Father Suspects Teenage Daughter Is in Haram Relationship

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  • @MuslimSkeptic
    @MuslimSkepticАй бұрын

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  • @TrueIslamVsDirtyMufti-xc8nb

    @TrueIslamVsDirtyMufti-xc8nb

    Ай бұрын

    In The Quran Age Of Marriage is 18 Years NOT 6 read Quran 4:6​​ and tell me that in what age would you give orphan to their property back to them ? ( that is marriageable age ) Note: Age of marriage is when an individual reaches > intellectual and physical maturity Does " 6 '' years old girl makes > sound judgement How many Prophet's companions married 6 years old girl back then ? Did Prophet let his daughter marry when she was 6 years old girl ? Narrated `Aisha: Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) married me when I was six years old, and I was admitted to his house when I was nine years old. Sahih Muslim 1422b This Hadith is an insult to the Prophet of Allah but not to the Muslim Do you get angry when people say that your prophet married a 6 years old child ? Would you allow your 6 years old daughter or sister to marry? Would you marry a 6 years old child ? A 6 years old is a child or a grown woman ?

  • @son_of_alandalus

    @son_of_alandalus

    Ай бұрын

    ​@TrueIslamVsDirtyMufti-xc8nb in 30-50 years people like you will update the minimum age to 20 in order to adapt to modern liberal dogma. Right now the magic number is 18 next will be 20 mark my words.

  • @hypersecret6288

    @hypersecret6288

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@TrueIslamVsDirtyMufti-xc8nb in the european countrys i live in the age of marriage is 16 not 18, soo.... Go Sleep Kiddo 🤡

  • @hfhf8552

    @hfhf8552

    Ай бұрын

    Plz everyone share this video it’s needed

  • @taasmr4203

    @taasmr4203

    Ай бұрын

    *Well, even in Islamic schools, you find many Indian and Black African guys who keep materialistic lust for light skin Muslim girls from Iran, Pakistan, Afghanistan, Arab countries, European countries, and Far East Asian countries. Hundreds of Indian guys come to America on Student Visa and in order to get American Green Card and citizenship they approach Pakistani girls and marry those girls, and a result Pakistani guys can not find Pakistani girls to get married with. Many Black Muslim men or Black revert Muslim men also heavily marry Muslims girls from Asian countries who have light skin color. Indians in America, no matter they are legal citizens of America or illegal immigrants or studying in America on Student Visa act like Pakistani owes them jobs, money, marriages, and other favor, and therefore, whenever Pakistani small business owners(like gas stations, 7-Eleven, etc) hire those Indian men, those Indian men first get all the Pakistani guys fired from those small businesses and then those Indian men replace those empty job positions with new Indian workers. Indian Hindu, Sikh, and Muslim men who are heavily employed by Pakistani small business owners in America, Canada, Europe, and elsewhere disrespect the business owners and make threats because those Indians get political and legal blessings from White Christians and Zionist Jews while Pakistani Americans don't know their legal rights, Pakistani are not united among themselves, and Pakistani are afraid of White Christians, Zionist Jews, and Blacks. Blacks also heavily murder Indian men throughout America out of jealousy, racism, and colorism/colourism.*

  • @saiddahdouli3045
    @saiddahdouli3045Ай бұрын

    This Zina relations is about love but, if they decided to marry each other then, it is considered child marriage, according to the enemies of Islam

  • @chipwilliams6236

    @chipwilliams6236

    Ай бұрын

    SO TRUE!!!

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    Fr! We need to bring back Early marriage!

  • @Muslimguy1242k

    @Muslimguy1242k

    Ай бұрын

    Hypocrites follow double standards 😒

  • @randomlygeneratedname7171

    @randomlygeneratedname7171

    Ай бұрын

    The secular logic is absurd. According to them they can do what married couples do alone but as soon as they get married it’s suddenly a problem.

  • @netmbition

    @netmbition

    Ай бұрын

    It's about love, but they are spending time in bathroom, so...bathroom kinda love!!

  • @son_of_alandalus
    @son_of_alandalusАй бұрын

    But hey atleast your daughter got her degree in liberal arts...

  • @dzvw

    @dzvw

    Ай бұрын

    💀💀💀

  • @hypersecret6288

    @hypersecret6288

    Ай бұрын

    💀

  • @markusschwanz6038

    @markusschwanz6038

    Ай бұрын

    💀

  • @icecream-wf5yb

    @icecream-wf5yb

    Ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @c0r5e

    @c0r5e

    Ай бұрын

    Or gender studies

  • @JOYRIDEUS
    @JOYRIDEUSАй бұрын

    I put my Muslim student in a Haram environment and she is now acting Haram/in Haram situation... These brothers and sisters have degrees and act like they don't know 2+2

  • @yahyamohammed637

    @yahyamohammed637

    Ай бұрын

    People will ship their kids off to public schools and then wonder why they are no different than anyone else in society. Strange.

  • @younesbenaddi4721

    @younesbenaddi4721

    Ай бұрын

    Don't think is that easy. Many people are the 2 or 3 generation immigrant don't even speak arabic has to go to public school because they have no other choice. And still many of them don't engage in zina. I don't think you advice is helpful to be honest. There should be ways to prevent that even if people of from poor backgounds or cannot move to another country

  • @jacktheladhub

    @jacktheladhub

    Ай бұрын

    Islamic schools are worse lol it isn't as easy as you think.

  • @CamelJockey562

    @CamelJockey562

    Ай бұрын

    you act like this stuff doesn't happen in Muslim countries

  • @drissf393

    @drissf393

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@CamelJockey562 there's no comparison to make with Muslim countries at all

  • @alghuraba
    @alghurabaАй бұрын

    Solid advice. Living in the west for 30 years has taught me that parents are incredibly naive/hopeful/oblivious. You cannot bring your family in a kufr environment and expect Allaah to guide them! It is a great time commitment to have even a single child in the west, for both parents. Very frustrating.

  • @AB-lp8jd

    @AB-lp8jd

    Ай бұрын

    I think an appropriate term for these parents is "deluded" plus "inferiority complex"

  • @fardeenmahmud8866

    @fardeenmahmud8866

    Ай бұрын

    Facts. I’ve seen TOO many Muslim families in the West where the parents are practicing (father has a Sunnah beard, attends the mosque 2-3 times a day, mother wears hijab/niqab) but their daughter is a zaaniyah who acts and dresses like kaafir Western women. So it’s not like they’re bad parents. They clearly had good intentions but still their daughter went astray. Why? Because the environment and society is extremely corrupt. I make du’aa to Allah every day that I make hijrah to an ultra conservative Muslim country like Saudi Arabia where I can work a highly paid professional job as an American expat. Even if I can’t settle there permanently, I just want to live there long enough to raise my kids in an environment where majority of women wear niqab/abaya, where shops close 5x a day for prayers, where crime rates are low and life is more peaceful compared to America, etc. I apologize for the lengthy comment but I had to get it off my chest.

  • @flabbytobaddie

    @flabbytobaddie

    Ай бұрын

    Many people who live in Muslim countries do things behind closed doors. Iv come across many Muslims who were born and bred in the western countries actually practise a lot, compared to those in Saudi etc

  • @fardeenmahmud8866

    @fardeenmahmud8866

    Ай бұрын

    @@flabbytobaddie Yes I know. Sounds crazy but true. I have found plenty of Western Muslims who are more pious and practicing than most people from Muslim countries. However in the grand scheme of things, they are a minority. In fact, 1 in 4 Muslims in America end up leaving Islam. But as a Western Muslim, I’ll do my best to raise my children upon haqq no matter where I raise them. And of course this will be easier in a Muslim country compared to America. No one said these countries are perfect or that the people there are angels. But it’s still better than the West for obvious reasons. At least you won’t see LGTV, gang violence, ab*rtion, mass shootings, half naked women, widespread drug use etc. in most Muslim majority countries. If they do exist, it’s nowhere near as common as America or Europe.

  • @umeriqbal8269

    @umeriqbal8269

    Ай бұрын

    Living in kufr sorrounded by humans that would even put pigs to shame is the biggest problem we firstly face.

  • @ZAKITHE3RD
    @ZAKITHE3RDАй бұрын

    this is an epidemic in modern muslim youth everywhere

  • @barry_wastaken

    @barry_wastaken

    Ай бұрын

    it's a problem for societies as whole hence it's a shared problem between human beings.

  • @water4112

    @water4112

    Ай бұрын

    Not everywhere, not all of us are committing Zina

  • @barry_wastaken

    @barry_wastaken

    Ай бұрын

    @@water4112 that's not the point obviously we know that 😅 and he's not just pinpointing it to committing only, but rather concidring it so on general the majority of Muslim youth indeed face such an issues of keeping it modest and halal 😅

  • @AnonymousPerson-hr6qd

    @AnonymousPerson-hr6qd

    Ай бұрын

    And why do you think that is? Perhaps the father's have made marriage impossible and women have had a hoeflation with their mahrs hitting top roof????

  • @Ahmed-qc1xs

    @Ahmed-qc1xs

    Ай бұрын

    ⁠​⁠@@AnonymousPerson-hr6qdlol I've seen a sister who had a male best friend all throughout highschool and college. She ended up marrying some gullible Muslim brother for $80k mehr. It's a damn shame 😂.

  • @ArthurB26
    @ArthurB26Ай бұрын

    Seems a lot of parents are more worried about their kids committing sins like zina than they are about their kids disbelieving because they think the former is more embarrassing. Weird logic.

  • @posintabook597

    @posintabook597

    Ай бұрын

    Both are major in different ways with different consequences wdym ? Zina is a big issue which dishonours the person and their family as a whole

  • @serecmoon

    @serecmoon

    Ай бұрын

    Then shirk is much worse​@@posintabook597

  • @PLAYSTATIONGUYGaming

    @PLAYSTATIONGUYGaming

    Ай бұрын

    If zina is such an issue, make marriage easy and get them married asap. If you disagree, then know their is a chance they'll do zina because you made marriage hard.

  • @zakback9937

    @zakback9937

    Ай бұрын

    i see Dickson Cuckholdton has convinced you.

  • @stressed-out

    @stressed-out

    Ай бұрын

    I get what he means. Although Zina is a major sin-which should never be normalised, a Zani is still a Muslim. I think Muslims sometimes view the religion from a cultural view, so with their children some wouldn't be as alarmed as this guy is if their children don't pray. Even though the not praying issue is way more dangerous, and it makes their children non believers.

  • @MuhtasimMonjur194
    @MuhtasimMonjur194Ай бұрын

    We need to raise our children the Islamic way very early on in life. No point crying over spilt milk

  • @Acubens.

    @Acubens.

    Ай бұрын

    And how much Islam can a 7 year old carry over into his adulthood without influence from the society in which he resides? Our children need constant love, support & guidance. Spilt milk? Think your kids are better than other peoples? People can come to Allah any time. All our journeys towards him will be different. Oh and I think the whole point of this video is literally crying over spilt milk 😉

  • @AbdAllah_54564

    @AbdAllah_54564

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@Acubens.That's a stupid way to put it. The parents' responsibility is to instill Islam in young minds from the start. If they get misguided, that's on them and their parents are free of blame Insha Allah. And if they do return back to the Deen, it's only because of the knowledge they were instilled which they truly embraced at a later time. So quit yapping.

  • @MuhtasimMonjur194

    @MuhtasimMonjur194

    Ай бұрын

    @@AbdAllah_54564 Masha Allah brother.thank you.That's exactly my message 💯

  • @cyberyousef7519

    @cyberyousef7519

    Ай бұрын

    @@Acubens. stop embarrassing yourself

  • @Acubens.

    @Acubens.

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@AbdAllah_54564instill the basics of Islam 100% but what's a prepubescent child gonna know about Zina? You gonna tell them? Plant that seed at 7 years old?At a young age it all starts with the core values of belief and the parents CONTINUED guidance. What you give up on your kids after a bit? Ayayay me think you need to spill some milk and chillax. You must bridge gap between teenage hood, society & Deen as a parent. Invest in your children - they may very well be your last means of collecting any reward. Do not discard them like a public school condom.

  • @laillahilaallah001
    @laillahilaallah001Ай бұрын

    They make marriage hard. This is not surprising

  • @rafinur3004

    @rafinur3004

    Ай бұрын

    They make it hard for a reason, you wouldn't want ur daughter to marry any random dude, ygm

  • @JohnSmith-gv7qm

    @JohnSmith-gv7qm

    Ай бұрын

    This goes against the advice of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him): Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “If someone proposes marriage to you whose religion and character satisfies you, then you should accept it. If you do not do so, there will be trials on the earth and the spread of corruption.” Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 1084 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani

  • @shwanmirza9306

    @shwanmirza9306

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@rafinur3004 He's referring to parents that care about dunya

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@rafinur3004so you would rather want your daughter to do zina with any random dude😂

  • @D4rkness2Light

    @D4rkness2Light

    Ай бұрын

    @@JohnSmith-gv7qm you do not do so, there will be trials on the earth and the spread of corruption.” that's already happening look at all the anti marriage movements (incel mgtow radical feminisms)

  • @SayfumaniMyG
    @SayfumaniMyGАй бұрын

    What do they expect? Instead of preparing them for marriage and actually marrying them as early as possible, they prepare them for divorce, by making them as „independent“ from the man as possible.

  • @randomhuman2595

    @randomhuman2595

    Ай бұрын

    What should be the age of marriage in the West in your opinion?

  • @SayfumaniMyG

    @SayfumaniMyG

    Ай бұрын

    @@randomhuman2595 The west‘s norms are way to far away from their nature for this to be possible. But there isn’t a specific age, because people mature not the same. Optimally when they hit puberty and start having sexual desires. But I also understand that the social context is very important and most 30 and 40 year old woman are still not mentally mature enough for marriage.

  • @rizzwan-42069

    @rizzwan-42069

    Ай бұрын

    With the west there are ages 16 and maybe 14 that requires parents consent to marry. This is hearsay on my side haven't actually confirmed it yet.

  • @Chimaev-hc4ct

    @Chimaev-hc4ct

    Ай бұрын

    Also muslim parents make marriage difficult in favour of education so when you make halal hard haram becomes easy

  • @DentalPlanger

    @DentalPlanger

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@randomhuman259512 for girls. Boys just need to be able to sustain the family.

  • @musafirghayrmaeruf1
    @musafirghayrmaeruf1Ай бұрын

    Ask yourself these two questions: 1.Who is it that teaches your kids and what is it they teach them? 2.Who do they spend most time with? Thats it. Thats what they will know and thats who they will become. May Allah protect us.Ameen.

  • @mervekirmizi2992

    @mervekirmizi2992

    Ай бұрын

    Ameen, I work as a teacher... Im going to be honest.. It sounds like the parent might be an issue in regards to this Childs behaviour.. There's a few clues. I can tell the communication seems low, the father seems more concerned about finding out whether she is a virgin or not rather than guiding this child to be a better muslim. I blame the parent.

  • @musafirghayrmaeruf1

    @musafirghayrmaeruf1

    Ай бұрын

    @@mervekirmizi2992 The parent is mostly the one at fault. Its their job to raise the child after all. I wont dare to judge anyone but if I had to guess the father probably is at fault yeah. But Allah knows best. Some children are simply rebellious. As a teacher Im sure you know.

  • @myboiwoody8015

    @myboiwoody8015

    Ай бұрын

    @@musafirghayrmaeruf1I love your profile picture

  • @latifamoutawakkil4362
    @latifamoutawakkil4362Ай бұрын

    I lived in Switzerland and Before I fell into this difficult situation, I decided to return with my daughters to Morocco

  • @markusschwanz6038

    @markusschwanz6038

    Ай бұрын

    Good move 👍🏾

  • @harunabdullah9750

    @harunabdullah9750

    Ай бұрын

    99% of issues Muslims complain about in the west can be solved with hijrah.

  • @ellasays

    @ellasays

    Ай бұрын

    Similar situation with me but actually i realized people in Morocco are doing crazy stuff too just they hide it better. Now I'm considering going back to Europe because society is problematic there but at least life is easier than in Morocco 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @Acubens.

    @Acubens.

    Ай бұрын

    Um...sorry guys but wherever you go - your children's hormones, private parts & curiosity will follow them.

  • @son_of_alandalus

    @son_of_alandalus

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@ellasaysi know what you mean,but its better in a society where its hidden and shameful, in the west its actually celebrated to be shameless

  • @Wolflife263
    @Wolflife263Ай бұрын

    I am a 20 years old muslim man from India . I also fell strong attraction towards girls and the majority (hindus) are very much into this stuff ( zina) but I can't imagine myself sleeping with a girl whom I am not married with. Such disgusting thing . I will never be able to understand what is going on in the minds of these teen muslims.

  • @AltroSinefred

    @AltroSinefred

    Ай бұрын

    May Allah have mercy on you and keep you steadfast, wallahi brother it's not worth it, we will one day be at the mercy of God, so use your youth wisely. Do not fall to this temptations, zina gives you a stamp on the forehead that you can never remove thereafter.

  • @Wolflife263

    @Wolflife263

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@AltroSinefredThank you brother may Allah bless you .

  • @Acubens.

    @Acubens.

    Ай бұрын

    Well at least you said girls Alhumdulilah.

  • @AbdAllah_54564

    @AbdAllah_54564

    Ай бұрын

    Shadi karlo Bhai. Allah tumhe hidayat aur tarakkee de

  • @IronMan-nu3rb

    @IronMan-nu3rb

    Ай бұрын

    In India....many many Muslim girls do Zina with Hindus. Yes...with Hindus. Many even marry Hindus

  • @mariamt02
    @mariamt02Ай бұрын

    I had a Muslim friend back in high school and at that time I was not Muslim. Years later I became Muslim and she ended up becoming an atheist who engages in Zina and covered herself in tattoos. Her and her dad have a horrible relationship now but I remember back in high school, she didn’t know one thing about Islam so what did her dad expect? That she would become a hafiz? It’s a sad situation but he could’ve prevented this years ago.

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    We cant blame the parents always tho as we know in the west parents have no authority responsibility without authority is called slavery.

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    Allah guides whoever he wills.

  • @OppK-om7wz

    @OppK-om7wz

    Ай бұрын

    Every fathers worst nightmare

  • @muhammadsaqibkhan3294

    @muhammadsaqibkhan3294

    Ай бұрын

    Alhumdulillah for you being muslim.

  • @user-us7el6ss2l

    @user-us7el6ss2l

    Ай бұрын

    Revers?

  • @Cleliaclea
    @CleliacleaАй бұрын

    An advice that I would give to my sisters in Islam is to get married early and have children early, not only to avoid zina. AlhamduliLlah I never did zina, and I didn't even have many temptations growing up because for many reasons I didn't get almost any attention from the opposite gender. I was still happy and thought that after finishing university i would find the right person for me. Then at 24 I started feeling more and more sick. I was losing weight without any diet, still, I'd feel swollen all the time. I had an aggressive form of ovarian cancer and I won't ever be able to have children. Maybe if I asked my parents to find someone for me at 18 now I would be a mother and a wife. Still Alhamdulillah for everything.

  • @dragonarch0

    @dragonarch0

    Ай бұрын

    Getting married back then was easier compared to now. Biggest obstacle for marriage are parents who look for material wealth, not character of bride/groom.

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    Good advice ❤

  • @DontOpenThisChannel

    @DontOpenThisChannel

    Ай бұрын

    Glad to a see a honest woman who accepts her mistakes and advice people towards good, many man and woman don't do it now a days and justify their mistakes and sin which gonna destroy them on the day of judgement.

  • @DontOpenThisChannel

    @DontOpenThisChannel

    Ай бұрын

    I pray that may Allah grant you a man who have taqwa and make you also amoung them.

  • @malazkarar1171

    @malazkarar1171

    Ай бұрын

    My sister may Allah guide you and grant you paradise for your patience. You are going through a great test! I want to clarify that while getting married earlier is better, I don't think it's right to dwell on what ifs. Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the prophet (peace be upon him) said: "If you are afflicted in any way, do not say: 'If I had taken this or that step, it would have resulted into such and such,' but say only: 'Allah so determined and did as He willed.' The word 'if' opens the gates of satanic thoughts". May you find your peace sister, you can still live a full life even without marriage or children and you never know maybe you will be able to, just ask Allah for his bounty.

  • @pasulaymanjeng9772
    @pasulaymanjeng9772Ай бұрын

    Brother Daniel thanks for standing up for the Deen 🙏we need more of your kind. Watching from the Gambia 🇬🇲🇬🇲💕

  • @qnyxee
    @qnyxeeАй бұрын

    I can't imagine what the father felt even I felt disappointed in the daughter. May Allah help us from these evil activities

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    True

  • @LeMuseHere
    @LeMuseHereАй бұрын

    If you don't teach your children the logic as to why something is haram, they won't understand. They will fall ill to the narrative that they are being oppressed, rather than saved from an incalculable harm. They will fall prey to a society that will 'understand' that people have desires and wills that clash with an "outdated" way of thinking.

  • @mohamedalahmadani5174

    @mohamedalahmadani5174

    Ай бұрын

    Out of curiosity, how would you explain it to your children and at what age?

  • @Basic-zr9sb

    @Basic-zr9sb

    Ай бұрын

    @@mohamedalahmadani5174 TBH if they're old enough to be committing zina, they're old enough to know it as it is.

  • @Moody.Smiruai

    @Moody.Smiruai

    28 күн бұрын

    ​@@mohamedalahmadani5174if you are old enough to commit a sin , you are more than old enough to be warned.

  • @DD-ln5no
    @DD-ln5noАй бұрын

    I went to Islamic school from k4-8th grade. There was no high school. When I got to high school, I was approached by males and asked out many times randomly by classmates. I did not wear hijab and when I look back at pictures I now realize I was conventionally "pretty". My friends were almost all Muslims and, to be honest, non Muslim immigrants or children of immigrants with similar upbringing. Not once did I even think about saying yes Alhamdulillah. Thanks to Allah. Thanks to my parents. Thanks to my background in Islamic studies

  • @ghosttown5443

    @ghosttown5443

    Ай бұрын

    thanks to Allah, thanks to Parents, and thanks to your background in Islamic Studies 👏💯

  • @MegalodonDolphin

    @MegalodonDolphin

    Ай бұрын

    You must be from the balkans or central asia, where the people have no knowledge about Islam and only remained muslims by name, right? Magic of Communism...

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    I hope you got married early

  • @DD-ln5no

    @DD-ln5no

    Ай бұрын

    @@Therebelliousprince001 just curious why you hope that and what is early? Early is subjective

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    @@DD-ln5no So that you were able to protect yourself from haram(marriage is a protection) and so you were able to enjoy the halal.

  • @Radec913
    @Radec913Ай бұрын

    I know exactly what you are talking about Daniel. My younger brother went through this when we found out he had been having a girlfriend. My mother is telling me to tell him it is haram, meanwhile i was thinking, whats the point of saying that if he does not believe. So i outright asked him and he indeed said he did not believe. And he did not not believe because of some amazing intellectual argument, as a matter of fact he can barely articulate himself either as an atheist or a theist but the dominant culture around him is atheism, so he fell in that as well. And there were no real "raincoats" around him to protect him either. So the fault is as good on us as well. Recently it seems he believes more in Islam than before but Allahu alim. Its hard to tell.

  • @themadakh3229

    @themadakh3229

    Ай бұрын

    Subhanallah this is why im scared for the children. Aouthbillah any thing can happen

  • @ssa6227

    @ssa6227

    Ай бұрын

    So agreed

  • @DontOpenThisChannel

    @DontOpenThisChannel

    Ай бұрын

    Shame on the parents who sends their children in their

  • @rajibhossain9918

    @rajibhossain9918

    Ай бұрын

    A girlfriend is ma malekat aymankum. Its better to have a girlfriend than a wife.

  • @randomlygeneratedname7171

    @randomlygeneratedname7171

    Ай бұрын

    @@rajibhossain9918Foolishness. If the girlfriend is truly a slave to the right hand go sell her on a market and see if the Government approves that’s the quickest way to determine if your imaginary army has been victorious on the land. I wonder if you justify stealing money the same way.

  • @um9532
    @um9532Ай бұрын

    One good religious man told us to send our little hijabi daughter to school, she can with her hijab do dawah to others there... We in muslim country... I didn't respond but i'm sure other kids will destroy her iman and fitra faster than she make dawah to them.. and Allah order us to save ourselves and our family from hellfire.. i can't let her do that in that environment. Even Islamic schools no no to me. We homeschooling. And i'm noticing she is different than other children in her age, it was disturbed in the beginning after that i undestood that we homeschooling to be our kids different from what happening in the streets. May Allah save children of our brothers and guide to Islm children of kuffar

  • @yahyamohammed637

    @yahyamohammed637

    Ай бұрын

    "One good religious man told us to send our little hijabi daughter to school, she can with her hijab do dawah to others there" With all due respect to whoever said such a thing.... he is a complete and utter idiot who must be living under a rock.

  • @ssa6227

    @ssa6227

    Ай бұрын

    You deny her the natural company of children of her age. If she is with girls her age what is the problem? May be you need to get a mental check up of yourself.

  • @shwanmirza9306

    @shwanmirza9306

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@ssa6227 You aren't in his home, so you don't know everything there. I see a lot of bad kids in elementary schools

  • @NadeemAhmed-nv2br

    @NadeemAhmed-nv2br

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@ssa6227you can send her for tutoring in a same gender environment

  • @um9532

    @um9532

    Ай бұрын

    @ssa6227: i mean she is more innocent and normal child beside another children in her age, she loves to read and speak about cats with another kids but another kids not interesting much, they're in to phones and tik-toks. Look i was non muslim and i lived live in jaheeliya, i will not let my daughters see what i saw. and i'm sure you guys have mental health issues, otherwise how can muslim send his kids to public schools? Even so it's haram! Giving kids to hands of our enemy for tarbiya?

  • @howtofordummies6582
    @howtofordummies6582Ай бұрын

    The mother of Muslim Children today is the Liberal Teacher..

  • @mahumramzan5690
    @mahumramzan5690Ай бұрын

    I didn’t even finish watching this video , and I sent it to my husband right away, because some days ago we were having this same conversation about public schools that look how easy it is to send them there but the amount of corruption they are bringing home is just crazy!!!!! I sent my 6 year old to first grade and I already am seeing attitudes and talking back , imagine the bigger kids !!! May Allah protect our kids Ya Rabb!!!!

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    I'm in highschool and it's wild

  • @Ummishaaq4

    @Ummishaaq4

    Ай бұрын

    Homeschool sis nothing better or safer

  • @user-us7el6ss2l

    @user-us7el6ss2l

    Ай бұрын

    Aw sh-

  • @Moody.Smiruai

    @Moody.Smiruai

    28 күн бұрын

    ​@@zuhasbekillin3461Hi can you please describe it in detail? I'm curious. Also where are you from?

  • @awdgaray
    @awdgarayАй бұрын

    Huge problem in the young Somali community in Minnesota. Hip-Hop culture is very prominent in the Somali community here so we have this weird dynamic where most young people look religious... until they open their mouths and sound like complete kuffar, airing out their dirty Laundry in front of everyone while be belligerents.

  • @ChromeMan04

    @ChromeMan04

    Ай бұрын

    Mainstream Hip Hop culture is one of the main root of evil why so many women go astray.

  • @xSunnyDaysx

    @xSunnyDaysx

    Ай бұрын

    Unfortunately Somalis are the same as Pakistanis. They look religious from the outside, but place more importance above their culture. That’s why female circumcision is a big thing in Somali communities, instead of teaching the importance of modesty and chastity. The female still ‘brings’ shame on the family name and honor.

  • @dhuss14

    @dhuss14

    Ай бұрын

    Somalis used to be the most pious. I am Somali. The issue is weak ass fathers and weak men who don't know how to establish Islam in their households. And fight against filth ideas coming in.

  • @dhuss14

    @dhuss14

    Ай бұрын

    May Allah destroy hip hop culture. Hideous black culture

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    True

  • @BBflower
    @BBflowerАй бұрын

    Thanks so much for this great video! I homeschool my sons and this just helped me validate my decision. I really appreciate this. May Allah reward you.

  • @Abdur-Rahman862

    @Abdur-Rahman862

    Ай бұрын

    May Allah bless your family

  • @BBflower

    @BBflower

    Ай бұрын

    @@Abdur-Rahman862 Ameen! And yours too! Thank you ❤️

  • @BBflower

    @BBflower

    Ай бұрын

    @@umlayla8434 yeah so true! I’m so happy you commented this because sometimes I have the mom guilt as well.. but alhamdullilah it’s the best thing until you can or are able to move to better lands InchaAllah

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    MashaAllah!

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    @@umlayla8434 You made the right decision indeed! 🌸

  • @mervekirmizi2992
    @mervekirmizi2992Ай бұрын

    I'm going to chime in as a Secondary School Teacher and a practicing Muslim, from a practicing family who went to Public school in the west. Many times these behaviours displayed by kids come from a greater context. The issue is not ONLY school, the issue is usually lack of communication, lack of instilling values and usually, on the end of the parent - a lack of guidance and just assumptions that "I didn't do anything, no one told me anything they won't either". I 100% agree that public school exposes children to things they shouldn't and might create opportunities BUT there are many students from sound, religious families who do just fine at public school. I'm a bit concerned about the father because of his attempt to do some kind of virginity or purity test.... The reason I'm concerned is because this kind of approach is extreme and not the type of thing that a Muslim parent concerned with their Childs guidance would be chasing immediately - clearly... this action is a sign that there may not be proper communication in the house. If he finds out that she did do something... then what? Where was he when he found out about friendships and behaviours? okay, and if she's pure.. isn't that a traumatising experience being forced into something like that (I can't imagine any kid wanting to do it!!) and then fracture an already (I'm assuming) potentially fragile relationship. The parent should have moved faster and taken more concrete action and been able to read his child before it got this far. I wouldn't be surprised if there were family issues inside the home - it sounds a bit like it

  • @um9532

    @um9532

    Ай бұрын

    Throwing kids in to public kafir school and than talk to them about Islam? First of all giving kids to public kafir school is haram.

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    Are they promoting 🌈 in your school? I hear 🌈 activities have become a norm amongst young gal's there

  • @xSunnyDaysx

    @xSunnyDaysx

    Ай бұрын

    100% agree with what you wrote. Beside communication… it looks like the parent himself isn’t a practicing muslim. From the look of it the parents don’t seem to value Islamic rulings and her imaan. He only cares about her virginity, because a lot cultures emphasize that because that’s value women get married for. It all tights in with family honor. It’s sick and wicked and it has nothing to do with Islam.

  • @Chimaev-hc4ct
    @Chimaev-hc4ctАй бұрын

    I'm 20 and in college in London, I know a lot of people and the school I go to is Muslim majority. WALLAH ukusu billah I know more sisters aged 17-22 who committed zina than ones who haven't. I have given up on marriage because any sister I talk to eventually comes clean about her past and even the strictest salafi sisters have a past now. The west is finished.

  • @markusschwanz6038

    @markusschwanz6038

    Ай бұрын

    I agree I have also given up on marriage in the West its just terrible

  • @Sayyed25507

    @Sayyed25507

    Ай бұрын

    Your comment is not very clear about what you want to convey?

  • @markusschwanz6038

    @markusschwanz6038

    Ай бұрын

    @@Sayyed25507 how did you not understand? 😅

  • @Acubens.

    @Acubens.

    Ай бұрын

    Scary.

  • @Acubens.

    @Acubens.

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@Sayyed25507yes it is. You just don't want to believe it.

  • @user-il1hu5xp2x
    @user-il1hu5xp2xАй бұрын

    I feel sad, I am in a Muslim country, morroco, and I see what's happening in the streets, in schools, in everywhere, I see things I don't like at all

  • @MegalodonDolphin

    @MegalodonDolphin

    Ай бұрын

    Really, just think about the situation of this ummah now. I am indian and it's very common for me too to see all these stuffs as quite normal nowadays. But looking at your comment, even a country with 99%+ muslims, just breaks my heart...

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    Wow

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    This is why we are so weak as an ummah

  • @jawwadahmad4483

    @jawwadahmad4483

    19 күн бұрын

    That's why innocent muslims with TAQWA like Palestinians are getting brutalised by ISRAELIS... Since the men and women of the "Ummah" are busy in playing with private parts.. No wonder Israel eliminates Palestinians so easily despite surrounded by so called muslim countries.. Even Most shockingly Arabs..😢...

  • @hm8489
    @hm8489Ай бұрын

    My kids used to go to public school but Alhamdulillah we can now afford to send them to an Islamic school. It is expensive but this is one of the ways we can prevent many problems. You have to be an example to them and teach them at home also, but that is often not enough.

  • @IronMan-nu3rb

    @IronMan-nu3rb

    Ай бұрын

    Spend at least 20-30 mins as family time daily. Gather everyone over dinner table or just normally for a chat and spend time together... without any gadgets. It will have positive impacts on Children. Use that time to ask children about any problem they are facing or give them Islamic advices in a good way

  • @hm8489

    @hm8489

    Ай бұрын

    @@IronMan-nu3rb that’s great advice.

  • @themightyspartan1012

    @themightyspartan1012

    Ай бұрын

    @@IronMan-nu3rbas well as showing kindness, wisdom, respect, and compassion.

  • @factsdontcare4feelings24
    @factsdontcare4feelings24Ай бұрын

    So sad. Wallah so sad. May Allah protect us from such an evil and allow us to be in the forefront of good and clear our vision of what is right and what is wrong. ameen.

  • @boykajeetee5005
    @boykajeetee5005Ай бұрын

    Keen JazakAllah khairan brother Daniel a very important topic indeed

  • @wawaweewa9159
    @wawaweewa9159Ай бұрын

    there isnt enough hate towards zina as a starting point, then they care more about career and education than marrying.

  • @leyanamze09

    @leyanamze09

    Ай бұрын

    And ? I have never heard that in Islam women have to prioritize marriage

  • @leyanamze09

    @leyanamze09

    Ай бұрын

    But nowadays Zina is easier than halal marriage because if the mahr and the situation of our younth

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@leyanamze09true

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    @@leyanamze09 Everyone has to prioritise marriage in Islam.

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    @@leyanamze09 Marriage is half the deen.

  • @Code8564
    @Code8564Ай бұрын

    Parents trusting their daughters is equal to one way glass.

  • @Shuja_Khyber
    @Shuja_KhyberАй бұрын

    May Allah Azawajal grant you the utmost of Barakah for all your work brother Daniel. ما شاء الله تبارك الله ‎اَمِين يَا رَبَّ الْعَالَمِيْن

  • @Oy10n
    @Oy10nАй бұрын

    As a Muslim it's a no brainer. Muslim family = Muslim School Public school is like riding Public transport , you get the junkie the drug dealer the pimp the gambler the streets riding with you 😂, No thanks

  • @EternalBllu.XlllX.

    @EternalBllu.XlllX.

    Ай бұрын

    Stay in a Muslim Country problem solved..win/win situation and stay out of 🇺🇸

  • @dsmvfl363
    @dsmvfl363Ай бұрын

    Zina happens in Islamic school too. Fear of Allah needs to be prioritized over fear of one’s parents

  • @artifexdei3671

    @artifexdei3671

    Ай бұрын

    Primitive people fear scary gods

  • @pockoy6

    @pockoy6

    Ай бұрын

    It's rare for people to be attracted to same gender in Islamic school...

  • @artifexdei3671

    @artifexdei3671

    Ай бұрын

    @@pockoy6no doubt. They get stoned for that.

  • @Redragonfire

    @Redragonfire

    Ай бұрын

    @@artifexdei3671 You should read Leviticus 20:13 before you go around passing judgments bud.

  • @SayfumaniMyG

    @SayfumaniMyG

    Ай бұрын

    @@artifexdei3671 I wish it was like that. 🗿

  • @thecuriousservant5549
    @thecuriousservant5549Ай бұрын

    This is the reality of schools nowadays. Most parents don't know what children do in school. Trust me take it from a woman.

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    Can you tell us what you saw in your school? Perhaps it will open the eyes of some parents about the truth of public school.

  • @sami_got_vibes

    @sami_got_vibes

    Ай бұрын

    ​@Therebelliousprince001 anything you can imagine tbh.

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    True

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@Therebelliousprince001I'm in highschool and zina was a old thing maybe middle school now they started with lesbianism and the guys are doing gangbangs

  • @----f
    @----fАй бұрын

    Finally, someone is addressing this. It's gotten so bad in Australia that Muslim students are even caught in classrooms and libraries. It's far too common in school bathrooms already. And this is in Islamic schools! Hardly any Muslim is a virgin here.

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    Omg 😢

  • @Mym794

    @Mym794

    Ай бұрын

    Why do you have a mixed gender Islamic school? It's very wired. It should be an all boys Islamic school and all girls' schools. Even in Muslim countries, mixed gender schools have a bad reputation despite the strict rules inside the schools and the Islamic upbringing of the students. Mixed gender spaces diminish hyaa and make communication between both gender easy and open. Separation between genders is the first step in minimizing this problem.

  • @et8893

    @et8893

    Ай бұрын

    I went to both Islamic and public schools and seen more issue in Islamic school that public. Even some of the male teachers were problematic in Islamic school. You can find zina everywhere and perverts are found in all corners of the world, religious or not. Education and respect for oneself is key here.

  • @Asiyah2000

    @Asiyah2000

    Ай бұрын

    ​@et8893 religious person who has the right understanding of Islam is the key so you are wrong

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    @@Mym794 All boys and all gal's schools are ironically unislamic and are a fitna. Rather they should be schools in which they are segregated within the classes(like in the mosque). This was how it was at the time of the salaf. Extremes only lead to fitna.

  • @nimamousavi9281
    @nimamousavi9281Ай бұрын

    as you mentioned it is truely a nightmare, may Allah help them and all brothers and sisters across the world.

  • @TheConservativeHippie
    @TheConservativeHippieАй бұрын

    Homeschooling is the best!

  • @TheRockeyAllen
    @TheRockeyAllenАй бұрын

    It is our responsibility to develop alternative, we can't simply complain, we need to provide good enough alternatives, online or otherwise

  • @Abdur-Rahman862

    @Abdur-Rahman862

    Ай бұрын

    Easier to complain than implement solutions. Then we cry and blame the west while simultaneously seeking honor and dignity by going to the west for education and work.

  • @mrosos7308
    @mrosos7308Ай бұрын

    5:50 I wish that was still the truth today ,but no. I read a post on reddit once about a 22 year old guy who found out that one of his female classmates have committed zina and he was shocked about it and was shocked that there are people among his peers who find it normal to engage in such acts. Allah didn't order us not to commit zina in the Quran , he ordered us not to even approach it . I'm an Egyptian who grew up in Islamic school and when I was in high school I found out that there was a possibility that some of my peers have the door open for them which really scared me because these are people who I deal with every day , I suspected some of them but never found out and don't wish to find out all I know is that the possibility was their. Now as a 19 year old college student who interacts with all kinds of people I think it's out of the question whether or not zina exists between them. Which is sad , I myself had girls eyeballing me in highschool and it really terrified me what they might have done with other guys. I don't think it's wrong or even haram to interact and have friends in the opposite sex . I've done it and I've never opened the door for zina the idea never even crossed my mind , but that's just the way I was raised others would try to open that door without giving it too much thought.

  • @murtazakhan5778

    @murtazakhan5778

    Ай бұрын

    In the US its very common for Muslimahs to do it

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    Stay safe my brother. ❤

  • @profs2981

    @profs2981

    Ай бұрын

    Having opposite gender friends is haram and opens the door to zina

  • @cool_HABIBI
    @cool_HABIBIАй бұрын

    In my school when during an PE class in an exercise i had to touch opposite gender i refused to do the exercise. I also do my best to not make any kind of physical contact sadly somtimes accidentally it heppens when in west they don't have velues like us

  • @waelkendouli3213

    @waelkendouli3213

    Ай бұрын

    May Allah preserve you from fitna brother Just remember what Yusuf/ Joseph peace be upon him did when he face the fitna of temptation He ran away from the woman who tried to make him fall in zina If there is any chance to go to islamic or less mixed school then go don't hesitate يوسف - الآية ٢٤ وَلَقَدْ هَمَّتْ بِهِۦ ۖ وَهَمَّ بِهَا لَوْلَآ أَن رَّءَا بُرْهَـٰنَ رَبِّهِۦ ۚ كَذَٰلِكَ لِنَصْرِفَ عَنْهُ ٱلسُّوٓءَ وَٱلْفَحْشَآءَ ۚ إِنَّهُۥ مِنْ عِبَادِنَا ٱلْمُخْلَصِينَ Dr. Mustafa Khattab, The Clear Quran: She advanced towards him, and he would have done likewise, had he not seen a sign from his Lord. This is how We kept evil and indecency away from him, for he was truly one of Our chosen servants. يوسف - الآية ٢٥ وَٱسْتَبَقَا ٱلْبَابَ وَقَدَّتْ قَمِيصَهُۥ مِن دُبُرٍ وَأَلْفَيَا سَيِّدَهَا لَدَا ٱلْبَابِ ۚ قَالَتْ مَا جَزَآءُ مَنْ أَرَادَ بِأَهْلِكَ سُوٓءًا إِلَّآ أَن يُسْجَنَ أَوْ عَذَابٌ أَلِيمٌ Dr. Mustafa Khattab, The Clear Quran: They raced for the door and she tore his shirt from the back, only to find her husband at the door. She cried, “What is the penalty for someone who tried to violate your wife, except imprisonment or a painful punishment?”

  • @Acubens.

    @Acubens.

    Ай бұрын

    You still believe in boy germs and girl germs? Alright observe the no contact but jeez don't lose sleep over it. It will happen. Only so much is in your control. Just do your best. You'll be ok inshallah.

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    Me too

  • @Quthology
    @QuthologyАй бұрын

    1:17 already mistake number one. I've been educated in public schools, and I'm a guy. They aren't even worth it. Especially if its an international school. Its an absolute mind wash. Lets assume you get the degree you want. What now? is this degree higher value then your hereafter? You've demolished half you're morale

  • @vidar100
    @vidar100Ай бұрын

    in Bangladesh as well... the situation is very very bad. I don't think Bangladesh can be called an Islamic country anymore. Innalillah.

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    Bangladesh is one of the good muslim countries too. You can imageine the state of the rest

  • @MegalodonDolphin

    @MegalodonDolphin

    Ай бұрын

    Are you Bangladeshi?

  • @amarakhan9033
    @amarakhan9033Ай бұрын

    You are absolutely right Parents here in pakistan even don't want to understand that their kids are growing giving attention to opposite gender can't control their emotions but still parents are insisting on first being financially stable then think about marriage. Parents don't want to understand

  • @historianslair4971

    @historianslair4971

    Ай бұрын

    true. our Pakistani is done on this Matter. our Pakistani parents are only obsessed with degrees, careers and money and they mostly hate the thought of their children getting married early. Zina has become so common in Pakistan that it's not a even a big deal anymore in the young generation which I myself am part of.

  • @IronMan-nu3rb

    @IronMan-nu3rb

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@historianslair4971Deen se jyada Duniya main interest he Pakistanio ko. India se alag ho gaye lekin Indian mentality nhi bhul paye...sad

  • @IronMan-nu3rb

    @IronMan-nu3rb

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@historianslair4971Aur jo ladkiyan Burqa pehen ki clg jati hain wo bhi Zina karti hain ya kar chuki hein?

  • @yamazaki4836

    @yamazaki4836

    Ай бұрын

    Burqa/ parda sirf naam ka hai, aaj musalman sirf naam ka hai​@@IronMan-nu3rb

  • @Blue_Appple-es5ul
    @Blue_Appple-es5ulАй бұрын

    It is common now a days. School colleges and universities are only the places given for time for money/fees you pay and it is not place where the knowledge is transfered from their to students. I understood it after meeting senior professor of our university. Sad

  • @nasraqaali7050
    @nasraqaali7050Ай бұрын

    Please don't put her in Islamic school now. You should have protected her from day one. She's probably going to corrupt the other girls.

  • @MDIslam-vr1hf

    @MDIslam-vr1hf

    Ай бұрын

    ur really slow in the head arent u

  • @FYDClasses123
    @FYDClasses123Ай бұрын

    The moronic behavior of certain parents who overpamper their daughters and blindly trust them. I saw a 14 year old girl ( who looks religious outwardly) with a guy in a port at a very high altitude. Zina is a religious ritual for feminists and it is being promoted in schools and colleges. I am talking about our subcontinent forget about West. A PHD in gender studies, triple phd in sociology, makes a girl lose all her haya and emaan. Inshort all the dayuth fathers want there daughters to become corporate slaves even if leads to zina, apostasy etc. May Allah protect her. Women education is the root of All evil.

  • @jamila442

    @jamila442

    Ай бұрын

    You know Islam actually requires all Muslims to gain knowledge regardless of gender. And a woman getting educated doesn't mean she would lose her haya and iman.

  • @abdulmanantatla2204

    @abdulmanantatla2204

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@jamila442 its not about women education It's about education environment Use common sense before commenting

  • @jamila442

    @jamila442

    Ай бұрын

    @@abdulmanantatla2204 Word your sentences correctly or better before commenting then. Because when you say that “Women education is the root of all evil”, it makes it seems that women getting educating is bad thing. So check yourself before you try to check others.

  • @athariqokazakiichiro5714

    @athariqokazakiichiro5714

    Ай бұрын

    I agree with most of your comment until the "Woman education is the root of All evil" part.. Thats just plain wrong bro.. every woman should be educated, scrupulous and smart like Aishah (RA) for example. Woman education is not the problem its the emaan, if the woman emaan is weak she could be affected by these ideologies easily but if the woman emaan is strong she will stick with Islam whether she is educated or not.

  • @iTzNice01

    @iTzNice01

    Ай бұрын

    Agreed , Women can study ONLINE or girls only school next to her house. No traveling overseas, no mixing school

  • @c0r5e
    @c0r5eАй бұрын

    Parents dont even teach children about the concept of "Zina". Here in Pakistan kids/teen know about sex (from harami friends) but they learn about zina too late So this is the problem. They say zina is harami but children aren't explain what zina is. We dont even learn the term of zina from school teacher, parents etc we have to know it ourselves

  • @DontOpenThisChannel

    @DontOpenThisChannel

    Ай бұрын

    Come on they know sex before marriage is bad or porn but the problem is they are human like us and have desires so it is not nesscery that knowledge will stop them

  • @profs2981

    @profs2981

    Ай бұрын

    Lol pls every Pakistani knows you can’t have sex before marriage

  • @cowdyayaad6378

    @cowdyayaad6378

    Ай бұрын

    I don't think so (although not from pakistan but from bangladesh). I thought sex is haram before knowing what sex is or what organ females have (I mean I thought even being semi nude is haram and something like exposing private organ is out of question and sex didn't even come to my mind). I later learned its permissible with wife. So rather than learning what is haram after learning about sex, I learned what is not haram when I learnt about sex.

  • @taiyabach5342

    @taiyabach5342

    Ай бұрын

    Infact, that chapter in biology is skipped lol.

  • @user-cq7lv7de2z
    @user-cq7lv7de2zАй бұрын

    Nice video Daniel, thanks

  • @BelieveOneGod
    @BelieveOneGodАй бұрын

    Modern Western Societies Dilemma you can't marry someone before you hit 18 but you can have unlimited amount of zina and you don't need you bear the consequences either

  • @aibel99
    @aibel99Ай бұрын

    The father seems clueless. He sounds like he did nothing to prevent this and then said 'oh' when it did happen.

  • @Abdur-Rahman862

    @Abdur-Rahman862

    Ай бұрын

    Sounds accurate.

  • @mileskendziorski8000
    @mileskendziorski8000Ай бұрын

    Situations like this is why I support young marriage, that’s why we have so many unholy things happening with many young women, they are not permitted to marry early enough, so then Mother Nature which is also God’s creation, takes over, the game has been heavily rigged against young people to have them fail.

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    Exactly

  • @EB-gt1pq

    @EB-gt1pq

    Ай бұрын

    I noticed you don’t mention all the things young men do. All the focus is on women.

  • @user-us7el6ss2l

    @user-us7el6ss2l

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@EB-gt1pq true doe!

  • @laxuskmm6301
    @laxuskmm6301Ай бұрын

    Jazakum Allahu Khairan

  • @AngryAyrab
    @AngryAyrabАй бұрын

    Parents know, they just dont care. Parenting is hard. It much more than just giving birth and money.

  • @z.6002
    @z.6002Ай бұрын

    Actually Shaykh Ahmad Jibril حفظه الله spoke at lenght about public schools...

  • @cyclez6317
    @cyclez6317Ай бұрын

    Alhamdullilah as a Muslim teen guy I had quite a few girls try and get me to commit to a haram relationship and even do Zina with them but Alhamdullilah (1000x) every time I said no and it always felt like something was pulling me away (literally) it was as if someone put their hands on my shoulders and was yanking me away from them or from their room, Allahuakbar.

  • @AMIRH033EIN
    @AMIRH033EINАй бұрын

    6:02 In Iran, boys and girls schools are separate. But still that stuff happens.

  • @howtofordummies6582
    @howtofordummies6582Ай бұрын

    Also every sin they commit and if they apostate the sin falls on the parents who put them in that position to begin with..

  • @Head_of_the_Table2.0
    @Head_of_the_Table2.0Ай бұрын

    Raising muslim children in the west is a challenge so I would advice the parent to migrate to a Muslim country for couple of years then see difference and decide after it

  • @Realbusinessfoundations
    @RealbusinessfoundationsАй бұрын

    Once disaster strikes if you’re from a foreign country, send them there to one of the strictest schools.

  • @thepoetesskhansaa

    @thepoetesskhansaa

    Ай бұрын

    That never works. The child just becomes resentful and when they are able to they become more extreme in rebellion, because they don't understand in the first place why what they were doing is wrong

  • @Realbusinessfoundations

    @Realbusinessfoundations

    Ай бұрын

    @@thepoetesskhansaa they will not return until they’re fixed. Eventually they will learn

  • @ovna
    @ovnaАй бұрын

    Good reminder, barak Allah oufik

  • @gildartsclive9003
    @gildartsclive9003Ай бұрын

    i study in a co-educational institution.(Muslim country) but in a setup that boys sit in the front side of the class while girls sit in the backside with a great distance in between. and no boy is even allowed to look back and no-one looks too. things are fine at that point. but when you see the male teachers which teach us and are also the ones teaching them show likeness to girls or even engage in weird talks with them and give them treats and even chat online or give them increasing numbers.And this was the case with every teacher there except for just some which are actually very respectful in my eyes.and i think what has happened to this ummah...

  • @ajax1472
    @ajax1472Ай бұрын

    Honestly not surprised because as Muslim we mostly teach our children to read quran and just pray , we need to get deeper to the religion and make them understand rather just teaching them to things. once that happens everyone is aware of what is right an wrong and the reasons behind it with full understanding, if they continue to the wrong things then there is nothing you can do.

  • @AKhan-fy7sj
    @AKhan-fy7sjАй бұрын

    What makes everything much worse is that the entire community will talk shit about the family and destroy that family's image in the community. People will rarely help parents out, especially other parents in a situation this dire. And YES ZINA IS WAY WORSE. Being a single mother having a child out of wedlock is an entire life in anguish. Your life and the next generation has been ruined

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    True

  • @abdelw
    @abdelwАй бұрын

    When you are good-looking it is very difficult not to fall into this, male or female. Whatever the place even in a private school. Early mariage would be ideal.

  • @afzalshaikh2128
    @afzalshaikh2128Ай бұрын

    It comes to parents not wanting to put the time in to care about what their children are doing.

  • @user-fp8xh7ef1z
    @user-fp8xh7ef1zАй бұрын

    Akhee you mention the good point that Imams are not concerned about this danger, so maybe they are not aware of how danger it is? I am pretty sure that if you talk to them and realise them how devastating it is, they'll adress it surely...

  • @juxtapositionMS

    @juxtapositionMS

    Ай бұрын

    they won't, because they can't. The Mosque committee will not allow it.

  • @user-fp8xh7ef1z

    @user-fp8xh7ef1z

    Ай бұрын

    @@juxtapositionMS It means that they're just like government employes who follow each and every order of government. This is astonishing. Then the question why if they're compelled to say what the Masjid committee says them, they why they're serving like a slave? Is it because of some worldy benefits?

  • @stressed-out
    @stressed-outАй бұрын

    These tests are not even conclusive, they should never be done. Why would you want to violate your daughter for no good reason. He should confront his daughter and deal with the consequences. There are obviously deeply rooted issues with this situation, and may Allah guide him and his daughter to the straight path. اللهم أصلح بالهم و يسر أمرهم و ثبتهم على دينك و صراطك المستقيم

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    Agreed

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    No he should take the test

  • @mohammedkhan2020

    @mohammedkhan2020

    Ай бұрын

    ​​​@@zuhasbekillin3461 What for? what difference is it going to make knowing shes comitted zina? He should have protected her from going in to that enviroment in the first place.

  • @ssa6227
    @ssa6227Ай бұрын

    The parents don't care about deen. It's only when sexuality comes to play they remember Islam. It is horrifying to see the father wants to test the child and the local doctor is sympathetic. Prevention is better than cure. Denial is right care about the deen and child will not commit Zina. I am working on deen of my daughter talking to her 10 mins a day instead of worrying about her sexual life. 🤦

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    Dayouth

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    What

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    Protect your daughter from 🌈 influence

  • @Alishba-9
    @Alishba-9Ай бұрын

    Alhumdulillah my mom told me every single day when i went to secondary school that i should not talk to boys and she was strict but it was good. And also in my secondary boys and girls have separate PE classes for example, boys will be in the sports hall and girls will in the theatre. But, Alhumdulilah i never got into a relationship and now in second yr of college and not talking to non-meharm and i got closer to my deen like wearing the hajiab and abaya to college Alhumdulillah. ❤🇵🇸🇵🇸🍉

  • @TheWarrior-hj8vv

    @TheWarrior-hj8vv

    Ай бұрын

    MashaAllah! Please try to get married early!

  • @TheWarrior-hj8vv

    @TheWarrior-hj8vv

    Ай бұрын

    Are you from India?

  • @Alishba-9

    @Alishba-9

    Ай бұрын

    @@TheWarrior-hj8vv no im from the UK and i am pakistani. So british pakistani.

  • @TheWarrior-hj8vv

    @TheWarrior-hj8vv

    Ай бұрын

    @@Alishba-9 Oh okay. And was there any 🌈 things happening in school?

  • @Alishba-9

    @Alishba-9

    Ай бұрын

    @@TheWarrior-hj8vv yh but only after lockdown and now its in college and im in my 2nd year going 3rd i try to aviod 🌈 as much as i can.

  • @communistparty-zs2ts
    @communistparty-zs2tsАй бұрын

    I saw once online A women was proclaiming if a man can walk SHIRTLESS in public a women can do the same And everyone in the comments agreed Fromm Both genders

  • @haq248

    @haq248

    Ай бұрын

    It should be no genders

  • @tanmi628

    @tanmi628

    Ай бұрын

    they worship the FEMALE in the west. they're heading to their demise and they don't know that, unfortunately. by the end of this century countries in the west like, Italy, Germany, Spain, Russia.... will witness a huge plummeting in their population ( they'll lose more than third of their populations) which will lead to the eventual extinction of their race.

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    😂

  • @InsertYTHandleHere

    @InsertYTHandleHere

    Ай бұрын

    As a non-muslim, no one should be shirtless in public. We are humans, a civilized creature, and we don't roam around naked like animals do. If not for hijab, at least wear normal clothing with in appropriate for public to watch.

  • @Abdur-Rahman862

    @Abdur-Rahman862

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@InsertYTHandleHerethats not what atheists believe. They believe we are animals.

  • @a.h.2512
    @a.h.2512Ай бұрын

    All I say may Allah help and guide all parents and children to what's best. I also feel very bad and sad for all muslim children they are attacked 24 hours a day. Like the brother says parents are naive. This is true even in muslim countries and there is the drugs too. They are attacking the future muslims. Parents need to be 24 hours parents and not leave them to the system.

  • @akalaiderxd9686
    @akalaiderxd9686Ай бұрын

    I think the biggest tragedy is the parents who aren't a lot with their children and have a closer relationship with them then their disbelieving pupils. It's insane how many parents who just think they can say "this is halal, this is haram" and the expect their children who they have instilled zero fear of Allah to act exactly within the boundaries. As someone who has have parents who made sure to have a close relationship to me and made sure to guide me not in an tyrannical way but in the way of teacher of sorts, has made me immune to the misguidance of my pupils. Do I still have some problems with sin because of the environment that is public school? Yes, but because of my parents I can see those problem and know that I MUST fix them.

  • @markward3981
    @markward3981Ай бұрын

    السلام عليكم I have to give advice and comment: 'average or above average looks' As Bro. Daniel said actually has nothing to do with Zina. People commit Zina based on desires and have different perceptions of beauty. Also beauty is in eye of the beholder. Another topic, I homeschool my daughter and asked and asked other Muslims to join, I couldn't get one family. I was trying to use the masjid . Many so called Muslim schools are almost just like public secular schools as they must follow 'the rules ' in order get licensed and funding. May Allah reward this channel for their dawah , may Allah help this girl and her family. May Allah forgive us and give us strength.

  • @user-uv3sv3qd2x
    @user-uv3sv3qd2xАй бұрын

    My father is exactly like this and one of my sisters has adopted this feministic world view. To her marriage is very evil and a way for men to oppress her which they cant do

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    Brother be careful with that mindset she will become 🌈!

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    She will start looking to other sisters to fulfill her desires with that mindset and then she'll become 🌈

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    Please advise her as her brother constantly and save your sister!

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    Teach her the deen and make her fall in love with marriage again

  • @user-uv3sv3qd2x

    @user-uv3sv3qd2x

    Ай бұрын

    @@Therebelliousprince001 She's memorized the Quran as me and has learnt under most respected ulama in our locality from business fiqh to advances aqeedah. It has more to do with her narcissistic traits than with any Deen Her Deen is strong but she's a staunch feminist even going as far as literally spitting in any direction where a random man passed.

  • @Palestine3844
    @Palestine3844Ай бұрын

    Mela guide us and all our sons and daughters. This time and era is not an easy one. We need to pray and strive then keep praying.

  • @shad.baksh1
    @shad.baksh1Ай бұрын

    Even agnostically I can say either he/she use his/her time due diligence with preparation or taking this as an opportunity to God knows. Ultimately time will pass.

  • @GERMANFORCE
    @GERMANFORCEАй бұрын

    It is partly the parents fault, it is their responsibility to strengthen the roots

  • @idrissayusuf6561
    @idrissayusuf6561Ай бұрын

    The so called Islamic schools have become hugely bossiness oriented. Also infiltrated by government agency through fundings and monitoring systems. I think we can only do better as a community, helping each other, stop the show off and competitions in the material world . If we continue to bow down to our material desires, I can only imagine what can happen in the next generation 😢

  • @IronMan-nu3rb

    @IronMan-nu3rb

    Ай бұрын

    Why do some Muslims assist other govt agencies against own Muslim community??

  • @mzs114
    @mzs114Ай бұрын

    Thank you.😢

  • @iloveallahsoomuch2292
    @iloveallahsoomuch2292Ай бұрын

    So painful… Hope this is a less for others. Because your children are an amaanah to you from Allah subhanahu wa ta ala. You will get asked about your children. may Allah subhanahu make it easy for him

  • @jacktheladhub
    @jacktheladhubАй бұрын

    Teach your sons to follow the guildlines of islam ☪️

  • @Asiyah2000

    @Asiyah2000

    Ай бұрын

    ☪️ is not simble of Islam be careful

  • @adib7828

    @adib7828

    Ай бұрын

    Why only sons why not daughter also why not childrens

  • @harox77
    @harox77Ай бұрын

    America is truly the worst place for raising children

  • @murtazakhan5778

    @murtazakhan5778

    Ай бұрын

    Yeah bro Muslimahs here are ran through LMAO

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    💯

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@murtazakhan5778Sad state of affairs. But 🌈 culture is more common amongst them.

  • @murtazakhan5778

    @murtazakhan5778

    Ай бұрын

    @@Therebelliousprince001 Youre saying you’ve seen lesbian couples that are Muslimahs?

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    Yes I have. And it has become common even in some muslim countries.

  • @narjissyed3802
    @narjissyed380223 күн бұрын

    Really great task you are doing ,,jazakallah

  • @quranandsunnah568
    @quranandsunnah568Ай бұрын

    Assalamu alaikum Daniel, will there be an update soon on genius of Islam 5?

  • @user-vi6ce7yu3f
    @user-vi6ce7yu3fАй бұрын

    one of my friend goes to a Islamic school even though the sects are separated they still gather together at lunch and lot's of them commit Zina. I got homeschooled since i was 12 so the best option available has to be homeschooling.

  • @themadakh3229

    @themadakh3229

    Ай бұрын

    Where in UK how do you know this is even true

  • @user-vi6ce7yu3f

    @user-vi6ce7yu3f

    Ай бұрын

    @@themadakh3229 I don't know about the UK but here in America is common.

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    Atleast it's not 🌈 activities

  • @chipwilliams6236

    @chipwilliams6236

    Ай бұрын

    @@user-vi6ce7yu3f they don't even have separate males from females in schools in America. I'm not buying it.

  • @Kepler10b

    @Kepler10b

    Ай бұрын

    Most of my interactions with boys happened through online so even if I was homeschooled that wouldn't take away the online aspect. You don't need to be in a school anymore because online relationships are becoming more and more common and you can't fight that because you can do it from your own home.

  • @iymuslim
    @iymuslimАй бұрын

    Unfortunately parents are not cultivating children on tawheed and pure Aqeedah. “Go to Quran studies!” Yet the child has no idea what the Quran is. “Pray your Salah!” But he doesn’t know who he is praying to and why. “Stay away from sins!” But his desires are not overcome by fear of his Lord. The key is nurturing upon knowledge and Tawhid - then everything else will follow إن شاء الله

  • @Stowitx
    @StowitxАй бұрын

    💯 correct. Thank you.

  • @YusufShurbaji
    @YusufShurbajiАй бұрын

    Public school has nothing to do eith being touched by the opposite gender. Teach your kid good islam and they wont engage in sins. Private Islamic school doesnt solve sin, it just help with teaching but if the parents teach islam that is the solution.

  • @user-eh2cq4iz2e
    @user-eh2cq4iz2eАй бұрын

    In my line of work i can confirm this… i see women in hijab intoxicated in hotells and hear about them doing Zina in bathrooms from first hand accounts and more! It’s horrible, it makes me furious and sad. Even in private school! The only solution i see is: Marry them young (as soon as they have the desires) and move to a small town and have close monitoring of who their friends are… because in many western countries homeschooling is forbidden but the absolut best would be Hijrah. That’s at least my experience, i was born in scandinavia and lived all my life here. Seen it all and not done it alhamdulillah

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    Wow how disgusting and the parents will try to sell that bad deal to some poor guy

  • @sau2949

    @sau2949

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@zuhasbekillin3461they here trying to make an argument of marrying their girls after puberty starts, just marry them don't let them finish education. Instead of thinking of developing better relationship with their daughters

  • @Therebelliousprince001

    @Therebelliousprince001

    Ай бұрын

    That's disgusting

  • @yamazaki9366

    @yamazaki9366

    Ай бұрын

    @@zuhasbekillin3461your acting as if only the women commit such sins where its men that commit it more often.

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    @@yamazaki9366 the reason why I said what I said is because virginity is a female thing there is nothing called male virginity also most sheikh talk abiut how we should not ask about past and stuff they want poor brothers to marry slags

  • @hxna_herz
    @hxna_herz24 күн бұрын

    Im an egyptian and go to an international priv school in south east asia so there are alot of non muslims and free mixing and all this. In gym class boys and girls are separated, however the coaches can be of any gender. So we girlies were doing fitness and the coach that was with us was a male. He told us to like do planks, leg raises, other exercises that include being in inappropriate positions infront of a guy. Not to mention I'm a hijabi which made it even weirder for me. He then thought I was doing the leg raises correctly (and I had to cuz he points out if someone is doing it wrong), he then told me to try and raise my legs so that it hits his hands, with the entire class watching (but they were girls so it's not that big of a problem), the problem was that he was asking me to raise my legs, infront of him like omg i hated this. Oh and btw, even in priv schools zina could take place. Just a few months ago a muslim guy in my year got expelled cuz he tried to do it with his gf in school. I think she disagreed which is why only him got expelled. His gf is not a muslim btw

  • @noumanabbasi9547

    @noumanabbasi9547

    21 күн бұрын

    So you live in India right???

  • @prhasn
    @prhasnАй бұрын

    Thanks for the wakeup call. May Allah protect our boys and girls from haram.

  • @Emanuela561
    @Emanuela561Ай бұрын

    I don't think those tests are very accurate... unless they are done by a doctor, the fact is that they are illegal in many countries. So this is a problem.

  • @Acubens.

    @Acubens.

    Ай бұрын

    What the check for the hymen? Which can break from doing sports or riding a bike? What a disgusting idea. What shameful parents. I'm suffering from 3rd person embarrassment.

  • @Radec913

    @Radec913

    Ай бұрын

    tests are absolutely useless if the child does not believe. Daniel is right in this. If their daughter does not believe and they force a test on her it can propel her to rebel even harder.

  • @Ceasarsalate

    @Ceasarsalate

    Ай бұрын

    @@Radec913 Imagine her being a believer and a virgin. The injustice 😅.

  • @wawaweewa9159

    @wawaweewa9159

    Ай бұрын

    yeh such a 'test' is pointless, they should put more thought into developing character and values and method of education long before

  • @man-vg5em

    @man-vg5em

    Ай бұрын

    ​​@@Ceasarsalate what are talking about, Adolf!!!

  • @ricky399
    @ricky399Ай бұрын

    Daniel Brother I liked you'r responce to the father of the girl, however I want to say that the verry 1st school for a Child is the (mother).... Children learn from theire mother and are uselly verry Close to them, if the mother/Daughter are Close she will Share everything with her mother.

  • @zuhasbekillin3461

    @zuhasbekillin3461

    Ай бұрын

    Facts mothers are the ones that hold daughters accountable if a mother teaches her daughter how dangerous zina is and how low value she becomes she would not do it but no instead most mothers nowadays act like best friends with the kids

  • @homtanks7259
    @homtanks7259Ай бұрын

    Alhamdulillah for Islam ☝🏻

  • @khandakertaher8283
    @khandakertaher8283Ай бұрын

    يجب التفريق في المضاجع بين من بلغوا عشر سنين Children who have reached the age of ten must be separated in their beds (وفرقوا بينهم في المضاجع) “separate them in their beds” Many low income or moderate income Muslim family in western world prefer to use “living room (drawing room) as empty room, when children sleep afford same bed or same room. They beautify their home, do not want to provide separate bed even they become adolescent many children shares bed with brother, father or mother vis-à-vis can lead to Incest” (sexual activity between family members or close relatives)

  • @sirajmunir1915
    @sirajmunir1915Ай бұрын

    you really exposed those so called imams and so called muslim society.

  • @microgangster
    @microgangsterАй бұрын

    Nice 👍