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@TTFN55

6 ай бұрын

KK and FF - We took a vote here in Florida and decided that we want you guys to be our neighbors! CC: PBD, Dave Rubin, Ben Shapiro

@WayneLynch69

6 ай бұрын

The virtue of victim-hood is that it is morally absolving

@msimon6808

6 ай бұрын

Why don't you discuss child abuse and the associated PTSD? There aren't many who have overcome the problem. = The fundamental problem is psychological. Abused child PTSD. They are permanently angry. And the"issues" are not the issue. Hitler was an abused child. Addiction is a symptom of PTSD. America has 10% alcoholism. In Russia the number is 40%. Xi is an alcoholic. Putin is an abused child. Some people with PTSD crave power and control. Almost all politicians. It is not just Russia with an abused child problem. It is world wide. And undiagnosed. It also explains why Democrats are crazy and permanently angry. Anger is what their issues have in common. There is no rational thought.

@jeffScotty

6 ай бұрын

You two are the future… the rest, including Francis are not gonna make the cut. Only you two of the ones I know have the ability to leave all the garbage behind. Don’t get stuck with lesser companions. Politely move beyond Francis’s amateur foolishness. You are both way too intelligent to stay stuck on partisan politics and get past the trans people… leave the kids alone and evolve 🎉😊

@c_n_b

6 ай бұрын

I consider the term "toxic masculinity" to be hate speech.

“When you elevate victimhood as virtue, you will create a culture in which people are tripping over themselves to be oppressed.” ~Allie Beth Stuckey

@travisjazzbo3490

6 ай бұрын

This is an excellent quote. The LEFT are the main ones guilty of this and we all know why they do it. They want to create more losers in life to vote for them and these losers than want want more government to give these losers free stuff while the LEFT gets the control and the power and $$ they want. It is evil

@madmelwood3778

6 ай бұрын

100%

@msimon6808

6 ай бұрын

Feminism was designed by abused children.

@alaalfa8839

6 ай бұрын

Negative emotions are highly addictive to the brain, experts say it is the brain and body (subconscious mind) that are so addicted to negative thoughts and emotions that the brain gives you signals to continue to be addicted to fear and anger, and you are not even aware of these subconscious thoughts from the subconscious mind. Thoughts and emotions create a chemical in the brain and the brain is addicted to the chemicals. So even after trying to think positively the brain and body (subconscious mind) will give you negative thoughts, like "start tomorrow, you're too weak, you're like your parents or friends, you can never win etc." But if you start practicing meditation and and metacognition, which interrupts the negative mood, then you amy start making progress, creating new habits new values, new patterns, thinking more positively and practicing love, self-love, self-worth, empathy and gratitude for yourself and others. If you dont practice meditation, Energy psychology or metacognition, then the addiction to negativity creates a mood and it may continue 30 years because the brain works the same way as a computer software program. You may change the program within 10 or 20 minutes, but you have to do it every day so the subconscious mind will reprogram itself because the subconscious mind learns by frequent repetition, so if you practice love empathy and love for yourself and for others more than 50 percent a day you will become a happy person. Love, empathy and gratitude make you detached from stuff, problems and stories. you will be more in touch with your true self and values. But people are not aware that the brain does it, because it's subconscious. People have 60 000 thoughts a day but they are aware only of 100 thoughts a day. But it's true that you shouldn't be lazy and do something healthy for yourself and others. The subconscious mind is a habit mind and works 95 percent of the day. The subconscious mind is about rational thinking nd attachment to fear stress because the subconscious mind is trying to protect you from harm. the conscious mind is very positive and creative but the conscious mind works only 5 percent a day, therefore changing bad habits takes 3 or more months.

@Tommo77ful

6 ай бұрын

In the UK right now, anybody who isn't white, heterosexual, neurotypical and male can claim victimhood. I wonder what will happen when the ones claiming victimhood massively outnumber the ones who don't and people actually realise that. Will be interesting to see.

“Sometimes people don't want to hear the truth, because they don't want their illusions destroyed" - Nietzsche

@gabeo9474

6 ай бұрын

Fitting quote and very true, but "delusions" would be a more appropriate term than "illusions" in this context.

@Melkorleo103

6 ай бұрын

Yeah Nietzche fits everywhere 150 years later. Isn't it impressive?

@Grappapappa

6 ай бұрын

"If it's wet, drink it" - Kalle

@billbo3590

6 ай бұрын

No where in Nietzsche's work does he say this exact quote. The closest you can find in all his works is perhaps this: "The necessity of illusions is also the major theme of "Truth and Lie". That is a quote that most likely came from the annals of the internet. Although it is not a bad quote.

@madmelwood3778

6 ай бұрын

Yep

I have a daugther, and she is not allowed to wear clothes that shows off her chest or butt. What she does after she moves out is on her, but while she lives under my roof, she is not putting her body on display like that. My responsibility is to protect her, both from herself and others. Hopefully by the time she is an adult she respects herself enough to do the right thing.

@michaeltrivette1728

6 ай бұрын

thats a fail

@rgn87654

6 ай бұрын

I respect that. I remember I wanted a mohawk when I was a kid. I mean a huge pointy mohawk, and my mom wouldn't let me. I thought she was being "mean", but instead she was saving me from looking foolish. I've talked to girls and women who have told me showing off their t and a is the only way to get guys to notice you, which may be true but it doesn't make it right.

@HelenEk7

6 ай бұрын

@@rgn87654 Sounds like your mum is a wise woman. I tell my husband to hug our daugther a lot, and show his appreciation of her every day. That way there will be less of a need for her to seek attention from boys at a early age. When you dont panic about getting the attention you crave, I think there is a better chance of finding a good guy that is suitable for a long term relationship.

@rgn87654

6 ай бұрын

@@HelenEk7does it work(the hugging)? And if so, that's slick as hell.

@TR-tj4xm

5 ай бұрын

@@rgn87654 Thank you for the excellent example of projection there! The act of hugging your child in a family environment is not sexual, it's part of the human experience as a member of a family.

❤ Yes women can't display themselves and then get upset when men notice. We must take responsibility for our choices.

@cinnamoncollins2999

6 ай бұрын

A woman should never feel upset when her power is recognized, I think its harder to be the partner of a man whose always checking out other women, but thats a whole other conversation.

@madmelwood3778

6 ай бұрын

There is a difference in liking, looking, noticing, and touching

@SupHapCak

6 ай бұрын

The flaw in this is a lot of women don’t know they are displaying themselves. A lot of the time they get something because they think it looks pretty, and looking pretty is not solely for men to notice and look at.

@paulw5039

6 ай бұрын

@@madmelwood3778 Not to the victimhood crowd. Even glancing is oppression.

@atheistboomer7700

6 ай бұрын

@@SupHapCakwhat does ‘pretty’ mean? OED defines ir as “Of a person, esp. a woman or child: attractive and pleasing in appearance” What makes women feel pretty is men’s attention

What's even more concerning is how many adults seem to have adopted and embraced this sort of mentality...

@mhjyuti

6 ай бұрын

Unfortunately it's worse than that I think. Society is stuck in a 16-year old mind set (sometimes younger). Adults haven't adopted it, they haven't grown up in the first place - for decades now. I mean even on the "good" end, adults are more excited for super hero movies than children. 40 year old men dress like 14 year olds. Older people using the new vernacular/slang of the younger generation. They never grew up. The majority of society too, not just the woke/lefty crowd.

@williambranch4283

6 ай бұрын

Most people will never be millionaires, the gold standard of materialism. So why live?

@msimon6808

6 ай бұрын

Abused child PTSD is widely emulated. It is a fad. Feminism was created by abused children.

@SupHapCak

6 ай бұрын

Because life is more than being a millionaire? I don’t even see a use for most materialistic things (beyond having my own robot, and I don’t need a mansion for that). Most money people want is used for investing in business ventures instead of getting rich.

@nyetzdyec3391

6 ай бұрын

They look at everything through a "lens of oppression"... and then feel oppressed. Misery loves company.

KK has rapidly become one of my favorite thinkers on Earth. Positively vital voice

@mctururu1940

6 ай бұрын

Did u just say KK, just add the other K, am sooo triggered…… Am joking 😂😂😂😂😂..lol

@janvining6301

6 ай бұрын

Agreed

@jcdesantis69

6 ай бұрын

I thought Kathleen Kenedy at first and was like WHAT!!? Best to drop the KK and spell it out in the future lol.

@JohnDavidSullivan

5 ай бұрын

@@jcdesantis69 One KK is amazing, the other just wants to put a chick it in and make it lame and ghey

_”If you want to help someone, tell them the truth. If you want to help yourself, tell them what they want to hear.”_ ~ Thomas Sowell

Identifying as a victim means that you can absolve yourself of any responsibility for your actions.

@nyetzdyec3391

6 ай бұрын

It's their "get of guilt for free card"... or their "guilt-free card".

@serraangel7465

6 ай бұрын

No it means I was raped and beaten at 3 and then went to fostercare where I was raped and beaten again. I have received no benefits from this. Depression and self hate hasn't improved my life.

@pinchebruha405

6 ай бұрын

Holocaust and Slavery come to mind. Honestly it seems these are two topics a That should be discussed top to bottom inside and out. It must be I think because too many are using the same talking points that seriously do not apply, I think a lot of issues surrounding these two topics could help humanity move up a few levels, or at least help us move from the past to the future

@ArachnerdGC

6 ай бұрын

@@serraangel7465 I'm sorry that's happened to you. It's horrible. I too have been raped and beaten in my life. However, I prefer to think of myself as a survivor. It really does help. It doesn't change the past, but it does change my outlook for the present and the future.

@itsthemetho

6 ай бұрын

There is some truth to this. Observation only, some of the worst people I know play the victim card. Maybe narcissistic personalities use the system.

Young women do not understand why revealing clothing provokes a response in other people. I tried to explain to my 18-year-old niece, that she has the right to dress the way she wishes, but do not be surprised at the reactions of other people to the way she dresses. She has to make a decision about how she wants to be in the company of others. It falls to her to make that choice, not to others.

@joeday4293

6 ай бұрын

You have the right to dress like a tramp if you choose. But if you dress like a tramp, do not be surprised when people treat you like one.

@WeighedWilson

6 ай бұрын

Dress for the job you want. Every day is a job interview. There's a line in the movie Varsity Blues: "It costs a lot of money to look that cheap."

@GabrielleTollerson

6 ай бұрын

@@joeday4293exactly

@BigBenn2014

6 ай бұрын

Young women understand exactly how clothes can provoke a response. That’s why they do it.

@unapologeticanti-feminist3205

6 ай бұрын

As a woman myself, women absolutely do understand what revealing clothing provokes in people. That's the entire reason why they're doing it because they want people, especially the right kind of men, to think that they're hot and sexy and to get their attention. They just also think that any man they don't find attractive shouldn't show any kind of interest in them or overt appreciation of their outfit, which isn't realistic. Imagine a hot guy going out in a tight shirt and being offended and disgusted because old fat women looked at him too long.

The truth about the gym attire issue is very simple. Many young women are very insecure and need constant reassurance. So, they create admiration of themselves by showing far more than they need to and then go online and complain about that admiration (real or perceived) in order to draw even more attention to themselves. But this happens in many ways these days. One could argue that the so-called oppression Olympics is also a good example of this.

@SupHapCak

6 ай бұрын

Can you blame women for being insecure? First men are better at us than sports, then men are better at wearing our clothes, then they take our spots in sports. Is it any wonder women are insecure when men are determined to upstage us at every turn at every little thing? They even brag about being better stay at home parents.

@EFX5452

6 ай бұрын

I'm a woman, and completely agree. I don't know when we started using literal underwear - bras and hosiery - as the only clothing we put on, but it is self-demeaning. It's ALWAYS been considered improper to dress revealingly, because it's obvious what you're after when you do. Saying it's not for sexual attention is a flat out lie, and I think they're only upset when the guy isn't their type.

"All that you see out in front of you is how you feel inside your head." ~Alan Watts "What we expect, that we find." ~Aristotle

@Grappapappa

6 ай бұрын

"What's that smell?" - Kalle

@napalmhardcore

6 ай бұрын

@@Grappapappa "What's that smell?" - Kalle "My ass!" - Doofy

Victimhood is a self-inflicted infection that breeds misery. When it takes hold, it shifts the blame for misfortune from your own choices and actions to external factors, fostering a sense of helplessness and disempowerment. Socialism and collectivism, with their emphasis on group identity and shared responsibility, can inadvertently nurture this victimhood mentality. In contrast, individualism, which champions personal accountability and self-reliance, encourages individuals to take ownership of their lives and overcome challenges through their own efforts. The majority of our miseries (90%) stem from our own distorted perceptions and self-limiting beliefs. The remaining 10% are often beyond our control and involve external factors or actions of others. However, even in these situations, we still have the power to choose our response and determine how we will navigate through adversity.

@rushelm8101

6 ай бұрын

Well said.

@pablolowenstein1371

6 ай бұрын

I found your post quite oppressive so I'm staying in bed.

@rushelm8101

6 ай бұрын

I found your "oppressiveness" motivational, I'm now going out to shovel snow.@@pablolowenstein1371

I've had the experience of watching a pair of kids (whose skin tone shall remain unstated for the algorithm) being stopped by transit cops to check they had a valid transfer on their person. This is an experience I myself have had multiple times. It is entirely mundane, and *usually* wholly uneventful. Even when someone *doesn't* have a ticket/transfer on their person? So long as they're polite about it? And either reluctantly fess up to not having one, or just even jovially play dumb? 3/4 times they get a warning and are let on their way. This pair of kids (who had expired transfers) opted to start screaming in the faces of the two transit cops saying they were being harassed. Those kids got pinned to the wall and arrested. And I 100% guarantee they were on social media for a MONTH afterwards crying wolf.

@gabeo9474

6 ай бұрын

Although I agree with the general idea of your comment, it's not really appropriate to emphasize that you are describing an actual event that you experienced, but then base your entire point on blind speculation which is wholly unsupported by any kind of evidence (anecdotal or otherwise).

@ephraimwinslow

6 ай бұрын

@@gabeo9474 The midwits have spoken, always nice when they turn up to share.

@scottarmstrong7311

6 ай бұрын

@@gabeo9474 Really! I see it every day in London. As soon as the ticket inspectors get on.... You must be blind mate. You need to go to Specsavers.

@Unclemart99

6 ай бұрын

​@@gabeo9474Even though it happened he is wrong? That some mental gymnastics

@ephraimwinslow

6 ай бұрын

@@Unclemart99 I think he's assuming context I wasn't aware of even though I witnessed the whole interaction start to finish.

You cannot unsee what you just saw.

Paul Simon and Art Garfunkel wrote a song about human perception. The song, The Boxer. It's about people hearing, what he imagines is true, what he wants to hear. Same thing: I am just a poor boy Though my story's seldom told I have squandered my resistance For a pocketful of mumbles Such are promises All lies and jest Still a man hears what he wants to hear And disregards the rest I'd add: A man sees, what he wants to see. Quote of the day, by KK: "Sorry ladies, our brains evolved to look at your ass." 🧠🥰😜🤪💃

"We are trying to pretend things all the time" BINGO! KK you have a way of making things so simple

Perhaps as a society not only civilize the young men but also to civilize the young woman?

Hadn't heard of that facial scar experiment but it's exactly what I've thought about countless supposed incidents of racial discrimination in recent years. There are many that I've seen online but one that stands out is when I passed through Frankfurt airport a few years ago and encountered by far the rudest security staff in any airport I've ever been to (and I've travelled all over the world for work and tourism in the last decade). Just a few weeks later Mo Farah made a viral video about how he felt racially discriminated against by security staff at Frankfurt airport! The experience he described was identical to how I (a white dude) was treated there 😅. I think you're reading too much into why boys write boobs on a calculator 😅 It's just the simplest funny word that can be written on a calculator. If it was easier to write bollocks then that would be more common.

@wendyspires1883

6 ай бұрын

I saw a guy get his macbook busted by staff there who let it fall off the scanner. He complained and they arrested him!

@luvkayakn

6 ай бұрын

I was stationed in Frankfurt in the 1980s. It was quite shocking to see Polizei casually walking around with uzis all over the airport. Do they still do that? Of course, this was during the peak of IRA and PLO terrorism. I experienced a car bombing at the Frankfurt PX in 86, which miraculously caused no serious injuries, and was on a TWA flight, still boarding, during the TWA hostage situation when they received a global bomb threat. We had to disembark and wait 6 hours for the plane to be cleared. The TWA event led to quite an adventure in New York City as we arrived too late to make my final leg to Houston. We landed at JFK and my morning flight was out of LaGuardia. TWA vouchered taxi and hotel for the inconvenience. My taxi driver was a Jamaican man around my age, 20 at the time. We struck up the usual tourist conversation one has with a taxi driver, and when we arrived at the hotel he offered to take me on a private tour of NYC, no charge. Mind you, it was around midnight after all the day’s craziness. Being young and immortal, I accepted his offer. I still smile recalling that night. He was a gentleman. He showed me Broadway, Times Square and 5th Avenue, and took my photo at the World Trade Center. He took me to a soul food restaurant and bought my meal. Then returned me safely to the hotel and picked me up in the morning to make my flight. I was traveling that day because I had received a Red Cross message that my mother was very ill and not expected to live. She recovered and lived for another 20 years. That encounter with a kind stranger has warmed my heart for nearly 40 years.

@slappypants69

6 ай бұрын

I think about this when I hear about black people being upset that someone touches their hair. I'm white but have really curly hair. It's really poofy at the right length. I constantly had people trying to touch it, stick things in it, ask to straighten it. All kinds of things. Never thought much of it. Now I hear it's racist to ask a black person this. I do agree that's its weird and should never be done without consent, but that goes for any person of any color. It's not a racist thing, it's just curiosity

@TwistyMcFisty

6 ай бұрын

@@slappypants69 As a white guy with thick curly hair I can relate. Not to people wanting to touch it, but to the double standard. When my hair gets long, it becomes very unmanageable and approaches Sideshow Bob levels of ridicule. So I try to keep it short and styled, rather than let it go wild in its "natural state." But to ask a black person to keep their natural hair in check is racist.

@rowanmelton7643

6 ай бұрын

​@@slappypants69I'm white with a shaved head, and I constantly have people trying to touch my head

As a young man, I used to hang out with Christian youth groups despite not being a Christian myself and not intending to become one. It was safer than nightclubbing. However, I would challenge their beliefs and I really shouldn't have been going if I wasn't about to convert to Christianity. Their patience with me ran out and I was told to take a hike. It was quite upsetting. A lot of people I thought were friends didn't want to know me. I actually cried, which is something I've never done since. I never went to church again. However, as is being discussed here, I had made myself the victim. I was sponging friendship off them like a woman going to bars to get free drinks but never has sex with any of the men. They were right to tell me to get lost, but I played the victim and said I had been treated badly. So as Konstantin says when he made the situation that lead to conflict - I was doing the same thing.

@junebb131

6 ай бұрын

Great honesty in your reflection, quite Christian 😂

@SupHapCak

6 ай бұрын

Even if you never meant to convert you shouldn’t have challenged them at every turn. When you know you’re outnumbered a lot of time you can say you don’t believe something if the question is directed at you but it was most likely the challenging them on everything (the pre-made “gotcha” question printed up by hacks that children have no prayer of being able to answer, but someone experienced in theology could answer) that turned them off.

@bukster1

6 ай бұрын

@@SupHapCak I was sort of being a troll before the term was invented. I accept I had it coming

@Svensk7119

6 ай бұрын

​@@bukster1The core of Christianity is that Jesus redeemed us. There are lesser points of doctrine, but they are worthless without that. There is room for you in the House of the Lord.

@serraangel7465

6 ай бұрын

No you loser. You keep buying women drinks because you hope they will like you. They don't have to. You are thr loser for not buying a girl who is ugly like you a drink. Dude being a victim is buying your own drinking and your friend trying to rape you.

People create their own reality - quite frankly, I’m over all of the excuses and self justification 😡

This is right...An attractive woman can be seen by your peripheral vision...this then turns your head to see what your brain has told you to see. I worked in an office for years and attractive girls would often bend over....It took a lot of training to look away as soon as I saw what my peripherals had informed me was there.

@rgn87654

6 ай бұрын

I call it Robocop Radar. Every dude notices, but you have to make yourself not look.

@Charybdismoon

6 ай бұрын

This is exactly where training comes in because chances are that nowadays you'll be oogling a literal child's rear end.

We definitely create our own reality.

@renemagritte8237

6 ай бұрын

We do. But we refuse to admit it. Because admitting would rob us of illusion of being a masters of the Universe.

@gregsmith7949

6 ай бұрын

@@renemagritte8237True. 👍

@sb_dunk

6 ай бұрын

​@@renemagritte8237What a nonsense comment. No sensible person thinks that we are masters of the universe.

@renemagritte8237

6 ай бұрын

@@sb_dunk So my comment seems nonsense to you? I'm ready to reconsider if you provide some arguments deserving consideration. In the meantime: I'm not sure about the sensible person mindset, not even sure I am one. But just think about the concept of humanity and humanism. They are constructed around the idea we (humans) are something special, worth preserving and care. Think about the unconditional worth of human life: more valuable as the life of other species, right? Why? We see ourselves as proprietors of the planet despite the fact no one gave it to us. We speculate about the existence of aliens living on other planets and depicting them we make them like us, only slightly different. Why? A lot of questions and no answers in sight. Have a good evening (if it ii's evening where you are).

@sb_dunk

6 ай бұрын

@@renemagritte8237 What does this have to do with us creating our own reality though? And you said "masters of the universe", that's not equivalent to saying that we are proprietors of the planet. If you want to talk about those things, fine, but you're creating completely separate conversations. Above all, what does any of this have to do with the concept of victimhood? My biggest issue with your comment is not necessarily the validity of each point, but rather that it's one non sequitur after another. A good evening to you too.

One thing is we went from not acknowledging anyone’s mental health struggles at all to now going way too much in the other direction. From “don’t ever cry” to “it’s ok to cry all the time.” So now it’s great that people validate themselves, can accept when they’re upset, but we’ve lost the ability to teach resilience and grit, etc. that’s why victimhood narrative is dangerous. It’s good to say that something is legitimately wrong and stand up for yourself. But to feverishly look for ways that the cosmos and society has wronged you and ignore how blessed you are and how much you’re influencing situations is such a huge problem now. I was raised like many other men in our 30s currently to not be able to persevere. That’s why some of these anti-victimhood thinkers resonate with us. By being overly coddled, people thought they helped us instead of not teaching us the importance of strength

@madmelwood3778

6 ай бұрын

The same as anxiety...we all have anxiety at times in our lives and certain circumstances..thats a natural reaction...yet now we have "anxiety" as an all day, every day communal description of "cannot be arsed excuses".

@msimon6808

6 ай бұрын

We are dealing with a wave of abused child PTSD. That explains the anger (it is displaced - the 'issues' are not the issue') AND the crazy.

@slappypants69

6 ай бұрын

​@@msimon6808how do you figure we're all dealing with ptsd from child abuse?

@msimon6808

6 ай бұрын

@@slappypants69 I often wonder. In the USA alcoholism affects about 10% of the population. In Russia it is around 40%. In America (in my estimation) PTSD is more likely to run at 10% to 20% with the rest of the supporters being sympathetic (without understanding). We are up against an actual mental illness (PTSD).

@rgn87654

6 ай бұрын

Most people "diagnosed" with depression use it to get away with giving up and then chide the other person for asking them to do anything. I know lots of men and women who do this.

I've seen Muslim women wearing a bodyfitting tight-like outfit ( one piece for the whole body ) but piously wearing a hijab ( muslim headscarf ) at the same time. How about that in terms of hypocrisy ? ! !

@sb_dunk

6 ай бұрын

Why do you care? Would you like it if someone criticized your choice of outfit? Maybe she thought the hijab was cute. Idk I thought we wanted more freedom.

@guntertorfs6486

6 ай бұрын

@@sb_dunk I don't mind a woman wearing antything very fitting. On the contrary. In fact i like women flaunting their sexuality , especially if they admit to liking showing off. I do not like the inherent contradiction of that combination though. Acting as if there is none. I would never do something as hypocritical.

@sb_dunk

6 ай бұрын

@@guntertorfs6486 It's a contradiction that you have inferred though. Like I say, she might not be wearing the hijab to say "look how modest I'm being", she might be wearing it because she likes it, or it makes her feel good. If someone wore jeans and flip flops, would you be annoyed that on the one hand they're saying "look how warm it is" and on the other "look how cool it is"? Would the contradiction really irritate you? It's not harming anyone, so just let people live.

@guntertorfs6486

6 ай бұрын

@@sb_dunk I let people live. But if they provocatively throw their religion in your face in this way , i also have a right to speak my piece about it on a channel or forum , and point out the hypocritical way it is done. It is a religious statement, not a fashion statement like those flipflops and all the rest. And it's this specific religion that WILL bother other people when they exercise their right of wearing what they want ( verbally and otherwise ), not the other way around.

@sb_dunk

6 ай бұрын

@@guntertorfs6486 Sure, you have a right to speak about it, but I have the right to call you a pathetic child too. Again, it's you choosing to focus on the fact that it's a religious item of clothing, she may wear it because of the cultural significance more than anything. It's not thrown in your face any more than someone wearing flip-flops and jeans is thrown in your face, _you_ have decided to stick your nose in. Again, you can complain about it, but it's you that comes across as the loser in the situation. You come across as someone looking to hate other people for trivial reasons, I hope one day you grow up.

For a large proportion of my adult life,i had a massive anger problem. Barely a day would go by without some confrontation with a stranger,mainly on the road as i commuted to work by bicycle. I imagined that drivers were all trying to kill me,and that pedestrians pretended that i was invisible. What broke this cycle of anger was seeing videos on the internet of other cyclists doing the exact same thing as me. What was different though,was self preservation was not an issue,and i could see that a lot of these peoples incidents were easily avoidable. I took an impartial view,and could see that it wasnt always the non cyclist fault,and a lot of the videos i was watching,it was as if the cyclist was deliberately creating the incident themselves. I could see myself in many situations creating the very thing that i was accusing others of doing. I am not saying that all cyclist are like this,and i am certainly not saying that there aren't insanely dangerous drivers on our roads. What i learned to do was to take more responsibility,and to quite frankly take off the huge chip that i had on my shoulder. Because of this i have barely had a single issue in the past decade while out on my bike. It was a crucial life lesson for me. I actually like me far better,than i didmfor learning this.

Some women in gyms play this game where they intentionally show you something that you simply can't ignore, and then pretend to be offended because you noticed it.

@n.y.f2490

6 ай бұрын

You sound like a dude who stood there drooling till she got sick of it.

@JeddieT

6 ай бұрын

…And the same women get offended if they’re not noticed.

@leebennett1821

5 ай бұрын

Well at the End of the Day humans are animals and a truth is a truth regardless of what you think facts don't care about your feelings it is also a fact women are usually less logical than men I get rather tired of women's in ability to think logically

It's part of cognitive biases and subjective reality. Inbuilt in to each and everyone of us, we operate within it every day. I've just started studying it. It's pretty mind blowing and something I'm definitely reflecting on in all my interactions from now on.

@slappypants69

6 ай бұрын

Where would you recommend starting looking into this? I've always been fascinated by the human mind and have recently started looking into topics like this more frequently. I can listen to podcasts, youtube, spotify etc basically all day at my job. KZread is preferable but I could definitely make exceptions

I work with mostly women since ever and I can asure you, they are reducing men to their look much more than we men do in the contrary.

@rushelm8101

6 ай бұрын

And will deny it. Is that willful dishonesty, a lack of intellect, observational skills, or self-awareness?

@waynegoldpig2220

6 ай бұрын

It's been like that since at least the early nineties. Us lads in the UK were always being unfavourably compared to the pop group "Take That".

The gym phenomenon of extremely revealing clothing on young women has left gyms. I live in a smal town in the rural coastal area of Maine, USA. All in all a relatively conservative corner of the world. And we do not even have a gym. About 2 weeks ago, i was in my local Walmart to pick up some items i needed. As i stood at the front area inside the store reviewing my list, and deciding wich way to go first, a mother and her very young daughter entered and stopped, presumably doing the sane thing I was. The young girl coukd not have been more than 13 or 14, but obviously had started puberty. Its was a cool fall day, yet she was wearing a tight tube/crop top and a pair of what i can only describe as thin, boxer briefs type shorts. They were so tight that nothing was left to the imagination and they really defined both her front and back parts. It really was just lingerie worn as street clothes. Im older, so maybe its just me, but to my mind i can not understand how a parent would allow their very youbg daughter to be so sexualized out in public. And there is no doubt that this young girl deliberately chose her outfit to displsy her body. It was after school hours, and being a small town, Walmart is a destinstion for younger kids, and as i made my way around the store, i would see the mother and daughter frequently, and tge youbg lady had picked up a following of teenage boys, who ibstead of being in the electronics or sporting goods section, suddenly were shopping for paper plates and toilet paper. As you say, men are genetically designed to look at women, and pubescent boys are hyper attuned to that. I am no prude, wear whatever you like, but please don't piss on my leg abd tell me its raining, with these young girls or women who are barely clothed in public spaces, then pretend to be victims of hyper masculine men who actually look at them. They want to be looked it, they can lie about it all they want, but has this girl been in baggy sweat pants and a loose hoodie, the gaggle of teenage boys wouldn't have followed her around

@rushelm8101

6 ай бұрын

Good observation and certainly one which feminists would describe as "innapropriate". However, it isn't innapropriate at all, nature is what it is, and females of all ages (in particular their teen years) are hyper-competitive and will do anything to be the center of sexual attention. This is to be understood and must be accepted as nature requires humans to reproduce and its method of achieving reproduction isn't scripted any place other than the human DNA. It is is a blunt instrument.

@clogs4956

6 ай бұрын

Back in the day, not so long ago, women were warned not to go out in provocative clothing in case men assaulted them. But it takes two to tango and men unable to control themselves are the other half of the equation. Remember, young girls in school uniform are provocative, as are nuns or older women in twin-set and pearls, to some fringe males…

@msimon6808

6 ай бұрын

@@rushelm8101 Feminism was designed by abused children. The man hatred is a tell.

@ArachnerdGC

6 ай бұрын

@@rushelm8101 Well this feminist would have said what the teen was wearing was inappropriate. I dislike the sexualisation of young girls intensely. If she were 25, well, wear what you want. Sometimes when I see young teenage girls running around dressed in such a way to leave little to the imagination, I want to pull them aside and ask them why do they want to be seen as sex objects. I feel sorry for them.

@soviet700

6 ай бұрын

You’re a nonce mate

Just brilliant interview! Lots to learn here!

I am so excited to watch this podcast ! Just discovered konstantine reading his book “love letter to the west “. Really changed my perspective as an immigrant myself.

@amss2282

6 ай бұрын

Brilliant book 📕

Women who choose to wear tight, stretch leggings, especially butt-scrunch leggings, in public as though they were regular pants know the men are looking. That's why they wear clothes that accentuate their female body parts. Complaining that men look at them is a hypocritical power play. I support freedom. I also recognize that choices have consequences and we shouldn't pretend otherwise.

When I was young I remember boys usually writing 01134 on calculators🤷‍♂️

Konstantine Is so good! (You too Chris)

I luv this conversation, blunt to the point, men are human too!

As they used to say, "If it's not for sale, don't put it in the window"

This is a simple explanation of the Law of Attraction. What you focus on you’ll receive. There’s currently a commercial running, saying “Stop Hate”. Either the creators are naive and ignorant that they are actually increasing hatred with that message or they are intentionally aware. The subconscious doesn’t center on the “Stop” part, it centers on “hate”. Those of us who grew up with positive maxims, like “Love your neighbor as yourself” and “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”, generally hold positive views of others and our interactions with others.

What a time to be alive, when I can see guys openly stating truth about this kind of thing

@fellowdanbarber3323

6 ай бұрын

Do you live in a fucking basement with no windows? 😂 We men talk like this ALL the time. Go to a barbershop one day. You may hear it.

@Torquemada-su1cn

6 ай бұрын

​@@fellowdanbarber3323 Yeah, that's exactly what I was *fucking* talking about, you cockwomble.

This is SO true & important to everyone

Great video as always !

I am a woman. I am very aware when I get any type of male attention, even if it is just a quick glance. I am also very aware what might attract attention. When I wear something that makes my boobs or butt stand out, I wear it to make me feel sexi. What makes me feel even sexier is when a man notices. This is the reality and no point in denying it. Wearing something revealing that might attract male attention puts you in the spotlight. It is in our DNA. In my opinion, it is wrong to accuse men for looking. It would be strange if they didn't. Like my husband says: I am married, not dead. I guess, in the end, it comes down to how both sexes behave. Men shoud have a respectful approach no matter how women get dressed and women should not attack and accuse men for having a glance. If they stare, if they stalk, if they touch or talk inappropriately, then yes, but otherwise is like asking them to behave like they are not men. PS. I was once with my husband in Egypt. We went for a stroll in the evening. On the side of the street there were only arab men, smoking Shisha and gawking at foreign women walking by. That made me feel like a piece of meat. I felt like an object. It was degrading. 🤬

@soviet700

6 ай бұрын

Nice racist ending. You don’t mind white guys ogling you. But not Muslims. Nice

@rgn87654

6 ай бұрын

This is confusing. So, if I glance it's okay, but if I stare it isn't? What if I glance several times? What if you perceive my glance as being too long or inappropriate? If you are displaying yourself, you want us to look. You can't in turn say we looked too long. Either don't display yourself or don't get upset when a guy takes it too far. If I'm standing in line and the woman in front of me is flaunting her body, I'm going to stare. You flaunted it, so I'm going to stare. If I willingly expose my penis and then walk into the supermarket, I can't get upset if people stare, point, make comments, etc. Maybe if you right down the length of time we can look across your pants or shirt, or maybe just write the name of the guy you're trying to attract, then we would know. Otherwise, I just see a person putting their body on display for everyone to see and then getting upset for people they don't deem "worthy" looking.

@carinabusegeanu4335

6 ай бұрын

@rgn87654 As a person who did body building and went to the gym, I can say that it is almost impossible not to see. After all, you see yourself in the mirror to correct your posture and moves anyway. I look as well when I see good form, no matter the person. It is to admire or even to learn and improve what I do in the gym. And yes, it happens that one glances more than once. In my opinion, it is ok if not excessive, with decency. I feel some anger coming from you, most probably generated by some bad experiences, but I think it is wrong to point it at me. I am not a new generation that shits itself for anything. I also lived in a country where rude men touched and grabbed women on the streets, making rude comments, where people did nothing to stand up to such appalling behaviour. Yet, I do not behave or think like the girls these days. And I agree with you: extreme exposure attracts staring. One can not expect guys to go to the gym blindfolded. As I said before, one should always be decent, either in what they wear or in how they behave. There should be respect. And if a girl does not respect herself, you should at least respect yourself by not staring at her. Of course you look, but you don't just eat popcorn and watch like at a movie. Right? PS. I suppose nowadays there are many extremes and a lot of hate. I wish we kept these out of this discussion, be above them.

@rgn87654

6 ай бұрын

@@carinabusegeanu4335 I'm sorry. My comment was rude. I understand where you are coming from. I'm not saying you should wolf whistle a woman, but I've seen women freak out over one glance, or call it perverted if a guy checks her out when she walks by. I once smiled at a woman and she yelled at me she was married, and it's like Jeez.

@carinabusegeanu4335

6 ай бұрын

@@rgn87654 Thank you for your reply! I actually understand your reaction. I am sorry you had such moments 😔

A merchant doesn’t put goods in the shop window he doesn’t want to sell. A woman shouldn’t put herself on display and expect to be ignored. I personally think that women who blatantly display their bodies are being very disrespectful to the men around them. Almost every one that I’ve discussed the subject with are very self centered and demand total freedom of “expression” without consequences.

@SupHapCak

6 ай бұрын

That’s the point of freedom of speech - expressing oneself without consequences.

@kirklaird8345

6 ай бұрын

Women who are on display are doing so to attract attention. But they are not trying to attract the average male. They are trying to attract the exceptional male. All us average guys get caught in the same net and until we figure out how it all works we get into lots of trouble and stupidity and anger.

Brilliant test.

Can you PLEASE link to the make-up scarring experiment you mentioned?

On the gym thing - a woman can choose to go to the gym and wear loose clothes and a cap, which signals very clearly that they don't want to talk to anybody, interact with anybody, and don't want anybody looking at them. You also have women that wear "leave nothing to the imagination" sprayed on clothing that only covers their private parts, and those areas only barely. They clearly want people to look at them. Maybe they only want the men they find attractive looking at them, but they are going out of there way to signal that they want men to look at them (or women if they are lesbians). Can we at least admit that reality? There is a lot of functional work out clothing for women that isn't that revealing that they can choose instead, they choose the sports bra + tight, short, shorts that require personal grooming they are so small instead. Do I think that means that they deserve to be harassed, no. But it does mean that they are in no position to complain if men look at them, or more accurately, if more than just the ones they deem attractive enough look at them.

@SupHapCak

6 ай бұрын

Loose clothing and hair down are actually dangerous around the equipment.

@andyklapper8484

6 ай бұрын

@@SupHapCak Yes, I wouldn't suggest wearing a Hijab while exercising. That being said, people exercised perfectly safely in clothing that wasn't made of spandex (or made with only 5" of fabric) for decades.

@WeighedWilson

6 ай бұрын

I wear baggy shorts to the gym and have never had an issue getting caught in the equipment.

@rgn87654

6 ай бұрын

@@WeighedWilson #metoo. LOL

As a woman, I feel fascinated if man or anybody does a good deed for another man or friend.... It shows his good heart.. For example in 19 century composers used to call each other in the letter "Dear maestro" "Dear friend" and ended the letter with appreciation and thankfulness for some advice......Today its too much vulgar language even between friends. It's not a gentlemanly value. Of course, they did also some little pranks or fun on each other but in heart they respected each other and helped each other to grow in career...It wasn't just about money. They loved walking in nature reading poetry, or meeting poets, going to gallery see paintings and apreciate the arts.... Its wasnt considered as somehing less masculine, it was a sign of great honor and intelligence and humble heart.... It shows great value.... And I think nice women feel like they would like to see much more the gentlemanly side of men toward other good men and also women........Men of today may have values but their language should improve , because women see a value in it too....... Not use language like.." Hey dude will you go out to do some shit today." but it would be very much appreciated and your parents would be proud of you using language like... Hey dear friend I really like your help yesterday.. I think women feel very free in such environment and are willing to accept his shortcomings much better, but the language shows the type of humility he has inside.

@grubbyarmadillo9863

6 ай бұрын

As a man, I agree with you. Therefore, i will work on my usage of words

@elimg.3684

5 ай бұрын

While I do agree, I think there’s a risk in becoming too ‘civilised’ in an attempt to be more highly regarded by women. A quote comes to my mind, I think by John Wayne: “You’ve got to be a man, before you can be a gentleman”

❤Love it

I was having a conversation like this in my head over a year ago, pretty much what Konstantin said regarding how men are programmed by millions of years to be attracted to the female form and that isn't by nature toxic. It's how you act when confronted with it and those expected standards have only been established rather recently in the great scheme of time and history. Yes I can behave like a civilised and caring man and I do so. However I cannot shut off my instincts, my nature, my hormones. So I'm sorry for my evolution, for my hormones, my testosterone. I didn't choose to have it, nature made me this way. Yes TESTOSTERONE, you know, that same stuff you like to inject into young girls, children, to make them like men after you told them they might be one. Yeh! that detestable, toxic, stuff.

@Llkolii

6 ай бұрын

I promise you there are women around who do not see masculinity as toxic and appreciate it, we just ask our feminine nature and biology be respected and appreciated in return

@GillmanStudio

6 ай бұрын

@@Llkolii I know, and many women are like you, more than the media would have us think. Thank you. Depending on the culture, and I am referring to my own, most men are aware enough to control and curb there natural instincts. Those men really appreciate women like yourself, in fact respect you more than you may realise. Respect that you understand yet take no nonsense either. I hope my daughter turns out that way, my son is taught by me to respect women and girls, my daughter is taught to be tolerant and confident, cautious and even defensive if need be.

@gabuko_web_studio

6 ай бұрын

Just FYI women naturally also have testosterone, it's not exclusive to just men. Women just generally have lower levels of it than men.

100% agree.

Being a victim isn't something that is rewarded. Men would really like to think women benifit from being raped is so weird. Women who become sex worker, women who keep finding abusive relationships don't benift. Most people who are victims of one crime are marked to become merely victims in the future.

best thing about the gym

"Life is a state of mind" (from the 1979 movie 'Being There').

Placing the totality of sexual responsibility on men is the objectification of women. People forget that "objectify" comes from the linguistic concept of an object. In language, the object is a thing that is acted upon and the subject is what does the action. When people insist women can wear butt-scrunch leggings and the problem is that men notice, what they have done is said that women are completely passive an only men have the ability to act.

@WeighedWilson

6 ай бұрын

He's not objectifying her. She is subjecting herself to overt attention.

This was hilarious and brilliant. I did wonder if this was going to be about “toxic feminism”

Women used to wear a thong of contrasting colour over their lycra leggings for aerobics classes. Bright orange over lime green and such. Womens attitudes have changed a lot since the 90's. They knew we were looking, we knew they knew were looking and everybody had fun

No worries- a society that does this can't last long...

Absolutely !!!

As a gay man it's interesting to see how straight guys react to being looked at. I used to hide the fact I was looking at a guy because some react negatively. Interestingly they are often the ones that gawk at women.

"Seek, and you shall find"

What I took from this was that in order to be good we have to be a monster and learn to control it. Controlling it, and choosing a good action is the key. We cannot be good and choose the respecting of women if pretend we are not attracted to them. I think that’s what being a good man is. IMHO

If you put the goods on display, people are going to look at them

@rushelm8101

6 ай бұрын

Yes, but (seemingly) women have a right to deny service without any referrence to accountability.

@SupHapCak

6 ай бұрын

Goddamn right they have the right to refuse service you oiece of shit. Do you know what you just said? You basically said if a woman is wearing anything but a burka they are “denying service” when they refuse to have sex with you, you total creep.

Brilliant

I thought it amusing when at the Oxford debate with Ben Shapiro one student stood up and walked over to debate dressed in what looked to me like a black under skirt dress, silky and lace edging and big boots. I thought hmm that's a bit of a trap, how could anyone not be aware of the fashion choice. haha .

Instinct control, gentleman. INSTINCT CONTROL. Thank you very much.

I know what you mean. I went to Georgetown from the island of Guam. Unlike other minorities that went there, I never had a inferiority complex about being from the islands. The idea of being a victim never entered my head. I did observe it in others.

I part time at a deli, All based on how people approach our counter, There are people who we give free stuff and don’t even know it. it’s like some people are living in a whole different world where good things just happen, But they are making them happen because of their attitude. And some people is the opposite.

Chris "I read quotes out load to seem intelligent" Williamson

Why doesn't anyone have a discussion about how to be a better person? Oh ya because being decent, honest, kind, compassionate, loyal and accepting are all things that take hard work. Scratching your balls, spitting and bragging about sexually assailting women is so much easier for most "men".

For many years and sometimes now, I close my eyes and turn away. More for not giving the woman my attention, (that she wants) as kind of a rejection of her sad behavior.

@n.y.f2490

6 ай бұрын

Trust me...she doesn't want youd attention...but whatever you need to tell yourself to keep from gawking like a chimp.

@Sand831

6 ай бұрын

Do you live in NY by choice?@@n.y.f2490

“We don’t see things as they are, we see them as we are” Anais Nin If we are going to discuss toxic masculinity, shouldn't we discuss toxic femininity too?

@Halgame99

6 ай бұрын

There is nothing toxic about masculinity or femininity only toxic people are toxic so this toxic masculinity bs is just another way of attacking men by these misandrist feminists

As said in other places, if you argue for your limitations, you will have them.

The point about victimhood reminds me of an Afghan immigrant at work said about his experience of living in the UK - "Everything is depression, depression, depression, so everybody is depressed".

Its so easy to fall prey to the victim mentality. I have to spend extra energy every day to try and think and act with a positive mindset. A good life is from working hard and trying to be a good person. We are all responsible for our own actions. If you want life to get better its up to you. ❤

Sorry i'm a teacher does anyone have a link to that study, I would like to see it and show it to my students. thanks

I like women too, especiallhy my wife and my granddaughter

Its basically the opposite to the saying " fake it until you make it" some people truly believe you can accomplish absolutely anything along as you keep acting like you are good enough and have the attitude that you can do anything. Victimhood comes from lazy people with no self belief who believe the world is against them because they have no self confidence, low self esteem and cant take responsibility for themselves or their actions. Sane and resonable people live in the middle of the two extemes. We understand that life is unfair and we have to work hard to get through it while also knowing we are not gods gift to humanity and everyone should love and adore us.

Perhaps the best strategy is to complement women on whatever body part they are prominently displaying. I mean, if they're going through all the trouble to show off, it's the least we can do

This discussion quickly became one about righteous booties. Effin word, yo.

I ask people why they are upset when they show irrational anger. They will tell me what recently happened and I will say, "No that is what your focusing it on, but what upset you?"

I love konstanine he is an expert on EVERYTHING....

There is just toxic people.

link to the scar experiment please. was it only women tested?

This a realty that makes it extremely difficult to be a male Christian and live a properly chaste lifestyle. Men are not supposed to see this kind of thing from anyone other than their wife. But we do see it. And biologically we are programmed to react to it. I am still trying to figure out how to cope with it. It is quite a serious problem tbh

@doloresparlato

6 ай бұрын

@wordforever117 In 12 steps circles they'd say 'change your playmates, change your playground', meaning, change your environment first. Sometimes people THINK they have to stay around people, places and things that trigger them, when in actuality they don't. I like older men with beards, glasses, who are smart and they can even be in something less than tip top physical shape....well, that was like every professor I ever had in grade school when I was 40 years old. I go to any gathering anywhere and I' being triggered by every guy over 50 who fits the profile I just shared, and nobody is dressing provocatively, they're just being men (God Bless 'em). I had to learn to take whatever got activated and align that with my value system. I'm not dead; I was very much alive. Being activated isn't the problem, it's what you do after you get activated that is the problem. As a Christian, I have to really take seriously that scripture that says I 'must be a master of my own vessel'; that was not said for fun, it really is said as a way of life. What I just described to you is what it means to live a chaste life. I mention 12 step meetings for a reason. Taking every thought captive is a real do-able thing, believe me. Pay someone to help you do this, it's well worth your money. No shame in getting the right help.

@wordforever117

6 ай бұрын

@@doloresparlatoThanks Dolores. This was helpful. I get spiritual direction from a really good priest. And I also think about the teaching of St Paul... "flee from sin" So I have no smartphone (gave it up years ago), no personal computer (I use my work computer) and I avoid all TV and Movies. The only thing I use is KZread - but even that can be triggering. And the fact is that it now impossible to even walk along the street without being triggered by some woman wearing barely nothing. The worst of all though is the created images in my own mind - those I can never escape. It is such a burden but I guess it is my cross to bear. I think it is for a lot of men.

@doloresparlato

6 ай бұрын

@@wordforever117 And, what's hopeful is that Christ can even change THAT. I'm a spiritual director (Ignatian tradition), a mental health care provider, and in my own recovery from a variety of 'addictions', and I say what I said to you because I am experiencing it myself. I mentioned getting some professional help and I was specifically referring to counseling, because some cognitive behavioral therapy could be really helpful with controlling the thoughts but also replacing them; it won't fix everything and I DO believe that counseling has a limit, after which it is one's faith that will lead them, actually Christ will lead them, into further transformation, which is always the journey of the believer. I'm very encouraged that you're in spiritual direction. I have had the great privilege of moving some of my client's, most of whom where male sex addicts (I'm not suggesting you are by the way, just saying my own truth here), out of clinical counseling and into spiritual direction, only a few advanced to this point, but I observed sustained and profound change in these men as they began to spend more time with Jesus, and then eventually to repair work with God....and these men were truly different men at the end of there time with me. This process with a handful of them, after they finished clinical counseling, took about 3 years of monthly direction. I did take one or two on extended silent retreats which was very helpful, so if you've not experienced that I'd say consider it, especially if it's a directed retreat. Stay the course and remember, you didn't like get here over night, and transformation is a journey that takes much time, there are no shortcuts with God, as you know. I am convinced that men who have mastered their thought life (which naturally gives way to changed lifestyle) and cultivated their spiritual life are so very foundational to the life of the church as a whole; this is what you were called to, to take 'dominion' of this wild and unruly planet (Genesis passages here) and of your own self (master of your own vessel). The Holy Spirit moves where He's welcome, we all need to become more like Jesus's mother Mary, and just make room. God knows how to fill empty spaces. Blessed Advent and Merry Christmas brother.

I also think people watching videos or reading stories of other people claiming to be victims, will put themselves into that person's place. All of sudden, now they're the one that was called a name, or somebody looked at them wrong, when in reality nothing has ever happened to them.

This exactly what happened when the police stopped those 2 athletes recently ! They created the problem with their ‘ victim’ attitude !

Next we'll work out that we are all COMPLETELY NAKED under our clothes.

This is the thing, every male action is being reduced infinitely. So now simply LOOKING is the crime. It’s correct to call out actual awful behaviour, the idea that looking is a crime is insane. The reality is this is just to make the woman feel good, it’s them publicly displaying that men look at them (even when they’re not, win-win for them), at the cost of the man. When did telling your mates someone was checking you out end?

The main driver in sexuality is fear. For men, when we feel that towards a woman it feels amazing. However, on the other hand, most women actually feel terrified when in the presence of a man they find attractive. For some women, this is why they react strangely to a man staring at them. They feel intimidated and have a need to protect themselves. On the other hand, because a man feels lust/love, we feel we haven't done anything wrong because we were simply just looking at an attractive girl. If you're a straight man, imagine having another guy staring at your ass. That's pretty much the emotion that women feel in that situation. So yes, I do feel sorry for women because feeling like prey can be scary, but those who go out barely dressed to gyms or nightclubs are pretty much addicted to attention and they crave it badly.

calculator? I had no idea😂😂

The first time I saw the “butt scrunch pants” it was glaringly obvious that they served one purpose alone: make the booty look better and/or bigger. Women go out wearing this stuff and have the nerve to get upset when a dude checks them out 😆 I asked a female friend of mine if my opinion on the pants was accurate, and she said “definitely.” 😆

Does someone has the title or the link to the scar experiment?

How come Andrew Tate or Fresh & Fit wasn’t brought up? They define toxic masculinity, narcissism, corrosive control, etc. that freckin British boy can’t even call them out by name which says a lot

My visions are not good and always pay attention to the faces ... so i can act accordingly ?

Wear sunglasses. Dark mirrored wraparound sunglasses. Then they never know where you're looking, and you look cool as hell! 😆 😎 An old trick I learned working security a long long time ago.

I am embitered, but for some reason I don't get any kicks from playing the victim. Might explain my need for antidepressants.

Interesting discussion. What I'm missing though is a discussion of WHY women dress like that in the gym or online. Women are most likely hard wired to SEEK that male attention to have a selection of men to mate with. Why is it so hard to acknowledge the fact that humans are animals too, with instincts and behaviors ?

The first thing I did on my calculator was 'Shell Oil'. Nevertheless, Kristin is bang on yet again. Like it or not, we are programmed to find female bodies attractive. It is instinctive and irrepressible. And yes, the difference between instinctively finding the female form attractive and acting inappropriately is what culture and societal norms are there for and which any decent man understands perfectly. (The same applies the other way around of course, but transgressions in this direction are less frowned upon).

@waynegoldpig2220

6 ай бұрын

I think 'Shell Oil' was a GenX thing.

@BM-jy6cb

6 ай бұрын

@@waynegoldpig2220 ha ha! I am indeed a Gen X, so you're probably right. 🙂

@waynegoldpig2220

6 ай бұрын

@@BM-jy6cb Same here. Born in 72.

@soviet700

6 ай бұрын

@@BM-jy6cbbut your “cultural and societal norms” are based upon corrupt christian morality that’s just over 2000 years old. Your whole moral starting point stems from a book that demonised women. You were banished from the Garden of Eden because of a woman tempting man. You not quite getting it are you. Don’t worry. You’re in good company amongst these strange right wing populist bandwagoners

@luvkayakn

6 ай бұрын

The irony that the complaining females ignore is they are most likely sexualizing males when they’re with their girlfriends. Dolly Parton’s song Romeo is a good representation of real girl talk at the night club, although her version is more family friendly 😊 Love the line, “Wish I had a swing like that in my backyard.”

It baffles me when a woman says “We don’t dress like this for you to gawk at us!” Then why, precisely do you dress like that!?

You'll have trouble separating my big fat hairy arse....🤣