I heard my voice in a recording yesterday and today I'm researching how to change it. I grew up with serious emotional neglect and I've never learned how to communicate effectively. I've always felt like nobody listened when I was talking and now I know it's because I wasn't using my real voice. I'm so stressed out and afraid when I speak that I sound like a child still... this video was a transformative experience for me.

@dudewhathappenedtomycountr9099

4 жыл бұрын

I was also neglected as a child. I got the message that emotions were unimportant; hence I spoke in a monotone. I mistook appearing serious for maturity. I'm Slatina Massey on Facebook. Feel free to add me. I care.

@Mrs.Adrian

4 жыл бұрын

Gina Young same here. Turned me into a very soft spoken woman. Im already petite so my voice makes me feel completely invisible sometimes. But this video opened my eyes.

@summaiyarobi4915

4 жыл бұрын

Omg me toooo I sound like a kid I'm 30 and to this day I feel like noone takes me serious noone wants to hear what I have to say all because I haven't found my authentic voice

@gaffatsy9193

4 жыл бұрын

@@dudewhathappenedtomycountr9099 what you said about mistaking monotone speaking for maturity, I completely relate. Trying to break out of it now

@EastCoastPeace3

4 жыл бұрын

Gina Young NOW THATS WHAT I CALL FUCKIN RELATABLE

Good talk, thank you Roger. Here are my notes if it helps anyone else :) - Find your real authentic voice, not the voice you take on from someone else. - 3 Key insights from Roger Love - Your voice is the most powerful communication tool that you possess - There is no difference in voice between singing and speaking, once you realize your voice is musical instrument, it changes the game. - All speaking is public speaking and should be treated that way, whether you are talking to one person or a group - How To find your voice that connects with people and move them emotionally. - Your voice is not designed for you, it is a gift that you give away - Sound waves are interpreted by the other person by thoughts, emotions and memories. - Your voice is to make them others feel something. - Breath in through your nose so that the air becomes moist and not dry your throat. - Chest up, shoulders back and down to not restrict the rib cages. - Breath in through your nose and pretend you have a balloon in your abdomen. When you speak let your abdomen come back in. - Myth: The words matter - The words only account for 7% if a person believes you - 90% of has to do with the sounds of your voice. Pitch, Pace, Tone, Melody, Volume and Body Language - Don’t speak on the same note becasue listeners will think they know what you are going to say and they will disconnect. (Mix it up) - When you go down on volume at times, it sounds like you are apologizing. - Three ways to use melody - Walking up the stairs (Lower to higher) Makes people happy - Walking down the stairs (Higher to lower) Makes people sad, don’t use it. - Spend less time staying on the landing (Boring)

@minjungpark1162

7 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, this is really excellent note.

@LaithWallace

7 жыл бұрын

Joseph Rodrigues thanks so much for this

@nickstaar22

7 жыл бұрын

Joe! Legend, thank you for this, you rock!

@milena6110

7 жыл бұрын

Joseph Rodrigues thank you

@nicolotaraborrelli6288

6 жыл бұрын

Thank You. ^^

Why are people insulting this guy? He's giving crucial information for people who suffer from a horrible situation.

@georgeanthony6216

4 жыл бұрын

I agree with you. He's making some good sense I'm a vocal music graduate. Your voice holds the key to success!

@anaklusmosgreek3198

4 жыл бұрын

I used to mumble and had to grow out of it through immense frustration and even then i have had to learn how to communicate and even then i had to learn how to listen and know when something is NEEDED to be said. My brother is a mumble but very loud in gaming and it gets me aggravated that he cant have the same passion when talking casually and he is be taught through gaming that they only way out is thorugh frustation but hes a slow learner so i cant blame him.

@steve00alt70

3 жыл бұрын

its jealousy thats why

@nazmulsifat8391

3 жыл бұрын

What??!! How can someone insult this awesome guy?? I feel like giving him a hug and say thank you for the help he is providing us with..

@uncapabrew4807

2 жыл бұрын

Because He speaks like a guy who likes guys. His business

Everyone here complaining about how he over-emphasizes each sentence.But I find It useful ,because I have a very short lived attention span,so his way of speaking compells me to actually listen again. :D

@vedpel861

4 жыл бұрын

That's exactly why people are speaking in monotone voices

@aymunz

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah! If anything, his trick works!

@michaelmoreau2590

Жыл бұрын

You are on the mark and money my friend. How does any person convey a lifetime of experience to an audience in a short moment of time; well Roger Love is the guy to do it. The tools that Roger implanted into and onto the audience in attendance and those watching on the screen of any form, will be transformed in such a subtle manner, that in spite of themselves, will benefit them over their lifetime. He had me at the sentence about "when I was 16, my first student was Brian Wilson of the Beach Boys". From that point on, the rest is certainly history. We are lucky to have such a master vocal technician.

This is great. For those of you who think he speaks "over the top", honestly, if he wasn't speaking about voices, you'd not pay attention to his style enough to get annoyed.

@adielwilson8749

4 жыл бұрын

That's kinda true

@blacklyfe5543

3 жыл бұрын

This video is a waste of my time

@MintRye

Жыл бұрын

It’s awesome. I’m ADHD soo

I have been depressed for years and I was not used to talk much due to which I lost my voice. This Ted Talk was literally a life changing for me. Thank u Roger

@terxiu

2 жыл бұрын

same

@oussemafarhat4

2 жыл бұрын

same, i hade depression for the past 5 years, now my voice is so weak, blurry and unclear,... so did this video help?

@zeeshanhaider9741

Жыл бұрын

@@oussemafarhat4 I got the same issue dear, unclear voice and people not understanding what I'm trying to say; did this work for you in the past 7 months.?

"and yet that voice that you do not like, is what everybody hears" ! Awesome !

Man this is such a great TED TALK

It's so true , I speak with a monotone voice, and have the deepest voice of anyone I know on top of that. I listen to my voice and it sounded like rocks freaking grinding together

This make sense, my voice is horrible, I'm constantly spoken over, ignored, or dismissed, it's happend ever since I was a young child, it's so bad that I'm practically a mute these days because I know I would be wasting my breath if I tried to speak. and it's so depressing.

@alexisdondawest4152

4 ай бұрын

Same here!😢💗

Oh my goodness he was just captivating with his voice The intensity, inflection, rate, frequency and quality of his voice throughout his presentation was like life- a fresh breath of life burst out so gently that it filled my senses and practically my lungs oh it was breathtaking

There was a time when my voice was higher. And it’s because I was happier. I’ve been speaking monotonously with a low pitch for years because of depression. Now that I have recovered, I’m looking forward to a change in my voice!

@preciousmdingi5321

2 жыл бұрын

Same here

@mariettajohnsonnorris1128

Жыл бұрын

He has made a big difference in my life. I just loved the way he explained it. Now I'm going to change my voicemail immediately.

Just recorded a new voicemail message after watching this!

I practice with his CD anytime I do a gig. Thank you, Roger!

Holy shit, this is amazing. Vocal couches so far have done nothing but mislead me into not letting our anatomy do its own job.

@SSJ32Gohan

6 жыл бұрын

i love my vocal couch

@duaynedaniels1996

5 жыл бұрын

God I lay on mine and sing all day

@RIMJANESSOHMALOOG

4 жыл бұрын

dont be a coach potato!

@anneober9891

2 жыл бұрын

@@SSJ32Gohan mermaids sing with a vocal conch

This is my first time watching a video of Roger Love; as a matter of fact, this was my first time reading about him. He was recommended from a sales book and I am glad that I watched this video. This will help me with communicating my ideas and emotions effectively. I will definitely watch more of his videos.

This is definitely one of the best most because this dude clearly just loves what he does, very awesome.

I'm trying to find my authentic voice and this talk really inspired me, I'd love to speak with the same confidence as him one day

Such a wonderful talk by Roger Love, one of the best I've seen!

One of the best videos I have seen on voice control.

this video is pure gold thank you Roger

Thank you! That was a great SPEECH! wonderful message!

Thank you so much Roger Love ! This is in an ascending volume and note !

Wow! I think Roger Love is Awesome! I also just bought his book and CD Set your voice free. I've been singing for a quite awhile but in one day his tips have helped me immensely!

Completely fascinating - thank you !

One of the best, easiest and quickest ways how we can improve our vocals .... keep up Tedx and Roger...

Thank you Roger Love for the amazing conversation with me. God bless you!

Roger that has to be the best presentation on how to use your voice I have ever heard. It was concise and enthralling. Thank you.

Thank you and much LOVE

Great speech, my voice is something I been trying to work on the longest and being able to understand why I’m talking in such a way really helped me understand the problem and look forward to the solution and practice more so that I may connect with people in a much better way where they want to listen and can understand what I’m saying. So Thank You Roger Love much appreciated

Thank you Tedx Talks and Roger Love :)

This man is just amazing... nothing more to say

Thank you so much, Roger Love. Your's words did have a significant impact on me. I wish you all the very best for the people that you'll inspire.

A fantastic speech. Thank you, Roger!

This is such a good talk, thank you!

What a brilliant speech! 👌🏾✨

Thanks so much for this informations, I was really struggling with this, I have had anxiety and depression for years, I preferred to stay silent and that makes my voice so weak, that's really was so helpful

Well done Roger, excellent as always!

Roger Love, you are amazing, I have benefited in so many ways ever since I came across your book "SET YOUR VOICE FREE" I quickly looked for you on KZread and I'm so glad I found you 😩

I was waiting for that episode like crazy. Thanks roger.

One of the most useful prescription material I have ever heard and needed badly.

I would love to take elocution lessons from Roger. In the meantime, I’m happy to have stumbled upon this video and will search for more content from him.

Speechless...

Such good vibes with this guy

GREAT JOB ROGER !!!

Thank you so much! 💜

he's very satisfying to hear

Wow! One of the best presentations ever. Thanks!

Thank you very much Roger Love

Thank you, Roger. You inspired me.

This was great. Thanks for sharing!

best Ted speech ever watched

With more Love we will change the world... it's already begun... You will love this voice of yours.... SHARE THIS & #WeAllWin #TED #LivefromEarth Thank you Roger.

theres hope!!! will need to listen to this man again and again!! cuz i am that man nobody listens to!!

Wonderful video. Never thought there will be so many people like me who has same problem becuase of not knowing the power of their voices. Thanks a lot Roger Love & TedX for this nice video.

Thanks for this.

Absolutely lovely

Brilliant. Entertaining. Funny. And... so very much helped me understand concepts & practices to help me to better use my voice. Thanks!

The audience is amazing

This is amazing and an enjoyable presentation. I’m really looking forward to applying his tips to myself. :)

Thank you. This will really has helped me. I want to see and hear more. Jerry Kye

Great content!!! All speaking is public speaking 👌🏻

Thanks a lot for this. I needed it

Outstanding talk, Roger

This was SO helpful - thank you

I bought his book when I was in 3rd grade. He changed my life

@_..God_Speed.._

3 жыл бұрын

Hey i am excited about the book, could you please let us know the book's name,it would be very helpful , Thank You ❤️

@PichuElric

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, it'd be great if you could drop the book's name!!

@Danny-no7jp

2 жыл бұрын

Where tf did u get the money for that when u were 8 or 9 years old?

I actually really like his presentation style. It’s great for his message which was awesome too

Excellent

Excellent video, thanks to Roger.

Amazing, I loved it and practicing.

Thank you so much Roger. That was great!

Thank you so much

Thank you for this 👏♥️

This is brilliant!

Thank you!

I literally make people yawn when I speak. I bet I can make a person who is wide awake yawn within 2-4 minutes of me talking with them. It's a gift that I possess.

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

3 жыл бұрын

Worked for Bob Ross and Mel Zabel. Make it work for you.

loved this!

I found myself smiling just listening to his voice n i was like wait ... this thing works !

ExtraOrdinary ... THANKS !!!

This is great information. Hope he provides more.

Great talk and very important topic. Thanks

Thank you for an excellent and insspiring talk. I loved it because I needed it. Aad I will use it, and will use your advice.

Feeling like I just had a breakthrough! Thank you for sharing this knowledge 🙏

thank you so much . i really enjoyed .

Brilliant talk! He's so charismatic

This is incredible

Honestly, I was feeling like you are just describing the way i talk hahaha, Amazing, This is one of the best Ted talk i have ever listened to

This is one of the most useful things I've ever heard.

This has to be one of the best ted talks

Amazing!

this was so so so incredible and insightful

I love this! Very useful!!

Really helping me.. Thank you!

Very helpful to learn English speaking ! Thank you so much.

This was a successful Ted Talk just for everyone that had the chance to pay attention and learn. i've laughed so much, even teared up a little because it gave me hope that my speech can improve and it will improve. I am bilingual and in Spanish I can't roll my Rs for example, and I NEVER speak when my ''stomach is coming back in''. Definitely will master this technique. Thank you Roger Love!!!!!!!!!

Such a good TED Talk, it really helped me out! Thank this man!

Thanks to Roger Love, his teaching and his coaching, I have control over my voice that I did not have before I took his UCLA Extension class, many years ago.

He was so good!!

Great talk

No wonder your name ends with Love. I have been following your work for years, which is inspiring. I love your joyful, playful presence and how naturally you give voice to your vision and share your incredible life's work with us all. "Make the world a better place one voice at a time." Hallelujah!

@kuukivi

Жыл бұрын

Well said 😊