Have you ever got Chikan in Japan?

@brucewayne6932

6 жыл бұрын

Find Your Love in Japan finally one of the first... And no, i have never been molested in japan. Considering im male and i have never been to japan yet. Jokes aside, this topic is important and nobita as usual nice video.

@Jkd_77

6 жыл бұрын

Find Your Love in Japan I wish nobita would notice me. 😔

@brucewayne6932

6 жыл бұрын

Tao Forte woah, calm yo titties. I wasnt supporting his last video, for instance. But usually his content is nice and polite.

@JamesAnderson-hf4pi

6 жыл бұрын

I respect your video's brother much love from U.S.A. to JAPAN.

@livingdespair2650

6 жыл бұрын

No, I haven't. I also haven't gone to Japan yet, so... @Find Your Love in Japan Do guys in Japan get touched by chikan too? I'm curious, mostly because we are learning Japanese from the Genki books and takeshi-san got touched on the train.

MAN DO I GOT A CHIKAN STORY YOU GUYS!! I remember when I was taking the evening train back to kumiyama kyoto and I saw that this girl (seemed about 18 years old) was being molested by this salary man, I was shocked as fuck because I look around and though she wasn't making a huge scene she was making a few wimpers but no one was helping her. So I got really pissed and I'm a pretty tall guy and mixed with African so to a pretty short molestor dude I didn't have a problem taking care of the situation. So I came to the side of the little girl and asked if she was ok? (I obviously knew she wasn't but just to kinda calm her down) she told me about the dude behind her and I told her I'd take care of it and I told her to follow me at the next stop. Now the train makes it to the next stop and then I grab the molestor and put his hands behind his back I pick him up and carry him outside the train with the little girl following me behind and when I get off the train an elder couple comes off and wants to follow us as well. So I continue bringing the molestor to the nearest police station everyone in the area was looking at us (Embarrassing as fuck but you know what fuck it I'm doing the right thing) we make it to the police station and I tell the officer that this man was molesting the girl, the little girl agrees and tells the officer the whole story. Afterwards the officer takes the molestor in and the girl thanks me and offers to treat me to crepes I take her up on the offer but I offered to treat her instead cause hell she just got done with pointing out a molestor the old couple thank me as well telling me that what I did was brave and a little rash but brave and they gave me and the girl tayaki (it's like a fish shaped dessert) Honestly I'm glad I helped the girl out but Japan needs to do something about this pretend not to notice attitude.

@chitreshmahendran7401

3 жыл бұрын

U sir deserve a medal

@denji5604

3 жыл бұрын

_Not All Hero Wear A Cape_ I Agree ;-)

@danellaarmyjennie6020

3 жыл бұрын

Wow😮😮😮

@avidlifeenjoyer

3 жыл бұрын

Hero.

@adzzgg2043

3 жыл бұрын

Well done sir, I know a lot of people in Japan let this shit slide so I’m glad someone stood up against it

As a father who already had something happen with my daughter I am so glad she came to me as a little girl to tell me she suspected something might happen. I am sad to see young ladies say they never said anything because they did not want their parents to worry. Very sad.

@tiberiumcapoo5093

5 жыл бұрын

That's just how Japan is I suppose. It might also have something to do with them not wanting to make a scene out of it, for fear of it being a scandal.

@MoiraMcGill

5 жыл бұрын

Yes, I would also want my child to feel like they could come to me about such a thing.

@alekslavie5642

5 жыл бұрын

And your daughter trust you! I didn't trust my parents and still didn't trust them! So if someone touched me oder hit me or so i didn't go to my parents.... some i clear by myself and some not... i think u trust her so thats why she trust u and told this! U can be proud of her and yourself 👍🏻

@ameyas7726

4 жыл бұрын

Law is Japan is also crazy tough and unfair...if a girl reports the incident, the guy will probably end up in jail for half his life!

@lemons2300

4 жыл бұрын

@@ameyas7726 Imagine getting locked up 30 years for groping some girl's ass. Big F

I am Japanese, I experienced it a few times of Chikan in my life. (I am not a type of "beautiful lady", and I am a very average woman...) That was when I was 7 yrs (on a street in a rural area), 19 yrs old (subway), 28 (on a street), and 37 (at an animal hospital, done by a male vet assistant). Also, sexual assault things (many times in working places, or Nomi-kai (drinking & eating gathering with a boss co-workers). I didn't wear sexy outfits, since I like tomboy-style fashion. I was wearing jeans or a pant with a t-shirt. In an office, I was wearing pants. When a middle-aged guy touched my hip in the subway, I was very scared. He used his both arms to block my body from both sides holding steel bars that were next to seats, so I was trapped from my back. He pushed his lower part on my hip repeatedly. I tried to escape, but his arm strength was much stronger than mine. I tried to escape many times while I was so panicked and so ashamed of myself at that moment. At the same time, my mind was crying and filled with anger, every negative emotion-filled up my mind. I wanted to kill him if I had a gun, but of course, I didn't have it, and my body reaction was different. Full of fear & shame. I was so scared and couldn't speak any words since my throat was tightened up by fear. Even many people were riding the same train car, nobody noticed.... After 10 min of Chikan act, literally, I did NOT have any energy left to go to a police station to report or to file a document. People say, Why don't you report to the police easily. But I couldn't, since I spent all my energy, and I really didn't want to see nor talk to anybody. I wanted to be alone, totally in a very safe space. And I didn't want to visit any police stations where I see any men. Rather, I got out of a train car, sat on a bench on the corner of a station for a long time watching trembling my fingers. After I went back home with that mental condition, I wrapped my body with a blanket in my bed without doing anything. The next morning, I was relieved mentally a little, so I finally could cry. I am glad that subway companies offer "a train car for women only" during the crowded times since subway companies aware of Chikan acts. So I could go to my workplace or school by using it. In Japan, many women give up reporting sexual assault in train cars, working places, or public spaces. Because the first step, we have to talk to men. Then, policemen or male bosses contact female officers after many questions. It is not about "sexy clothes" or not. Every time, I visit a convenience store such as Seven-Elleven in Japan, I see pornographic magazines exposed to children, women, on bookshelves. It is so hard to walk passing through this kind of magazine saying "Subway Chikan's sweet dreams". Small boys in Japan grew up in this environment.

@colinbellew3020

2 жыл бұрын

If it happens again you need to shout out for help.There are still some decent men around who will help you.

@a.s.1737

2 жыл бұрын

@@colinbellew3020 I know your intentions are good but you have a lack of understanding of social customs in Japan.

@reiga3366

2 жыл бұрын

7 yes old? that man has to be in jail

@hamithyjones3894

2 жыл бұрын

@@reiga3366 All of them deserves to be in jail, no matter what age.

@grunt117

2 жыл бұрын

@Mizy M Mizyさんの事件の話をシェアしてくれてありがとうございました。Mizyさんにひどい事件をしたことが本当にもしわけありません。 この意地悪い人が絶対に止まれて、私にとってチカン人を喧嘩して止まれておきます。電車でたくさん目をくれば、興味ありません。誰でも、助けれなければいけなったら、できます🙏 誰も、恐怖に生活。あまり、ダメ

just a guy asking girls on the street if they ever got molested

@starapples

3 жыл бұрын

nothing wrong

@CJLAKE123

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂I know right. I’m surprised how forthcoming everyone is over there.

@barackobama9457

3 жыл бұрын

@@CJLAKE123 I think its less of a touchy subject in Japan than it is in the West.

@barackobama9457

3 жыл бұрын

@@CJLAKE123 no pun intended.

@kiwikrankers

3 жыл бұрын

Makes for a great pick up line. lol

Culture shock. Very passive attitudes toward sexual harassment.

@kinghellboy9937

5 жыл бұрын

@blue copper exactly, this is way I need to leave the U.S

@2138Dude

5 жыл бұрын

@blue copper are you for real?

@NoodleVerse

5 жыл бұрын

@blue copper What now? Edit: also what does their skin colour have to do with anything?

@kpopsicle9119

5 жыл бұрын

@blue copper it is not only the US though, I've heard some stories of girls getting raped on campus in Korea, Japan , Canada , and in places like Mexico

@yolobtah1443

5 жыл бұрын

@blue copper You can look at statistics, college campuses are the safest places in America.

It just seems to me that Japanese woman are holding alot of emotions back , it's almost as if they are numb or something. Smh

@kaos2317

4 жыл бұрын

Japanese women are not the only ones. In the USA many victims of sexual assault, both male and female, did not speak of the sexual crimes committed on them until 20 - 30 years later

@chompchompmaster2885

4 жыл бұрын

@Jay Japan Love ok buddy

@user-is3yn7xr4c

4 жыл бұрын

They are two-faced but I don't think their numb

@machigiceb7788

4 жыл бұрын

I think Japanese people in general are withdrawn many people say that they just put on a mask but deep inside they're very distant

@coolintuitivename4910

4 жыл бұрын

@@kaos2317 that combined with the really polite/ shame culture in japan makes it even more difficult

The high school girl was on point with her logic. It doesn't matter what girls wear if someone else has the bad intentions and won't respect your personal space or body. It's not the fault of what you wear...

A friend moved to Japan many years ago. It was one of the first thing he noticed and couldn't believe it. He said he was riding and saw a Japanese man eyeing a young girl and making his way over towards her. My friend moved into his path, met his eyes, shook his head "Nope." and the man went back where he was standing and kept looking at my friend with a sad expression like my friend hurt his feelings for stopping him from molesting the young girl!

@annieadelina3766

4 жыл бұрын

That’s gross

@williamdeng7524

4 жыл бұрын

was the man hot?

@patriciaangustia

4 жыл бұрын

I salute to ur friend

@dermikadomampfer3198

4 жыл бұрын

william deng stfu. Just stfu

@Just_another_turtle

3 жыл бұрын

@@williamdeng7524 Tf you even ask that.

Damn, it's really sad and heartbreaking to hear how many of them said yes to being molested...

@jonnyenough1531

6 жыл бұрын

Robzilla_92 My thoughts exactly.

@jonnyenough1531

6 жыл бұрын

Ann Oynmous Well, they have a massive decline in birthrates so that could be as close as they get to sexual attention. Then the sex bots and all that other stuff.

@Li1190

6 жыл бұрын

Ann Oynmous That’s just their culture. In Japan, people try to suppress their emotions when talking about negative subjects/experiences

@AnaliaVeronicaMendez

6 жыл бұрын

It's even sadder that they think they have a little bit of blame on that...

@W.T.F599

6 жыл бұрын

Li1190 unhealthy for the human.

wow... women saying that they're partially at fault for getting molested. that's... i don't know how to put it, but it feels BAAAAD to me, as a non-japanese dude. but probably the one that hit me the hardest was the girl that basically said "i think i'd just endure being molested." that's so sad... well, thank you for the video. very educational.

@nureenizati9422

4 жыл бұрын

Oh, you don't know that? In Islam culture, they have this point-of-view. If you are raped, it's the victim's fault for not wearing hijab.

@JohnLee-fr6pi

4 жыл бұрын

"But you are wearing a whore's uniform" - Dave Chappelle

@alphasamahd

4 жыл бұрын

@@nureenizati9422 no, it's not.

@raywcksn

4 жыл бұрын

@@nureenizati9422 hmm, no its not

@yurichtube1162

4 жыл бұрын

@@alphasamahd it kinda is and isn't. The man can be convicted, but if there is no proof by a minimum of 2 people she will be at fault.

I’m a Japanese and I used to got Chikan very often when I was a high school student. Some guy has a fetish to school uniform. If I stopped train because of that incident, people on the train would get mad at me because they would be late to their work :(

@ayushxx0122

3 жыл бұрын

Well isn't that kinda messed up? Like it's guy's fault isn't it?

@Lilyyaa

3 жыл бұрын

That’s so sad and messed up!

@MelkorPT

2 жыл бұрын

They should get mad _at the molester_ for making them late for work on top of being a vile molester.

@herecomeskefka5611

2 жыл бұрын

That's horrible, no one should have to experience that. In Ohio, on the trains, if something like that occurs. The weirdo bothering whoever is usually subdued by someone and hauled off by the RTA cops at the next stop.

@joydeepghosh9414

2 жыл бұрын

If this happens with their daughter then passengers would come to know how embarrassing it is.

i got molested in the train about 30 times in 2 years. i usually exit the train at the next station. The first time i went to the police station. But it was very difficult to report and they even ADVISED me not to report it . Nothing is done against it and victims have difficulties reporting it, its not easy. The police even looks annoyed by the paperwork. So it feels even more like its better not to report. Once i used Mace on one molestor. It was outside the train, he followed me and i exitted the station and he kept following me. He grabbed my hand and tried to pull me to him. I had my pepperspray in my hand ready. I peppersprayed him. He grabbed his face with his both hands and ran . He was hit by a taxi car. I think pepperspray should be encouraged to use in Japan. It should be sold everywhere . The molesting would instantly stop.

@Lara-vo6rp

2 жыл бұрын

sadly pepper spray is considered illegal in japan but i highly agree with you

@Noname-zs2tb

11 ай бұрын

No, but you should wear proper clothes 😕

@saiofficial2023

11 ай бұрын

@@Noname-zs2tb I usually wear long pants and a normal shirt or jacket , stop blaming victims. Also, even if a victim would be nude, there is no reason for monsters to assault. A decent human being wouldnt do it even if their victim lost all their clothes.

@Noname-zs2tb

11 ай бұрын

@@saiofficial2023 But, the victim also should not seduce the molester.. In case of that we can find both's fault

@Noname-zs2tb

11 ай бұрын

@@saiofficial2023 Being nude and exposing his/her Private parts to a person is also referred as molesting

I can't believe this molesting girls on a train seems commonplace. In America if a pervert did this on a train, they would likely have the crap beaten out of them by other men on the train. I thought Japanese valued honor. What honor is there in standing by and doing nothing while a young girl is molested in front of you?

@darryldanzinger9996

5 жыл бұрын

AndTheCorrectAnswerIs hey I noticed you're from Ohio. I am from Cleveland but now I live in Florida how about you?

@stormbreak7003

5 жыл бұрын

Trains are more commonly used in Japan

@coolintuitivename4910

4 жыл бұрын

The trains are really crowded. So its difficult to notice

@MyriadMythial

4 жыл бұрын

The whole "Japanese value honor" thing is more of a stereotype of Japanese culture westerners put on it. Not everyone in Japan is fixated on any "honor" value system and most aren't. Not standing out and not going against the flow of the group is often more important to them than anything. Doing something about something like molestation while preferable on a moral standpoint isn't prefered when they know it's going to bring attention to themselves. Japan is one of the biggest "bystander" cultures in the world and it shows with things like this. THe entire "honor" being more important than anything more or less died out after WW2 since the whole honor thing was what got them into the situation they were in there to start with. The older generations still hold it true somewhat but the younger generations want nothing to do with it more often than not.

@gwillis01

4 жыл бұрын

I agree it seems dishonorable and insensitive to this American female that a man with moral standards would be indifferent to a woman being molested within his line of vision.

Hey Nobita, I've been living in Osaka for 2 and a half years, and I really feel like the dark side of Japan is really overwhelming sometimes. Most students who come to my eikaiwa seem to have a lot of darkness and emotional/mental problems. I'm not saying Japan is a bad country, but I really feel like this country needs help because most people aren't even aware of how bad things have gotten, in terms of relationships, sexuality and emotional/mental health. I heard that last year the amount of children in Japan population has dropped to 12.3% of the population, which is the lowest ratio recorded in Japan's history since 1899 when they started recording these numbers. Things are out of control, and the huge drop in marriage, widespread chikan, prostitution, ect seem to me like symptoms of how things have become really corrupted between men and women. Sexuality has been corrupted so much that most people aren't even interested in real relationships anymore. Sex is really complicated because it involves emotions too, it's not just physical. I think Japanese people have a lot of shame, which burdens them a lot, and prevents them with opening up and connecting with others emotionally. And in sex, this means that people use sex as only a physical connection, while shunning out the emotional side. Anyway, this is a really complicated issue, which is hard to articulate in just a KZread comment.

@SuperAceguy

6 жыл бұрын

Michael Correia Yes, it's true story. Japan is surely ill. Japanese men and women.. they have loathed each other before, Now they totally ignore each other. The only moment they contact is when whores (women) sell & bargain with sex buyers (men) Otherwise, there's no interest, no love, no relationship between Japanese men and women. Sad but it's a fact.

@gigachad1983

6 жыл бұрын

japan is china mk.2 thats why

@michaelcorreia1377

6 жыл бұрын

It's really sad because Japanese women are so beautiful. Females need emotional connection and strong, caring men to bring structure and stability to their lives. But the attractive girls are so heavily objectified, every day of their lives. They're seen as objects for sex, and that's it. The society subconsciously teaches men to chase physical sexual gratification by making porn, sexual magazines and prostitution so easily available. There is no awareness in the society about the consequences of these actions. It's really a shame.

@dealerofdeth

6 жыл бұрын

deadrye field The japanese word for pussy is the most filthy thing that anyone can say in the Japanese language, and you say there is no problem with the Japanese sexuality? Low birth-rates are beneficial? For how long? If anyone is full of shit here it is you!

@michaelcorreia1377

6 жыл бұрын

deadrye field If I'm so full of shit and you're so smart, then please, explain your argument. In what way does Japan not have any problems with sexuality, and how is the rapidly declining birth rate/rapidly aging population beneficial for Japan?

In japan it’s considered rude to talk on trains cause it can disturb the other riders. I think this is a big part of why stuff like this happen on trains since the molesters know their victims will most likely not react/be confrontational

It's weird that when girls say "I haven't been molested" he answers: "you don't take trains do you?" It's like saying that if you take the train long enough in your life you WILL get molested. It's kinda frightening

@pietroalessandrini

4 жыл бұрын

@@SRBOMBONICA86 wait what? I was just stating that it's sad how he was assuming that girls that haven't been molested didn't use the train, like it's normal for girls in japan to be molested if they take the train often

@peachywe4310

4 жыл бұрын

Србомбоница you don’t have to be a specific gender to care about something: it’s called being human...

@pietroalessandrini

4 жыл бұрын

@@peachywe4310 yeah exactly ahahah

@peachywe4310

4 жыл бұрын

Србомбоница what’s weird?

@pietroalessandrini

4 жыл бұрын

@@SRBOMBONICA86 shouldn't it be a good thing for everyone to care for eachother's safety? The world would be a terrible place if people focused only on the problems that affect them

About 20 years ago I moved to Japan from the UK with my husband who worked for a Japanese company. About 3 months after I arrived, I think I was followed home from the train station ( I didn't spot him at the time) but he ran into my apartment building lift behind me and molested me. I couldn't escape and was very frightened. However, I was taller/ bigger than him and I hit him and kicked him off and he ran away when the lift opened. I hope he got the shock of his life and I hope that it made him think twice about doing it to someone else. It did knock my confidence and I was very nervous travelling on my own for a while. I already felt like I stuck out ( red hair and about 5 foot 8) but I love Japan and meet wonderful people eveytime I visit who are kind and respectful.

@rogueuniversities6866

2 жыл бұрын

He made the mistake of picking on a ginger, unless you mean actual red hair. Gingers are hot but from what I've seen, NOT to be messed with.

You are doing a great job on a sensitive subject. Respect to you my friend.

The young woman at 5:53: "That's the Japanese people, you know..we tend to be faint of heart". This appears to be the root of many social problems in Japan. Man the hell up for some things at least. Again, I think Japan and it's culture are awesome, but they dig their own traps, fall into them and then say it can't be helped. Strangers feeling you up (at least without your OK) is not cool.

@intermilan9731

2 жыл бұрын

Lol. A lot of these gurls commit Chikan themselves. Especially if you are a foreign dude with blonde hair.

@Xx-he9qe

2 жыл бұрын

@@intermilan9731 fake japanese account. Can you accept criticism or not?

This video is very important. I lived in Japan for 3 years (2015-2017). During that time, I was groped. I was groped on the train. I was groped on my way out of the bathroom at the Odakyu store. I was groped at Summer Sonic (a fucking music festival). I was groped while trying to get in the taxi. Each time this happened, I never spoke up bc I just didn’t know what to do. I felt disgusted and embarrassed that it happened to me. I wish I could have done something back then, but I was just in complete shock. I have only heard about these things happening, but when it actually happened me, it was different. It’s like my body froze, and my mind went blank. All of a sudden, I forgot how to react. It was absolutely terrible and thinking about what has happened to me makes me feel sick... I know not all Japanese men are like this but I have had way too many shitty encounters with Japanese men. I’m glad that you are bringing awareness about this issue through your videos. What you are doing is very important!

@dirtidancinboy

3 жыл бұрын

thank you so much for sharing your experience & helping us get how awful this was for you.

@paperboxes

3 жыл бұрын

Are you Asian by any chance? I’m Asian and was groped on a bus in the US and felt exactly the same thing

@Amy-gk2tw

3 жыл бұрын

Very late to this chat but I had the same experience 15 years ago when I lived in Osaka. All my female colleagues had similar experiences. The common theme was it seemed to happen when we were on our own rather than in pairs or groups. I felt probably overly safe and possibly didn't take the same precautions I would anywhere else, including my own country. One of my Japanese male friends told me that the working life in Japan is intense (which it is) and that he thought some of this behaviour related to that, not the whole reason, but part of the issue. I would still encourage foreign women to work in Japan and just take the view that it's like any other country in terms of personal safety. Definitely make an effort to learn Japanese and make Japanese friends, it's both enriching and a valuable support system. I really love Japan, Japanese people and culture. I made wonderful friends there and in particular my Japanese friends were extremely kind and supportive.

@jonnjones8263

11 ай бұрын

Talking to someone would be a good first step. Then start carrying a knife.

I always believed that there's a limit to how considerate you can be to another person, even if it's in Japan. I'm shocked to see that Japanese women actually put partial blame on themselves for being molested. Wearing whatever clothes you like is really just a form of self expression. Who doesn't want to look good in front of others? As long as the perpetrator has the intention to do such a thing, it wouldn't have mattered whether you are wearing short skirt, long skirt or pants. The idea of provocation is completely irrelevant here if the lustful intent is there from the start.

@kaos2317

4 жыл бұрын

the way a woman dressed was used as a defense by many American defense lawyers for many years, putting the blame for molestation or rape on the woman victims. So it's not so much a Japanese mindset, rather it's a gender based excuse males of all cultures used to avoid the responsibility of committing sexual crimes against women. Back in the 1990s there was a rape case where an Italian court declared women who wore tight jeans are inviting sexual assault, that misjudgement sparked the annual event of the Denim Day

@satishm5260

4 жыл бұрын

No matter what u say the fact doesn't change we are animals. I agree on the part about women should not be touched without her permission but if you look from biology perspective, if a gender makes itself looks appealing or attractive it's inevitable that the other gender will be forced to give attention and get attracted to it. Don't expect every man to be a saint who has achieved higher self conscious tho i wish it is true but it's not so it's better to equip yourself with the awareness of how social structure works and find solutions to increase the gender awareness among people.

@mabithebard

4 жыл бұрын

itachi Theonlylegend you don’t have to be saint to not be a scumbag. The level of morality you need to be at to not molest someone is VEeery low, it’s not hard at all. All animals build their own societies and operate differently with their own morals. Humans do not molest, not decent ones.

@Sherrice

4 жыл бұрын

@@satishm5260 This is a bad mindset. So explain to me what excuse you have about the situation at 6:24? The girl's friend had on a long skirt and was still molested. The fact of the matter is that people will molest someone regardless of what their wearing so mindsets like "if a gender makes itself looks appealing or attractive it's inevitable that the other gender will be forced to give attention and get attracted to it" need to go.

@satishm5260

4 жыл бұрын

@@Sherrice u r talking about the psychology i am talking about biology so you are out of point so we can't have any argument or discussion. There is no fact in your whole comment, its all just an opinion. Its not that you only feel bad about it i also feel the same way but you are thinking through your emotions and i am seeing the matter uncluttered and unbiased from a perspective to understand the situation.

The comments that were the most shocking was that they would actually take part of the blame for the situation happening. Incredible

@AegisRick

6 жыл бұрын

I don't disagree with you. But it's just that our cultures are very different. Not a single person here would ever admit to molestation as being even a fraction of their fault. We have almost a victimhood mentality, whereas if you say ANYTHING about the victim, you're "victim blaming". A taboo subject where things that should be said aren't.

@toyamihiyami7941

6 жыл бұрын

Them taking part of the blame didn't surprise me all that much, especially the 10% seemed reasonable, but I was surprised by the reason. They named skimpy clothes, but personally I think they are partly to blame, because they are basically allowing the groper to continue by not raising their voices as soon as it happens. For example, the girl who turned around and looked him in the eye in order to tell him to stop seemed very brave to me. That's how it should be, and if that does not help, then actually raise your voice and shame the offender publicly by doing so, like "Keep your hands to yourself, pervert!". But I admit, it takes courage to act up in public, I'd likely also just wait for the next stop before doing the second option. But if everyone would make a bigger fuss about this, then gropers would actually have something to fear. Currently, even this video, could be read as an advertisement: "In Japan you can grope beautiful girls without fearing repercussions."

@f.a.kefacebook5688

6 жыл бұрын

Yea, I didn't get that either. There's no excuse for physical assault. I don't care how short her skirt is, it's simple self-control to not paw at her. Definitely 100% the fault of the groper.

@f.a.kefacebook5688

6 жыл бұрын

It's simple logic. when somebody purposefully does something, no matter what the reason, whatever they do is their fault, because they're the ones that did it.

@Scorpion122178

6 жыл бұрын

What a retarded argument. No if you showed off your new iPhone in the ghetto and got robbed it still wouldn't be your fault. You are not responsible for the choices other people make. Saying that you should have known better is fine, but that still doesn't make it your fault. This is the same victim blaming that lets people shrug off women being rapped as "well she shouldn't have been dressing that way if she didn't want to be rapped."

The lady with the pink hat sounds like a animal crossing character.

@filmjolkfilmjolk5518

4 жыл бұрын

great content!

@antoniovinuya6955

4 жыл бұрын

lmfao😂

@xinkixho97

4 жыл бұрын

🤣 i just look at ur profile

@ctrlzme.6448

4 жыл бұрын

Kirsten UwU what do you mean?,

@AJ-cq9il

4 жыл бұрын

Dude r u talking about yourself 🤣🤣🤣 nice profile pic

When this topic came up in one of my classes, I told my student, a middle-aged Japanese woman, that back in the old country I used to step really hard and painfully on the guy's toes, turn to him and say "Oh, I'm so sorry" with an angelic smile. Her reaction was "Oh no, I can't possibly do anything as violent as that!". "Then go on suffering" I thought, but of course I just smiled politely.

@ronaldoalberto3510

2 жыл бұрын

Ik this was 10 months ago but you have to understand that chikan is beyond just invading personal space. It's not something that can be easily shaken off, and most people freeze up in these situations. It's cool that you know how to deal with these types of situations, it sounds pretty badass, but it's not the same for others. Anyways I hope this changes your viewpoint about this

I can understand why they don't make a big deal out of it but this is why chikan is also so common over there because they don't speak up

@sinbefregd3254

6 жыл бұрын

Ela If I fell victim I would be scared or pissed. But by the time I find an officer, or walk to the nearest department, or wait for back-up to arrive at the site... I would probably just abandon my own crime scene like, fuck it. Man up. LOL 😤😓😕

@thisisntallowed9560

5 жыл бұрын

I don't live there but honestly if I had a 'minor' agression, like someone grabbing my ass I wouldn't report them I would pass to something else, but if they took pictures or something like that I would report them. Anything higher that this boundary would be reported too in my case.

@indeed7289

5 жыл бұрын

you need to understand the japanese culture Chikan is seen as boys will be boys and its also shameful for women to be sexual in any way that's why they do fake high pitched screams during sex because they're supposed to not like sex

@nefelibata4190

5 жыл бұрын

pretty much, such is life these days or so it seems.

@scottbilger9294

4 жыл бұрын

The Japanese have a very strict tradition of not making a fuss about anything. Groping a girl on the train is rude, but shrieking and making a scene, immediately drawing the mortifying attention of everyone in the car is almost worse. Embarrassment -- shame -- is the worst of all possible states. Samurai (of both genders) used to kill themselves over it. It may well be easier to tolerate the violation than to call attention to it -- as is the case with many such offenses.

Honestly I'm a bit shocked. Just because girl wears a clothes that reveals some skin doesn't mean that this is an invitation to be molested. No matter what you have on yourself it doesn't make other person right to do such a thing. Japanese women should be much more assertive and react more or it will never change :( Remaining silent will only increase problem, No man has a right to do it without permission!

@crackerjack4833

5 жыл бұрын

I completely agree. You can count on the fact that I will not remain silent if I witness something like this. I will actually step in and intervene. Then I'll buy the victim some lunch or whatever, make sure they're OK and be on about my business.

@andy_the_monger1795

5 жыл бұрын

@@crackerjack4833 Well if you wear 10 pounds of makeup, cleavage showing top, and mini skirt. Then ask why everybody staring at me, duh -_-

@de20

5 жыл бұрын

If you dress for attention then expect attention. Nothing more nothing less. There will always be assholes in the world so it is partially women's responsibility(responsibility, not fault) to not invite trouble. Its like going to the bar and talking shit to others, its illegal for them to assault you but you shouldnt count on it

@goemon9118

5 жыл бұрын

d E oh shut up and stop blaming innocent women. It is not our responsibility to cover up because of disgusting people. We should be doing something else about the problem instead of putting the blame on women for “dressing for attention”. That is a completely bs and disgusting response.

@de20

5 жыл бұрын

@@goemon9118 are you dumb? Illiterate? I explicitly said responsibility, not fault, nor did i blame women. If you wear clothes with half your cleavage hanging out and still claim to not want attention then youre delusional

"didn't want to worry my parents" means, My parents were emotionally unavailable, and for some reason the two people who brought me into the world were not people I felt comfortable confiding in. That's how lots of messed up shit happens to children.. If the parents are not the culprits in the physical or physiological abuse.

@user-qn2ey6gk4m

5 жыл бұрын

Saddens me....really

@KrefOner

4 жыл бұрын

If the parents are NOT ? i dont get that second sentence at all.

@lemons2300

4 жыл бұрын

If no one talks about it, it didn't happen. That kind of thing.

@yogadgsix

3 жыл бұрын

They didnt want to worry parents, because they are oke after that! Got Molested dosnt affect to their daily life.

@wrvcn

3 жыл бұрын

@@KrefOner My guess is that they meant this: if the parents were the ones doing or the ones who had done the harm to their kids, their "emotional availability" to their kids likely wouldn't matter in relation to "how lots of messed up shit happens to children"

Hey people of Japan. You need to learn to stand up. If you see someone get molested, be brave and stand up and shout to the molester. I know your culture is very introverted. But you need to change that. Learn to help others who are in a bad situation.

@d007ization

5 жыл бұрын

I imagine a non-culture problem is just that a lot of their trains are so ridiculously cramped that you can't really tell what's going on around you..

@gamingdood2987

5 жыл бұрын

@killermeh meh so you are telling me most foreigners travel to Japan just to molest girls they don't even know about😑

@jana3705

5 жыл бұрын

@killermeh meh where did you hear that? Proof please?

@smilelight7544

5 жыл бұрын

@killermeh meh What? Are you really telling me, you came to Japan just to molest some random woman? Are you for real? Most of the tourists came with a guide, the others just camr without a plan, so they can enjoy the new environment, you never read a few, articles of foreign tourist rape victim do you? Are you saying all of the Japanese person is a walking saint? Of course not, there will be always a bad egg mix in it, even in buy one trap one, marketing style, the reason why there's a low report, just like you heard, because it is troublesome, not only for the victims, but to the one who will do the investigation, that's the reason why the women only ride was born, on their train station, because many of them took advantage of that fact.

@mgsxmike

4 жыл бұрын

@killermeh meh what a load of bull crap

I respect these women for their bravery. Speaking up about such a subject might not be easy, especially for a Japanese woman. Good video as always Nobita!

@ab9840

4 жыл бұрын

These ladies seems to be more outgoing then most Japanese which is why these ladies dared to speak about this. Question, are there cities or regions in Japan where the people are more outgoing.

I like chikan; especially fried ones

@aschryu1682

4 жыл бұрын

ok so you bring fryer to train

@djuxx102

4 жыл бұрын

I like it roasted too

@productreviewmy

3 жыл бұрын

I like it grilled

@81883215

3 жыл бұрын

I do not prefer the chikan to be steamed.

@nathanbarucha3944

3 жыл бұрын

i like tandoori chikan

This is absolutely nuts. I would definitely stop something like this from happening if I saw it going on. Girls should start taking pictures of guys that do this to them, and then post the photo of the person on a social media page to out these people.

These videos are so interesting, love how you don’t shy away from taboo or difficult subjects. Always excellent content 👍🏻🇬🇧

Smiling while discussing being molested on a train. Strange behavior. It has become so commonplace, they accept it as normal.

@tom_something

6 жыл бұрын

It's not just a matter of normalization. Smiling is very common when talking about traumatic or embarrassing situations. In fact, if you watch one of those "true crime" shows where they interview the family members of a murder victim, you'll often see smiles and chuckles even when they're talking about the killer. The behavior is associated with guarding one's emotions or hiding shame. Here's a brief exploration of that if you're interested. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/healing-trauma-s-wounds/201509/why-clients-smile-when-talking-about-trauma-part-1

@poofypoof6508

6 жыл бұрын

It's quite common to smile or laugh when you are talking about a topic that you are uncomfortable with.

@ohsehun6470

6 жыл бұрын

They even have train time slots/cabins just for women

@nishatlala3990

6 жыл бұрын

mangaka08 True. It’s not very hard to get over it. Of course it’s a very scary experience, I’ve been molested multiple times before. But it didn’t really leave me traumatized or anything.

@NarutoFanGirl753

6 жыл бұрын

I smile when talking about awkward, personal things..

My brother's friend (no longer a friend) moved to Japan for several years. I recall him being pleasantly surprised that he could get away with this on the train. He's not a good person for many reasons which is why he's no longer a friend.

I am shocked at how women in Japan are so casual about this as well as helpless at the same time. These things need to change.

Even as a man, at some point I experienced what it feels like to be helpless. Its pretty fucked up

@TheKorbi

2 жыл бұрын

What was the situation?

@johnlicht6532

Ай бұрын

I don't ride trains here in the US, but I have been grabbed a few times in front/back nether regions in bars as a man. Now these were not incident that lasted long, but I just shrugged it off, but everyone is different.

One might be more likely to be molested for dressing scantily but it is no justification for the action.

@dkosmari

6 жыл бұрын

EgadsNo I guess that might have been their line of thinking. "If I don't look attractive, the pervert will pick another victim first. If it's not me, it's not my problem." It indicates a high level of collectivism, but low level of compassion. It's like being worried about homeless people's well-being, but not care about any particular homeless person they pass by on their way to work.

@rozoro4215

6 жыл бұрын

xgrabmyy Problem is those aren’t exactly similar examples when it comes to this situation. They aren’t walking out into, “groups of men”, they are walking out into very public areas where this by all rights shouldn’t be allowed to take place regardless. You never hear about women working scantily clad in establishments like hooters getting molested do you? No, because these are very public areas with loads of witnesses and the molester would be stupid to try it. That is exactly true of this situation as well. These women aren’t wandering around in bad neighborhoods or dark alleys. The real, “reason” here, is that their inability to speak up while such a thing is happening, is enabling more molesters to keep on molesting other people in broad daylight. There is no excuse for this shit, the only mistake these women made was not speaking up during the act, and while the would be molesters were practically surrounded by a potential lynch mob. This is simply a cultural problem that could easily enough be solved by the victims being wise enough to cause a scene when something like this happens, and letting anybody stupid enough to grope someone publicly on a train get a taste of mob justice first hand.

@unusunus4613

6 жыл бұрын

Rozoro Well said

@harrymcnicholas9468

6 жыл бұрын

You do not understand the motive of the molester. This happens on subways. Why not at the beach where the girls are wearing bikinis?

@harrymcnicholas9468

5 жыл бұрын

Hm girls asking guys to beat them up? I think you have a serious problem

Great video. Nice to hear from a variety of every day ladies on this subject. Keep up the great work.

Wow. I just realized that I've been riding the train for 10 years in Chicago and never got groped here. My friend did get her butt touched in NY's subway like 2-3 times as a teenager. The message that it is the women's fault that Japanese women get when sexual harassments happens is also coming from cops. I remember a blogger felt unsafe and went to the cops. She was wearing a skirt, and they say it is because she is wearing a skirt that she was being harassed ...the girl said that they didn't do anything about it.

"Hi my name is Nobita" My head: cue Doraemon song lol

@jofx4051

4 жыл бұрын

Doraemon into song plays

@nikhilhalbe

3 жыл бұрын

Do ra e mo n

i found your channel recently, and i love your content! if more and more people like you bring attention to the problems we have in our societies/world and discuss about them, people will start to think more and the world will slowly change in the right direction. keep up your hard work!

@justiceforjoggers2897

6 жыл бұрын

A lot of people do. Just no one willing to fully listen to em

@lowqualityshitposts8860

6 жыл бұрын

Im wondering how man subscribers he gained with the video about Black people

groper 100%....victim 0 Oh! there should be a game show similar to in the states "catch a predator", where girls are followed on the train with hidden cameras to catch gropers in action and then gropers shamed by some famous news anchor when they get off the train Any producers out there willing to take this one up?

@imthecoolest50

5 жыл бұрын

jzimmt omg good idea

@jacobblanton5179

5 жыл бұрын

I mean, if you wanna see a spike in the suicide rates again over the issue, or even an instance where an offender offs himself within range of the TV crew after a police standoff then sure...

@lisin4444

5 жыл бұрын

@@jacobblanton5179 which he deserves

@cokebear1337

4 жыл бұрын

@Alex Based on this video it seems that they are not being traumatized.

@YogiXXL

4 жыл бұрын

@@jacobblanton5179 "if you don't let me molest you I'm gonna kill myself!" What a fucking brainlet argument.

Hi, I just found your channel and I'm so happy to subscribe! The theme you talked about was so serious, thank you for exposing this as a real Japanese. Gambatte!

I live in NY and I ride the subway. If I saw something like this happen to a passenger I wouldn't be able to contain myself. I would be fighting whoever thinks they can touch anyone like that on the train.

i like the video because you bring an issue forward good job Mr. Nobita!

It’s very depressing seeing the ratios. It should’ve been 100% the gropers fault. There’s things that i love about japan but the way they treat women brain washing them into thinking this is somehow their fault is unfathomable.

@BunnySunnyification

6 жыл бұрын

japanese women are very conservatively dressed though. skirts are very common but and they are usually worn just above the knee, so i don't think it's meant to be provocative.

@tajipaka

6 жыл бұрын

Ryan Naki brody be ambiguous. How would you feel if a woman were to grope your butt because you decided to wear skinny jeans one day. We aren’t neanderthals I think we are at a point we’re we can control our urges and ask for consent.

@Imnotevenhuman

6 жыл бұрын

Ryan Naki If you don't wear a bulletproof vest and get shot by a criminal it's partially your fault!

@Aserox

6 жыл бұрын

Aievuog Yra That's not a very good comparison . . Criminals aren't just going around shooting random people for fun, but molesters are going around groping targets they like the most. I'd also argue getting groped and getting shot are on two different levels entirely. I'd much rather have a creepy person grab my butt on the train than get shot, but maybe that's just me. As an aside, The study over groping on the trains revealed that in fact the more demure and reserved women get groped much more than the provocatively dressed women in Japan, mostly because provocative dressing signals confidence and makes them more wary, while a lot of highschoolers get groped especially around University Entrance Exam time because gropers think they can get away with it much easier (having to apprehend the person and sign a report takes a lot of time, and will make them late to their exams). Overall if any blame is to be assigned to the victim, I'd say it resides solely in unwillingness to report the person. "It's inconvenient" and "I was too shocked", while understandable, lets the groper continue groping and getting more bold. This is Japan we're talking about, calling then out loudly on the train *will* get attention, *will* get them arrested. People will ignore it because it's not their business and that's a failing of the culture, but when it becomes their business they will help. Living in Tokyo I've never seen it happen, and I take a pretty crowded train to work and back home, but maybe I need to take a few of the other lines if I'm going to see it.

@Imnotevenhuman

6 жыл бұрын

DoctorProfessor The point is a victim can never be at fault of a crime. You can only say they weren't careful, never that it's their fault or that they deserved it

Very informative. Well done.

Here in the Philippines I experienced being molested several times when I was in Elementary up to College. I fought back most of the time, cursing and embarrassing them.

Excellent video.Thanks for uploading.

I am so against Chikan. Regardless the situation, It is absolutely filthy of the aggressors. You won't find me being silent about it on a crowded train. If I witness in person a Japanese girl being the target, I'd be that foreigner who actually stands up against it.

@crackerjack4833

5 жыл бұрын

despite the fact that I think it is HOT .... No... Not without consent. I'd be all over that asshole like a fly on shit.

@josepjosep1827

4 жыл бұрын

@@crackerjack4833 wow you christians think yr sexual values are great when u r not getting laid.

@iknowimgaywhenisaythisbut1369

3 жыл бұрын

@@josepjosep1827 and ur point is??

Chikan!!!! I'm not lying It's my friend's name "Chikan" in our language means "SAVED ONE" he was name this because he nearly died during birth

@Micolash_is_behind_you

3 жыл бұрын

lol!

Storey time: Once I was in a bus, when I was still a young adult. I saw a man touching a woman's ass, clearly on purpose, he was taking advantage of the bumps in the road. I went to him , pushed him further away while maintaining eye contact with him to make him understand that we could fight, but we could also resolve that by just keeping his hands in his pockets. I didn't want to make a fuss and embarrass the woman, plus despite my stature (I'm quite tall and at the time I was a lot into sport), I'm quite shy and didn't want the attention. The bus stopped, the woman turned back, looked at me angrily, slapped me and got out of the bus. FFS She thought I was the one touching her. PS: The uni student with braces looked adorable, I had to say it, sorry.

@ajithxyz7950

5 жыл бұрын

I don't know why, but I was low-key expecting that. 😂😂 I more often than not only get on busses with free seats in it and that too at the very corner.

@cokebear1337

4 жыл бұрын

Did you learn your lesson?

@bendovahkiin8405

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe you interrupted her fun :D

Serious Topic! Nobita:-) Refreshing to hear Japanese perspective.

That university student 😍 also this video makes me feel like more Japanese women need to take self defense and learn to stand up for themselves. Japanese people as a whole kinda need to grow a back bone.

@kaos2317

4 жыл бұрын

"grow a back bone".....perhaps in 20 - 30 years they will. Isn't that the time many American children now adults finally speak of their molestation experiences at the hands of priests.....doctors.....coaches....teachers.....etc?

@CJLAKE123

3 жыл бұрын

Well we kind of stifled that after defeating them in WWII and revoking their power to engage in military conflicts & even finance and maintain a standing military.

@battlebuddy4517

3 жыл бұрын

@@CJLAKE123 which is a good thing actually

2:27 "Kumain kana" you know if you know 🤣🤣

Man I love your channel I just love listening to people speak japanese keep making cool videos thanks a lot

Nobita, keep up the good work. We really do appreciate the time and effort you put into these videos. We also know that you do not gain any money from them. I hope you keep bringing us quality content like you always do. Peace!

This video made me very sad :( I'm glad you discussed the topic though!

I love these educational/informative videos that you make, Nobita san. 😊

I'm glad that as a Japanese person who is proud of your country, you still are not covering up the worst parts of it but are showing Japan for what it truly is, good and bad.

For the first time I see a japanese girl wear a braces

@crackerjack4833

5 жыл бұрын

I actually think those braces were attractive. I don't know, I just have a thing for the girls who have braces. Also, it means they're willing to go through a lot of shit to take care of themselves and put them in a better light of how people perceive them. Have you ever worn braces? do you know how much time and work is involved in care of them? maintenance of them? Do you know how painful they can actually be? Think of it as a bad tooth ache, but every single tooth in your mouth, and a lot more severe. So I actually respect and admire someone willing to go through all that, for the sake of appearance and their health.

@Crouton-

5 жыл бұрын

Rum Runner damn I never thought much of them but it must be a pain in the ass to have braces. I always just thought you just smack them on wash em then go to bed and your done

@ledieu7639

5 жыл бұрын

​@@crackerjack4833 This girl was adorable, I don't think the braces have anything to do with that ^^.

@de20

5 жыл бұрын

@@Crouton- i remember when i first got them i couldnt eat anything solid for a week or something. Now that its removed i still have to put on retainers every night which is a huge pain in the ass

Informative video. Thank you for the interviews.

I love that you interviewed a foreigner :)

@5:18 is her voice sped up or does she really sound like that?

Seems like no country is perfect.

@tronerman

6 жыл бұрын

There's no such thing as a perfect society.

@tiberiumcapoo5093

5 жыл бұрын

Isn't that already a given?

@Waterbug1591

5 жыл бұрын

Imperfection is perfection itself, learn this kid.

@Rikarinrin1306

5 жыл бұрын

@@komyobkomyob7013 yeah perfect for *man*

@lolatoa581

4 жыл бұрын

@@Rikarinrin1306 Because they can molest helpless women?

Interesting, most women seem to think it's partly their fault, which is worrying. Maybe they're just too considerate and not wanting to give definitive judgement, but if someone molests then he (or she) is on the offensive, taking action and clearly to be blamed. It doesn't matter how short the skirt is or sth like that, if you grope - you're to blame.

@tomaszwota1465

6 жыл бұрын

There's an issue of perpetrator's fault, and there's the issue of personal responsibility for your own safety. Nobody should harm you in any way, but the world isn't exactly as it "should" be.

@harrymcnicholas9468

6 жыл бұрын

Japanese women seem to be very forgiving. I was thinking of my Mongolian friends. Hm likely kick the crap out of the guy. ha ha ha.

@Agitatius

5 жыл бұрын

No, their attitude is good. Condemning 'victim blaming' has no practical value as victims become victims due to their own choices partly. So it's good that Japanese girls acknowledge reality and thus learn to be prepared.

@keepingitreal9624

5 жыл бұрын

@ Some Random Edgy Guy - Why is it worrying if they think it's partly their fault? It's their way of thinking due to their culture. Who are you to criticise if they think like that just because their way of thinking isn't how it is in the West?

@drakekarr5349

5 жыл бұрын

@@keepingitreal9624 Careful. You'll make his head explode.

If someone thouches me I’mmmaking sure your live is a living hell and you’ll never touch anyone ever again

Excellent video by the way - it was very well balanced and fair :)

Anyone else find it weird how casually he just went up to girls and asked “have you been molested before?”. I mean I don’t know if in Japanese, what he was saying, was more polite, or what the conversation was like before the camera turned on was like, but damn lol.

It's unimaginable how such sad incident can happen to the pink cap girl

Man, I really enjoy these videos! Please keep going!

Pretty cool how he was worried about making this video and the reaction he might get and it ended up being quite real and insightful. Great content dude.

THANK YOU!!! I really liked the Pink Hat Girl's voice. It was somehow soothing.

@matthewfurlani8647

6 жыл бұрын

Rebecca Arnold he always interviews the most interesting japanese people. When i lived in japan, i never saw anyome that looked or sounded like theses folks

@NotQuiteFirst

6 жыл бұрын

It was kinda weird how she was lurking in the background watching the other girl's interview though

@00nicklock

6 жыл бұрын

Whaaaat? she sounds like a chicken 5:15

@kufudokungfu

6 жыл бұрын

Found it annoying

@ierdan4257

6 жыл бұрын

this voice is adorable, for some reason i feel like it could be a great voice if she wants to be a seiyuu or something in that domain...... IT'S TOO FUCKING ADORABLE >D seriously i couldn't stop imaginning a plushie with a voice like that Ｏ(≧▽≦)Ｏ

"We dont know how to express our feeling right" Ok japan, where the form

The interviewer sounds like officer Takagi from Detective Conan XD

@user-is3yn7xr4c

4 жыл бұрын

Lol

Thank God for subtitles

I havn’t ever had chikan in a train. But a girl I knew at the time did harm me. I was 13 at the time and went into shock and was so scared to say anything. So I understand about staying silent only harms you at the end of the day and allows the person who harmed you to get away.

@arkracera7157

6 жыл бұрын

harmed you? She molested you? You don't even need to report it to the police just loudly reprove them and it should make her back off.

I watch your video since qite a long time now and it's my first comment but it has to be said : Yoour videos are really interesting , many of your topics are very researched and your videos are not just meaningless videos just to get views . Anyway ? I love what you do , Keep going ! ps : your videos are nice for me since I'm learning japanese , I feel like I can practice my listening skills lol

There was an article in one of the free newspapers, people often read on sky-train in Vancouver. About the same issue. So one girl stated that iit happens to her about one's a week. It was about 8 or so years ago as I remember. It said it was a common issue.

I thought the interviews were shocking .Asking questions about percentage of blame when the person carrying out the "sexual assault" is 100% to blame and wearing a short skirt has nothing to do with it.In the UK you would be arrested for sexually touching a woman on a train.

@jedimastayoda112

2 жыл бұрын

How are these men in the UK being arrested if none of the women report the assault? What you're actually saying is it is 100% the Japanese woman's fault for not reporting the instances allowing and emboldening future attacks.

@Lara-vo6rp

2 жыл бұрын

@@jedimastayoda112 dude... stfup what is up with guys always victim blaming the victim??? Are you like, mentally okay?

This video just made my imagine of Japan go down quite a lot. I knew Japan has a big problem with controlling perverts but how could people act like it's not a big deal. Just the idea of it not being a big deal makes me sick.

The one thing I have trouble understanding is how anyone can think that in any way, the victim of the sexual assault is to blame.

This was the most shocking thing I ever watched they pretty chill about something so serious.

(Smiling happy girl in thumbnail on the topic of molestation)

Living in Australia I can't believe that so many women think that they are responsible in some way. If no one pulls these Sicko's up they'll just keep doing it.

The molester is always 100% at fault. It doesn't matter what you wear, it doesn't give anyone the right to invade your privacy and human rights like this.

Very educational. I'll be sure to try that when I visit Japan.

Wow. Those numbers. The correct answer by the way is 100%/ 0%. It’s 100% the gropers fault.

@sarttee

6 жыл бұрын

thats what i always say, if one group or party instigates something, everything after that is 100% their fault.

@poofypoof6508

6 жыл бұрын

From an ethical standpoint I entirely agree with you. But unfortunately the world doesn't work like we want it to. In the real world it oftentimes is up to each and one of us to take personal responsibility for our own safety, and to fend off people that might wish to do us harm. When it comes to keeping our houses save from burglars this is common practice. We lock our houses at night, and most people do during the day when they're not at home. There are many other examples of the same, but I think you get my point. That's not of course to put blame on anyone that has anything bad happen to them on behalf of another human being. Ideally no one would get physically violated, stealen from or beaten. But in the real world that we all inhabit, unfortunately it is the case that people that wish to steal from us, or molest us on trains like had happened (which is horrible) to several of the women in this video exist. We have to be realistic about the dangers that do exist in our society, and take personal responsibility that if something were to happen we would have able to make it stop. (while of course pushing for societal changes that will hopefully make this kind of thing happen less frequently). Of course I don't mean to say we should live our public lives in fear. And I personally don't take any precations myself. But by the end of the day if we want something bad not to happen to us, in the moment the only people we can rely on to make it stop is ourselves.

@unusunus4613

6 жыл бұрын

Poofy Poof Leaving your house unlocked means someone can just step in and take your shit. Wearing a slight shorter skirt would still mean your "house" is "locked". Unless the woman is fully pantless she is a "locked house" and blame shouldn't be put onto her. The reason it's wrong to put blame on her is that someone will molest no matter what you're wearing, people in burkas still get molested. It's about power and domination not "Mmm they have a short skirt on better molest them and only them". It's something no woman can prevent no matter how hard she tries.

@Ryan-nq3qp

6 жыл бұрын

I feel like the interviewees interpreted what Nobita asked as "fault + responsibility" instead of merely "fault". They take 10 or 30% responsibility for not protecting themselves and I commend them for that. We should all take responsibility for ourselves. If I park my Mercedes AMG in a neighbourhood that is known for their high rates of car theft, then parking it there would be HIGHLY irresponsible of me and thus should not surprise me that once I get back, my car will be gone. Another example is, if you drive or are a passenger in a car and you don't wear a seatbelt, a drunk driver could hit your car because they swerved into you, seriously injuring you. This is not your fault, but it is for damn sure YOUR responsibility.

@alzhanvoid

6 жыл бұрын

Stew Perfectly explained.

Joe Biden says: "Forget the White House! Now I want to be Ambassador to Japan!"

@chunguss180

4 жыл бұрын

That sick masonic dirty Bastard

@jethrodetailing5955

4 жыл бұрын

That creepy Biden would even sniff all the underage too.

@Notchmods

4 жыл бұрын

"No dating till 30"-Joe Biden

@animeandstuff5377

4 жыл бұрын

Trump already visited he’s gonna have to go somewhere else

@theworldoverheavan560

4 жыл бұрын

lol

People should report more often, having a flow of things that happen could finally get their attention and do something about it.

I even been caught on the number one train waiting for the chief.

Have you tried Popeye's Spicy Chikan sandwich?

I love your channel Nobita san. :)

The real problem is a society severely lacking in strong, good men. Women don't know any better.

Sad and shocking that those who got molested said they never reported it and didnt want to make a bother. That one woman who said she never told her parents cause she didnt want to worry them, very sad.

I’m so sad to tell you that we have that in common. I just cameback from a 6 week trip to asia and my first two weeks i spent it in Japan. The first day i went out i was feeling so happy so I chose quite a good outfit. A tight skirt and a crop top. (I hate having to explain what i was wearing, that doesn’t justify people’s actions) keep in mind I’m 16 and he looked at least 10 years older than me. I was in a fully packed train in Tokyo, i was with both my parents. You know when the doors open and people press against eachother even more? I really couldn’t see if more people were ACTUALLY coming in or not because he was so tall, and pushing me so much that i was stumbling. He just kept putting his knee and full body against me. Even though my mom was continously separating me from him, he just kept chasing me. It makes you feel so vulnerable and sad...

@MLWJ1993

4 жыл бұрын

Just do a little gropy gropy back and twist the bastards balls, that should teach him 😡

1:15 She is so cute!

@IkKorp

5 жыл бұрын

like from anime

@maikolu8810

4 жыл бұрын

I was just about to say that lmao

@junaidking200

3 жыл бұрын

whats her ig

that short skirt comment around 6:15 was not okay dude

It happens a lot in my country sadly, in taxies in buses even streets with crowds T^T