If you want attract a high quality man and inspire his love, devotion and commitment, get my FREE "3 Keys To Attract The Man You Want" report and audio training here: helenahartcoaching.com/

@angeg100

Жыл бұрын

Thank You! Helena. 🧡

I think a guy is stringing me along...i broke contact with him and four month later he got back in touch...nothing has change ....I feel so frustrated about the situation that I'm actually not very nice to him now and all respect has gone and i just resent him..im blocking him from now on...he's a loser

@margaritam.9118

4 жыл бұрын

Amelia I’m in the same situation rn. 2 months of no contact didn’t help, and not initiating didn’t either. He stopped texting me after a day of renewed contact. Like I wasn’t going anywhere.

Thank you. Totally needed to hear this right now with a guy who left me hanging. Moving on. 💪🏼💖

@HelenaHartCoaching

3 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome! This video might also be helpful for future reference: kzread.info/dash/bejne/kZ51tNqknsaXZpM.html

This recently happened to me, unfortunately with online dating I met someone recently. This guy & I exchanged phone numbers over a week ago, we had 4-5 conversations for over 1 hour a piece but he NEVER kept in contact & he NEVER initiated a date/ outing to meet face to face in a public place. My problem with online dating is that there are alot of disingenuous men who aren't consistent, or planning date/ meeting face to face. I took your advice & haven't spoken to him since earlier this week, fall back into my feminine energy 😀.

You have helped me so much... to quit losing my mind 😃 all those things my mom should have taught me, but didn't......

@HelenaHartCoaching

5 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad it’s been helpful for you! 💕

@alexandravtensek1216

5 жыл бұрын

ally wolf my mother didn't teach me either. On her deathbed she said, "You really don't know what men are." Pregnant at 33 with my second child I naively replied, " No mum I don't.". She was a doormat. Now at 49, I know so much more.

Honestly, my new rule going forward is if I have to even ask this question it’s a no for me

@HelenaHartCoaching

Жыл бұрын

Love it, thanks for sharing! 💜

Brilliant! Spot-on and super helpful. Thank you for this excellent video.

@HelenaHartCoaching

2 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome, Christine! ❤️ These videos might also be helpful: kzread.info/dash/bejne/kZ51tNqknsaXZpM.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/Y6OW0cGqhqiveNY.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZKN6qY9rgtKaaLw.html.

@forestsprite11

2 жыл бұрын

@@HelenaHartCoaching, thank you for suggesting these additional 3 videos - I just watched them and found them equally and tremendously helpful. Thank you for the amazing service you provide - you’re truly making a difference in the world.

@HelenaHartCoaching

2 жыл бұрын

I’m so happy to hear that! 💗

Great video Helena. I was strung along for 6 years and wasn't aware of it until I asked for a commitment. This was my second relationship after my 22 year marriage. After watching your videos I understand terms such as breadcrumbing, investing and ghosting.

@HelenaHartCoaching

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you, I'm glad they've helped you gain some clarity!

@nena8785

Жыл бұрын

What were the signs?

Thank you Helena! Not waiting around for these busy, good men. It's a relief for me to keep the focus on my energy things, as sad as it is that he's not pursuing, helps me not worry. (Every word is great here.)

@kalenerdy3160

5 жыл бұрын

When i do not initiate, i don't hear from them for days. But when they do contact, it's gung ho.

@HelenaHartCoaching

5 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome!

Helena, can you do a video for women who are tired of attracting the same alcoholic or "non-available"/"broken" men and how to feel good enough for a man that is not broken?

@HelenaHartCoaching

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Erin, this video would be a good place to start: kzread.info/dash/bejne/m5d3ubqcnrS_nbA.html. I also hosted a free training on that topic, you can listen to it here: helenahartcoaching.com/stop-attracting-the-wrong-men-so-you-can-attract-the-right-one/

Best way to not invest too much in a potential time waster-don't close off the rest of the men in your rotation until he asks you to be in an exclusive relationship, introduced you to close friends AND is ready to post you onto his social media and let's you tag him in yours or even sleep with him. Until then your happily single and are more than happy to let willing single suitors compete for your time, femininity and attention

@HelenaHartCoaching

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing your insights here! 💞

@YouTubeUzername

4 ай бұрын

This!!! This is excellent advice and very true!

I’ve been talking to and have gone on several dates with this guy. I never imitate conversations and I don’t ask him out. I brought up the consistency because he has time for everything else but me and he said he was busy with his new job yada yada so I told him I understand and that we could just be friends. He still wanted to text everyday and date when we could. I don’t know what he’s doing and it’s completely frustrating. I have decided to move along with other interests from guys who know what they want. He still texts me daily and I have no idea what his intentions are and if I just need to tell him to leave me alone.

@HelenaHartCoaching

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing your experience here! I talk more about this type of man and dynamic in these videos: kzread.info/dash/bejne/loCelcGtodepndI.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/kXhnmaOJd7LfaLw.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZKN6qY9rgtKaaLw.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYuGrsqTeq7cqrg.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/kZ51tNqknsaXZpM.html, kzread.info/dash/bejne/mK6tzK-lf6eZn8Y.html, kzread.infozKEos5BY2nA?feature=share and kzread.infoDdKuS6cineY?feature=share.

Helena, what does it mean when I get negativity triggered by a masculine man? Everytime I am around a powerful man I feel nervous and a little scared sometimes. How can I overcome this? I am attracted to protector type of man but I do feel this fear? I lose myself almost can’t talk around them

What to do if you want something serious and he just doesn't anymore.. It just turned off for him... Anything you can do or just walk away. Thanks

@jessilyntacorda9469

4 жыл бұрын

Learn, grow Sing Did you walk away?

@tg9898

3 жыл бұрын

@Learn, grow Sing...how did it turn out?

What if it’s ldr & he texts me every morning or text other times later in the day? I did initiate if we could talk on the phone & he was very willing. We talked about meeting but he said on a neutral ground first. Recently he did say he doesn’t want to rush in like moving in together. We have been texting for over a month in a half

@HelenaHartCoaching

2 жыл бұрын

I always say it’s not “real” until you’ve actually met in person and he’s showing you with his consistent ACTIONS that he’s serious about moving things forward. That being said, these videos might be helpful if you’re long distance right now: kzread.info/dash/bejne/lGqtt8mKc9fYqqg.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/kYahlcSiYae0hJs.html.

@scorpiosag5902

2 жыл бұрын

@@HelenaHartCoaching -Thank you for this reply!!! This was extremely helpful!!!

@HelenaHartCoaching

2 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome! 💕

What should I do if he's just stringing with me?

@kaoshi_kutie

4 жыл бұрын

Drop him! But address him first. He isn't worth it x

What if he's initiating contact? But not making any plans, just sending morning text msgs? How do we respond? I've said many times this isn't what I want and he keeps sending morning text msgs....nothing else.....😥😥😥

@patriciaearley4177

4 жыл бұрын

Negrita 305,If he texts you just good morning just respond with the same,or sometimes not at all.When he text you,how are you,ect.You text back Fine,I'm busy being productive,hope you are too,or have a great day.You can switch it up don't say the same thing every time. Next time you can say,I'm going out for Lunch/dinner,meeting friends or busy doing something else.From now on you're going to be busy and he has to work hard to get on your calendar.If that doesn't work after awhile he's either lazy,bored or doesn't really want to meet you.Good luck🍀

I’ve had enough dating experience to know all the classic signs that a guy is stringing me along, but it seems to be entirely different circumstances with the current guy I’m seeing. I knew him from work before we started dating (he no longer works there) and we’ve been seeing each other about once a week for the past month. We’ve had an amazing time every time we’ve gotten together and there seems to be such a strong connection between us. He hasn’t said anything about being too busy or not wanting a relationship. He says he’s very introverted, so he keeps saying he wants to see me, but then he’ll decide he wants to be alone the day of instead of hang out with me. I think it may be anxiety or depression, or both, as well. He suggests getting together and then he’ll message me (without me having to ask first) that he isn’t feeling up to having company that day. He did tell me his desire to be alone is not personal. His step brother died right before Christmas this year and he said they were close, so I suspect it may be grief making his anxiety and depression worse. He also works for the federal government, so he hasn’t been getting a paycheck for the past month due to the government shutdown. So, I’m wondering if I’m just being naive or gullible thinking the circumstances are different with this guy, or can serious issues like depression and anxiety (or maybe even bipolar disorder) make a situation like this entirely different from the typical guy stringing a girl along scenario? Having major issues with depression and anxiety myself, I think it does. Anyone else have a similar experience to this?

@HelenaHartCoaching

5 жыл бұрын

These videos might be helpful for your situation (especially the first one, I'd love to hear your thoughts on them!): kzread.info/dash/bejne/Yqah19Wjm6uTnJM.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/mqx4lbqRnLq1dZc.html.

@lizsimone706

5 жыл бұрын

Helena Hart Thank you so much! I will check out the videos and then get back to you with my thoughts...

@HelenaHartCoaching

5 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome! 💕

Helena can you do the video u mentioned for if you are exclusive with the man already. He has said he “loved” me already.. I do care for him, but I def need to lean back. Im just trying to figure out what to do with him at this point. We had a falling out of sorts when I found him messaging other women on facebook. However I forgave him because nothing physical became of it and we agreed to try to work on things. A few weeks later he became distant and said he wasn’t happy. So I packed my stuff and left. I have asked where we stand because im just lingering now. He didnt give me closure. He says he still cares about me and loves me. I am being stung along. I just don’t know if I give myself closure and delete him from life or just be patient and lean back. If I do lean back, does this mean I can see other people? I dont know what to do in this messy situation.

@HelenaHartCoaching

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Crystal, even though it’s not your exact situation, the options I lay out in this video might help give you some clarity on what to do next: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hpyF2ZZ-pMyqqpc.html

This one guy is crushing on me but he says he works alot and only text me mornings and night then I wait 7+ hours for him to message me again...I think I'm going to drop him next time he messages me I'm going to ignore him I deserve better. 😊

@HelenaHartCoaching

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing your experience here! These videos should be helpful going forward: kzread.info/dash/bejne/kZ51tNqknsaXZpM.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/qmytrcOQfsfXZ8o.html.

@bebmckenzie3549

3 жыл бұрын

madam, do not be deceived , there are high chances he his cheating on you, you need to contact blonde_hacker_ on ig to know if he his cheating on you

Yes, please do a video for those of us in an exclusive relationship. Im in a good relationship, he makes me a priority, but it’s been a year and he hasn’t moved things along in the same way id hope... He talks about the future with me and wants me to move in with him, but I’m not sure that’s a good idea without at least being engaged. He thinks it’s some kind of step toward the future or perhaps trial run, but I don’t want to move in and then find myself wishing for a greater commitment years down the road.

@HelenaHartCoaching

3 жыл бұрын

I’ll definitely keep this in mind for future video topics! In the meantime, this one might be helpful for your situation: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eoaqrKeDZtzNdZs.html

@melissajohnson7252

3 жыл бұрын

Similar situation. Talks future but nothing has progressed.

Hi Helena, I’m serious with the guy, what video would you suggest or tips on how to deal with it? He works allot so I’m sure he is busy, buts he’s also just keeping us in the same place. I lean back, he initiates but not moving the relationship forward. He’s happy with how things are - dating 9 months.

@kristym332

4 жыл бұрын

I relate so much to this girl!!

@jenniffer86

4 жыл бұрын

@@kristym332 He's my boyfriend now, we just celebrated our 1 yr anniversary :) It will all work out if it's meant to!

Do you have a video for women in a committed relationship related to this topic?

@HelenaHartCoaching

4 жыл бұрын

Hi Evelyn, if you can give me some details about your situation I’ll see if I have a video that could help. 🧡

@evelyncaday9845

4 жыл бұрын

@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you for your response! I've been with my bf for 2 1/2 years. My bf and i have been having arguments in our relationship but to me, it's more about how I feel loved and i am trying to learn to fill my cup. A week ago, we got into an argument that led to something much deeper and somehow it triggered him to completely lose it and he broke down. Long story short, the series of events leads to this day. I asked him, i love being in a loving and caring relationship with you, and i am unsure where our relationship is going, can you give me more clarity? And he said i don't know. I know we talk about being in our feminine energy and i am definitely giving him space and focusing more on me. What do i do or what videos would you recommend me to watch? Thank you!

@HelenaHartCoaching

4 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome! Is it the arguing that you need the most help with? If it is, this video should be really helpful (I’d love to hear your thoughts on it if it applies to your situation!): kzread.info/dash/bejne/fqV6krOzj9G6g7g.html. This one should DEFINITELY help too in general: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pXlqrthyp7GWcrA.html.

@evelyncaday9845

4 жыл бұрын

@@HelenaHartCoachingi appreciate your feedback! I'll look into it and will let you know

He has told me 4 times now that we need to have a long talk or discussion with me yet he has not come forward to tell me what is on his mind. I am assuming the worst

If he doesn’t want to be in your schedule move on and work on yourself.

@HelenaHartCoaching

4 жыл бұрын

I agree!

Thank you for this. This is our second time around. He says he can't be rushed due to a nasty divorce but I had to tell him, I'm attractive, young and unmarried and can't wait around for your healing especially if you're back in the dating game!' He does visit and doesn't pressure for sexual advances but I'm not a fly under the radar girl at all.

@HelenaHartCoaching

3 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome! Thanks for sharing your experience here. 💜

Do guys play long mind games sometimes? I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months. He is a Muslim but doesn't follow the rules... he asked if I would convert and expects me to follow the rules but he doesn't himself

@HelenaHartCoaching

2 жыл бұрын

The right man definitely won’t ever play mind games, in my opinion. 💜

I’m in an exclusive relationship for 6 months now, but I still find he isn’t putting as much effort as I would like him to. With this covid pandemic it is hard to know when or how to spend time together. He also owns his own business so is always stressed and busy with work lately. Do you have any videos on if your man is stringing you along if you are in a exclusive relationship? Or would you ever do a video on it. I really need to work on taking a step back and finding my feminine energy. Thanks!

@HelenaHartCoaching

4 жыл бұрын

Hi Kristy, these two videos might be helpful for your situation: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aY15lLaGdJa3Yaw.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/qHmetJWhYtGoerw.html.

@tg9898

3 жыл бұрын

@Kristy M I feel same at the minute. Hope your relationship is now improving and meeting your needs

I thought my man was good about me. Then, when I ask him about me coming to see him in his state. He tells me that I can come for myself because he wants to come to see me in my state first. I waa shocked at his response. It's like at first he was the one that wanted me to come see him first. Now, he acts like if I come, don't come for him but for myself. We had 2 arguments so far. The 2nd arguments he refused to forgive me. He told me that he already forgive me once. So, what do you think? Do you think he is losing interest in me? What should I do?

@HelenaHartCoaching

3 жыл бұрын

These sound like red flags to me. Have you met this man in person yet?

I dated a guy in the past, we dated off and on for about 3 years. The last time we dated was a little over 2 years ago. We've emotionally hurt each other but remained friends. We text back and fourth. We've been flirting and have been intimate. It's been hot and cold. I'm not sure if he's looking to get back together.. What should I do?

@HelenaHartCoaching

4 жыл бұрын

If what you want is to get back together, I'd make sure to get that clarity (to make sure that's what HE wants too) before being intimate with him again.

I'm in that exclusive relationship you mentioned, can you do a video about this situation for a couple?

@HelenaHartCoaching

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Silvia, what specifically would be helpful - is he not making you a priority, or are things not moving towards the commitment you want (or something else entirely)?

Very good! :-)

@HelenaHartCoaching

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@kalenerdy3160

5 жыл бұрын

mdmmalou your "m" looks just like an M&M, plain!

@mdmmalou

5 жыл бұрын

K ALen. In French mdm means "madame" So behave youself! Haha

Maybe it has to do with the pandemic (COVID-19). Did you ever think about that, people? 😥 Ps. That doesn't mean I'm NOT into her, because... I'm definitely am! The question is... Is she into me! Man, I HOPE so 😎

@HelenaHartCoaching

3 жыл бұрын

If you look at the date on this, I posted it over two years ago long before Covid was a factor. I hope she’s into you too, good luck!

😢😢😢

Morning helena, I've commented on a few of your videos, I find them helpful. I'm dating a guy who is extremely busy, restaurant, 4yr old child, masters degree. We text everyday, we have had lots of great dates, he drives a 3hr round trip to take me out, although due to lockdown restrictions we havent been out in a month. We talk on the phone once a week. I often feel it's me that initiates by text but then if I go quiet, cos I'm busy, he will text to make sure I'm okay. I'm really down and stressed at the minute due to a work situation, I'm thinking maybe this is why I'm feeling unsure about our connection. I've tried meditation but it doesnt work for me

@HelenaHartCoaching

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing your experience here. I’m don’t know how long you’ve been dating this man, but only talking on the phone once a week (especially when you haven’t seen him in a month) isn’t much. I can see why you’re feeling unsure. 💜

@tg9898

3 жыл бұрын

@@HelenaHartCoaching thankyou for replying and I think I explained it wrong. We havent been out for a month, we saw each other 10days ago and speak on phone once per week. He is extremely busy, thecovid 19 situation is flattening his business. I think as I have health issues at the moment I may be feeling low and wanting more when it's not a good time. Again thanks for your reply xxxx

@tg9898

3 жыл бұрын

@@HelenaHartCoaching I've decided to walk away. Been doing a lot of work on myself and as much as I'm hurting over my decision I now know it's the right one. After a lot of soul searching and reading I realise hes stringing me along

@HelenaHartCoaching

3 жыл бұрын

@@tg9898 I’m glad you took a stand for what you truly want and deserve, much love to you. ❤️

@tg9898

3 жыл бұрын

, I need your advice if u cud help. I wanted to walk away, for many reasons but we talked and we got back on track . We are in a month long lockdown now in the uk and I'm struggling a bit. I'm isolated an not in work at the moment due to health issues. My guy and I live 3hr round trip apart and due to the lockdown we cant meet up, he has his 4year old and elderly relatives to look after plus trying to keep his business afloat during lockdown. Would I appear weak to him if I let him know I am struggling a bit, i dont want to add to his burdens, but I need a little bit more communication from him at this time. Will I appear needy?

After two weeks I'd asked the guy if he's stringing me along and this was his response: [06/08 10:30]: Hi . I am sorry I didn't tell you nothing these days but I had a really busy weeks [06/08 10:31] : Of course you didn't dissappoint me [06/08 10:32] : I was expecting to have some free time to go to meet you i but unfortunatelly I couldn't [06/08 10:33]: But I would love to. So according to his response I want to know do you think he's actually busy or just stringing me along? Thanks a lot.

@HelenaHartCoaching

5 жыл бұрын

Is he actively making plans now to see you?

@rhg624

5 жыл бұрын

Still not yet.

@rhg624

5 жыл бұрын

@@HelenaHartCoachingHe'd sent me this msg on the 10th. Yet he still didn't tell me anything of meeting up still. [10/08 13:20] : Hi! How is your weekend going ? [10/08 13:20] : I came to Spain for the weekend, to see my mother and visit my house [10/08 13:20] : Monday I am returning! [10/08 13:21]: This is my court's house [10/08 13:32] : Would you like to visit it?😉