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IS YOUR PARTNER A REFLECTION OF WHO YOU ARE?

When it comes to the actions of your partner, it's important to understand that they are not necessarily a direct reflection of who you are as an individual. Each person is responsible for their own choices and behaviors, shaped by their upbringing, experiences, and personal beliefs❤️

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  • @Sweet_Girlie
    @Sweet_Girlie Жыл бұрын

    'A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man find Christ to locate her' ❤️💯Love that

  • @MissNomps
    @MissNomps Жыл бұрын

    "Work on yourself so that you create an environment around you where things have to grow and align" ❤

  • @synthiamasimthande5513

    @synthiamasimthande5513

    Жыл бұрын

    Wooooooow

  • @moremiracle4279
    @moremiracle4279 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Lerato and Phetola. You are having a big impact and transformation in my marriage, one instalment at a time.

  • @HomeWithTheMurilas
    @HomeWithTheMurilas Жыл бұрын

    "I wanna give everything to a woman that can do anything for herself" I felt that!

  • @user-pw5pm1cs6m
    @user-pw5pm1cs6m7 ай бұрын

    I love this episode... unrehearsed, undiluted, pure and holy spirit led..that is the true definition of purpose and pursuing yourselves, your ministry etc..

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Жыл бұрын

    It’s how Pheto says “I feel like” for me 🤩. Always look forward to it 😍.

  • @MariaShikolele
    @MariaShikolele Жыл бұрын

    To us that like before watching 👏🏽👏🏽

  • @leratoranamane9529

    @leratoranamane9529

    Жыл бұрын

    Yess Ma'am 😊❤

  • @lebohangntjabane693

    @lebohangntjabane693

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂yess

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @mbalikayisembele
    @mbalikayisembele Жыл бұрын

    DoTheWork♥️ "Your partner is not a reflection of who you are but may be a reflection of where you are".😢I had to pause after that gem💎 and I believe that's the main intent of salvation, God revealing that where we are is not consistent with who we are and therefore through Christ there's a redirection to navigate to who we truly are in Christ-our Destination.

  • @sanelemjoli4877
    @sanelemjoli4877 Жыл бұрын

    This is beautiful. Serve your partner as if you are serving God. Even when you are out there remember you are representing God by being faithful to your partner (in the absentia). The Great I AM loves you

  • @nandiphanophale826
    @nandiphanophale826 Жыл бұрын

    Your partner is partially a reflection of who you are. People are obviously different but there are certain characteristics that you have that your partner should have like morals and values, goals, drive, work ethic. Also you can play a role in some of the decisions your partner makes hence they would then be a reflection of you. So they are a reflection in that sense. However, they are not a reflection of you in terms of their behaviour. If my man acts a damn fool in public that says a lot about him and not about their partner. But one can also just argue that everyone is responsible for their behaviour and what they do overall reflects on who they are.

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    So well Said❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 Жыл бұрын

    Yep Who you are never changes but you grow to be a better version of yourself

  • @rachealkihunde6677
    @rachealkihunde6677 Жыл бұрын

    The only way I can like this more than once is by sharing it. Thank you so much guys❤️

  • @Glorious263
    @Glorious263 Жыл бұрын

    "Pursue yourself" deep. Yesterday I was listening to Mpoomy's podcast on self-love. God speaks

  • @remimautjana5622
    @remimautjana5622 Жыл бұрын

    As a man I stand firm with you Mr Makhs, Knowing who you are let's people in the room know how to come to you, am a witness of that, even when you too sweet people come to you through the advantages of being the sweet guy.👏🏽

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Жыл бұрын

    You guys this is so very profound! The who you are vs where you are! So life changing for me! I had a lightbulb moment💡!

  • @Siya_Nathi
    @Siya_Nathi Жыл бұрын

    ""Do the work." You guys are my inspiration man, i like the fact that you pray about these sit-downs. Sis Phetola beautiful as always. Thank you for the upload.

  • @pashukeni_
    @pashukeni_Ай бұрын

    I came back for this episode for the 2nd time because that's how good it is. Great intellect. Geez! I love it here 😊

  • @tshegomwale5856
    @tshegomwale5856 Жыл бұрын

    Do the work. Love you guys❤️❤️ Lerato thinks and behaves exactly like my husband, it shocks me all the time. I normally send my husband your videos, but I doubt he watches them. When he’s home I make him watch with me😁 I also see myself in Phetola but also there’s a lot I can learn from her. I always feel lighter after watching your videos 💕

  • @PraiseSpaceOfficial
    @PraiseSpaceOfficial Жыл бұрын

    My takeaway on the journey of self-actualisation,PURSUE YOURSELF ! That really hit home. Thanks

  • @Sweet_Girlie
    @Sweet_Girlie Жыл бұрын

    'When you're a child you're who you are ,when you start growing you forget who you are and spend the rest of your life trying to figure out who you are' bathong TheMakhs!! Have you guys considered opening a church because wow🤣❤️

  • @motheowalerato701

    @motheowalerato701

    10 ай бұрын

    Right 😅

  • @kearabetswefaith6934
    @kearabetswefaith6934 Жыл бұрын

    Y'all didn't have much confidence in this instalment and it is so eye-opening! 🥺 The Holy Spirit took control and gave us what we needed rather than what we want and are used to, through this instalment. Keep the instalments coming, we're here for it! #DoTheWork 😌🔥

  • @paulinendlovumsonzah856
    @paulinendlovumsonzah856 Жыл бұрын

    I'm looking for a button to double like this episode. Thank you fam for this master class. 😍

  • @mamellomphahlele6965
    @mamellomphahlele6965 Жыл бұрын

    Mr Makhetha really dropping some gems💎 💎 💎 Great conversation, great couple 👑👑

  • @sarahletsoalo9668
    @sarahletsoalo9668 Жыл бұрын

    In some seasons true, the partner I have is a reflection of where I am. Who you are never changes, true. And as you grow you forget who you are shuuu😮 Then life becomes the journey and rediscovery of who you are _ Mr Makhs Thanks family for the conversation

  • @neo_mohapi
    @neo_mohapi Жыл бұрын

    Pursue yourself! Yoh, this episode was something else. Thank you!

  • @Priscillianqueen
    @Priscillianqueen Жыл бұрын

    Definitely led by the holy spirit!! (DO THE WORK!!!!)....we love you guys. 🥰

  • @ziziphomagula8183
    @ziziphomagula8183 Жыл бұрын

    TYHO! The part of who you are ignited by people/events/situation and who you with freely by Mr Makhs powerful nugget!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @KamoMagabane
    @KamoMagabane Жыл бұрын

    Mr and Mrs Makhs we need audience talk shows now aowa. This needs a discussion

  • @preciousnompumelelomtshali4668
    @preciousnompumelelomtshali4668 Жыл бұрын

    "We Lelato"😂😂... Beautiful instalment guys. Thank you and keep up the God work. We love you❤

  • @LethoHali

    @LethoHali

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂 laughed so hard!

  • @saneliswamagagula9781

    @saneliswamagagula9781

    Жыл бұрын

    Lelato took me out😂😂😂

  • @gcinilemhlanga3226
    @gcinilemhlanga3226 Жыл бұрын

    The Makhs, serving us another riveting episode. Mr Makhs brought the fireworks and sis Pheto did not disappoint too. I loooved it #in sis Pheto’s accent🤩🤩🤩

  • @s.pvimbelo3338
    @s.pvimbelo3338 Жыл бұрын

    Do the work I love this notion of "Do the work for yourself, not for anyone or anything" because I think once you do the work for yourself everything else will align with who you are.

  • @leratoranamane9529
    @leratoranamane9529 Жыл бұрын

    #Dothework ❤️ How can you not love the Makhs? You guys are blessed and you are a blessing 💯🙌🏾 There is so much wisdom in every episode ✨

  • @dorothymotsepe
    @dorothymotsepe Жыл бұрын

    "Do the work" Amen

  • @accoucher0
    @accoucher0 Жыл бұрын

    “Do the work”🌺❤️💜

  • @bahumimatebesi8000
    @bahumimatebesi8000 Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely! Our past experiences do determine our future choices and you put it so well Phetola…

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 Жыл бұрын

    We haven’t said “y’all know what it is” in a long time 😂 peace out ✌🏾♥️

  • @mathtutor876
    @mathtutor876 Жыл бұрын

    I appreciate you both. You are the lighthouse on the hill for me where Godly, healthy marriage and relationships are concerned.❤

  • @rollykgware
    @rollykgware Жыл бұрын

    I enjoyed this”Do the work” 👊🏽

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 Жыл бұрын

    Yes it happens then you wanna leave immediately yet you don’t wanna be rude you sometimes go there goes of a friend others go there for the bag 💰

  • @pamelakesebonye7114
    @pamelakesebonye7114 Жыл бұрын

    #dothework! Thanks guys. Ke le rata gore! Thank you for allowing God to use you!

  • @whatinthevillage
    @whatinthevillage Жыл бұрын

    Also doing "the right work" within yourself. This was so powerful ❤

  • @PZJBimha
    @PZJBimha Жыл бұрын

    Loved this episode. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us, always. The major take away for me is the importance of being self-aware and reflecting on whether your choices cater to who you are.... Constant reminder - "where you are can determine who you think you are"...

  • @happymuller841
    @happymuller841 Жыл бұрын

    #DoTheWork! Peace & Blessings❤

  • @bongiwemazibuko325
    @bongiwemazibuko325 Жыл бұрын

    Wow I truly enjoyed this session with you guys, you have opened my eyes, that who I am is not a reflection of who my partner is. As we turn to blame ourselves for our partner doings. You so right kids reflect who they are once they grow they filter and adato what they see and they choose by what they saw

  • @mathapelomonnakgotla7395
    @mathapelomonnakgotla7395 Жыл бұрын

    Ur consistency jeeeeerrrr,it's like winter is ur favorite season guys!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @Bernitta_sheneinei
    @Bernitta_sheneinei5 ай бұрын

    Do the work..thank you family ❤

  • @nokuthulacedile6878
    @nokuthulacedile6878 Жыл бұрын

    Shuuu...... I had to replay the intro. What a wow 👋👋👋👋👋👋👋

  • @franscinasemakalengmedupe2890
    @franscinasemakalengmedupe2890 Жыл бұрын

    #DoTheWork... This conversation was profound. Pursue yourself.😍 Thank you guys for such an enlightening convo. We are grateful to God for your lives. ♥️

  • @nomkhosimchunu4744
    @nomkhosimchunu4744 Жыл бұрын

    Who I am knows this is not my space🔥 this is fire. Holy Spirit leading indeed. I 100% agree with this.

  • @Scarlet_Cord
    @Scarlet_Cord Жыл бұрын

    I’m pursuing myself from now on, listening to this thrice❤

  • @prettypeyalimon6097
    @prettypeyalimon6097 Жыл бұрын

    Do the Work❤❤❤😊 You have my gratitude 🙏🏽 here’s to yet nother amazing podcast 🥂 God bless you

  • @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy
    @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy Жыл бұрын

    #Do the work🎉🎉🎉 This was sooo good as always I was blessed ❤

  • @WisdomQuest_SA
    @WisdomQuest_SA Жыл бұрын

    Thank you this, I am not keen on outlining where I am right now but thanks for this.

  • @litebohoadonis4364
    @litebohoadonis4364 Жыл бұрын

    This had me on the edge of my seat🔥 fire

  • @mbalisadikge3660
    @mbalisadikge3660 Жыл бұрын

    Do the work 💯, This was soo informative, Thanks The Makhs

  • @lindomhlungu8158
    @lindomhlungu8158 Жыл бұрын

    'Do the work"

  • @wewemhlaba7593
    @wewemhlaba7593 Жыл бұрын

    Pursue yourself🙏❤Love that.

  • @lungilembambo6473
    @lungilembambo6473 Жыл бұрын

    Do the work, thank you dream team

  • @kgaboselepe689
    @kgaboselepe689 Жыл бұрын

    Do The Work

  • @NdumisoShabangu
    @NdumisoShabangu Жыл бұрын

    Here’s a follower from KwaDukuza. Love you guys

  • @moremiracle4279
    @moremiracle4279 Жыл бұрын

    I learned that from my own marriage that I should not feel entitled to my husband’s success and blessings, even though I put in the hard work with him, sacrificed almost everything… As soon as I learned that, I was at so much peace. This then begs the question, what if I used that energy towards building myself, where would I be? It’s a bit of a selfish question but what if?? Please don’t get me wrong, I was not sacrificing it all to get something in return but I was doing it from the spirit of “us” “building a legacy” 😊

  • @mphosehlatsana7311
    @mphosehlatsana7311 Жыл бұрын

    Do the work❤ ,The Makhs I love you guys🇱🇸

  • @lauryn343
    @lauryn343 Жыл бұрын

    29:09 Pursue yourself ‼️ loved this!! My follow-up question to this is...what does pursuing yourself involve and look like? Thank you guys...amazing podcast👏🏾

  • @sinothandosirunu
    @sinothandosirunu Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely loved this conversation. “Do the work” ❤

  • @LETSOALO_LIFEest2013
    @LETSOALO_LIFEest2013 Жыл бұрын

    Great conversations. ❤ in my mother tongue bare "ya šika le ye garang le yona e tlo gara" . I think to some extent, subconsciously we are a reflection of our partners. You live with this person, they complete your sentences, you have inside jokes, you give each other feedbacks and eventually you start to share your thinking patterns. The 2 shall become 1. Remember a reflection is a mirror...a bounce back of what is portrayed Infront of you. Either good or bad, partners rub off their energies, characters and past experiences on each other. It is however fortunate or unfortunate what will transpire from what you are unconsciously taking in as you spend time with this person. Some of the characteristics are learned by just observing...❤ let me pause here. Where is Calvin the sign lingo interpreter guys?

  • @zamokuhlembuyane1337
    @zamokuhlembuyane1337 Жыл бұрын

    Awesome , Awesome conversation - Truly Holy spirit led.I am empowered

  • @zakithimhlongo3085
    @zakithimhlongo3085 Жыл бұрын

    Do the work, love the interesting conversations

  • @lebohangntjabane693
    @lebohangntjabane693 Жыл бұрын

    Do the work❤

  • @hlabiwamaponya6590
    @hlabiwamaponya6590 Жыл бұрын

    Do the WORK!!!

  • @phathutshedzoprettymatumba7422
    @phathutshedzoprettymatumba7422 Жыл бұрын

    #Do the work ❤️

  • @mrsspringbok
    @mrsspringbok9 ай бұрын

    Girl children are like that ! my daughter’s favourite parent is her dad😊😊 I’m just there..nje

  • @palesamatabane3138
    @palesamatabane3138 Жыл бұрын

    "Do the work." 👌🏽👊🏽

  • @adeyemijumoke6
    @adeyemijumoke6 Жыл бұрын

    Enjoyed the conversation ✔️ Pursue yourself 🔥🔥🔥 Every installment makes me think and reflect. Thank you Lerato and Phetola for doing this. God bless you

  • @accoucher0
    @accoucher0 Жыл бұрын

    Your vlogs are always refreshing☺️❤️so therapeutic to watch you guys always Love you 😊

  • @bupebwanga66
    @bupebwanga66 Жыл бұрын

    Do the work🤗❤️📍

  • @TerryMashiloane
    @TerryMashiloane10 ай бұрын

    DO THE WORK!

  • @Ms.Busisiwe
    @Ms.Busisiwe Жыл бұрын

    Do the work!💯

  • @zamekilekhumalo_mukhin
    @zamekilekhumalo_mukhin Жыл бұрын

    Do the work 💃💃💃💃💃

  • @mabusanhlapo87
    @mabusanhlapo87 Жыл бұрын

    pursue yourself. Spoke so loudly 🔊📢 for me❤❤❤❤❤

  • @shemillionheir
    @shemillionheir Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely loved this episode guys!! Spoke to me…wow!! Thank you ❤

  • @sibongilemali152
    @sibongilemali152 Жыл бұрын

    Do the work👏🏾

  • @sinegugungema5203
    @sinegugungema5203 Жыл бұрын

    Do the work💯

  • @lerekomolefe4323
    @lerekomolefe4323 Жыл бұрын

    Do the work......thank you so much for this installment it was eye opening and has sparked a lot of self introspection that needs to be done

  • @tsebedaphney2678
    @tsebedaphney2678 Жыл бұрын

    #dothework This was so profound❤️❤️

  • @Asoh_
    @Asoh_ Жыл бұрын

    😂 Ulundi is in the house!!!

  • @lizwimasango6991

    @lizwimasango6991

    Жыл бұрын

    Mkhaya😂

  • @Asoh_

    @Asoh_

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lizwimasango6991 😂🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @palesamlaba994
    @palesamlaba994 Жыл бұрын

    Do the work! ❤

  • @tshenoloagnes881
    @tshenoloagnes881 Жыл бұрын

    Do the work🎉

  • @siamisangsia6840
    @siamisangsia684011 ай бұрын

    The gallavanting debate sent me 😂🤣

  • @sindiswandukuya2196
    @sindiswandukuya2196 Жыл бұрын

    Do the work!

  • @snecele913
    @snecele913 Жыл бұрын

    Do the work!!!

  • @matshidisomzinyathi357
    @matshidisomzinyathi357 Жыл бұрын

    Let's keep on doing the work for better life.

  • @galaletsangmonyebodi9547
    @galaletsangmonyebodi9547 Жыл бұрын

    Great conversation!keep up the good content! I’d like to hear y’all discuss the dynamics and challenges faced as a couple before having kids and those faced after having kids.

  • @nancynasimiyu1684
    @nancynasimiyu16849 ай бұрын

    Do the work🎉🎉

  • @mathapelomonnakgotla7395
    @mathapelomonnakgotla7395 Жыл бұрын

    Do the work!!!!

  • @nokulungamasango4926
    @nokulungamasango4926 Жыл бұрын

    I am within love you guys #dreamteam.❤

  • @nosisasharon3534
    @nosisasharon3534 Жыл бұрын

    Do the work🤗

  • @zamabhelentangana
    @zamabhelentangana Жыл бұрын

    Persu yourself 🙌👌

  • @lethabomaebela5074
    @lethabomaebela5074 Жыл бұрын

    Do the work✌️♥️

  • @teemtshali9411
    @teemtshali9411 Жыл бұрын

    Do the work♥️

  • @KaraboM
    @KaraboM Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤ Eish. Have no words for this one... Holy spirit lead and really speaks to us through the both of you❤

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