Islamic Wisdom of Teenage Marriage

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  • @mathew1812
    @mathew1812Ай бұрын

    Imagine what the man feels after finding out, It's not his child.

  • @lemmejustreadthethings

    @lemmejustreadthethings

    Ай бұрын

    She ditched the real dad for him because "he was so much better" can you imagine how the real dad feels about that? So she was sleeping with someone until she found someone better, either financially or intimately or even both, the guy in the video just happened to be her best option at the time because she eventually settled with him for years, otherwise she would likely have moved on from him too. Its crazy how much feminism has destroyed marriages.

  • @mathew1812

    @mathew1812

    Ай бұрын

    @@lemmejustreadthethings the Both man got destroyed because of one woman. Imagine the poisonous consequences a woman produces. My contention is, Daniel should have said the immense injustice that happened to the man, new and old. He was more into describing the child's issue which is also a big thing. But Let's not brush the man out. We need to normalize social and shariah punishment for women. I've seen women supporting another woman even if she is in the wrong. It's as if, the world owes them something.

  • @asnaismail7211

    @asnaismail7211

    Ай бұрын

    ​@mathew1812 I agree that the new man did nothing wrong. But the other guy ( the actual father of the child) is as wrong as the woman. I'm guessing you're not aware that the punishment for adultery in islam is for both man and woman who committed it?

  • @yade5979

    @yade5979

    Ай бұрын

    Adultery, yes, lying to thr dude and having him raise someone else's kid as his own? That evil is solely on that woman , the other guy did not force her to do this. ​@@asnaismail7211

  • @mathew1812

    @mathew1812

    Ай бұрын

    @@asnaismail7211 i agree that both man and the woman is at wrong. But the woman is the main culprit here because she is the one who is married and contractually bound with the man. So, if she does anything, she is violating martial contract. It's her duty to be loyal. An outsider Doesn't have any concern for that. It's thus, mainly the woman's fault. And, who even asked you about the new man.? The new man is not at fault in the slightest. None asked for common sense. Whether you agree or not, Doesn't make the slightest difference. The new man is obviously innocent regardless of what you think.

  • @RandomTubefulcrum
    @RandomTubefulcrumАй бұрын

    it’s so disgusting how widespread this phenomenon is…

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    True

  • @impeacefulgamer

    @impeacefulgamer

    Ай бұрын

    Child marriageable is also disgusting! 🙃

  • @muhammadedwards8425

    @muhammadedwards8425

    Ай бұрын

    ​​@@impeacefulgamerWhat is a child? And why is marriage magically become okay at a age? If you can't explain then your opinion is invalid

  • @thetruthwithproof8802

    @thetruthwithproof8802

    Ай бұрын

    ONLY OUR PROPHETS TEACHINGS ARE 💯% CORRECT ⚠ Do NOT become a blind follower of any PREACHER ⚠ REJECT the incorrect teachings from your favourite PREACHERS ⚠ Even if you do NOT like a PREACHER, ACCEPT all of his CORRECT teachings ⚠ If you see an INCORRECT teaching from a PREACHER, do not REJECT all the CORRECT teachings from that PREACHER

  • @Distress-yz4be

    @Distress-yz4be

    Ай бұрын

    ​​@@impeacefulgamerout of topic and whataboutry!cherry on the top the comment was st0pid as well!

  • @TheWarrior-hj8vv
    @TheWarrior-hj8vvАй бұрын

    Early marriage would solve much of the problems the ummah is facing today...

  • @FikrNaqdi

    @FikrNaqdi

    Ай бұрын

    I have seen Muslim girls who voluntarily got married at early age and then got over the marriage because she was not looking for marriage but halalization of sex. After getting over the marriage, they start extra-marital affairs. Marriage won't stop zina if it's done only for halalization of sex. First control the desire, then get married. Marriage is about responsibility too.

  • @72-bit

    @72-bit

    Ай бұрын

    exactly

  • @raaid85

    @raaid85

    Ай бұрын

    what is early?u guys seem to dismiss how the husband should be?

  • @MR.FlyingMonkey

    @MR.FlyingMonkey

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@FikrNaqdi💀💀 From which country you are ??

  • @MR.FlyingMonkey

    @MR.FlyingMonkey

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@FikrNaqdi how does These "Muslim" girls exist ?? 💀💀 Are you serious

  • @The-attackk
    @The-attackkАй бұрын

    Alhamdulillah, Allāh has blessed us with Islam.

  • @saved6855

    @saved6855

    12 күн бұрын

    Oh yeah cuz you get Muta.

  • @The-attackk

    @The-attackk

    11 күн бұрын

    @saved6855 That's only in christianity and shi'ism. If you still didn't get it, I'm a Muslim.

  • @saved6855

    @saved6855

    11 күн бұрын

    @@The-attackk 😂😂😂good one.

  • @saved6855

    @saved6855

    11 күн бұрын

    @@The-attackk well I was a Muslim all my life, I went to Saudi for work learned Arabic finally was able to understand the book in the original language. I left this demonic cult because I understood I was lied to all my life about the true meaning of the verses. So many Arabs are not real Muslims bc they understand exactly what it all means.

  • @asimsajjad4002
    @asimsajjad4002Ай бұрын

    I'm single but I can feel the pain 😢

  • @MR.FlyingMonkey

    @MR.FlyingMonkey

    Ай бұрын

    😮😄 same here

  • @ahmed_shaikh

    @ahmed_shaikh

    26 күн бұрын

    your age?

  • @asimsajjad4002

    @asimsajjad4002

    26 күн бұрын

    @@ahmed_shaikh Mid 20's

  • @ahmed_shaikh

    @ahmed_shaikh

    26 күн бұрын

    @@asimsajjad4002 same 😥 which country?

  • @asimsajjad4002

    @asimsajjad4002

    25 күн бұрын

    @@ahmed_shaikh Pakistan

  • @rtun9866
    @rtun9866Ай бұрын

    No KISS before marriage , but more important no KIDS before marriage

  • @abidrahman2636

    @abidrahman2636

    Ай бұрын

    Even more important, no unnecessary interaction with opposite gender, no idle talks.

  • @FreePalestine_____

    @FreePalestine_____

    Ай бұрын

    I do you one better - NO FREE MIXING.

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@abidrahman2636Where are you brothers when sisters are flirting with eachother everywhere?

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@FreePalestine_____And what about sisters flirting with eachother? Is that okay? Because it happens all the time

  • @rtun9866

    @rtun9866

    Ай бұрын

    @@Therebelliousprince001 we can't be eveywhere you have to take care of your sister

  • @JesusisaMuslim
    @JesusisaMuslimАй бұрын

    Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, "Whoever is pleased to have his provision expanded and his life span extended, let him keep good relations with his family." Sahih al-Bukhari 2067

  • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543

    @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543

    Ай бұрын

    Right after aqida & manhaj ppl need to learn family vaIues with proof & halal rizq. In westt sIaves was ended due to tech making Iabor cheap, not moraIs. Then came longer education to deaI with all job replacement to delay nikah. So called girI's movement was funded to switch farm to det sIaves after the new federal rbuh center was established. & again girI's & guys were encouraged to delay nikah to pay the rbuh "tackes" Bida has divided the MusIims to be overrun. Iibb ideas were pushed on MusIims to maintain the unfavorable conditions. They say we accept you but push sins as Iiberty and misrep Islam to convince ppl. A return to sunna and to show why its better is needed.

  • @JesusisaMuslim
    @JesusisaMuslimАй бұрын

    Abu Huraira reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said: "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him uphold his family ties." Sahih al-Bukhari 6138

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    There is another hadith that says a man that calls another man his father instead of his biological one wont smell jannah

  • @cyberyousef7519
    @cyberyousef7519Ай бұрын

    “Teenage” is just a word, with their logic even a 19 years old is a “teenager”

  • @m.de.villeparisis

    @m.de.villeparisis

    Ай бұрын

    Whose logic and what logic? Mind you, I didn't watch the video.

  • @ibrahim_-_-_

    @ibrahim_-_-_

    Ай бұрын

    hypocrisy of the west

  • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543

    @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543

    Ай бұрын

    In Islam you an aduIt when you hit puberty.

  • @m.de.villeparisis

    @m.de.villeparisis

    Ай бұрын

    @@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 That's a lie and you know it. Islam has no concept of adulthood or (male) puberty. It only recognizes girls who haven't menstruated yet, prepubescent girls. A man, regardless of his age, may marry any girl, prepubescent or not.

  • @cyberyousef7519

    @cyberyousef7519

    25 күн бұрын

    @@m.de.villeparisis the logic of westerners, there is nothing such as a teenager There is a kid (prepubescent) and an adult (pubescent)

  • @victorkey1218
    @victorkey1218Ай бұрын

    Estagfirullah. May Allah protect us from and our children from these things

  • @abdullamomak3470

    @abdullamomak3470

    Ай бұрын

    آمين

  • @Ibn_Abdulaziz
    @Ibn_AbdulazizАй бұрын

    Not Zinah (fornication), because she could have been divorced and still pregnant. Rather this video shows the Hikmah (wisdom) of the Sharee'ah of Allah ﷻ legislating an 'iddah (waiting period) for the woman for divorce. She has to wait three menstrual cycles before remarrying again in order to establish with certainty that she is not pregnant. Then after her waiting period, she can remarry. But the non-Muslims can divorce and then she runs away with her lover the next day while maybe being pregnant the day before with her former husband. Then the new man thinks that the child is his. This is oppression against the child of not knowing his/her father, being in doubt.

  • @mathew1812

    @mathew1812

    Ай бұрын

    This is oppression on the man as well whose lineage has Been polluted as he thought It's his child

  • @Lord_Escanor_Sama

    @Lord_Escanor_Sama

    Ай бұрын

    How can you get divorced without getting married ? It sounds like you’re not from around here. Lol

  • @lemmejustreadthethings

    @lemmejustreadthethings

    Ай бұрын

    It is extremely doubtful that the woman in the story had this amount of restraint lol. It will most likely have been a dpur of the moment thing for her.

  • @Ibn_Abdulaziz

    @Ibn_Abdulaziz

    Ай бұрын

    If a man marries a woman but does not consummate the marriage, meaning no intercourse occurred, then the woman does not have to observe an 'iddah (waiting period) and he can divorce her. But if the marriage has been consummated, then he is not allowed to divorce her until she is clean and no intercorce has occurred. If he has had intercourse with her and then he divorces her at that time, then that is an invalid divorce. Rather he has to wait till she gets her menses after the last intercourse, then she becomes clean and then gets her menses and becomes clean, and no intercourse at all during that time, then he can divorce her. And then her 'Iddah (waiting period) begins. He has to pay for her expenes and not kick her out of the house unless she has done immoral things. During her 'iddah (waiting period), they may regret and miss one another, and he can take her back. If he takes her back it will be counted that one Talaq (divorce) has occurred. He is allowed this up to three times. Then if he divorces her the third time, he cannot take her back unless she has married someone else and then divorced him. Narrated Ibn 'Umar رضي الله عنما: In the time of Allah's Messenger ﷺ, he ('Abdullah Ibn 'Umar) divorced his wife while she was menstruating, so (his father) 'Umar (Ibn Al-Khattab رضي الله عنه) asked Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) about that and he replied: "Command him (your son) to take her back and keep her till she is purified (from menses), has another period, and is then purified. If he then wishes he may keep her, and if he wishes he may divorce her before having intercourse with her. That is the 'Iddah (period of waiting) which Allah Commanded for the divorce of women." [Agreed upon i.e. Al-Bukhari and Muslim narrates it].

  • @hijabiclothing2902

    @hijabiclothing2902

    Ай бұрын

    True. We already have IDDAH rule, no fornication rule. Islam is already perfect. WE DO NOT NEED RED PILL IDEOLOGY OR RED PILL PEOPLE LIKE DANIEL.

  • @NathanRoberts-rv5zk
    @NathanRoberts-rv5zkАй бұрын

    Thw hypocrisy of Christians on the subject is funny

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    The christians acctually say the man has to suck it up and raise the bastard child they love to bring up hosea rasing his wifes child after she cheated

  • @nuallannnua1553

    @nuallannnua1553

    Ай бұрын

    I mean the Christians disagree with this as well. What hypocrisy are you referring to?

  • @DentalPlanger

    @DentalPlanger

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@nuallannnua1553Christians are against 12 yo girls getting married even though Mary became Joseph's wife around that age.

  • @allwillberevealed777

    @allwillberevealed777

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@nuallannnua1553 Christianity is a Greco-Roman religion. It's what they practiced. It's the same people. Edom.

  • @cyberyousef7519

    @cyberyousef7519

    Ай бұрын

    @@DentalPlanger you forgot to mention that Joseph was 90

  • @user-ll8rz9zp2o
    @user-ll8rz9zp2oАй бұрын

    Alhamdulillah for marriage and Astaghfirullah for fornification

  • @fakhrulislam6869
    @fakhrulislam6869Ай бұрын

    Alhamdulillah for Islam ❤

  • @Soldier-Of-Mahdi
    @Soldier-Of-MahdiАй бұрын

    2:00 Heated debates be like: Found my brother👍👍

  • @sarvathhussain2048

    @sarvathhussain2048

    Ай бұрын

    She was a very virgin girl -heated debates

  • @MaximumPayine
    @MaximumPayineАй бұрын

    Atheists would be like, this is wrong and then provide zero rational conclusions as to why.

  • @tysolbohan6446

    @tysolbohan6446

    Ай бұрын

    Ethics spawns from species wide genetic imprints innately there in most of us morality is species subjective just like beauty while it is objective for humans it's subjective for animals and also this is wrong in the Darwinian world view because life is about genetic replication looking after some 1 else's kids goes against the genetic replication of your own blood line

  • @User_47536

    @User_47536

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@tysolbohan6446atheists should follow darwinian philosophy and go live in jungle 😂

  • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543

    @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@tysolbohan6446 Atheism built O civilizations due to no moral objectivity. Religions changed but bibIe and vedas point to Islam as the final preserved faith. Humanity in whole proves Islam true.

  • @tysolbohan6446

    @tysolbohan6446

    Ай бұрын

    @@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 well most the ancient world were thiests no shit you wouldn't get athiests societies. But you're begging the question why do you need religion to build empires ? And also Hinduism Islam Christainity they are all centered around the worship of that thing that created nature and it's wickedness. If it exists if it does then then any sane mind would oppose it FFS it will torture you for eternity in hell because you didn't believe in it.

  • @Acubens.
    @Acubens.Ай бұрын

    An important message expertly executed. Well-pyed Sir.

  • @Douaa_ata
    @Douaa_ataАй бұрын

    Good topic Daniel

  • @YusufClack
    @YusufClackАй бұрын

    My kids love the deen, al hamdulilah, yet the families we talk to all want to wait until after a masters degree. One said they're not even considering before age 24

  • @Ahmed-ye5sd

    @Ahmed-ye5sd

    Ай бұрын

    Influenced from Kuffars+too much pressure from society and the future spouse

  • @Muslim-87

    @Muslim-87

    Ай бұрын

    100% lot of Muslim families are obsessed with degrees and high paid jobs

  • @yusrabintrabah2553

    @yusrabintrabah2553

    Ай бұрын

    Don't give up, people seeking marriage at a younger age do exist. Keep making dua

  • @homtanks7259
    @homtanks7259Ай бұрын

    Alhamdulillah for Islam ☝🏻

  • @shafinrahman2199
    @shafinrahman2199Ай бұрын

    How emasculating that brother must feel. I feel sorry for him and the society he is in.

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    True i feell bad for him but we men need to be smarter each day i see stories of women cheating on their husbands from my country a muslim land for dumb reaons like the other guy was attractive or her husband worked too much,if we make dna testing mandatory at birth manny men would see the truth

  • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543

    @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543

    Ай бұрын

    Right after aqida & manhaj ppl need to learn family vaIues with proof & halal rizq. In westt sIaves was ended due to tech making Iabor cheap, not moraIs. Then came longer education to deaI with all job replacement to delay nikah. So called girI's movement was funded to switch farm to det sIaves after the new federal rbuh center was established. & again girI's & guys were encouraged to delay nikah to pay the rbuh "tackes" Bida has divided the MusIims to be overrun. Iibb ideas were pushed on MusIims to maintain the unfavorable conditions. They say we accept you but push sins as Iiberty and misrep Islam to convince ppl. A return to sunna and to show why its better is needed.

  • @ramees
    @ramees24 күн бұрын

    Thanks!

  • @ashfaquei.k.426
    @ashfaquei.k.426Ай бұрын

    اللَّهُمَّ أَعِنِّيْ عَلَى ذِكْرِكَ وَشُكْرِكَ وَحُسْنِ عِبَادَتِكَ Allahumma a inni Ala Zikrik Wa Shukrika Wa Husni Ibadatika O Allah, help me remember You, to be grateful to You, and to worship You,

  • @entertainproxi9140
    @entertainproxi9140Ай бұрын

    While I agree that there is a level of personal responsibility, I still think free mixing is only 20% of the problem, sure free mixing might exacerbate the issue however removing it won't fix much, it will just make people go to greater lengths to find haram company, at least in school there are teachers to moderate, the real problem imo is the fact that the halal option is made increasingly more difficult, both from the governments cattering to rich people at the cost of 95% of the population as well as from people having insane demands for their daughters, in Algeria the marriage culture is so toxic that most of the hard work a young man does for years is just so he can afford a single wedding night. Loneliness is also a big factor, the gap between parents and children is increasingly wider due to how different their interests and problems are, and due to how education is structured, kids find more comfort in the company of each other than their family who most often is just a source of pressure. Since economic reforms won't happen without america bombing us into stone age and capitalism has done irreparable damage to our societies, Sabr is our only refuge, and may allah the most merciful forgive our trespasses.

  • @Ridgecrestvirtualoffice

    @Ridgecrestvirtualoffice

    Ай бұрын

    Your in lala land if you think teachers moderate. Sometimes they participate

  • @hasanabdi7317

    @hasanabdi7317

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@Ridgecrestvirtualoffice Alot of scandalsous news about teachers sleeping with their students. Pretty common in the west.

  • @Ridgecrestvirtualoffice

    @Ridgecrestvirtualoffice

    Ай бұрын

    @@hasanabdi7317 that's true brother. Worse thing is to put you kids in public school

  • @loverofhumanity

    @loverofhumanity

    Ай бұрын

    Nah actually removing yourself from those environments is actually the most effective way at prevention. This is actually well known even by psychologists. You don't buy alcohol if you're an alcoholic or sit around a bar. Its the same with free mixing. I'm not even Muslim fyi but obviously you're not supposed to be around the opposite gender if you're married, that will definitely increase your likelihood of getting attracted to someone outside your marriage and then acting on it.

  • @hasanabdi7317

    @hasanabdi7317

    Ай бұрын

    @@loverofhumanity The no free mixing only applies to the opposite gender who you're not related to by blood or marriage. Also I agree removing from environment is ideal, but very hard to avoid in the west. Every job field is mixed these days unless you work remotely.

  • @pajeetkumar1645
    @pajeetkumar1645Ай бұрын

    *This is very common in India 🇮🇳 amongst the hindu community.*

  • @DrThrax009

    @DrThrax009

    Ай бұрын

    your name 😂

  • @pajeetkumar1645

    @pajeetkumar1645

    Ай бұрын

    @@DrThrax009 thank you saaar your name is very good as well.

  • @GhostRider-hg5vc

    @GhostRider-hg5vc

    Ай бұрын

    It is part of our vedick religigand saar.

  • @pajeetkumar1645

    @pajeetkumar1645

    Ай бұрын

    @@GhostRider-hg5vc Saaar your understanding of the holy vedic scriptures is very good. Are you a yogi ? Example can be found in the Hindu epic Mahabharata, in which Draupadi, daughter of the king of Panchala, is married to five brothers. Women who have multiple partners is phooool seapoooort saaaar.

  • @User_47536

    @User_47536

    Ай бұрын

    Saar we also do niyog saar, it is awar kalchar saar

  • @adamburman2337
    @adamburman2337Ай бұрын

    بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم ﴿ ومن أعرض عن ذكري فإن له معيشة ضنكا ونحشره يوم القيامة أعمى ﴾ "But whosoever turns away from My Reminder (i.e. neither believes in this Quran nor acts on its orders, etc.) verily, for him is a life of hardship, and We shall raise him up blind on the Day of Resurrection

  • @fadial-mufti2338
    @fadial-mufti2338Ай бұрын

    Assalamu alaikom, Brother Daniel, and thank you for sharing this. Where can I find the full poem/story of this man, please?

  • @JesusisaMuslim
    @JesusisaMuslimАй бұрын

    Aisha reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said: "Verily, whoever has been given the quality of kindness has been given his share of good in this life and in the Hereafter. Maintaining family ties, good character, and good treatment of neighbors will build their heavenly abodes and increase their life spans." Musnad Ahmad 25259

  • @Sg190th

    @Sg190th

    Ай бұрын

    Non-Muslims ignore that hadith. They are sad.

  • @abdurrahmanalothman4900
    @abdurrahmanalothman4900Ай бұрын

    Dual pain suffered from the father who really wasn’t her father, and the daughter who had her heart broken and Allah knows what will happen to her. Not to mention the family being crushed and destroyed. Allah’s punishments and rules are clearly a mercy. Alhamdulillah

  • @H.a.q.q
    @H.a.q.qАй бұрын

    Alhamdulillah for Islam

  • @yim8116
    @yim8116Ай бұрын

    The only solution to social problems is the implications of Islam and Sharia.

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    True and mandatory dna testing

  • @yim8116

    @yim8116

    Ай бұрын

    @@zuhasbekillin3461 And true DNA test find child is not his. It still doesn't solve the problems of the children's social crisis.

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    @@yim8116 well dna testing will stop the mothers from doing paternity fraud,no more men to fool she will have to find the real father,some of these women lie to the children about their real father for petty reasons like he is broke

  • @bishalacharya2582

    @bishalacharya2582

    Ай бұрын

    Like in Afghanistan?

  • @DentalPlanger

    @DentalPlanger

    Ай бұрын

    White Sharia is even better

  • @marwanmalak6996
    @marwanmalak6996Ай бұрын

    سبحان الله

  • @kremlinou4936
    @kremlinou4936Ай бұрын

    The Maury Show!!!

  • @THEMilkSHAIKH
    @THEMilkSHAIKHАй бұрын

    Even if we delay till after college, that is 4 years, most people are 21/22. It still is difficult to marry because parents want a guy making $150k+ right out of school, and girls want unrealistic Mehr expectations.

  • @hasanabdi7317

    @hasanabdi7317

    Ай бұрын

    150k right out of school at 21/22? Most people in general don't make anywhere close to that. $100k plus is maybe 10% Majority of people make average money.

  • @yusrabintrabah2553

    @yusrabintrabah2553

    Ай бұрын

    Not all girls and not all parents. I got married at 19 last year and my parents weren't looking for a rich guy, just someone with deen and akhlaq that has his priorities in the right place. I didn't impose a mahr, I let my husband's family decide what the mahr would be. I only found out my mahr during the nikkah and agreed to it.

  • @Tootoot-qd1ci

    @Tootoot-qd1ci

    14 күн бұрын

    ما شاء الله، بارك الله لكما وبارك عليكما وجمع بينكما في خير I think in general, Muslim society is finally bouncing back from the heavy influence of the west & returning to the pure aqeeda of Islam. Speaking from where I stand, I see that many people from the 80s/90s generation had delayed their marriage a lot & some even still aren't married now, may Allah guide them. But on the other hand I see the younger generation are moving towards early marriage with families more willing to support the couple financially until they can be independent, & the youth themselves looking for Islamic values rather than surface stuff of high mehr & fancy cars. So I'm hopeful for the future of Muslims inshaAllah to build a new generation of families that instill the correct values of Islam & encourage lowering the gaze & wearing correct hijab & aiming for young marriage

  • @yusrabintrabah2553

    @yusrabintrabah2553

    14 күн бұрын

    @Tootoot-qd1ci امين Insha'Allah I hope so too

  • @TheESMAT07
    @TheESMAT07Ай бұрын

    The school system is the enemy here. Teenagers MUST get married. Young boys must be able to work and afford their livelihood. Young girls must stay home and not learn the habit of going out every day. Sexual attraction is a blessing of we obeyed Allah.

  • @justforfunlol2258

    @justforfunlol2258

    Ай бұрын

    You can't protect someone by denying them resources to be independent.

  • @TheESMAT07

    @TheESMAT07

    Ай бұрын

    @justforfunlol2258 Women in Islam should not be independent. From birth to death, they have a male guardian. Independence is the door of what you saw in the video.

  • @Peaches10608

    @Peaches10608

    Ай бұрын

    No thanks. I'm 17 and I don't want to be tied to a guy that might not like in 10 years because as we grow into adults our preferences can change. Also I don't want to risk pregnancy because I don't want motherhood yet.

  • @theiceman7590

    @theiceman7590

    Ай бұрын

    Good luck with that in this day and age

  • @Oliver_Klozoff69

    @Oliver_Klozoff69

    Ай бұрын

    @@Peaches10608when do you plan to marry? You don’t necessarily to get married at 17 per se but you should definitely do it before 25

  • @culer
    @culerАй бұрын

    I learned what baby daddy means after coming to america

  • @m.de.villeparisis

    @m.de.villeparisis

    Ай бұрын

    No, that's Islam.

  • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543

    @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@m.de.villeparisis

  • @alimiah4487
    @alimiah4487Ай бұрын

    This is a huge problem in Christianity and major issue in the black Christian community

  • @DentalPlanger

    @DentalPlanger

    Ай бұрын

    Demons cannot be Christians.

  • @alimiah4487

    @alimiah4487

    Ай бұрын

    @@DentalPlanger Demons are part and parcel of your religion.. The true God creates good and a man made god creates evil. Its in your book, your men made god creates evil and this is why deception is the core foundation of your religion.. need i say more about your religion.

  • @user-hq2nz7cu6v

    @user-hq2nz7cu6v

    Ай бұрын

    Their no problem in Christianity, the problem is in the implementation of Christianity.

  • @alimiah4487

    @alimiah4487

    Ай бұрын

    @@user-hq2nz7cu6v Do you have a bible from the time of Jesus? The problem starts from the start of Christianity

  • @user-hq2nz7cu6v

    @user-hq2nz7cu6v

    Ай бұрын

    @@alimiah4487 The present Bible is the original Bible.

  • @MotuBiral
    @MotuBiralАй бұрын

    Dont forget the other side of the coin. As this proliferates, people will find out more commonly especially in small towns that their partner is a blood relative that they did not know. I have read of such things already happening

  • @yusrabintrabah2553

    @yusrabintrabah2553

    Ай бұрын

    If the people don't change their lineage there is no problem because they'd be easily identified. Also cousin marriage isn't a bad thing.

  • @MotuBiral

    @MotuBiral

    Ай бұрын

    @@yusrabintrabah2553 Bruh you’d have to know your lineage to then decide to not change it Look into the news of the German brother-sister couple that have 4 kids Also cousin marriage is okay in short bursts. Definitely best to marry people far away from your own when possible

  • @Sadik-568
    @Sadik-568Ай бұрын

    I'm raising money to get married. Please pray for me 😢

  • @Ahmed-ye5sd

    @Ahmed-ye5sd

    Ай бұрын

    May Allah grant you a righteous spouse and hasten your marriage

  • @AshrafAnam

    @AshrafAnam

    Ай бұрын

    *DON'T. Use that money on yourself, your parents and the needy instead. Stay away from women, brother.*

  • @Sadik-568

    @Sadik-568

    Ай бұрын

    @@Ahmed-ye5sd thank you 😊

  • @Ahmed-ye5sd

    @Ahmed-ye5sd

    Ай бұрын

    @@AshrafAnam Akhi it's not haram a women wanting to have a husband who can provide a Good future for her kids. Or atleast someone with decent finances. Extremely difficult to find a Women who would be willing to marry someone who is poor with no exceptional qualities

  • @hasanabdi7317

    @hasanabdi7317

    Ай бұрын

    May Allah assist you

  • @fidelcatsro6948
    @fidelcatsro6948Ай бұрын

    😭😭😭

  • @tahirali-is1kx
    @tahirali-is1kxАй бұрын

    Why does it feel like people like Yasir Qadhi would recommend the same solution like the one Daniel mentioned regarding inspiring philosophy dude.

  • @shans9939

    @shans9939

    Ай бұрын

    Your feelings/assumptions are WRONG!

  • @md.abdullahalrafi6496
    @md.abdullahalrafi6496Ай бұрын

    Day by day I'm wanting Khilafah more and more.

  • @fuzailarshad2003

    @fuzailarshad2003

    3 күн бұрын

    By that time we won't be alive.

  • @adamburman2337
    @adamburman2337Ай бұрын

    بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم إِلَّا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا وَعَمِلُوا الصَّالِحَاتِ وَذَكَرُوا اللَّهَ كَثِيرًا وَانْتَصَرُوا مِنْ بَعْدِ مَا ظُلِمُوا وَسَيَعْلَمُ الَّذِينَ ظَلَمُوا أَيَّ مُنْقَلَبٍ يَنْقَلِبُونَ ﴿۲۲۷﴾ Except those who believe, and do good works and remember Allah in abundance and became victorious after they had been wronged. The wrongdoers will surely know which turn they will be returning to (Hell). (

  • @aura578
    @aura578Ай бұрын

    Just look at the ancestry and lineage of sahaba( companions of the prophet Mohamed Allah's peace be upon him ) who lived 14 centuries ago!! This shows how wise our religion is.

  • @MoeCamera
    @MoeCameraАй бұрын

    This is very common in the black community

  • @8KilgoreTrout4
    @8KilgoreTrout4Ай бұрын

    I coulda been there for a decade and I would be out in one second!

  • @erwinsmith5381
    @erwinsmith5381Ай бұрын

    اللهم صل وسلم على سيدنا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه وسلم

  • @fredmiami
    @fredmiamiАй бұрын

    Human beings can live an elite lifestyle by gracefully embracing God and his religion. No one needs to dehumanize him or herself by living a life without God. This video is a good example if you think about it.

  • @anasbanaggar
    @anasbanaggarАй бұрын

    I read the comments on the original video It is a fake story on real phenomenon occurrence Most people blamed the stepdad for this because it happened before marriage but they forget their long relationship before marriage 😅

  • @elchappo1320
    @elchappo1320Ай бұрын

    In U.S. muslim woman first focus on getting their careers after college, then they start looking for marriage. By that time they are in their 30's

  • @FikrNaqdi

    @FikrNaqdi

    Ай бұрын

    They do zina in college too.

  • @abidrahman2636

    @abidrahman2636

    Ай бұрын

    By the time they are looking for marriage, are they still virgins? Also, since birth control methods are available now, I don't see how marriage harms career in any way.

  • @elchappo1320

    @elchappo1320

    Ай бұрын

    @@abidrahman2636 and not many guys want to marry women in their 30s, so alot of muslim women are living alone and single

  • @amm3936
    @amm3936Ай бұрын

    Alhamdulillah, Allah gave us rulings to prevent and to treat this type of things. Some preventive measures are mentioned. But what many people don’t know about is how islam can give this baby girl her rights: 1- she will still be the daughter of this father because she was born while they are married, so she came to this world as his daughter. 2- he still have to pay for basic expenses and treat her well because its not her fault. 3- she can get married normally without people pointing at her as a child who came out of wedlock. Islam put the right of the child over the feelings of the parents. And Allah knows best

  • @mohdnorzaihar2632
    @mohdnorzaihar2632Ай бұрын

    Traditional@extanded family is our rudiment

  • @blueflame3531
    @blueflame3531Ай бұрын

    I feel so sorry for him.

  • @mohdnorzaihar2632
    @mohdnorzaihar2632Ай бұрын

    Get to know that "bad desire@nafsu" is real.

  • @LeMusulmanSceptique
    @LeMusulmanSceptiqueАй бұрын

    It's so sad, but they push this idea of having fun young

  • @Hsham-mm4ve
    @Hsham-mm4veАй бұрын

    خیلی باحالی می خواستم بدونی🌚☕

  • @user-pg1km2hi4r
    @user-pg1km2hi4rАй бұрын

    Early marriage and polygamy are the solutions to most of the Ummah’s problems but woe to our parents and the Muslim women who think men are their property and shouldn’t follow the laws of God that they don’t like. Woe to Muslim men who follow these women dictating them and their marriage

  • @DentalPlanger

    @DentalPlanger

    Ай бұрын

    Men should dictate to their women, yes

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    True

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@DentalPlangerThey should.

  • @blankczechz
    @blankczechzАй бұрын

    Had a client in this situation. 4 year old boy. Dad took dna test with child, and found he was not the father. Dad left them both.

  • @personanongrata7976
    @personanongrata7976Ай бұрын

    2:29 An example of why democracy is a scourge on humanity. Democracy (humanism) is at the root of all this. The Church failed, and the Ummah is failing.

  • @igortirkajla8042
    @igortirkajla804223 күн бұрын

    I can think of at least five "more horrific" things that being told you're not the father of a child you thought is yours. I mean, that sucks, but is it as horrific as being publicly decapitated? Or genitally mutilated? Or denied education? Or denied of the opportunity to meet the opposite sex, and then engaging in homosexual activities, often including underage boys? Or being a person who agrees to their own daughter being killed an raped while your brother watches, because of the "disrespect"? Or saying you're willing to kill your own child because "god told you so"?

  • @016karma
    @016karmaАй бұрын

    French solved this problem by banning dna test 😂

  • @AdreusF
    @AdreusFАй бұрын

    Who can guarantee their ancestor not marry soon after they ability make child?

  • @elbasado481
    @elbasado481Ай бұрын

    Why is bro dropping bars tho?

  • @m1a1-own4elnm
    @m1a1-own4elnmАй бұрын

    That's what happens when you have a stupid society bent on banning abortion but at the same time glorifying sexual life styles for teenagers.

  • @mdtalhaansari1096
    @mdtalhaansari1096Ай бұрын

    Oh my God! What must have been going through that little girl's mind? She must be thinking 'I have done something wrong to make daddy angry with me.'

  • @devsehaj
    @devsehajАй бұрын

    Bro make a video on sikhism

  • @louislowstress
    @louislowstressАй бұрын

    Can you make a video in defense of cousin marriage? Because its another thing the people of kufr like to criticize.

  • @mohammedelmi2660
    @mohammedelmi2660Ай бұрын

    While is mostly agree with Daniels viewpoint as a Muslim but I’ve had a rude awakening as to the responsibilities , the possibilities of marriages exploding and ending badly I just don’t see as a rash decision To be made

  • @yusrabintrabah2553

    @yusrabintrabah2553

    Ай бұрын

    Nobody is saying make rash decision, you need to carefully evaluate the situation but you don't need to delay it till after education. ESPECIALLY not for girls

  • @VictorAbdullah326
    @VictorAbdullah326Ай бұрын

    Bro how do i get married as a 15-year-old revert who hasn't had much experience in the Muslim community?

  • @nurhaqim7159

    @nurhaqim7159

    Ай бұрын

    You don't

  • @TheMuslimConnection-he9xy

    @TheMuslimConnection-he9xy

    Ай бұрын

    Akhi, slow down, you are a child, still in your early teens, your brain will not even be fully developed for at least another 8 to 10 years. Become a man, make sure your finances are all together, find your own place to live, and then start worrying about a wife.

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    You cant thats the funny thing daniel is in his own world the girls father would rather let them have a bf than be married

  • @AshrafAnam

    @AshrafAnam

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@zuhasbekillin3461Daniel is in the real world. We Muslims are in a brainwashed fantasy world as we worship the West.

  • @AshrafAnam

    @AshrafAnam

    Ай бұрын

    Marrying early has nothing to do with being Muslim. It's a human thing.

  • @Blahblahblah_420
    @Blahblahblah_420Ай бұрын

    So do you recommend farming, cattle herding etc to be done by everyone in the modern day and age. By the time people complete their education and are capable of earning to provide for their families, they have already in their 30's

  • @AshrafAnam

    @AshrafAnam

    Ай бұрын

    If you have successfully controlled your sexual urges until 30, there's hardly any necessity for marriage. Why are you clinging to this ancient tradition? Also we have enough population on this planet, no necessity for reproduction.

  • @yusrabintrabah2553

    @yusrabintrabah2553

    Ай бұрын

    Whoever fears Allah, Allah makes for them a way out.

  • @Blahblahblah_420

    @Blahblahblah_420

    Ай бұрын

    @@yusrabintrabah2553 BS

  • @hackrabiyah
    @hackrabiyahАй бұрын

    Zina is bad indeed. I talk to a lot of sisters and if we don’t uphold the rights of everyone we will create situations where zina happens. We have to uphold rights for men, women, children, parents, employees, employers, teachers, students, etc. In many domestic situations, there is an unhealthy power imbalance between the spouses. Sometimes in favour of the wife, sometimes in favour of the husband.

  • @that-skull-emoji
    @that-skull-emojiАй бұрын

    Sir please please please please review the video of nabi asli on "every hole is a goal"

  • @m.de.villeparisis

    @m.de.villeparisis

    Ай бұрын

    Great title. Could be a carnaval song.

  • @taimurahmad

    @taimurahmad

    Ай бұрын

    @@m.de.villeparisis disgusting title....

  • @User_47536

    @User_47536

    Ай бұрын

    That pajjet animator

  • @bambangedir1815
    @bambangedir1815Ай бұрын

    Bro back then i watch clip of Mauri father or not, I'm seriously in my mind thinking wtf is happening on NA, i know NA is freedom but not think this much of free

  • @Lara-un2od
    @Lara-un2odАй бұрын

    As a 18 year old girl,I think girls can get married at 18.But for me,I don't think I'm ready.Its because I am raised like this and I'm still not ready for any man's appearance. But in certain cases somehow girls are ready to be wives at 18 or 19( at least and not younger than that).So their husbands should be 24-25 maximum( 21-24 is quite good).Because if a girl is willing to spend her whole youth with a man, obviously she will expect the same man to spend his entire youth with her alone. But in this age, this is quite tough because of job requirements.

  • @Ahmed-ye5sd

    @Ahmed-ye5sd

    Ай бұрын

    Idk why you'd put the age gap to be such restrictive. There is nothing wrong with an 18 year old marrying a 30 yo man or even more or less. What's even the issue here? You yourself says you don't have the maturity for marriage so I think your opinion on this is also not valid.

  • @Lara-un2od

    @Lara-un2od

    Ай бұрын

    @@Ahmed-ye5sd it's not that just men have sexual desires but women also have.I am not ready for marriage doesn't mean that my opinion doesn't matter. I'm just saying what most of the women of my age feel.A 25 year old man is more attractive than a 35 year old man. Why doesn't a 25 year old man marry a 35 year old woman?The answer is simple: sexual appeal.Same goes for the women.

  • @AshrafAnam

    @AshrafAnam

    Ай бұрын

    You don't need to marry at all. Stay single.

  • @Ahmed-ye5sd

    @Ahmed-ye5sd

    Ай бұрын

    @@Lara-un2od Attraction is never out of the equation. At the end of the day both parties needs to agree, forced marriages are prohibited. Perhaps you might know some gurls who desire men of their age but that doesn't mean everyone most or every girl desire the same. The point i want to make is there is nothing wrong with an age gap in a marriage. From the women's perspective they can be attracted to a Number of things including physical appearance, maturity, wealth at the same way for the most men they prefer a Younger woman. I think there is a study or something if I'm not wrong If age factor would have been of a Most concern our Shahabah wouldn't have had such age gaps in marriages with their spouses.

  • @Lara-un2od

    @Lara-un2od

    Ай бұрын

    @@AshrafAnam What do you mean bro?

  • @FallofAm
    @FallofAmАй бұрын

    And the Western and Westernized Muslims have fallen for this as well. See ones you as a Muslim open up your door to Riba every other major sin follows including worshipping Western and American culture.

  • @michelangelo8520
    @michelangelo8520Ай бұрын

    Each like I age a year

  • @allwillberevealed777
    @allwillberevealed777Ай бұрын

    Have you seen the video of the Christian guy named Zherka hanging out with highschool girls? They always like to preach about women specifically having to be 18 or older. 😂

  • @grenadeonceadaykeepstheene7053
    @grenadeonceadaykeepstheene70536 күн бұрын

    Unfortunately most of Pakistanis dont understand the concept of early mirages.

  • @Sg190th
    @Sg190thАй бұрын

    Uninspiring Philosophy is a scared man.

  • @Anas_fazil
    @Anas_fazilАй бұрын

    Imagine filling the void not knowing your dad

  • @zainmudassir2964
    @zainmudassir2964Ай бұрын

    West society is decadent

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    True but this has nothing to do with the west,its about women paternity fraud is something they can do all it takes is your wife cheating ones and you will be rasing another mans child,alpha seed beta need

  • @ExperimentalKana
    @ExperimentalKanaАй бұрын

    our prophet married at 25 i dont call that early

  • @syedzaid6937

    @syedzaid6937

    Ай бұрын

    Asia ra Sahaba What scholar say

  • @syedzaid6937

    @syedzaid6937

    Ай бұрын

    He was not a prophet at the time

  • @ExperimentalKana

    @ExperimentalKana

    Ай бұрын

    @@syedzaid6937 ok but where does the notion come from then to marry early? Let people marry when they want no?

  • @sgwaic
    @sgwaicАй бұрын

    the west has no solution for this problem

  • @marcusj9947
    @marcusj9947Ай бұрын

    How old was Aisha when she got married according to the hadiths

  • @hydiac

    @hydiac

    Ай бұрын

    watch his video on this topic

  • @AshrafAnam

    @AshrafAnam

    Ай бұрын

    As old as she should be.

  • @johncharles4146

    @johncharles4146

    Ай бұрын

    9

  • @cyberyousef7519

    @cyberyousef7519

    Ай бұрын

    She was 9

  • @User_47536

    @User_47536

    Ай бұрын

    9

  • @babygoat5679
    @babygoat5679Ай бұрын

    American Horror Story

  • @DentalPlanger

    @DentalPlanger

    Ай бұрын

    Monkey Horror Story

  • @gildartsclive9003
    @gildartsclive9003Ай бұрын

    scam shamoun argument got countered really bad.

  • @DentalPlanger

    @DentalPlanger

    Ай бұрын

    Smelly Shamoun would be his ass Mary had to wait until 18

  • @m.de.villeparisis
    @m.de.villeparisisАй бұрын

    Correction: Pedophilic Marriage. It is Sunnah because the prophet married Aisha. Islam does not mention teenage marriage, just that you may marry girls of any age.

  • @boogus1670

    @boogus1670

    Ай бұрын

    ??? What the heck are you saying

  • @unknownunknown7984
    @unknownunknown798428 күн бұрын

    It's not actually common that fathers are taking care of children who aren't theirs biologically. A simple google search debunks Daniel's claims, funny how this guy also never says as number but alludes to it by saying "It's common".

  • @m.de.villeparisis
    @m.de.villeparisisАй бұрын

    Where TF does Islam say that a man and a woman have to marry at a young age or at least recommend it?

  • @boogus1670

    @boogus1670

    Ай бұрын

    It is recommended (sahih Al Bukhari 5065)

  • @m.de.villeparisis

    @m.de.villeparisis

    Ай бұрын

    @@boogus1670 I took notice of it and it does not recommend women and men getting married at an early age.

  • @boogus1670

    @boogus1670

    Ай бұрын

    @@m.de.villeparisis the Prophet (ﷺ) once said to us, 'O young people! Whoever among you is able to marry, should marry, and whoever is not able to marry, is recommended to fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power. Bro just read it, we’re not obligated to Marry at young ages it’s just recommended

  • @m.de.villeparisis

    @m.de.villeparisis

    28 күн бұрын

    @@boogus1670 That hadith (?) speaks to only men.

  • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
    @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543Ай бұрын

    Right after aqida & manhaj ppl need to learn family vaIues with proof & halal rizq. In westt sIaves was ended due to tech making Iabor cheap, not moraIs. Then came longer education to deaI with all job replacement to delay nikah. So called girI's movement was funded to switch farm to det sIaves after the new federal rbuh center was established. & again girI's & guys were encouraged to delay nikah to pay the rbuh "tackes" Bida has divided the MusIims to be overrun. Iibb ideas were pushed on MusIims to maintain the unfavorable conditions. They say we accept you but push sins as Iiberty and misrep Islam to convince ppl. A return to sunna and to show why its better is needed.

  • @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543

    @falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543

    Ай бұрын

    Many Sofia copy preests in saying Nikah is not good almost makruh just like Asharis use greke kalam to misinterpret Islam. A brother once quoted the hadith maritaI relations is sadaqa and a sofia girI from tourkey practically made Tabdi & takfr on him.

  • @beheshtah.3091
    @beheshtah.3091Ай бұрын

    A few years back, a lot of imams were pushing for early marriage to avoid zinah and there was a big wave of young, married couples. And we are now experiencing a big wave of young couples divorcing. Whilst there certainly is wisdom in Islam, it should be applied with wisdom. A lot of these young men, jumping into marriages in order to be able to fulfil their desires, while being unable to fulfil their obligations as a husband, such as financial responsibilities, is a recipe for disaster. And I’m only saying this because I’ve seen way too many marriages like this fall apart. Because they were Halal dating.

  • @AshrafAnam

    @AshrafAnam

    Ай бұрын

    Just ban marriage. Let everyone fornicate. That would solve the problem. 👍

  • @Bambotb

    @Bambotb

    Ай бұрын

    And there is no such thing as a teenage girl fit for her obligations too, i would love to see daniel accepting a 14yo boy for his 9yo daughter or is he a pedophile who wants old men with young girls ? Cause after all 9yo girl married is sunnah 😂😂

  • @deceasedposter

    @deceasedposter

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@AshrafAnam the vid literally shows one of many dangers of fornication, are you mentally disturbed

  • @abidrahman2636

    @abidrahman2636

    Ай бұрын

    Halal dating sounds oxymoronic, unless it's a married couple.

  • @hasanabdi7317

    @hasanabdi7317

    Ай бұрын

    Man we Muslim are kinda screwed

  • @posintabook597
    @posintabook597Ай бұрын

    This is the only point in which I think Daniel is exaggerating and he simply does not understand the real issue

  • @redcat6364

    @redcat6364

    Ай бұрын

    Explanation please

  • @posintabook597

    @posintabook597

    Ай бұрын

    @@redcat6364 the solution to female promiscuity and immorality is not early marriage And the reasons that lead to female promiscuity and immorality is not late marriage .

  • @posintabook597

    @posintabook597

    Ай бұрын

    Im not against early marriage , im pro. But that wouldn’t change anything . Whoever is a non chaste woman will remain like that even after marriage. We have many cases of married couples on internet where the husband is a weak dayooth and the woman seeks attention

  • @user-er3mu7gf2h

    @user-er3mu7gf2h

    Ай бұрын

    @@posintabook597prove it then

  • @galaxy5am987

    @galaxy5am987

    Ай бұрын

    You just saying things and not giving an explanation to why? Why is it not the solution and what is?

  • @saved6855
    @saved685512 күн бұрын

    She must have done Muta= temporary marriage.

  • @Danafeuer
    @DanafeuerАй бұрын

    Normal people are able to control themselves without needing to get married as children. Virtues cannot be imposed.

  • @ArtandKnowledgebyZiyaanZuber

    @ArtandKnowledgebyZiyaanZuber

    Ай бұрын

    Can u define a child , physically and mentally w.r.t. maturity

  • @azhmir4586

    @azhmir4586

    Ай бұрын

    No, actually. It is normal and natural fir human beings to get married at the age of puberty. The human body is designed this way, and going against this design and delaying marriage has harmful consequences. You are the ones who have made the abnormal normal

  • @AshrafAnam

    @AshrafAnam

    Ай бұрын

    What normal people? 😂😂😂

  • @موسى_7

    @موسى_7

    Ай бұрын

    Even if that's the case, society is harmed by bad people who can't get married early enough. When you sin, you are not the only one affected.

  • @cyberyousef7519

    @cyberyousef7519

    Ай бұрын

    The west can’t define a woman Let alone define what a child is

  • @TheMuslimConnection-he9xy
    @TheMuslimConnection-he9xyАй бұрын

    Getting married as a teenager is not the solution, as a matter of fact that's wrong. Muslims should be teaching our children patience and perseverance, not that when you have an urge, engage in it as quickly as you possibly can.

  • @mlkseth9811

    @mlkseth9811

    Ай бұрын

    And mask natural proclivities?. I agree with you that these values should be upholded but we will only be deceiving ourselves if we don't act out on them the halal way.

  • @TheMuslimConnection-he9xy

    @TheMuslimConnection-he9xy

    Ай бұрын

    @@mlkseth9811 how is that even a question, and mask natural proclivities. Obviously, if that's how you want to put it to make it sound bad. But what we should do is be learning how to keep our urges in check, being patient and make proper moves, such as getting married at proper times. I mean really, do you think that ALLAH told us to make contracts of marriage for no reason? And likewise do you think that a 14 or 15 year old can enter into a contract. No they cannot, this is how we know that teenagers should not get married, and this is how we know that the Prophet Muhammad upon whom be peace, was not some damned pedophile who r*ped a baby.

  • @AshrafAnam

    @AshrafAnam

    Ай бұрын

    Oh yes having boyfriends and girlfriends and watching porn is the HALAL ISLAMIC WAY. 😂😂😂 No shame in saying such things using "Allāh" in your dp.

  • @deceasedposter

    @deceasedposter

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@TheMuslimConnection-he9xy"no they cannot" proof?

  • @DentalPlanger

    @DentalPlanger

    Ай бұрын

    It is the solution, yes. Wasting a girl's fertility is disgusting.

  • @EB-gt1pq
    @EB-gt1pqАй бұрын

    Do men have any responsibility in this at all??? I don’t know any teenage or young men who are ready for marriage do you? They’re all playing video games.

  • @someoneIikedyourcomment

    @someoneIikedyourcomment

    Ай бұрын

    like father like son if the father busy with his own thing (working), same goes for the son (working in game)

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    How about the daughter and son live witht heir parents and move in together after they get a job,she is gonna get a bf anyway each day i see hijabis in the library with their bfs

  • @AshrafAnam

    @AshrafAnam

    Ай бұрын

    *And why do you think they play video games with hot naked girls in there? They can't get a gf and neither are they are married early. What option do they have exactly?*

  • @Peaches10608

    @Peaches10608

    Ай бұрын

    Fact my brother is 20 and only cares about coming home from his part time job and locking himself in his room for hours and hours and playing genshin till his laptop runs out of charge and then he starts it on his phone. Are parents have tried to get him to play less but he doesn't listen

  • @cyberyousef7519

    @cyberyousef7519

    Ай бұрын

    Ok lets not think about the problem, instead think about the solution The parents should teach their children all of these skills from a young age

  • @iloveallahsoomuch2292
    @iloveallahsoomuch2292Ай бұрын

    When the video comes you react on nas? He already made the video on Chistianity. You reaction videos on him are crazy hahaha

  • @ianclose123
    @ianclose123Ай бұрын

    Why be concerned about the daughter in a situation like this when, by Daniels standard, she doesn't need a father by the age of 6 because she can be married off?

  • @deceasedposter

    @deceasedposter

    Ай бұрын

    Getting married doesn't mean you should lose your dad, definetly not find out that never even knew him 🤦‍♂️

  • @hasanabdi7317

    @hasanabdi7317

    Ай бұрын

    Who else is going to marry her off if not her father. In Islam a women needs a male guardian who is looking out for her best interest

  • @EB-gt1pq
    @EB-gt1pqАй бұрын

    Teenage marriage in America with these immature kids??? I’m a practicing Muslim, but there’s no way I’m gonna marry off my teenage daughter without her having an education …in case that same husband decides to beat her or leave her. We need to be realistic about life. We are not in the Middle East, where divorced women go back to their fathers for protection and providing. In the west, everyone is on their own.

  • @ArtandKnowledgebyZiyaanZuber

    @ArtandKnowledgebyZiyaanZuber

    Ай бұрын

    For that you need to look for a real muslim man and also education can continue even after marriage, you need to get out of cultural demands and expectations, a teenage who is in not an ideal marriage is better than who commits fornication, and it is not guaranteed that he/she will have a bad marriage. You have to look for a family where ideally they will pay for her education after marriage but there is nothing wrong if you pay for it there is nothing wrong if you both families decide that till he gets job she will live with you and they will meet whenever they want go outside etc . You must see what shariaah says and give it preference rather than the family culture, you can follow culture as long as it does not go against islam

  • @ArtandKnowledgebyZiyaanZuber

    @ArtandKnowledgebyZiyaanZuber

    Ай бұрын

    Also the reason for immaturity is flawed upbringing and flawed society

  • @MA-gu2up

    @MA-gu2up

    Ай бұрын

    The husband she is going to marry eventually, he was a teenager one day. I think it is harder on people living in the west when it comes to relationships, your daughter is in school with mostly Christians and atheists who enter relationships,right? Your son or daughter will see that, and they will feel excluded from this, God forbid, they might try to have such a relationship outside marriage because you are so opposed to marriage They have their puberty mostly before 15, and you just expect them to have no feelings or expectations until they are 22-30?! Of course, some people can do it, but that isn't the majority Don't be this opposed to marriage or your sons and daughters will hide things from you if they tried them, and if they feel you will refuse anyway, and you don't accept haram relationships, them they might just do it behind your back So don't be too harsh, be open with them that you are going to help them get married whenever they feel like it, and this way you can make sure that the man that is going for your daughter is a good man at least A lot of parents are making it too hard on their kids, requiring them to wait nearly 10 years from the time they had puberty, and they just expect them to do it easily, those parents don't realize how much temptations surround the young people

  • @AshrafAnam

    @AshrafAnam

    Ай бұрын

    Just don't marry your daughter to anyone. Let her remain unmarried. Late marriage will do more harm to her anyways.

  • @User_47536

    @User_47536

    Ай бұрын

    Marry her to a drug lord after she receives PHD and Becomes a muslim feminist in her 40s

  • @user-hq2nz7cu6v
    @user-hq2nz7cu6vАй бұрын

    Qur'an doesn't contain the truth, moreover, it is incomplete.

  • @TheDragonKnight98

    @TheDragonKnight98

    Ай бұрын

    Not really it is complete and comprehensive already in delivering the truth.