You're not your mistakes.

As someone who's incredibly lonely, I know that it's both you, and a lot of luck. I am very autistic and it's nigh impossible for me to socialize on my own, even at my workplace I'm mostly isolated, which is fine with me, no one really to connect with here anyway. But that makes me isolated in general as well, I can't just go to a bar or something and find a friend there, let alone love. And it's been... Kind of impossible for me to find someone around online as well. No matter how much I've tried, over the many years I have found friends all around the world... But not around here. The closest friend I ever had by distance was still a whole city away, over the mountain range. My luck is also very... Unpredictable and corrupted, in many things it provided me with safety and success, but in a lot of things it gave me struggle and torment. Unfortunately, in terms of friends, it's the opposite, because even when I try my best despite my autism, I still cant find anyone around who I would be able to connect with. Then again, I am weird with a lot of bizarre tastes and obscure likes...

I met her flowstate, today, finally expressed my feelings and she reciprocated those feelings and we have started dating, we were msging as i got the notification for this video. Also the lack of background music in your videos is so refreshing and i love it! Im gonna stop d riding now have a good one yall x

@gigachad548

5 ай бұрын

Proud of you my boy

@flowstatevideo

5 ай бұрын

Let's go keep at it

great timing flowstate, you never disappoint 🙌

Great seeing you post positivity, may god be with you.

Keep up the good work bro, Ik me and tons of other people really enjoy the content

This is calming

thx for this vid

you are such an amazing content creator keep up the good work

Thanks bro this rly helped me

Absolutely great timing. Thank you so much man for this video. You have no idea how much your content has helped me to push through

I don't recall the first video of yours I watched, but I was hooked in from the get-go, among many qualities in your videos, the sheer timing of the videos you put out really makes a difference. I can go on with how I could be feeling "this" emotion or "that" emotion and you'd drop a video that might not directly help my situation, but would get me thinking about the situation at hand and indirectly help me. I'm in a rough spot post break-up and I miss her, badly... I was on those dating apps striking out, and I met her, but at work, the way things happened we got real close and it felt so real. I took time to myself since we broke up but that was a mistake, I'm worse off now than I was before, opening and deleting my accounts on apps to try a find someone and just generally don't care. Then you dropped this gem, and you're right. Your channel is a fresh breath of air on this platform, you really have something great here. Keep up the fantastic work Flowstate, we need more like you.

I really to get into this mindset. Really inspiring videos Flowstate!

I'm so grateful I found your channel

I think you're right, however, you should take accountability for everything you can. Why? Because by blaming external factors, you are losing control, you still need to do the RIGHT things. Put yourselves in the right position for GOOD things to happen, luck might be a factor, but understand that hey, maybe some circumstances breed luck more than others? Especially with girls, generally the more you are exposed to girls, the higher the chance that you can actually start a conversation with someone you like. What's around you? How can you branch out? Can you do volunteer work? How afraid are you of rejection?

Iv been watching your channel since your first upload, its been the most eventful and transformative 10 months of my life, but your videos always come at such fitting times and have always felt so down to earth and theyve given me so much hope. Thank you :)

I needed this

This is painfully relatable. I often blame myself for things outside of my control and even warp my perspective in a way where I make things out to be my fault, just so I can try to fix them, even though the problem is not me. Sometimes you really aren't the reason why things don't go well and the only thing in your control is your reaction.

Nice forearms 💪

@slippysheep4774

5 ай бұрын

I couldn't help but notice them as well

Hey Flow, what a timing! There's this girl in my prep year class whose major is the same with me somehow. I'm not into romantic relationships with people around me generally. Like I felt something for someone only once in highschool and she was also the only person I dated. This was the second time and my god, she was what I was looking for for the rest of my life. We texted regularly, just as friends tho. And I kinda got rejected yesterday. Of course I'm not angry with her. It's not her fault not to feel anything in that way. But damn, it hurts. It fucking hurts. It doesn't hurt because I got rejected, it hurts because of that feeling she could've been my soulmate. It hurts to wait a message. I needed to vent a lot. I have no idea how to express myself. I want to write poems, I want to sleep until it's all gone. See you all guys.

thank you for making these videos brother. You are very wise

I really appreciate the work you’ve put in but also the creativity behind this channel. You’re doing more good than you can know by spreading these messages:)

thank you for uploading

i don’t necessarily NEED your content but it is always a nice listen. thank you

Another one? keep it up man!

Hey i love ur videos, are you able to post them on spotify

@flowstatevideo

2 ай бұрын

Thanks, no KZread only

38 seconds ago??

:)

I’m so early

damn im early