. It was really interesting what she had to say, thinks and feels, very insightful.

I don't even know why I'm watching this, but she's an incredibly smart beautiful and positive person. Life is not fair but she's still has a positive outlook on life. Thanks for your insight.

Bless her!! To deal with any kind of chronic illness is disheartening, i hope she live a happy life.

That incident she faced with the bus driver can be grounds for a discrimination lawsuit where I'm from.

she's so beautiful it breaks my heart

@cobydrei

6 жыл бұрын

if she's ugly, what then?

@Light0486

6 жыл бұрын

cobydrei no broken heart? lol

@tordyclark

6 жыл бұрын

Why does it break your heart? You're saying something is wrong?

@mrlloydval2887

6 жыл бұрын

why does her beauty break your heart?

@mrjean9376

6 жыл бұрын

cobydrei exactly! human nowdays typically

What a brave and intelligent girl! I wish her all the best in life.

These videos are really groundbreaking informative! I hope japan creates more opportunities for children and adults with disabilities. For example in America our schools have accommodations for people or children with disabilities. In the colleges and universities they have so many services such as taking notes for people and giving more time for exams or scheduling exams them in a more quiet and accommodating environment. We have teachers that just work with children with disabilities alone, and there are organizations that go as far helping them find a place to stay or help pay for their rent. As well organizations that help look for work. I think Japan could benefit from expanding on these types organizations and educational opportunities.

I think she is very brave speaking aloud like this especially in her position 25 different illness she seems to be tackling that better then me being in a wheelchair with just paralysis. I have been in a wheelchair now 6 years and its still tough this girl has got a major thumbs up in my book .. I want to come to japan and im currently living in the UK and its pretty easy getting around here so it will be a challenge but im going to tackle that challenge Tokyo/Japan here I come.

shes strong!! I admire her

If I knew her in person and lived in Japan (which I plan on doing here in the next few years) I would go out of my way to help her, because that's the courtesy she deserves

She's really beautiful!

This was very insightful. I rarely think about people with physical disabilities in my own country, let alone Japanese people with disabilities. I'm glad she remains positive and tough. Sounds like growing up as a disabled child must've been tough, too. In the US, it seems there are a large number of physical disabled people who own or have access to cars. Considering the low auto ownership in Japan, I assume it's the complete opposite for disabled people in Japan?

Very interesting interview! Is it possible that she could see a doctor overseas? (that's if it's safe for her to fly) She's so strong mentally, defiantly an inspiration. The thing that she said about education is interesting too, I'm from America and I don't really remember learning about how to interact with people with disabilities either, though with social media and the internet, it's easier to get information. I think it would be cool if she could start a movement or something by going to different schools and start talking to students.

Thank you for sharing this! I am disabled and wish to visit Japan

This young lady is an inspiration to me. I love her courage, determination and positive spirit. I think she would make a perfect spokesperson for the disabled community to build understanding with the public. She is articulate, thoughtful, intelligent and pretty. Hang in there young lady. I'm rooting for you. - Greetings from the San Francisco Bay Area.

very good information to know.

Aww i feel bad for her. She seems like a very sweet girl😢😢💙💙

I really want to give this girl a hug, having 25 illness is no joke. #ProtectTheSmile.

I know it's a completely different disease that she has, but her positive attidude reminds me of the heroine Ikeuchi Aya from one litre of tears. I respect her so much. She is very wise and intelligent. I work in a hospital and get to know a lot of people with disabilities due to the big brain unit we have. It's encouraging how strong every individual is. Sometimes they help you understand, how trivial and small your own problems are. I don't want to walk to the far away bus station in the morning, to get to work and wish it was closer. But there are other people, who would love to make at least one step, but can't. Life is a blessing. I hope it will get much easier in Japan, to get around. And I hope that the attitude towards people with disabilities get better. When she talked about that awful bus driver, who didn't want to take her, I got so angry, but then she said the people on the bus helped her. My faith in humanity was restored.

Comments: 60% compliments to how she looks 30% compliments for the video 5% comments in Japanese 5% comments with proper opinions Haha just kidding. It's a shame though to hear about having certain problems in the society when it comes to disability. I mean, disability has always been part of the world and seeing certain things not working properly and people being assholes is so depressing. There are even people who act if they were one just to get privilages.

Great interview. Wise and Intelligent young woman.

Strong woman. Beautiful too. Obviously she has adapted to the many difficulties. Now I hope her situation improves altogether.

After 2 years, I hope she is better!

Hopefully Japan will have some positive reforms to help disabled people in the future. Thank you for making more awareness and effort!

She should start her own channel to share her life wisdom, positivity...would love to chat with her, impressive person

How sad, she's such a strong and beautiful person.

@tordyclark

6 жыл бұрын

Why sad?

I just saw this so ignore my question on the other video but thank you!

She is sooooo prettyyyy 😮

I like meeting people online. but funny like she said i feel hard to meet people in person generally because just by conversation alone they are convinced of my race. Yet when we meet in person they find out im black and then,...well it just gets disheartening to be seen as something to be feared all the time. But what can you do but continue and smile on !

Hey Nobita, pretty interesting video. Althought it left me with mixed feelings - pity and admiration. Pity is my instinctive reaction towards ppl with disability, while i admire her for standing so tall while suffering from such severe diseases. Please do pass on her, that she is an inspiration. I don't want to be conceited, but is there any way i can help with something other than kind words? I have a friend with parkinson and epilepsia and know how hard it can be at times especially for young ppl. Anyways keep up the good work, showing true Japan uncut with its many faces.

She is awesome!!!

Japanese women are the best, beauty, passion & perseverance.

Ah, man... she's really cute (also awesome and strong)

GREAT VIDEO........

inspirational

What a strong woman. Physically and mentally. I hope her all the best and that she soon find a caring boyfriend!

I loved this, thank you. I have M.E. & other autoimmune conditions and it is the same in Australia. I'd love to get to know soneobe like her and encourage each other. It's hard having an invisible illness and not looking sick, people can be judgemental. For this reason I started using a cane as a visual symbol of my disability. There's nothing wrong with my ability to walk, but I get so dizzy and fatigued it's the only way people will move for me on the bus or train when I need to sit down.

It's easy to say she is attractive for being beautiful and strong. But out of all the boys who commented out of self-interest, who would be man enough to marry her and serve her for all the days of her life? Personally, I aspire to be that kind of man.

@RadioLightning

6 жыл бұрын

The fact is that most people would say "Yes I would" but how many would actually do it? You should earn her trust, help her out, smile, being careful of how she feels about what you're doing etc. "Serve her" sounds pretty bad. Maybe it would be more a relationship than many normal ones since you would rely so much on each other for different reasons.

@mrlloydval2887

6 жыл бұрын

lol what do you mean "man enough"? serving a female in that situation doesn't make someone a man. it would simply make you a good husband. a male doesn't need a female in order to become a man. that is ludicrous.

@RadioLightning

6 жыл бұрын

I don't think he meant something bad haha. Maybe it was like when you say "Be a man" or something like that. Have the courage to be a person who takes responsibility and does apply the words you say.

@jeam89

6 жыл бұрын

Davi We serve all the people we love in our lives. Service is a basic human form of expression. We serve in many ways, whether it be in the form of listening to someone vent, or simply offering your company during your busy day. What is so wrong about wanting to serve others, i.e. provide for, listen to, care for, give to?

@jeam89

6 жыл бұрын

Mr LloydVal Whoa, triggered already? Sorry, not sorry.

I wish my nihongo was better to meet her. She is so positive and beautiful, I hope everything is good for you Grace. nice interview nobita san =)

My goodness, she's gorgeous. I'm not disabled at all, but I hope this interview was helpful to those who are. Keep up the good work, Nobita. ＼(^^)／

I understand how difficult it must be for her in Japan, i live in Germany and I need to use a wheelchair too (since 2015). But here in Germany is the help from Doctors or other people not the problem, the only thing that is not so good are the busses. To find a partner is here difficult too. But the people here know a lot about our Physical Disabilities, so it is not the problem with the education, it is from person to person different how they think about us.

Never give up..may god bless u.

Given the Hand she has been Dealt, she's awe inspiring,people can learn alot from her, I hope she's well🙏

Made me cry

I don't know why but this reminds me of 1 Liter of Tears ;_; Keep strong pretty lady, I wish you all the best!!

She's gorgeous, I have 2 chronic illnesses and that is hard enough, I can't imagine. I hope she can live a happy life

When I am in Japan I don't really see any disabled people anywhere, but a lot of places have a step in the door entry way where you take off your shoes so I think that makes it hard for people who are wheelchair bound.

She's gorgeous!

This was sooo informative!! So interesting. うちの末っ子は車いす。だがまだ3歳な。。動画見て大人で車いすはどんな感じかすごいわかるようになった。ありがとうございました

She's very beautiful and seems friendly, despite her disability she has not let life put her down and not let herself become toxic and angered (as I once felt when I first became disabled). I have the same issue as her, that people see a young 20 year old using a walking stick and think "Why is he using a walking stick?! He's too young!" I am disabled in my left leg so I use a cane, I think if I were to date her I could push her around and use her wheelchair to support me as well, I would understand her struggles and we would both need good accessibility so she'd never be alone - it'd be a nice match, except I'd have difficulty if I needed to lift her because of the leg. Her message about 'hanging on until you find the right one' is exactly what happened to me and it brought a tear to my eye.

Nobita, thank you so much for this. I'm so glad you have touched on the subject of disability - being someone with physical disabilities, what your friend has said really has motivated me not to give up. It's interesting hearing how things are in Japan. I would like to request a topic for a future video on the subject of disability. Of course the channel name is Find Your Love in Japan and so would you be able to make a video getting opinions from Japanese people about their thoughts on dating or even marrying someone with a disability (physical and mental) and whether their parents would disapprove? Maybe even finding opinions about whether a Japanese person would be willing to put up with the trouble of caring for someone with a disability. In fact I feel like this could be an issue I could talk to you personally about however, I feel it would still be interesting to hear the opinion of others. よろしくお願いします d(^_^)b