Is Your Life Controlled by Fate? | 5 Tips to Regain Control | Self Help Malayalam | Dr. Mary Matilda

What is the world's greatest lie? The answer can be found in Paulo Coelho's book, The Alchemist. It is this: that at a certain point in our lives we lose control of what is happening to us and our lives become ruled by fate. What motivates people to let fate control their lives? It is simply easier this way. When we lose control over life, we find it very complicated, which leaves us with no idea where to begin. Dr. Mary Matilda outlines five tips for regaining control over our lives in this motivational video.
#fate #makelifebetter #MaryMatilda
Dr. Mary Matilda is the former Principal of Maharajas College Ernakulam. She is a well known motivational speaker, corporate trainer & life skills/soft skills coach. She has Master’s degrees in Mathematics (MSc & M.Phil), Education (M.Ed), Business Administration and Management (MBA), Women Studies (MWS), Applied Psychology (M.Sc), and Ph.D. in women’s studies. She is also a graduate in Law (LLB)
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  • @sreedharana1675
    @sreedharana16752 жыл бұрын

    ജീവിതത്തിൽ തീർച്ചയായും അനുവർത്തിക്കേണ്ട കാര്യങ്ങൾ... ലളിതമായ കാര്യങ്ങളാണെങ്കിലും അത് നമ്മിൽ ചെലുത്തുന്ന സ്വാധീനം ജീവിതത്തെ മാറ്റി മറിക്കുന്നതു തന്നെയാണ്.പ്രവർത്തനനിരതമായ പ്രഭാതങ്ങൾ അന്നന്നത്തെ ദിവസങ്ങളെ മനോഹരമാക്കുമെന്നതിൽ സംശയമില്ല.. ഇന്നലെ എന്ന ക്യാൻസൽ ചെയ്ത ചെക്കിനെയും നാളെയെന്ന പ്രോമിസ്സറി നോട്ടിനുമിടയിൽ ഇന്ന് എന്ന കേഷിനെയാണ് നമ്മൾ മറക്കുന്നത് എന്നത് വളരെ ശ്രദ്ധേയമായിരിക്കുന്നു... മികച്ച ഒരു വീഡിയോ സമ്മാനിച്ച ഡോ. മേരി മെറ്റിൽഡ മാഡത്തെ അഭിനന്ദിക്കുന്നു... നന്ദി അറിയിക്കുന്നു...

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤🙏❤

  • @jyothirajagopalan7330
    @jyothirajagopalan73302 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful explanation. Thank you

  • @souminisomini354
    @souminisomini3542 жыл бұрын

    ടീച്ചർ ഈ വിഡിയോവിൽ പറഞ്ഞ കാര്യങ്ങൾ ചെയുന്നുആളാണ് ഞാൻ രാവിലെ 4 1/2 ക്കി എഴുന്നേറ്റ് പ്രാർത്ഥനയോടെ തുടങ്ങു നല്ല ഉന്മേഷവും ആരോഗ്യവും ഉണ്ടവും താങ്ക്സ് മാഡം 👍👍😍🌹🌹

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    Great.

  • @swapnasiju6748
    @swapnasiju67482 жыл бұрын

    Nice video ma'am. Thank you .

  • @sreenivaspr4624
    @sreenivaspr46242 жыл бұрын

    Great message.. Teacher 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @darsana86
    @darsana862 ай бұрын

    Thank you Ma'am for the valuable tips🙏❤️

  • @shynavadakkekunnath3835
    @shynavadakkekunnath38352 жыл бұрын

    Nice info madam. Thank you

  • @IngredientsbyKavithaSunildutt
    @IngredientsbyKavithaSunildutt2 жыл бұрын

    Dear Ma'm, It is such a valuable topic explained so beautifully.... 😊❤️

  • @gincypeter7074
    @gincypeter7074 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you madam for your thoughts

  • @finiantony225
    @finiantony2252 жыл бұрын

    Thank you teacher🙏

  • @akhilalex7930
    @akhilalex79304 ай бұрын

    A good teacher is a dignified agent of God.

  • @annajohn6002
    @annajohn60022 жыл бұрын

    Your tips for life are wonderful my dear. Thanks a lot. Love you and your valuable videos.

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @sindhusiji5759
    @sindhusiji57594 ай бұрын

    You are great mam.❤thank you

  • @kidshandsonlearning7342
    @kidshandsonlearning73422 жыл бұрын

    Thank you mam for sharing your valuable thoughts

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤🙏❤

  • @pmmohanan660
    @pmmohanan6602 жыл бұрын

    Good video madam, thanks

  • @peaceofland4069
    @peaceofland40692 жыл бұрын

    Useful video 👍💓

  • @nithyasnuances2100
    @nithyasnuances21002 жыл бұрын

    Hi my dearest teacher, This video has given me a vivid insights about effective ways of planning my daytime. It is of great value and joy. Lots of love Nithya Nalan

  • @dlsibenny5574
    @dlsibenny55742 жыл бұрын

    Very usefulvideo

  • @sindhukb5481
    @sindhukb54812 жыл бұрын

    Great video 👌👌👌👍

  • @princegokul6241
    @princegokul62412 жыл бұрын

    Thanks great

  • @SunilKumar-yw5nq
    @SunilKumar-yw5nq2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you mam 🙏🙏🙏

  • @littleworld4170
    @littleworld41702 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video...

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @sukanyanambiar3562
    @sukanyanambiar35622 жыл бұрын

    Nannayirikunnu

  • @alleywilson1755
    @alleywilson17552 жыл бұрын

    Ecxelent and good awareness vedio... Thanku... God bless you

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @manikuttanvijayan1215
    @manikuttanvijayan12152 жыл бұрын

    Thank you doctor

  • @emilyjaculine2475
    @emilyjaculine24752 жыл бұрын

    Good one👍

  • @snehathomas2010
    @snehathomas20102 жыл бұрын

    That was another excellent topic ma'm..all the 5 tips are worthy and amazing..it's very true that if we can make a good start, our day progress happily and with great satisfaction...and that's a wonderful feel as I've experienced..Thanks a million ma'm for the great guidance :-)

  • @vimalakn2951
    @vimalakn29512 жыл бұрын

    Thank you ma'am. So inspiring ❤️

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hai Vimala thank you.

  • @sheejabinu27
    @sheejabinu27 Жыл бұрын

    ♥️ മാഡത്തിന്റെ വാക്കുകൾ വളരെ ഹൃദയസ്പർശിയാണ് നല്ല വ്യക്തിത്വമുള്ള ശബ്ദം. ഈ വാക്കുകൾ എല്ലാം ഞങ്ങളുടെ ജീവിതത്തിൽ പ്രായോഗികമാക്കാൻ ഞങ്ങൾ ശ്രമിച്ചുകൊണ്ടിരിക്കുന്നു. 🙏🏽

  • @sunilkumarps7614
    @sunilkumarps76142 жыл бұрын

    ഞാൻ ടീച്ചറെ മുൻപേ അറിയുന്ന ഒരാളാണ്.തൃപ്രയാർ ശ്രീരാമ ഗവണ്മെന്റ് പോളി ടെക്‌നിക്കിൽ ഗസ്റ്റായി പഠിപ്പിച്ചിരുന്ന കാലം മുതൽ. പക്ഷെ ഈ അടുത്ത കാലത്താണ് ഞാൻ സൈക്കോളജിയുമായി ഇത്രമാത്രം കെട്ടുപിണഞ്ഞുകിടക്കുന്ന വിജയത്തിന്റെ ഇതിഹാസങ്ങളെ കുറിച്ച് പഠിക്കാൻ ഒരുമ്പെടുന്നത്. ടീച്ചർ തൊട്ടറിയാൻ ശ്രമിക്കുന്നത് ചെറിയ കാര്യങ്ങളൊന്നുമല്ല. തികച്ചും ദീർഘ വീക്ഷണങ്ങളോടെയുള്ള കാൽവെപ്പുകളാണ്.ജീവിതത്തിൽ വിജയഗാഥകളുടെ പടവുകൾ തന്നെ സൃഷ്ടിച്ചെടുക്കാവുന്ന മാനുഷിക ശക്തികളെ കണ്ടെത്തി ഇനിയും അതിവേഗം മുന്നോട്ടു പായുന്നതിനു നമ്മളെ പ്രാപ്തരാക്കുക യാണ് ടീച്ചർ ചെയ്തുകൊണ്ടിരിക്കുന്നത്. എല്ലാവിധ ആശംസകളും, അനുഗ്രഹങ്ങളും നേരുന്നു... 🙏🙏🙏

  • @jayakumardivakaran537

    @jayakumardivakaran537

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉true..

  • @sunilsreedharan7491
    @sunilsreedharan74912 жыл бұрын

    Thanks teacher. Thank u very much 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤🙏

  • @santhinips1576
    @santhinips15762 жыл бұрын

    Thanks ടീച്ചർ for the very excellent and very informative message 😀🙏

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @reenasinil2874
    @reenasinil28742 жыл бұрын

    Thanks teacher...god bless u♥️

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤🙏❤

  • @mohanchandra9001
    @mohanchandra90012 жыл бұрын

    Thank you ❤

  • @sajnamanesh8412
    @sajnamanesh84122 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Ma'am ✌️✌️✌️ A really useful info and I will takecare of my mornings to make my day a wonderful one ❤️❤️❤️

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @parvanasworld6127
    @parvanasworld61272 жыл бұрын

    Thank u mam for this valuable thoughts 🙏🙏

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @suma7056
    @suma70562 жыл бұрын

    Nice video

  • @ashapriya560
    @ashapriya5602 жыл бұрын

    Worthy video

  • @ranistephen8200
    @ranistephen82002 жыл бұрын

    So cool...So inspiring... Thank you Mam....

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @abhinavabhinav5910
    @abhinavabhinav59102 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Mam🙏🌼

  • @susmithachandran982
    @susmithachandran9822 жыл бұрын

    very informative

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤🙏❤

  • @premakp2507
    @premakp25072 жыл бұрын

    Excellent madam .. sharing these .. thanks ..

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤🙏

  • @geethaljoseph141
    @geethaljoseph1412 жыл бұрын

    നന്ദി p🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @resmisreekumar9700
    @resmisreekumar97002 жыл бұрын

    Nice 👍

  • @sampvarghese8570
    @sampvarghese85702 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Medom

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤🙏

  • @hariharansiyerindia1670
    @hariharansiyerindia16702 жыл бұрын

    Namasthe.Umpteen thanks Sister for explaining in very simple words and way a not so easy method to bring our lives back on track. I have benefitted from this video. Thanks once again.

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much. 🙏❤❤

  • @rajalakshmibabu4392
    @rajalakshmibabu43922 жыл бұрын

    Thanks teacher 🌷

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @betty5454
    @betty545411 ай бұрын

    Super. Speech

  • @christienilgiris7527
    @christienilgiris75272 жыл бұрын

    Amazing Mam Thank you 😍😍💐💐

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @sari5287
    @sari52872 жыл бұрын

    Thank u Mam...

  • @sharookk3661
    @sharookk36612 жыл бұрын

    Thankyou techer

  • @amrithaaravindhakshan8244
    @amrithaaravindhakshan82442 жыл бұрын

    Super ma'am

  • @abdulgafoorvadasheriyilmam1463
    @abdulgafoorvadasheriyilmam14632 жыл бұрын

    Thank you madam

  • @sangeethamani6080
    @sangeethamani60802 жыл бұрын

    Thnx alot teacher

  • @manjuu3881
    @manjuu38812 жыл бұрын

    I felt your videos are solutions for my thoughts from God. Thank you mam🙏

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @jollybabu8940
    @jollybabu89402 жыл бұрын

    Very fine dear🙏🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹

  • @yerinshobbies5350
    @yerinshobbies53502 жыл бұрын

    Thanks allot ma'am 👍🙏👏👏👏

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @babysumatp5271
    @babysumatp52712 жыл бұрын

    വളരെയേറെ ഉപകാരപ്രദമായ അറിവുകൾ പകർന്നു തന്നതിന് താങ്ക്സ് ടീച്ചർ ....love u so much maam !

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you very mych. Love you.

  • @lifeismusic131
    @lifeismusic1312 жыл бұрын

    Thank you teacher amma😍

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤🙏❤

  • @murshidanoufal9288
    @murshidanoufal92882 жыл бұрын

    വളരെ നല്ല video👍👍❤️

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @sudhinvijayan9474
    @sudhinvijayan94742 жыл бұрын

    നല്ല അറിവ് ✌️

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤🙏❤. കഴിഞ്ഞ ആഴ്ച കണ്ടില്ലല്ലോ.

  • @mollymathew1025
    @mollymathew10252 жыл бұрын

    Nice msg❤🙏

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤🙏

  • @rugminirk9886
    @rugminirk98862 жыл бұрын

    Nice video teacher

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤🙏

  • @vibeeshak7401
    @vibeeshak74012 жыл бұрын

    Good information madam

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤🙏

  • @sreejad.s8960
    @sreejad.s89602 жыл бұрын

    Yes mam, it is super

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @sailajayan8515
    @sailajayan85152 жыл бұрын

    👍 super

  • @ammukuriyan7429
    @ammukuriyan74292 жыл бұрын

    People like me who had problems from those who come into our lives and the losses one experiences; moving from city to towns; the children their stress and trauma;is a very troubled times.There are many questions that one asks.

  • @chandrababuc2542
    @chandrababuc25422 жыл бұрын

    ഇനിയുള്ള പ്രഭാതങ്ങൾ നന്നാക്കാൻ തന്നെ തീരുമാനിച്ചു. ടീച്ചർക്കു നന്ദി..

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @GeorgeT.G.
    @GeorgeT.G.2 жыл бұрын

    good

  • @rajesh2021knr
    @rajesh2021knr2 жыл бұрын

    നല്ല സന്ദേശം👌

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    🙏❤❤

  • @mayavipin5540
    @mayavipin55402 жыл бұрын

    ടീച്ചറിന്റെ sound ന് ഭയങ്കര പോസിറ്റീവ് എനർജി ആണ്. എനിക്ക് ഇല്ലാത്തതും അതാണ്

  • @betsyjohn1107

    @betsyjohn1107

    2 ай бұрын

    Totally agree

  • @BIBIN7505
    @BIBIN75052 жыл бұрын

    Well

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤🙏

  • @yahutk5642
    @yahutk56422 жыл бұрын

    🙏Nice

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤🙏❤

  • @girijakrishnakumar1527
    @girijakrishnakumar15272 жыл бұрын

    EXCELLENT VIDEO WITH SO VALLUABLE & POSITIVE TALK! IN MY OPINION, FIRST THOUGHT IS THE BEST THOUGHT. REALLY, YOU ARE G R E A T MADAM! THANKS FOR SHARING YOUR THOUGHTS & IDEAS🙏

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @nishag6382
    @nishag63822 жыл бұрын

    Thank u mammmm

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤🙏

  • @soumyameladethgeorge4546
    @soumyameladethgeorge45462 жыл бұрын

    Such a motivational message for us thank you madam😍

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @ayshaafrin7658
    @ayshaafrin76582 жыл бұрын

    👍👍👍👍really awsome.. first comment

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Aysha for the first comment.

  • @ayshaafrin7658

    @ayshaafrin7658

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you madam, your videos r spreading a positive vibe.. Really motivating.. By the by, am one of your colleague's (Sabna K S, kktm college) daughter.. 😊😊

  • @ambikadevi7047

    @ambikadevi7047

    2 жыл бұрын

    👌👍❤❤❤

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ayshaafrin7658 convey my regards to her.

  • @ambikac4888
    @ambikac48882 жыл бұрын

    Thank u so much madam.. satyamaan tcher paranhadh

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤🙏

  • @josephgeorge9589
    @josephgeorge95892 жыл бұрын

    The meaning of life , The God always has a plan to take care of his creations. You are not alone.God is with you. I feel really appreciated and valued to receive your valuable advice and words. very good class congratulations. Thank you mam .

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @sreeparvathy.k1920

    @sreeparvathy.k1920

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks mam.. Your valuable class really help me

  • @chillusworld2379
    @chillusworld23792 жыл бұрын

    Good video, ടീച്ചർനെ കാണുമ്പോൾത്തന്നെ മനസിന്‌സന്തോഷമാണ്, എന്തെങ്കിലും വിഷമം തോന്നിയാൽ ആ സിറ്റുവേഷൻ നു പറ്റിയ മെസ്സേജ് ഉണ്ടോ എന്ന് നോക്കും, താങ്ക്സ് മാം 🙏🏼👌🏻

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    Great to know that.

  • @ajicalicutfarmandtravel8546
    @ajicalicutfarmandtravel8546 Жыл бұрын

    സത്യം

  • @BB-ot9bm
    @BB-ot9bm2 жыл бұрын

    👌👌👌

  • @smvpa1267
    @smvpa12672 жыл бұрын

    Can you please do a video on managing relationships and when should reach a Dr for help

  • @sreelekshmiriju3047
    @sreelekshmiriju30472 жыл бұрын

    Thanks mam.Enikkuvendi cheytha video aanennu thonni.

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤🙏

  • @athulyapssuresh4714
    @athulyapssuresh47142 жыл бұрын

    👌🏻

  • @meenanandan6359
    @meenanandan63592 жыл бұрын

    👌👌👌🙏

  • @darla9842
    @darla98422 жыл бұрын

    😍🔥

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤🙏

  • @user-ip6ze9vd8t
    @user-ip6ze9vd8t Жыл бұрын

    👍👍

  • @sheejakottiyam
    @sheejakottiyam Жыл бұрын

  • @padmajapk4678
    @padmajapk46782 жыл бұрын

    👌👌👌👌

  • @sushamaps4940
    @sushamaps49402 жыл бұрын

    ഉറക്കം അത് എന്റെ ഒരു വിക്നെസ് ആണ് അതിനെ തോല്പിക്കാൻ ഞാൻ ശ്രെമിച്ചുകൊണ്ടേയിരിക്കും... പക്ഷേ ജയിക്കുന്നത് എപ്പോഴും ഉറക്കം തന്നെ.. രാവിലെ ഉറക്കവും ഞാനും ആയി ഒരു മത്സരം തന്നെ നടക്കും. ഉണർന്നു കഴിഞ്ഞാൽ എന്റെ അമ്മ എന്നെ പറ്റി പറയാറുള്ള ഒരു വാക്കുണ്ട് പിന്നെ കീ കൊടുത്ത മെഷീൻ പോലെയെന്ന്.. 😊 മാമ്മിന്റെ വീഡിയോ വേറെ ലെവൽ ആണ്.. 👍👍👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏🙏😊

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤🙏

  • @praseethaaneesh7756
    @praseethaaneesh77562 жыл бұрын

    Thankyou mam.....what is the online course?

  • @harilalreghunathan4873
    @harilalreghunathan4873 Жыл бұрын

    🙏👍

  • @beenakunju4576
    @beenakunju45762 жыл бұрын

    🙏👌

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤🙏🙏

  • @chandrikasuresh6745
    @chandrikasuresh67452 жыл бұрын

    ❤️👍

  • @sr-cy9qo
    @sr-cy9qo2 жыл бұрын

    💝💝💝

  • @jincynazar
    @jincynazar2 жыл бұрын

    👍👍👍

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤🙏

  • @lradora6428
    @lradora64282 жыл бұрын

    thnkunmam....sleeping time correct parayamo 9.30pm ano.nannn healthy diet correct ayi cheyrundu mam

  • @arunimaraveendran5570
    @arunimaraveendran55702 жыл бұрын

    🥰

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤🙏

  • @sindhubalan1393
    @sindhubalan13932 жыл бұрын

    👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻♥️♥️

  • @MaryMatilda

    @MaryMatilda

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤🙏

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