I find myself talking about "depressing" subjects and people seem to think I'm extremely negative. Am I not allowed to discuss what I spend a lot of my time thinking about? I think about everything. Not having an awareness of the dark can dim the light.

@theblackpearlinspiredstories

3 жыл бұрын

nice to see lot of INFJ's here it feels home

@joshy2joshy

3 жыл бұрын

@@theblackpearlinspiredstories A place where we can all just accept each other and love one another! :D

@theblackpearlinspiredstories

3 жыл бұрын

@@joshy2joshy that true bro/ no wonder we get into weird situations in life, hay have u discovered silver touch...we have that one also

@joshy2joshy

3 жыл бұрын

@@theblackpearlinspiredstories Silver touch? what is that lol

@theblackpearlinspiredstories

3 жыл бұрын

@@joshy2joshy u can know many pieces of information by just touching objects INFJ's are natural psychics

So true, I’d rather have few expensive high quality things than tons of cheap ones

@lifeciatemedia3361

3 жыл бұрын

Totally!

@Nobodyreallyatall

3 жыл бұрын

I've always been baffled going through a department store and I don't understand why people have no problem buying mediocre to crappy things, and confusion that most people find validation in conforming to mediocrity. From very little, I never understood why people tend to de-value most things, while exaggerating the value of their own personal choices.

@douggodsoe

3 жыл бұрын

So would most people. It doesn’t make you special.

@FinancialAnalyst_Private

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@candacen7779

3 жыл бұрын

@@douggodsoe I'm not sure if that's true. It seems plenty of people are content with either owning a lot of cheap items or a lot of expensive items. But it's more rare to meet people who prefer to own a few cheap or a few expensive items. It's not about being special. It's simply describing what is.

It’s the intuition that is a blessing and a burden ...sometimes I wish I could just be oblivious. ..

@Coneman3

3 жыл бұрын

I agree, it’s definitely a blessing and a curse, but overall I am glad to be an INFJ. INTP might have been good too. One of the hardest INFJ things for me is having this third eye 👁 which can always sense when there is more to something than many realise. We see others blind mistakes and are glad we don’t go there, which partly explains why many of us are probably single.

@murrismiller2312

2 жыл бұрын

Go to an Eastern Orthodox church ....u will be drawn out of this trait long enough to recharge

I really want to get over #4 "Absorbing people's emotions." For me, it distracts me a lot from what I should be doing or thinking about, as I get dragged into others messes.

@kathyrias4863

2 жыл бұрын

Same! Or at least be able to consciously turn it on and off. Sometimes, because I didn't like the feeling of being forced to feel something else, I would rather just stay in my room where I'm away from other people but even then my family is also here. It's really exhausting.

I've felt different my entire existence. This made sense!

@james12erby43

3 жыл бұрын

Me to

@murrismiller2312

2 жыл бұрын

infj's are born to lead spiritually.... go all out , and find Gods will / purpose for your existence

Cant believe it turns out this is why Im weird. Im not mentally messed up, I'm unique and special.

@lifeciatemedia3361

3 жыл бұрын

Ahh you are definitely special. People are of different traits and characteristics.

@ahsankhan6057

Жыл бұрын

Always felt same 😢

I'd Love To Meet other INFJs in this life...

@lifeciatemedia3361

3 жыл бұрын

INFJs are so rare, it will be fun to meet the same!

@ayeshaali8578

3 жыл бұрын

I am an infj are you?

@MohsinAli-jt5rk

3 жыл бұрын

@@ayeshaali8578 yes I am. Do you have any other socials?

@hemamalini541

3 жыл бұрын

Am an infj too and I really want to talk to another infj's .

@MohsinAli-jt5rk

3 жыл бұрын

@@hemamalini541 what’s your snap or Instagram?

the amount of times I've stepped out my comfort zone and opened up to someone only to have them not understand/ dislike me is stupid

People feel comfortable telling me their secrets and situations because I won’t judge them. But I also ask questions that dig deeper since I’m analytical and want to understand the whole picture. #weirdandwonderful

Dont forget our Inner monologues..lol.. and some of Us, can be Daydreamers...we derive many of our Great creative endeavors through our dreams and daydreaming...imaginations run high in many of us Book Lovers..🔥💙

Am I the only one who always feels a certain “vibe” to every person or room? Or am I just overreacting =~=

@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes

2 жыл бұрын

You are not the only one. Surely due to our instinct, intuition, analyse, observing, feeling. I don't know how, but I can feel is someone is a good person or not, or if I can have a little connection with or not.

I learned to not be afraid of failures. I did my best and it just didn't work out. Can't win them all. -:)

When you write something down, there is a better chance to erase it or change it. But when you speak your words for all to hear, you're stuck at that moment. No possibilities for corrections or avoidance when you speak... unless your crowd is blind, mute, or deaf. And you're lucky if they are not paying you any attention. It's already hard enough finding the right words to use when expressing yourself or your opinions, and others may misinterpret your speech for something else. Like being offended by your honesty because they think you are just being cruel or offensive. I think people prefer lies rather then honesty... how sad.

@BindingTheYoke

3 жыл бұрын

Isn’t it ironic that even in the words you took the time to write in a well thought out and coherent manner, that there will always be someone somewhere that will misunderstand what you mean in what you say 😏🙃😅🤷🏼‍♀️

@robertholloway6612

3 жыл бұрын

@@BindingTheYoke yeah, its like you have to speak their language because they define words differently. Everyone should invest in a dictionary.

I can't believe that some people in the MBTI community actually think that this is fake. They just don't won't to know the truth about a small group of people they don't understand. Their lost ..

My goodness, my picture should be next to this in the dictionary 🤦🏻‍♀️

You have described me perfectly.

@lifeciatemedia3361

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you like it!

People tend to lean towards an INFJ as being mentally challenged, just to find out they're just eccentric with a genius mentality blending in with all personalities through observing others perceptions in worldly circumstances in gen. But not without obtaining mystery.

@lifeciatemedia3361

3 жыл бұрын

Indeed! That's really INFJ!

@sharicrocker7162

3 жыл бұрын

@@lifeciatemedia3361 thankyou.😁

@lifeciatemedia3361

3 жыл бұрын

Perfect! Glad to connect!

@bunnykehoe3

3 жыл бұрын

I had to go to 'TAG' classes and rode the short bus because I would stare at other kids on the bus making them uncomfortable...

@lifeciatemedia3361

3 жыл бұрын

Hahaha! Nice

You wouldn't believe what I've been through my 67 years of life, as the most misunderstood person, especially with women. What I hate is how I care and try to help mentally ill people and people in general who do not appreciate or deserve. Today I avoid all people as best I can

@james12erby43

3 жыл бұрын

Meeeeeeeeeeee tooooooooooo 👊

@lifeciatemedia3361

3 жыл бұрын

I would think continue to be who you are and enjoy life. Don't short change yourself.

@girl6girl6

3 жыл бұрын

Same!!

@cjuuljohnston

2 жыл бұрын

Now that you're mature (as I am) as an INFJ you should understand/ realize we can't fix stupid, we're NOT God, we can't help or cure the mentally ill, we can pray for them.. As you can see from living decade, after decade,after decade, people have to help themselves.. Our default is empathetic, compassionate, caring and loving but all that does is? invite the Narcissistic people,the users, the takers, the hateful people.. That's NOT cynical, it's just fact.. I know I had a Narcissistic person tell me, you shouldn't be so nice, people really think nice people are stupid..

I'm an INFJ and I endorse these documents and add that this type of personality really has a lot of difficulty living with others. Really hard!

I take the tests and always come up as an INFJ. I'm older now so I celebrate my uniqueness! This I how God created me and I'm okay with it. 💚

@spmoran4703

Жыл бұрын

I do that too.

4:23 it got cut off btw. I still really enjoyed watching. Thanks for the amazing video ☺️

Perfect examples for this INFJ type! Thanks for sharing your ideas for my MBTI channel. I saw your video thumbnail through my KZread algorithm today, yay! 😊😊😊

I just recently learned about this. So accurate. And pleasing to know I'm not alone, even though I like to be.

This conflict you speak of is why I have bought a beer for others upon meeting them? I let them know that eventually I'm going to piss them off, and thinking back to this beer will give them the comfort of being warned.😂😂😂😎

@lifeciatemedia3361

3 жыл бұрын

Hahaha! That's nice!

So true about surrounding myself with high quality beautiful things. I'd rather wait a long time until I can afford those things or nothing at all

Translating idealisation into action.... Few nice things rather than...

I'm definitely all of the above, except for the minimalistic lifestyle bit. I have a lot of hobbies, so I can never be a minimalist.

@lifeciatemedia3361

3 жыл бұрын

I know INFJs who have wide interests too! INFJs are interesting people!

9 hit hard. I had a job that was high conflict all the time. Nothing but fighting around me and I use to hide in the bathroom or snuck around the building like a ninja. I got so good at being swift that had accidentally scared ppl. I'm like the mysterious behind the scenes chick. When was away from that environment I was good and Was me and the flowers (worked in greenhouse for watering plants.) I loved that part. What I didnt like was being barked at like an animal or how stressed myself and ppl were around me were. It got to a point where I accidentally scared my boss for being honest while losing my cool. He never messed with me after that and if I saw him trying to go for one of the other employees i'd shoot that mom eye look. He would avoid me at times, too. lol. That's good. I don't mind being alone and it's quite refreshing. Less bs in my vibes and the easier I can think or not. Sometimes i'd just go blank and just be. Look at flowers, the colors, shapes, are they furry, pokey, smooth. I'd admire the beauty of nature and watch bees and hummingbirds fly around all day long. The sparrows making a nest at the peak on the facing greenhouse and fly in and out. Then, i'd have coworkers coming to me with issues and how they would rather come to me instead of the boss. Why me? Im a nobody who runs from crap. I don't have many friends and keep to myself. I mean barnes and noble's a hang out and I, lol, and pretend to be Belle and be like " look at all the crap i can read!" I digress. Back to story...I'd go home every day and be a bobble head. Stressed and staring at a wall exhausted. Barely wanted to eat would be so tired. Days off were charge days and never got anything done but sleep. Go back feeling ok and feel dead after my 1st hr there from the crap. Jobs sometimes are like soul sucking demons. I felt like I hit the grip stress stage and felt was just going to go, at one point. Like im a sim..dur..durr. aggitated, snappy, wanted to be alone, depressed, feeling smothered. The ahhhhhhhhh was brewing. I should have never got to that point of ahh cuz when ya blow...ya blow. Ive been told many of times I get scary when angry. I dont do that often but when you push to that point of ok. Its on! Its over! It's scary because I get brutally honest. And years of saved up arsenal you've done is being rawred right back at ya. Not proud and its the darkside of the infj. I apparently wrote a short story....sorry to whom reads this.

@amalibirane1546

3 жыл бұрын

I can relate to your short story though

@girl6girl6

3 жыл бұрын

@jamie neace - I totally feel you on that. I have this roommate who has no sense of boundaries. Goes through my shit, changes the layout of the entire apartment EVERYTIME me and the BF go out of town. Intermingles the unfixed boy and girl cats (2month wait list to spay and neuter bc of covid), now I have 15 cats. Breaks everything she touches, and doesn’t know that most of the cleaners I have in the house are concentrated. To be used 3oz/gallon of water. I love her dearly, but every thing she does undermines my routine and ways of handling the household. I’ll spend an entire day cleaning the house, only to come back to the bathroom and kitchen looking like an utter nightmare...and all of my cleaners empty. It’s so stressful. Also every time I am about to make the BF tell her she needs to go, she’ll do something that appears to be extremely thoughtful and sweet. The problem is I totally know she is manipulating me. I just wish the bf would play “bad cop” a little better, about how she keeps triggering me! Because if I have to say something, it’s not going to end well. I don’t want to have to go there, but I feel it coming. She thinks he is an asshole, so it doesn’t matter if he lectured her. But we have always gotten along really well, our dynamic is different. I don’t like being the bad guy, but at the same time he’s told her a thousand times not do touch my shit, and to stop moving our fucking furniture around. The fact that I even have to coerce my boyfriend to reiterate to her that is not fucking cool, and that I put stuff certain ways for a reason, it goes in on ear and out the other. I hate having to repeat myself, bc as an INFJ, it is my nature to over explain in the beginning, so there is no pretending to not know something will trigger me. I feel like it’s wicked disrespectful that she does it anyway. I feel like it’s a big “fuck you”. Can anyone relate, or am I just a crybaby bitch?

Great work on the video cheers

its nice to see this.....thank you

All of it, I know that im different since I was young. But didn't know what exactly is the name of my personality. My family just always tell me why I been so different from them. It brought me tears sometimes.

@ArianneInsauriga

3 жыл бұрын

Same, now I understand why people tell me something’s “different” in me

@khadijabarbhaiwala585

3 жыл бұрын

same, especially the door slam

I focus my time as an infj t type as Jesus Christ walk with God's Love nobody else can understand the vibrations of Love

@james12erby43

3 жыл бұрын

Truest statement

this is what I tested as many years ago, I fit all the characteristics

Their not weaknesses, just challenges of sort.😉

@lifeciatemedia3361

3 жыл бұрын

Lol yeah you are correct.

Knowing that it's not a problem of being but a wonderful gift has given me a sense of calm.

Right on man !

I am an INFJ myself, and these are trueee.

THANK YOU SO SO VERY MUCH

Thanks so much for sharing remain blessed

@lifeciatemedia3361

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your kind words!

All on point😅

Here, here!

@lifeciatemedia3361

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the comment!

I'm definitely an INFJ!

Basically, not to be clichéd, “I’m not like other girls”. For real.

So very very true in all aspects

I ve all traits...I can relate all of them 😂😂

4:23 ngl i replayed that part so much bc i thought it was funny😭

@jenilmudali11

3 жыл бұрын

Bahaha cut off real quick

Spot on thx 👍

@lifeciatemedia3361

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you find the video informative!

On beauty, most people find beauty in goods that are trendy. I find myself being attracted to the same items but find practicality more beautiful if it's the style or color that i find works with my overall concept. A black scarf that is warm and the right length works. It doesn't matter if it comes from Walmart or Neiman Marcus. The goal is to wear a scarf that is warm and black and matches the pupose i bought it for. Minimalists are also very practical and don't feel the need to buy things just for social status or explain themselves to others to justify why they do things the way they do them..

Stress is a silent killer in America cause of the fact the system was flawed for 25 Centuries

I'm saving this video so I wouldn't have to explain myself to others. I'll just show this to them.

@nedthestaffieegan3452

2 жыл бұрын

I tried to get my OH to watch it to try and explain what I can't, but he's not bothered.

The cartoons drive me nuts after 60 seconds.

A lot of them 😆. Two test taken and i am an INFJ

This is so true ❤️❤️❤️❤️😀😀😀😀

It's a blessing and a curse, but I've gotten very good at nurturing and shielding myself during the negative moments...

@theblackpearlinspiredstories

3 жыл бұрын

nice to see lot of INFJ's here it feels home

Omg are you saying I’m rare? 😍

The amount of times I have to rethink if I really want to watch a movie because I knew I would ended up studying avery thing related to it, I hate that about myself.

In these days you can see that your more alone then ever the world is going crazy

The relationship part is me rn ngl....

"How to find out you're an INFJ," try taking the Myers Briggs text. It's very long, but it's very accurate.

That’s exactly me...

One thing though, I don't procrastinate, and it bugs me when people procrastinate, just get things done or don't do it at all..

@oliverqueen7260

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@sharingheart13

3 жыл бұрын

@@oliverqueen7260 Not really facts. Procrastination is needed to boost creativity and can provide rest we didn't know we needed. This is especially true if you tried to rest when you were "supposed to" but didn't obtain as much rest as was needed. A good amount of procrastination can actually make the later work more efficient. The problem is if you only procrastinate or do it too much. That obviously leads to work not getting done or getting done badly. Only working or working too much can lead to stress and mental strain which can also cause the work to get done badly. It's all about flexibility and taking care of yourself.

@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes

2 жыл бұрын

We just take more time to take decisions, cause we want to do the best thing, the best decision, tend to perfection. We don't really procrastinate, we just overthinking in order to do the best choice. Totally it's avbout taking care of yourself and of your mental health 💚 Thats I write to all.

I took this test and I kinda can id as a INFJ but I more id with being an ENFJ-A a lot more.

No doubt , all the above....fo sho

@lifeciatemedia3361

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

@silentecho4445

3 жыл бұрын

@@lifeciatemedia3361 fo sho, you're welcome 😁

I am INFJ . I hoped to find another INFJ as a partner . I have found him. When I see beauty , I see it in a persons spirit not physical appearances .

I'd like to sue Lifeciate Media for following me around and documenting my personality to 100% detail please 😂

Yes ❤✌

Someone just lied to me today, wasted my time...gave her a chance but screwed it again...well, karma isn't far away...

...if ...indeed they are rare... haven't meet one... BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE

Happy Holidays Merry Christmas Eve bless you all :') plz pray for snow for me and all the kids of the world.

What's everyones music tastes? :) I love any sort of calm, melancholic music.. namely genres such as shoegaze, dream pop, noise pop, folk metal. Bands such as My Bloody Valentine (loud and mystical) Slowdive (calm, melancholic, introspective, soothing, atmospheric) Agalloch (Introspective, bone chilling, atmospheric) The Cure (Magical, loving, soothing) Many more but those are some of my favourites :)

@girl6girl6

3 жыл бұрын

@josh - DMB, Beatles, & Jamiroquai are my favorites. Coldplay, Lincoln Park, or Adel when I need a good cry, or just release some emotional stress, Kanye (the pre douchbag years - late registration, college dropout, and graduation) and Jay-Z, when I feel like rhyming in the car...by myself, because I have something to say, but know one is getting it at the time, so I rap vent...uh, cuz I’m a bad ass, that cares to much.👀 oh and when I’m happy, disco and 70’s rock music.

@joshy2joshy

3 жыл бұрын

@@girl6girl6 Thank you for sharing, :D I've made a crazsy amount of progression since I made this comment, what sort of 70's rock are you speaking of? it sounds like you need some midlife emo music! Try out "American Football - lp1" That's good for a nice melancholic time, sad vibes haha

Hints, why cooking is the art of love break down the simplicity of the mental illness of obisity cause in my opinion it's a classification of certain fasist aspects of oneself. It effects me personally.

Great Video but the piano sound could be lowered, it's so distracting

I thought I was a sigma male then I took the personality test and found out Im INFJ

@shripranavi03

3 жыл бұрын

Can you share me the test link?

@missinglink9973

3 жыл бұрын

@@shripranavi03 free personality test .....on google

@girl6girl6

3 жыл бұрын

Infj’s are usually Sigmas as well

@missinglink9973

3 жыл бұрын

@@girl6girl6 ya I look at the sigma traits and the INFJ traits and Im definitely

“Deep” thinking? That’s highly a inaccurate statement considering my Ti is third on the function list which only operates at the level of a 10year old. Introverted Intuition (Ni) is our strongest function in the stack… it could be misunderstood as deep thinking, but it isn’t.

Holy crap this piano

💯💯💯💯

Hmmm

💯 misunderstood js

If the signs were in exam, I would have perfected it.

Ohh no, iNFJ and Aquarius 😪🤧

@james12erby43

3 жыл бұрын

Damn 😆

@martalogina

3 жыл бұрын

INFJ-T and Pisces here!

*So its not a feeling anymore but my FUCKING PERSONALITY?????!! I DONT WANT IT WTFFF*

If INFJs are so rare, how come they seem to be everywhere in the comments section? 😂🤣😂

@norulazri5987

3 жыл бұрын

Well, 1 to 3 percent of 70billions human population is still thousands of humans

@chrisjenkins9978

3 жыл бұрын

@@norulazri5987 - No, the answer is, because they aren’t. What’s the likelihood of them all being in the same place at the same time?

@nadar.9941

3 жыл бұрын

Well INFJ's are most likely to be interested in psychology and knowing more about themselves.

@lovernothater5659

3 жыл бұрын

This knowledge is used for self help mainly. Not to feed anyone’s ego. Why don’t you just concentrate on that part rather than concentrating on the fact that everyone wants to be INFJ just because they’re rare. 🙄

@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes

2 жыл бұрын

@@lovernothater5659 Whereas INFJ, we don't care to be rare. Even if people want to be INFJ, they can't, we can"t change our personality, we can't change our functions order. Being like that, caused me a lot of bad memories. And until I discovered I was INFJ 6 month ago, I really didn't know who I am, what I want, what to do, and why. People think it is good to be INFJ, yes maybe, but they don't know how it is to have Extroverted sensing (Se) on inferior function, it clearly don't help me during my childhood and adolescence, and again sometimes now. As if my place was not in this world. Before I know I was INFJ, and learning deeply MBTI, my past life was like an unfinished puzzle. They can't know or feel what it is to be ignored and missunderstood by the most of people including family. There is no good or bad personality. All personality have strenghts and weakenesses. All personalities are useful. Videos about INFJ help us a lot, cause during all my life, I didn't know how to describe myself, was always "I don't know". With theses videos, we can finally put words on what we really are. It just save our lifes, and really help us. *Frank James* old video helped me a lot to understand and define myself and all my past life. Take care of yourself and of your mental health. We are more prone to anxiety, and I wonder if maybe I live with anxiety since the beginning.

🤔🥴👈👉😎💯

Ha ha ha , am i that predictable. Wow.

I hate being an infj.

@lifeciatemedia3361

3 жыл бұрын

Personality traits changes over time. You won't be INFJ entire life. You too, can decide to change it. Though it won't happen instantly but people do change.

@easterntech2148

3 жыл бұрын

@@lifeciatemedia3361 Why Being An INFJ is Bad ?

@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes

2 жыл бұрын

@@lifeciatemedia3361 No we can't change our personality, we can't change our functions, we can just work on our functions, work on our inferior function to be better. kzread.info/dash/bejne/X36Gq5KedJyyoco.html We just become better, but we don't change personality.

I'm attracted to souls not Looks although my X was Very attractive. We seek deeper relationships . Don't like small talk. . That means telling words don't cost much so I don't let it build bottled up sold cheap and Surve chilled.. Not amused by things others are. I'm a writer/poet.. Constant elevation always said that .. Wounded healer . IV been I fights for sticking up with people . IV literally given away tens of thousands of dollars.. The test is not comprehensive enough, outdated and the representation of them in line doesn't ad up , lots in the us it seems. . Need a longer test most definitely, a ten minute test is not good enough need proper without background and examples. Not just yes no or multiple answer questions. The videos on infj people are very aware eyes tell mainly and all end there videos in pictures with some eye different expression. Not fooled. No wonder some vids talk as bout Tru infj , because there's people who think it's great out there and want to be seen as special.. 🎉 potatoes are easy to grow. . Real know what I'm talking about I'm sure ... .😑🙄

We are pieces of shit honnestly

@lifeciatemedia3361

3 жыл бұрын

Hard to say so. No one is shit.

I'd rather hear what he's saying than having to attempt to filter out that damned music. I couldn't watch the whole video.

Love yourself, look at yourselves in the mirror and ask yourselves why you hate yourself always ask your self why?? You do these negative things well without jesus as my cornerstone I'd be locked up for life.

I DONT WANT IT ITS A FCKING CURSEEE!!! *Dont say its unique becos its sucks*

I really hate how we’re considered the “rarest” it’s such an annoying title cause it takes away from everything else. Every time I’m gonna talk to people about the mbti I get self conscious because of the special snowflake title. Edit: I know I’m being a lil extreme on this sorry

If they find your video boring, they quit halfway through, regardless of how much they relate. You’re saying words, but all I hear is blah blah blah blah blah blah banana.