His music career is the best revenge ❤❤

"Deep down she loves you" my fav line contradicted by every action she took

@howitworksforme

13 күн бұрын

Oh, that is a good one!

@maureenlaneski2802

13 күн бұрын

They will be known by their fruits (actions, not kids 😂).

@SuzannaLiessa

13 күн бұрын

She's more than welcome to bring it a little further up.

@abstract3213

13 күн бұрын

Yes! I've also heard "Mummy has a good soul beneath it" and "No parent hates their child", even though they clearly showed signs of despise and hatered...and authors like Winnicot and others have written about mother's hatered of children. Some people have romanticized view of parents and put them on a pedestal.

@corylcreates

13 күн бұрын

Ding ding ding. Absolutely.

Your song really summed up the absurdity of people thinking greeting card sentimentality will straighten out our thinking.

@javadivawithdog

12 күн бұрын

Lol for reals

That singing voice somehow perfectly catches how off tune these comments are to someone who's been through it

@MicahAngelOfficial

13 күн бұрын

Bingo! 💫

@hannahpaul1988

13 күн бұрын

Exactly this. Brilliant juxtaposition! 👏😂

🤣 oh don’t forgot the classic “you only get one mom/dad” 🙄

@jenni4claire

14 күн бұрын

I always answer that with 'thank god'

@courtneyisaseagull

14 күн бұрын

​@@jenni4claireSeriously!!

@chriscohlmeyer4735

14 күн бұрын

🤣 my response, no I had two moms and three dads 🫨 my birth dad, mom and dad from my friends family that took me in as an 18 year old drug addict wanting to get clean and my "in-law" mom and dad.😊 Eight brothers and two sisters too 🤣

@janebethsharon

13 күн бұрын

It was my narcissistic, toxic psychiatrist who told me that and forced the expectation that I must maintain some kind of relationship with her. Same with the therapist I was seeing at the time of her death, " Oh, I'm sure you have inherited many good qualities of hers." What?? At the time, I was unable to make a case for that not being the case. Thank goodness for people like Patrick who post such highly educational material on the dynamics of abuse. I wasted a lot of time with really bad therapists.

@abstract3213

13 күн бұрын

Also, " I can do/say anything cuz I'm your mother". Wow what a flawed logic. Well then, by that logic, I can kill you and you still have to trust that I love you, CUZ I am your kid...

My mom said “just wait till your kids do it to you” when I went no contact. Unfortunately for her it doesn’t have the effect she wanted, the guilt she wanted from me, because I know I’m not her. My kids mean the world to me.

@WillFast140

14 күн бұрын

The difference for me is, if my daughter grew up and went no contact, I would do everything in my power to understand how I wronged her and do everything I could to make amends, no matter how long it took. My mom just… didn’t even bother. Doesn’t seem to care that much. Didn’t even notice I had gone no contact for more than 5 months

@truewantsaband

14 күн бұрын

Exactly!!! You know you’re better!!

@msdemeanour

14 күн бұрын

​@@WillFast140same with mine, says she loves me soooo much, but calls once in 2yrs, only to make me feel suicidal... So loving.

@WillFast140

13 күн бұрын

@@msdemeanour love is action, not words, I always say

@abstract3213

13 күн бұрын

Same line, that's classic. I'd always think, well, I'm not gonna abuse and put down my children.

😂 thank you!!! as always, for validating us with this invalidation jam 😅

@lizwilliamson8332

12 күн бұрын

The invalidation jam 😂

that running man was gold standard!

@Ewa19750928

14 күн бұрын

The first running cracks the system :) :) :)

Yep. And those same folks should just save everyone time by saying, "I don't really care but I want to hear myself offer heartfelt 'advice' so I can feel good." 🙄

In Al Anon they recommend for people who take such BS into their heart and believe it, to imagine that the person saying this is talking from the window of a mental hospital. It does help me to release the tension.

@buffalobill2874

14 күн бұрын

It's an olden days mental hospital where you are allowed to laugh at the misfortune of those afflicted with the condition.

For twenty-one years, these were the things I'd hear when new people inquired about my family. My mother struggled with untreated PTSD, likely autism misdiagnosed as schizophrenia, and severe substance abuse issues my entire childhood. She was a cult of personality though, because protecting myself from her abuse meant being shunned by the rest of my family. She died this year

@listentotheanimalscreamsha1511

14 күн бұрын

Digital hugs hope your're doing well keep your head up.

@janicamendenhall1489

13 күн бұрын

Looking back now, if you were a peer of your mothers, what steps would you suggest for her to get help to make changes? I fear I am similar to your description of your mother. But I'm being made aware of the unintentional damage I am doing to my own kids. Due to the(I hope) un intentional damage/trauma of my parents.

This is hilarious! I hope there's a Your Mom tour in the future.

It's the dancing for me...

@amarbyrd2520

13 күн бұрын

The Patrick Teahan rendition of the Running Man is *everything*

You forgot the 1 where "you need to do whatever for them cause they won't always be around ". No contact was the best decision I made. Unfortunately my children got caught up in the mess so I don't see them either. Their choice when they listened to the narc sister.

This brought a smile to my face and even laughter! 😂 Just amazing Patrick. I loved you on the drums and guitar but your dancing stole my heart. 😂❤

What a delight for the senses 🤣

"Just wait until your children do it to you." One of them cut me off, and thank goodness, because that meant I only had to cut off two. And thank goodness for the s**t my daughter pulled, because I wouldn't have realized she was actively abusing, or that the whole family was scapegoating me. I grieve, but mostly I grieve for the family I thought I had, and I grieve because my children did not hesitate to believe that i had done something that, as one of them said, went completely against everything i believe.

I tell myself this stuff. Then I think about how it would feel if I did those things to a little kid, and I feel revoltingly disgusted by the action and infuriatingly angry by whoever did it and so mournful thinking about the child and how it affected them. Then I remember they did that to me and didn’t feel those things.

Nailed it!

I love these videos you put out. I'm so glad you were able to heal enough that your creativity is flowing. I get hope and inspiration from your channel ❤️😎

You really are helpful in healing! Your Running Man is priceless! Heck yeah

The kazoo was a nice touch!

Amazing!! Love!! Please do more, I love that you're the entire band

I needed this.🎉 😢 🎉

Back for that "no doubt about it WOOOOOooooo!" Love it thanks for the smiles Patrick

Nailed it Mr. Patrick. I thought for a minute you were going to break dance spin on your back 😅I also got “Just bc I don’t like you doesn’t mean I don’t love you”! And “here we go around & around”! “Why are you always To Much”!

Haha that little step in place shuffle dance

This slaps harder than my dad

@WillFast140

14 күн бұрын

Funny, and sadly relatable 🥲

Haha 😂! Too funny and so fantastically sarcastic. Screw the “invalidators!”

B AHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA!!!! THANK YOU!!! This is universal for sure.

I love this! Patrick, you're awesome.

"She just loves you in her own way" "She could be hit by a bus tomorrow, you don't know how much time you have left with her" "Be careful or your kids will treat you the same way" "God is watching and you're not honouring your parents"

Kick ass you rocked it and Yepp that’s how it feels

I've heard some of these statements from people in the past. I like this video. Thanks for sharing Patrick.

"Family is everything" -- that one took a while for me to debunk in my mind. But I did it. 😀😀😀

Coolest therapist ever! 👏👏👏 Encore!! Encore!!

They burned their mom and dad cards when they abused me. I don’t owe them anything. But I’m glad not everyone understands that, cuz maybe they had real parents.

@rachelstanger6079

12 күн бұрын

My theory is that people who don't understand were abused themselves and turned into enablers and/or abusers. Because it takes a severe and deliberate lack of empathy to listen to facts about horrific child abuse and then defend and deny on behalf of people you've never met to the face of the child who just told you they hurt them. And lack of empathy is something that I don't think someone raised by loving parents would have - especially when my Dad's defining characteristic was lack of empathy.

I just went no contact with someone who is a narcissist, gaslighting, button pushing, control freak, ass!!! In one of the phone calls, I said, "I'm not that person anymore. You'll never going to treat me like this again! I still have yet to cry an 18-year friendship gone, I told them this is your fault. You just can't seem to keep your mouth shut. OVER!!! I wouldn't have the tools I have so far without this channel. Thank you again, Patrick. I wouldn't have the ovaries to stand up and say, "NO MORE," and stick to it. I'm a bit aggressive these days. My voice was smashed as a kid, and omg, she's here. I feel that at times, I'm picking up the past and using today's voice to get through. SUPRISE!!!

You are actually very talented Doctor Patrick

Thank you Patrick. These are so relatable. And how is it that hearing the invalidation I've heard so often can bring a smile to my face when you put it to music like this. You're a genius.

Omg that was hilarious - the story of my life 😂🤣😂 That’s made me laugh so much 👍😁 Thank you Patrick! ❤

Best song ever 😂❤❤👍👍 Thank you

Remember that your parents talk to you like their parents talk to them like their parents talk to them

@abstract3213

13 күн бұрын

It's their responsibility to resolve their shit!

@jenster29

12 күн бұрын

But we don't talk to our kids like that. We broke the cycle, they didn't which fine, I get it. Mine were very young having us (started at 19/20 yrs old and had 5 kids) But they're mid 60s now and OWN NOTHING they said or did even when we were all adults.

@unoffendable3496

12 күн бұрын

@@jenster29 are you taking this personally?

I’ve watched this about 5 times and it’s still making me laugh 😂 the dancing is the icing on the cake 🤣

Love this!

You look like Sean Penn with those sunnies! Love the slo mo floss 😆 🙌 How serendipitous that I should hear this just while drafting a msg to my overly controlling mother who I have been on the verge of no contact for five months. Thank youuuuuu!

I get screamed at. You're song is great! Too nice for my "mother".

LOVE. IT. THANKS!

God, I love that t-pain auto tune.

Yes! Great video!

I want a response music video... like a response video with literal responses to shut those comments down. My trusty standby is a chilly, "Not all families are safe." The buttinskies are thrown off their game, sense the dangerous waters, and scurry backwards out of that conversation they never intended to have. LOL

Shout out to my "mom" for going no contact with me when I asked her to go to therapy! (Then proceeded to break into my house, come to my place of work crying, bang on my door demanding to speak with me, and only left me alone after I had my husband talk to her. Couldn't listen to me or my boundaries down to our last interaction.)

DYING RN!!! 🤣🤣🤣💜 This made my day!

Fabulous❤

The dancing!🕺 ❤☺️

“well they raised your brother and not you so he’s their kid and not you.” …said a past former friend. 😔

Love you!!!!! great playful music and dance

If my child grew up and spoke of me the way I speak of my parents, I would feel like I had failed as a parent.

@abstract3213

13 күн бұрын

Exactly! 💯

A BANGER

What's worse is when your mom, who also suffered from your covert narcissistic dad, thinks that i shouldn't do no contact because "he's still your dad." Meanwhile, she can go no contact with the divorce, but I'm still made to pay for her choice of a life partner and father of her child because "he's still your dad." Yea, okay, mom. 🙄🤦‍♀️

@jenster29

12 күн бұрын

Omg my dad does the EXACT same thing with narc Egg Donor. He won't talk to her since divorce but expects me to 😂

@kaiulani3793

12 күн бұрын

@@jenster29 We're really just the buffer between them anyways 🙄😆

That was great, thank you! 😂😂❤❤

i love this 😭😂

OMG! So funny! And I have been unconscious enough to have said stuff like this. Gawd. Thanks for your funniness and music. Healing needs more humor (and rock stars).

Indeed but very hard when you know some ugly bad seed/s infected you too. Now you don’t know what to do where to go as everyone has gone or you’ve given up on those who keep you stuck. Thanks 💙👊

Phenomenal! 🎉😂 on point.

Bravo 👏 😂 spot on 👌

Hate it sooomuch Perfectly unperfect sound for this kind of shit. 😂 Thank you, now I will hear it ghis way any time they say it

This is perfection! Thank you ❤

Can I please have your autograph I havent fuckfinf laughed in weeks😂 this triggered a new kind of mental breakdown

It's a banger move over Kendrick you about to lose your top spot.

I love this 😂❤

Perfect!

Thank you for making my day 😂❤

Oh and, it's reassuring to know you won't be quitting your day job any time soon ❤😂🎉

Love your work 😍

Yas Patrick slay

Nailled it !!!

Hilarious 😂😂

Ah yes. The Family Mythology put to music. If I had a kid who was vowing at age 8 that he would never do to his own kids what was done to him? I would feel bad…and deservedly so. Part of why I fought so hard to get better is BECAUSE I didn’t want to pass the misery on to others.

My Mom said she would go to brother-in-laws Dad's funeral...now she's changed her mind

Excellent!

Woooo!🎉

Nup. Not going in my play list 😂. Love you bro 🤍🙏

❤🎉 oh me oh my spot on

This is sooo bad it's good.

You're goofy in the best way.

Wow, 😊

Busss it patrick!!!

😂👍

I love you so much 😅

Ha yup!!!!

Yeeee!

10/10 😂👌🏽

This is soooooo perfect 😂❤️

Patrick and Hannibal Burress need to do an autotune duet

Your very childlike I think that inner child needs healing to catch up with the fact that you're an adult now. I don't think he s found his way there yet........

This is great hahahaha thanks for this

talk it through 🤣🤣🤣 You can have them lmao! Try talking it out urself!!

Lollllll great moves! 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

Never mind what he's singing. I'm focusing on his musical talent 😅 so cool