Once someone betrays you, it changes the way you see that person...

@cat56789

4 жыл бұрын

Yup

@dgray9020

3 жыл бұрын

You loss respect for that man or woman, you can't never trust him or her ever again.

@billybob4532

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, but it’s wrong if you see him or her later in your life with another person and say that they’ll cheat because you don’t know if they changed, I mean I wouldn’t get back with someone who cheated on ya but I wouldn’t try to change their relationship later in life.

@jzwalz51robin45

3 жыл бұрын

@@billybob4532 That does not change the fact that you no longer see him/her in the same way. You can avoid them if you see them again, or you can just be civil and detached if you have to say something to them.

@nn-yq5sb

3 жыл бұрын

and yourself

A man won’t change for anybody unless HE wants to! 💯

@ak-47intelligence75

4 жыл бұрын

That is a FUNDAMENTAL truth not many understand. It has nothing to do with " if he loves the woman or not ".

@olgasa6943

4 жыл бұрын

LOVE will compel him to change! ONLY LOVE.

@serahkate1025

3 жыл бұрын

still the best, DERRICK_SPY on instagram , i really appreciate the work you did for me, i now have access to my husband phone, and i know his location and who is calling him. thank you very much for doing this for me

@tarundasniper

2 жыл бұрын

@@serahkate1025 ah let's tap your phone now

@pinksmurf10

2 жыл бұрын

It’s heartbreaking to believe

No relationship is the same after someone cheats and you will never trust them again

@MaJeSTiCz0

4 жыл бұрын

J Anderson Yep and they live in doubt for the rest of their LIFE!!!

@TheREALSimagination

4 жыл бұрын

Even if they never cheat again?

@sappy.3xe

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheREALSimagination Yep. They cheated once and that betrayal stays with you even if you give them a second chance.

@sakuraesther6309

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheREALSimagination There has never been room to cheat no matters what like if you wanna cheat break up, don't be sneaky o

@magatexan126

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheREALSimagination Trust is hard to gain and easy to lose...

I. Hate. Cheaters. I've never cheated. Never will.

@mordredvonumbra154

4 жыл бұрын

You can tell the future? Sick.

@SocramZue

4 жыл бұрын

Never say never

@thebullet437

3 жыл бұрын

I cheated on mah math test. Does that count?

@imeco8452

3 жыл бұрын

@@thebullet437 😂😂😂

@mrjjthor

3 жыл бұрын

@@SocramZue exactly. I've heard so many people say that and then end up cheating.

a man dont change because u tell him to,he only change because he loves you.

@ghostwolf1719

6 жыл бұрын

and if a man loves you, he would never cheat on you to begin with...

@blacksilkrose777

6 жыл бұрын

A man changes for himself and only himself. Once he values and respects himself than he can do that for someone he truly loves, respects and honors. Anything else is a pipe dream.

@isaacwilliams4044

6 жыл бұрын

Jessica Letsu.. Bullsh*t. You're a blatant liar. If a person's been smoking for 30 years, do you think they can just wake up one day and say "you know what? I don't feel like smoking today or ever?" It doesn't work that way. If you've been cheating a lot before you got married, nothing can stop you from cheating in you're marriage. A ring won't get rid of someone's habit. Sooner or later you're going to cheat on your husband if you already haven't.

@SerenasChoices

6 жыл бұрын

Wrong!! A man never changes. No one ever changes. They will pretend to change in the beginning and in time it is back to their ususal self.

@yoruba21

6 жыл бұрын

Nikki Powell if he loved you he wouldn't do it to begin with

I got cheated on...and what was I doing wrong ...getting my degree

@Phoenix-Valkyrie

6 жыл бұрын

ryan tabb it's ok the extra weight will only slow you down anyway.

@zeynand4039

6 жыл бұрын

ryan tabb you were preparing yourself for higher grounds.. your best life and a true man.

@missangela1984

6 жыл бұрын

Sometimes we need to rid ourselves of negative to welcome positive. God bless girl❤️

@linkaswain1449

6 жыл бұрын

Girl me too. I found out on a friday and i swear i was in the courthouse filing on that monday!!

@sugeknight1219

6 жыл бұрын

Maybe should put out more then wouldnt cheat

I don't know if "Once a cheater always a cheater" is true, but then again, I don't stick around to find out. Once you cheat on me, you're out. There is no second chance, third chance, fourth chance.

@jajasatorashi136

3 жыл бұрын

Right!

@koolsmoothfan

2 жыл бұрын

FR FR

Cheating is cheating don't matter the gender... if you end up cheating on your partner sooner or later it'll go back to you that simple

@mordredvonumbra154

4 жыл бұрын

Or you will be so afraid of repeating such a mistake that you will never think avout it.

I don't think every man cheats. But I'm never suprised when one does. Expect the best, but be prepared for the worst.

@kayc.8283

4 жыл бұрын

Hope for the best. Expectations kill you everytime😔

@TheREALSimagination

4 жыл бұрын

Good motto.

@serahkate1025

3 жыл бұрын

still the best, DERRICK_SPY on instagram , i really appreciate the work you did for me, i now have access to my husband phone, and i know his location and who is calling him. thank you very much for doing this for me

@dany.zhaldrize

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah I’d say the other way around lol…expect the worst, but hope for the best

@maybeso3885

2 жыл бұрын

Gals cheat too... And it's easier, lolll Additionally, if you aren't married, it's not technically cheating...

What you allow is what continues. You allow him to cheat on you once, he’ll cheat again, and again.

@mikepizzo5154

6 жыл бұрын

Girlfromdownunder not true ik i was a person who previously cheated and now been in a completely faithful relationship fir 10 yrs

@kevinjeniferv.a4215

6 жыл бұрын

Mike is it because you know she wont allow you to cheat lol

@Real-housewives-Wakanda

6 жыл бұрын

Mike Pizzo happy to hear 😊 I believe in redemption and that people can change when they want to change.

@kevinjeniferv.a4215

6 жыл бұрын

So do I my husband was a cheater and now it's been almost 7 years without another incident . A combination between me stepping up and no longer allowing him to treat me that way , he himself working out that he didn't want to lose us (myself and our children one of watch I was pregnant with at the time ) .It wasn't easy I mean I wanted to beat him many times and lost all respect for him and it took years for him to earn back both my love and respect .But it is possible if both are willing to work for it .

@christophergibson4000

6 жыл бұрын

Eh no. I cheated on my girl. Nasty argument too. (Not violent lol) but we talked and I realized what I was about to lose and I do want her in my life so I stepped up and manned up. It’s as Steve says. Sometimes it takes that moment for us to get our ish together. And we don’t have problems now. She doesn’t keep me in some jailhouse relationship where she’s gotta check my phone all the time. Shoo I have a female bestfriend. Had this girl my bestfriend for 6 years and my girl knows her and they’re friends they gossip. I’m not popular but I know a lot of people and a lot of females and she doesn’t get jealous on it cause she knows I’m a friendly guy. And she knows to me being friendly isn’t flirting. It’s how i was raised to be friendly and kind and. It cold shoulder people. She knows I love meeting knee people and if they’re girls I’ll meet em befriend em but the moment they disrespect with some hidden agenda than I cut off. I always give a female a chance until she disrespects and that’s where I’m at now and my girl I told her the same thing for her. I don’t check her phone she has male friends. And she can befriend em as long as they don’t disrespect.

If your going to cheat,just break up with the person. Don't be a selfish greedy cowardly piece of ish. 😌

@kylesavage4525

6 жыл бұрын

Completelly agree. If my gf were to come to me and tell she has feelings for someone else i would feel bad ofc but i would really appreciate the fact that she took the hard path of honesty and didn't betray me (assuming that she dumped me before doing anything with the guy ofc). Unlike actions feelings are impossible to be controlled therefore i can't blame her for having said feelings no matter how hurt my ego would be.

@serahkate1025

3 жыл бұрын

still the best, DERRICK_SPY on instagram , i really appreciate the work you did for me, i now have access to my husband phone, and i know his location and who is calling him. thank you very much for doing this for me

@simplyonehellofa.2854

3 жыл бұрын

👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

@simplyonehellofa.2854

3 жыл бұрын

@@kylesavage4525 👏🏼👏🏼👍🏼

@michaelsinaloense6449

2 жыл бұрын

As a man I completely agree. It's not right to put anyone thru that pain. I have been cheated on in two relationships and not once cheated on any partner.

Everyone deals with infidelity? Ok. Here’s how I dealt with it: my ex husband cheated, and I left.

A cheating man dose not respect himself, if he cannot respect himself how do you expect him to respect you

@66kaisersoza

5 жыл бұрын

Men want to spread their seed is all.

@RONDOUG

5 жыл бұрын

What lol.

@calennosliw3669

5 жыл бұрын

Tf is this comment

@amenataa

5 жыл бұрын

So true. He can't give you what he himself doesn't have.

@GinoNL

4 жыл бұрын

Why do you think he doesn’t respect himself? It’s actually the other way around. Cheaters think very high of themselves and go into cognitive dissonance mode. Does have nothing to do with self respect. Btw, more % of females cheat than % of men. Don’t be bias.

Cheating can never be justified. No matter how or why it happened . Cheating is disgusting. But the worst part is the one who suffers the after effects is the one who didnt deserve it in the first place.

@liseedvardsen4573

Жыл бұрын

I don’t know how people can say that cheating can never be justified? Even cheating isn’t black or white and there’s always a deeper reason than "he/she is a horrible person". Would you be mad if someone who had been suffering and stuck in an extremely physical and mental abusive relationship for years, would choose to seek love elsewhere? Or what about if you were forced into an arranged marriage with no way out. Cheating is bad and it is unfortunate that some feels as tho its the only way out, but its not in every case that its done with malicious intent. It can simply be to escape your current situation, as we are all human and everyone seeks and craves love and validation. And no, I have never cheated myself as thats what everyone assume if you choose to be open minded.

@nimittkhare3201

27 күн бұрын

​@@liseedvardsen4573cheating in an abusive or arranged relationship is even more dangerous for the victim than leaving Leaving is still the better option in all cases

I was waiting for Steve to own up to his cheating and possible reformation. Too real I guess.

@NaveenJeyaBalan

4 жыл бұрын

Flaw'd he already own it up

@quayahjolie9303

4 жыл бұрын

Were you listening to what he said at all? Or just looking for words you wanted to hear? 🙄

@deedee-vl4lu

4 жыл бұрын

He did...say it ...a man changes for only one women....he was talking for himself... Ok...but why punish his 1 st wife...by keeping the child

@user-nq6um4bs5y

4 жыл бұрын

dee dee keeping? Erm is he supposed to ab0rt it?? That’s murd*r u siicko

@Joyinthemorn

4 жыл бұрын

Me too!

Once a cheater ALWAYS a CHEATER! If my husband were to ever cheat, hes be out the damned door with NO SECOND CHANCE!!! For myself, I will NOT lower my standards to except him cheating and take him back. THAT is unforgiveable for me! My children deserve better than that too! my integrity means more to me...👍

@mixymonroe

6 жыл бұрын

Ghost Wolf 👏👏👏

@StationeryPrincess

6 жыл бұрын

Agreed 100^

@thekailashow7687

5 жыл бұрын

Ghost Wolf I’m pretty sure your husband has cheated on women before you... so is it once a cheater always a cheater still?

@sakuraogami6885

5 жыл бұрын

What Not To Do At a Stoplight it doesn't matter. Cheat in any way=done.

@blackbutterfly233ify

4 жыл бұрын

Ghost Wolf that's not true at all. I cheated and never did it again

Those red pumps and fishnet socks on the blond is everything!!!!

@doctoredable

6 жыл бұрын

Everything that looks ridiculous. Would you date her or look at her in a bar and think "look at that Ho."

@BlessedToBeSaved333

6 жыл бұрын

I'm confused as to why anyone thinks that looks good

@jeremysears4263

6 жыл бұрын

Luvya Nunya Different strokes for different folks. To each their own

@perfectlycreated4191

6 жыл бұрын

prettyfa3000 its cute fr

@dannac_8888

6 жыл бұрын

She pulls it off really well because she has SUCH a wholesome face. Not everyone could pull off that look.

There are no excuses for cheating whatsoever, theres no such thing as a “slip-up” in a relationship because why were you in that position to possibly “slip-up” in the first place? You cant ever cheat if you’re never in a position/situation to cheat. (Example: Going to the bar and hooking up with someone for the night....STILL CHEATING, why were you at the bar without your significant other in the first place?)

@Belladonnadonnaa

6 жыл бұрын

Yes‼️‼️‼️‼️

@Cwade14

6 жыл бұрын

Thank You!!!!

@gbreeze99

5 жыл бұрын

Agreed no one cheats "accidentually". If you do it you definitely had the motivation in the first place.

@SeeingThings123

5 жыл бұрын

Anthony Fortson Exactly, there ain’t no damn thing such as a “slip-up”. Like if someone with a partner decides to cheat with someone at the bar and go all the way back to their apartment, there’s SOO many opportunities in that sequence for them to think “This is wrong”, but they keep going through with it. That one “slip-up” is basically them telling you how much you mean to them in one event; and that’s 0.

@joec1212

5 жыл бұрын

It takes quite a bit of time and thought to get to the point of being naked with someone and getting it on. By the time you're to that point you have been given plenty of chances to say 'I cant do this I have a significant other'.

Saying cheating is part of life makes it more acceptable and easier to get away with cheating. Saying that is the equivalent of telling your man/woman "yeah, what you did was wrong, but please don't do it again, pleeeeaaase". Nah man, life's too short to spend with a cheater. This ain't stealing a pen from someone, this is infidelity, and the only option is to get rid of the human waste a.k.a your ex-to-be

@weedie5582

Жыл бұрын

And that is the biggest crock of bull I have ever heard in my 40 years of living cheating is not a part of life it is a f*****-up choice that people make nobody puts a gun to your head and make you do that it's a choice that you make a reckless one that will cost you your relationship

Hate this idea that a person will change for the RIGHT one. That's putting none of the responsibility on the cheater. Truth of the matter is, their character is shoddy and that's something only they can change, not another person.

@ineedhoez

4 жыл бұрын

Yup and whatever emotional wounds they have aren't going to be healed magically

@shieldbrother7425

3 жыл бұрын

I wasnt a cheater or a woman beater but I wasnt a good person let's just say that, my profession at the time didnt allow me to be, she made me not want to be that person, yes I had to make the changes but she made me want to change, of he wont try to change for you then you will never have him

Every man is not a cheater and every man that has cheated will not always remain a cheater. You simply have to figure out what you are willing to deal with...moving forward or ending things.

@mordredvonumbra154

4 жыл бұрын

Indeed.

@sharifahkulumba3808

4 жыл бұрын

True

Honestly kudos to couples that decided to give it a go after cheating. I haven't been cheated on but my ex lied to me about so many things it really destroyed me as a person and turned me into a bitter, angry and depressed woman.

@bobbyseasons451

2 жыл бұрын

He likely cheated too. You were the emotional victim. You weren't wrong.

@emfgdr3150

Жыл бұрын

I’m sorry it affected you so badly. But many people who try to stay together suffer too, just silently. Picking up the broken pieces just gets you cut

3:14 boy clapping hard af

@bbbluelover4272

5 жыл бұрын

LOL!

@isabelpulecio9476

5 жыл бұрын

🤣😂

@Master_G86

5 жыл бұрын

He's very very very happy🤦🏾‍♂️ 🤪🤣😂😂

@monaa7883

5 жыл бұрын

He was like "My boy Stevie will NOT be catching sexual assault allegations"

@sixxkitten7803

5 жыл бұрын

Ben •Rhone 😂👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼😂

Steve Harvey is always spot on. I lost the love of my life because I cheated and it’s not like she left me when she found out it was several years later because she had no trust no faith and no respect in me. She stayed because she loved me but when she realized she didn’t feel appreciated, loved, respected she left and took everything with her. I lost her, my home, and our cat over this. Needless to say it changed me completely. I shattered to pieces, was a complete wreck. I found god, confessed to friends and family, became a good person. I am proud that I am no longer the man who took his love for granted and I know, given another chance at love, I will appreciate every single second. I changed because of her leaving but I changed for me. My mind, my heart, and my soul are completely new and I’m grateful for the pain because without it I wouldn’t be the man I am today.

@TheLatinaWitchBruja

Жыл бұрын

Sad, I’m in the same boat. Staying cause I love him but I’ll never forgive and I resent him more and more each year. Cheating is poison to a woman. Never cheat on a woman, “god hath no fury like a woman scorned” sadly. I wish it wasn’t this way, but all actions have consequences. Good luck to you and her

@laralee7769

Жыл бұрын

Very glad you changed. Many people don't

@Demetriana

Жыл бұрын

same here but i was the one cheated on , im staying because i love him and he’s changing but everyday i just lose something

@emfgdr3150

Жыл бұрын

@@Demetriana let your respect for yourself be greater than any feelings of attachment. He doesn’t deserve your love, you do.

@emfgdr3150

Жыл бұрын

@@TheLatinaWitchBruja you don’t deserve that. No man is worth your peace

Keri hilson is stunning

"There is only one woman we will change for" in this context implies that it is okay to cheat until you finally meet a woman that makes you fall in love enough to not cheat on her... That's pathetic and undeserved love and luckily in most cases kharma. This woman you will change for will most likely cheat on you then. Omg i love life :)

Once he cheats on you he will cheat on YOU again. He will not cheat on the one but on you he will do it again he'll just get better at it

They are all famous? I must be under a rock. I have no idea who they are lol

@olgasa6943

4 жыл бұрын

Yes me too

@TheREALSimagination

4 жыл бұрын

Yup. Though people will debate that with "Just because YOU haven't heard of them doesn't mean no-one else has". I share your opinion though.

I don’t t believe once a cheater always a cheater HOWEVER I do believe that immature men cheat!

@justsomelochnessmonsterony8265

4 жыл бұрын

Immature women as well

@makelesinai8482

4 жыл бұрын

Agree

All my exes cheated on me, Yet- I never cheated back- in the end my loyalty buried them 6ft deep, now I’m single & got big ambitions to open my own business

My cousin (who constantly cheated on his wife) pulled me aside at a family reunion and said " I ran the streets but what I was looking for was at home all the time " He realized the good woman he had and didn't want to lose, and stopped cheating. Men CAN change.Once a cheater always a cheater is not true.

@1fromoutside

Жыл бұрын

hope she find someone much better

@user-zp3oz7op6w

Жыл бұрын

He's not worthy of her even if he stopped cheating.

I actually appreciated this forum. I wish more went like this. No arguing, no talking over each other, just a great conversations from different perspectives coming to a common ground even though they don't necessarily agree on everything, good stuff

@bbgelen8047

Жыл бұрын

@TheGerMonkey I have something to share here with u all. I need to know if a man cheats on his wife with a younger girl will he be loyal to his current gf?

@mohamadafham3030

9 ай бұрын

You should see how he reflects on his wrong doings. Take a break from the relationship and see how much he has change just for your relationship. Ask reason why he cheated. Then asked again, does he really not gonna repeat the mistakes. Also, what if he has that urge, would you able to stop him?

Love this Steve. Didn't want it to end. Can you bring these ladies back? Or reassemble, but just like this? Soooo engaging.

3:10 | HARVEY WEINSTEIN, HARVEY WEINSTEIN😂 Lord Jesus I can't Steve

@iamthatiam3652

6 жыл бұрын

Mia Zeppelin 🤣🤣🤣

I firmly believe the way you get them is the way they leave. But I also know first hand that not everyone is honest about that. My ex was still involved with a women who he told me was a crazy ex. Over three years more and more of the truth came out and when I left him I called his “crazy ex” and apologized because I knew what he had told me about her 3 years earlier wasn’t true. Her and I had a great conversation and she was a great support for me during a very hard time in my life. My ex was a narcissist. And sometimes you don’t see the truth until you’ve lived the hell. And I don’t think that all men can change. Some just like being cheating jerks. My ex will be 57 this year. He’s just like his dad, with a rotating door of ex “crazy” girlfriends. The only one who is crazy is him and how he treats women.

@88GmG

6 жыл бұрын

The "crazy ex" is a huuugge red flag . Happened to me and other girls I know.

@MH-yd9he

6 жыл бұрын

88GmG I had never dealt with anyone with a “crazy ex” until I met this man. I know it is a red flag now, I wish I had known earlier so I could have saved myself the heartache.

@88GmG

6 жыл бұрын

Same but now we know. This man was abusive to me but now I can spot abusive/liar/addicted men from miles away. I always said to my friends that a man talking about his exes is a red flag, especially if it's in a negative form like a "crazy ex". One of my friend, her boyfriend was cheating on her with that so called "crazy ex" !!

@dmajor991

6 жыл бұрын

M H Woww 😳, as I’m readin your comment, I’m thinking “this sounds like my ex” and what’s crazy about it , some men will make it seem like “oh yea that’s not my ex , that’s my friend and he/she knows about Us” but in my own experience, every time there was a phone call , the conversation would feel coded Nd on top of that they communicated frequently and he always said “I talked to so and so today” day after day , which almost felt like every day , I never went through his phone to read conversations because I felt I knew what was up already, it was just to much sneakiness goin on and I was not here for it 👎🏾👎🏾

@simonapaslaviciute2790

6 жыл бұрын

M H as

I think if you are cheated on, the most important deciding factor of whether you want to get back or not should be how YOU feel about it. Can you forgive him? Are you willing to contribute to building back up the trust? How much will you be able to trust him after that? Can you get past this and make peace with yourself and your partner? Is working through this painful experience which will be psychologically and emotionally draining for possibly the rest of your relationship worth it to YOU? Or has your trust been broken so badly that you believe you cannot salvage the relationship to a point where YOU will feel comfortable? In that case, it's better to move on.... You just gotta be completely honest with yourself. All that other stuff about whether it's a repeat or not, whether it meant something or not, whether he was drunk or not, why did he do it, was he unhappy etc. None of that matters bc in the end of the day it all comes down to the same thing... he betrayed your trust. Period. Your relationship will never feel as good to you as it was before he betrayed you. You will never feel as safe. Even if he doesn't do it again, you will always wonder....No explanation will ever be enough. It will hurt like hell. Are the remains of that damage worth holding on to and trying to salvage?

@84legit

5 жыл бұрын

Same for a women. Men don’t heal like the ladies do . They done with it all . I’ve seen it many times . They trash all women after that

@skimtz5524

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this❤

You change for the person you CANNOT live without. My boyfriend and I are living proof of this.

@kledhs2890

6 жыл бұрын

Ms. Unique Chellann I'm glad you're in love, I wish you two an amazing life together.

@MsUniqueChellann

6 жыл бұрын

Mia Zeppelin thank you love.

@MsUniqueChellann

6 жыл бұрын

Erin Rockefeller Aldrin it's ok you'll find him/her... It'll hit you when you least expect it...

@victorialozi4955

6 жыл бұрын

Ex-hubby #1 and #2 filed for divorce from me when I started inquiring about having my own business, reestablishing my credit and get my Master's degree in Legal Studies...ex-hub #2 filed after he found out that I could've made a quarter of a million from my catering business alone...succeed on your own terms, a real man will love you and want you to succeed without taking away from you. No more men for me.

@MsUniqueChellann

6 жыл бұрын

victoria Lozi I'm so sorry that those boys couldn't handle your dreams. But there are MEN out there that can not only handle your dreams but help build towards it. I hope you decided to start your business and that you're blessed and prosperous in everything you do.

But keri is slaying

@TheREALSimagination

4 жыл бұрын

Because she's being loud, animated and aggressive?

Set your standards yes! 💝💝💝

I agree with Steve here. Ppl change. But that person has to make the decision to change.

I need Keri's hair!!

@notynoty7526

6 жыл бұрын

please don't.

@redafro7699

6 жыл бұрын

I like it! I like big hair. That is all...

@loyalty773

6 жыл бұрын

Kay You still HERS hahahahah

@jaewunbellz

5 жыл бұрын

No its to much hair for her head

@isntshelovely5823

5 жыл бұрын

You can find it in the 70s

Yes, a man can change. I knew someone who did admitted to cheating on this wife, he made the effort on changing for himself, for his wife, three years later they reconcile, and now they're happily in love all over again. #TrueStory

@mathanagopal71

2 жыл бұрын

True

@Pearl-_Perla

Жыл бұрын

I believe you.

It’s very true! My partner and I met at the absolute worst time in both of our lives.. Ironically we bonded as friends over the fact that neither of us believed we wanted another relationship again! Needless to say, two very passionate people in denial made for a roller coaster of mistakes. He was still casually sleeping with his ex from about 10 years ago, which I knew of, but then when we got more serious, they both began to lie about it.. Cut to a few months later and he was given a major reality check when he was thrown in jail because of a charge he had about 4 years prior! The moment I heard his voice on the phone, I knew everything was different.. He now has a full time job with overtime, he is saving for a home for us, we have pets, we go to family events, he is honestly a new man! And best of all, because of all that we went through in the beginning, I know in my heart that without a doubt, he changed his whole life in order to be enough for me and the family we hope to start someday. Set your standards ladies. Men do not want a woman who is just like all the others. The right one will step up to be with you! Regardless of the unlucky hand he has been dealt in life. And although I feel I am still healing from certain things, I know I have his full support on both the good days and bad. I also know he is more transparent with me than I think he would have been had this not have happened at the beginning. Every cloud has a silver lining!

@cokeezy2you667

2 жыл бұрын

Similar story and I am living my dream life with my forever love... we chose each other to change for...

@TheLatinaWitchBruja

Жыл бұрын

Glad to hear a story of cheating working out in the end.

@amandacowham8465

Жыл бұрын

This is heart warming. I’m currently experiencing this. Although I have forgive him, I am still hurting.

People do change, so it all comes down to the individual person. When I was a young man I used sex as a means to numb my pain from my past, so I cheated on every woman I had a relationship with. Overtime I realized how my actions were effecting people in my life and how everything else was taking a back seat to pursuing a numb state, so I decided to change. I sought out counseling, the lord and looked at how my behavior was hurting others and took responsibility for my mistakes. I successfully stoped being a player and became a man. A man should value a woman. Sex should be reserved for someone you love and that you are committed to. I would never cheat again because I have changed the person I was and became a new version of myself. Once you view your partners beauty based on what's inside, their character and the love you have for each other, physical temptation from another woman would simply be something that you wouldn't even give a second thought to because you know the woman waiting at home has everything you want and need. No other woman could even compare to the way she makes you feel. Unfortunately some people never change and continue their destruction. It has to come from within, not from someone telling you have too.

@Cutiejuliya

4 жыл бұрын

Wow you must be the rarest exception ever. But congratulations on finding that inner peace and thank you so much for writing this. I understand cheating a bit more now and now know with certainty that i can have a without cheating

@kayc.8283

4 жыл бұрын

Respect. You changed for yourself first and not for someone you would've lost. ❤

@petelee2477

4 жыл бұрын

Lol wonder who actually believes this. You know good and well that if someone younger, richer, more attractive, and shared many of your hobbies approached you that you'd abandon your current relationship in a heartbeat.

@kayc.8283

4 жыл бұрын

@@petelee2477 Its only selfish people who think like what you wrote and only use people as a means to fulfill whatever need they have currently. If you could leave someone in a heartbeat for someone better than you never cared or valued the person anyways and you will always live your life chasing something better. you see people as what they can add to your plate until someone else can add more. A sad way to live.

@MrScotty2Hotty28

Жыл бұрын

Literally same. I feel like it takes time and true reflection to recognize WHY one cheats. It's never a surface-level reason. It's always deeper than that and you have to explore it. Only then can you change

Keri seemed really embarrassed when she spilled her drink. Poor thing.

@guru_basketball_kiero

5 жыл бұрын

It happens

@TheREALSimagination

4 жыл бұрын

I can relate.

All of us are not perfect. I agree with Steve 'You can make mistakes, grow from it and learn from it.' Men can really change for one woman when they really love them.

@sakuraogami6885

5 жыл бұрын

If you love them you don't cheat. Duh. Cheating doesn't happen by accident

@8v71buses

5 жыл бұрын

A True Love Official Agreed 💯

@marianyx1161

2 жыл бұрын

agreed, cheating is a choice, not a mistake

@AnnaK-gv3kn

Жыл бұрын

Johnny Cash.

If a man cheats on me once it just won't feel right after that.

Even if someone cheats only once that relationship will be forever tainted.

Latina speaking All Facts . No man cheating on a woman he wants to be with PERIODT if you are the 1 for him there would not be a 2 .

I dont know if a cheater is always a cheater because i never give a cheater a second chance. When a man shows what he is, believe him.

men grow up and men change...lol how many times did steve cheat...

@shieldbrother7425

3 жыл бұрын

Did he not grow up and change?

Steve had a brilliant response to the drink spill. Well done

People can change. But they rarely do.

I’ll be honest I cheated once in my life and I felt extremely guilty 3 relationship later I’ve never cheated on someone but karma did came for me

@nickybukowski9953

Жыл бұрын

How did you deal with it brother? I'm going through the same, it's getting worse..

@roroo

Жыл бұрын

what was your karma?

I absolutely adore you Uncle Steve, I look up to you, I take in everything you say and I agree with all that you say, There is hope that there is some good men out there in the world 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Being faithful is not only a staple in a relationship but a common understanding in how love should work. You love someone. Simple. Love only that person that way.

YES!! I never cheated on the Man I loved... And never will. Cheaters never stop Cheating!

@AnnaK-gv3kn

Жыл бұрын

They don't realize how incredibly stupid they are. The one they cheat the most is themselves.

I really liked that panel the variety and beauty and opinions.

I look foward that men who is changing for me, until this time I will be working on myself and living my best life !

Yassssssssss!!!! Church! I’m with Siggy on this one and some parts of Steve’s commentary!! Good talk though!

Steve has great advice, he's telling it as it is.

*2:57** Water Spills on her* “Are you okay?”😂

Lov the way he is honest and charming

Great point Steve.

My ex boyfriend cheated on me (sexually) with a girl after 4 days of talking to her. He even went into explicit detail like we both had no feelings. I truly feel that cheating is something that’s more mental than anything els and theirs underlying issues that the cheaters have.

Being cheated on is the most disgraceful thing somebody can do to their partner. Unforgivable, unacceptable. I have been cheated on by every woman I have been with. They all say the same thing, "you care more about your job than me". My job is the reason we have all these nice things and pay all the bills while they can buy whatever they want with their own money. I will not let another woman in my life ever again.

@AnnaK-gv3kn

Жыл бұрын

If they all say the same things maybe you have the issues.

I love this panel!!!

Didn’t even watch the video - just saw the title and came to say “YUP!”

It depends on how the guy reflects after he cheated. If he’s saying “oh I did it because she didn’t satisfy me enough” and not being sorry and is finding excuses, then obviously he’s going to do it again. If he’s like “wrong is wrong and I have no excuse for what I did” and he is actively trying to change on that then I’d give him another chance. Everyone makes mistakes but not everyone learn from them.

That guy at 3:15 is clapping like a maniac

@goodpeopleprosper635

5 жыл бұрын

😂🤣

@ogochukwuemmanuel4589

5 жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same thing too then I saw this comment

I just love this ladies, Steve

Kerry is just out here looking beautiful!!!! Shine Kerry! Glowww girl!

Didn't Steve cheat on his previous wives?

@lisasimpson8985

6 жыл бұрын

NYCzora hell yea!

@akstylez_ak5037

6 жыл бұрын

NYCzora If so, I don’t think he has ever referenced himself in the topics at hand, he always deviates by speaking in general as if it is something he heard verse something he did

@earkule

6 жыл бұрын

Well..to be fair he also pointed out that a man is capable of change, and he did turned his life around, let’s not just gloss over it ^^

@TheIceMurder2

6 жыл бұрын

Dude is a hypocrite that dumped his wife to marry his mistress lol.

@jamegumb7298

6 жыл бұрын

RR Revere So he upgraded?

My husband cheated on me, I saw the signs and I knew something was up. Checked his phone bam proof. The texts talking about it. It took him 6 months to stop taking to her, our kids suffered, I was doing nothing but praying. He almost ended his life over it. I forgave him. So far so good going on 1 year without the cheating. I said if he does it again I’m leaving.

@s.a.2896

2 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry to hear that, you are such a strong woman to still be going on. Just wondering if he did it again? Wishing you both and the kids well.

@doybalongo8107

2 жыл бұрын

wow what a strong woman instead blame him for cheating you still hope him to be new man and you prayed him to change that's great rather than blaming him and accusing that he's always a cheater

Thank you . I understand .

You can make mistakes and learn from them and not do them again i agree. But that is only true when it comes to mistakes u did not know were mistakes like baking something on a higher temperature than u should, sunbathing without sunscreen thinking u won't get a sunburn or drinking that fourth drink thinking u will not end up throwing up. Cheating, betraying, lying and hurting your bf's/gf's/spouse's feelings thinking it's not a mistake is inconceivable to me.

@84legit

5 жыл бұрын

Kyle Savage Comment of the century !! It’s bad choices

@sakuraogami6885

5 жыл бұрын

THIS

A man according to this woman will give up everything if he loves a woman if he's really into her but half of the panel Won't Give Up their ex-boyfriend do the math to that

We need to do more shows about women who cheat it always feels like we’re always the victim

"I went to brush the water off and I thought Harvey Weinstein" I'm dead 😂😂😂

I agree to a certain extent. For example, a man in his 30's that is married and has been for 5 years but married his high school sweetheart and still cheating on her is not going to change. Some people never grow out of that. It's just apart of their character and who they are as an individual. I am only 24 and has knowledge on this topic.

if your girl does relationships like jobs? and looks for one while she still has one.. ...be very aware you aren't her last interview, she sees you as a stepping stone, and there is somewhere around zero percent chance that your affection will be reciprocated on anything but a guilt-based level. She probably only likes you for your stuff.

I can agree that people can change but if you are cheated on do not stay with the person because they might change. They didn’t respect you when they cheated and they probably still don’t respect you after.

I'm gonna save this clip. Thanks

Great video content...

Steve should know !

He has to lose something for him to understand that he needs to grow up. We can only wish him the best and hopefully his new girlfriend will meet this full grown man

@ericaj6092

2 жыл бұрын

👏🏾

I love this clip so much! (:

Every man "can" change BUT doesn't mean they will. Most men don't change thus wondering why they single & miserable.

Those stockings and red heels Yaaas

My ex was with my friends. Dated them after our divorce. That's a deal breaker. Not only about of course the divorce but about the friends..because everyone knew about it but me Until I saw them together

I won't wait around to find out.

I love Steve Harvey show ❤️❤️😙😙😙❤️

Even Mr Steve can’t say it publicly that he has never cheated before.

These woman have self respect. I approve

People don't change so easily. Rarely few do. If they did it once they'll do it again. Just heal, forgive and move on.

A man is only as faithful as his opportunities!!!

I hate cheaters!Once a cheater always a cheater so true!

The real question is this: do men forgive female cheaters? The answer is NO. So why do so many women take back men who cheat on them? Have standards IMO.

@ragsrare3771

2 жыл бұрын

Finally someone said, because both society and men tell us that is ok for men to cheat because he can sleep with women without feeling.

Amen Siggy 💯💯💯💯

wish this video made me feel better but instead it just reminds me ill never be enough because i was never enough to change for. my self esteem is just gone