James doesn’t want spontaneous friends, he wants a group of people beneath him that will do ANYTHING he wants ANYTIME he wants

@lavalampluva55401

2 жыл бұрын

Eh...yes, but IMO he's looking for the "hookup".

@Lahurtful310

2 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY!! So well said!! And to build on that…he just wants an army of Bro Tops to destroy him upon request!! LOL

@MoonchildDontCry

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Someone with no personality or life. What he doesn't understand us "normal people with zero followers" have a life. We don't sit around all day. We are not available all day. We have jobs, school, etc. We have to pay the bills and pass exams. We have our own lives and probably are way more busy than his influencer friends.

@jean_1893

2 жыл бұрын

He's trying too hard to be David with the friend group following his every move.

@lavalampluva55401

2 жыл бұрын

@@MoonchildDontCry Right! When I think of Influencer all I see are people sitting around their house posting videos or partying. They should try doing something positive and give back to the community.

Ok but... James calling people "regular" makes me really not want to be his friend. He clearly wants to have some sort of superiority over his friends.

@reeree8981

2 жыл бұрын

Take a shot every time he says "regular" people

@jennakay6172

2 жыл бұрын

His whole story makes me feel sad for him. Normally, I don’t care to hear about him because he does dumb things. But that whole bit about finding his best friend soul mate, makes me feel kind of bad that he’s never had that kind of unconditional friendship love.

@DavidKen878

2 жыл бұрын

Regular means not famous. You all are so damn sensitive.

@Ohmygodgetalife

2 жыл бұрын

@@DavidKen878 Relax friend?? Just my two cents lmao

@DavidKen878

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ohmygodgetalife It being your two cents doesn't change you're still sensitive.

So when people have their sh*t together and have FULL TIME jobs and have priorities… spontaneous isn’t a thing. All of my friends, including me, have full time job and responsibilities. We aren’t lucky enough to have all of the free time he has.

@appeasing

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. His take is very privileged and he doesn’t even realize it.

@paulapiwowarczyk4877

2 жыл бұрын

That sounds like he wants teenagers to be his “soulmates” WIERD AS FUCK. I think he can’t copy with the fact that he is aging

@katiebugg311

2 жыл бұрын

@@appeasing I think because social media has been his only job. So, he's incredibly disconnected to what it means to have a normal job and a normal life. I think he wants everyone to think he has a normal life to use that to be predatory. He uses the "oh I'm just a regular guy that wants a partner" to get out of the issues he causes by being a predator. If he insists there is no power dynamic because he's not a "celebrity" it gets him out of the concequences. I can't stand him tbh. I didn't even know people still watched him. Lol

@jazzinlight1245

2 жыл бұрын

I can hang out during the weekends if I don't have a family commitment.

@mchngrl._.2005.

2 жыл бұрын

i think the only time ppl can be spontaneous is when they're on vacations, or teens who are allowed to go out

i don’t understand how james can even be mad. Like? you went out to a party. you put yourself at risk. Covid atm is just a reality of life. If you aren’t cutting down your risk factors by avoiding large events and wearing a mask, it’s gonna happen.

@Ryan_914

2 жыл бұрын

Fr and since he's had it at least once before you would think he would learn

@markramos1216

2 жыл бұрын

This was word-for-word Tea Spill’s most liked comment on her previous video, but get those likes girly 🥴

@Akhhmorn

2 жыл бұрын

@@datndouzky this comment is extremely accurate.

@bbyeniidhee

2 жыл бұрын

wrong video debo. you’re every fuvking where i just saw u on super juniors new mv wth 😂

@TJ45223

2 жыл бұрын

3 years into 2 weeks to slow the spread

There's a reason why you don't see regular celebrities acting like James on social media - because it's cringy at best and predatory at worst. Could you imagine someone like Chris Evans or Anne Hathaway going on Instagram/Tik Tok/whatever and asking people to come be their friends? That would be absurd. But James wants to have it both ways - he wants the status of a real celebrity when it's beneficial and gets him invited to the Met Gala, but then he wants to pretend to be a normal guy in his 20's just looking for companionship when he goes on social media.

@-nikki9274

2 жыл бұрын

perfectly said! i completely agree.

@jadesantiago9628

2 жыл бұрын

sooo accurate!!

@melissaholland391

2 жыл бұрын

He literally wants to be Hannah Montana 💀

@cyphercritic

2 жыл бұрын

This being said that behavior has red flags all over it the fact he posted this to Instagram knowing how many people or actual fans of his would fall for it. He’s manipulative for knowingly asking for people to benefit him by being his friend like what?

@Nathan-rt5vj

Жыл бұрын

"God forbid he act like a regular 20 year old on his insta.. He can't do that because he went to the Met Gala!" Lol what? FYI In Europe a 22yr old talking to someone 17 is no big deal. So honestly it's that old "gays are predators" stereotype you are perpetuating by comparing James, who was like 21 talking to a 16 or 17 year old on insta, to Chris Evans who is 41.. FOURTY ONE .. Homophobic comparison tbh

James is just so… immature. Like he’s what over 21. But acts like he’s 17. It’s so strange. He constantly is seeking attention and friendship. He clearly is not okay just being alone with himself and it is kind of sad.

@myblacktears0921

2 жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same 😐

@lavalampluva55401

2 жыл бұрын

He's looking for "young" male friends who have nothing else to do.

@JaseekaRawr

2 жыл бұрын

@@lavalampluva55401 a lot of predators are stunted emotionally like this, too 😬

@PiscesPrincess87

2 жыл бұрын

He’s only 21 at 21 you are not this super mature knowledgeable person. James live a fast life with ppl that are like him. He want real friends and it’s nothing wrong with this. Every relationship that he has is in the same business which is the attention business. Maybe he want normal friends shit.

@asutorizu

2 жыл бұрын

Pretty sure he is 22 or 23

Jesus christ James needs to get a real job like the rest of us and see how "spontaneous" he would be. Most people are busting their ass in their waking hours working jobs they hate in order to pay bills. This kids privilege has honestly done him no good. He sure as hell hasn't grown up. He makes my stomach turn.

@aurora6310

2 жыл бұрын

It’s crazy how privileged and lucky these kids are to be earning of tiktok and KZread

@GHisnothere

2 жыл бұрын

@@aurora6310 He's not even a kid anymore I think that's scaring him lmao ..

@yaoixsenpai

2 жыл бұрын

@@aurora6310 *Uses best old man voice* "Right?! Back in my day we didn't have these KZreads it TokTiks. These online infilencers need to get a real job like at a mine, or some trades person!" Just because people make money off of KZread and TikTok doesn't mean they shouldn't. You're like an old person who hates the internet.

@NOMAAM1970

2 жыл бұрын

@@yaoixsenpai it has nothing to do with someone being old and you can tell you're to young to understand what we are saying. Don't get your panties in a bunch. This kid is constantly complaining. He hasn't grown up and does not understand why people can't be spontaneous because he doesn't know what it's like to really work in a hard job like the rest of the world. You don't like my comment kid keep scrolling.

@yaoixsenpai

2 жыл бұрын

@@NOMAAM1970 I never said anything about him growing up or spontaneous. Don't put words in my mouth.

See, it’s not hard to make friends as an influencer. There are TONS of friend groups on KZread and Twitch that you don’t hear about, because they aren’t problematic, aren’t messaging minors, and are just a bunch of friends making quality content together. But, he’s not ready for that conversation

James is giving very teenage energy. Sorry not everyone’s life revolves around you, sis. People can’t always drop what they’re doing to go do whatever fun thing you wanna go do.

@nyainchinekonyaaaarigatouwu

2 жыл бұрын

True

Does James realise he's an adult? Having adult friends means they might not be available 24/7 to do whatever you want. They have their own responsibilities...

@Victoria-gs1ve

2 жыл бұрын

Not really. I have time only once a week to go out with friends ( I am 23 like james) but my friends (23-25) go out and day drink or go to parties all the time ( they are all employed, idk how they do it). I think it depends on your working hours, how social you are, spontaneous and willing to spend your free time with friends instead of having time just for yourself. So there is nothing wrong with looking for ppl who also like going out during the day as long as you're not a groomer like James 😂

@nothankyoudontwantalastnam847

Жыл бұрын

@@Victoria-gs1ve congrats but a lot of adults dont have that luxury

@Victoria-gs1ve

Жыл бұрын

@@nothankyoudontwantalastnam847 yes! That is exactly what I said in my comment. I don't have that luxury but I know people that do. Everyone's life is different. What are you "congratulating " me for?

@Nathan-rt5vj

Жыл бұрын

@@nothankyoudontwantalastnam847 Congrats on becoming ancient and condescending in YOUR early 20s

At this point, the only “bestie” left that would be just right for James is Sienna Mae. She’s almost as bad as he is, they can’t take accountability for anything, and we all know she’s not booked and busy landing brand deals. Plus, on Halloween, he can easily ring her up and they can go as Bill Cosby and Ghislaine Maxwell or something. ✋💀

@basharalbutseggs8056

2 жыл бұрын

Or Jeffrey Epstein.. did you forget he exists

@markramos1216

2 жыл бұрын

@@basharalbutseggs8056 Hence the “or something,” I could’ve listed a whole bunch of others. Harvey Weinstein, R. Kelly, etc. 🫣

@ambersmith2612

2 жыл бұрын

I'd say JUST AS bad... at least James stops at the DM's 😭

@JaseekaRawr

2 жыл бұрын

LMFĀOOO @ the costumes 😭 you're so, so right. He's a literal criminal. Also the audacity of him to call anyone "regular" people? 😆 Shows how he views others, as below him. Or maybe by "regular" he means non-criminals 🤔

@peaceablegamer

2 жыл бұрын

@@markramos1216 maaayybbbeee not R Kelly or Bill Cosby, for uhm. Obvious reasons. But def Harvey Weinstein or something 😭😅

He really just said "regular" people 😭😭 Holy shyt, the lack of self awareness & undeserved ego, for that literal crïminal to think he's better than anyone 💀

“In this world, nothing can be said to be certain, except death, taxes, and James Charles’s undying love for the youth.” 😂

@lavalampluva55401

2 жыл бұрын

Is he on coke? He talks a million miles a minute, and omg all the hand motions is cringy.

@JaseekaRawr

2 жыл бұрын

Banger comments 😌

@markramos1216

2 жыл бұрын

@@JaseekaRawr Thanks bestie 💖 I woke up from a nap so I missed the premiere but I’m always here to show up and show out for my favorite channels 😂👏

the type of friend James is wanting is a person with all the free time to do spontaneous things like that. People with no responsibilities… Children. He’s talking about children

At this point, James needs to be going to therapy and get off social media. He's playing DANGEROUS games with this "submit your application" stuff. How does he think he's going to "vet" potential friends? And with his current track record? No. Therapy. Reach out to people YOUR AGE. Actually TRY to find people your age. James has way more than enough money to join classes/get a hobby/do activities where the audience isn't children. Jfc.

Forget social media training, James needs some goddamn help because this guy is NOT okay

at this point, james being called out and canceled isn't even surprising. he's always in the drama.

@Akhhmorn

2 жыл бұрын

I honestly cannot fathom why he wants to constantly be involved in drama.. it looks exhausting, I'm exhausted just looking at him

@motionlesscreature5705

2 жыл бұрын

It’s ridiculous. He needs to grow up already

James is so delusional for thinking he is so above and great to be friends with other people when he did all those "SUBMIT YOUR APPLICATIONS NOW" 💀

James seems very narcissistic. Like he’s always seeking for someone to fill a “role” in his life (boyfriend, friend, etc). That’s not how relationships work, lol. Things need to happen more naturally.

@madhijkoite6340

2 жыл бұрын

I agree but a point people aren't seeing is how hard it is for things to "happen naturally" when you're an influencer with 50 million followers on social media. Nothing is natural at that point. The friendships/relationships seem very transactional in that industry, which he is realizing. He's just clumsy in his way of going about it.

In the voice of that one fish from spongebob- “how many times do we have to teach you this lesson old man”

@therecipe5606

2 жыл бұрын

This 😂

James went to an event without a mask and is shocked he has covid

Honestly, the friend thing isn't that serious. I just think he needs to understand that adults have lives and careers, not everyone has the chance of just randomly spawning at hot topic at 2 AM.

@JaseekaRawr

2 жыл бұрын

He's not looking for adults tho lol 😬

@reeree8981

2 жыл бұрын

I don't think he meant it in a predatory way, but how can you lack so much self awareness. Asking to dm about being friends versus asking to dm about being together is not thatttt different.

@cloudsncats

2 жыл бұрын

“Randomly spawning at hot topic” 😂

@blcksvvan

2 жыл бұрын

@@reeree8981 how do u think predators find people? they just hit their dms saying they wanna smash? don't be ridiculous, that's how it starts. a "friendship" "I need friends" my ASS

@alondrita3107

2 жыл бұрын

@@reeree8981 That makes sense tbh. I just think he's THAT lonely, but I feel like his entitlement drives people away. Brings it upon himself.

I wouldn’t suggest drinking to anyone battling anxiety.

@basharalbutseggs8056

2 жыл бұрын

Works fine for me, smoking weed makes it worse

@cryan1847

2 жыл бұрын

@@basharalbutseggs8056 Drinking is not supposed to be a coping mechanism. Stop trying to normalize it as one, it's weird

@reeree8981

2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree! It's a depressant. If you think drugs will help, try antidepressants.

@AmarandeVK

2 жыл бұрын

Drinking and drugs

*James Charles last year:* "I'm going to stop using my (young & mostly underaged) fanbase as a dating pool". *James Charles this year:* "I'm going to use my (young & mostly underaged) fanbase as a dating pool".

If we're giving James the benefit of the doubt I would be saying the applications thing was probably meant as a joke. But considering his track record I doubt anyone is feeling generous. A life in the spotlight may be a lonely one but there's no excuse for any of his behavior

@rayikes6231

2 жыл бұрын

with the insta story he release going about in detail why he did the application thing, he is dead serious about this whole friend thing. idk if hes actually going to go thru with it and hangout with someone tho

@peaceablegamer

2 жыл бұрын

@@rayikes6231 oh God he was serious???!!!! This entitled man-child has no concept of reality does he

2 things on Mr. Dickinson: Don't believe for a second he's looking for "friends" --- he clearly has sexual and/or romantic addiction issues & needs to enter both a private facility & work a 12-step program -- he's lucky he's not in prison. 2nd -- He muses about "what if" he'd gone to college --- the best thing he could do for himself & what's left of his reputation is GO to college which would force him to grow up & show the public he WANTS to grow up. Study business & marketing since his career was based on a lie & he keeps sabotaging his brand. I'd say he'd also meet people his age who were legal but I wouldn't wish that on his schoolmates.

James: I want spontaneous friends!!! Also James: submit applications He doesn't realize, does he?

He can always stop whatever job it is he does and go to college and find a job. It’s not like he’s privileged or anything

“I’m at the top and I mean I guess I can have friends that are regular” um what 😂 this just goes to show people put these influencers and celebrities up too high for no reason

James recruiting friends is giving me creepy vibes like please hide your children people!!!

Ahhhh yes.. James.. a name that I will never name my child because of this monstrosity

@giaparmer

2 жыл бұрын

My kid is not having no damn J name 😭 The cycle ends with me

James needs to check his privilege, I'm sure he can easily make friends without luring his young fans into something that won't happen.

“How many times do we have to teach you this lesson old man” I diedddd so funny 😂

@AlwaysAlicia2991

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

“All of my friends have to schedule things a week in advanced” no shit James you’re an adult like wtf

@scipiodriver4076

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah for real I don’t understand this at all I had to do this shit with my friends even as a kid it’s called having a life

Spontaneous outings become less of a reality when you're an adult. People have jobs, families, appointments, responsibilities, priorities... James is a damn child and his mini rants prove it. 😒🙄

Ugh, he’s still a thing? Why? 🤦🏻‍♀️

James wants young “friends”.. cause Us adults usually don’t schedule our lives around just one person. N if they do it’s unhealthy. I loved the video ❤️

James’ style is always giving “evil momanger”

As someone who struggles making friends, I do understand where he's coming from. It's a very lonely place and you wish you could have someone to turn to for support. HOWEVER, homeboy needs to humble himself and also needs a reality check. He is going about it completely wrong and honestly he needs a close friend to call him out on his bs rather than yes men around.

james twice in one week?! is it 2019 again?

james called out again…. and again…. and again….. and again….

The depressing thing is, it doesn't matter if people call James Charles out or not. He's already been called out for doing worse, but he just keeps coming back and he'll keep getting away with it every time.

@InsaneLaughter01

Жыл бұрын

That’s most celebrities. Lowkey I think it’s required to be predatory and problematic to make it in the limelight.

Can we go over the drunk puking thing again because excuse me.

I truly don’t understand how James Charles still Popular he’s in a drama channel video every week

@lavalampluva55401

2 жыл бұрын

I think part of it is the drama. Viewers tend to be attracted to the influencers who are constantly in some kind of drama.

dropped everything for this 😭

Oh James… it’s like his influencer friends are too busy for him and having unimportant friends who are will to do anything he wants so he can be center of attention is what he’s looking for. With the amount of times he caught COVID, I wouldn’t want to hang around him.

6:43 not James coming for Cupcakke’s gig 💀

@aimeegeorgia8037

2 жыл бұрын

Yessss a cupcakke stan

@andreaoberlin

2 жыл бұрын

@@aimeegeorgia8037 as I should purr 💅🏻✨😜

james needs legitimate psychiatric care. he is still attempting to engage with fans in an inappropriate way. possibly minor boys, specifically, too. he needs genuine psychiatric help and i mean that with care, not to be a hater. it is not normal for someone of his age to be seeking this out over and over after being called out. he cannot help himself. he needs help.

Thanks for another video Tea Spill!!! 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

Is just me or did James sounds like he just wanted some servant that can follow him around and do whatever he wants 24/7...

@therecipe5606

2 жыл бұрын

It's not just you

That freaking Moan before the start of James’s friend TikTok is freaking hilarious!! That could be a sound bite lol 😂 what the heck dude.

cant james just be grateful he has friends at all…. fr i dont have any

Every day after work I click on the KZread app when I’m finally able to sit down. I’m always hoping a new video of yours will appear. Thank you for making the content you do, it’s a salve to my soul. Which may seem weird cause it’s a tea channel but whatevs. Love ya

I feel so bad for him at this point. He might just be starved for friendship. That shit can make you weird af.

@arwen08

2 жыл бұрын

you feel bad for a pedophile? sweetie, theres no excuse to prey on straight minors.

I need James Charles to just be quiet and be happy he’s not behind bars!

@rizzamarielybanez6275

2 жыл бұрын

Yes2!!

James is so immature… the amount of second hand embarrassment I get from him.. Why would he say these things on instagram 🙈👎🏻

My toxic trait is thinking I can be friends with James to help him

@Charlize064

2 жыл бұрын

I'd get annoyed the second he starts talking and say "fuck it".

“Regular people “ 😂💀

Is that weird to have submissions to be James friend 💀💀

I feel like its fine to get friends through Instagram hell I have 4 of them I met through Instagram but I can understand the situation with james given his past and how young audience he doesn't seem to understand how it comes off when he does stuff like this

James saying all that shit screams PRIVILEGED I wouldn't be surprised if one day news comes out that James has new "spontaneous" friends but he paid for them

James is just lonely. He is not the first nor last celebrity to admit this.

*"I don't care if they're reighglar"*

Sounds like recruiting to me...to be followed by grooming perhaps? It's grossly inappropriate and creepy. This guy has serious issues with young people and I can only hope someone stops him before he hurts someone else.

James whining about not making friends infuriates me. I’m autistic and socially awkward so finding people who want to be friends is hard because on one hand I’m weird af and then in the other you have people who either can’t handle or simply don’t want someone who isn’t neurotypical in their lives. Then you have daily adult life get in the way on top of all that.

“I don’t care if they’re regular!” ……and this is why he has a hard time making friends

James needs to be arrested and taken off the internet.

not me being early for a james Charles tea vid

2019: the before times

James treating his fans like his personal toys to play with whenever he wants. It’s sick

this is literally never going to end 😭

Okay, I may be the minority here (& I'm not at all fond of JC) but I think his search for new friends was rhetorical. I know it's alarming because of his (alleged) DM scandals in the past, but I think he was more so venting about how he wishes he had someone he could do things on a whim with but it's hard for him because of his status. I have a mix of friends...some prefer to plan ahead, some rarely have time to do anything and some I can meet up with on a whim and I love them all equally. I also think the popular Cali world of influencers is a very different vibe from other areas b/c I see influencers in the south doing casual/random things all the time together.

James wants teenagers as friends lol... me and my friends all need to schedule when to meet because we are busy. Classes, work, hobbies, birthdays, family, more work, like... that's pretty much life, not everyone is available 24/7, priorities exist.

So he basically wants friends that are unemployed or doesn’t need to do anything and still have an income. That’s part of life, your friends aren’t available at the drop of a hat and you need to plan around each other’s schedule. I think James is having a hard time growing up.

@eatdrinkstagger

2 жыл бұрын

he already is by the looks of it (having a hard time growing up), especially if he doesn’t realise that ‘regular people’ don’t have standards when it comes to interpersonal relationships.

james if the prime example of money doesn’t buy happiness nor loyalty or true friends. he has everything and anything but doesn’t feel content due to his lifestyle

There are plenty of influencers and celebs who have "normal" friends and whatnot. Its just about what you expect from them....like James you have plenty of money and funds to do basically whatever you want. Those "normal" people you want as friends might not be able to do stuff like that or even be comfortable doing over the top hobbies and activities like most influencers tend to do. And also those "normal" people look at you the same as others so the questionable persona and track record you have will most likely deter people from trusting you as a friend to even begin with. It's actually a bummer that he's so far gone from living a "normal" life... Maybe he's just going to have to learn to be his own bestie. Or at least establish a more laid back friend group of people who aren't so busy all the time.

aw man here we go again

Am I the only one that feels like JC saying “I want regular friends” is very similar to “I want [insert minority group here] friends”?? It’s as if people who aren’t in social media are people who are so rare and exotic and he wants to be one of them… just me? K lol

I had to look at when this video was posted because I was like “what year is this? Did I click on an old video or something?” Same thing different day I guess 😅

Ahh yes. Just what I needed with my cup of coffee.

So wait. You're saying James Charles is mad about getting caught? He needs to chill. Dude. I'm shocked he's not arrested. I don't really trust him? Like maybe if you weren't problematic you'd have friends 🤦

james forgets not everyone has the job that he does that allows him to do what he wants when he wants. most people work LONG hours, not getting paid much and still have families to look after. not everyone can just go ‘laser tagging’ because they feel like it. he seems desperate again.

i wonder how long it'll take until james isn't in the title for every video 👀

What kind of regular people have the time to go to outings and movies spontaneously and not run out of money? Cause I wanna be that regular person.

Not suprised Emma came back given the fact that ur account gets demonotized after about 6 months of not posting

James needs to just bow out. Like, leave social media, go do something else with your life. If you're going to continue to be problematic, you need to just stop.

NOT AGAIN!!

What about friends before he got “famous” ? too good for them clearly

To be fair James peaked at a very young age and didn't have the experiences most young adults do. He clearly doesn't know how to act his age, although it doesn't excuse al the shitty things he does. At least he should know by now NOT to use social media to meet people, FFS 🤦🏽‍♀️

honestly wtf James, like i’ve worked with sick covid residents (elderly) for the past 4 months and only now have caught it because of how stressed i am, so i’m home resting feeling like death, but i got it from people even though i wear PPE, James CHOSE to go to a party something he didn’t need to do, someone has to look after sick people 😌 and that’s me

when will it end

James needs a serious break from the internet... For like next 30 years, maybe then he has grown up a little bit... 😶

Is he ever gonna stop? Nope 😃

the way one of the responses to james was a spongebob reference and you did t finish reading all of it 😭😭😭

Bruh I’m only 15 about to be 16 I can’t have spontaneous plans anymore lol

I feel bad for jac 😕

James needs friends who don’t have jobs apparently lmao, Yknow who doesn’t have jobs? Children

The current issue with James is bad but I'll still reeling from him getting covid, complaining, and now seeing his enormous house/pool/backyard in the back of his "ideas about vetting and friends" insta video. If I got covid and could quarantine somewhere half as nice I wouldn't be complaining.

I love your video’s they make my day

"This isn't an episode of Hannah Montana" lol savage