Introducing Cats to Each Other

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  • @DieFlabbergast
    @DieFlabbergast8 жыл бұрын

    This is more complicated than US-Soviet diplomacy during the Cold War!

  • @miamartin2561

    @miamartin2561

    7 жыл бұрын

    ahaha

  • @Lfg46

    @Lfg46

    7 жыл бұрын

    lol very true but its worth it in the long run

  • @Mohamedmifxal

    @Mohamedmifxal

    7 жыл бұрын

    DieFlabbergast just get two playful kittens, they will grow into buddies. less work

  • @nasher3dartist142

    @nasher3dartist142

    6 жыл бұрын

    DieFlabbergast use my Israel_ palestine way: some whip lashes would help u great deal but not more than 4 lashes for its lifetime with great supervision and kindness! then don't try to bend the cat to be a thinking human diplomatic delegate, just help it to cool down its wild instincts

  • @evahometx100

    @evahometx100

    5 жыл бұрын

    Funny lol.... but I like the door stopper idea. Your comment makes me smile every time I see it lol.

  • @derfo2072
    @derfo20726 жыл бұрын

    ...I should probably just get my new cat his own apartment.

  • @sakurayasuda7365

    @sakurayasuda7365

    5 жыл бұрын

    derfo20 Lol I have a whole bunk bed for my cat

  • @narcbegone1507

    @narcbegone1507

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'd like to be your cat lol

  • @walterlongiii1633

    @walterlongiii1633

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol!

  • @mair8728

    @mair8728

    4 жыл бұрын

    Haha, lol.

  • @martinycocktail2021

    @martinycocktail2021

    4 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🐱🐱🐱❤

  • @wakaneut
    @wakaneut5 жыл бұрын

    It’s day 438, I think I am ready for step 5.

  • @soggysandwich9802

    @soggysandwich9802

    3 жыл бұрын

    Please be kidding

  • @rose...08

    @rose...08

    2 жыл бұрын

    So do they get along yet

  • @Itachi-sg3rm

    @Itachi-sg3rm

    2 жыл бұрын

    Did u finish yet

  • @rifkamr6463

    @rifkamr6463

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bro these step how many time we must do is it per a day or every day

  • @angelinajoanie

    @angelinajoanie

    Жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @BrianStaruk
    @BrianStaruk4 жыл бұрын

    Never thought I'd hear the term "social distance" in a video from 2013!

  • @thelovelyhobojackie

    @thelovelyhobojackie

    3 жыл бұрын

    same lol

  • @eliananyanya

    @eliananyanya

    3 жыл бұрын

    I had flashbacks to 2020.

  • @Mckmo_1322

    @Mckmo_1322

    2 жыл бұрын

    What’s even scarier is this comment was a year ago

  • @nikhiljoshi421

    @nikhiljoshi421

    2 жыл бұрын

    Aged like wine.

  • @tinytron

    @tinytron

    10 ай бұрын

    social distance is not some new term r yall ok

  • @eternal_seokjin7441
    @eternal_seokjin74413 жыл бұрын

    This is why I plan to go to animal shelter and ask for "who here are close friends?" and adopt them at the same time.

  • @stryder99

    @stryder99

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, I wish we had done that.

  • @shanellecarlson9499

    @shanellecarlson9499

    3 жыл бұрын

    Excellent idea!

  • @lifeisbutadream3598

    @lifeisbutadream3598

    2 жыл бұрын

    Or both kittens from the same litter.

  • @nicoledlugopolski4621

    @nicoledlugopolski4621

    11 ай бұрын

    i rescued two kittens together who were brothers and its been great but i just moved back in with my dad and im working on introducing my older female cat to the two boys and its really hard. she hates other cats but likes people and for the boys we havent seen what theyre like around other cats than each other so its unknown terrain. they already fought and hissed a couple times bc we couldnt keep them locked up in the rooms so i hope that didnt backtrack any progress i made from the past two weeks. im in it for the long haul now

  • @SuzetteG316

    @SuzetteG316

    9 ай бұрын

    Yeah, that is great, but this video is for those of us who already have one or more resident cats and are bringing someone new into the family.

  • @yuurihitshard
    @yuurihitshard5 жыл бұрын

    This made me give up on becoming a crazy cat lady.

  • @joannej_Youtube

    @joannej_Youtube

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @roseandstem8054

    @roseandstem8054

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's a real goal of mine too lol

  • @TayraDeTeppei

    @TayraDeTeppei

    3 жыл бұрын

    Get them all from the same rescue place xD

  • @cherieleeishere

    @cherieleeishere

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@TayraDeTeppei mine are brothers from the same litter and after one had an operation they went from living each other to hissing and hating each other....I'm on day 14 of reintroduced 😢

  • @AZ-kc9bk

    @AZ-kc9bk

    Жыл бұрын

    @@cherieleeishere Hope it's going well for you

  • @annesofiesoeby
    @annesofiesoeby3 жыл бұрын

    “Social distance” hurt my soul hearing in 2020 😭

  • @computersales
    @computersales10 ай бұрын

    I think the most important thing that was left out in these steps is being calm and confident throughout the process. The direct exposure step is the scariest of them all sometimes.

  • @michellecalling
    @michellecalling6 жыл бұрын

    We need to apply some of these techniques for people too.

  • @notcorrect5744

    @notcorrect5744

    3 жыл бұрын

    LMAO

  • @shanellecarlson9499

    @shanellecarlson9499

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agree 💯

  • @unapologeticella4540

    @unapologeticella4540

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lmao😂😂😂😂😂

  • @deonruck8960

    @deonruck8960

    3 ай бұрын

    LOL

  • @kittykat4302
    @kittykat43028 жыл бұрын

    It took 8 months for my cats to get along. They both sleep on my bed. I have individual food bowls for them and waters and kitty litters. My boy cat is a nice cat and the girl cat (the newer cat) is a fussy cat. I had them in separate rooms for a long time and then fed them at the same time and tried to play with them at the same time. I thought they would never get along. It was tough but worth it. Don't give up..

  • @Anthroid9

    @Anthroid9

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s me rifht now…. It’s so difficult

  • @A.secretOrganization

    @A.secretOrganization

    11 ай бұрын

    Brooo, mine too LOL It's been a decades since I've gotten the new one(Female)

  • @crBudgetWatches

    @crBudgetWatches

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@Anthroid9how's it going? Just a month into this and I am going crazy.

  • @LePetitChatNoir79

    @LePetitChatNoir79

    9 ай бұрын

    This gave me hope. It’s been 4 months and my new cat refuses to get along with my other two. I still have them separated unless I’m constantly watching them. It’s a little better than it used to be at least, but it seems like they’ll never fully get along. 😩

  • @crBudgetWatches

    @crBudgetWatches

    9 ай бұрын

    @@LePetitChatNoir79 I am on my second month. One year ago I didn't have a cat. My wife found a cotton ball in the middle of the road near the airport and now he is 10 months old. 2 months ago we rescued a ginger cat that was living inside the neighborhood drainage. She is so sweet and shy and bakut 6 months old. She has been in a small room these 2 months and Coco our male cat bullies her. She is cornered so we close the door. We want so bad for them to get along but it's frustrating. Reading it takes month gives me hope that success can be possible.

  • @niccilefevre
    @niccilefevre8 жыл бұрын

    all I could think about this entire vid was how hard that lady pets! like jeeze calm down, no need to skin them lol

  • @crispycrunch9653

    @crispycrunch9653

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Nicole Bergrath petting isn't sopposed to be soft fluffy feathers falling on them! You want to pet them a bit scruffy like, by gently petting them, they can't feel a thing!

  • @SoilentGr33n

    @SoilentGr33n

    7 жыл бұрын

    My cats demands literal massages. He gets annoyed when you're just skimming over and the hair on his back twitches so he just contorts itself in ways to make the petting harder and when you start digging in proper he just melts into endless purring.

  • @spartanwar1185

    @spartanwar1185

    7 жыл бұрын

    XD ikr like jesus christ you don't want to drown them in hand petting lmao

  • @ArcticChonk

    @ArcticChonk

    7 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, no need to pet them constantly either...but I know it's hard to resist :)

  • @psycmajor

    @psycmajor

    6 жыл бұрын

    That's how my dad pets my cat 😒😒😒 i try to tell him he's being too rough but it's too late, my cat runs away from him now.

  • @endryudzhenn4398
    @endryudzhenn43983 жыл бұрын

    Watching this right now at 3 am because I'm going to get my new adopted kitten and introduce him to my resident cats. Hope they will love each other.

  • @adriancarter825

    @adriancarter825

    2 жыл бұрын

    Tell me how did it all go , we have had our British short hair for eight years he has always been a bit nervous and needy , we are on day two with an eight week old kitten ,they have had nose to nose but if the kitten starts darting about he gets annoyed he has not attacked the kitten just hisses and deep growls and watches the kitten through the glass door like a hawk , hope it gets better .

  • @cherieleeishere

    @cherieleeishere

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@adriancarter825 how are they now?

  • @adriancarter825

    @adriancarter825

    Жыл бұрын

    @@cherieleeishere absolutely fine , the younger one gets a bit over the top at times but the older one gives him a warning swipe and then they are ok 😊

  • @nakedmolerat43
    @nakedmolerat439 жыл бұрын

    both cats would be dead by the time this process is over

  • @Ed-lz4jv

    @Ed-lz4jv

    8 жыл бұрын

    +nakedmolerat43 LOL yeah!

  • @karenluce184

    @karenluce184

    7 жыл бұрын

    LOL, LOl too funny

  • @redblade43

    @redblade43

    6 жыл бұрын

    That is the idea - both cats will be too dead to fight each other.

  • @fabulousomelette5168

    @fabulousomelette5168

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah it's a long process!

  • @crystalb6428

    @crystalb6428

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @HumphreyBriggs
    @HumphreyBriggs9 жыл бұрын

    I don't even own a cat let alone two.What am I doing with my life?

  • @jamespurvis1481

    @jamespurvis1481

    7 жыл бұрын

    Get one immediately!!! I use to not be a cat fan until I got one and now I've just got my second which is a 12 week old Bengal. They are great animals if raised not to claw up furniture and not attack/scratch people

  • @rondacus

    @rondacus

    6 жыл бұрын

    HumphreyBriggs 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @nlcrme

    @nlcrme

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@jamespurvis1481 Bengals are sensational cats!!! My best friend has two and they are amazing. Great 1st cat for a guy to own for sure.

  • @yourdaddyonceler1239

    @yourdaddyonceler1239

    5 жыл бұрын

    Neither do I.... I grew up around dogs.... And bears apparently.

  • @cIeetz

    @cIeetz

    3 жыл бұрын

    get help

  • @jojoskitchen2856
    @jojoskitchen28565 жыл бұрын

    Gee I think I am going to have to add another house on my house just for a intro

  • @ImSPOTon
    @ImSPOTon Жыл бұрын

    This was THE best video out there on introductions .......even better than Jackson Galaxy's videos on this subject. And if you don't rush it, it WILL work ! I feel sure .....I'm halfway there ( into it) and its working so far but the temptation is to rush ahead. It's very hard being patient but I'm hopeful it will continue to bring a successful union.

  • @kicikicikicikici

    @kicikicikicikici

    8 ай бұрын

    I have exact this problem. I see a progress and want to rush. Then it backfired. I made so many mistakes along the line… but I still have hope they figure it out (it is my day 3… I know I know…)

  • @zeale23

    @zeale23

    6 ай бұрын

    @@kicikicikicikici How did you new cats get along in the end?

  • @jonettheonly
    @jonettheonly7 жыл бұрын

    lol 6:35 he looks like he's an expert gunman, hiding in the shadows with a sniper waiting to take out some bigwig. XD

  • @AmarilloHomey

    @AmarilloHomey

    7 жыл бұрын

    Jonét Harry 😂😂😂

  • @iiAngelic
    @iiAngelic7 жыл бұрын

    Cat behavior reminds me of New Yorkers lol

  • @1940limited
    @1940limited9 жыл бұрын

    When we got our male kitten in October we were concerned about how well our 8 year old female would accept another cat in the house. We kept them separated for about 2 days. To our surprise, while our female didn't particularly like the idea right away, she was never hostile towards the little kitty. She'd hiss at him if he got too close to her, but that was it. Within 3 days we felt comfortable leaving them alone when we went to work. The distance between the two of them before she'd start hissing gradually decreased. Within two weeks they were playing together. We're on our third generation of cats right now and never had any serious problems acclimating new cats to the residents. Perhaps we've been exceptionally lucky, but we've never had any of the problems discussed here.

  • @solutionxero
    @solutionxero9 жыл бұрын

    my situation is the opposite, this young stray i just brought in is overly lovable and doesnt care, but my big boy is not happy he is in the house

  • @JohnnyDollar720

    @JohnnyDollar720

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same. You ever get it figured out?

  • @nurussabah3215

    @nurussabah3215

    3 ай бұрын

    Same same

  • @wendybuckley9651
    @wendybuckley96518 жыл бұрын

    Love the video but do not agree with the carrier introduction. Putting my cat in a carrier would increase her stress and seeing another cat would cause her to panic because she can't get away. Bad idea.

  • @momkatmax

    @momkatmax

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Wendy Buckley Better if there is a screen door with the kitties one either side. We have a patio that has a screen door to the kitchen which is a great way to intro two cats.

  • @DieFlabbergast

    @DieFlabbergast

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Wendy Buckley Then your cat is unusual. Most cats feel safe inside a carrier, because, although cats may not be the Einsteins of the animal world, they're smart enough to figure out that if _they_ can't get out, no other cats can get in, either. Our cats is perfectly calm when in his carrier at the vets: it's when the vet takes him out of the carrier that he feels sure he's about to be murdered!

  • @LumpyJones1

    @LumpyJones1

    8 жыл бұрын

    not all cats like carriers DieFlab... not even most cats.

  • @indi6711

    @indi6711

    7 жыл бұрын

    Wendy Buckley this is probably because the cat associates the carrier with trips to the vet

  • @sarawhite9338

    @sarawhite9338

    7 жыл бұрын

    My cat likes his carrier, I've got it open in the living room now & he goes & lays in it. Little does he know, he's getting his shots updated soon.

  • @michaelminneci648
    @michaelminneci648 Жыл бұрын

    I got lucky, My resident cat is a female named Shady, and she's a hisser and a crabby girl. My new cat Sonny is a male so nice, not a fighter but a lover. I followed most of the steps show on this video, and its been 2 weeks and the introduction was perfect, they are now sleeping in same room, eating next to eachother, playing with eachother. Match from God, im very happy, cause the first couple of days were rough, my resident cat went nuts over the sent and was hissin and went directly under the bed, it was like that for a week, then slowly with continued work, the intro went smooth and everything has been going great. Im surprised how well it went.

  • @althea_starr9861
    @althea_starr98618 жыл бұрын

    All that effort and in the end the cats had to be medicated.

  • @MannyKunV
    @MannyKunV8 жыл бұрын

    when i got my 2nd and 3rd cat i kind of just threw them together. they got along within a very quick time,i think im the 1 out of a million cat owners that got lucky. but i wouldnt recommend that to anyone

  • @brwncharlie8646
    @brwncharlie8646 Жыл бұрын

    I just got a kitten two days ago, with two resident cats. I will never do this again.😂😂😂I love them all, but no. This is too much tension.

  • @Oerger89
    @Oerger894 жыл бұрын

    We tried the complicated steps with site swapping, eating split a wall etc. It just made the tension worse for our first cat. After 4-5 days we took the new one into the living room. They were kind of like brothers after 2 days..

  • @Dee8Bee

    @Dee8Bee

    4 жыл бұрын

    OMG I'm so happy reading your comment. My new cats will arrive tomorrow and I have a studio apartment. They are just 7 months old and my current cat 13 years. I didn't want her to be lonely after losing her sister in January and the 2 new ones were born on the street and needed a home. I hope everything goes well tomorrow...

  • @queen-.-card

    @queen-.-card

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Dee8Bee what happened?

  • @donttalktomeyoureannoying8736

    @donttalktomeyoureannoying8736

    4 жыл бұрын

    Dee8Bee omg you are a saint !

  • @sarawhite9338
    @sarawhite93387 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the info in simple steps. Hopefully all goes well w my cat & the rescue kitty we're getting soon. Neighbors have rescue kitty til we can get her checkup and shots & I've started introducing their smells to each other & gave them the food & litter box/ litter that we'll be using here to help acclimate her & make it easier on her foster parents. Heck, I gave them most of that stuff before we decided we wanted her. :-) She deserves it & a great home.

  • @singingmyblue8000
    @singingmyblue8000 Жыл бұрын

    this is one of the ultimately most educational videos ive ever watched in my life. wow, just wow.

  • @JayBaddAssCutler
    @JayBaddAssCutler6 жыл бұрын

    I'm going thru this now. So frustrating. First night my resident cats snuck into the safe room and traumatized the new cat. He's awesome when he's in the safe room with just us. When we room swap he's usually cautious and curious, but will view me more as a threat than when I'm with him in the room. So far he's still defensive when he hears or sees the resident cats. It's only been 3 days so I'm hoping things improve. I hope the first interaction didn't ruin things.

  • @Sebastian-mb9dj
    @Sebastian-mb9dj9 жыл бұрын

    this video should have been named a "hardest way to introduce cats"

  • @shelbybarcol4539

    @shelbybarcol4539

    8 жыл бұрын

    Your comment made me laugh, in spite of myself! But it's a very informative video, all the same.

  • @muzic4lyfe2005

    @muzic4lyfe2005

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂 4 year old comment but still hilarious

  • @Jemmex

    @Jemmex

    5 жыл бұрын

    do you have a easyer way? i would love too read it ?

  • @seth9577

    @seth9577

    3 жыл бұрын

    What is the easier way?

  • @PaleMist

    @PaleMist

    3 жыл бұрын

    Are you suggesting that you know a quicker but just as effective and safe alternative?

  • @evahometx100
    @evahometx1005 жыл бұрын

    Love this video and the door stopper idea. My 2 yo cat is very slow to meet this new kitten. She lost her older friend few months ago. Although we don't have a spare room, I have the litters big crate in the living room entrance hall.hope the door stopper thing will work.

  • @alexandrac9536
    @alexandrac95365 жыл бұрын

    the problem is when you only have one bedroom apt it is really hard b/c the resident cat doesn't like not having full access and knows that someone is in that other room; and the resident cat will be unlikely to tolerate being locked in a room!

  • @lmaobroc7002
    @lmaobroc70024 жыл бұрын

    This was honestly awesome-Thank you....I have hope! AND the comments are AWESOME LOL

  • @Pl4sm0
    @Pl4sm09 жыл бұрын

    one thing very important for cats ........do not put the litter box near their food .....and most important ......DO NOT PUT little bells on neck's cats .....the sound of the bell will drive crazy the cat .....remember ....cats can hear frequencies we can't !!!! By the way ....thanks for this vid....very helpfull :)

  • @lekre8421

    @lekre8421

    9 жыл бұрын

    Pl4sm0 good points PL4

  • @dextorboy

    @dextorboy

    7 жыл бұрын

    Thats the wisest thing I have read in the comments so far.

  • @aphr0d

    @aphr0d

    7 жыл бұрын

    THCobra yeahhhh, not ideal though. as long as it's kept clean. you wouldn't wanna eat in the bathroom all the time would you? as long as it is always kept clean though

  • @keythedon8555

    @keythedon8555

    4 жыл бұрын

    ),: aww poop. I really like the cute bell

  • @susheila1110

    @susheila1110

    3 жыл бұрын

    My cat loves her bell. She follows me when I remove it to clean it and then sits on the side of the sink while I clean it and purrs when I put it back on her.

  • @joannej_Youtube
    @joannej_Youtube4 жыл бұрын

    EXCELLENT VIDEO! I was looking after a stray outside for 2 weeks (I have a heated outbuilding) and was going to try this method. The cat rescue agency, Humane Society and my Vet all recommended the exact same steps as you, but it is so much more helpful to see it in action. I was also prepared to have the new cat rehomed if my indoor girl didn't accept him. Fortunately, we found his owners 2 days before the introduction. ❤⚠️⚠️ Tip to all cat owners: Get your kitty MICROCHIPPED! The first thing I did when the stray started hanging around outside was to take him to my vet to be scanned for a microchip (it's free). He didn't have one and it took 2 weeks of work between myself and 2 agencies to find his owners.

  • @wendyshell8679
    @wendyshell86794 жыл бұрын

    This is crazy! If I knew I’d have the trouble I’m having, I would never have gotten a new kitten.

  • @kristinefrew3069

    @kristinefrew3069

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is me right now :/

  • @smellycat264

    @smellycat264

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes me right now too

  • @cazmorgan2330

    @cazmorgan2330

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeh I’m feeling this right now. How’s it going now?

  • @cherieleeishere

    @cherieleeishere

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@cazmorgan2330 how are you all after day 14? Any better?

  • @cazmorgan2330

    @cazmorgan2330

    Жыл бұрын

    @@cherieleeishere not much better I’m afraid. Resident cat is tolerant of new kitten’s existence but hisses and swats at him if he tries to come anywhere near her but we can’t keep him shut in a room all the time and he’s too energetic to let us sleep so we’re shattered. We’re still just trying to be patient and hopeful though 🤞

  • @cIeetz
    @cIeetz3 жыл бұрын

    instructions unclear. I am now a kitty

  • @MuhammadSafdar-qe7rq
    @MuhammadSafdar-qe7rq Жыл бұрын

    Cats very wonderful and very nice and so happy

  • @letsgobrandon4835
    @letsgobrandon48353 жыл бұрын

    All very helpful. Thank you!

  • @joannenilsson4499
    @joannenilsson449910 жыл бұрын

    Thankyou you hit some great points here. I soon have to introduce my 2 cats to a New home where their is a resident cat & Im mostly worried about training the people who live their to abide by these rules lol.

  • @domari9459
    @domari94598 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for uploading this great educational video.

  • @WiseAilbhean
    @WiseAilbhean2 жыл бұрын

    ooo that was a strong “waRsh” someone is from the heartland

  • @estradajustdoit8453
    @estradajustdoit84536 жыл бұрын

    Awesomeness said 😊 thank you so much

  • @randomfood8188
    @randomfood81888 ай бұрын

    Day 3: our 5 year old male cat absolutely hates the new 10 week old female kitten. I think we might have rushed the introduction and cause a bad first impression. We'll go over these steps and hope for the best. If not, we'll have to take her back to the shelter. Please wish us luck. Day 5: We keep the kitten in a separate room and don't let her roam around the house. The big cat sometimes comes over to her door and by using a door stop, we let him see her and watch her. At first he hissed and growled a lot but now he just sits down and watches her without making aggressive noises. He stays for 10 minutes and gets bored and leaves. He is more comfortable with using his litter box today. At first he would either not use it at all or use it every ten minutes (which i am guessing is because of stress). No signs of stress is shown at this point. But we still have a long way to go.

  • @verbenanails

    @verbenanails

    7 ай бұрын

    Any updates?

  • @karenluce184
    @karenluce1847 жыл бұрын

    I too am growing more and more as to these people that believe in long, complicated intro's they have way too much time on their hands and just thinking about it too much. All cats are unique (why I love them so much). Ive seen some of these complicated videos where the resident cat is fairly easy going..dont think it necessary to have separated so long. Ive had one cat I think I did it too rushed but he NEVER liked any cats ..he "tolerated" them. To this day I discipline him when he gets too aggressive and over the years he has softened quite a bit. I just give him and my other cat LOADS of attn and love regardless.

  • @mrcockney-nutjob3832
    @mrcockney-nutjob38324 жыл бұрын

    Great video, thanks for the tips.

  • @JR-gh8lp
    @JR-gh8lp4 жыл бұрын

    AMAZING!!!!!! THIS IS A GREAT EXPLANATION OF CAT INTRODUCTION - SUPER!!

  • @wakaneut
    @wakaneut5 жыл бұрын

    Nice video! Coul you also do “Introducing children to each other”?

  • @woaitsrubygrace
    @woaitsrubygrace8 жыл бұрын

    I was very careless. I have a wonderful cat, who showed up as a stray a couple of years ago. He is very sweet. Another stray showed up and of course, we stuck them together. We are very lucky as they are the best of friends. If I ever get another stray, I'll know what to do next time. Ahah.

  • @marstu3138
    @marstu313811 жыл бұрын

    The long haired cat is beautiful

  • @minifridge284
    @minifridge2844 жыл бұрын

    Them: Day 2, everythings fine, everyone loves each other My cat situation: Day 2, cat lies under my bed and hasn't moved for 20 hours Update (7 months later): The older cat has died due to a metal stick through her chest but the (then) new cat is great and has grown soo much and I love her a little bit too much for a cat this is not a healthy relationship AND we've got a new second cat from the shelter and both are having fun together and it's a joy to watch them discover the garden because they've never been outside before and it's wonderful, both are incredibly sweet I couldn't wish for any better cats Thx for 20 likes btw

  • @Nothingnothing014

    @Nothingnothing014

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @cynthiadianecarey9902

    @cynthiadianecarey9902

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry your kitty died. I hope the horrible incident was not related to the new cat. Glad these 2 are getting along.

  • @gracegildee

    @gracegildee

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sfff

  • @kguy152000
    @kguy1520007 жыл бұрын

    I know this wasn't the videos intention, but I am sad. I miss my cats... Very informative video.

  • @colasmulot
    @colasmulot7 жыл бұрын

    Dammit, those things look so simple to us, and yet it takes them so much time to get along while humans can become friends within minutes !

  • @camaroman101

    @camaroman101

    7 жыл бұрын

    colasmulot not all cats need this type of gradual introduction, but it's better to be safe than sorry

  • @lanarober8952

    @lanarober8952

    7 жыл бұрын

    colasmulot Cats are extremely territorial, and are picky about recognizing others as family.

  • @arieltuchband8144

    @arieltuchband8144

    5 жыл бұрын

    Are we? the last time I checked everyone was fighting. The entire palent got crazy...

  • @elianon247
    @elianon2478 жыл бұрын

    You lost me at "warsh-cloths"

  • @mikoda92

    @mikoda92

    4 жыл бұрын

    lol

  • @bluejeanbaby871

    @bluejeanbaby871

    4 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @sapphire76

    @sapphire76

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂

  • @yeetyeet2806

    @yeetyeet2806

    3 жыл бұрын

    Time stamp ?? 🤣🤣🤣😭

  • @shanellecarlson9499

    @shanellecarlson9499

    3 жыл бұрын

    Dead

  • @leahmay1506
    @leahmay15063 жыл бұрын

    I had a feeling I should have done step one, I hope it’s not too late and they can still become acquainted

  • @micailachristopher7649

    @micailachristopher7649

    3 жыл бұрын

    Are they better now ?

  • @Layzo58
    @Layzo5810 жыл бұрын

    I am just about to get a kitten. I have one resident cat that is turning 1. This is going to help very much !

  • @sammylenjou4235
    @sammylenjou42354 жыл бұрын

    This is the most helpful video I found ! I have two boys here and the oldest one still feels threatened and runs away every time he sees the other one...it's been 9 years now 😭 Me and my dad we live in one house but it's separated in two parts. I live in one part with my boy Ramses, my dad lives in the other part with my boy Bruce. Bruce is always running, and frightened if he sees Ramses. I will try the re-introducing but it's already a different situation to start from. I hope this works somehow.

  • @Natmcad0589

    @Natmcad0589

    2 жыл бұрын

    Did it work?

  • @AZ-kc9bk

    @AZ-kc9bk

    Жыл бұрын

    Any update? Would love to hear the outcome.

  • @cherieleeishere

    @cherieleeishere

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes would like to know the update

  • @RealNaisuCinema

    @RealNaisuCinema

    11 ай бұрын

    Come back Sammy we gotta know 😭

  • @CuteWatcher
    @CuteWatcher10 жыл бұрын

    I just allowed my new cats to play together and mingle from the first day itself. Even though it started with hisses and growls , they became friends and started playing together soon. I have a detailed video of that in my channel showing them from day 1 to 7 and after 4 months.

  • @staceyparkes8796

    @staceyparkes8796

    7 жыл бұрын

    George BC one of my cats are growling at kitty... really hope they get one ....xx

  • @Fluffy_Love

    @Fluffy_Love

    6 жыл бұрын

    That isn't the norm with adult cats

  • @Th3Mafia
    @Th3Mafia5 жыл бұрын

    i agree with your methods, and its painful to watch so many videos of people doing it wrong ,and not even doing any corrective discipline when they get aggressive

  • @AZ-kc9bk

    @AZ-kc9bk

    Жыл бұрын

    What kind of corrective discipline? TIA.

  • @1nval1d46
    @1nval1d462 жыл бұрын

    i just put mine together in a room (with me supervising) and now they love each other 🤷‍♀️

  • @BlueWilo
    @BlueWilo8 жыл бұрын

    Ain't Nobody Got Time For Dat...

  • @Marchant2

    @Marchant2

    8 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! Let 'em work out their differences. It's less time consuming.

  • @annyborg9158

    @annyborg9158

    8 жыл бұрын

    They don't work like that. They aren't people or dogs. If they think the other is a danger to have food, water and a toilet, they will fight. It's your responsibility to make them understand there is no problem, which they do if you give them the time they need. Cats are highly territorial and not pack animals, so it doesn't make sense to them to share, you have to make them understand there is no issue in sharing.

  • @annyborg9158

    @annyborg9158

    7 жыл бұрын

    You can still have more than one cat, some cats love company. But you can't just let them work out their differences.

  • @Lfg46

    @Lfg46

    7 жыл бұрын

    +Pete Fork exactly👍👍

  • @MaritsView

    @MaritsView

    7 жыл бұрын

    Wael B If you care about them you make time.

  • @FSD23384
    @FSD2338411 ай бұрын

    I did this exercise 15 years ago with my one year old male. I adopted a 7 month old female. They were separated about a week before they were introduced together in the home. It worked pretty well as there was very little aggression. Unfortunately my male should have been in a one cat household. He never fully accepted my female. They tolerated one another. My male just died and I am considering bringing a new cat into the household. My Vet has given me some good advice. He suggested I might want to foster a cat to be sure they get along before fully adopting.

  • @MHarvey-tp5km

    @MHarvey-tp5km

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm sorry to hear about your loss and am thankful there are caring people out there like you!

  • @csoniah4432
    @csoniah44323 жыл бұрын

    Currently trying to make my 4 cats to get along. I was living in the city with my two females cats and brought them to my parents house since I will be here for two months, they have 2 male cats and this is the second time they see each other. While two of them are chill and friendly the other two hiss whenever they see each other, the male cats keeps trying to mate but both my female cats are neutered lol...

  • @757gamerguy2
    @757gamerguy29 ай бұрын

    What if the resident cat refuses to approach the cats door regardless of anything you do

  • @hihello1384
    @hihello13845 жыл бұрын

    The crate technique is terrifying for cats. The cat in the crate feels trapped and will associate each other with fear.

  • @omarijoseph3189
    @omarijoseph31897 жыл бұрын

    so how long as in days should pre-introduction and visual introduction take..days?...weeks?

  • @tolerbearALTII
    @tolerbearALTII6 жыл бұрын

    What if my cats have lived together for 2 or 3 years and still don't get along? I've had Cassidy basically since she was weaned, Scout I got from a friend. They're both territorial now. In fact one lives under the bed and the new cat challenges the other one to come out. The only time my original cat (Cassidy) comes out from under the bed is when I'm sitting close to her feeding and watering bowls and she feels Scout (the new cat) isn't a reasonable threat. Scout sees this as her home (territory) now as well. I hate this situation. I know Cassidy does. Do I give one or the other cat away? Or is it not too late to fix the situation? They do fight, allot of times under my bed. Cassidy has resorted to use the bathroom under my bed as well, but Scout uses the litter box no matter how dirty it is. This is another thing I'd love to fix. Cassidy using the litter box just like Scout. Thanks for any advice you can offer! I'm quite familiar with the "STARE DOWN" now. Lol.

  • @NatasjavanDijknah
    @NatasjavanDijknah9 жыл бұрын

    At my house, 'we' are going through the pocess of having two sets of cats getting to know and ajusted to each other. Fortunately I have an upstairs room for one set and the other is in the living room. This way they can decide for themselves to check each other out :) But this video was helpful, though.

  • @lindawalsh1533
    @lindawalsh15339 жыл бұрын

    Very helpful. We just got a female kitten and my male cat doesn't like her. Shes only here 2 days so really hope he comes around as she is so friendly!

  • @lindawalsh1533

    @lindawalsh1533

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Stacy Hacker yes Stacey they are fine now snd get along. just took a while!

  • @jannisares
    @jannisares8 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful Maine coin cat.

  • @alicecalin8290
    @alicecalin82907 ай бұрын

    I have decided to adopt the stray cat that came to our yard the whole summer and I fed outside. He slept in my yard almost every night and cried at windows and doors to be allowed inside. My cats fought him through the windows and mosquito nets. Rn the new cat is quarantined at my friend's house after we tested him for viral diseases but when I bring him home i doubt any of this will work. They already seen each other, smelled each other, and fought through windows. So what should I do when I bring the new cat home? I was really thinking to let them solve their differences and maybe eventually end up tolerating each other..?

  • @hhhbkid
    @hhhbkid Жыл бұрын

    I'm having to go through this with my bonded pair of litter-mates after the Tom got out for the night. For whatever reason, when he came home in the morning his sister wouldn't have anything to do with him. 😔

  • @cherieleeishere

    @cherieleeishere

    Жыл бұрын

    How are they now?

  • @hhhbkid

    @hhhbkid

    Жыл бұрын

    @@cherieleeishere Thick as thieves, just like they always were before.

  • @karlberlin5422
    @karlberlin54224 жыл бұрын

    Habe noch nie ein solches Video gesehen. Mich wundert, dass die Katzen sich nicht gegenseitig verletzt haben.

  • @momkatmax
    @momkatmax8 жыл бұрын

    Even though we did the intro here with our older resident alpha cat and the new young one there were still issues. The young dude I guess STILL didn't get it so to speak. The older one, Fluff was patient enough but finally he explained the rules-that FLUFF rules and there was a fight. Kind of like a big rolling ball of cats. They broke apart and Fluff STILL didn't get the look he wanted so round 2. After the dust settled and I separated them for a while all was fine! They even began to snuggle together. Cats don't always follow the videos!

  • @elizabetekalnina-libere7238

    @elizabetekalnina-libere7238

    8 жыл бұрын

    thank you!

  • @karenluce184

    @karenluce184

    7 жыл бұрын

    LOL love your description. "Fluff still didnt get the look he wanted so round 2". Priceless

  • @marlenawegrzanowska1873
    @marlenawegrzanowska18733 жыл бұрын

    all that effort and she end up finding the cat a new home xD

  • @kattis3606
    @kattis36063 ай бұрын

    Not everyone has a spare room for the new cat. I live in a small apartment with only one bedroom.

  • @MattinhoGG
    @MattinhoGG6 жыл бұрын

    Way more complicated than it needs to be

  • @kierrawilliams5252
    @kierrawilliams525210 жыл бұрын

    This is alot of help. I HOPE AND WISH THIS WORKS! XD

  • @prettybird2588
    @prettybird25884 жыл бұрын

    Best video

  • @Galatasaray71
    @Galatasaray716 ай бұрын

    Good Video. We get a 12 weeks old kitten about a week ago. We have a 1 year old cat at home. We made the mistake of introducing them right away unfortunately. What should i do ? Still do all the steps? Would appreciate an answer

  • @shellyortiz1977
    @shellyortiz19773 жыл бұрын

    My gosh i almost got another cat i wanted to give all my love to another kitty i have my cat for 3 weeks only i think i was rushing a bit im going to hold on ..i just want to give every pet a loving home full of care and love....

  • @easystreet1888
    @easystreet18885 жыл бұрын

    Love it +1

  • @rorystfu
    @rorystfu4 жыл бұрын

    "Not all cats can learn to live together peaceably." Don't they know it's 2019?

  • @Lemon020202
    @Lemon02020210 жыл бұрын

    OMG the cat looks like my mom!

  • @kimberlyollison9883
    @kimberlyollison98833 жыл бұрын

    So what if I made the mistake of letting them make eye contact and my first cat freaked? Can I start over?

  • @tmac8892
    @tmac88926 жыл бұрын

    This is like Alabama/Auburn.

  • @rikka5038
    @rikka50389 жыл бұрын

    The way she pets the cat annoys me in some unexplainable way lol

  • @mobayhottitude

    @mobayhottitude

    9 жыл бұрын

    She does...she pets them like she is trying to pull their skin off

  • @Deevon

    @Deevon

    9 жыл бұрын

    Omfg I just said this is my head xD

  • @huehuehuehuehuehuehuehuehuehue

    @huehuehuehuehuehuehuehuehuehue

    8 жыл бұрын

    Rikka Chan That's because cats build up this inside "energy" when you pet them. You can see that in their tails.

  • @rikka5038

    @rikka5038

    8 жыл бұрын

    Herp Derp Yes, definitely. Glad to know someone else who understands a cat's body language as well.

  • @huehuehuehuehuehuehuehuehuehue

    @huehuehuehuehuehuehuehuehuehue

    8 жыл бұрын

    Rikka Chan I thought you learn this stuff before you even get your cat :o Some people are really irresponsible.

  • @brendagomez8656
    @brendagomez86564 жыл бұрын

    What can I do if I already made rushed introductions and my new cat tries to attack my older cat?

  • @gericuster
    @gericuster4 жыл бұрын

    We just adopted a rescue,11 year old kitty and brought her home. We have a 20 year old kitty since a kitten. Both Calicos, spayed and declawed. We didn’t go to all the hassle of keeping newcomer separate because our 20 year old isn’t very active, can’t see or hear well, but smell is acute. It has been three weeks now. In the beginning 20 year old knew the other was here but no reaction. Newcomer hisses when around old timer...no attacks, no biting. New kitty ran away. 20 year old knows other kitty here, retreats to upstairs bedroom ( water, food and litter box up there). We really want them to eventually get along..any other suggestions you could offer?

  • @olak7215
    @olak721511 ай бұрын

    Last time I got new cat , I went to the vet and asked them to do this for me , I kept the 2 cats with them for a week ( I was travelling out of country) , when I came back , they are friends and love each other , I don't know what they did in the vet , but it worked , yes we paid for that but it is easier than doing all of this

  • @Sam-fg9lf

    @Sam-fg9lf

    5 ай бұрын

    Your vet kept the cats overnight for no reason?

  • @ElWeyChingon
    @ElWeyChingon5 жыл бұрын

    My sister is getting a new apartment and she invited me to live with her and we both have cats. So both cats have a new home. Do I do the same things like the video?

  • @FoodforThought12345678dsds
    @FoodforThought12345678dsds6 жыл бұрын

    My cat did a huge diarrhoea shits in the new cats bowl, it filled the whole bowl

  • @micailachristopher7649
    @micailachristopher76493 жыл бұрын

    So do you think it a still work if there is a Lil gap under my door and the cats have semi seen each other. I have tried to hide it but the new cat keep pulling everything I put right there away so you'll see a paw or they have both hunched down and tries to get visual. I have heard the hissing and growling from my resident and twice there has been an attack attempt through the Lil gap. Is it worth it? We got the new cat Dec. 10th

  • @shannonsmith924
    @shannonsmith9244 жыл бұрын

    I have a problem because I have a dog too.. so I can’t swap the rooms.. and the resident cat is an indoor outdoor cat so I can’t block her in one room because she’d have no place to relieve herself. Doesn’t use litter boxes.. the dog occupies downstairs with my resident cat. But upstairs has limited rooms and only one closed door.. May try the towel thing though

  • @txleal6074
    @txleal60747 жыл бұрын

    I need help! I live in a small room. Actually I rent a room in a friend's house... The owners of this place doesn't like the presence of my cat, so as a I respect the rules, I don't allow my cat to wall the house without me. I've rescued a kitten yesterday and I was trying to make the introduction, but it's not working at all.. It looks like my older cat hates the new kitten. I've just placed the kitten in a transport box, but the bad environment stills reining. The worst part of letting the small one closed in the box is that she yells very hight... She stills meowing loud and people have been pissed off because of her. =( Do I have to give the kitten away? Please help me. Thanks.

  • @cacamurtagh9836

    @cacamurtagh9836

    7 жыл бұрын

    Yes you have no room for yourself never mind two cats... You rent one room in a mates house who don't even like your cat and you bring home another one... I know you wanted to save the cats but you do not have room a cat does not neither cat deserves to be in one small room all the time with another cat they don't like...

  • @camaroman101

    @camaroman101

    7 жыл бұрын

    Caca Murtagh exactly right

  • @cpvillacis
    @cpvillacis3 жыл бұрын

    I have a one year old cat and I just got a 5week old kitten. The adult cat is curious.. I currently keep them in separate rooms but switch the rooms so they can get used to the cat aroma scent. Hope they can get used to it & get along. I won't give away any of my cats

  • @theblackschwab3561
    @theblackschwab35614 жыл бұрын

    Wow! Pre-Corona "social distancing" at 5:46.

  • @allisoncallahan2633

    @allisoncallahan2633

    3 жыл бұрын

    the way i twitched

  • @gmshadowtraders
    @gmshadowtraders7 жыл бұрын

    Hmm...Both cats look pissed off at the whole thing. Maybe you should do a follow-up video showing just how you managed to fuck this up so badly.

  • @Diraphe
    @Diraphe7 жыл бұрын

    This would have been impossible for me. My two cats were from the same litter so they knew each other more than they knew me when I adopted them. They still don't get along!

  • @cacamurtagh9836

    @cacamurtagh9836

    7 жыл бұрын

    Wow never heard of cats from same litter not getting along, i mean it is all they knew since born..

  • @narcbegone1507

    @narcbegone1507

    4 жыл бұрын

    They must have had an abusive mother pitting them against each other instead of showering both with love lol

  • @camaroman101
    @camaroman1017 жыл бұрын

    i don't even own a single cat, let alone two.

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