Life isn’t supposed to be figured out it’s supposed to be lived

@sixteen.candles.4644

2 жыл бұрын

Best comment ever.

@j.omondi5826

2 жыл бұрын

This one has hit home

@brittanyb5942

2 жыл бұрын

Wow! I love this comment!!

@damndons

2 жыл бұрын

THIS!!!

@Dejadiaries

2 жыл бұрын

Wow thank you for this because I feel like I just lessened the pressure I’ve put on my self by reading and deeping this comment

Why is nobody talking about your hair, your skin you look flawless Breenylee

@ufink

2 жыл бұрын

I know! I was gonna ask if she can leave a link to where she got the hair.. it’s beautiful 😍

@plusstaff01

2 жыл бұрын

Because it’s not important it’s not a issue to focus on

@yetundebode3828

2 жыл бұрын

I know right. She looks amazinggggggggg

@samillethebrand

2 жыл бұрын

Yessssss....Yesssss....Yessss

@foxyboop4164

2 жыл бұрын

@@ufink Yes!!!! I need that haircut just about 4-6 inches longer with some highlights lol the body is on 10!! It's bouncy lol

The key to solving your problem is to start wanting less instead of more. I learned as a woman who has always been a entrepreneur and strived for more is that as women we have to stop trying to live to impress others and learn how to be happy with less. Always wanting the newest car, bags/shoes, biggest house , traveling all over the world- all these things cost money which means you have to work harder. Women and work is a tricky thing because although we should be self sufficient, too much work makes a woman hard on the inside with not much time for self care which keeps us soft and in our feminine. When a woman can’t have plenty of self care time it literally will drive you crazy.

@adatbh

2 жыл бұрын

Omggg this is very very accurate!

@saharajasmine4937

2 жыл бұрын

So true ♥️

@nurulhidayahyobali3413

2 жыл бұрын

Yess I totally agreed

@drishtik6355

2 жыл бұрын

So true.. We need to stop consumption seriously it's high time really. Even I am working on it girl. ❤❤❤

@neemakassian8043

2 жыл бұрын

Very true👌

I’m struggling with anxiety and a bit of depression because I’m seeing everybody around me having a good job, boyfriends, marriage and babies... and me at the age of 31 with none of these things and still at University. I know that It’s stupid to compare myself to others but sometimes it’s difficult to not have negative thoughts about yourself :( God help me to trust the process and have faith 🙏🏾🍃

@graciem6562

2 жыл бұрын

Even though I'm much younger, I'm in the same boat rn. I'm tired of being stressed about what I don't have yet. So I'm just trying to leave things in God's hands and calm down...I'm trying not to be anxious.. I've recently been reading Ecclesiastes, and it has been shining light on the reality of life that is hard to accept sometimes. Ecclesiastes 9:11 in particular says, *"The fastest runner doesn’t always win the race, and the strongest warrior doesn’t always win the battle. The wise sometimes go hungry, and the skillful are not necessarily wealthy. And those who are educated don’t always lead successful lives. It is all decided by chance, by being in the right place at the right time."* Sometimes we see others in life exceed far beyond ourselves, and we end up looking down on ourselves because we do not see ourselves achieving the same levels of success. But their current place in life does not mean that they've won the race of life. Comparison is a thief of joy. Resting in the joy of the Lord is key. God bless.

@samanthaking7517

2 жыл бұрын

I feel you! I am 34, single mother (my daughter is 12 years old), I graduated from university at 32. I am currently struggling with depression and anxiety like really bad. I work two jobs just to get by and not in my “passion” career. I would love to be in a healthy relationship married, and have more children. I am so grateful to have my daughter. Society just puts pressure on us to have it all together by 30 but I realized that’s not true or authentic. I am talking to my therapist again which is a lifesaver. Learning how to not self sabotage and pushing myself to love myself and live life on my own terms, healthy and finding my inner peace. I overworked myself and didn’t listen to my body till two weeks ago. Sending love and peace to you. My heart feels for everyone who is hurting I really am hopeful that it will fall into place. Don’t be scared to ask for help, it’s hard but do it for your peace. ❤️🙏🏽✨🦚🦋

@samanthaking7517

2 жыл бұрын

@@graciem6562 Wow! Thank you for posting that. Sending love! 🙏🏽💕

@chandchand5355

2 жыл бұрын

Hey dear, you are not behind in life society makes you feel that 35 is the deadline..when in actual fact women are having children at 39, 42 and so on..don't feel ashamed or behind your really not..its better to take your time rather than rush into having children, getting married and be overwhelmed. Many women feel this after a few years of having kids with no support from their partners. Take your time dear and enjoy the process of life! Its 2022 now life has changed ..also don't worry about what others are doing try to focus on the quality of your life..enjoy the simple things.. Xx

@samanthaking7517

2 жыл бұрын

@@chandchand5355 I really appreciate you for this! I need to stop being hard on myself and you are right I will focus on my quality of life. Thank you. It’s nice to hear it from other people. Very grounding. 🙏🏽💕

The most mind fucking thing is when you rush through life like that and actually get the goal and the goal feels like NOtHInG, it literally feels like its not happening or like a tasteless piece of bread, because you are absolutely burnt out and empty of life

this is why I hate toxic positivity, sometimes there are hard truths about life that we should accept; one of them is: we can't always be happy, and that's fine :)

@HelloDrTaj

2 жыл бұрын

This 👏🏾

@Lovablelyn

2 жыл бұрын

Wow I learn something everyday almost there’s only a few days of the month I’m actually happy though it is not everyday I’m too emotional for it:

That's why it's best to be like children. As in just have fun and play. This Western Society no one should come harm themselves mentally for likes, views and money. Or even just trying to help others.

@BreenyLee

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed!!

@adatbh

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed!!!

@AW-wo2pm

2 жыл бұрын

Amen

@galliano100

2 жыл бұрын

I wish I could be a kid again. Sometimes I look at my 1 year old cousin and think wow.. this kid is genuinely happy with zero stress, zero anxiety, zero negativity. Just smiling, running around, being happy. Not thinking about how someone might perceive them. Not acting like someone else.. no mask. Just pure raw emotions.

@shameccafreeman

2 жыл бұрын

@@galliano100 it’s not the age that makes them a kid. It’s moreso of a mindset. To become “childlike” in Christ is to be playful, faithful, creative, etc.

I'm here too, just tired at this point! After sacrificing my 20s for my career, relationships not working out and life being life, I'm done! I'm starting over. Just one day at a time I'm not pressuring myself over anything

@datingandlifeadvicechannel7534

2 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way starting over stop settling for shit ! I will stop settling for shit

@Queenofanime26

Жыл бұрын

Yeah I'm going to need to start over soon. Love the profile picture though.

@notsurewhat2put

Жыл бұрын

Yah huge huge huge huge huge mood

Breeny!! I relate to this so much! It’s so hard to find the balance between living life and feeling like you have to respond to every dm, every comment, and show every single thing that you’re doing. Just know that you’re doing a wonderful job inspiring us and we don’t take your content for granted at all! 💕 Continue caring for your mental health above all else friend!

@glecservices3114

2 жыл бұрын

I think the trick is to realise that we are human not god, and being an influencer we are actually playing a god role and that’s what the issue is, we got souls of people taking from us and we are just one soul ourselves, it’s good to talk to god and ask god to help us in every way, because we are not meant to take on the world that’s his job, our job is to find our purpose and passion and do that, and don’t seek to please people we are human we can’t be perfect. Sometimes we do things that was never gods design for us to do

@Kreezword913

2 жыл бұрын

This really warms my heart to see the camaraderie between 2 of my favorites ❤️❤️🌸🌺

@zairalaraib

2 жыл бұрын

yo i watch your videossssss

@BreenyLee

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you sissy ❤️🤍

@estherkalabi6249

2 жыл бұрын

@@Kreezword913 Ikr am so happy

I read this book and it spoke about “a form of self sabotage is psychoanalysing your emotions to the point they’re no longer there instead of feeling them directly. It made me realise I actually focus on where the feeling comes from so much that I ignore the actual feeling itself

@alexisramos6822

2 жыл бұрын

thank you so much for this comment! by any chance do you remember the name of the book?

@BreenyLee

2 жыл бұрын

Wow

@kazemuzic9455

2 жыл бұрын

@@alexisramos6822 yeah the book is called “The mountain is You” xx I highly recommend it as it lists loads of self sabotage methods I didn’t even know existed

@BB-ty6iy

2 жыл бұрын

@@kazemuzic9455 thank you for this!

after 2 years of struggling with insecurity, depression, anxiety, overthinking, loosing friends etc. 2 days ago was when I finally said enough is enough. I applied to get therapy.

@nadyahoward3659

2 жыл бұрын

Yes this is what l going though right now 🙏

@fizahaque

2 жыл бұрын

I had another outburst in 2 weeks so I was indeed thinking of calling my therapist. I will call up to make a new appointment. Thank you.

@michelleadebiyi2341

2 жыл бұрын

@@fizahaque ❤️❤️wish you the best

@michelleadebiyi2341

2 жыл бұрын

@@nadyahoward3659 seek help as soon as you can !

@BreenyLee

2 жыл бұрын

I love this for you Queen ❤️

Hey breeny, We are not created to focus on ourselves sis. (I felt prompted to tell you this when I saw the title of your last video but I didn't) When "self" is at the centre of our universe we are inevitably unhappy because it is not why we are created... its just not the reason that God gives us life and breath every day.

@BreenyLee

2 жыл бұрын

I agree ❤️

@faithwalker0316

2 жыл бұрын

Much love and grace to you girl, I believe you're onto treasure by taking time away from the screen and the mirror.. the enemy loves to make disciples in those areas ..before we know it we've squandered a whole heap of time and left with a really 💩 state of mind and heart. It's all about the secret place mentioned in Matthew 6. 🙏🏼

@ntuma9170

2 жыл бұрын

This comment is very profound. You are so right.

@graciem6562

2 жыл бұрын

This is the comment I was looking for.

@yanikeonpurpose

2 жыл бұрын

I was explaining this the other day. I’m born in the early 80s, so the way these new kids live is just mind boggling to me. I could not get down with having a whole instagram account centred on nothing but me & how great I look & how fabulous I am, so I shut it down. I’ve been preeing this whole social media movement for a while & it really disturbs my spirit. We are now living our lives entirely in the name of worshiping ourselves. There is no us, we or other. Just me me & more me.

Same with me, I put too much pressure on myself. I'm currently struggling with anxiety, still working on myself. I happy I finally found someone who is supportive. Put your self first and stay calm, enjoy life and all it goodness. Life is too short, the right people will come your way.

@faithsunday5851

2 жыл бұрын

Currently going through same thing, I really need to stop putting pleasure on myself .

@glecservices3114

2 жыл бұрын

It’s interesting because we are all quick to judge people, and bash people etc but look your showing people that they all need help. We all want the perfect person and an expectation of people but we have to be humble I realise true success is having emotional balance and peace of mind. Breeny well done for being real Kevin Samuels speaks about therapy a lot of us need it, exercise and mental exercise are important

@valeriew364

2 жыл бұрын

Amen, God bless you 🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

God won’t give you a battle he doesn’t think you can’t win ❤️ sending you strength Breeny. If you’re reading this and are hurting, I’m with you. It will get better.

@michelleadebiyi2341

2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾

@sara_208

2 жыл бұрын

@@michelleadebiyi2341 ❤️❤️❤️

@sara_208

2 жыл бұрын

@@realizedreams6183 Oh you beautiful soul! Same to you. I hope that whatever it is that is challenging you right now is overcome in not too long. 💪

I haven’t read my Bible, prayed or gone to church in several months. But when you said God wants to bless us not because we deserve it, I felt it. Thanks Breeny. Take care of yourself 💋

@BreenyLee

2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

I never thought I will see a therapist cause I thought I'm immune to being depressed but here we are are, life is very humbling and I realised no one has a perfect life we just have to push through it. Thank you for this message

@fran791

2 жыл бұрын

It happens to everyone, it's just life and we are just humans

@michelleadebiyi2341

2 жыл бұрын

Fr life humbles you sooo much

You could never be a ‘failure’, as long as you’re trying. At the end of the day, our greatest achievement and success comes from our good works and our life of service. This reminds me of my favorite scripture, ‘Love is patient’. When we truly love ourselves, we slow down and give ourselves the patience we’re so worthy of.

I've been feeling so low because of the very same reason. I can't allow myself to accept that I'm not okay. I'm literally crying as I watch you. Thank you for this, I feel seen

@BreenyLee

2 жыл бұрын

🙏🏾❤️

I’m currently dealing with the worst anxiety I’ve ever had. These videos are great to watch & help alott! Also your hair looks gorgeous, Love you Breeny❤️

@BreenyLee

2 жыл бұрын

🤗🤗🤗🤗❤️

@Earthomo

2 жыл бұрын

“Her” hair? 🙄someone else’s hair is sewed or glued on her head because she doesn’t like “her” own hair.

@ellakalnes8001

2 жыл бұрын

@@Earthomo wth is your problem? If she bought it, it’s hers. If she grew it, it’s hers. Celebrities get weave, wigs, or extensions all the time. Are you this rude to them too? You definitely missed the concept of the video by a long shot.

@Earthomo

2 жыл бұрын

@@ellakalnes8001 yawn!

@nickandchrismom

2 жыл бұрын

May God heal you swiftly and completely in Jesus name amen

I work 9-5 and never ever see any of my friends. It’s not just you! It’s happening in all areas. We are worked out!!!!!!!!!!!

"I put so much pressure on myself to be great." I felt that 😩🥺Thank you for being honest and I appreciate the value you give on this platform. If you need to take a break, please do so without feeling bad because your mental health is everything. You're amazing, Breeny!

@BreenyLee

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you darling ❤️

“Jesus is my perfection.”

I watched a video a few days ago that changed my thought process so much. It was by teal swan and she mentions on how working on urself and trying change, u will always go back to what is called “self hate” that self love in this direction will always lead that way. Why? Because in the time you are trying to change urself, u are essentially telling urself that you hate who u are and u try to run away from that person (think of it like an elastic band) and the more u pick ur flaws and run away from that person the bigger the fall when you come back to that self and end up in deep depression. The key is to forgive, ACCEPT and love who u are including ur flaws. Accept her and love her and then look at “change” or transformation as something you are doing FOR YOURSELF rather than running away from urself. Because you love her so much and have come to the point where u are accepting and gentle with her, u want to see her even greater or get to the next level of her transformation therefore you are doing different things FOR HER and not to resent her. Once you see it thay way, ur life completely changes. U can become whatever u want super fast, but remember u arent broken so u dont need to fix anything and u arent “changing” because u hate urself. Hope it makes sense

@CandaceJDunkley

2 жыл бұрын

@sarona that was super helpful! I was wondering why I am always so hard on myself when I am trying to transform in areas in my life. Harder than when I was complacent. But this adds great perspective. Thanks! 💎 And Breeny thanks for your transparency! I’m only 20 minutes in so far but just wanted to say I appreciate your vulnerability

@user-wh6ky4kd4d

2 жыл бұрын

This really gave a fresh insight, thank you. What's the tile of the video called please?

@trufflebutter3331

2 жыл бұрын

Can you state which video exactly please and thank you.

@EllisonIra

2 жыл бұрын

@@trufflebutter3331 you can find any till swan video and she's talking about this.

“you’re so chill” thanks, I gave up

I was deadass crying watching this….Indeed, Here Is Holy. It’s self development but God’s way and not ours

It's nice to see this more relatable part of u. Seeing you walk your dog, seeing u doing ur hair. And no advice but just be you

@BreenyLee

2 жыл бұрын

😊

I needed this. I’ve felt so unlike myself and so confused about my emotions and it’s almost as though this came right when I needed permission to feel things.

@sara_208

2 жыл бұрын

Me too, especially over the past couple of weeks. I hope that life gets better for you Maddy 💗

@leahsimmonds9086

2 жыл бұрын

I hear you x

Take it easy on yourself gorgeous. You come first, try to take breaks. We love you.

Life success is the peace and joy you accomplish for yourself

Breeny is the big sister we all need 🥰 our internet big sis

Wowwww literally was just crying over feeing like I'm not being productive enough... comparing my life to the ones I see on Instagram and feeling like I'm not doing enough! This is a reminder and sign that it's okay to be exactly where I am and I'm not "running out of time" I am exactly where I'm supposed to be.

@BreenyLee

2 жыл бұрын

Yes you are ❤️‍🔥

The journey to working on yourself isn't linear. It took me 2 almost 3 years to fully discover my identity and recognize the true meaning of loving myself. I knew I healed when life circumstances arrived and I had to make tough decisions. I cried , celebrated, felt helpless, cried again, smiled, and cried again. I'm at peace and I am learning more about myself each day.

You're going to be okay. God has got you.. He has a plan🙏🏽❤️

@michelleadebiyi2341

2 жыл бұрын

amen!!

@AW-wo2pm

2 жыл бұрын

Amen indeed 👏

This video came at the perfect time.. I’ve been so hard on myself and I feel like I’ve been very negative towards myself and people around me. I haven’t been too happy honestly. Not depressed but I’m just not okay. I’m questioning everything my relationship (he’s such a great guy but my over thinking is practically ruining things) my life .. it’s just so weird Breeny.... in terms of moving , finding. Job , being out of college man it’s a lot ... I hope we can find a way out of this... u feel like this is definitely a safe space for me to vent so lol yea 🥲

@fizahaque

2 жыл бұрын

I'm in a very similar spot. But we got this sis. Lots of love and keep on shining. ✨

DND! Literally the answer when u need time to yourself and worship music sis❤️ Not just cuz u an influencer sis, you are a human first! If you’re not right mentally, you can’t perform. Always put yourself first. God got you, you just need a breather.

I’m 17 & a perfectionist I realized I was an overachiever and a perfectionist when I was crying on the phone to a friend about feeling so behind in life and like I’m not doing enough at 16 (even though I’ve definitely achieved so much ) It made me realize that sometimes that we get so caught up on the end goal that we forget to live in the moment I was putting so much pressure on myself to constantly do more As I’ve gotten older I’ve learned to appreciate the small things in life and to just enjoy life overall 🥰

@bongiperez7565

2 жыл бұрын

I'm the same. Only my perfectionism lead me to Procrastination. I can't start if I don't feel that everything is perfect and calculated. Because of this, my life took a downturn. Learn from me. Progress is always better than Perfect.

@nubianquirk

2 жыл бұрын

You are catching it at the right time. Stop it now. I’m 27 and still going. I had mental breakdowns to finally stop. Everyday we are learning. Be still within yourself as much as you can

My dear, nothing is easy, no career is. everyone is going through something, happiness is an everyday pursuit. Take good care of yourself and breaks are necessary.❤️

Life is what you make it..create systems..success is subjective..you have to be disciplined enough to create systems that allow you to enjoy your life..if you are living to work that’s not living..if you are dependent on makeup and wigs to feel pretty then that’s an issue you need to tap into..if your job constantly requires you to compare yourself or to surround yourself with self absorbed people faking their life for social media that’s an issue..money is not really success..only people without money think it is..once you have money you realize peace and contentment is true success..If you wait to be happy until………………….you will never ever get there

I had to take a break for the first time not posting on my story in 9 months, I'm an influencer, and I truly believe that taking a break is hard because of hustle mentality, and achieving success, I know I may have lost so many followers in the weekend I decided to take off but I really needed it, I feel so refreshed for this next week, and I feel like I can perform my best.

Breeny i totally feel you. Me in particular, i travel to some of the most exotic travel destinations and review them, post and promote the place for my group trips but its just work for me. Its not until i get home and just crash then wake up and look at my pics just to say wow Tyra you really did that destination (s) ect. I totally relate to you. I dont go to these exotic places and relax, i mean i try to relax but i cant bc i need to get the content, its work for me. I take travel and my business so serious so YOU ARE NOT ALONE

@BreenyLee

2 жыл бұрын

Phew, you get it 🤦🏾‍♀️

@mommyandweetravels

2 жыл бұрын

@@BreenyLee i surely do

I agree with this video so much, I just wrote in my journal about getting out this “grind” mentality, beating myself up always trying to do the absolute most to get ahead, when it’s all about divine timing. I told myself I just wanna live my life soft,gentle, and attract whatever is meant FOR ME! Knowing that God makes all the moves, I still wanna be Hard working but a soft hard worker! Love this Breeny always dropping gems🤍

It’s important to get a relationship with Jesus Christ, we are often so immersed in ourselves, that it makes us unhappy, anxious, depressed., etc. once we get saved and focus on the Lord we have a new purpose in him and a true peace takes over us. God bless you.

Breeny! This is right on time. As someone pursuing content creation as the foundation of my career, I think I needed to hear this. Especially because I am just starting out, I think it’s important to start establishing boundaries and balancing priorities while I’m still a small creator. Thank you so much from bringing light to the mental health aspect of content creation. You are truly inspirational! Thank you for doing what you do.

You look amazing Breeny! This hairstyle is just wow 😍😍

I love how transparent you are. And I relate to this so so much. Finding the balance between real life and content is extremely difficult as an online entrepreneur. Especially as a coach, we put immense pressure on ourselves to show up perfectly. But trying to portray a perfect image will leave you unfulfilled. Thank you for being so vulnerable and brave 🤍

oh I felt you hard on this one sis. I've come to realize that this thing about "self-developing for life" has an underlying message about "not-enoughness" and the issue of control is a huge one I'm overcoming this year. As much as I want (and I know I'm capable of achieving), the truth is that IT IS NOT up to me. It is to a degree, but like you said, God is the one to really provide everything. Very important for you to share this lesson cause there are many of us out here who got on that train and don't know how to let go of it. Cheers!

I’m about to turn 20 and I feel like I haven’t done anything, I keep pushing myself and I’m at the point where i just have random moments where my heart beats soo fast when I think about money , career , college , future. I never feel like I’m doing enough

Breeny this me. My mental state is a mess, I so unhappy and anxious. I blame myself for everything. I can relate so much to this vlog, I feel like crying 🥺. Thank you for sharing. I hope anyone feeling this way too gets better.

@roselynlove8872

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you are ok 💕 Your comment really touched my heart and i wanted to let you know that you are amazing! Self Care and Mental Health is so important in life. I hope i can also help you feel abit better as you are amazing! Whether you feel it or not xxx🥰 kzread.info/dash/bejne/ioiBkrqghbfHYbA.html

Ummm... Breeny I need to ask you an important /personal question and I would appreciate if you answered honestly..... Girl, is there any hair style you cant slay like wtf 😀😭😭😂 U always look so good 😭😭

@BreenyLee

2 жыл бұрын

😂😭 thank you love!!!

This video just came in time for me, recently got promoted and cannot even enjoy it because I am afraid of failure

Real talk. As a content creator with a focus on hair and makeup I’ve had to consciously stop myself from filming the process and simply do it off camera ‘cause it was getting to the point where if I didn’t record I felt like I was missing an opportunity to get content. It’s been a journey but I’ve gotten better with balancing it out. I still feel guilty at times when I don’t record but I know it’s better for me not to. Keeping you in prayers Breeny. God gatchu. “And I will ask the Father, and He will give you another Helper (Comforter, Advocate, Intercessor, Counselor, Strengthener, Standby), to be with you forever - the Spirit of Truth, whom the world cannot receive [and take to its heart] because it does not see Him or know Him, but you know Him because He (the Holy Spirit) remains with you continually and will be in you.” John 14:16-17 Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@BreenyLee

2 жыл бұрын

Missing an opportunity is a big one! Thank you for scripture sis ❤️‍🔥

@LifeMadeByRadw

2 жыл бұрын

@@BreenyLee my pleasure ☺️

That hair, serving powerful woman vibes. 😍

@BreenyLee

2 жыл бұрын

🥰🥰🥰

You are literally the older sister we all need! This conversation was needed for sure and I appreciate your vulnerability so much

Time is an illusion Ms Lee take time to live your life you only have one fall in love with you be kind to yourself and life is going to flow and smile

Girl I understand what you are talking about. And your hair is BEAUTIFUL.

perfect timing , God has perfect timing really thank you sis 4 delivering👏🏽.

Always enjoying your content. You helped during a time of very bad news. Thank you

Great advice Breeny. I find myself in a constant state of anxiety because eventhough at times I'm supposed to be enjoying the moment I am constantly thinking about responsibilities and work. It's important to pause and cease the moment. I love your new hairdo you look beautiful 😍 ❤️ as always thank you for the kind words and great advice you too will get thru this!

The way I clicked this video!!! I missed you so muchhhhhhhh

Just sending you hugs. Try not to be so hard on yourself. You’re doing great. And you looked the best I’ve ever seen you looking in this video. 😘

I love this!!! Thank you for shedding light on such an important topic ❤️🙏🏽

the only thing with therapy sometimes they make u a victim so we have to stay vigilant even in therapy, many therapists project iv had amazing ones and horrendous ones

I think no matter what work/job/career you have taking time out for yourself and "unplugging" is vital for your overall health. Be kind to yourself, God is in control. Know that perfection can never be obtained. Only Jesus is perfect. Enjoy the journey. Love you channel Breeny. Maybe taking a vacation from being an influencer every once in a while is necessary. Your followers will be here when you come back. Sending love ❤❤❤

Nice! Thank You For Sharing and your vulnerable transparency

I was talking about this exactly thing the other day! It’s scary what influencers go through and it’s dangerous to have your livelihood (income) so intertwined with your personal life. I am praying for you and everyone else who have platforms based on their lifestyle. Take time to rest and enjoy your privacy and solitude. Money will always come and go. ❤️

Yes I can relate I’m always overthinking and critiquing everything I do. I’m my own worst critic I feel as though if I’m not hard on myself nobody else will do it for me. Thanks for sharing taking breaks or just removing yourself from social media all together is the right thing to do. Your Mental health is everything & if and when that starts going left , changes need to be made to have a better you

Right on time…thank you so much for sharing this Sis. So relatable! Sending you love and prayers always xoxo

I'm trying to pray more and worry less even though anxiety can become all consuming. You doing great Breeny, working on yourself ❤💕 God Bless! Happy Palm Sunday!^_^❤

Omg right on time Breeny! I understand where you are coming from. I hope you find your love for the craft again. You are a beautiful soul and whether you come back or not, I love you for all you have given me and all of your followers ❤️.

I love this... you are real! I prefer this method of delivery!

Wow! This video was wow😍my mentor also said to me to slow down and enjoy each moment, but it's so hard. I love when you say "if your routine isn't good for you scrap it" and also how we have to learn to trust God. I keep saying to myself I trust God but I try to be in control. Thank you for this wonderful video

Thank you Breeny. Your message really blessed me. Loving how real you are on what really matters.

Thank you girl, this is seriously such timely content!!!! You have no idea how much this impacted me.

Thanks for your honesty and your tips because sometimes I forget that everybody has challenges they have to overcome and get help for - especially those who are really doing amazing things. It’s part of being human 💕. Also, really good things take time to make. Stay blessed and healthy and happy, Queen. Everything you put out is amazing.

I enjoyed the transparency in this conversation. I’ve currently been trying actively to give myself more grace rather than just saying it. It’s comforting to know that we’re all just trying to be kinder and better to ourselves. Thanks for sharing 💛

Breeny, you are so beautiful sis 😍 I relate to you so much. I’m learning myself that it is perfectly okay to not be okay. But we have resilience 💪🏾

It’s hard to break down when we try so hard to be great at everything… it’s hard. I am too understanding my boundaries and limits… journaling for me has helped bc my mind gets crowded. Appreciate you lost. From Texas ❤️

Breeny. U came right on time with yer again, PURE GOLD. Thank you thank you thank you! The hustling culture is real and too much of it will indeed, be toxic and unhealthy. Stay focused and love yourself ladies! We got this. 💛 Keep on sparkling queens. 👑✨

I can relate. Love you, girl. Praying for you beautiful Breeny💞

Breeny I want to Thank you for your Honesty! It’s 100% visible that you speak with your beautiful heart! Love you , please take care of yourself and be kind to yourself🥰

Breeny ♥️♥️ I appreciate so much your radical honesty. And I resonate so badly with this thinking “ I got all figured out” but then lower moments come and then your love for youself is conditional. So yeah thank you so much for sharing. Hoping for everyone in the world to get to a place of acceptance even throughout the intensity of this crazy momentum of the world

You’re such an honest person, I really respect that.

This video is relevant we appreciate your transparency, continue to inspire!

Great message. Life is beautiful when you’re not so hard on yourself 🥲

Hi Breeny, I think besides the flawless make-up once again, the real talk and vulnerability is so real and in times like this so refreshing. I have a dog too and daily dog walks helped me so much to get through basically the whole world being shut down. Maybe you could get a pet for yourself, so you would have this emotional support that is always there plus something to take care of. I recommend. :)

I completely resonated with every single word, thank you sister. I wish I had more people in my life like you.

Aw I get you when you say it was one of the best days of your life. It’s like if I’m not present, not enjoying, then whatever I’m doing I feel detached. I really feel this vid. Thanks for being vulnerable x

So happy to see a vid from you❤️💕btw love the hair!!

You are great. I pray you stop the pressure we just want you to be you.

Truth is, most people are not destined for greatness.

We love you Breeny. Take a break if you need it. We'll be there when you're ready to post gems again :)

you're the best! Your videos helped me so so much. I still rewatch your videos all the time when I feel down and doubt myself. You taught me how to love myself and be confident in myself, your videos are the best reminders. You are amazing and don't ever forget that!!

Thank you for your transparency. This video helped me although I am not a content creator. Wishing you healing and all the best!

Breeny (my KZread sister) thank you for making this video just on time. I recently been promoted to supervisor at work and have had to step back to priorities my mental health. Im tired of being the strong black woman and keeping it together. Truth is im not okay. I will be once I put myself FIRST 🙏🏾

I absolutely love your transparency and honesty. You are fab! Keep doing what you are doing hunny xx

Wow! I have yet to hear such honesty from a KZread channel. This is why I am subscribed! Now I see and understand how celebrities (if all talents) feel. When you said “if you don’t like it get a 9 to 5” I was very surprised by your answer. I was also surprised that you did not use the double standard “everyone feel sorry for me” as an excuse either. You bossed up and express how you felt not expecting any just listening ears….and for this I love you even more. On my journey I am slowly learning accountability (good or bad) and taking ownership of the choices I made (good or bad) and learning to step back and let God in. God bless you and puppy! 🐶🥰🦋🌈🌻💕

These affirmations made me smile😩❤️🥺

so true breeny i am here right now. praying that you will be comforted

Thank you for being vulnerable and honest with us. We support you, take as much time as you need Breeny.💕😘

Wheeew Breeny you spoke a word, I didn’t even expect this to hit home. But it felt like God wanted me to hear this. Thank you for putting it out. I pray you have happy days during all of the stress, wishing you nothing but the best beautiful. ♥️